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Maybe get a different therapist. No joke here. Sometimes who you have doesn't fit for you. People can go through many before they find someone that can truley help.
/r/seduction20/05/17 01:11 PM
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Part 2?
/r/seduction28/10/16 10:37 PM
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Girls see the real you. The real you when you're around girls is awkward, shy, and bad at having conversation. But the good news is you can change that. You can make the real you around girls more like the real you around your friends and people you're comfortable with. It's practice. You will "fail" so many times. But those failures are only failures if you chose to see them that way. Go out and practice being better at talking to women. Practice saying different types of things. Because it doe…
/r/seduction12/09/16 03:10 PM
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It's base line attraction at first sight. I get butterflies in my stomach all the time when I see an attractive woman. And interaction will build on top of that base line attraction I have towards them or tear it down. That's all I was trying to say. Very few men will have women willing to sleep with them by appearance alone. It's a huge help to be attractive don't get me wrong..
/r/seduction06/09/16 04:43 AM
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You can be to a certain extent. But it takes more interaction then just seeing someone to build any attraction on top of that. And The Bachelor is not reality. It's not how the world works. It's an illusion. Especially in the world of seduction.
/r/seduction05/09/16 07:10 PM
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The book Models by Mark Manson Most replies here are giving you a bit of advice that might help. This book will give you a healthy whole person concept that will help you lose your virginity buy in the best way possible.
/r/seduction26/05/16 01:58 PM
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They you're in the wrong forum cause they're missing the point as well. It's very possible that the women they meet and congregate with are just there for the bank. And who wants that to be the main point people are interested in them. You don't have a social circle. You have friends that are "settled" and people most use that word about people that aren't very social. If you "guess" it's a hobby then it's definitely not a passion. And passion about personal hobbies is what people love to associ…
/r/seduction15/04/16 04:51 PM
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Good job! Just keep doing it. It's going to feel awkward for a long time. And then it wont. And even after months and hundreds of approaches where it doesn't feel awkward it will again. And then it wont. Such is life.
/r/seduction25/02/16 10:08 AM
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I think the most important game is day game. I also see the people with the most game day gaming. I would suggest you cold approach out in public. Get numbers and when you agree to meet go for coffee around 6 or 7 at night. I think day game makes you feel the most confident as well.
/r/seduction12/02/16 05:37 PM
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OP, these are harsh words. But said for good reason. Quit with the pity party, get in to the side bar, and do some work.
/r/seduction11/01/16 02:59 PM
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Kinda. They have to be attracted to you. But not in the same way that they want you to be a boy friend. You have to go read the side bar. Everything you're looking for is in there. Also it's not one or two quick answers, tricks, or hacks and you'll be "banging"
/r/seduction11/01/16 01:39 PM
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Oh absolutely. I guess I didn't know what part you were responding to. I was just relating u/Kaptcho comment to what OP was looking for. I hope OP sees your above comment and decides not to go for just sex. Maybe look for something a bit more meaningful. Even if it takes some time. It's definitely worth it.
/r/seduction24/11/15 01:47 AM
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Your way is the best way have sex for the first time in my opinion. But he's not looking for passion and sweet. He literally said all he cares about is having sex for the first time. If that's your mental attitude then you're not going to get the best parts of a sexual experience with someone. He doesn't want to make himself a more attractive person he doesn't want to do any work to become more interesting. He wants to have sex for the first time. The commenter above you is right. I don't know w…
/r/seduction23/11/15 06:32 PM
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First things first.Text when you want because you want to. If you're strategically plotting because you think it will go a certain way you're playing a game she's running to try to win her. Which is jacked up game to be involved in that doesn't sound like you can both be winners and in its essence that isn't healthy and it isn't true confidence on your part. Silence until Thursday and a call is a bad idea. She already said she's working so it won't be convenient to talk for her. And people want …
/r/seduction23/11/15 06:10 PM
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Models by Mark Manson
/r/seduction03/11/15 10:32 PM
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Or every once in a while you meet someone who wants time to themselves for a while. Like so many of us do. Like what this sub is about. Investing in the self. And it's possible OP picked up on that and that's why he has interest. It for sure could have been any of the reasons you listed. But let him find out. If those were the reasons she won't have a problem letting him know she's not interested again. Then move on. But say exactly what you feel OP. You're not in love with this girl. But after …
/r/seduction03/11/15 09:41 PM
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The top two comments are telling you that Models by Mark Manson is the most useful book to read. To help you actually improve your game but more importantly to be the man you want to be. Finish this read if you'd like. Take what works. But listen to what has been upvoted. I'm literally just commenting to stress how important this book is.
/r/seduction29/10/15 09:56 PM
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Coffee shops. Art museum/events. Sport clubs. Day game.
/r/seduction24/10/15 05:04 PM
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Live in the moment.
/r/seduction13/10/15 04:47 PM
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I wouldn't worry. Especially if she did mention the sports social like you might remember. I'd say wait (3 or 4)-6 days then text her with a plan that can be flexible. If she says she can't and doesn't try to reschedule then move on. That might just be the way you and her play out. If she can't but reschedule then do that. If she says yes, all good. Ideally in the next few days she will text you and you'll see she's still interested. Text back. Be flirty with your texts. And go from there.
/r/seduction12/10/15 09:16 PM
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Everyone is getting on me for the sub par tinder girl comment. It's not the point I was trying to make. If this was a post in brag about sex. Sure have an upvote. This is r/seduction. And OPs post had nothing to do with seduction.
/r/seduction06/09/15 08:59 AM
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If all you're getting or giving to/from this sub is to "put your dick into a pussy" then you're completely missing the point of seduction. My point is that OP telling others to just not worry about it will do nothing for anyone else. I'm sure OP read that advice here hundreds of times. But it still felt like a huge deal that he was about to have sex as the night progressed. So much so that he has to be piss drunk. It means nothing ultimately. It's not about if you lose it or not. If OP laid out …
/r/seduction06/09/15 08:41 AM
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Yeah, but being piss drunk doesn't remove the anxiety from the back mind. You need to push yourself out of your comfort zone to be able to go there often. A drunken date with a below decent tinder girl won't put you in a mind set that would or wouldn't change anything. It won't take an edge off in the future. The alcohol did that. It's lazy.
/r/seduction05/09/15 08:03 PM
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You're right. Post like this have no value and do nothing to improve the community. It's not even a FR. I would take a FR with someone who hasn't been laid but explains his improvement the key points from other posts that helped him and where he will go from there. The point he is trying to make is made in so many other posts but done brilliantly. OP should have not posted at all. This sub becoming a shotty success story after shotty success story where other dudes that probably never get laid c…
/r/seduction05/09/15 07:51 PM
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When you see her hug her. Just a small quick not awkward hug. And your hanging out. I wouldn't worry about the door.
/r/seduction29/04/15 01:09 PM
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Read the side bar. Read Models by Mark Manson
/r/seduction26/04/15 08:10 PM
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Models by Mark Manson is the most important thing you can read in the phase you're in.
/r/seduction11/04/15 02:40 PM
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Models by Mark Manson. This is THE book you need to read. And we all appreciate you doing the work to progress instead of self loathing and looking for someone to tell you any problem with women you've had in the past is not your fault. Thank you.
/r/seduction27/03/15 10:21 PM
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This happens to me when people just see me from a glance. I live in Cheyenne Wyoming and I feel like if you have style and care about the way you look in a place like that people arnt used to it and just think your gay. Their is no doubt in anyone's mind that I'm straight when they actually meet me. This is because I show my interest and communicate what I want and what my intentions are through body language and being honest. Keep working on meeting people and working on your own seduction jour…
/r/seduction15/03/15 07:31 PM
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Read Mark Manson's Models
/r/seduction14/03/15 03:25 AM
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Read the side bar and read Models By Mark Manson READ MODELS BY MARK MANSON
/r/seduction01/03/15 12:00 AM
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I feel like this is a troll post. How many times he says she looks like Olivia Wild. And then thanks seddit for helping him make it to the "Alpha Club"
/r/seduction13/02/15 07:09 PM
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Everything is in the side bar!
/r/seduction09/01/15 04:11 AM
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What did your comment say? I can't see it. Maybe because I'm on mobile? But I agree with you. This and these sorry guys coming in not reading the side bar with the saddest story about how they were ignored by everyone all their life and "don't even know if it's worth trying". With every nice guy comment about just being happy and confidant. Basically sucking them off to make them feel better without any tough truth or direction to the side bar.
/r/seduction09/01/15 04:06 AM
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Did she say "that it could ruin our friendship"?
/r/seduction08/01/15 01:40 PM
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You missed the worth of his comment. You just to your own defense about something beside the point. From what I read about your original post this sounds like how you have explored pick up as well. Take your strong assets and throw them around expecting results. I think you may not have true confidence. Be open to all kinds of criticism and knowledge. Work on your inner game and read the book Models. As a musician myself I understand someone over the internet insulting something you take very pe…
/r/seduction07/01/15 04:51 AM
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I could never date a girl that would say that she would sleep with someone else. Not even as a joke. This community is not trp but get out before you get cheated on. A person doesn't deserve you if they don't respect you and that's about as disrespectful as it can be without her actually sleeping with another dude. Have self respect. Get out.
/r/seduction01/01/15 11:52 PM
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You can't just find rich Women. You need to immerse yourself in that demographic. And that doesn't mean become filthy rich, but find friends and activities that are in that demographic. Can I ask, why are you interested in rich women.
/r/seduction14/12/14 06:59 PM
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First off", or if I should even do it." Shit needs to stop right now. If you think you're going to give up its pointless to start cause this will be a long process that takes alot of work. The best advice anyone here can give you right now is to READ EVERYTHING IN THE SIDE BAR and read the book MODELS by Mark Manson. It's capitalized because they're the most important things you can do. Inner game needs to be your primary focus right now. You will never have any success until you are a truly con…
/r/seduction08/12/14 05:50 PM
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No. This is fine. It's about knowing who you are, being bold, and polarizing. It is not about feeding on people insecurities and mind games. If you think a girl is cute walk up with true confidence and let her know why you are interested in talking with her.
/r/seduction06/12/14 11:04 PM
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I don't claim to be anywhere in my post. I'm all for helping people and sharing ideas. Let's make sure this sub is about helping people and sharing ideas. Not shaming women that shouldn't give them their attention and blaming everything except themselves for where they don't want to be in life.
/r/seduction30/11/14 01:38 PM
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I like it. Mods..?
/r/seduction29/11/14 10:37 PM
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Their are many things you should do to become a more attractive man. Refer to the sidebar and seriously read the book Models by Mark Manson. It will give you the tools you need to be the attractive man that you are. And will help you naturally attract people and keep people attracted not with tricks but by working to be an attractive man. As for right now. Escalate. Boldly ask the questions you want to know the answers to. Ask to get coffee and truly learn about her and if you are attracted to h…
/r/seduction29/11/14 04:45 PM
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You're right. I usually always recommend Models over and over again. I'm still for down voting those types of helpless tell me it's not my fault post. It feels like they're not looking for answers or to be better but looking for someone to tell them it's out of their control and that they are the victim. But when I see posts "I'm working on x, any suggestions on other ways to look or work on x. Should I try y too? Why or why not?" I love it. It shows growth and desire to achieve. Or even someone…
/r/seduction29/11/14 04:09 PM
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Did that edit work? I'm on mobile so it's hard to tell.
/r/seduction29/11/14 03:34 PM
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You sound like a defeatist. You have put zero effort in to what you're trying to achieve and if you have you didn't mention it. I hear whining and excuses. Read the book Models by Mark Manson. Read it twice read it three times apply the steps laid out in that book. And if that doesn't work it means your not trying or you are actually helpless. I've never met anyone that is actually helpless just people to lazy to help themselves.
/r/seduction29/11/14 05:23 AM
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This one. I have no shame.
/r/seduction25/11/14 03:06 AM
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Models:Attract women through honesty By Mark Manson. Almost all questions in this sub can be answered by this book. It doesn't matter what your looking for. To sleep with many women or a relationship this will show you correct way to be honest about who you are and attract the right women for you.
/r/seduction15/11/14 04:02 PM
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Life is meaningless. I create my own meaning but I know it only has meaning because meaningful to me is a word we make up in an existence to make ourselves feel better. It's absurd to even think we can understand any of it. Actually kind of funny. And since it is meaningless xyz won't come along and shut you down cause it is all a big meaningless nothing. All my power to be confident comes from creating my own meaning while knowing that it's absurd to even try and thing I can understand this mea…
/r/seduction23/10/14 01:39 PM
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You need to read Models by Mark Manson. If you've read it already read it again and then read Think and grow rich. Models is known and a must read for anyone interested in "game". All those weaknesses you described you will end up useing to your advantage. I and the community can not stress this read enough.
/r/seduction20/10/14 03:40 PM
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Yep. That example is what I need to use. I have the self worth so I move on to the next. They always contact me after I don't text for a day or so. So the interest is their I was just trying to set up wrong. Should have seen this all along. Thanks for pointing it out for me!
/r/seduction08/10/14 09:27 PM
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Please do! Thanks
/r/seduction30/07/14 09:15 PM
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Best response I've read. But I'm still to much of a nice guy to say this. But best response here.
/r/seduction05/05/14 02:26 AM
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/r/seduction29/03/14 04:58 PM
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