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30s Italian/Mexican. A lot of people aren't sure what ethnicity I am when they first see me. I say half of Mexicans say I dont look mexican at all. I say half white people dont think I Iook italian at all. I can easily pass for some middle eastern ethnicities as well, even sometimes Indian. I grew up in the southern California suburbs around mostly white people but also some asian and hispanics. I have mostly date white, Hispanic, middle eastern and filipina. Asians i.e. chinese, Japanese, vietn…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:25 PM
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Are you personally experiencing this with Christian girls? The goldigger activity. If so, where are you meeting these girls at? Please do share you stories of this recently happening to you.
/r/RPChristians10/04/20 10:27 AM
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I dont have any secrets. I am a good looking guy Christian guy in my 30s, who wants to settle down and get married. The girls I target are in their mid 20s to early 30s. It's easier to meet and date girls in their 20s, only because there are more of them out and about. I dont date a lot right now because I am laid off and focusing on that, even learning new skills to maybe make a career change. If you want to ask me anything specific feel free to.
/r/RPChristians31/03/20 01:21 PM
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Ok , will be interesting to see what others write as I dont know any guy who dates younger who gives a rat's ass what older women think of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 12:09 AM
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Me and every other guy I know in their 30s who is single and dates younger doesn't care what older women think of us. You are making big assumptions in your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 12:02 AM
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I ask because I am also in my mid 30s and single. I am finding it easy to date as young as 23/24. Just want to know who other Christian guys in my age bracket are marrying etc.
/r/RPChristians30/03/20 11:13 PM
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Just curious, did your friends and brother end marrying women much younger then themselves?
/r/RPChristians30/03/20 10:33 PM
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Girls in their early/mid 20s have a lot dating options, they can date their age/older. A lot of guys are asking them out on dates. Girls in these age ranges and possibly a bit older can be very picky in who they date etc. Starting at around age 30, the tables flip and now its they guys who maybe can start being picky on who they can date. So she goes from having a lot of dating options in her 20s to all of a sudden she has to resort to online dating or singles events to meet guys because her soc…
/r/RPChristians24/03/20 09:56 PM
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So I have been to a singles ministry several times at a very large megachurch and this was my observations. Most of the women are age 30+, the physically attractive ones were single moms and/or divorcees, at least the ones I spoke to.The girls in their 20s were fewer in numbers and tend to be average looking at best. The same could be said for the no kids/never married women in their 30s. This demographic does not attract high caliber guys. Of the guys I met, some were socially awkward, others w…
/r/RPChristians24/03/20 02:11 PM
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Girls are going to have the same temptations/urges no matter what.
/r/RPChristians24/03/20 01:32 PM
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I'm in my 30s, very low partner count, religious and have dated very attractive religious 20s girls who were either virgins or very low partner count. They are out there. You hit the nail on the head though. Guys who have slept with a lot of women are not the type that these girls date. Be who you want to date or attract. Wanna a girl with a low partner count, be a guy with a low partner count. Same can be said for intelligence, fitness level and a lot of other attributes/characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 03:04 AM
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Women can say what they want or prefer all day long. In reality, a lot of women are not going to end up dating and/or marrying a guy who ticks all of her checkboxes. About 15% of guys in the general american population are 6' or taller. That is 15 out of 100. Of those 15 guys how many are physically attractive? How many are making 6 figures? It's just mathematically impossible for MOST women to get a guy that is tall, good looking and making six figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 03:11 PM
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I can pass for Italian/Spanish/Middle Eastern esp. Persian/Latin American. A lot of people that meet me don't know what race/ethnicity I am right away. 1)not into casual sex, for LTR I tend to date light skinned people like myself. I am Christian and white people tend to be Christian more than any other race. 2) yes, it's not a big deal 3) just more cautious, I screen for values, I would say a lot middle eastern women are attracted to me but I just don't have that much in common with someone wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 02:06 PM
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There are Christian girls above a 7. I know because I have dated them. If you live in a liberal state of course the pool is going to be a lot smaller. I used to live in CA and now live in TX, the pool is definitely much larger here.I congratulate you on becoming saved, you said 8 months ago. By the sound of your post it sounds like you were having sex with a lot of random instgram girls and other girls in general. God does forgive past transgressions. But look at it from the perspective of a Chr…
/r/RPChristians23/02/20 03:44 PM
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To be 40 and date a woman in her 20s is not that terrible, if she is mid 20s to late 20s. If she is 21 then I can see problems arising for some.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 03:47 AM
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I don't know if they are first , second immigrants but yes, people who come to the US often come from bad situations abroad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 06:08 PM
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That is one reason i.e. they grew up in the same neighborhoods as blacks, another could be out of rebellion if they are young. A lot of immigrant Hispanic parents have a slightly negative view of blacks, not necessarily racist, but it can be, more cultural differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 05:47 PM
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Now you are really taking the subject off course, in a no man's land, but to each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 05:39 PM
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Latinas have a strong preference for their own race/ethnicity, if they go outside they will tend to date black guys, but very rarely will they date white guys. This has been my experience living and having multiple social circles in multiple large cities in CA. Maybe things are different in NYC/ Chicago/ Miami.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:59 PM
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I work in a very niche field, it is finance related, that is my "career" job. Right now I am doing more strenuous, labor intensive work to keep me afloat so I don't touch my savings. It's interesting, I work with people that live outside the metro, live in the country and all had kids under the age of 23 or so, which proves your OP is spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 02:49 AM
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I moved here without a job, so most of my time is spent job hunting and working my "survivor" job but I would probably move to uptown as that is where a lot of single professionals tend to congregate. Coming from LA , uptown isn't snobbish, maybe a little, but I can see how one can view uptown that way. Looking forward to living in Dallas!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 02:28 AM
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I just moved to Dallas from LA and though I haven dated a little , yet, the girls I have interacted here are much more approachable and friendly than in LA, generally speaking. The guys on this thread complaining about spending $10-15 on a date, are like that because they need to ask mommy for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 02:20 AM
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When I read posts like this I am always perplexed. You make 6 figs and have a 6 pack and you cannot get a pretty , "non-fat" girlfriend? I am thinking it is your social skills, but that is just a guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 09:09 PM
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Using the word "pull" can have bad connotations. I know it's just a word etc. If you are meeting single attractive, God fearing girls at your bible study, I think that is great. Hopefully as you get to know them, they truly share the same values as you. Nothing wrong with meeting girls at bible study, getting to know them and eventually dating them.
/r/RPChristians28/12/19 07:49 PM
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