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36	We hear "women are the gatekeepers of sex while men are the gatekeepers of relationships." Is this true anymore?	Discussion	bigedcactushead	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/23 10:52 AM

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13	Because Destroying Me was Her Easiest Option Unmarried men need to consider how women have turned marriage into a fragile institution entirely dependent on where the wife's feelings are at any given time. Feelings take a dip? Time to divorce. The divorce statistics are brutal on men with 46% of first marriages ending in divorce and women initiating divorce 80% of the time: 90% if she's college educated. Guys, if your fiancee is not head-over-heels in love and burning with genuine desire for you, watch out. Your future marriage is held host…	/r/Divorce_Men	22/12/24 11:21 AM
6	Wants divorce but to think on it for 6 months I don't know if I can take 6 months of begging her to stay while getting nothing in return other than apathy. Look up the "pick me dance" and how it engenders great disrespect in women and the collapse of desire. You are doing exactly the wrong thing here.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/09/24 03:56 PM
10	Do most women not love like men or just not capable of loving anyone but themselves? Unmarried men need to consider how women have turned marriage into a fragile institution entirely dependent on where the wife's feelings are at any given time. Feelings take a dip? Time to divorce. The divorce statistics are brutal on men with 46% of first marriages ending in divorce and women initiating divorce 80% of the time: 90% if she's college educated. If your fiancee is not head-over-heels in love and burning with genuine desire for you, watch out. Your future marriage is held hostage to…	/r/Divorce_Men	22/09/24 08:09 PM
3	Married men should never buy a house; always rent from your parents I don't think so.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/09/24 05:18 PM
6	Married men should never buy a house; always rent from your parents Prior to marriage, gift all your separate property (bank accounts, stocks etc.) to your parents. Don't you have to pay significant taxes when you gift property to someone?	/r/Divorce_Men	19/09/24 11:46 AM
18	“The spark is gone” is a poor reason to leave a marriage. Unmarried men need to consider how women have turned marriage into a fragile institution entirely dependent on where the wife's feelings are at any given time. Feelings take a dip? Time to divorce. The divorce statistics are brutal on men with 46% of first marriages ending in divorce and women initiating divorce 80% of the time: 90% if she's college educated. Guys, if your fiancee is not head-over-heels in love and burning with genuine desire for you, watch out. Your future marriage is held host…	/r/Divorce_Men	10/09/24 02:28 PM
2	Due to a sense of duty, some husbands are the guards of their own prison. ...the Bible tells me that my wife and I should reconcile. The Bible and Jesus himself allow divorce of an adulterous spouse. Why do so many Christian men insist that marriages where the spouse abuses them through cheating must be honored and fought for? Cheaters are awful, selfish people and keeping yourself tied to such a person is a disaster for your life. I believe the repeat rate for cheaters is around 80% while serial cheaters are incorrigible. Why play Russian Roulette with 4 rounds in th…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/08/24 04:36 PM
7	Married for less than 5 years She left to find herself/happiness (whatever that means). When women talk like this it's always about catching new dick. Her single girlfriends and social media give them huge FOMO about hookups.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/08/24 03:40 PM
1	After a failed marriage and seeing vows broken out of anger, I struggle to see the benefit of marriage. It seems many women's loyalty is conditional, depending on their options and the state of the relationship. There's a study I read that found women become sexually disinterested in their spouse on average four years after marriage while with men it was ten years.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/07/24 05:40 PM
10	After a failed marriage and seeing vows broken out of anger, I struggle to see the benefit of marriage. It seems many women's loyalty is conditional, depending on their options and the state of the relationship. Women are not loyal to abstractions like wedding vows, and they are not loyal to men. Women are loyal to their feelings and if they love you, they will move heaven and earth to be in your life. But if their feelings take a dip, look out.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/07/24 02:10 PM
1	Lost Trust in Women If you had read my comment more closely, you would have read this: If you want to achieve maximum personal growth from your disastrous marriage, the best thing you can do is to take radical responsibility for your life. Everything I say is about learning something about this disaster of a 10 year marriage. Of course OP is a victim. I was directing OP to take this opportunity to learn from this awful marriage. Through reflecting on what happened, including the missed red flags, OP might be able t…	/r/Divorce_Men	18/06/24 01:50 PM
-6	Lost Trust in Women A ten year marriage where I was emotionally abused, used, and I made all the money and did all the housework. Was resented the whole time with a major attitude. She brought nothing but chaos, needless drama and also put us into bankruptcy. This sounds like a relationship consisting of a parade of red flags. Why did you never heed the warnings? If you want to achieve maximum personal growth from your disastrous marriage, the best thing you can do is to take radical responsibility for your life. Y…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/06/24 02:56 PM
2	Accepting It Told her she could stay for a year to save some money to get a house. Will you both be dating others during this time?	/r/Divorce_Men	06/06/24 08:48 PM
3	overcoming depression without medication Intermittent fasting. If you are doing caloric restriction and strenuous exercise you risk crashing your metabolism since your body thinks you are actually starving. Do you ever lack energy where before you had it? Do you ever feel extra cold? This is your body refusing to burn the calories you're eating because it thinks you are starving to death. You know that TV program The Biggest Loser? The contestants used daily caloric restriction and high volumes of heavy exercise to quickly shed pounds.…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/05/24 02:16 PM
2	Narc infidelity - What to share with friend with a gossipy wife? Great point.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/04/24 09:53 PM
6	Narc infidelity - What to share with friend with a gossipy wife? When you meet them, use this as an opportunity to get the story out in public that you want told, via the gossipy wife. Calibrate what you tell her to counter the lies your wife is telling.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/04/24 09:14 PM
2	Dad Guilt I wish I had a dad like you.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/03/24 01:29 AM
3	Thoughts now that I'm divorced and almost 'done' with her. Radical accountability. I think that's an effective way to learn how to better lead yourself.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/03/24 01:16 AM
6	Going thought a divorce Yes, precisely. The cheating wife downgrades the qualities of her husband in her mind to justify to herself her cheating.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/03/24 03:37 PM
8	Going thought a divorce Did she discuss her diminishing feelings for you over time or were you blindsided? If blindsided, there's a strong possibility she's cheating on you.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/03/24 01:19 PM
6	Will she ever regret or have any remorse for what she did? Did you tell the other betrayed spouse about the affair?	/r/Divorce_Men	19/02/24 01:37 AM
6	Ex reached out after almost 2 years The police who called me used a google phone number and the phone number is not associated with any Police department. Anytime someone who claims to be in authority or claims to be your bank, broker or some other entity you do business with, and you aren't 100% convinced they are who they claim, ask for a phone number you can call them back with. If they can't or you check out the number and it's not attached to anything, you are a victim of an attempted fraud.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/01/24 12:27 AM
6	Does wife making more than husband contribute to relationship issues? Here's a media story of a Swedish study: Source	/r/Divorce_Men	29/12/23 11:16 PM
19	Does wife making more than husband contribute to relationship issues? One of the strongest predictors of a woman divorcing is within six months of her getting a promotion.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/12/23 10:55 PM
3	Men and women in 20 years. Where do you see it? Women went their own way first. Men are merely following the logic presented to them by women.	/r/MensRights	19/12/23 12:07 AM
5	Men and women in 20 years. Where do you see it? I just hope that Asian countries don't get infected by WOKEISM.. Too late. Read about the feminist fueled gender war in South Korea. Incredibly it's worse than the U.S.	/r/MensRights	19/12/23 12:06 AM
3	Men and women in 20 years. Where do you see it? I don't think we are witnessing a pendulum effect. The creation of reliable hormonal birth control has upset the evolutionary applecart. It's the greatest human experiment ever conducted. Women in the West behave sexually like never before and the implications are massive. Marriage and fertility rates have cratered. I don't know what Japan and South Korea are going to do but in the U.S. immigration will forestall these effects for some time. South Korea and Japan are the canaries in the coal min…	/r/MensRights	19/12/23 12:00 AM
6	The media portraying mothers as self sacrificing angels. 80% of marriages are caused by women... When you recount this statistic, many women will still blame the man for the failed marriage. Men cheat, are abusive or are lazy many women will use to excuse the epidemic of female led divorce. But you know what's interesting? Lesbians divorce at twice the rate of gay men.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/12/23 03:08 PM
1	I will never let my kids call my wife's AP "step-dad." Just call him møthërfûçkêr because that's what he is.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/11/23 10:48 AM
1	Watch out for red pill circle jerk content Fresh and fit, Pearl, etc - all these manosphere grifters that just want to dunk on dumb women. Fresh & Fit are terrible in many ways. Myron Gaines is always pushing on how women need to share high value men. The high value men he speaks of don't watch his show. The viewers are mostly young men who need to learn how to get a girlfriend, not build a harem. Pearl Davis is a contradiction. Here she is touring traditional marriage but she herself is 27, never married and has had multiple boyfriends.…	/r/Divorce_Men	12/11/23 06:55 PM
2	The core importance of the blackpill and why attempts from normies at "deradicalization" or "deconversion" from the blackpill is futile. A feature of the human species is that males are more genetically variable, for instance the fat tails in male intelligence statistics versus females, and consequently the genetically successful breed with multiple females while the genetically inferior do not breed at all. Female sex selection drives the genetically superior males to breed and improve the species. There are various numbers for this but I've read historically around 70% of males have offspring while 98% of females do. Today both…	/r/AllPillDebate	11/11/23 11:59 PM
18	Competitive Wife A wife who is in competition with you looks down on you as she must always be proving that she's better than you.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/11/23 09:50 AM
5	I’m lost During your separation, are you both free to date others?	/r/Divorce_Men	19/10/23 05:43 PM
2	We hear "women are the gatekeepers of sex while men are the gatekeepers of relationships." Is this true anymore? 67% is a legacy number that includes all men. Dating has radically changed in less than 10 years. Do you believe Gen-Z will marry at the same rate as baby boomers?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/23 02:03 PM
1	We hear "women are the gatekeepers of sex while men are the gatekeepers of relationships." Is this true anymore? Source Source Source	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/23 01:35 PM
7	We hear "women are the gatekeepers of sex while men are the gatekeepers of relationships." Is this true anymore? Nope. Men in relationships get much more sex than the average single male, then and now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/23 12:48 PM
7	We hear "women are the gatekeepers of sex while men are the gatekeepers of relationships." Is this true anymore? You say most women aren't on the apps but aren't many women on Instagram? My understanding is that IG is the number one dating app.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/23 12:44 PM
6	We hear "women are the gatekeepers of sex while men are the gatekeepers of relationships." Is this true anymore? So it's not "men are the gatekeepers of relationships" but instead "the few men women actually want are the gatekeepers of relationships."?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/23 12:15 PM
5	We hear "women are the gatekeepers of sex while men are the gatekeepers of relationships." Is this true anymore? But the men women really want are a small subset of men, and these men happen to have a large number of sexual options. So it seems, a small number of top guys and most women have a large number of sexual options that would work against entering relationships. These numbers mean many more women would be unavailable for relationships than men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/23 11:33 AM
2	What would you do? You might consider messaging her on birthdays and holidays so that she understands the door is open to a better relationship. Don't burn the bridge. As time passes she may grow to appreciate you and reciprocate.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/08/23 09:37 AM
3	Is promiscuity all that bad? What if a woman has only been promiscuous with other women? I don't know about same sex relationships but to the extent you bond with people and subsequently break that bond could have a cumulative harmful effect. We know with heterosexual couples, psychologists tell us promiscuity is a strong predictor of infidelity, marital dissatisfaction and divorce.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/23 06:33 PM
3	Do women actually marry the men they aren't really that sexually attracted to? More men understand how damaging promiscuity is for marriage. Psychologists tell us promiscuity is a strong predictor of infidelity, marriage dissatisfaction and divorce.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 12:48 PM
1	The principles of the manosphere are based on a just-world fallacy But promiscuity negatively affects women and men. Psychological studies show promiscuity strongly predicts infidelity, marital dissatisfaction and divorce.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 08:40 PM
1	I don't do casual sex, and I feel like less of a man for it. Psychologists tell us promiscuity is a strong predictor of infidelity.	/r/MensRights	25/07/23 11:21 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Psychologists tell us promiscuity is a strong predictor of infidelity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 01:26 PM
-3	The feminist statistic a that only 2 to 8% are false rape accusatons. Aren't prosecutors everywhere reluctant to indict false accusers?	/r/AllPillDebate	21/07/23 05:16 PM
-3	I'm mostly out of red pill, but I struggle leaving the "high body count" and "pair bonding" thing behind Of course. Social science studies involve generalities, averages, the dispersion of data and confidence levels. Individuals vary. Here are about 20 peer-reviewed studies published in academic journals, just some of the studies that have found promiscuity as a strong predictor of infidelity: Source Studies have also found that women with high body counts are much less satisfied in their marriages and report less ability to emotionally bond with their husbands. Promiscuity has also been found to b…	/r/ExRedPill	19/07/23 10:01 PM
-7	I'm mostly out of red pill, but I struggle leaving the "high body count" and "pair bonding" thing behind but I fear that she'll eventually get bored and leave or cheat, because she'll be missing the rush of her "hoe phase". Psychologists tell us body count is a strong predictor of infidelity.	/r/ExRedPill	19/07/23 07:00 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I stated my case too strongly as though I know promiscuity "causes" ill effects. The studies do not claim causation. They merely claim that promiscuity predicts infidelity, not perfectly of course. It's possible that promiscuity and infidelity are both caused by something else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/23 01:40 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Touché. You are correct and normally I strive to not make this error. I apologize. Promiscuity and infidelity may both be caused by something else. The studies I'm familiar with do not claim causation. They just say that promiscuity predicts infidelity. Not perfectly of course. This is social science which deals in generalities, averages, data distributions and confidence levels. Individuals vary.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/23 01:35 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Yes it does, although some studies show the ill effects kick in at a higher threshold of promiscuity for men than women, the effects are still real.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/23 01:28 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Yes, the science is clear that promiscuity damages the ability to form healthy long-term relationships for both men and women. Several studies show the threshold of promiscuity before ill effects kick in as higher for men than women, but the effects are still real.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/23 01:23 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Yes, social science deals in generalities, averages, distribution of data and confidence levels. Individuals vary. You may have an Uncle Joe who smoked a pack of cigarettes a day his entire life and lived to 85. I wouldn't recommend smoking but those people exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/23 01:20 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Yes, the data shows promiscuity damages the ability of both men and women to form healthy long-term relationships. Some of the studies show the ill effects kick in at a higher threshold of promiscuity for men, but the effects are real for both sexes	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/23 12:51 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Psychologists tell us body count is a strong predictor of infidelity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/23 12:07 AM
1	The reason why I think men like me don't want to be in a romantic relationship with a promiscuous women (no-judgement you do you girl) is not because of sex itself but emotional detachment of sex Ok, we have nothing of practical use to learn from social science since it's not perfect, say you. Well I'll let you marry a known cheater since that will never perfectly predict a future cheater.	/r/AllPillDebate	17/07/23 10:18 PM
2	The reason why I think men like me don't want to be in a romantic relationship with a promiscuous women (no-judgement you do you girl) is not because of sex itself but emotional detachment of sex Because you do the best you can with the information at hand. The strongest predictor of cheating is previous cheating. It's entirely possible that an individual who cheats will never cheat again. But why roll the dice when you know cheating is a powerful predictor of further cheating?	/r/AllPillDebate	17/07/23 09:28 PM
2	The reason why I think men like me don't want to be in a romantic relationship with a promiscuous women (no-judgement you do you girl) is not because of sex itself but emotional detachment of sex Here are about 20 peer-reviewed studies published in academic journals, just some of the studies that have found promiscuity as a strong predictor of infidelity: Source As you read through them you will see the correlation is stronger than you are saying. You're correct about the variability at the individual level. Social science stud6 deal in averages, distribution of data and confidence levels. Studies have also found that women with high body counts are much less satisfied in their marriages…	/r/AllPillDebate	17/07/23 09:02 PM
4	The reason why I think men like me don't want to be in a romantic relationship with a promiscuous women (no-judgement you do you girl) is not because of sex itself but emotional detachment of sex Chimpanzees commit so much infanticide that female chimps are forced to manipulate or avoid powerful males to prevent it. To Protect Their Babies From Infanticide, Female Chimps Have Developed an Ingenious Strategy	/r/AllPillDebate	17/07/23 03:54 PM
2	I’m trying to figure out how to best be there for my kids while simultaneously processing this divorce process. Post this to r/survivinginfidelity , they'll give you much more specific advice from experience.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/07/23 07:29 AM
7	The reason why I think men like me don't want to be in a romantic relationship with a promiscuous women (no-judgement you do you girl) is not because of sex itself but emotional detachment of sex The main reason has always been “paternal uncertainty” I think this too and not because every man has this conscious thought. I think the concept of a promiscuous woman fires off our disgust mechanism which we are born with. Did you know when a male chimpanzee first gets with a female he will oftentimes kill the offspring of the female that was sired by another male? Lions do this too. This disgust is hard wired and found not only in the great apes but in other mammals. This disgust is deep seat…	/r/AllPillDebate	17/07/23 12:57 AM
3	The reason why I think men like me don't want to be in a romantic relationship with a promiscuous women (no-judgement you do you girl) is not because of sex itself but emotional detachment of sex Psychologists tell us promiscuity is a strong predictor of infidelity.	/r/AllPillDebate	17/07/23 12:49 AM
2	Passport Bros will force the laws to change for the Better. Thanks for this.	/r/MensRights	16/07/23 09:40 PM
3	Passport Bros will force the laws to change for the Better. Passport Bros will force the laws to change for the Better. You will see the policies start to change. Your post doesn't say what laws or policies will change with respect to the Passport Bros. movement. What exactly are you talking about?	/r/MensRights	16/07/23 03:06 PM
2	Women will never understand a man's disgust about promiscuity Psychologists tell us promiscuity is a strong predictor of infidelity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 01:13 PM
5	Dating scene is harmful for men And this is why body count matters. Psychologists tell us body count is a strong predictor of infidelity.	/r/MensRights	08/07/23 02:01 PM
5	Q4women Does saying guys should work on themselves first to find dating success make any sense when it's women deciding what men should become? There are just too many men. Women really don't need men anymore as they can earn their own money and get sexual satisfaction off of tinder. Historically I believe 98% of women reproduce while only about 70% of men do. When you look at the recent skyrocketing of male virginity, dating app data which tells us women are sleeping with a small number of men, sky high standards women have for men these days which leaves them stranded from marriage in their thirties, it just looks like too many men ch…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/23 10:23 PM
12	3 years after declaring itself feminist, the University of Helsinki's gender gap for males is severe. Everytime you see a society hating men and promoting feminism, you see a huge decline in the birth rate. I get this, but does this explain the demographics crashes in China, Japan and South Korea? There are other sources for population decline and they include: rising education of women, availability of birth control, women entering the workforce and the movement of people from the countryside where children are an asset to the city where children are an expensive liability.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/02/23 11:48 PM
1	Am I a RPW? Thanks.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/08/22 08:21 PM
1	Am I a RPW? Great answer to a question I didn't ask. Let me try a different way: does the red pill oppose women's equality before the law?	/r/RedPillWomen	26/08/22 08:18 PM
0	Am I a RPW? Wait, you posted on feminism and I can't respond? You did not answer the question; how is the red pill in conflict with OP's definition of feminism?	/r/RedPillWomen	26/08/22 06:47 PM
10	Am I a RPW? OP defined her feminism as: ... I would absolutely call myself a feminist, as I have been taught that means men and women should have equal rights. How is the red pill at odds with this definition of feminism?	/r/RedPillWomen	26/08/22 05:04 PM
0	The Rise of The Single Lonely Male Why would American men go after swedish women when they are as rejecting as American women? I believe fertility rates in Sweden have collapsed worse than the U.S. Since men and women aren't getting along these days in the U.S., shouldn't men and women be able to shop globally for the partners they want?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/22 04:04 AM
5	The Rise of The Single Lonely Male Not for long	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/22 03:55 AM
4	The Rise of The Single Lonely Male Source	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/22 03:55 AM
11	The Rise of The Single Lonely Male Young women are out-earning young men in many large cities. As educational disparities between the sexes among the young (60/40 females to males in college) work their way through the system, women will end up on top economically. Source	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/22 02:59 AM
1	The Rise of The Single Lonely Male Not true. Women in Sweden are organizing to stop this now. If US men import wives in numbers, women here will put a stop to it as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/22 02:26 AM
6	The Rise of The Single Lonely Male On threads on this sub where people list their ideal qualities in a partner, its baffling to me how few men list qualities like desiring intelligence or sense of humor in a woman. I appreciate aspects of the red pill especially how it introduced me to evolutionary psychology and the mating strategies of men and women. But is every red piller so damned shallow? I get it, I want fit, feminine and friendly too. But I do love to be with a woman I can talk to for hours without noticing time passing. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/22 02:15 AM
1	My husband wants to pay everything for me even though I earn 50% more than him Open an investment account in both your names and make payments to it. Maybe equal to his excess contribution plus 50%. He gets an ego boost while you help create a well-funded retirement for you both.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/05/22 04:22 PM
5	Girl called me “misogynist” and “homophobic” for defending men. She's not making arguments, she's instead calling you names. You can tell you've won an argument when people call you names. Why do you care what she says?	/r/MensRights	10/05/22 04:09 PM
1	Where have all the good men gone? ... women out pase men in education and likewise income. What happened to the patriarchy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/22 07:54 PM
2	Where have all the good men gone? They're with the good women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/22 07:51 PM
6	Comically cruel You can criticize what she says but she is reporting something that many men are saying. Men crying in front of their girl will often times cause her to feel disgust. Nothing dries a vagina like a weak man.	/r/MensRights	12/01/22 03:42 AM
3	Women and men can't be friends Should bisexuals be allowed no friends when they enter a relationship?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/22 05:53 PM
1	Of course women are outperforming men modern society gives women everything they demand Does your concept of value exist independent of a conscious entity (person, society, market) making a valuation? I just don't understand your concept of "exact value" existing in the ether that may be revealed to us in the future. Sorry to flog a dead horse but we are arguing over a definition of a concept.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/22 01:31 PM
1	Of course women are outperforming men modern society gives women everything they demand I think we are arguing over a definition of the word "value." We've seen all sorts of stock 'crashes' because people mistook short term value as indicative of long term value ... Yes, the collective value of things changes with time. Look at the stock market every day. You seem to be arguing for some abstract platonic ideal of the concept of "value." But your example of the dot-com crash, which I would agree (in hindsight) was a misvaluation, we still can only know value in real time by price. W…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/22 12:58 PM
1	Of course women are outperforming men modern society gives women everything they demand You're conflating short-term with long term value. My use of the term "value" is more concrete than yours in that it is measured in dollars where yours is measured in some abstract concept you hold in your head. Also, I agree there can be a time component to value. If I build a building, that's an investment in long-term value. If I buy a 20-year bond, that's an investment in long-term value. But both of these are examples of value measured in money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/22 12:00 PM
1	Of course women are outperforming men modern society gives women everything they demand You're right about surplus, which is likely to only grow in the future. But everything else you say references your values. What the world values cannot be measured in words. Only money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/22 02:04 AM
2	Of course women are outperforming men modern society gives women everything they demand In a capitalist economy, value is determined by money. Young women out earning young men means our society values the work product of young women over young men. You can add your notions of value, but it stands as fact: value in our society is determined by money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/22 01:46 AM
2	Women have total victory in the West and the Collapse won’t happen In the U.S. we are reproducing at 1.7 babies per woman. The population replacement rate is 2.2. Birth control, feminism, the degraded value of marriage, our culture that celebrates female promiscuity, young men checking out of dating and then women waiting until they cannot find a suitable mate to have children with, have all contributed to this. The result has been not only a collapse in fertility but also a collapse in the happiness of women themselves who brought on most of these changes. I d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/21 09:10 PM
1	Could many problems in contemporary dating stem from men failing to grasp how power dynamics have changed between the sexes? Thank you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/21 01:29 AM
1	Could many problems in contemporary dating stem from men failing to grasp how power dynamics have changed between the sexes? Surveys are evidence, but sometimes not fully accurate. It's necessary to look at multiple surveys and studies to understand what is going on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/21 01:16 AM
1	Could many problems in contemporary dating stem from men failing to grasp how power dynamics have changed between the sexes? Would you please provide links to these studies? I'm genuinely interested.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/21 01:14 AM
1	Based on my experience women don't seem to value "intelligence" as an attractive trait I'm a broadly intellectual person and so is my wife. We both are curious and passionate about the world. Our ability to communicate deeply about our common interests has helped our relationship tremendously. I just can't spend lots of time in boring superficial conversations without feeling like I want to escape. And during this pandemic, our conversations have been a godsend given the isolation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/21 05:23 PM
0	Surely its common sense that girls like physically attractive men. Is it a lack of empathy or ability to see it from the other side that allows men to be totally blind sided? Back when there were magazines, the men's mags were filled with pictures of beautiful women. And the women's mags? Filled with pictures of beautiful women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/21 05:47 PM
0	Lesbians, what's your take on FDS? I just learned on YouTube that lesbians dating men is a thing. They say men are easier when you just want to get off. No personal knowledge, could be fake.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/21 08:58 PM
3	The Dark Triad Are they overtly promoting the dark triad as a frame of mind that will help one get women?	/r/ExRedPill	14/10/21 05:52 PM
2	Does the average person know or have RP values or is it just weirdos and losers who buy into it? I agree that it is all over YouTube. Seems to be gaining in popularity.	/r/ExRedPill	13/10/21 01:27 AM
-3	70% of women file for divorce. Hypocrisy. According to this study, women initiate 69% of divorces. "Rosenfeld's analysis relies on data from the 2009-2015 waves of the nationally representative How Couples Meet and Stay Together survey. He considers 2,262 adults, ages 19 to 94, who had opposite sex partners in 2009. By 2015, 371 of these people had broken up or gotten divorced. As part of his analysis, Rosenfeld found that women initiated 69 percent of all divorces, compared to 31 percent for men." Study	/r/ExRedPill	25/09/21 10:29 PM
-4	70% of women file for divorce. Hypocrisy. According to this stuff, women initiate 69% of divorces. "Rosenfeld's analysis relies on data from the 2009-2015 waves of the nationally representative How Couples Meet and Stay Together survey. He considers 2,262 adults, ages 19 to 94, who had opposite sex partners in 2009. By 2015, 371 of these people had broken up or gotten divorced. As part of his analysis, Rosenfeld found that women initiated 69 percent of all divorces, compared to 31 percent for men." Study	/r/ExRedPill	25/09/21 10:28 PM
5	70% of women file for divorce. Hypocrisy. According to this stuff, women initiate 69% of divorces. "Rosenfeld's analysis relies on data from the 2009-2015 waves of the nationally representative How Couples Meet and Stay Together survey. He considers 2,262 adults, ages 19 to 94, who had opposite sex partners in 2009. By 2015, 371 of these people had broken up or gotten divorced. As part of his analysis, Rosenfeld found that women initiated 69 percent of all divorces, compared to 31 percent for men." Study	/r/ExRedPill	25/09/21 10:28 PM
5	Men exercising their options is such a stupid double standart. Then you should have said "cheating." Why buy into KS's frame?	/r/ExRedPill	23/09/21 02:23 PM
7	Correlation between narcissism and red pill men? He imagines he's a "high-value man" or some such BS. And it's easy to guess he wants you to be closed while he is open to bang anyone he wants. Don't give in to the blackmail.	/r/ExRedPill	21/09/21 09:49 PM
2	What would you say are core RP beliefs? I've had precisely this question myself. Many men fall in love. The RP folks seem to have no advise for these men. Do they see men loving women as weak or beta? Don't know.	/r/ExRedPill	16/09/21 09:52 PM