bigfluffygothpanda Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
150	After lurking on asktrp, I found that men there both wanna casually f as many women as possible , and disrespect the women they had casual sex with. So:	STRATEGY	bigfluffygothpanda	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/10/20 03:50 AM
4	Part of FDS actually makes sense even the rest can be radical	CMV	bigfluffygothpanda	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 05:20 AM
1	Today’s lurking on asktrp, spotted: some LVM insulted fellow FDS members who have self respect and don’t want any con men’s BS	RANT	bigfluffygothpanda	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/10/20 05:41 AM
1	Found some apparent alt right , probably incel bi*ch about us on discord. How can I report to Discord about hate speech	MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERS	bigfluffygothpanda	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/01/21 05:00 AM
1	Is this a classical example of MGTOW?		bigfluffygothpanda	/r/ExRedPill	10/01/21 05:05 AM

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1	Women and Fitness If you look closely. That’s what exactly I said. And a lot of so called skinny ppl actually have just a bmi of 22-24. (Upper limit is 25 for normal BMI) So.. well I don’t want debate with random pro fatness ppl on the internet. Your definition of normal bmi is likely having BMI >> 30 ,by standards it’s obese. No thanks So long	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 07:28 AM
1	Women and Fitness Are you out of your mind. Everyone should be pro normal BMI. I have yet to meet anyone in my real life who believes the opposite of that. Isn’t that a common sense ? Men and women both would prefer any potential partner who is fit and healthy or at least strive to be so on some special current occasions.(some ppl are temporarily fat due to anti depressants , hormone diseases , pregnancy etc.but as long as they strive to work on it it’s fine) Cardiovascular diseases , hypertension and diabetes ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 07:14 AM
1	Women and Fitness … she gets much more and more commitments from good men ? And a lot of so called “HVM” want to marry her too. Like some random 50-60 year fellow divorcee millionaires in SoCal or Canada. She hasn’t decided who to remarry to yet. A Canadian former business man with 3+ millions on the bank flew to see her in SoCal every once in a while and wanted her to move in with her. He is 66, fit for his age , can tell was a 6/7 back when he was young. Not to say money is everything but money is a good indica…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 06:55 AM
1	Women and Fitness she is reasonably wealthy (not mega , but has enough money for healthy food and stuff ) and is genetically blessed (naturally thin)	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 06:39 AM
6	Women and Fitness This reminded me of something, my mom in law is very fit , and youthful looking , 120 lbs ,5’7 , living in SoCal, 55 years old but looking 30 something . So many ppl want to date her (she divorced my dad in law 6 years ago). —— Edit: not only so , so many 50-60 year old millionaires/ successful men who are well groomed , kind and well educated want to marry her, as of now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 04:51 AM
1	If ww3 occured now, how do you think social norms would shift among men and women? WW3 will be atomic bomb filled. We are pretty much all gonna die and survivors will all mutate to some weird shits lol. Do you still care about men or women ? First there won’t be many humans left , second if there are some left , they are barely humans	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 12:50 AM
2	How to become unattractive as a man? Wow you are such a dick. If you don’t want them , just let them go. Why be a cunt. Piss off. That’s why girls warn each other don’t take negging narcissistic bastards personally and let them F off. If you have a mental illness go sort it out. If you made all that up in your head. Go sort it out. Stop baiting	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 08:22 AM
2	How to become unattractive as a man? Are you implying you are a “chad” who has a problem getting rid of women ? Just say no. Do you mind sharing your “spec” and do you live in a place with higher women to men gender ratio. You know what X doubt. Browsing through OP’s history , when you don’t want the girl , you still want to hurt her to leave some “glory”. You are a piece of shit trying to prove your worth by treating innocent ppl like doormats No girls should be around you in the first place and take your crazy acts personally. Ju…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 08:17 AM
4	How to become unattractive as a man? Acting like disrespectful ignorant dumb ass who unintentionally puts her down , or being very crazily needy. Honestly a lot of men did these stuff unconsciously, which drove women off. Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 07:38 AM
1	Biologically speaking(maybe not philosophically) the entire meaning of life for men is to produce sperm and spread their genes through sex? Do you therefore think men are unfairly criticised in society for showing a strong interest in sex? It’s perfectly fine to have a high sex drive. Nature does its jobs by calling y’all to procreate. Just don’t send unsolicited sex requests to girls you barely know. Just don’t rape them. And just don’t be an asshole in general. That’s why porn & prostitution is actually natural.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/22 08:16 AM
4	Both the Redpill and FDS seem to be primarily Low Socioeconomic Status inidividuals I get what you are saying. But not all highly educated people / high income females act like smart asses. Smart asses are not necessarily smart, if they don’t know how to be sweet. They ain’t smart. I live in an area where everyone we know who is a professional works 6 figure income job because extremely high cost of living(yeah Cali ) . Good amount of girls here are still very feminine. And most likely even the girls make 6 figure , &have a good degree , they aren’t necessarily bitchy. And I do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/22 07:58 AM
2	Both the Redpill and FDS seem to be primarily Low Socioeconomic Status inidividuals Actually you can Google that : Jeff Bezos reportedly checked his ex wife Mackenzie Scott resume when she was interviewing for DE Shaw as a new grad while he was working as a VP. And he was reportedly very glad “I am glad she is so hot and I know her great SAT scores !” Noted : they are both graduates from Princeton university.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/22 07:50 AM
5	Both the Redpill and FDS seem to be primarily Low Socioeconomic Status inidividuals I agree. As long as the girls appearance pass a basic benchmark. (Is hot enough ; suits the taste of the man) Mark Zuckerberg wife is Harvard grad ; Bill gates wife is Duke MBA; Jeff Bezos ex wife is Princeton grad who was described by bezos”I am so glad she is so hot and I checked her SAT scores when she first applied to DE Shaws! (He was a VP at DE shaws when she as a new grad applying to the firm as a generalist or something)And I love my wife being smart and resouceful” Alexis Ohanian (the d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/22 07:26 AM
1	If a man asked you about how be more successful with women, what avices would you give him? The brutal honesty is to be the (conventionally speaking) best version of yourself. You are not gonna be an imposter of anyone else , but you should advance in your own career , improve your own health/fitness/hygiene/the way of dressing , be more level headed. You should be you but keep improving yourself too. Then you can have access to better dating pool while having better chance with women who are actually compatible with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/22 11:43 PM
1	For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not? I wouldn’t judge him as a human being(every one has needs right ? If he can’t get laid with girls through hookup or relationships , isn’t his best option to get hookers? That’s better than rape ) but for dating , well case by case , depends on why that happened (was he in a bad situation like a military base with no women ? Or he hired them to do drugs through their Aholes like wolves of Wall Street ? The former is acceptable the later isn’t ) For casual sex, I didn’t mind people who have had ho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/22 11:07 PM
3	Are women becoming more openly contemptuous and hostile towards unattractive men in dating and social situations? I was never initially mean to any men but did meet “LVM” thought my kindness was a sign of interest then tried to leverage that into inappropriate sexual advances (like a 50 year old bald man , like an extra racist misogynistic jobless man , like a 50 year old 400 lbs man without no job etc. who hanged out in some local bar or coffee shop. I kindly responded to all of them in courteous conversations at first but these men took advantage of me in the end. Like think I should go to their bed insta…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/22 01:58 AM
3	What do you think of straight guys who go to gay clubs to get chicks? Yo. I visited gay bars /clubs when I was younger frequently primarily because I thought they were more fun and I could avoid nasty weirdos more. However I did meet straight guys partying in space Ibiza approaching me , I was like , okay great you are having fun but we ain’t gonna do nothing.So even I did let my guards down a lot , I usually wouldn’t be picked up for the night. However if we became friends from those venues while I let my guards down, I might have dated the guy later tho.(it didn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/22 01:34 AM
1	Part of FDS actually makes sense even the rest can be radical You are right. I was only talking about good girls who just try to fend off actual weirdos ? You might think it’s a minority but it happened within my female friends circle (mostly feminine , thin, highly educated , wealthy and sometimes pure & naive ) for those who don’t wanna improve themselves , they are very silly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 08:25 AM
1	Part of FDS actually makes sense even the rest can be radical That’s why I am not a radical FDSer. I only think “the fending off weirdos and not being too nice to them until it’s too late “ part makes sense. And I think radicals who don’t improve themselves are really silly. Every upper middle class / upper class female friends of my circle growing up are all studying hard (in real stuff , like STEM or economics from top university ), keeping fit (every one of them is within normal BMI) and feminine (yes they are more feminine than average females for some…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 08:23 AM
1	Part of FDS actually makes sense even the rest can be radical Right. But I can be the top within my moral tolerance	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 08:05 AM
0	Part of FDS actually makes sense even the rest can be radical Good to know. I also understand a small portion of RP men might actually just be regular men who want to avoid being cucked and wanna level up too. But yeah we all know RP/FDS radicals have far far bigger names for their unhinged BS.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 08:01 AM
1	Part of FDS actually makes sense even the rest can be radical Side note : I have seen my boss or their counterparts doing really disgusting stuff , minor ones : sending hard drugs and hookers to clients hotels ; major ones: big unfair slanders/sabotage against competitors or weak people who get in their way. I am fine with working with hard math models or getting business operations quick etc but not those maneuvers	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 07:57 AM
1	Part of FDS actually makes sense even the rest can be radical Thanks. I have worked long hours(70+ hours a week). But unethical things I am very hesitant I gotta be honest with you. I am not a saint but I struggle to directly hurt people , like some of them. I might go one level below c-suite or a side C (not a ceo , might be a coo etc) for this exact reason. I think my Mother Nature and lack of sociopathy is stopping me from succeeding further yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 07:55 AM
1	Part of FDS actually makes sense even the rest can be radical Right. But RP on media seems to be more associated with plate spinning and PUA that steered away from the original textbook RP you said	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 07:49 AM
1	Part of FDS actually makes sense even the rest can be radical Well I have tried to be very performative in the past , working long hours and networking hard when I was early 20s working in nyc , but by the end of day the old men still notice my boobs more (sorry, I am a DD ) instead of praising me about a good math model I built or some good networking I pulled . Hope you understand my frustration. And now it’s easier to be young female executives than before yes, but there is still strong adversity when we try to climb up with stellar degrees & work ethic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 07:43 AM
1	Part of FDS actually makes sense even the rest can be radical And for the math major stuff , we have less workload than engineering major but harder conceptual subjects. Our easiest subjects will be single and multi variate calculus- because there are much much much harder and abstract subjects. Are you my background ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 07:41 AM
1	Part of FDS actually makes sense even the rest can be radical I am not a gender study major from a mid rank university. And I have always competed in highly competitive academia or industries since I was young. Hope you don’t misunderstand and I am not actually babbling.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 07:37 AM
1	Part of FDS actually makes sense even the rest can be radical Why not ? I have a math major undergrad and post grad degree from Ivy League university(one of 6 down I-95) and I worked very hard in all my past competitions where I scored high percentile. Now I have connections among tech entrepreneurs. I have not only grown up with many of them but also worked with them , as a good teammate , and good leader of small team. Your insult was baseless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 07:35 AM
1	Part of FDS actually makes sense even the rest can be radical Why is that not hybrid ? I make 6 figure too just he is making even more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 07:22 AM
2	Part of FDS actually makes sense even the rest can be radical Lol lol if that’s what RP stresses. I think my lifestyle is textbook upper middle class. Tried hard in school.stable working parents who are also professionals. And we married within our circle then continued the lifestyle	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 07:12 AM
0	Part of FDS actually makes sense even the rest can be radical Depends on what you are talking about. Getting casual sex is very female centric. Besides that , females weren’t in the perfect positions in the past millions of years of Homo sapiens existence … (men and women are both Victims to an extent to traditional gender roles) I am a working professional who will permanently live under thick glass ceiling however much I try in finance / legal etc industries. They might diversity hire you as newbies but it’s hard to compete with old men executives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 07:05 AM
-2	Part of FDS actually makes sense even the rest can be radical God chill. I barely even blend with the bitter OP in the FDS sub, didn’t you see? As for anti hypergamist the username is kinda lol, see my example how do you think ? I and my husband have on par background with him somewhat better than me in some aspects(he is professionally higher ranking than me, physically stronger etc.) , with me traditional in some aspects(cook clean and bearing kids) , is this a semi-hypergamy situation for you ? Will this offend you or you think our hybrid model is inoff…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 06:59 AM
2	Part of FDS actually makes sense even the rest can be radical I totally agree with this. Just the extra shitty men they described , despite absolutely crazy , actually exist (not many , but there are). The normal men however , don’t follow the psychology of shitty men. And I wish all the best to normal respectable men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 06:10 AM
1	Part of FDS actually makes sense even the rest can be radical Yeah I tried to edit it a bit. I was basically trolled by some weirdos that happened to actually look like caricature of men on FDS, so I was like part of FDS isn’t too wrong to shut them down then. But overall I respect normal men. Hope this summerizes	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 06:08 AM
1	Part of FDS actually makes sense even the rest can be radical Right. I think the main issue is that FDS might actually be one of the first female centric communities where females can get very sharp about something. Hope in the future there will be some more moderate community where females can discuss sharp opinions together. (Some earlier female subs like Two chromosomes is not very sharp tbh … I always feel held back )	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 06:00 AM
0	Part of FDS actually makes sense even the rest can be radical Thanks made some paragraphs. Kinda new to loooong text centric Reddit posts	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 05:41 AM
2	Part of FDS actually makes sense even the rest can be radical Thanks just broke up the big blob	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 05:41 AM
2	RPers: do women suck no matter what they do? Nah that’s you	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/20 04:54 PM
4	I genuinely feel angry for the sake of young women. That sounds so cringey... so sorry for you. I would have punched that guy already	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/10/20 06:58 PM