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| 1 | Dating after divorceI find this kind of statement more common from men who took a huge financial hit from the divorce. Getting your money and life basically legally taken away at gunpoint by a judge causes real deal trauma and this seems to be some sort of PTSD inflicted defense mechanism against any future repeat. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/11/23 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Dating after divorceI went complete 180 and shut down at the end. My ex got into this whole “my feelings are valid” phase and was saying some very untrue stuff about me that was part of her whole detachment, blame avoidance phase. So one day I calmly stated, if all your feelings are valid, mine are too. Here’s how it makes me feel when you… She literally had a tantrum and lost her shit. This validate everything stuff was from her therapist. It was truly poisonous. Her feelings were valid, if I said anything or expr… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/11/23 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Dating after divorceWell that isn’t an option for me lol. I really miss a woman’s touch and companionship. There’s something about their demeanor, their shape and curves, their softness and sensitivity, the smell of their lotions and sprays, their way of seeing things and communicating… it all somehow provides a nice balance to who I am as a man. I have learned that the deep questions of life thoughts and the doubts and fears stuff is better left to share with your close men friends. That is 99% of the time not to … | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/11/23 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Dating after divorceI made the mistake of being duped by the romantic love mythology during my marriage. I started out independent and very much my own man, but near the end I look back and don’t even recognize myself. I thought if someone loved you they were the person you could open up to and that women actually wanted this. They don’t, no matter what they say. Women often want and need contradictory things. Men should figure out what does she need vs what she wants. Does she want you to tell her everything and s… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/11/23 01:32 PM |
| 1 | The Third AdamI can’t force anyone to go do something if they aren’t willing. I agree about the current state of the church. There were people within the church we were in, actively pushing her towards “following her heart.” The pastor is the one that suggested a “separation towards reconciliation.” Then he did counseling for a week and said he didn’t want to anymore. I never heard from him again until I told him to remove me from the membership roll. | /r/RPChristians | 11/08/23 07:51 PM |
| 3 | The Third AdamHe’s right. I just went through a divorce and the first part describes a lot of the crap I heard my ex wife say. It seemed spiritually demonic how she became, convinced of her holiness and inner light. Ugh. I’m disgusted | /r/RPChristians | 28/07/23 09:13 PM |
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