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| 158 | What happened to AskTRP and TRP? | bigmaddenguy | /r/askTRP | 22/11/19 12:14 AM | |
| 21 | Is cohabitation bad in ALL situations? | bigmaddenguy | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 01:54 AM | |
| 7 | Did I handle roommate being weird and touchy to LTR well? | bigmaddenguy | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 04:30 AM | |
| 1 | HS Reunion Coming Up and I've Changed A Lot. Share your similar experiences? | bigmaddenguy | /r/askTRP | 22/02/20 12:40 AM |
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| 1 | What happened to AskTRP and TRP?That's about the worst way to open a conversation on a dating app | /r/askTRP | 29/04/20 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else notice hot chicks blowing up into Fatty's/aging once they hit 23/24?I am. But she's gone to the gym 3-5x per week nearly every week for the last 3-4 years. Doesn't drink often. Uses skin care products every day. Eats very clean too. So she's low-risk to have the wall hit her like a bus--so hopefully mother nature doesn't fuck her (or she gets lazy). Lol | /r/askTRP | 26/03/20 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else notice hot chicks blowing up into Fatty's/aging once they hit 23/24?I mean, I do know how much individual people change in a year. But I don't think in 1 year 50% of the attractive girls I know will be fat or anything that's a bit drastic. But like I said, every year more and more of them do become fat. So in 3-5 years I could 100% buy it happening | /r/askTRP | 26/03/20 02:09 AM |
| 12 | Anyone else notice hot chicks blowing up into Fatty's/aging once they hit 23/24?Ehhh, I'm 22. Most girls I knew who were attractive at 18 are still attractive. A few here and there let themselves go. Can't imagine it'll change a whole lot just a few months from now. However, the point is true and just substitute in whatever age you think it happens at. Every year, I notice more and more formerly perfectly viable mates tanking themselves. It's only going to get worse as I age more. People just don't take care of themselves, for the most part. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/20 01:56 AM |
| 17 | Anyone else notice hot chicks blowing up into Fatty's/aging once they hit 23/24?my current LTR is 35 (leave your dumbass post-wall comment below). She is a nutritionist, and has always eaten a healthy balanced diet. She looks closer to 26-27 because of her lifestyle. If all women took care of themselves like that, women would be hotter and the dating field would be much bigger Actually I'll leave a comment that's the opposite of that. Good on you dude. Aging happens to every girl, so it's great to at least get one who keeps herself up. I'm nearing 23 and my LTR is the same … | /r/askTRP | 26/03/20 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Isn't it to build a website for Red pill in Reddit form with great SEO?You'd probably be able to make a lot of money if you set up a good website for it yourself. Food for thought. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/20 05:56 PM |
| 5 | Did you used to be nervous around high smv people, how did you stop being nervous?I used to be really nervous around high SMV people. Then I became one. Now I'm not. The key to not feeling nervous is feeling like you fit in. Like those are your peers, not people to impress. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/20 08:25 PM |
| 0 | Dating someone within your financial bracketYou don't need to date within your economic bracket. My LTR is pretty rich--my parents are broke. It doesn't matter. Considering her money at all is stupid. I live without that in my worldview altogether. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/20 08:24 PM |
| 14 | Guys in LTRs, have you at any time allowed your girl to see you being "lazy"?What? Girls know you're human. There's a difference between "taking a break" and living laziness as a lifestyle, though. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/20 08:21 PM |
| 2 | What do people talk about when with the person they're hooking up with vs when in a relationship?Hook-up: Keep it light, surface-level, maybe tell a personal story or two to humanize yourself. LTR: Much more about the inner workings of my mind, deeper things, projects I'm working on, goals I have, ideas I thought, etc.... but still remember to be fun too. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/20 10:28 PM |
| 3 | Everyone thought I broke up and started hitting on my ltr like crazy. She's an hb 9. Does this convey disrespect or are those guys simply thirsty?This is the most completely unsurprising post I've ever seen. My LTR is a HB8 (because I'm not like most on here inflating their own girl's value... could yours really be a famous model?) and she gets hit on a ton. Just how it works. If you don't want that, settle for someone lesser. Top tier females are swarmed by male attention. Every guy wants them. This is life if you're with one. I've lost countless friends and acquaintances because they over-stepped some sort of boundary for our relationsh… | /r/askTRP | 29/01/20 10:26 PM |
| 1 | I thought woman prefer muscle.Women's real ideal is none of these. Think more like Zack Efron. A is too roided out. B is still too roided out. C is too unbalanced--asymmetrical and top heavy. D has too much fat. E and F are gross. If you blended C and D, thats really your answer. Being that cut but with D's level of muscle and symmetrical looking body. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/20 09:05 PM |
| 3 | What should be the answer to "rating women is objectifying them" shittest?Was going to reply. Saw this comment. Don't need to. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/20 09:00 PM |
| 1 | If you want an LTR, you pretty much have to ignore some red flags, right? Which ones do you ignore?It's good... for a plate. It just shows she's sexually deviant and unafraid to express it. Lots of straight girls will do threesomes--they won't claim they're bi and make out with chicks. A large component of being "bi" as a girl just means you like to put on a show with your female friends at parties for male attention. Red flag. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/20 07:48 PM |
| 1 | If you want an LTR, you pretty much have to ignore some red flags, right? Which ones do you ignore?Good additions. Overlooked most of these because I'm 22 and just finished college so "divorced," "single mom," aren't exactly in my demographics yet. I will say, though, "feminist" I agree on being a red flag. But it's one I don't think is an automatic disqualifier. The reason being there are types of feminists. If she is a staunch, I-hate-men kind, then yes, agreed. But some girls are just brought up around it, hold loose values, and call themselves "feminist." These ones require some re-condit… | /r/askTRP | 29/01/20 07:47 PM |
| 20 | If you want an LTR, you pretty much have to ignore some red flags, right? Which ones do you ignore?The higher value you are, the more selective you can be. The smaller your dating pool is, too, though. You will have to accept more or less red flags based on who you are--try to have the least. While I don't think I can give you a list of which ones are "okay," here's some that shouldn't be (at least they aren't to me) okay: - Huge body count or generally slutty behavior. - Useless. I.e. can't cook, doesn't work, pampered princess. - Mental illness - Low libido (for you) - Bisexual I'm sure I'm… | /r/askTRP | 29/01/20 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Doesn’t TRP adopt women’s view of men?Only the customer's opinion matters. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/20 07:47 PM |
| 1 | My dad cheated on my mom and now asks for my adviceHmm. I see it came across that way. The difficult part for me in providing an answer is that I had an LTR and had sex with others, and always just owned it—without framing it negatively. It worked quite well. But I am 22, and that was when I was 20. Adapting how I dealt with things to this situation was kind of difficult to articulate, since the stakes for this man are much higher and different. For me, denying made no sense. It worked better not to. His situation is different, though. I think o… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/20 02:32 PM |
| 2 | My dad cheated on my mom and now asks for my adviceWhere did I say to frame it as something wrong? I said to own it. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/20 01:59 AM |
| 4 | Thought I was adding a body last night until....If you're going 80-90% on first dates from dating apps, we're in similar boats so take my opinion with a grain of salt. But sometimes equals can learn from each other, so give it a thought. I don't like to escalate intensely (like making out) while on a date unless I'm in a place I can fuck her. I let the tension ride out, and allow that plausible deniability. If you've made out with her and invite her back, what does this tell her? You want to fuck. There is little denying that. What do girls w… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 11:08 PM |
| 26 | are red pilled men becoming more common or less?If you're really living TRP, nobody should be able to tell you're "RP." At best, if someone wrote about you on here, they'd say you're "a natural with some BP tendencies." The RPers you'll find irl are not the ones who embody it. Source: Nobody in my life would identify me with TRP. My best friend, I believe, is RP based on comments he makes here and there and generally agreeing with my REAL opinions--and he knows who Chad is. But even then, I only know that much because he is my BEST FRIEND, an… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Abundance questionIt's never been easier because the competition sucks now. Most men are beta, even the "good-looking" ones. Have an ounce of game and you're golden. And yes, they are mostly not competition. Here's the thing. Only a few of them are actually your competition. And today, it's not like "the best man will win." No, she'll just fuck all of them. You and your competition alike. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 10:53 PM |
| 2 | My dad cheated on my mom and now asks for my adviceAgreed on the last bit. Even the words "cheating" fuck the frame of the argument. "Cheating" means it wasn't fair, like it was "against the rules." I had an LTR and had sex with lots of other girls (she knew), and I never referred to it as cheating. Not how I saw it. Who was I cheating? Not my girl, not the other girl, nobody was being "cheated." They were all getting their needs met. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 08:41 PM |
| 3 | How to constantly succeed on Tinder?Here's how it goes for me..... I have what I consider a really strong looks-pull ratio on Tinder. First, maximize your profile. If you're a 5, you need to look like a 6 on Tinder. 6 should look like a 7, etc. This is done with a well-edited, well-lit main photo. Other photos populating the account should be interesting. You doing things. Ever spoke to an audience? PLEASE have a picture. Gone exotic places? PLEASE have pictures. Hot female friends? You get the idea. Now for messaging... Opener: c… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 08:33 PM |
| 2 | How to constantly succeed on Tinder?Don't tell people to start with "hey." That is the worst starter there is. Be interesting. It's not real life. "Hey" works in real life. I guess. I don't do that even in real life. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on steroids during college?You can do this all without steroids. Why don't you think you can get a 9 without steroids, what the fuck? Steroids help, and some of the things they do to your mind are helpful for beginners to feel for once. But it's hardly a solution to all your issues. I've done SARMs, and I liked what they did. But everything I did on SARMs I can also do off of them. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys ever hit up plates late at nightIsn't this the point of plates? | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Amount of dating app matches plummeted after turning 36. Should I lie about my age?Honestly, re-make it to be 28 or so. Put in your bio "FB account malfunctioned, actually 36." They don't actually care about your age--it's your look. What they want to avoid is all the men at 36, so they set their age-range. If they could screen out the ones who aren't in shape and hot, they would certainly not deny the ones they would still call hot. If you fit the part, they'll still right-swipe you, and then you wouldn't have had to lie. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Anyone have any tips for presentations/ talking in front of groups of peopleThe best tip is to just have fun with it. Honestly. I love presentations and the nerves it makes me feel. Think of it like approach anxiety, and going in for the kill. That's a nerve-wracking process, but it's fun as fuck, no? Same thing. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Abundance questionI've got a task for you. Make a fake profile as a girl who's close enough to you to let you. Tell her you just want to do an experiment and won't message anyone. If you have no one, find a lesser-known actress or something. Now, get to swiping. At first, you will be amazed. Wow, seems like everyone likes you! You must have life easy, if you were actually this person! Now, wait a couple days. Don't check any of the messages. Let's say 3 days... maybe 4. Check back in and read every single message… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 08:05 PM |
| 1 | [24M] Need some advice on my Personal SMV (Only Visual) and the best Tinder PicsDon't inflate your age. You want to be young as possible on Tinder, fuck what people here say. I get hotter bitches than them on Tinder anyways. At my college the most popular age range to set is 18-24, so by definition, if you inflated your age at all you'd be taking yourself out of the running for some hot girls. You aren't good enough looking for Tinder, imo. You groom very well, which is nice. But girls will see through that, and they just frankly want hotter guys on Tinder. If you have a ni… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 07:54 PM |
| 3 | if girls like bad boys should I act like one?First-hand experience, no. It's stupid. Not going into what I've done, but definitely illegal things. Pretty illegal. I'm smart enough to stay out of prison, and got out of doing "bad" things a couple years ago now. But I have a streak to me that loves that shit. It's still there but mostly curbed now. You will do better just living your life the best way possible. I get more pussy because I attend a top college, lift, have good game and frame, interesting conversationalist, than I ever did beca… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 07:50 PM |
| 5 | Less attracted to LTRThis is what an LTR is, ultimately. You either want an LTR or you want your pick of the litter. Alternatively, you could try to do both. To pull it off successfully long-term, this requires a certain level of skill. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 07:44 PM |
| 5 | My dad cheated on my mom and now asks for my adviceEveryone says deny, but I'd like to know what these people do once backed into a corner. You can only deny so long. Personally, I'd tell him to hold a TIGHT frame. Have him tell her, and have him tell her like it's not a big deal. After all, it was years ago. Don't fucking let him mention he's telling her because she might find out elsewhere soon. He needs to say, "I did this thing that might hurt you. I apologize, but at the time, it was what I wanted to do. I cannot change that. What I have al… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 07:42 PM |
| 7 | How do you handle getting caught cheating? Can we get a thread with your experiences and how you handled it? In different scenarios also, online and in person.Some will say deny, and for some, that's probably the right answer. Personally, I just choose to own my shit with anything I do "wrong." The trick is to never believe you did wrong. "I made the best decision at the time with the information and decision-making skills I had" should be your mindset. As far as what to say to an LTR if you get caught, I tend to lean towards things similar to, "Yeah, I did. What's the issue? You're my #1 girl. Who cares? Do you care because you think you should care?… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Trying to have sex with this old friend of mine, but she has a serious relationship.Do whatever you want, commit to it, and own it | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 07:28 PM |
| 5 | How do you prevent friends from mogging you?To be fair, I will not lie: I have a good-looking face. That definitely helps. I think there's a limit to how far only game and frame can take you relative to your own LMS, too. But I will say, accounting for body, face, the whole package. My status is 0 besides attending a prestigious university--came from poor household, kicked from my fraternity, not many "real" friends. My money is 0--okay, I have a little saved, but are girls really gushing over my $5,000 that I don't spend on them anyways?… | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 12:34 PM |
| 1 | you can go to the gym every day and lift, but whats the point of this if you are still blue pilled and weak in the mind?Personally think it's overrated. Been fit, been not fit, been places in between. Tend to succeed most when my verbal game is at its best. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 09:35 AM |
| 1 | I'm about to break Iron Rule of Tomassi #7It can work, but you have to be a certain type of person. By asking this question, I feel you are not. You really need to be in complete control of yourself, logical, high value, and scarce to her. And willing to ensure that NEVER changes. I don't believe you can do that right now, personally, but fuck, man, you can try. Prove me wrong. I hardly know you anyways. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Should one, under any circumstances, reveal to a girl that he isn't much wealthy?Own your shit. View everything as a choice and part of who you are, on your will. Repeat this 10x in your head: "Everyone in America has enough money to at least eat and have shelter; I am making the conscious choice to spend my time and effort in areas that don't lead to having material goods. This is what I want out of life, and I only want girls who accept that." Believe it. Live it. Create your frame. Girls will fall into it. Some girls will deny you because of your lack of wealth, but you d… | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Do guys with no game and no "friend game" have similar underlying issues that cause both problems?Yes and no in my experience. For some, I can see this being the case. For me, I have a weird relationship with the topic. Wasn't popular in middle and high school. Got made fun of. Was known as being weird and not normal. Shit did a number on my self-esteem and confidence. Didn't have a kiss all of school until college, didn't really come close to one either. Grinded on a girl like one time--that was it. Went to college. Slowly started to do really well with women. Realized even back in my earli… | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 09:04 AM |
| 1 | She wants to fuck in the dark and not undress completely, what to do?Lmao. This has happened to me only twice, good memories. Ironically both were among the hottest girls I've fucked. First one happened when I was a bit beta. To this day don't know how I'd rate my own response, but it came out naturally and worked very well. Ended up getting the girl to do literally anything sexually I wanted and she was pretty hot. We fucked for a long time. Anyways, we were about to fuck, and she asked for the lights to be turned off. I said something like, "No. Look, I put in … | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Any TRP movies or TV shows out there..?Every time I see these posts I recommend The Last American Virgin. Please watch it. It is a beautiful example of TRP. Edit: Also, in a weird way, Star Trek. Not in the sexual strategy way of TRP (in most episodes--some do have hints of RP sexual tendencies) but in that Captain Kirk is the definition of an Alpha leader American Chad hero type who demands respect and receives it. The Kirk character is following his mission to the definition of it. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 08:43 AM |
| 2 | How to apply red pill with managers and executives who expect you to work weekends with no pay or time off like a little bitchTell them no. You're not required to work for free. Doubt it's anywhere in your contract or anything. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 08:36 AM |
| 1 | friend out of nowhere ghosted his LTR, what's RP intake on that way of breaking up?May be a reason he doesn't wish to disclose. Understandable if so. May just be being a dick. And I'm not sure how anyone can say this isn't an asshole move in an actual LTR, if it's actually for no reason. That's pretty cold. Be a human. Either way, it's not your relationship, and you'll never know exactly what happened. Just mind your business and pretend she never existed. It's his choice how he wants to handle his relationships. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 08:34 AM |
| 1 | DHV stories vs braggingDepends on your frame of mind and social tact, I think. Are these stories actually interesting and relevant to the conversation? If so, it's just being an interesting person and conversationalist. If it's being forced in to focus the conversation on yourself, it's more likely bragging. I'm not sure about you, but the older I get, the more I can innately feel the difference in myself when I speak. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 08:28 AM |
| 2 | I Don't Have Sexual Attraction Towards A Potential LTR WomanYou internally know there's more out there, and your body is telling you to pursue it. You're new to having new pussies. You'll tire of new pussy eventually, as most do. To a degree. Even now I like it now and then. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 08:20 AM |
| 1 | When vetting a girl for potential promotion (plate to FWB to LTR) how long would you tolerate talking to other guys?Once we've had sex, I expect no sex with other guys. That shows she's okay with fucking two guys at once. Red flag for the future. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 08:18 AM |
| 2 | Mindset to stop basing self-worth on womenLighten up. It's not a big deal. When you can internalize this, you will see its value. Takes the pressure off and sends the right signals. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 08:14 AM |
| 1 | “She’s not yours, it’s just your turn” is a BS mindsetRegardless of who is the prize, the statement still stands. "She is not yours--it's just your turn." Even if you ARE the prize, is she then yours? Can you then have her forever? Well, no. Because other guys are also the prize (maybe a bigger one), monogamy is boring, etc, etc. The two concepts are really unrelated. You are the prize means value yourself and your time--which you should. It means stop putting up with her shit when the juice isn't worth the squeeze. "It's just your turn" recognizes… | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 08:06 AM |
| 2 | What's TRP's stance on non-TRP with great relationships?Value on the sexual marketplace is relative rather than absolute. A natural born Chad has no value next to Brad Pitt and Leonardo DiCaprio. Similarly, if a girl believes she is a 5 (irrelevant to her "actual" rating) and her guy is a "6" in her eyes (again, irrelevant to how desirable he actually is), then she believes this is a catch and a good deal. People are self-serving creatures. They will not put in effort to acquire things they do not deem to have value. If she is putting in effort to ac… | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 08:03 AM |
| 1 | How do you covertly let your plates know you are also seeing other girlsAllow it to be who you are as a person. I'm quite smooth as a person, which subtly tells girls "he has done this before," to the point where I get girls asking if they're just another girl to me, if I'm a player, if they'll ever see me again, etc. If I suggest a time to hang out and the girl counters, usually I am busy with someone else. What do you think they think I'm doing? I never say it, never deny it, never comment on it. It is just me as a person, and girls can tell. Let yourself embody i… | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 07:58 AM |
| 2 | How many dates with no sex until you stop taking them on dates?In college, where girls are at their sluttiest. Others' experience will differ. My policy: If the girl is eh looking, she's only getting an invite directly over. She's probably not getting a second "date" anyways, so it's then or never. If the girl is anything other than my ideal in appearance BUT she has a good personality I don't mind spending time with, I don't mind up to 3 or so. Had this happen with one girl--we studied together for a class, it was actually okay and helpful studying wise, s… | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 07:52 AM |
| 4 | Cold approaching in collegeDon't cold approach in college. Meet girls naturally--there are plenty. If you do approach, keep it to parties or an occasional girl who strikes your eye. Warm approach tons of girls. By warm approach, I mean getting to know them slowly--chat in class here and there, actively participate, join clubs, have friends who know girls, etc--and then go for the kill. This will be much more effective. Source: Fucked about 30 girls in college while maintaining an LTR simultaneously and not cold approachin… | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 07:37 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with beta male friends that bug you to set them up with hot female friends?They're lazy. Get new friends | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 07:34 AM |
| 4 | Do girls care if you do roids? Or they just care about the end result?Own your shit. It does not fucking matter what you do if you own it. Don't go out of your way to tell her, but let's say she finds out. "Yeah, I'm on steroids, you like the end result though, so who cares." All you need to say. Don't break frame and backtrack--that's when your actions actually matter. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 07:31 AM |
| 3 | How do you prevent friends from mogging you?Let's take a look here... He's better looking or taller than you or something. That means, in that area, he wins. He has that over you. For girls who are looking for that, they will go for him. Nothing you can do. You probably wouldn't have gotten those girls anyways. Now think. In what ways can you be better than him? You can get that over him. Girls who are looking for what you have to offer will go for you, rather than him. Girls aren't entirely superficial. Also, having friends with value on… | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 07:28 AM |
| 2 | Should Men Follow a Dualistic Mating StrategyWhy not have a hot girl for companionship, and also fuck hot bitches on the side too? | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 07:23 AM |
| 3 | Should Men Follow a Dualistic Mating StrategySpoken like a true incel. Feminine energy is fun to be around, for those of us who girls actually like | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 07:23 AM |
| 4 | Intimidated by big MILFS?This is hilarious I hope this is a troll post tho lmao | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 07:21 AM |
| 1 | For those that are in LTR or getting married, what’s your relationship like from a TRP POV?Mighty talk from a dude who's never banged above a 6 lmao | /r/askTRP | 09/01/20 02:50 PM |
| 1 | For those that are in LTR or getting married, what’s your relationship like from a TRP POV?Shut the fuck up lol. What kind of dumbass comment is this? Stop being an online virgin. How the fuck is she going to have social media I don't know about | /r/askTRP | 09/01/20 02:25 AM |
| 2 | How are HB9s and HB10s different than your 7s . Do you game them differently?True and false. I've been on here for a few years on an old account and had people DM me for advice, which ultimately led to me knowing what they and their girls looked like. There's definitely people banging pretty hot girls in here, though I suspect many aren't. Most people on top of the hierarchy wouldn't have tons of time for this, correct. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 09:59 PM |
| 1 | For those that are in LTR or getting married, what’s your relationship like from a TRP POV?Yeah, I'm not an idiot I know how it reads. Luckily I live in real life and not on an internet forum. You have fun with your 6s that have never lived a day in their life... I'll take a solid 9 who's pretty dedicated to me. To me, the line between her flaws and where they'd actually be an issue is in entertaining men's interest. She doesn't do that. Doesn't even have social media. Doesn't go out solo. On the other hand I fuck other girls frequently. If you think you can find better... be my guest… | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 07:06 PM |
| 1 | What are your biggest red pills - not about women - but about life?Life isn't fair. Get used to it. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Meeting people after universityRelatable since I finished school. Guess it's time to get a life | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Why don't men use dual mating strategy?Lots of people who are capable do do this. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 02:44 AM |
| 2 | Is women's hypergamy situational or purely based on sexual value?Hypergamy can come into play many different ways. If she's seeking a BB, there may be a better BB. If she's seeking an Alpha, there may be a bigger Alpha. If she's with a BB, she may seek an Alpha if her mind has changed on what she wants. Same in reverse. It just means women, like anyone, have a tendency to seek out positive traits they aren't currently receiving. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 02:42 AM |
| 5 | For those that are in LTR or getting married, what’s your relationship like from a TRP POV?Pretty good in most ways, could improve in some others. The good: - She's really fucking hot. Hottest girl in most venues, which both reflects well on me and makes things more fun. - Great sex drive. Been with her 3 years now and anytime I want sex I can have it, even if she's sick, tired, etc. It doesn't matter. - Fun personality. Most people who know her say she's the rare girl with a funny personality. Makes for good times and fun trips, etc. Keeps life interesting. - Shows she cares about me… | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 02:37 AM |
| 4 | Been going out to game with two of my friends for a year, notice something about girls they attract, is it their vibe or their looks?I think it's looks, which contributes to vibes. I've always noticed certain appearances of women tend to be a lot more enthusiastic about me myself. For me, it's mostly eastern European looking girls, and girls with small boobs. I don't know how much merit there is to it, but I've always thought girls with bigger boobs don't go for me because I'm not that jacked. People do like to go for people who look similar to themselves. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Is it better to have less attractive plates than no plates at all?Not exactly the experience I've had. It helps me get attractive girls, but more average ones have always been scared off. I think I don't provide a lot of comfort. I've had a (what would be called here) HB9 LTR for 3 years but have plates on the side now and then. Average girls run lol, but I've hooked up with a fair share of attractive ones. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Letting LTR go outShe should be doing that herself. In my situation, I used "hit on" loosely. Mostly, these guys just tried desperately to get her attention or would just try to start dancing with her out of nowhere, and she'd dismiss it. If she's entertaining it, that's not really who you want as an LTR. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Letting LTR go outIt is in today's society. Women get hit on when they go out. Inevitably, they will be drunk, and not every one will be super beta. If she doesn't cheat, a kiss or something is practically unavoidable. You ever seen girls who "have boyfriends" while they're out? | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Letting LTR go outI've been with her three years, that never happens. One guy here and there, normally. I think the deal with NYE was that everyone was super drunk at the bar, since it provided a lot of free and discounted alcohol--as well as being a large venue with an admission for a big event. It would make sense everyone super drunk would hit on the hottest girl in the venue, which she pretty much always is. And by hit on, I don't mean we stopped and had full conversations with these dudes. I mean they either… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Does sliding into DMs ever work?It's worked for me very well when I have a previous connection to the girl, even if it's a loose one such as a class together where we only talked a little. Haven't tried straight up cold DMing. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 01:41 AM |
| 5 | So close to becoming Chad - how to create good social circle without social media? Or do I get it again?Not true. No tons of slayers below 6'. Depends what you mean by Chad though, I guess. The absolutely idealized male includes height, yes. A top tier male doesn't necessarily. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Buying a house with a friend at 23Buy one for half the cost yourself | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 01:33 AM |
| 5 | Is it better to have less attractive plates than no plates at all?This checks out. An added caveat, though not necessarily relevant to the question at hand: if your pre-selection is too strong, lessers will disqualify themselves from you as well. A 6 wouldn't dare make a move on a guy with a 9, and ime, may even reject him based on that. They don't want to feel like your cum rag, which is the implication. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Is it better to have less attractive plates than no plates at all?Personal preference, no "right" answer. I don't like wasting my time, so I don't. But it's not like I think I am "above" it. If I enjoyed putting my time towards that, I'd do it. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 01:30 AM |
| 3 | How do you know if you're a high or low value man?If you ask, you aren't. If you know you are, you are. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 01:29 AM |
| 9 | Letting LTR go outLetting her go out and drink is equivalent to letting her fuck other guys. If she's attractive enough that you'd date her, she's attractive enough to be swarmed with attention at any nighttime venue. Source: even while with my LTR on NYE, she got hit on 7 times. And that's with me there. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 01:28 AM |
| 6 | How to deal with family views on marriage?A roommate of mine didn't want to get a cat recently. His GF wanted him to, so he was going to. His Mom told him he can't, so he didn't. Don't be like him. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/20 03:58 AM |
| 1 | To RP guys with a substantial amount of girlfriend experience, which of these predicaments is worse?Just clarifying: I didn't mean perspective two to sound like a unicorn... more like a nerdy girl who enjoys staying in, reads a lot, never goes out or drinks, cooks for you daily, etc. And is below your league so she has no choice but to submit. Those girls do exist. I think the unicorn part is when people think both girl 1 and girl 2 can be all one... which is nearly nonexistent. Regardless, good luck brother. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/20 05:13 PM |
| 2 | To RP guys with a substantial amount of girlfriend experience, which of these predicaments is worse?There's two ways to think about this depending on the kind of person you are. Here's perspective one. Relationships and the sex within them already get kind of stale as it is. You want to be with someone who, despite having fucked for the 1000th time, you're still pretty attracted to. You want the ideal girl if you're going to limit yourself to one. And for this kind of person, looks are a big deal in that. If she's not your ideal appearance, she can be perfect in every other way, and it just wo… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/20 07:36 AM |
| 15 | Anyone ever meet someone who was way too natural / present?Yes, maybe that time they seemed confident--but I assure you, just like you or I, they are human too. And this means that they are not always confident. That is inhuman. But that's just being pedantic. I get what you mean. People who score very high on the confidence scale, is it natural or learned? I would say both. I assume you're asking because you want that, and want to know if you can achieve it yourself. But that's pretty ironic. That kind of confident person would know they could do it, b… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/20 07:26 AM |
| 64 | Anyone ever meet someone who was way too natural / present?There's a lot of nuance to consider... Firstly, you're only seeing these confident people in the environments wherein they're confident. Let's pretend (whether or not you or I actually agree) Donald Trump is exactly this. Put Donald Trump in the most gang infested hood of Compton. Is he that guy anymore? No. Extreme example, but everyone has a situation where they're not comfortable. Some people have more, some people have less, but everyone has them. As for why some people have so few, most lik… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/20 06:28 AM |
| 3 | I struggle to find interesting girlsYou have only been downvoted before I found this comment but you know what you're talking about. My current LTR is an 8.5 my scale and does improv, theater, and has been in a movie (very small role). My other favorite plate was a 7.5/8 who majored in theatre (met in college) and has appeared on Broadway since. A few of my friends and I have a running joke that "no women are funny, except whoever bigmaddenguy is with." But, yes, they can be a handful. Very witty girls, which means they can get th… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/20 06:19 AM |
| 2 | I struggle to find interesting girlsI agree and disagree. There are interesting girls imo, but it seems like coping to say you're sexually attracted to that. That's not attractive. Interesting girls are my friends. Hot and interesting girls are who I want to date/plate. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/20 06:10 AM |
| 2 | I struggle to find interesting girlsThis sounds like anger phase. Tons of girls are interesting. Honestly girls make better company than guys a lot of the time. They do more, have more active social lives, more connections, etc. You're not talking to them right if you don't think they can be interesting--even if it's a "lure," you should be above lures, and find amusement in them. Now, if you want to argue girls are not funny... Have at it. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/20 06:08 AM |
| 3 | I struggle to find interesting girlsYou're probably not interesting. An engineer saying girls aren't interesting? Engineers are nerds. Lead the conversation to an interesting place if you want her to be interesting. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/20 06:04 AM |
| 3 | To RP guys with a substantial amount of girlfriend experience, which of these predicaments is worse?I don't really understand the question. My girlfriend has tiny A Cups despite being kind of tall, and she's still hotter than 97% of females. Is she not hot outside of this? If not, then you have a genuine issue. If you don't feel attracted, that's a red flag long-term. Now, if she's hot, and you're just itching for what she doesn't have essentially, then this is retarded. You pick the higher quality girl for an LTR. Maybe she has huge tits, maybe she has no tits. Who knows. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/20 06:03 AM |
| 1 | At what point did you truly feel like your paradigms shifted and aligned with TRP teachings?Took me a few years. From experience a lot of people share this timeframe, if they ever feel like they "make it." | /r/askTRP | 05/01/20 05:45 AM |
| 2 | Is TRP anti-LTR?You made a bad choice. Best you can do is make the best of it. Maybe get a little flirty with other girls, even if you don't fuck them. The energy from that will seep into your interactions with your wife, possibly reinvigorating interest. Bonus points if you slyly/subtly hint at what you're doing. (Keyword: subtly) | /r/askTRP | 05/01/20 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Are married women who refuse to take their husband's last name more likely to cheat on them?This is fine. My last name sucks. I would like a different one. It's still your frame. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/20 12:37 PM |
| 2 | Are married women who refuse to take their husband's last name more likely to cheat on them?Also if the guy's last name sucks. This exists. I have an abysmal last name and would love to change it, but haven't actually taken the steps to do so. I am against marriage, though, so it'll never be in that context. Were I to marry, though, I wouldn't really oppose that--in fact, I'd likely suggest it. It would still be my frame. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/20 12:35 PM |
| 2 | Are married women who refuse to take their husband's last name more likely to cheat on them?If you scroll up (or maybe down) you'll see I relate to this situation. It's very real and people overlook it. In my case, I desire a public career, and my last name is difficult to pronounce, and at the end of the alphabet. I am against marriage, but if I did marry, I would take either my mom's maiden name or my partner's last name, depending which I thought sounded better with my first name. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/20 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Are married women who refuse to take their husband's last name more likely to cheat on them?To be fair, you overlook that this can have uses practically. The men you describe likely aren't that case, though. Disclaimer: I am against marrying and will never do so. However, these were my thoughts at a younger age on the matter. My last name fucking sucks. I am the only person in America with it, it's at the end of the alphabet, and hard to pronounce--and yes, I am white. In my opinion, it is almost as bad of a last name as you can get. I have thought many times about changing my last nam… | /r/askTRP | 04/01/20 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Is sex the ultimate value that makes a girl cling on to a guy? Or is it game/LMS?Depends on girl. But I think game/LMS will work more on lesser experienced girls and good dick on more experienced girls. Reason being: girl who's never experienced great sex can be pleased by game/LMS, and not know what she's otherwise missing. Also, speaking from experience, even dudes who aren't good at sex can be good at it now and then. But a girl who has fucked lots of dudes isn't going to settle for nightly missionary. That will bore her. Of course, some girls will veer out of these categ… | /r/askTRP | 03/01/20 05:55 PM |
| 13 | The Art of Not Giving a Fuck: How do you achieve the psychological aspect?For me, just letting my autistic self get repeatedly rejected and trial-and-erroring until I did pretty well. Once I got my first truly hot GF I stopped giving a fuck about everyone else and fucked lots of girls, except I pedestalized her a bit admittedly. That relationship ended, then I fucked hotter girls than her (realistically, probably equally hot), realized she too was replaceable, then I gave a fuck about no one. Key is abundance. Realizing anything you can get once you can get twice. Rea… | /r/askTRP | 03/01/20 05:51 PM |
| 2 | What are some popular things from TRP that you dislike or disagree with?I don't know. I think that you need to be at a certain level. If you're not at a passable level, then yes, that will trump all else. And at a certain level, your personality won't matter. But for anyone in the 50-90th percentiles, where average meets good looking, other factors can be more important. And if you lift, you'd have to be an ugly motherfucker not to at least be in the 50th percentile. And I saw your picture--you could definitely get females, with a good personality. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 08:14 PM |
| 5 | What are some popular things from TRP that you dislike or disagree with?you are plenty attractive enough to get good pussy quit being autistic | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 08:04 PM |
| 2 | What are some popular things from TRP that you dislike or disagree with?As a good looking guy (will DM pics if you'd like proof), I don't think everyone is as delusional to believe their genetics have nothing to do with it. But as a former autist, I think it's also delusional to think only looks matter. You really do need both, game and looks. And most people can reach a level of looks that women find passable, though it does take more effort for some. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 07:54 PM |
| 11 | What are some popular things from TRP that you dislike or disagree with?Fully agree here. No ego stroke I was born with a nice face. I've been everything from skinny fat, chubby, and pretty in shape (body fat starting to reveal abs, benching 250 at 5'9", etc). The thing is, my results have only been mildly better from my worst shape to my best shape. Maybe if I had been ugly while smaller I'd have seen more positive results improving myself. But as of now I am not in that great of shape compared to what I'd like to be (really busy semester--graduating, applying to j… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 07:50 PM |
| -4 | What are some popular things from TRP that you dislike or disagree with?Men don't fucking peak in SMV at 35. Maybe they can get the most mates because the widest range of fuckable women are available to them (25-45 mostly) but I don't give a shit how many 5s a dude can fuck. If we want to talk who is getting the HOTTEST, HIGHEST SMV as a GROUP, then it's definitely mid-20s men. Maybe even 22 y/o men. The hottest women are undeniably somewhere in the ballpark of 21. Who do 21 y/o women fuck? Men who are about their age or maybe a little older. I am 21 and know hot gi… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Recently I've been seeing a lot of hair playingThat's usually apparent, though. It'll be accompanied by fidgety behaviors or stuttering or something. It's not like I view eyes in isolation. But for a novice to get an understanding of how it works, I feel that what people do with their eyes is the most easily observed and telling, to begin to get a grasp. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Recently I've been seeing a lot of hair playingMany consider this an IOI, but honestly, it's one I seldom notice or pick up on in a meaningful way. The best IOI, to me, has always been eye contact. In a lot of different ways. Does she look at you while you're looking another way, but you happen to see her do it out of the corner of your eye? Interest. If you're talking, does she hold really intense eye contact with you? Interest. If someone makes a joke, does she look at you to see if you laughed? Interest. Will she smile while making eye co… | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 03:52 PM |
| 2 | How to handle 2 plates knowing each-other?You can play things out with both and hope for the best. Might go fine, might kill them both off. I couldn't really tell you how it'll play out. If you want to play it safe, picking the better one is kind of fail-proof. Then, if the better one finds out, it'll just be preselection for you, and not make her feel dirty that you're fucking her friend too. Honestly I probably wouldn't play it safe. Fuck it | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 03:47 PM |
| 2 | Change through generationsBeta traits had more value, since they have close to zero today. Any online-type game didn't exist back then, obviously. I add a lot of girls I meet on social media and message them, to high success. If this were the 50s, I'd have to get numbers in person--sometimes simple logistics make that hard. Also, tinder wouldn't exist, so you'd need to go out to find the hoes who go out for dick. Women also married younger and stayed married. So you'd probably need to pair off younger, because your optio… | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 03:45 PM |
| 0 | Physical or mental frame, which is more important?Making out for 30 mins? Listening to her talk for 15? The fuck are these times, lol. I play a slower game than some here seem to, and those times are just absurd. Very needy. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 03:42 PM |
| 16 | How did you deal with ugly duckling syndrome and fear of sexuality?This happened to me coming out of HS. Lots of kids roasted me for not really talking to girls, seeming awkward around them, "not being good-looking." Grew out a beard in college, aged a bit, massively approached... it still took a couple years to fully believe in my new self. Identities can't change overnight, but if you put in the work, you can change them. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 03:38 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with men and the bro hierarchy [Developing theory]Honestly, fuck the bro hierarchy. Just get yourself a solid group of friends with similar values and be done with it. Why do you want the respect and admiration of betas? Here's the thing: betas don't work like that, or they'd learn not to be betas. In my experience, they've always just ended up jealous of me and talk shit. They can't fathom how I do some of the things I do, or how the world works that way for me. So I become the enemy, "the asshole." You want alpha friends. You get alpha friend… | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 03:36 PM |
| 0 | Is it really possible to raise SMV at 48?Literally? Yes. Practically? You probably won't see much benefit. Should you do it? Depends on your goals. If it's to sleep with 20 y/o hot girls, no. You won't. If it's to feel better about yourself, maybe make your wife want to fuck you more, sure. That's achievable. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 02:17 AM |
| 16 | How to game leftist women who know about the redpillersWell, here's the thing you're overlooking. Even if they're aware of TRP, they're not aware of TRP. Huh? I go to an extremely leftist university. I have heard many, many women say things about "misogyny, incels, red pill, toxic masculinity," you name it. You know who they're shitting on? The people who are autists shouting this shit from the street corner. They're shitting on the ideas, the values, etc. They're shitting on pathetic beta nerds who need to google shit to know how to speak to them, … | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 11:00 PM |
| 3 | Counteracting autistic parentingI had parents like this. Best advice: get away from them. I'm 22, but I moved away for college--far away. It's been 4 years, and through trial and error, I'm much more like the person I wanted to be now. Ever heard the phrase "the apple doesn't fall far from the tree?" Well, move your apple away from the tree. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 03:50 PM |
| 2 | School found out I’m red pillThis is hilarious. By the way, they can't tell you to take down your YouTube. You can fight that suspension and win. They have no control of your personal life. But, I mean, what did you expect? Most people don't approve of RP content, since most people are on the losing end of 80/20. It's dumb to go so public with it. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 03:48 PM |
| 2 | I’d like to meet women in college but I’m extremely worried that my height is going to ruin any chance of that ever happening. What should I do?"Making friends is impossible unless you have a ton of weed" lol, can tell you haven't been to college. I was pretty beta in HS, didn't go well. Put myself out there in college with some RP knowledge, failed at first but trial and error and I ended up doing pretty well. Graduating in 2 weeks, have had lots of time to improve. It's pretty doable. Just can't get down on yourself. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 03:43 PM |
| 2 | My fault we broke up.. how do I get her back?Come on man... | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 05:20 AM |
| 11 | DAE find HB8-10 easier to game than 1-7?I love gaming hot girls as opposed to lesser girls. Firstly, it comes out more naturally for myself, since I'm more interested. It's more authentic and genuine, which I find more fun. Secondly, they are so much less soft little bitches. People think I am a funny guy, that I'm witty, etc. But I have a really dry sense of humor, and I am pretty heavy on what the PUA community would call "negging" (I call it teasing, whatever). A hot bitch can take it, and loves it, since few will do it. An average… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 03:34 AM |
| 2 | How do I get a girlfriend as a Chad at college?The girl you mention doesn't sound particularly LTR-worthy. You may be attractive and desirable, but you are also inexperienced--you said so yourself. Now, in general if you want a GF, you can't cherry pick her beforehand. It has to happen naturally. You can be open to an LTR, but you can't force one. You need to go through the motions with a girl, but invite her out to hang out as well. Have a hobby or interest (ideally one girls may like too)? Bring her along. Repeat. Eventually she'll want to… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 03:31 AM |
| 4 | Oneitis in Reverse?They all start to look the same. That's called abundance/indifference. It's a good thing. I still like the hot ones since I like to collect trophies. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 03:27 AM |
| 4 | What exactly did I do wrong here with my LTR? Or was this played out perfectly?Why do you call this girl an LTR? Based on the post she doesn't sound like one. Also, personally, I would have stopped texting entirely at the point where you said "you're welcome to come over" and she responded "your actions don't show you like me." Wait for her to change her mind on her own, don't try to convince her. See, she asked about the plans, so she's interested in hanging out still at that point. What she responded with was an attempt to own the frame and make the conversation about he… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 01:50 AM |
| 5 | I want to meet my biological Father just to intimidate him, am I doing the wrong thing?This is not a good idea. What do you gain from it? Move on. I also don't have a good relationship with my dad, but I'm turning 22 soon. When I was 19, I cared. But I've seen him like three times since I was 19, and it's just not something I think about now. You should have better things to do, honestly. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 01:41 AM |
| 2 | How much do you guys drink ?Is that your real name? You should change it if so or get a different reddit for TRP. People try to dox us here. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Dear Chads and Tyrone of asktrp, some questionsI fuck other girls on the side. She’s also really hot, has a personality, and low body count. It’s not a bad deal | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Dear Chads and Tyrone of asktrp, some questionsConsider myself more of a borderline Chad than full-blown but I’ll weigh in anyways since these mostly still apply to me Q1 - I was a 0 confidence nerd in HS. Everyone had always said I was good looking, but I didn’t believe it. When I started getting abundantly laid, I bought in to the idea finally and started embodying the low inhib dude I was born to be. This immediately kicked in after a week I fucked 3 new girls and one former plate, all HB7+, two 9s. Pussy completely lost its value to me a… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 03:22 PM |
| 1 | How would you have made the most of your teenage years using red pill?Dedicate yourself to learning and school (they're not entirely the same thing). Get into a top college, get scholarships, set up a good life. It starts here. As for women, stay learning about them, talk to them, you have time to figure it all out. Being willing to make moves at your age alone may set you apart because most men have 0 balls and girls don't know their own SMVs yet. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 06:54 PM |
| 1 | What age do you think it’s reasonable to go TRP hard mode and find an LTR?You probably want to run test relationships with girls and get experience before finding one to presumably raise a family with. Odds are you won't be able to hold the ship steady well enough if you have 0 experience with it. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Do you think red pill tactics work better on certain personality types?Not sure what you're referencing, but yes, females are surprisingly also human. Different things work differently on all of them. It's about learning nuance. TRP is a general set of ideas. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 06:50 PM |
| 1 | OdditiesDated a hot chick who also had a limp due to her thigh not inserting to her hip properly. It was kinda sad, especially because it impacted her gym sessions, and her ass was huge on one side and at best okay on the other because she couldn't strain that side as much. It's fixed now. Much better. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 06:48 PM |
| 2 | How to keep things interesting when you already know you're going to hookup?bring along your favorite male friend and tag team | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Trash at male shit tests?punch them | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 06:45 PM |
| 1 | In what ways you have bigger/higher value/SMV compared to other guys?Low inhibitions and being good looking | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Is it beta or alpha to get another man's girlfriend?It's a bad idea, is what it is | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 06:40 PM |
| 3 | Senior in highschool trouble getting girls and how to approach and get to know more girlskeep practicing it'll come. you're young | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 06:38 PM |
| 2 | What is your cold approach conversion rate?Cold approach will go better or worse depending on certain factors. I could probably cold approach 10 4s and convert 80% of the time, but what does that even tell you? Also, bar will be more optimal than day game. In my experience approaching, I would say I close about 75% of the girls I try to... but I consider myself very well-versed in reading girls' IOIs, knowing which kinds of girls like me, etc, before I even talk to them. So I'm not blindly firing arrows hoping they'll hit a target. As fo… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 06:33 PM |
| 0 | Why do people believe that I was supposed to live out my fuckboy dreams when I was in college?That's retarded. Shut off the autism. Yes, because a celebrity is comparable to a normal person. They'd rather fuck Zack Efron than Vasiliy. Ooooh wowww suddenly shit logic can prove my point too. Look at it instead as would they rather fuck Brad Pitt right now or Zack Efron? There's no way a 21 y/o girl is taking Brad Pitt--he's outdated. It was his day 10 years ago as "the hottest man on Earth," now it's Zack Efron's day. (Honestly, I don't think Efron is the highest status male currently, but… | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 06:19 AM |
| 1 | I have fucked over the girl I am dating so many times but she still sticks around. Why? Details in textWe share a lot of traits. You will want to tone down some of these traits over time. I have, and it's better. For many reasons. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 04:21 AM |
| 0 | Why do people believe that I was supposed to live out my fuckboy dreams when I was in college?Status = power, money correlates to status. Also, men are not like silver and gold. They could have equal access to older men or younger men. You can't get as much gold as you can silver. This is ridiculous people just believe delusion because they saw it somewhere on the internet. How can you hamster that hard? Old men are NOT the prize. They're past their prime. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Why do people believe that I was supposed to live out my fuckboy dreams when I was in college?This has nothing to do with me "swallowing the pill." It won't affect my actions or outcomes in any way. It has more to do with me being an independent thinker, and not just taking RP for everything it says without questioning it--being an independent thinker. That's more RP, if anything. Money is not attractive. It's only worth what it can provide to a woman. If it is providing, that's beta. If it's not, it's meaningless to her. It doesn't impact attractiveness or get pussy wet. I have no money… | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Why do people believe that I was supposed to live out my fuckboy dreams when I was in college?Well, why do they have more opportunity? Girls know where to go to find certain demographics of people. They go to bars, clubs, etc where the crowd is likely to be young. They don't scour golf courses and businesses to find the top 50 year olds. They're actively choosing to be in the presence of who they find the most attractive. The money you mention older men having over younger men is a beta trait--not attractive. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Why do people believe that I was supposed to live out my fuckboy dreams when I was in college?Plenty of dudes slay at 35, 45, and 50, sure. That doesn't mean SMV is likely to improve with those ages. 6 packs are hard to maintain past 30 or so--women like those. The hottest women are, by and large, most attracted to men 26-30. Anything else is propaganda. The easiest way to conceptualize this is in reverse; rather than think, at what age are men most attractive? Think instead: what are the ages of the men the hottest women are most likely to fuck? I would argue the hottest women are 20-23… | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Why do people believe that I was supposed to live out my fuckboy dreams when I was in college?Honestly I don't believe the TRP SMV curve. Men peak in attractiveness 26-30. How can I tell? Well, who fucks the hottest girls? Men in their mid-30s fuck mostly girls closer to their own age. If you're 35, a 25 y/o is a good bit younger. If you're 27, you're fucking girls 20-24. Would you rather fuck girls who are 20-24 or girls who are 25-29? In any case, college is considered a time to fuck because that's when women do, and because of the beliefs about things like fraternities and college ath… | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Do you have female friends?I don't have female friends because I've always found myself in a catch-22 with the idea. Naturally I hit on females I find attractive, and don't want to be friends with dregs. Who does this leave me with to befriend? None of them. I would like female friends for reasons you mention. It's fun, it's social proof, etc. But it just hasn't worked that way in practice. The closest I have to female friends are friends of my current LTR, or girls I've worked with. My LTR has one friend who's hot that I… | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 08:11 PM |
| 3 | Have any of you guys needed to let go of theory in books/videos or asking for advice on reddit, and just purely engulfing into action and ignoring anything else? How did it end up working for you?I agree with getting off of here to apply it in real life. It worked for me. I got really into TRP as a virgin HSer. Read everything, studied it, knew it by time I started college. Kept reading and practicing, got some results but not entirely what I wanted. Stopped frequenting these subs sophmore year of college. Sophmore year brought my n-count from 1 to 8. Stayed off the subs, kept doing trial and error. Kept lifting, making friends, having a life. Now a senior and my count is up to 30. Getti… | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Do women equate your SMV to the approximate SMV of girls who like you?Yes, to a degree. The more it looks like your consistent role, the more they’ll define you by it. This means, if you have an LTR, you will be judged by her quality. One ONS with a hot girl =/= you are now hot. If you are just plating girls, it depends what they know. They’ll tend to only notice the hotter plates they know about. Your looks-based SMV matters in their view too. A hot guy with an eh girl looks super beta. An average guy with an eh girl just looks average. A hot guy with hot girl lo… | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Do you have any observations about women's height requirements? To me it seems like height standards are correlated with craziness and I want to hear your takes.Truuuu that. The irony in my situation is that my Dad is 6’2” and incredibly beta, never got laid and dated fat chicks (besides my mom, who my friends always called a milf even though she’s always been old as fuck). My grandfather was 5’5” and the epitome of alpha. I didn’t grow up in a way that made me think height was as important as modern culture makes it seem | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 03:21 PM |
| 1 | I met a girl at a party who models and I agreed to painting her (which I don’t actually feel like doing). How do I turn this into a sexual encounter?Didn’t know that context. In that case, just tell her you got a little wine for the session or something, flirt, escalate. I would actually paint her tbh since that could be fun, and maybe start escalating when you show her the painting | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Do you have any observations about women's height requirements? To me it seems like height standards are correlated with craziness and I want to hear your takes.Average looking is completely fine. Just don't conflate "average looking" with actually being average. Someone who is truly average is never going to get a woman who is not average. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 06:08 AM |
| 5 | I met a girl at a party who models and I agreed to painting her (which I don’t actually feel like doing). How do I turn this into a sexual encounter?This was kind of a joke. In general I don't really recommend trying to turn business-type ordeals into romantic-type ordeals. Be a professional or don't. But you could playfully suggest this and see how she responds. Just try to flirt a little man | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 06:07 AM |
| 9 | I met a girl at a party who models and I agreed to painting her (which I don’t actually feel like doing). How do I turn this into a sexual encounter?Paint her naked | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 06:02 AM |
| 3 | Am I being too desperate or is my SMV simply not high enough?Get their #s before you ask. No one wants to go on a date with a Tinder guy. I actually don't even get their #--I provide mine and say "text me i dont check tinder much ######" | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 04:51 AM |
| 5 | To all the people who spun plates at 18, how did you make older (21-23ish) women stop viewing you as a kid?Get some muscle development, maybe facial hair if it suits you, and it'll sort itself out. From there, you can choose whether or not to also lie. I said I was a junior my first 3 years of college. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 04:50 AM |
| 2 | Do you have any observations about women's height requirements? To me it seems like height standards are correlated with craziness and I want to hear your takes.That doesn't happen much, but in the cases it does, there's other reasons to pair off with those people. No one accepts a blatantly one-sided deal. He's either loaded, which would help a theoretical off-spring with resources, has high status, which would theoretically transfer to the off-spring, has great game and charm, which a theoretical off-spring would inherit and/or learn from him, is super beta, which means he would theoretically raise someone else's off-spring that's too high of an SMV f… | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 04:43 AM |
| 7 | Do you have any observations about women's height requirements? To me it seems like height standards are correlated with craziness and I want to hear your takes.You are too tall to really encounter women your own height. I am 5'9" and would say it's a general detractor (since no homo but with my face and body I'd be a mega Chad at 6'2") but the height of the woman makes no difference. My body count is around 30 and I've fucked very few girls under 5'5" or so. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Do you have any observations about women's height requirements? To me it seems like height standards are correlated with craziness and I want to hear your takes.I think this goes back to people naturally seeking the best genetic outcome for a potential offspring. A male with a great face and wide body who isn't that tall would create a Chad with a tall female who also has a wide-ish body and a great face. The trade-off for the man would be that being narrow is more attractive, the trade-off for the female is the few inches of height--but together, they even each other off, and make Chad. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 04:34 AM |
| 14 | You kiss and get her in a cab to your place. What to do/talk about in the ~20 min ride home?She's already going home with you. Talk about anything. Just don't tell her your cat died or some weird obsession you have or something clearly off-putting. Otherwise you're fine. Like the other guy said, hand on the leg is nice. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Whenever I leave the club without successFailure happens. It's whatever. No one remembers all the shots Michael Jordan missed. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 04:25 AM |
| 3 | How did you guys embrace your sexuality?Maybe perfect indirect game. I didn't have the greatest experience being direct--led to lots of girls ghosting. But I since created a rule that I don't really talk about sex, just light flirting and witty banter, and my numbers have been good. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 04:25 AM |
| 2 | Do you ever show emotion to a plate or hookup? Do you ever compliment? How do you balance comfort and dominanceDo I show emotion? I am a pretty unemotional person, but yes. I will talk passionately about interests, mostly. I'm not going to show negative emotion--that's a vibe killer. I also, like you, was once a huge beta with no game and have improved. I'm not afraid to mention that to hook-ups or plates, because it doesn't define me in the present--which is all they care about. I mention it light-heartedly though and as a joke, not in a deep "listen to my life story" way--there's a difference. As for c… | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 04:23 AM |
| 25 | Do you have any observations about women's height requirements? To me it seems like height standards are correlated with craziness and I want to hear your takes.I somewhat agree. I'm 5'9" as well. My height was only "put on blast" once that I can recall, by a 5 who was rampantly acting like a piece of shit to everyone we went out with that night, and proceeded to fuck a random Chad--at least, he looked like a Chad. Guys also occasionally say something to try to devalue me, but I just ignore that. My current LTR who's one of the hottest girls I've fucked is also 5'9" and never commented. Three of the four hottest girls I've fucked were around my height, … | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 04:18 AM |
| 5 | “I” Just broke up with my girl and her family owes me moneyThe girl? Probably not and you shouldn't want her back. The money? It's more likely you don't, but maybe they're decent people and will pay you. You'll just have to find out. Also depends how it ended--if it ended amicably, the chance goes up | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 04:12 AM |
| 1 | What happened to AskTRP and TRP?Did you not see the part where I said I hadn't been reading TRP for the last couple years except very occasionally? Now how would I have seen that lmao. You a goob bro | /r/askTRP | 23/11/19 05:37 PM |
| 1 | What happened to AskTRP and TRP?If this is a "shit post," why is it one of the most popular posts there's been lately? Some of y'all are clowns. Yes, because I should assume a random website will be overhauled--when it's more likely not to be overhauled--and waste hours of my time sifting through unorganized posts to find out whether or not it will be overhauled. Which, even after reading this thread, I believe it's under construction--but not quite sure. Shut up faggot lmao | /r/askTRP | 23/11/19 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Did I handle roommate being weird and touchy to LTR well?Don't need to. Need to see you can respond within 2 minutes on a random Friday night and generally have terrible advice. I'm going to keep my friends and LTR separate and not drink with them both? The fuck? Have you heard of having a life? Oh right, I should lock myself and my LTR alone in a room together 24/7. Lmao, yeah okay | /r/askTRP | 23/11/19 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Did I handle roommate being weird and touchy to LTR well?You never fail to sound like one of the biggest LARPers on TRP, lol | /r/askTRP | 23/11/19 05:28 AM |
| 4 | What happened to AskTRP and TRP?My tag is funny considering a lot of people agreed, and I'm clearly not the only one thinking this. Not sure who made it, but come on--be able to take feedback. It's not very TRP to not be able to take negative feedback coming from someone who supports the cause and instead call them a "broke college kid." For the record, I did donate in the past. It wasn't a hefty sum, but it was something. And I actually have a rudimentary knowledge of web design, and have a good job in online writing after co… | /r/askTRP | 22/11/19 05:29 PM |
| 1 | How is SMV Quantified?Yeah unfortunately the mirror test doesn't always reveal the highest SMV in individuals, but that's just a reason to improve | /r/askTRP | 22/11/19 05:02 PM |
| 4 | What happened to AskTRP and TRP?I would categorize myself more as busy than lazy. I don't want to read every post, only the ones that seem relevant to things I want to read about. That's easier to navigate in a forum structure | /r/askTRP | 22/11/19 03:32 PM |
| 10 | What happened to AskTRP and TRP?I am a fat beta virgin. I just come on here to LARP | /r/askTRP | 22/11/19 03:30 PM |
| 5 | What happened to AskTRP and TRP?I agree. Lots of material catering to the lowest common denominator. Tons of "This girl is so amazing, I've hung out with her for 4 months, what do you guys think her opinion is of me? Btw I don't have oneitis and she's the one orbiting me i'm not orbiting her" | /r/askTRP | 22/11/19 03:28 PM |
| 3 | What happened to AskTRP and TRP?That site is how I imagined TRP.Red would look. Good stuff. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/19 03:27 PM |
| 1 | How is SMV Quantified?By the 666 trifecta standard, I should be a virgin. Lol The best way to measure SMV is what I call the "mirror test." Men's SMV is extremely difficult to measure, no? Seems like you've encountered that problem yourself. You know whose SMV slaps you in the fucking face? Women's. So, if you want to know a man's SMV, look at the highest tier of women who will fuck him. That's his SMV. It factors in all kinds of variables, like his confidence to pursue that level, their reciprocity of interest, etc. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/19 03:24 PM |
| 4 | What happened to AskTRP and TRP?Actually it’s mostly been women I’ve heard talk about it. A class of 20 I’m in where I am one of 3 guys had a 30 minute discussion on it. I obviously kept quiet but found it very interesting internally | /r/askTRP | 22/11/19 02:46 PM |
| 28 | What happened to AskTRP and TRP?Lmao. This actually made me chuckle | /r/askTRP | 22/11/19 02:35 AM |
| 54 | What happened to AskTRP and TRP?Honestly they need a better website designer. Why was it not made based upon a forum when it essentially came from a forum? They should have either hired someone, sought professional advice, or something. The new site just does not look good--not saying I could have done any better, btw | /r/askTRP | 22/11/19 01:30 AM |
| 12 | What happened to AskTRP and TRP?I mean, sure, I get this in theory for beginners. But I'm not a noob to TRP--I quite literally want to find somewhere with the ideas being discussed. Lol | /r/askTRP | 22/11/19 01:28 AM |
| 3 | What happened to AskTRP and TRP?I made a new account and wasn't a huge poster back then anyways | /r/askTRP | 22/11/19 01:19 AM |
| 1 | What advice would you give a 17yearold with no friends and who's made fun of in his 'group'?Yeah, agreed. They'll get your self-esteem down--in HS, I was pretty convinced I was undesirable because people made it seem that way. Pack mentality kicks in. I ignored a lot of IOIs from solid looking girls I may have picked up on otherwise. In college I got away from them and shit changed. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 06:30 PM |
| 5 | What advice would you give a 17yearold with no friends and who's made fun of in his 'group'?A bit of a story that can hopefully serve as some inspiration to you. I am turning 22 in about a month. Shockingly, I also used to be 17. I'd assume you're a Senior in HS? Maybe a Junior? I'll go with Senior. Want to know where I was at Senior year of HS? My real friends from HS that I still keep in touch with--you're only going to keep in touch with max 3 people unless you're a loser who doesn't grow up or move--had all graduated, since I was in a group with people a year older than me. I wasn'… | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 06:20 PM |
| 3 | My Manager just Accused me of having "Women Issues"You either didn't read or have a bit of the 'tism. She basically told him he has no game. The fuck that have to do with his job? | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Do girls get in LTRs with less attractive guys because they know they can't get Chads to commit to them?It's interesting when people say this. I honestly see pretty few relationships where a hot girl dates a whatever guy. But I'm also only 21, so maybe it gets more common when you're older. In any case, your question doesn't really align with itself. "Do girls date less attractive guys because Chad won't commit." Then you say "hot girls are dating less hot guys." Well, wouldn't those hot girls be able to get a Chad to commit to them? If not, they're not that hot. Yes, yes, they may be sluts or hav… | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 04:38 AM |
| 1 | How to make a stale relationship with an ltr more exciting?Take a trip. Have a threesome. Go do something outside. Get a hobby together. Change something. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 04:30 AM |
| 6 | How would you respond to a dorm mate/former plate [F21] that tries to shit test you by asking if it’s cool if she brings someone over & if I can be somewhere else for a while?Lmao. At least you admit it. Just don't make the same mistake twice | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 03:08 AM |
| 1 | I blew my second chance at life because of a seemingly small, careless mistake. How do I make sense of it?Your ABCD shit doesn't matter. Always be looking forward. Accept it and take the necessary steps that you need to in the mean time. All you can do is prepare for tomorrow--don't dwell on yesterday. I'm not too familiar with chronic pain, but I was good friends with someone who had a chronic leg pain as a result of their thigh bone not inserting into their hip properly, and they had a limp. This frequently caused their leg to give out, nearly daily, and when that happened, it was a crippling pain… | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 03:06 AM |
| 1 | What is the Red Pill on text game? It’s nowhere in the sidebar,Oh, in that case, yeah. My answer kinda answered what you said. My text game is mostly light flirting and plausible deniability. As for my results, I think they would only marginally improve. I have a really good-looking face. The pics I have are well-edited and in ideal lighting--putting that much effort in again would be a hassle, when my face still outperforms my body. Plus, I like some of the comments I've gotten in person about girls being pleasantly surprised how bulky I am. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 02:52 AM |
| 1 | High SMV or not enough SMV? What do you guys think?Shouldn't you know the answer to this? Is he tall, in shape, or good-looking? If so, they may be intimidated. If he is just some average joe, they're probably turned away by his "confidence." That is, confidence is attractive on an attractive man--on an undesirable guy, it feels unwarranted and off-putting. That isn't to say he's fucked if he's not attractive, though. Anyone can get in shape. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 02:47 AM |
| 4 | How would you respond to a dorm mate/former plate [F21] that tries to shit test you by asking if it’s cool if she brings someone over & if I can be somewhere else for a while?Why do you live with her? | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 02:45 AM |
| 4 | do i understand this right? A woman raising her smv is different from a guy?This can really go either way. I don't have a ton of sample size to reference, so I'll use a couple real examples and speculate some theory too. I know a guy who raised his SMV while with a mediocre chick. He stayed with her for a bit, but eventually, he just couldn't take hot girls checking him out and not knowing what he could do. Ironically, he dumped her to try to do better, but his game was shit from having been in a relationship so long, so he seldom has sex now. Lol Another guy I know rai… | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 02:43 AM |
| 1 | What is the Red Pill on text game? It’s nowhere in the sidebar,I'm fine with the old ones. My results are good. Also what's PD? Tbh, my text game doesn't really "get them ready to fuck beforehand." I have really indirect game. I don't talk about sex much except in one-off comments here and there. I've seen people who can text girls and have them going off about how wet and ready to fuck they are before they even meet--that's not really me. I usually just invite them over for wine and to hang out, with obviously the only reason for that being to fuck. It wor… | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 02:27 AM |
| 2 | What is the Red Pill on text game? It’s nowhere in the sidebar,"Text game is for logistics" exists to prevent spergs from sperging out. Whenever I text a girl, I'll send a handful of funny/flirty texts and then set up a meet-up. I would probably recommend finding ways to text a girl from somewhere other than here, though, since this sub dislikes the tactic. I also would advise against listening to certain PUA schools that advocate shit like "you have nothing to lose, so keep texting until she blocks you," etc. You also can't build a ton of attraction over t… | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 12:55 AM |
| 1 | What is the Red Pill on text game? It’s nowhere in the sidebar,I would disagree about the online dating point. I am probably about a 7 facially, and in decently good shape but you can't see that in my online dating pictures because they're old. I have really strong text game and fuck quite a bit just off Tinder alone, even pretty hot girls. Lots of guys with better looks do worse. Yes, if I was ugly, it wouldn't work, but to say it doesn't matter is missing the mark. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 12:53 AM |
| 4 | A woman just rejected me after being all over me and allowing me to touch her... wtf is wrong here?Attention whore, find another girl | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 12:50 AM |
| 3 | Success is the best revenge, but now I want my still somewhat oneitus to know about it. Is this normal/how to not give a fuck?Like others said, she doesn't matter. Keep improving and you'll forget about her. I was pretty beta in HS but turned what I think is alpha by the end of college. In HS I had so many revenge fantasies of showing up to a HS reunion after college with this high-paying job and gorgeous GF to make everyone jealous. Well, I have the gorgeous and loyal LTR and I'm in line for a high-paying job, yet the only thing having those things has taught me is that I don't even want to go to a HS reunion to see t… | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 12:48 AM |
| 1 | If women don't take you up on your offer, and they come back to talk to you later, how do you respond?Don't tell girls your intentions. That spoils the fun. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Discussing long term plate almost LTR. I enjoy clubbing and going out but she's busy.Is she your LTR or a plate? If she's your LTR, yes keep this in mind. If she's a plate, it's not her business. Pick between the two--stop with the grey area. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 12:43 AM |
| 3 | How to Deal with Interview-Like Approaches?She wasn't interested. Let it go if she's not trying to carry the conversation also. Also, don't go into interview mode yourself--provide information about yourself. If she doesn't use that to continue conversation, she doesn't want the conversation continued. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 12:42 AM |
| 2 | FWB thinks I took advantage of her drunk, next steps?Girls are so fucked up for trying shit like this | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 12:39 AM |
| 6 | I've always had success with girls...weeks or months after they rejected me. Cuz I'm a provider, right? Not really coz I'm 18Honestly there's a good chance it has nothing to do with you. I've had plenty of girls reject me at one time and take me at another. Maybe she had a BF, maybe she was fucking a hyper Chad, who knows? Don't worry about it. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 12:39 AM |
| 29 | My Manager just Accused me of having "Women Issues"It isn't her place to be bringing this up. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 12:36 AM |
| 2 | Do women orbit?She probably knows of some good parties and hot girls. May want to befriend her, after all. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 12:35 AM |
| 1 | College tinder?not a good opener--restart the convo entirely | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 12:34 AM |
| 1 | How to get over that "Cheater" reputation?Then this explains why she was so shook up. Good job | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 10:27 PM |
| 1 | What are some good examples of “red pill music”?J Cole is pretty redpill. A lot of hip-hop in general is, but I really like Cole. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 08:28 PM |
| 0 | How to get over that "Cheater" reputation?Yeah, this doesn't matter at all. You think your pre-selection will kill you? Only way it matters is if girls involved were ugly, and you looked desperate for side pussy. You fucking uggos, OP? | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Can't get over gf slept with ex right before commitmentGirls fuck their exes a lot. It doesn't add to their count, so it's "safe." Also, does the timing really matter if she's not still doing it? He hit it 100 times, what's one more? Gotta let go. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Friend turned into a simp out of nowhere?Maybe he's giving up his business because she's the heiress to an enormous fortune, and he sees that as a more worthwhile business venture. It's risky, yes, but business men know how to take a risk. Jokes aside, there's not a ton you can do. This happens to many guys. He doesn't want to hear you shit on him for it. He isn't going to magically listen. Just wait it out--it'll die down. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 08:20 PM |
| 1 | How do you meet new girls IRL? I'm done with online dating.Have an active social life with lots going on. This is pretty obvious, lol | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 08:18 PM |
| 3 | Am stuck at either being only friends or having sexThink of them more like people and try to make a connection instead of just pushing buttons to get results. This is a change I made as I matured and I got much better results with girls showing up in my life a second time after sex. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 08:17 PM |
| 1 | How common is paternity fraud?Check your reading comprehension. "Between knowing and not knowing." Some fathers willingly parent children who are not theirs. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 07:32 PM |
| 1 | This girl I work with talks normally with everyone else and seems quite rude with me. Could that mean anything?Maybe she just thinks you're bad at your job. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 03:49 PM |
| 1 | The entire notion of a unicorn is a catch 22I think the whole wanting a unicorn thing is for inexperienced dudes in the anger phase anyways--the exact dudes who, if she did exist, wouldn't get her anyways. I feel like real RPers aren't too insecure to date a girl who's ever done anything with another man, who has a life of her own outside of God, etc. A hot girl who's fun who doesn't seem too slutty and respects you is good enough--no need for this hypothetical unicorn. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 03:48 PM |
| 2 | How common is paternity fraud?I've read studies that cite 10, for "unknowing." But I would expect the numbers to be higher, since academia is interested in making this seem as infrequent as possible. Also, if you factor in children raised by a non-biological father who do know, the number jumps even higher. I don't think it eclipses 50% by any means, but if I had to estimate, maybe 1 in 3 between knowing and not knowing. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 03:44 PM |
| 11 | how often do you get hit on or IOIs?Approached? Rarely. Receive IOIs? Pretty frequently. I don't do night game too much but in any given class I usually get IOIs from more than one girl. When meeting girls in other situations, same deal. Only drunk girls typically approach, though. However, the disclaimer would be the hottest girl I ever fucked approached me first. lol | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 05:00 AM |
| 1 | How do ya'll think this date went?Every girl likes wine, lol. That's why I often suggest it. I'd try to supply that part yourself and ask her to bring something else--though from the sounds of it, she's 21 or so, so maybe it would just work better if she did get it. Your call, really. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 03:17 AM |
| 1 | How do ya'll think this date went?Definitely, yes. I usually invite directly over before even a first date. I'm not sure if that works beyond college age, but it definitely works during college. If she's interested, she'll come. You just need a "reason" so she doesn't feel like a slut. I usually offer wine, but a movie or something works too. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 02:38 AM |
| 2 | How do ya'll think this date went?I would have just let her pay. I've never paid on dates. It doesn't earn you "points" or anything and may take them away, setting you up as a provider and not a lover. It also sets a tone that in the future she should expect that, or if she became your LTR (yes, forward thinking I know), she would either expect you to pay or be annoyed you'd pay for a random girl but not an LTR. Also, you should have gone for the bang. Girls expect that off of Tinder. She probably left either disappointed or tha… | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Have anyone applied Red Pill strategy to land an LTR?Passive dread, yes. I got a lot of experience in during that time, so I know how to talk to a woman, and I lift. This manifests in her friends thinking of me as an attractive guy, girls at work developing crushes, etc. These things she sees, and in a way, they are dread--but it's just me being myself. I don't really do any active dread. She keeps herself in line. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 02:22 AM |
| 3 | For those of you with ltr's, how did you establish exclusivity explicitly if mate guarding is frowned upon?The girl will push for it and attempt to prove her ability to provide it. As far as boundaries, you have tools such as soft nexting, or making comments that insinuate it. "I wouldn't like if a girl I dated did ______" | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 12:44 AM |
| 9 | I act very beta and sometimes insecure/needy to a girl that I am in an LTR (HB8) with (in college) and she is still very submissive and doest behave poorly. Why is this?Because you're clearly desirable. You fucked a bunch of girls after breaking up with her? You're big, fit, and in a fraternity? Yeah, you're a desirable guy. When a desirable guy acts beta or slightly needy, that validates the girl and humanizes you. When an undesirable guy does the same things, it turns her off and disgusts her. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 12:42 AM |
| 4 | Purple plateA girl who has already opened the gates for you shouldn't be closing them again. She wants more out of you. She wants to date you. The thing is, you shouldn't want to date a girl who is going to use sex as a negotiating tactic. That means her interest isn't real. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 12:40 AM |
| 2 | Life without the drive for sexual intercourseThere's lots of things to life besides sex. We all go through periods where sex seems less appealing--I have myself. Try traveling, reading, working harder, etc. You can really choose anything. Just don't lose passion for life entirely. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Have anyone applied Red Pill strategy to land an LTR?I met my LTR around when I started getting into TRP, three years ago. I am pretty RP now, but wasn't quite as much back then. She was cute then, but needed to lose some weight and hit the gym to get the killer body and dime of a face she has now. We met in a class, had a ONS she texted me for after I'd invited her out once and she blew me. So the second time I saw her outside of class. I understood this was a red flag, but I wasn't that RP then, so I looked past it. I didn't see her as an LTR ca… | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Advice on a potential LTR?Far from an incel, lol. And if in 2019 being sexually aggressive with a girl you're dating can "catch you a charge," I guess I'm in line for dozens. Lmfao. Shut up. Have fun falling into dead bedroom relationships | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Advice on a potential LTR?I could tell by how you write. You have no idea what you're talking about. Don't post in here. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Advice on a potential LTR?Are you female? | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Advice on a potential LTR?If a girl is "questioning your character" for being sexually aggressive with her, she's probably not into you. Your way of doing it sounds like begging for it. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 11:06 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop feeling like this?Sounds like you need to have more sex But not with her And to your other comment saying girls don't do that in your society... no. They don't do that publicly, or with guys you know. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 08:17 PM |
| 5 | You ever feel like "the real you" is caged up, but you can never seem to just "let go" and be yourself?A little younger than your intended audience, but I experienced this as I was growing up. I handled it, but maybe not in the most ideal way. I just kept getting really drunk, and doing shit I would regret. At one point, I said "fuck it," and realized that, ultimately, not even dumb shit I did drunk really mattered. So why even need to be drunk to do it? I became okay with being bold, fucking up, doing my thing. And then I started doing it sober. I drink much less now. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Going out of your way to chase girls vs focusing on yourselfLike others have said, tinder and bars/parties. Go talk to randoms. Not too hard when you're in college. If the reason you're asking is you want girls who wouldn't be on tinder or in bars/parties, chat up random ones you come across. You ever take a bus? You ever go out to eat? You have friends who have friends? These are all also eligible college-aged women. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 08:12 PM |
| 7 | When trying to escape the orbit, is it useful to disqualify yourself with her? Or do you need to show it with your actionsGet with a hotter chick and her interest will go up when she finds out. The crazy part of this plan is you won't want her once you do. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 08:10 PM |
| 3 | Advice on a potential LTR?Just stick your dick in her mouth or guide her head to your dick. Don't ask. Repeat until she's into it. She'll warm up. Assuming she's attracted to you, she may just not have sucked a lot of dick in the past, and that can feel weird to get into. If she questions it outside of the bedroom, just be direct: "I want my dick sucked, and I want you to suck it. I am a guy--that's what we do." Don't back down--hold frame. She should want to please you. If you do this for a while and don't seem to be ge… | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Do all high HB girls do this?She might just be doing it for shits and giggles. My LTR does similar at times. At parties she'll find beta dudes who either have good alcohol or a juul or whatever and ask them for some. Inevitably they perceive it as interest and try to hit on her, or sometimes they don't even and she'll do it preemptively. But she'll then fuck with them, saying something like "you look like you get no pussy. Why don't you go talk to that girl over there?" It sounds like a shit-test, but really she's just drun… | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 05:03 PM |
| 9 | Do you schedule dates on days/times that are inconvenient to you?Interesting study. I would be curious of the results if it was performed with, say, 6 hours of sleep though rather than 0 sleep. At least, that's how I interpreted the word "total sleep deprivation." And fair enough. Make your own choice on it. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 03:49 PM |
| 3 | Did your perception change when you started approaching seriously? If so, how? It's like I'm already defeated before seriously starting. I've been non-stop self-improving. All that's left is to approach, and I go out, yet I'm blocked.I wouldn't say I "approach" a ton, but I do chat girls up that I meet consistently. And I'm in college and have an active social life, so I'm still doing fine. Freshman year I was a virgin and awkward as fuck. Senior year my body count is approaching 30 and my LTR is a dime. There's been a few key differences for me. I don't fear rejection at all. Shooters shoot. I get more pussy than most people I know--people think of that when they think about me, not that I once got rejected by a 3. Your suc… | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Do you schedule dates on days/times that are inconvenient to you?Bro... you think staying up late 1 weeknight per week is going to negatively affect your health? Come on lol. You sound like a robot. You're allowed to have fun. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 03:29 PM |
| 3 | Went to strip club without girlfriend, guilt, is there coming back?Why even go to strip clubs? Always thought they were kind of sad. You give money to see girls naked, who you don't have sex with. You give money for a cock tease. A cock tease that's often on drugs. Lol. In any case, no don't tell her. She's not about to find out. It also doesn't really matter. Plenty of guys' LTRs don't even care if they go to a strip club. Don't be whipped | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Do all high HB girls do this?I mean it's hard as fuck to know without hearing her tone of voice and such, but this doesn't sound like a shit test. This, to me, just sounds like this girl doesn't care you exist and tries to shit on you because you're not close to being a sexual option in her mind. A shit test implies interest--she doesn't seem too interested. As for the title question, no not all really hot girls act like that. A lot are really friendly, to everyone. However, she may have perceived interest from you and be s… | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 03:24 PM |
| 5 | When to end LTR?The sooner the better. I had a friend tell me he wanted to break up with his LTR our sophmore year of college. And our junior year of college. He broke up with her mid-way through our senior year. He now regrets having lost out on a lot of his college experience. Pull the trigger ASAP and don't put it off for "insert reason here" | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 03:19 PM |
| 0 | Plate / FWB wants to go to a different city with me for a weekend. Bad idea?Yeah, like others have said, it just matters if you want to do it. Seems like a good time. Definitely don't soft next. For that matter, don't LTR either. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 04:16 AM |
| 5 | It's okay to be scouted by a different company that may offer better pay, benefits, etc. Is it okay to be scouted by a better partner then end your relationship for a more valuable partner?The hypothetical difference is that companies are much less affected by your loss than an individual. The company will replace you very quickly and not see much negative, most likely. Another human being will not be able to do that. But in practicality, most people do this anyways. So, taboo or not, you're losing if you don't. However, the grass isn't always greener--if she has all green flags, is also hot, and you enjoy her company, it may be a little risky to throw that away for "what could be… | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 04:12 AM |
| 11 | How to treat a 10 like a 5 ?May be a personal thing but I don't think top-of-the-line hot girls should be treated like 5s--in personal experience I disagree with that, though maybe it is different for others. With 5s, they're more insecure, they know they're not "the best"--you need to be softer. Throw more praise. With hot girls, I like to tease a lot, fuck with them, show balls. 5s are used to guys having balls because a lot of guys do with 5s--really hot girls are not. You stand out to them when you do. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 04:08 AM |
| 1 | How to treat a 10 like a 5 ?Think of it like this: you do all that shit, no? Does every guy do all of that? No? Well, then you're the prize. Girls want a guy who does all of that. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 04:05 AM |
| 5 | How would you respond to "what's your story?" question from a girl?I always think the "how would you respond to ____" kind of questions are a bit misguided. It's more often how you say things more than what you say. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 04:03 AM |
| 14 | Instagram influencers a possible ltr?Is this a real question? Their profession is flaunting their body. Would you date a stripper? No? Well, this is the socially acceptable version of that. Edit: That said, I never believe in complete generalizations. Is there, somewhere, an LTR-able Instagram girl? Sure. Is it likely you met her? No. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 04:01 AM |
| 0 | Does dumb LTR Lower a mans SMV?Lower your SMV? No. Lower people's perception of your own intelligence? Possibly. Intelligence and SMV aren't really correlated much, if at all. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 03:59 AM |
| 3 | I fuck on the first date easily but never hear from them againThis is a tough one and I'm just recently getting better at it myself. Firstly, girls are more or less likely to be down for a second go at it depending on where and how you met them. Bar ONS? Tinder? Drunk, anywhere? Yeah, you're going to get a lot of flakes. Have a class? Met her through a friend? Now you're more likely to see her again. Secondly, you want to seem like a relaxed, real person. I can't speak to your situation directly, but for me, I was good enough at gaming to be getting girls … | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 09:14 PM |
| 4 | Ever post photos with your best plates on social media?This can definitely work, but must be done a certain way. You can't just be posting random girls semi-frequently because that looks try-hard and off-putting. Are you in college? Post pictures of your dates at a date party, and make sure they're hot. Post co-ed groups of friends with cool guys and hot girls going to a party. Shit that looks natural. For me, I have an LTR who is really fucking hot but she doesn't mind if I get play on the side. So I have pictures of us on my instagram from old dat… | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 08:11 PM |
| 3 | Is it Cheesy to Write your Frame Down?I mostly think of frame in the light of "be the prize" kind of things, where you need to hold yourself as valuable and have others treat you as such--whatever that is to you. You could try writing it down, but I like to think my frame is pretty good nowadays, and mine is mostly built off of experience. I am not sure what I would have even written down, tbh. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Did I handle roommate being weird and touchy to LTR well?I agree that doing something then was likely better, but again, I don't really keep composure drunk. Sober, I would have been exactly the guy to have the right words for the situation and make him feel awkward then and there. I think I am getting the consensus that, should I for whatever reason not be able to say something in the moment, the group chat was an okay move to put him on blast. I don't think it seems like a bitch move in my generation, though my generation is also filled with bitches… | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Did I handle roommate being weird and touchy to LTR well?There's no drama. I handled it while she wasn't around, instead of giving it attention at the time. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Did I handle roommate being weird and touchy to LTR well?Well, she wasn't comfortable with it. So I guess this point kind of flops. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 06:44 AM |
| 3 | Did I handle roommate being weird and touchy to LTR well?Yeah, I pointed out that in the future she should just treat it like anyone. But, yeah, it hasn't been a problem with strangers. Will keep an eye out though. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Did I handle roommate being weird and touchy to LTR well?I mean, she is good about strangers. Never been an issue. My interpretation was just that the guy was my "friend" or roommate, and she didn't want to make accusations or cause waves with someone I have to live with for months still. That can be awkward. And it would end up being me who would deal with the awkwardness, not her. She did move away when he would be weird, just not instantly--it was also a party, which means there's not always a super convenient spot to relocate to instantly. It's no… | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 06:24 AM |
| -1 | Did I handle roommate being weird and touchy to LTR well?Doing it at the party is a no-go. I tend to not be a reasonable drunk. Have gotten in a few fights over not that much in the past. For that reason I always defer serious matters to when I am sober. That approach has worked better for me. I could have talked about it one-on-one, yes, agreed. I was unsure which, but I decided on what I did since, to me, hitting on my girl is a lack of respect, which deserves a lack of respect in response. However, it may have been smoother to do one-on-one. Obviou… | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Whats the deal, thought this girl was interested?idk, we don't really share mutual friends. my school is enormous. people dont have "reputations" here, except within certain circles | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 08:02 PM |
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