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17

xiaxue is a terrible pandering pickme but i love her gives no shits energy - we need more outspoken and confident women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 01:15 PM
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welcome back ladies! so glad to see so much effort being put into this unique community, really highlights how important yet rare women-only spaces are on the internet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 09:00 AM
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praying the son gets into sports and social hobbies rather than becoming like his embarrassing redditor father
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 10:35 PM
28

this is a really pragmatic and wise way of thinking, and i’m so glad you have managed to find some joy in your loss!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 07:51 AM
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to misquote margaret attwood: men are scared that women will judge them. women are scared that men will murder them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 08:17 PM
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great idea! women are socialised into putting up with so much shit, the principle of simply not partaking in activities or associating with people that bring no positives into your life just gets forgotten. abusive musicians, no value exes, even foods you don't like...block and remove!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 07:38 PM
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i love that definition of "dominance" - discipline and being in charge of everything in your life is SUCH an attractive and positive quality in everyone, but unfortunately now the word's more associated with abusive weirdos who beat women up in the bedroom precisely because they're not in control of anything in their lives
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 05:04 PM
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that someone else should be my man himself, because men need to have mastered basic life skills!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 01:08 PM
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absolutely, don’t let a man knock you down a peg for improving your skills in any way! whether that’s through technical school, college, university, whatever. i know so many girls and women who have missed out an education because of a man who isn’t even guaranteed to stay in her life - unlike her education, skills and money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 11:06 AM
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can we just mention the sentence “the conversation went (via mobile as i was gaming)”?? cracked me up and says all you need to know about this guy tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 07:16 AM
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so then why don’t men start caring about each other and being positive influences? why do these sorts have to tear others down instead of lifting each other up?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 01:30 PM
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me 3 years ago: “I’M THE TRASH MAN! I EAT GARBAGE!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 07:00 PM
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dating apps do the same thing! the ratio of men to women on them is insane, and that ends up making us the product being sold - yet another reason to delete them asap if you have them still!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 11:09 PM
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this is why standards and keeping your partner accountable to them are so important! never let yourself be second best in a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 05:50 PM
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i’m not in the us so i’m afraid i can’t give examples of any specific organisations but i used to help out with an organisation in my city that packed little kits for women affected by period poverty - they would contain pads/tampons, snacks and other little pick me ups for women in shelters, refugees and other women in need. maybe your local women’s shelter or soup kitchen might have a similar program?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 07:53 PM
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and they haven’t been socialised and pressured into putting up with it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 07:36 PM
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funding human trafficking on behalf of your loved one 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 03:24 PM
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this is so funny, you really had me in the first half 😂 this toxic bs is so normalised in the online spiritual community, which i used to be a big part of, so it’s so refreshing to see the behaviour being called out for what it is - totally unacceptable coming from a human!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 10:57 AM
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this poor girl, so severely failed by her family and the authorities, who were meant to protect her. why did the authorities not do anything after she went to them?? i pray she will rest in peace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 08:39 PM
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women are not objects only to look at!! i bet if their totally real girlfriends and wives were looking at other men like that they’d lose their shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 11:17 AM
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inflated self esteem in the men and low self esteem in the women they chase. this probably explains why many polyamorous people are kinda geeky and not exactly the most socially adept types.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 10:01 PM
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i feel so bad for his female students...wonder what was going through his head when he was at work?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 06:53 PM
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i know right! 100% groomer behaviour
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 06:52 PM
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especially if this news article stays up...i really hope it wasn’t published without her knowing about it at least! her career growth is already going to be stunted if she spends however long taking care of this chump at her age, let alone with an article like this all over the internet...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 06:51 PM
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a man who is almost 50 hanging out in a fan group for a band whose fans are mostly preteen and teenage girls?! i’m not saying people that age can’t like their music but the fact he didn’t keep appropriate boundaries in that environment that is 🚩🚩🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 05:31 PM
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reddit regularly keeps up subreddits dedicated to abuse of women (see: many kink/p*rn subs, redpill etc.) - it’s not about reducing hate, it’s just about control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 11:32 AM
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i totally agree, if this man can’t talk to a server how will he be able to maturely handle the many stresses and strains of an adult relationship? he is NOT ready for many things in life and dealing with that burden shouldn’t be on a woman he barely knows
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 10:02 PM
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you can pretty much get the gist of it (emotional abuse to make your target depend on you) from watching the DENNIS system segment from it’s always sunny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 09:26 AM
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especially if you've seen how expensive it is to see these races...even the worst seats are easily hundreds of pounds!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 04:44 PM
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this is brilliant, thank you for doing the research for us! i hope john and clara and their family had a great life together - the fact he married a widow or single mother is hopefully a sign of a heart of gold. although having 12 kids can't be ideal for anyone's body or mind...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 04:32 PM
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please keep us updated! would love to see if he did well for himself (and maybe track some a few eligible descendants too?)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 03:26 PM
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in his mind a girlfriend and a therapist are the same thing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 12:08 AM
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yeah, here it’s used as a descriptor rather than a noun - female isnt the emphasis, strategy is. “a female” implies the female sex is all women are, which is gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 12:05 AM
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and a great one it is too! the stereotypes are more than often true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 10:08 PM
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afaik they have a lot of requirements about height, health conditions, education, salary even...god knows what kinds of bums are offering their wonky juices up on facebook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 07:00 PM
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literally actually at fault as his gametes determine the sex of the baby!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 02:13 PM
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textbook case of projection. he hates himself and projects that onto the women he comes across. this is why shadow work is important!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 02:58 PM
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For those outside the US, the Internet Watch Foundation also takes action to remove child abuse material. Report here: https://report.iwf.org.uk/en
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:18 PM
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"Rumplescroatskin" is the best insult I've ever heard 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 10:41 PM
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was just about to recommend that! one of the very few good anime this year, all the characters are female and incredibly well written, talented and driven to succeed in what they do. so refreshing and fun!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 04:02 PM
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Look at the vocabulary used! 100% written by an OLD man fishing for young girls to manipulate through this piece of fanfic 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 10:23 AM
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This is true!! I should have phrased my comment better - you should never be afraid to leave if red flags start appearing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 03:04 PM
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THIS is how you behave in a relationship! Unconditional love, care and empathy should go both ways. So happy for you 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 11:43 AM
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yet if you had a huge manly steak would he feel emasculated?? there’s no winning 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 06:13 PM
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that’s what porn has done to half the population! what a sick world we live in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 05:33 PM
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literally ancient TheRedPill. men never change
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 09:55 AM
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i’m dealing with LV people who i unfortunately can’t get away from right now, and this really gave me the confidence i need to not be intimidated by them, thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 10:53 PM
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Not my situation (thank God) but I’m sure OP would appreciate the sympathy :’)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 10:14 PM
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This is what the OP posted in the comments: “He asked for two and a half years that we lived in this apartment and obviously I said no, so about 4 months ago he just decided not to ask and brought home the 3 day old chicks. It was actually pretty manipulative to give me an arm full of baby animals then ask " so you want me to get rid of them?'. Later when I said of course I never wanted the fucken chickens he kept referring back to that incident... The chickens were the nail in the relationship …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 10:05 PM
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reminds me of my younger self, with no self esteem :( i want to give her a huge hug and tell her horny male validation means nothing! horny men will fuck a mcchicken, you are too good for them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 08:46 PM
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i love this hopeful spin on things! it makes me so excited for her, she can finally embrace all the interests taking care of her NV husband probably took up all the time for. she may think she’s worth nothing without a husband due to the culture, but she has so much wisdom and life experience to build on - and no man can take that away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 10:42 PM
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yes exactly!! working women have ALWAYS worked two shifts, one in the office and the other at home. this man’s behaviour is not worth praising, your average mum does double that work and more every day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 10:25 PM
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