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1

Ok... Was just curious why you seemed so shocked that this happened.
/r/seduction22/06/26 07:10 PM
1

What's your dating history like?
/r/seduction22/06/26 05:13 PM
22

Obviously the Rich Millionaire Woman Store
/r/seduction22/06/26 02:20 AM
5

What does the same as men mean
/r/seduction15/06/26 12:01 PM
2

Girls are just finding out about helicopters
/r/seduction05/06/26 12:43 AM
8

You run the risk someone will report you for harassment. I think you know this though, otherwise you wouldn't be asking
/r/seduction24/05/26 01:37 PM
1

That last sentence....wow....dude.... That aside, you don't want someone who takes up all your oxygen like this. It's fun in the beginning but if you're not just as much into her she's gonna start smothering you and it'll get old. But more than likely she'll realize it like your last sentence 🫠
/r/seduction23/05/26 09:21 PM
1

Solo dates are the best
/r/seduction23/05/26 01:33 AM
1

I usually just bite her and then give her a hair rub
/r/seduction21/05/26 04:47 PM
7

Yeah OP....you're doing all of these. Pump the brakes boss
/r/seduction29/04/26 12:11 AM
1

And how do you incorporate the ability to read the room if she doesn't want to engage in this little exercise? Women are people too, not just exercises for you to involuntarily obligate into conversations for sake of your own motivations. And what then if she's not interested? Has he failed yet again? What have you done but thrown him into another scenario only to fail? Failure is a part of life that only people paranoid of failing avoid. It's the best way to learn. Not trying to be argumentativ…
/r/seduction22/04/26 07:20 PM
1

First of all this doesn't answer my question. Second, this is a weird analogy bc, to make your comment relevant, what are the "progressive desensitization" techniques you would use to gradually introduce to women a guy who's afraid of women 🕷️. Would you just replace the spiders with women? Not sure if showing a dead woman to a guy who's trying to meet a live one will be very effective.
/r/seduction22/04/26 06:39 PM
2

What do you ever learn if all you do is win?
/r/seduction22/04/26 06:18 PM
7

Uh that's because they think you're a normal person and not someone who's going to get a boner just from standing next to you. Trust me when I say, if they knew that they would not stand next to you.
/r/seduction19/04/26 04:53 PM
0

This is how women signal. Get with it. You didn't get a signal you got sirens in fucking face dude
/r/seduction19/04/26 01:58 PM
2

Well that's something different. Thanks for clarifying
/r/seduction18/04/26 12:28 PM
1

Simply bc you're dating attractive women means they are less likely to forgive you for mistakes - direct quote
/r/seduction18/04/26 12:17 PM
1

So what I think I'm hearing is her level of physical attractiveness is directly related to her level of emotional intelligence?
/r/seduction18/04/26 12:09 PM
2

I think what you're trying to say is don't smother her, which I agree with. But just bc you're able to respond quickly all the time doesn't mean you're always available and just sitting around doing nothing waiting for her to text you. Yes, let the conversation breathe. No, don't immediately reply every time. Yes, find the rhythm, which can fluctuate. Also sometimes do whatever you want.
/r/seduction15/04/26 12:08 PM
2

Still unclear...
/r/seduction15/04/26 12:00 PM
1

I don't follow you
/r/seduction15/04/26 11:58 AM
11

Or you're just really good at multitasking/diverting your attention for 2 seconds?
/r/seduction15/04/26 11:55 AM
2

Funny hat or shirt
/r/seduction14/04/26 10:50 PM
1

Wear funny shirt or hat
/r/seduction14/04/26 03:05 PM
14

You sound like a dog who finally caught the car and now you don't know what to do
/r/seduction14/04/26 12:07 PM
1

One time I pretended to be rich and I'm not sure what you want to do with that but I think it was good
/r/seduction10/04/26 06:48 PM
1

Oh ok, yes I agree with your final conclusion. I think it's time to move on. I was just suggesting you set up another date because I thought that's what you wanted to do and I was trying to be positive for you but set expectations. If you're already ready to move on, I think that's where you need to be.
/r/seduction10/04/26 12:37 PM
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Yeah I just don't get all this overthinking and you seem all over the place so I can't tell what your original intuition told you about her. If a woman is into you, she makes it clear. If she wants you to chase her, that's up to you if you want to do that, but in my experience that's just someone who wants attention and isn't with your time......which is what I'm hearing right now. Like I said, set up another date. If she flakes again I'd forget it.
/r/seduction10/04/26 12:21 PM
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This is over four years and you are playing it this slow?! Why has it taken four years to only to get to this agonizingly slow pace of asking her out. Number one. Number 2, why did you rebuff her twice, telling her she needs to get promoted first before you go out? Wild work my friend. If she is into you, which frankly I am not convinced, you need to set a date time and location. Don't make demands, but make plans. She canceled on you once last minute with a weird excuse that you rationalized. I…
/r/seduction10/04/26 11:48 AM
1

What does that mean
/r/seduction03/04/26 02:16 AM
5

This sounds incredibly manipulative
/r/seduction03/04/26 12:21 AM
-1

Lol ok so what's your plan for OP
/r/seduction01/04/26 12:39 PM
1

What is the ton of work because as long as he's insightful and can reflect honestly without going down the manosphere/incel rabbit hole he can learn everything he needs to know but just talking to women IRL
/r/seduction01/04/26 12:23 PM
7

But that IS the answer. Real life experience in anything always better
/r/seduction01/04/26 12:12 PM
3

It's a discussion you need to have with your partner. People on Reddit can't tell you that.
/r/seduction31/03/26 11:21 PM
3

Ok guys.... How many of you have gone through this situation. How did she come back? What did she say? What did you think? What did you do? Let's see.......
/r/seduction31/03/26 07:19 PM
1

Go to bar. Sit next to each other at bar. Don't have to drink. Get food/share an app. Adjust angle in/out as needed depending on vibe.
/r/seduction31/03/26 05:56 PM
2

Probably the most thoughtful and fully articulated comment I've ever seen on this thread. I hope OP sees it.
/r/seduction31/03/26 01:48 PM
3

Obviously
/r/seduction30/03/26 06:27 PM
14

What is this based on? Your hypothesis is so absolute. Rarely get the girls they want for these three reasons... Sounds like you're in your mid 20s so not a lot of life experience. You're making a lot of assumptions and generalizations to make a very broad point.
/r/seduction30/03/26 02:16 PM
1

No, that won't work and will probably come off creepy or weird or off-putting. How many dates have you been on in the past 6 months?
/r/seduction30/03/26 02:51 AM
8

Do not do this. I have to assume this guy is fucking with you. The fact that you seem to be consider it....yikes. Also, the way you are thinking about the gift situation is completely fucked. I'm not sure where to start with you......
/r/seduction29/03/26 04:24 PM
1

I'm middle aged and just started dating in August after a divorce. No issues meeting or holding conversation with women. You're doing it wrong.
/r/seduction28/03/26 11:58 PM
1

You're making a million excuses for what it sounds like you, yourself, believe were decisions you shouldn't have made. ARE you a backup plan or do you just FEEL that way. And what is a backup plan to you anyway?
/r/seduction28/03/26 01:49 PM
1

I don't read anything romantic about this. You had a couple chats. One where she told you about her recent breakup. Newsflash, you don't talk about recent breakups with current love interests. Also, don't dip your pen in company ink
/r/seduction26/03/26 12:50 PM
1

Never chase in this situation. Totally agree
/r/seduction26/03/26 03:58 AM
1

You move on
/r/seduction25/03/26 04:08 PM
5

No one has ever done this
/r/seduction25/03/26 02:46 AM
4

First and foremost, how does she make you feel? Anxious and nervous? Or calm, stable, and secure? Does she communicate openly and honestly? How does she treat and speak about other people? Is she thoughtful towards you, other people, and the things she does? Or does she seem to act without thinking? When she does act, is it with integrity? Does she respond or react? Know the difference. What are her priorities? What's her relationship like with family? What's her relationship experience like? Do…
/r/seduction24/03/26 03:10 PM
3

You're 18 = you have no experience. Even if you had GFs I'd still say you have very very little experience. Force yourself to talk to women. You're gonna get rejected a lot. It will suck. Don't quit. Be insightful and honest when you reflect on your interactions. Put your phone down. Stay TF away from the manosphere.
/r/seduction24/03/26 02:26 PM
6

Sounds like what you want is a FWB or maybe even just a friend
/r/seduction24/03/26 01:59 PM
3

Brilliant. My favorite is the rebuttal to the nonsense this guy says about making others accept your own warped perception of reality. Spot on.
/r/seduction23/03/26 06:35 PM
1

No. Let's hear it
/r/seduction23/03/26 05:27 PM
-7

Shit. Thanks for letting me know and thank you for your service. I'm going to go smile at everyone
/r/seduction23/03/26 05:15 PM
-5

I AM?!
/r/seduction23/03/26 05:05 PM
-8

How natural is it to obsess over these ideas to the point you're writing monologues online about it
/r/seduction23/03/26 04:41 PM
-1

This is the realest post I've ever seen on this sub. OP is on the next level with this. Getting my popcorn
/r/seduction23/03/26 04:13 PM
2

What the fuck did I just read
/r/seduction22/03/26 07:35 PM
9

Absofuckinglutely not. First of all, you have no right. Second, if you feel like you need to, then you have an insecure relationship and/or attachment style in which case you should not be in any relationship OR the person has given you legitimate reasons to be suspicious in which case you should exit the relationship OR bring it up in discussion or both. But no. You do not go through your girlfriend's phone.
/r/seduction19/03/26 04:55 PM
0

Yeah, Jeffrey Dahmer and the BTK killer were just being themselves. Sometimes you need to change things about yourself. OMG CRAZY RIGHT?!?!?
/r/seduction19/03/26 04:32 PM
2

What you're talking about is called self growth and I am not sure who "society" is or where the message you're hearing is coming from, but I have to disagree. And it's not socially discouraged to approach someone either. What I think you're thinking of is the sentiment among a lot of men that women don't want to be approached because it IS hard and a lot of men are just inherently not good at it. However, we have to acknowledge some nuance here, as with many things in life. Not to generalize all…
/r/seduction17/03/26 01:40 PM
2

Mhm....so says you, from your keyboard.... Thanks for your post 😂 I'm gonna share with all the women that are already in my hot tub
/r/seduction16/03/26 07:04 PM
5

Does anyone else find this post kind of funny? We see OP flexing about how much he's read up on game etc and how long he's been doing it for, yet here he is asking if a hot tub would help get him laid. Like... sir, I don't think you have a hot tub problem... Anyway, I'm sure I'm going to get roasted for this, but this might be in my top 5 favorite posts ever.
/r/seduction16/03/26 06:08 PM
1

Before I say what I'm about to say, everyone is different and it's important not to generalize. Essentially, you need to read the room as they say. That said, there are subtle things that some women will do that you can notice. For example, playing with her hair, reapplying lipstick in front of you. Laughs at everything you say. You can look up some others. None of these are guarantees, but simply signs. The more of them you see, the higher the chances she COULD be into you. Also, like someone e…
/r/seduction15/03/26 04:12 PM
2

Just a light disclaimer - After he wrote that book, Strauss spent the next 10 years in a spiral of compulsive sexual behavior he could not control. After being diagnosed with sex addiction, he checked into in patient psychiatric treatment. He later published The Truth confessing the framework had been built on a foundation of terror of women and an inability to tolerate genuine closeness. Do with this information what you will.
/r/seduction15/03/26 02:47 PM
1

Seeking permission to comment on this post
/r/seduction15/03/26 03:09 AM
2

Or did you hurt your bank account?
/r/seduction11/03/26 08:30 PM
3

Who hurt you lol
/r/seduction11/03/26 08:27 PM
5

AH LIKE AHYOU. AH LIKE AHSEX
/r/seduction11/03/26 07:23 PM
0

Touch her with the chop sticks
/r/seduction14/02/26 05:59 PM
-6

You're nearly 40 and you've slept with 18 year olds in the last year? EW
/r/seduction12/02/26 06:18 PM
6

I'm sorry but... petting her face?!?! What???
/r/seduction17/01/26 08:12 PM
3

Holy crap dude. That was insane. This sounds like the opening monologue to a terrible movie. Wtf even is a "heart throb." Should you go back to dating because of their labels? What kind of insane question is that?! Sounds like you peaked in college, let it go to your head, and forgot how to personality to me....
/r/seduction22/12/25 11:19 PM
2

I'm a man who has never met or seen or stood next to you and even I am sensing the desperation. Imagine how strong it's coming off to the women who actually meet you. I know it's not what you want to hear but you need to be comfortable being single first.
/r/seduction22/12/25 05:28 PM
3

Yeah, I hope you understand why I said that.....
/r/seduction23/11/25 02:28 AM
3

This post is too good 🤣
/r/seduction22/11/25 10:45 PM
9

So original
/r/seduction22/11/25 04:01 PM
75

Complains about cornbread advice -> gives cornbread advice
/r/seduction22/11/25 02:18 PM
8

38
/r/seduction21/11/25 09:23 PM
3

Self unaware
/r/seduction19/11/25 07:17 PM
4

Dude....twenty fucking THREE. Do you even have your own place?
/r/seduction19/11/25 04:21 AM
-2

Ok have a great day and a great life. This mindset screams future incel to me. But hey, more for me! See ya on the subs chief. Look who's getting the up/down votes boss lol
/r/seduction18/11/25 06:05 PM
-1

Let me rephrase. YOUR logic is insane.
/r/seduction18/11/25 05:26 PM
4

This logic is INSANE in so many ways
/r/seduction18/11/25 03:59 PM
21

Hahahaha this didn't happen
/r/seduction17/11/25 05:13 PM
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