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Looking all tweakin out gives off bad vibes.
/r/seduction06/10/23 10:03 PM
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Dude I wanna give props on your original version if you use that broken one some girl's will rise up and try to teach you more Spanish so I would use it occasionally and keep them engaged to you even if you end up learning how to say it properly play along with them and feel em out.
/r/seduction17/02/21 09:39 PM
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Story time...?
/r/seduction17/02/21 09:37 PM
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This is me too you get to a point where you can feel a person out just the way they look at you or the tone of voice etc and you can steer clear of em and save yourself that awkwardness.
/r/seduction26/01/21 06:00 AM
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This is what I follow. 3 invite rule no matter what if she flakes three times I just fade away after that. But if she’s truly down she’ll offer to reschedule dates or even reach out herself and set something up. Each time we go out successfully the 3 invites reset and I go from there.
/r/seduction15/01/21 11:40 PM
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This - "when you realize you don’t like everyone either you stop trying to be liked by everyone." is what really drove it home for me to stop feeling hurt when someone didn't like me. I did the exact same to those girls I didn't find attractive. It was like a switch that gave me some much needed mental relief.
/r/seduction18/12/20 04:47 AM
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I've seen girls post here and there and generally most guys will answer some questions. It is geared more towards men but I think you should give it a shot. Just be detailed on what you're looking to learn about is my recommendation.
/r/seduction03/11/20 04:49 AM
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Move on bro get abundance mentality lots of women out there to banter with and see where it goes. Don't get stuck just to one spread out.
/r/seduction23/09/20 09:08 AM
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Is it bad if I fit option #2?
/r/seduction23/09/20 08:45 AM
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I agree with sandbag you need to focus on some other women. Also a bit of advice try not to game women at work unless you don't mind losing your job if they decide to report you for whatever reason. Look into abundance mentality which is what sandbag was saying look around the corner there's more women out there. Aside from this I would say just banter/flirt lightly with her and don't push too much. She's already backed off a number of times when you made a move. So she just likes casual flirtin…
/r/seduction18/09/20 09:19 AM
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Ouch that burns that she had the audacity to say that. RIP. I've had similar instances especially during high school towards a bit of college where I would be a friend to 3 girls and after a while things fizzled out and our interactions started to become non existent. I found out they had a bf so I figured they were focusing on their bf. Turns out I also didn't make a move and that they gave me plenty of signals that I was apparently oblivious to. During the friendship there was zero communicati…
/r/seduction31/08/20 07:31 AM
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Apologies for the late response man. ​ Well for friends it can be tough but I would say try to hangout in clubs or meet up groups that align with your interests. One it'll be good that you can at least talk about a subject that you're into and two it'll help by mingling and getting you used to socializing. I would recommend you pick up the book: How to make friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie and he gives some fantastic ways to dig into conversation with people. I would also look into …
/r/seduction23/12/19 03:55 AM

Fellow fat dude here coming at 321lbs and dropping. It's just your anxiety/insecurity spiking up. I'm a nerdy dude and used to be a complete shut in always watching anime playing video games etc I still do this a lot mind you but I also have friends / coworkers I go out with occasionally. I've picked up 3 women so far and I've failed many many times before. Confidence is the main thing to get while at the same time better yourself losing weight, getting better job and getting more use to social …
/r/seduction14/12/19 04:12 AM
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You can get to know her if you want through texts / snaps etc but don't over do it too much leave something to talk about when you hang out in person. Your goal should be to hang out with her one on one and then you can devote more effort into conversations. Try to get to know her and make sure to pay attention and listen to what she says. It'll clue you in on setting up dates / or at least know where to take the conversation especially if it's something you both like and can relate with. Also a…
/r/seduction27/10/19 05:45 AM
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Not op but if that's what you want you say that upfront. Women will ask you at some point what you're looking for and that's where you say it. Say it with pride too that way you're making you intentions known and she can either fall in line or move on.
/r/seduction27/10/19 04:15 AM
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