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But for guys, it seems like it's years of study trying to increase the probability to be attractive through social status, resources, behaviour, body language, fitness, clothes and style. Maybe here is your problem? Or part of it. There's no official statistics, but I'd guess that less than 10% of guys actually study seduction. It's not needed at all. And maybe, maybe... you've been reading about it for so long that you're trying too hard? Is this normal for my age? To be a kissless virgin aroun…
/r/seduction15/04/17 01:54 AM
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Not if you tell them in person. You should tell that to women here on Reddit. A lot of them are actually guys, but who cares?
/r/seduction12/04/17 03:02 AM
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Humans were born to be social Some. Introverts are literally born to not be very social. Being an introvert is not the same as being shy. People sometimes mix the terms. Shyness is much more common in extroverts. And even among extroverts, there are different levels of extroversion. The truth is that people are different, and there's no technique or mindset that is a good solution for everyone.
/r/seduction10/04/17 11:28 AM
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Yes, but here's the part that's hard to explain: It shouldn't look like you're touching her just to fulfill a seduction checklist. You do it because you're having fun and you're confident enough to use nonverbal signs to increment the conversation. Just like you do with male friends. There is probably touching between you, without the need to overanalyze it. You should do it because you're not afraid of her. But, unlike friends, you want more out of that.
/r/seduction04/04/17 07:02 PM
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She won’t cut your fingers if you touch her forearm If she does that, you know she's not the girl for you. ;P
/r/seduction04/04/17 04:38 PM
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Don't make it accidental. You don't want to look like the pervert that is "accidentally" touching girls. The purpose of kino is to show your intention. Edit: Also don't make it innocent. Everything but innocent! Friends make touches that are accidental and/or innocent. It sounds like you're almost apologizing for touching her. Get out of that mindset. Act like you're used to touching people. If you're walking somewhere, touch her to guide her. If she made a joke, push her away (not in a rude way…
/r/seduction04/04/17 03:19 PM
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Asking a lot of questions in a row is not very good. To that, I'd recommend you search around here about making statements intead of questions. You will find interesting material in this subreddit. But if you feel like the text conversation is not going well, just cut it short. It's better than making the other person feel bored WHILE TEXTING YOU. But if the conversation is going fine, don't let it stay on "friend stuff". You have to make it sexual, even if not explicitly. Some teases here and t…
/r/seduction03/04/17 01:22 AM
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"Not a chance" still is too formulaic for something as complex and varied as people.
/r/seduction03/04/17 01:17 AM
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Don't become her texting buddy... unless you want to. I become the "texting buddy" of every girl that I meet on Tinder, if we get past the first messages. 90% of them ended up having a date with me. And like almost half of them had sex with me. So I am against any hard rule like "never do this", because I do this and it's working. Do whatever works for you. Because, like anything in life, it depends on who you are, who you're doing it with, how good you are at it, etc. Maybe you don't have that …
/r/seduction02/04/17 05:25 AM
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Is it really the best answer? She didn't offer an answer on her own, which is bad. She ignored OP during that day. She had every answer to explain herself, but she didn't. In a world of instant communication, if you don't talk to someone is because you don't want to. Telling OP to go beg her for an explanation would really solve anything? It would only make it seem like OP was still thinking about it all this time, and that he cares about her more than she cares about him. This is playing games,…
/r/seduction29/03/17 10:31 AM
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Yeah, or the git police will come after him.
/r/seduction26/03/17 05:39 PM
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I'm being sincere, albeit brief. Here let me spell it out: get the fuck out of the house (and go do things, meet people.) sorry for all the butt hurt. I had to comment on this edit. It's not butt hurt, it's that you're stating the obvious in the most unhelpful way possible. Of course to meet people OP has to meet people. That is even implied in the question. It's almost like if someone asks "how do I get rich" and you answer "make a lot of money". Or "how do I stay healthy" and you answer "don't…
/r/seduction20/03/17 01:17 AM
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It's a range of ages almost as big as the range I've set in the app. I've set to find people from 26 to 40. But the oldest one I've met was 37. The youngest was 26.
/r/seduction20/03/17 12:39 AM
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Like vampires?
/r/seduction19/03/17 11:52 PM
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High school!
/r/seduction19/03/17 11:13 PM
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I'm in my mid 30s and I'm not having problems meeting people in Tinder. Maybe it depends on where you live.
/r/seduction19/03/17 11:12 PM
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That's the kind of blank statement that doesn't help at all.
/r/seduction19/03/17 11:11 PM
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But I thought it was cool. Yes, it would indeed be cool to have a 50/50 split in this sub. And most other things too. maybe this is just a giant bitching post. Between you and me, sometimes bitching is good for the soul. ;)
/r/seduction12/03/17 08:45 PM
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Also, in general, a girl trying to seduce another girl is different from a guy trying to seduce a girl. Obviously, not everyone is equal and there are exceptions. But in general...
/r/seduction12/03/17 05:01 PM
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And they still do post here. I see women posting here every day. You're looking at the past with rose colored glasses, it seems. It was never even close to 50% before (not that you claimed it was), and I don't think it has changed much (for better or worse).
/r/seduction12/03/17 04:59 PM
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appreciation for me I don't think you know what it means.
/r/seduction12/03/17 01:32 AM
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She's making you chase her like a depressing starved dog and there you go. Some people like being ignored, mistreated and humiliated. If that's your thing, that's your thing. No judgement here. Just be happy. But if it's not, stop chasing after her and licking her boots. If she never comes to you unless you call, find someone else. You're not her slave.
/r/seduction12/03/17 01:31 AM
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But what comment OP was talking about it that she's not what makes him happy. The ability to go after your chocolate ice cream no matter the odds is great, but he's running after the strawberry ice cream truck. OP gets bothered by her never initiating, and they don't even have a solid thing yet.
/r/seduction12/03/17 01:25 AM
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There's no such thing as an universal average height for men. We can calculate an average per country but even that changes over time. A website I found said the average in the US is 5'8". In England, 5'9". In Peru it's 5'4". In Russia it's 5'10".
/r/seduction11/03/17 12:44 AM
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This reply is still admitting it as a failure and asking what other failures she can point out in you. Also, it doesn't show you don't care, isn't funny, don't create opportunities to make fun of her, doesn't create a way to continue the conversation in a respectful way (you asked her to point your other failures and keep offending you). Also puts you in a defensive position. If there's something you do not want to be in a shit test is defensive. I wouldn't recommend.
/r/seduction10/03/17 01:09 PM
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I am going to assume you're American. That's the country with a culture in which people see themselves as a win/lose or success/failure, as if they were defined by the success rate of some actions they did or didn't take. You have to get rid of that mentality. Other people already said it, but look for professional help. There's no shame in it, like there's no shame in going to a doctor to fix a broken bone, for example. The problem here is not that you're not getting laid. There's something dee…
/r/seduction10/03/17 01:04 PM
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You shouldn't see women as "amazing". You should see them as people as interesting as men. In which I mean that not all of them are. Some are a little, etc. So... a woman might be as interesting as any other person, but you also have sex with them (if that's what your preferences are). There's nothing mystical about them.
/r/seduction10/03/17 12:46 PM
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If you already know it's all in the mind, what do you want to know with "why?". What neurons are firing and such? Because I think you already know about cultural influence and the different "tribes" of people. Normal people want you to be generally good-looking. Groups like hipsters and punks (lol) that talk about being different actually want you to look exactly like them, etc. But that's not really the how. I don't know how much the "how" will help you.
/r/seduction10/03/17 12:39 PM
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You're overthinking it.
/r/seduction09/03/17 01:26 PM
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I think that one is lost. You messed it up. But the great news is that the are a few billion other women on this planet. Yay! Not everyone on this sub shares my opinion, but I believe that Tinder (or any similar option) is good for practicing if you don't have experience. And when you're more confident you will be better at approaching people without getting drunk.
/r/seduction09/03/17 01:25 PM
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Semantics.
/r/seduction08/03/17 09:11 PM
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Yep. Do you actually know the difference between "could be" and "is"?
/r/seduction08/03/17 07:26 PM
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It's completely relative anyway. I don't see the point in 1-10 ratings. You could rate someone a 9/10 while your friend thinks she's a 6/10. Or between regions/countries. What an American thinks is 9/10 would be a 4/10 for a Brazilian probably.
/r/seduction08/03/17 06:51 PM
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"Could be" and "is" have different meanings. Look: You could be a millionaire. You could know what words mean.
/r/seduction08/03/17 06:48 PM
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"What do you mean I'm funny? Funny how? I mean funny like I'm a clown, I amuse you? I make you laugh, I'm here to fuckin' amuse you? What do you mean funny, funny how? How am I funny?"
/r/seduction26/02/17 03:13 AM
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I've done it more than once and it was never a problem. Maybe it depends if you sound insecure when saying that.
/r/seduction26/02/17 03:06 AM
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Maybe because you are indeed insecure.
/r/seduction26/02/17 03:03 AM
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If she has to take care of her sister, she has to take care of her sister. She's been seeing you, so she's interested in you. If you start to become a barrier between the girl and her sister, she might pick family over you and then you lose. Be a mature and supportive guy, even if sometimes things don't go as planned. It's a temporary situation, it seems.
/r/seduction24/02/17 03:50 PM
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Mirror pics are the only way I can have a picture of myself There's no one to take a picture of you?
/r/seduction08/02/17 07:20 PM
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Underpromise. Overdeliver.
/r/seduction30/01/17 08:17 PM
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TL;DR: OP is good-looking, doesn't realize that's why he's picking up girls easily and shares an assorted number of techniques.
/r/seduction29/01/17 04:23 PM
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This "always escalate" tip to me is like saying "score often" to someone that's a noob at soccer. This doesn't really help, because this will only create the "but how?" doubt in the guy's mind.
/r/seduction27/01/15 05:27 PM
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Regular sex with regular dicks will make someone tighter, if anything So... a woman that had regular sex for the last decade with average sized guys will be tighter than a virgin?
/r/seduction08/01/15 07:05 PM
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This proves you're not a nice guy.
/r/seduction21/06/12 11:04 PM
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