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Escalation & Calibrationbigmanzana450/r/seduction24/01/26 01:43 AM
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Conversationbigmanzana450/r/seduction25/12/25 01:49 AM
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Lifestylebigmanzana450/r/seduction28/10/25 11:20 PM
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I mean it’s just draining. I live in an area with a lot of hot girls, but even finding 300 approachable & super hot girls - that takes time. Realistically I could do maybe 5 approaches in an hour (keep in mind this is strictly looking for 8s and up) so getting 300 in would take like 60 hours. That’s not including the mental and physical energy. So, while I don’t think cold approach is bad, it just isn’t efficient. Your best bet to pulling super hot girls, and what guys who get these types of gir…
/r/seduction08/04/26 02:28 AM
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Sounds like we’re in the exact same situation. I’ll get the occasional match (not often at all) with an 8 or 9 but almost all of my success with women on dating apps has been 5s, 6s, or 7s. I came to the same conclusion as you - that the only way I could get an 8+ is through IRL - so I started getting into cold approach, strictly approaching super hot girls and unsurprisingly that wasn’t very successful. I mean, think about it - a 9 isn’t going to suddenly drop her standards just because you col…
/r/seduction08/04/26 12:18 AM
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I told her I’d prefer a relationship, I’m not trying to trick anyone
/r/seduction24/01/26 02:29 PM
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Idk I mean good for you if that’s legitimately the case and it’s not just a few flukes you’re referring to, but that’s contrary to my experience. It’s exponentially easier for me to get with more “average” girls as opposed to very attractive ones
/r/seduction19/01/26 01:52 AM
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To an extent yes. However, I realized it also depends a ton on the attractiveness of the women you’re approaching and how they compare to you. For example, if you’re strictly approaching 8s and above (and you aren’t one yourself), you’re probably not gonna have a lot of success despite the volume. Ask me how I know lmao. However, I do believe it’s a numbers game at the end of the day. It’s just if you get more “realistic” with your league, you won’t need that sort of crazy volume to get results.…
/r/seduction18/01/26 07:45 PM
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I posted here bc I feel like she’s uninterested. I was wondering if anyone else has had this happen before
/r/seduction25/12/25 04:20 PM
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Generally signifies a lack of interest in my experience
/r/seduction25/12/25 03:21 PM
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Well now I don't because in the 2 comments I've gotten here they're both conflicting lmao. The other guy seems to think it doesn't matter but I feel like it does. But yeah, you're right. I'm still talking to a few other women right now but this one is for sure the most attractive.
/r/seduction25/12/25 02:14 AM
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bro 5’10-6’1 is an insane fraud lmao. I list 5’10 on the apps but there’s no way I could get away putting 6’, and 5’11 probably wouldn’t even help me any more. But yeah, if you have good photos online is super powerful. If I get a bit leaner maybe I’ll try a shirtless pic, but as it stands now my photos are way above average tbh. Currently I get like 1 match a day on the free hinge, but it takes me like 10-20 matches to get a date out of it. Most girls stop responding and it’s incredibly frustra…
/r/seduction19/11/25 01:18 AM
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I live in Miami, 5’9, white, ok physique. I’m sure as hell not a top pick lol but I’ve had decent success online. Generally I can’t do much better than 6’s and 7’s, though (I’ll occasionally match with an 8, but she’ll almost always stop responding). I’m guessing you’re tall + white (or black) + muscular? The problem that kills me with online is I know if I was a few inches taller my results would be crazy lol
/r/seduction19/11/25 01:04 AM
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Yeah that's totally fair. That's my biggest problem with cold approach as well - the amount of time it takes. If you're living your day to day life and see a girl who catches your eye that's one thing, but you can burn a whole day going out trying to cold approach and maybe not even get any results. Outside of a gym, college campus, or beach, there's not going to be a ton of hot, approachable girls in public. As a bit of an experiment, I went out last weekend to target and the grocery store, and…
/r/seduction19/11/25 12:44 AM
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I'm not over-romanticizing cold approach I said I agree with you lol. You're definitely right - a girl's standards aren't tanking just because a guy cold approaches her. Social media and dating apps definitely made the game way harder. However, it's a numbers game and cold approaching/meeting however is an extra opportunity when you may have otherwise gotten lost in her DMs or likes. I think we're saying the same thing with quitting/rotating dating apps; I never said "quit", just that their time…
/r/seduction19/11/25 12:25 AM
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I agree for to a large extent, however, you’re missing a couple of key points. Women definitely care about looks (I’m not delusional) but female attraction is a bit different in that it isn’t as visual. Dating apps are almost entirely looks based, but money, status, vibe, confidence all play a huge role in terms of your attractiveness as a man as well. While you can project status and money on instagram for example, most dudes hitting her up aren’t standing out from one another; it’s an endless …
/r/seduction18/11/25 11:58 PM
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following and dming random girls on instagram is the equivalent of an online cold approach while at least with a dating app you know the girl is available and finds you attractive enough to match with at the least
/r/seduction07/11/25 09:02 PM
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I don’t because my instagram isn’t attractive enough to get away with the equivalent of an online cold approach. However, I do agree this is probably the best way to find the hottest girls in 2025 outside of cold approach.
/r/seduction07/11/25 08:42 PM
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because it’s not a conventionally attractive male trait. that’d be like asking “why is is hard for obese, flat chested women in dating”
/r/seduction30/10/25 01:42 PM
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I’m not anti hookup but I’m looking for fwb or relationship
/r/seduction29/10/25 12:53 AM
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