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I’m that guy right now gonna be divorced by the end of the month it’s been a long year and I’m on the struggle bus… brought in the new year with my family and included her just because of the teenage boys and proper messaging, but what it did was just hurt me in the long run… she actually asked me if I was dating, which answered the questions that I wouldn’t ask regarding her… just have to believe after the 25 years together, 18 married that I will be fine on the other side.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/25 05:23 AM
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Last Xmas had unless we agree to some awkward shit, like me spending the nite on the couch to wake up with her and the soon to bex16 andx18 year old. The stbxw likes to still invite herself to my family gatherings. She's from another country, the one just north of the U.S. Haven't seen her family in 5 years as the tumult started then, most of it, NOT ALL, my fault. Nonetheless, she and the kids flew to FLA this morning. The divorce will be final in late January. I'm on the couch with key to cond…
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/24 10:44 AM
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It's all fucking painful.....
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/24 09:53 PM
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Exactly!!!!!
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/24 09:59 AM
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We all should feel like this!!
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/24 04:18 AM
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Good advice but it's gonna take a snails pace to get there.
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/23 11:59 AM
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Thank you my man...a daily grind. I know I'm a good dude. I gotta stop with the blame game and just move forward so that I can keep being getting better every day. Being in the mix of it sucks...trying to navigate without losing all of myself, which seems to be the biggest issue from within.
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/23 06:11 PM
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I am in the very beginning of the process and I’m beating myself up too. Therapy doesn’t seem like it gonna be enough. I created the family unit I didn’t have and now feel like I’ve torched it. She filed a month ago. I am a stranger in my own home, the home we built.17 years and 2 awesome kids later. I couldn’t sit still. High stress job hasn’t helped although I’ve helped her to achieve in her vocation at every turn. It is good to see I ain’t the only one, and I know it’s not all my fault but da…
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/23 01:42 AM
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