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bigtuna45/r/askTRP09/11/17 01:02 PM
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Of course. I suspect what you're really asking though is do I need that "click" to become a millionaire? The answer is no. The road to becoming a millionaire is mainly the same for everyone - work your ass off. You don't need some secret mindset or metaphysical experience for this to happen. Try to find some mentors and observe them. You'll notice it's a game of nickels and dimes meaning no one gets rich in one swing of the bat. It's a lot of little successes day in and day out that eventually a…
/r/askTRP22/09/19 10:25 PM
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And yet they show a picture of one of the guys...
/r/TheRedPill28/07/19 05:56 PM
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Yeah just ask. It's no big deal some will way yes some will say no
/r/askTRP28/07/19 04:26 AM
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Your goal should not be to be a good dancer. Your goal should be how do I not give a fuck what other people think of me while I dance? A dance class will do this. No, one class is not enough. You should be going weekly for a few months to get really comfortable just being on the dancefloor. Bonus points for a dance that requires a partner.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 09:37 PM
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Thanks. I was at a bar with no one there and a hot girl walked in. Gave me constant IOIs - kept looking at me, making eye contact, etc. I didn't approach because I figured she was out of my league. Regretting it now!
/r/seduction25/04/19 05:27 PM
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But then his mom will ask him about it!!!
/r/askTRP23/03/19 07:35 PM
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Keep studying hard you pussy - Maybe by your early 30s you'll have moved out.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 10:09 PM
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Probably because she knows what it's like to have real responsibility like a child, bills, etc. Studying is fucking low stakes, especially when you live with mommy and daddy. What's the worst that can happen - you have to retake a class? You're reading into this too much. Your mom probably just wants you to enjoy this easy life as much as possible. If you don't like it, why don't you fucking move out like an adult usually does at 18?
/r/askTRP22/03/19 09:57 PM
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Thanks man, I feel like that's the direction I may be heading. Which book is it?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/19 07:20 AM
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Great advice. Get off of social media too. There's something about a non-stop stream of other people's top moments that can make you doubt yourself even more than you already do.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 05:25 PM
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Absolutely. In a weird way, it makes me question my abilities. Was that really a good suggestion or are they just agreeing with me because I'm strong and confident? I think it's a good thing though, better than being an overconfident blow hard.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 03:37 PM
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Thank you man!
/r/askMRP25/07/18 07:23 PM
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yeah I thought that one through. Did you do a self-test kit or how did that work?
/r/askMRP25/07/18 07:06 PM
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Looking forward to it :)
/r/askMRP25/07/18 07:05 PM
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Wow - thank you so much! I still feel a huge knot in my chest but this morning I woke up and thought and realized fuck it the baby is coming one way or another, I may as well slay my goals.
/r/askMRP24/07/18 04:49 PM
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I should mention that the plan was to get pregnant within 12 months. I didn't think I'd get her pregnant the first time we tried!
/r/askMRP24/07/18 03:24 AM
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Fasting is the shit. It's almost a mindless way to lose weight and stay lean.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 06:39 AM
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Yeah OP, what's your bf%
/r/askTRP22/06/18 12:16 AM
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You decide. Realize that it's not a yes or no, but rather HIW loyal someone is. Even a chick that cheats on you on the weekend could be loyal during the week. Likewise your friends might have your best interest in mind 85% of the time and 15% of the time not. That's what frame is about. Set boundaries and make people respect them if they are crossed.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 05:55 AM
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Some of it can come off as blue pill.
/r/askMRP10/06/18 05:33 PM
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Absolutely. Women are master communicators and value this skill greatly. The most dominant gorilla in a group is not always the biggest and strongest, but the most social. He can leverage all the other gorillas in this way.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 04:24 AM
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I thought maybe I was being a bitch. Most of it is very passive aggressive shit like eye rolling when I turn around, saying something then looking at me then looking at everyone as if implying he's taking about me, etc. Just shit girls would do
/r/askTRP09/06/18 03:19 PM
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Delete it. And someone mentioned earlier this week, if you're not exhibiting an amazing life online, you're wasting your time. Flying to exotic countries, hanging with models or celeberyies, and playing with expensive car? Go for it. Taking a picture of the morning sunrise? Delete it.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 02:31 PM
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Maybe you're not building enough attraction/excitement/trust
/r/askTRP07/06/18 04:16 AM
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Listen to all these little faggot blue pilled bitches chime in. "you like what you like". Give me a break. What's next, be yourself? Here's the deal. Fat chicks are subpar, fullstop. If your SMV is high and you can fuck otherwise attractive girls then do it... If you find her attractive. If you're fucking desperate and this is all you can get, then stop playing PS4 and raise your SMV.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 06:04 PM
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Just play the game dude. Job should be a means to investment money, not your social circle. You may meet cool guys here and there but most will suck. Who cares if they're cucks otherwise?
/r/askTRP26/05/18 05:30 AM
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Friend game is so important, yet, it seems like most guys on here are so against it. Lately, I've been doing this and it's just making me way more comfortable with women in general.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 04:47 AM
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I smashed a girl in an alley in Toronto. Pretty sure she was BPD but fun as fuck, sweet, add sexy. Second tine I saw her paid for all my shit and drained me again. I believe she was the exception. The rest of the women seemed guarded as feminists have gone mad there.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 07:54 AM
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Cut
/r/askTRP09/05/18 05:15 AM
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Don't waste your time dude! If she's a friend then sure help her out a bit. It sounds to me though like you want to fuck her and are hoping this is the way to get laid. Would Brad Pitt have to train her to get laid? Think about how weak she'll be. You really want to be spotting her as she benches 40lbs? Quit rationalizing with the kino bit, it's not like you'll fuck at the gym. Be cordial if necessary but I'd say skip it.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 05:12 AM
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Use it to show status. People will tell you not to talk about money because you'll become beta bucks. This would be true, if you didn't know about beta bucks. Being fully aware of this, use your status to get them wet and interested. Hold frame as fuck them before you invest in them.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 04:08 AM
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What's the question, cunt?
/r/askTRP16/04/18 04:04 AM
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Lift and wear whatever you want.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 02:07 PM
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Now you just realize they are all the same so the boundaries you thought couldn't be crossed disappeared.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 07:37 AM
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This is more or less it. Replace "women are selfish" with " people are selfish" and you're closer to the truth.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 04:20 AM
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Two schools of thought: 1) yes, game them and it will translate to success with women you are into 2) what works on 5s won't work on 7s and 8s so you're reinforcing bad habits.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 06:36 AM
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If your mom is embarrassing you, it's a good sign that you need to grow some thicker skin. Exactly man - maybe get over whatever the fuck embaresses you? My used to do this to me. At this point I don't give a fuck about what she says that's embarrassing. Hold frame, if you can't handle your mom how will you handle the shit testing women your age and younger?
/r/askTRP25/03/18 09:44 PM
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What's JQ?
/r/askTRP03/03/18 05:09 PM
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Don't be dramatic. There's plenty of people who ask about side hustle and follow-through. There's also people (like myself) who have a side hustle that makes a decent amount of money per year while still going on facebook, netflix, drinking, and smoking pot. OP - This will entirely depend on your skill set and limitations. What are you good at and how much time do you have? Do you have a job where you can fuck around while you're there or is all your time there devoted to the task at hand? I per…
/r/askTRP25/02/18 05:00 PM
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Yes, unfollow. Not only does it show abundance it also limits the chance you'll see something that upsets you and limits the chance of you reaching out.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 06:48 PM
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Be as emotional as you want. You have to understand that she may not match your level of emotion and might actually be turned off by it. Also, just because you're emotional doesn't mean she'll stick around.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 03:31 AM
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Validation/couldn't get validation from anyone else that night.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 06:16 AM
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Absolutely not. You read it once and if it doesn't immediately change your life you're fucked. Do NOT read it again.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 10:50 PM
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Don't lift 7 days a week but do something active everyday. I lift 5 to 6 days a week and do yoga or HIIT on off days. I highly doubt most of us are overtraining.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 04:00 PM
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1) values a low n count. 2) values family/ marriage 3) requires minimal validation 4) isn't a social media whore
/r/askTRP05/02/18 08:48 AM
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I struggle with that too man. Lift evsrday. Set a night routine and a morning routine, doesn't need to be crazy. Set your clothes out for the best day and meditate or lift every morning. I guarantee you feel ten times better after a week.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 07:46 AM
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Lift.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 07:12 AM
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Must be why you're into her
/r/askTRP05/02/18 07:12 AM
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Would she act that way if your SMV was 1 to 2 points higher.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 06:51 AM
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He may also be depressed. At 17 I'm sure you'll snap out of it pretty quickly.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 06:50 AM
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A dad bod is easier to control and manipulate because they have fewer options, thus they prefer them long term. Short term they want the strong ripped guy.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 07:50 AM
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Yeah jesus fucking christ. Did I just see a fucking reference to C++?????? Try removing half the words and try again.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 10:12 PM
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Same here. I get it, but at the same time I want kids.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 06:42 AM
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Confidence comes and goes. You need to maintain FRAME despite how you feel. By doing this, you build confidence again. By freaking out that you don't have it, you lose more of it. Resign your self to feeling insecure and be confident in that feeling. You may also be setting expectations for yourself, which could cause anxiety.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 07:59 AM
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I'm not trying to downplay whatever it is you're going for. Just realize that when you accomplish it you will likely feel a void inside and want to go for something bigger. This has always been my experience anyway.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 07:32 AM
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A few years ago my sister was dating kind of a loser. Didn't have a good job, played video games all day, fat, etc. At the ripe age of 25 he had declared that he had bought himself the car of his dreams - a 35k used VW. My opinion is that if your dream is easily attainable, you're not dreaming big enough. Two years may be a milestone, but what's the actual mission? Financial independence? Starting a family? Starting a company/non-profit?
/r/askTRP10/01/18 07:07 AM
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Sure, but making them feel something is better than not.
/r/seduction10/01/18 05:51 AM
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Remember to be patient. At 23, you shouldn't be topping out of your SMV potential. It sounds like 1) You have been working on creating a better future for yourself and 2) you know what you need to work on. With a few right moves you could easily be pulling in 100k+ in few years with your CS skills. Go out as much as possible and talk to as many different people as you can.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 08:47 PM
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I think outcome independence is key here. If you go up to a girl and tell her she's hot expecting her to like you because of that, it could be off-putting. By the same token, when you are genuine about it I think it can be taken better. Of course if your SMV is low then it won't matter.
/r/seduction09/01/18 08:45 PM
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You're more the ex-gf type 😂
/r/askTRP08/01/18 09:30 PM
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Look into STEM. Pick a career with high demand, low supply. Look into investing in stocks, real estate, crypto (be careful), etc. You can do it bud, just need a long-term plan and determination. When you fall (not if) pick yourself up and try again.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 08:35 PM
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Aa short dude with RP knowledgeable will likely be better than a BP tall guy. Just because someone is tall doesn't mean they know how to exploit it. A few weeks ago I went out with my boy who's 6'4. He broke frame with the chick he was hitting on so I moved in. Will it work everytine? No. Will it be easy? Probably not, but you definitely have an advantage.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 07:46 AM
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You're a huge pussy. I started with nothing. Went to public HS, worked through college (took me 6 years), and got an IT job paying 55k with full benefits. I was bored out of my mind, and decided to take out an 80k loan to get a masters degree (hint: I researched what were hottest fields). Two years later, I got a job making 70k. A year after that I got a raise to 130k. Two years after that, I am not making $150k and am no where near the top in my career. On top of that, I've been networking like…
/r/askTRP05/01/18 06:42 PM
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Dude - we can't figure out everything for you. How do you create the conditions to have connections? Meet people, talk to them, add value to their life. What are special skills or qualifications? Google "top paying skills 2018". You're being way too dependent on others and need to figure shit out for yourself. I highly doubt you have a strong frame.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 06:27 PM
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Do you have any special skills or qualifications? Also, non profits pay like shit.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 04:58 PM
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Jesus Christ, well said .
/r/askTRP05/01/18 07:06 AM
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Or are you overestimating your value and SMV?
/r/askTRP04/01/18 05:55 AM
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Been doing this for a couple weeks now. I was really suffering - just never felt satisfied no matter what I ate. Now, I split my calories between 2 big meals and a snack or 3 moderate meals and I feel more satisfied. Increase in energy and focus in the morning is amazing too. The scale hasn't moved but I've gone down one blazer size.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 08:47 AM
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It's almost as if people follow the crowd.
/r/askTRP26/12/17 11:41 AM
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It is indeed awkward and can feel almost like a date. In moved to a new city at 28 and it took me a while to make friends. Try Meetup, volunteering, and Facebook events.
/r/askTRP26/12/17 11:31 AM
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Not sure what the point of you asking questions is if you're not going to accept the advice we give you.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 09:06 PM
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She's not attacking you moron, she's flirting with you.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 01:48 AM
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This is an easy one - "I Know!"... Like, 80% of shit tests I've encountered have been deflected with agreeing and amplifying. Have you read the fucking sidebar? "You're so weird": Possibilities "(smirk) sweetie I'm the weirdest guy in here" "I know, right? Listen to this...." and go into a story to show value "Glad to see I'm in good company" Works in all settings.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 07:07 PM
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I'm imagine because gear can shit down your testes.
/r/askTRP16/12/17 04:56 PM
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Must.... lift....more....
/r/askMRP08/12/17 10:47 PM
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Exactly...but if they initiate it I'm not going to embarrass them.
/r/askMRP08/12/17 09:07 PM
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My sample size is small so wanting to see if anyone else has experienced this.
/r/askMRP08/12/17 05:15 PM
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Sure, make your woman happy! Recently I caught prince Harry talking about he proposed. He clearly is alpha and got down on one knee to make her happy. He values keeping her happy but that doesn't give him value. The things that attracted her to him do.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 11:25 PM
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Go to school for STEM or start a business.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 07:03 AM
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Go to school for STEM or start a business.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 05:57 AM
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I especially like the 5 x 5 application. Tracks all your workouts and if you miss workouts it will automatically deload the workouts for you.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 07:15 PM
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Stronglifts 5x5 or starting strength
/r/askTRP21/11/17 04:06 AM
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You fucking moron, of course rape is a real thing!!!
/r/askTRP20/11/17 04:13 AM
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You fucking turn your shoulders, pass by, and carry on with your fucking life. Unless you're a try hard insecure beta faggot. In that case don't break eye contact, shove as you barge through, and confront him regardless of his size.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 02:13 AM
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The standard for hair procedures is international, thus, the DR in México uses the same technique and practices as the one in the US.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 02:08 AM
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Sounds pretty awful man - you can't even open your mouth around her? I mean yeah stfu if you're reinforcing your frame or something but a good marriage is not one where you are mute.
/r/askMRP18/11/17 02:46 PM
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Because EVERYBODY in my life mindfucks me to think they’re better than me by exaggerating my weaknesses & contrasting it with “perfect, wise, me.” This sounds like me in my 20s. Keep at it and I guarantee that the majority of those people will be fucking losers by age 30. You've got a long road ahead of you.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 11:41 PM
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Speak English and try making sense.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 11:08 PM
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I'm assuming he's not a great dance lead yet considering he posted this. Could be wrong though.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 10:55 PM
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The main takeaway is don't be overly eager. Ignoring them and focusing on the actual dance may pay off more than going straight for the kill upfront.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 10:35 PM
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The red pill is about having sex. So in that regard I'd say yes, that is what you want. For ltr advice I'd go to married redpill
/r/askTRP14/11/17 09:08 PM
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I find that it's hard for a few reasons. 1) shields are up 2) there's a scene you don't know about. She doesn't want to appear like a slut to the community 3) there's a bunch of other guys with the same idea I'd suggest talking to girls before or after the lesson and escalating from there.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 09:06 PM
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The sense I got last time I read it was that one should be overly agreeable. Maybe I need to reread it.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 08:35 PM
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Talk to your dad. Lift, it will help with the depression and anxiety. Eat well, this will help too. Meditate. Know that the girl doesn't give a single fuck about you. Imagine a dog on the street walks up to you, you pet it, and then it runs to another person. Would you be upset? Talk to a metal health professional. I was in your shoes. A male psych helped me realize the void had to do with other things (spoiler alert: my childhood) and less to do with the absence of women. Finally, have compassi…
/r/askTRP14/11/17 08:30 PM
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This is a good book, but don't be a pushover faggot. Most of the advice in this book boils down to kissing people's ass, being agreeable, and not rocking the boat. The coolest guys I know do the opposite.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 08:21 PM
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I once bought a girl drinks and ended up fucking her in an alley later that night. TRP os a framework, not a step by step plan.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 01:24 AM
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So follow up or nah?
/r/askTRP09/11/17 08:15 PM
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It's a satellite office abroad, hence different HR, legal team etc.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 02:33 PM
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Salsa was great for my game. In fact, I've been in a funk for a few months and I attribute this mostly to having stopped going to salsa. Bacahta is very sensual and the new hip dance. Easier than salsa.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 12:18 AM
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dream jobs always been to be a stay at home mom That's not a job...that's just a type of consumer. You have to ask yourself if you want someone who won't be contributing to your family's income.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 12:02 AM
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"Don't worry, I don't want to do that anyway. We can just hang out" Then, when she comes over try to fuck her any way.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 01:36 AM
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Lift and stfu pussy. You don't need to tell mommy and daddy everything.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 01:42 PM
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I've been married for almost 28 years and only recently learned that one should not act married all the time (not promoting infidelity). I am married and noticed that when I game women I give almost zero fucks about pleasing them. It made me realize just much comfort I give my wife. Sometimes, it's good not to comfort them.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 03:22 AM
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Thanks - I figured it wasn't personal and reacted aloof and uninterested in the tantrum. I actually left out that after a few minutes of silence I did start making some BS small talk with her - what are you doing after this, are you going to see your friend, etc. She was talking - if she was that pissed she probably wouldn't have responded would be my guess. When I left I said "alright I'll see you in 2 weeks" as if nothing had happened. Next time I see her I plan on being cool and dealing with …
/r/askTRP28/08/17 11:09 PM
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Yeah we had been drinking but not a crazy amount...
/r/askTRP28/08/17 07:39 PM
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Meaning....she may have been into it but realized it made her seem like a slut so she got pissed and stopped?
/r/askTRP28/08/17 03:41 PM
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Lolol! I've had multiple girls suck on my fingers to show me how deep they can suck. She was also grabbing my hands while I was doing it and putting it on her tits.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 03:07 PM
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Yeah she let me do it multiple times and make a sexy face each time.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 05:23 AM
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Am 34. If you're young get ripped and maintain!
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 04:09 PM
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The halo Effect is basically society's aproval in a nutshell. It's been wild to see this at play as I've lost fat, gained muscle, and increased my SMV. People have always sparked conversations with me even when I was fat (>35% bf). But lately it's compliments from dudes, people asking me for permission to do things I don't even have anything to do with (can I come into the bar, etc.), and women introducing themselves to me at bars without me even looking at them. It's kind of fucked up in a way …
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 05:05 AM
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Now I do shit because it needs to be done. It's the same shit I was doing before, just for different reasons... righteous reasons. This is really important, IMO. There's something about doing shit because YOU want to that makes others react. I will sometimes slip into the covert contract and the reaction is much different than when I am just doing shit for myself.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/17 05:31 PM
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With you there (both men and women).
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 01:46 AM
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Every God damn day!
/r/askTRP04/06/17 03:26 PM
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I've had gurus) girls literally reject me and say "I really respect the effort". Just do it faggot!
/r/askTRP27/05/17 02:03 PM
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Smart move,prob s hooker or worse.
/r/askTRP20/05/17 02:50 PM
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This is not rocket science, folks. The moment I realized this I started passing shit tests pretty easily. A few weekends ago this girl that is into me introduces me to her friend. I ask the girl that is into me if she remembers xyz from last weekend (she was drunk). Cue shit test from friend "you know what, it's not cool to ask someone if they remember something. We've all been there before, we drink too much. It's just not cool". "You're right - I'm never ever going to say that again" Cue girl …
/r/askTRP11/05/17 03:56 PM
2

She leaves to her home country tomorrow I think you should be good unless she reports this she before she leaves. Even then, she still has to go. An international investigation into you fucking some intern probably wouldn't be warranted. Be careful who you fuck my man.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 03:53 PM
2

Right. I had a girl telling me how much she hated me and how arrogant I was. All while putting her arm around me and getting close enough for our noses to rub. Too many idiots just act like dicks.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 06:30 PM
14

Every damn girl is rated as a HB8 regardless so it is a meaningless term....and pointing it out raises the ire of many of the posters. Funny - when I started I thought I was fucking HB8s. As I got better, the women I got were better and I realized that the prior ones were not HB8s. Point is - it's all relative. If you've never fucked anyone and then you fuck someone she's gonna be an HB8+ because you have no experience. These days I go with 0 or 1 - I think it keeps you from overanalyzing the si…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 05:38 PM
8

Being called an "asshole" or a "dick" or a "jerk" by an HB9-10 (on one's personal scale) means you're doing it right. To all the newbies reading this: this does NOT mean to be an outright dick! We have too many fucking tards on here who go out and think they need to be dicks to women in order to fuck them. A girl shouldn't be calling you an asshole or a jerk right out of the gate. It should be as a result of you responding to her shit tests and her getting frustrated that you're not complying li…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 05:36 PM
2

If anything, It keeps you sharp, on your game.. I agree with you and this is my point. For some stupid reason, my BP reasoning was that she wouldn't flirt with other people.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/17 06:19 PM
2

I wrote that poorly - she was playing with her hair while he was talking to her.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/17 04:07 AM
1

Some communities are more inclusive than others. I've found the music scene to be super accepting of people, be it house, salsa, jazz, dead, you name it. The arts/drama seem very accepting as well, albeit a little too flamboyant for me. Sure, some people will be dicks. You need to weed then out and find people who accept you. In the process of weeding out the people that don't belong and/or reject you, you'll find you build a thick skin that attracts others.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 03:03 AM
1

I just got back from Miami. I think one of the reasons why it may not matter is because the ratio of women to men is skewed in our favor. So many women everywhere, made me sad when I got back to SF.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 05:22 AM
1

Just whichever one I like more.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 01:10 AM
1

I've done the first two, not the last. I'd have to get my SMV up to do the last, will let you know when I get there.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 01:51 PM
1

Worth noting, the majority of women have low self esteem and self confidence. Be an ass hole and you'll threatens their identity, to which they'll lash out at.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 03:07 PM
3

I think there's a misconception that Chad is an ass hole and is always cocky and condescending. I've befriended a few over the past few months and realized that they are actually very kind. I've incorporated kindness into my game and it has worked wonders. Just be a little kinder (note: not "nice"). Use amused mastery when they are bitchy but have boundaries. Also, sounds like you're doing OK of chicks are grinding on you.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 03:05 PM
3

Seriously, no one fucking cares if you're solo. I do it s lot because 1) you don't have to worry about finding a friend to go with, them fucking up your game, etc. And 2) I love music. The key is to really enjoy YOURSELF! Don't be looking around like a lost child. Scan the room then chill at the bar and enjoy the music. I've had plenty of girls approach me when I did this.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 02:23 PM
4

This. It's how you say something, not what you say. I sometimes say the cringiest things and wonder how they work.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 04:22 AM
–

That would be cheating as far as I'm concerned As a guy, I agree.
/r/RedPillWives21/03/17 06:31 PM
1

UnTuckIt has some good shirts that are made to be worn untucked (get it?). I've found that their sizes fit as they have a regular size and a slim size. I just went from XL slim to L regular and the chest doesn't feel like it's gonna give at any moment.
/r/askMRP17/03/17 02:27 PM
3

I think you need to read behind the lines here. No one asks anyone out in a minute. He is saying escalate, no matter what.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 08:09 PM
4

Probably some seasonal affective aspects here, too. Do you live in a cold climate? I've noticed that around November I get sick of approaching women. Around late March early April I am a ravenous tiger who wants to fuck everything he sees.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 08:06 PM
1

pseudo success Just goes to show that the higher your SMV the more you can fuck up.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 08:02 PM
1

The things people look for (honesty, trust, respect, pair bonding, etc.) Let me tell you first hand - getting pussy is fun. However, it's easy once you have game, an abundance mentality, etc. Finding those traits above is pretty hard these days IMO. Be careful not to fuck someone in the dorm - it will get back to your girl.
/r/askMRP25/02/17 05:45 AM
38

I hate working out with my wife and I don't see how any guy could enjoy working out with a woman. I use the gym as a therapeutic time for myself and I don't get it if she's there.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/17 05:42 AM
1

She's super hot and cold (has depression AND BPD lmfao) and it really fucks with my head. Trust me, depressed girls and BPD girls don't go hot and cold for Chad. She's not that into you. She's just keeping you around for validation. Either fuck her (who cares about the bf) or move on. Thing is, I've really gotten my shit together (have gone from barely even being able to flirt with girls to flirting with numerous ones daily. Lost my vCard, lost 60 pounds etc. Nothing to write home about but bett…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 11:23 PM
-2

b.....b....bbuutt we're supposed to hate all women and think they are all below us!
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 11:18 PM
4

I once thought this exact same thing while trying cold approach one night. I actually started getting sick to my stomach thinking about everyone shitting and puking. Put things into perspective though.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 11:15 PM
8

It's not fucking worth it. Brings way more problems than it's worth and at the end of the day you're still avoiding whatever issues you have with your wife.
/r/askMRP22/02/17 03:42 AM
1

Agree with you - I am not buying it. Also don't buy the "give me til March" bit. Whatever though I'm not going to invest anything more so it's not like I am losing anything by taking his call.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/17 05:23 PM
2

Lol he called me from his office at 11pm at night.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 01:36 AM
1

Women will keep you around for validation as long as it serves them. Sure, she will act like a "friend" for a while and text you back, have convos with you, etc. But in reality, you most likely aren't going to be life long buddies here. I think you have oneitis for this chick and you are trying to rationalize it. If you're not friends with her bf and she wants to fuck you then do it. Otherwise, move on and have an abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 09:16 PM
1

You should be a gentlemen. If you had relations with her sister, then you should.... Jk fuck that bitch
/r/askTRP26/01/17 11:47 PM
2

She is being submissive towards you and doing what you tell her to do. It's a weird feeling. Sometimes girls do shit for me like buy me drinks, jumb in uber's after having just met me, etc. At first it was weird as fuck. Then I just realized that's how women react to alpha characteristics and I just wasn't used to it.
/r/askTRP26/01/17 12:52 AM
2

I do freelance web work. It adds about $1k a month to my income, which I then reinvest. Would like to grow that but web work is very much a commodity these days.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 11:08 PM
1

Stupid.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 05:15 AM
5

When we arrive at TRP, we mostly learn to fake the alpha. As I progress, I find myself needing to fake beta traits more often.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 05:10 PM
7

It's so funny when they do this BS. I think you were fine - just laugh it off if it comes up.
/r/askMRP15/01/17 05:32 AM
2

When you don't know what's going on and take it personally, it's terrible but when you know how the game works it can be pretty enjoyable to play. I was in one of these situations last night. Shit test after shit test after shit tests. I passed some, fucked up a couple, and just had a good time. I used to get offended, etc. Now I just think of it as a favor that they shit test us. Think of it like you being a dick to your friend. You don't do it to be a dick you do it to make him stronger and ab…
/r/askTRP15/01/17 04:33 AM
6

Search for the post regarding ghosting a cheater.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 07:29 PM
1

Welcome to SF.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 07:21 AM
1

It's important to remember that pleasure does not equal happiness.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 05:38 AM
2

Despite what the media and the rest of the Blue Pill will tell you, there is absolutely nothing special about a woman's love or affection. Further, it's important to remember that there is nothing special about YOU. You are NOT special - remember this! If you remember this then it would follow that there is nothing that CAN make you special - including a women's attention.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 11:08 PM
16

No better way to explain how I've felt lately. I'm getting approached like never before. I don't give a fuck. My goals are more important
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 07:41 AM
3

Guide to the good life is also a good one.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 10:57 PM
1

First step to becoming an actual man is know that you're not entitled to a damn thing. You gotta work for everything. Unfortunately, I learned this way too late in life.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 10:51 PM
1

When I put a token in a game, the game is giving me a chance to win, to play the game(dating game). Putting in the token no matter how many times I do it doesn't give me the reward nor a win(commitment). I have to beat/win the game in order to get my reward(seduction/game/frame). Awesome analogy, I'll remember that one.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 10:50 PM
1

well, yes. However, TRP is about sexual strategy with women.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 10:49 PM
11

Little bit of both. Stop thinking about her, move onto the next.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 06:20 PM
1

Usually the more vulnerable they are the easier they give it up.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 07:16 PM
2

People say never buy them anything. I've bought drinks for my last two lays. Depends on the situation.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 03:29 PM
2

This. Being a hub that brings people together will pay dividends well into the future.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 06:22 AM
1

Live an exciting and interesting life and invite her into it. Dread game.
/r/askMRP28/12/16 01:06 AM
1

Also how tough would it be to be a part of that crowd if you're in your late 20s? in a small town, you are old in your late 20s. In a major city, you are much younger since everyone us focuisng on their careers and fucking around. You'll be fine.
/r/askTRP27/12/16 11:37 PM
30

Then VERY IMPORTANTLY: Do not wait for a reaction or response just continue in the direction you were going and ignore her for the rest of the night until she approaches you. This means, no smiling at her, no eye contact with her and no watching her. I have used this technique to establish social proof throughout the night when I go out alone. I will compliment 3 - 4 women throughout the club but in different areas (e.g. in line for bathroom, at bar, on dance floor). Then, I go about my business…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 04:58 AM
2

yes.
/r/askMRP26/12/16 07:18 PM
1

Is that total lbs or lean lbs?
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 09:52 AM
4

The other night I was at a party and a girl told me about his uncomfortable she felt with the lack of diversity..... She was white like 8 of the 10 people there.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 07:16 AM
23

I've decided that it makes you look like a teenage fucking girl. You're right - get the fuck off the phone unless it's to do something quick (logistics).
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 11:05 PM
91

Texting is like medicine. An ounce of it will do wonders. Chugging the entire bottle will make you sick. Similarly, texting once or twice a day is all good, but this binge texting where you go hours on end texting back and forth is not only not generating attraction, it is in fact detrimental. On top of this, it fucks with your head a bit. You don't see this person or talk to them, yet you have these conversations with them. With so many missing pieces (context, body language, voice, etc.) your …
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 10:40 PM
5

Your 30s are fucking great man!
/r/askTRP23/12/16 04:39 PM
4

1) If you are over-investing in women (been there) that means you are probably under investing in yourself. Change that. Read the post that was on the front page about time being an investment. Lift, work, get into your hobbies 2) Practice emotionally detaching from girls. Get an average girl's number and notice how unattached you are to whether or not she responds, etc. Now, do this with girls you actually like. 3) Don't be too hard on yourself. You will likely outgrow this if you have an abund…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 05:13 AM
1

good point. I care so little about most things now.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 11:22 PM
3

When I go out by myself, its actually better. Because you are more approachable. Girls and guys will feel more conformable around you because you are not surrounded by your closed circle of friends. Bartenders are more prone to talk to you because you're just one person. So its easier to have a conversation with them. Solid points that I've never considered. I never get approached when I am with groups but almost always do when solo.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 07:29 PM
7

Some people think it's weird. I personally go out alone a lot. As my smv has gotten higher, people have started caring less about me being alone
/r/askTRP17/12/16 05:08 PM
1

I'll check it out - thank you!
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 05:10 PM
2

I see where he's going with it though. Last night at yoga, my teacher told us to put our hands in the floor and kick up as if we're going to handstand. I do a couple, but they're donkey kicks. He goes on to say that the mind is anyways imagining the worst case scenario. That if we push past that, we can accomplish so much more. On my next one I pushed it a bit further and felt joy for putting more weight on my hands. There is a lesson in ops text somewhere.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 06:24 AM
3

I always read that NLP was considered to be scientifically unproven. I'd be open to seeing what techniques you recommend though.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 05:21 AM
3

I have known two guys in my life who I'd describe as 'naturals' and they both did this. A mixture of lowest-common-denominator shit and plain old nonsense. Women lapped it up. So I believe you 100%. Shit, now that I think about it the times I've done the best are the times I talk about bull shit.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 05:08 AM
0

I highly recommend you follow this guide https://www.mindtools.com/page6.html
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 04:57 AM
7

Jesus man. I have no kids and feel like I would lose my shit in that situation. Props to you.
/r/askMRP15/12/16 10:21 PM
3

If you "graduate" so to speak, from 3's to 6's, then you shouldn't really ever downgrade. This. I was plugged in but exhibited some RP behavior and got a 5.5 - 6. Then, she went to ride the CC and I was left wondering why she didn't want more. Cue six months of frustration, depression, and finding TRP. Once I was RP I started with 4s and have worked my way up to 6.5 - 7s. It's definitely easier to go for the 4s, but I think it fucks with your head a bit. It makes your nervous to approach a 6 or …
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 05:29 PM
1

yeah, definitely a DHV to share with women.
/r/askMRP13/12/16 05:21 PM
1

You are putting in effort into accomplishing basically nothing. Contrast this to watching TV or a movie - you are putting zero effort in and getting to relax. With the time you are spending achieving fake accomplishments you could be either relaxing or accomplishing something worthwhile.
/r/askMRP13/12/16 04:47 PM
2

Same here. I think it's perfect timing - 30 lbs in about 16 weeks is definitely doable if you are strict on the diet.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 03:52 PM
2

I use Google hangouts for texting. They have a feature that lets you NOT get notifications from certain numbers. That means I respond only when I go and see if said person texted me. If you want to take it a step further, you can make it si some messages are automatically archived. That means you won't see it if you open the SMS app unless you go to archived messages. The best thing though is to have better things to do.
/r/askTRP13/12/16 06:43 AM
10

It takes a fundamental shift in thinking to achieve this. First, we must resign ourselves to the fact that what we want is going to take a long time. Any worthwhile major goal is likely going to take 10 - 15 years to achieve. Accept this truth, stop looking for short cuts - they don't exist. Secondly, think in terms of years, not days or weeks. I started dieting 12 weeks ago and thought "well in 12 weeks I will have abs!". Guess what, I have like 30 lbs to lose albeit making solid progress. I am…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 06:43 PM
2

I have a similar problem. I realized that I over invest in women and under invest in myself. Write down ten year goals. Work towards then everyday invest in yourself. When you catch yourself thinking about her, move your focus to your goals and continue to invest in yourself. Eventually you'll realize that 1) women come and go and 2) pleasure from women cannot replace the happiness of achieving and producing things.
/r/askTRP12/12/16 02:20 PM
1

There's an art to escalating at the right pace. Thank you for this nugget. I think I am guilty of escalating too quickly, which creates an initial spike in attraction but quickly tapers.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 04:49 PM
1

Never hit a PERSON because you are pissed/angry/frustrated. That is just a major loss of frame and there is no reason for that. If a woman hits you and you hit back, you are not in the wrong. However, you need to be careful because the SJW brigade will come after you.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 08:58 PM
2

fuck, why'd you have to go and say that man? :*(
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 06:29 PM
6

My point is that we are programed to believe that there are such things as endings in real life. Clean breaks do not exist, life is always in flux and never complete.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 09:11 PM
144

I was watching 21 jump street the movie today. At the end of the movie, Jonah Hill kisses his crush as the movie climaxes. Music plays, it's happily ever after and it's a HUGE deal. In reality, kissing a girl is nothing. The other night I made out with a hb7 after talking to her first 15 minutes (first time I've pulled that off) . We talked about fucking the next day. I texted her the next day, she went cold. When I was BP as fuck I would've thought "omg we kissed SHE'S THE ONE. WE'RE GONNA FUCK…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 09:28 AM
1

It happens to ALL of us. No one approaches every single girl that sends iois, even Chad's. Look at this at a starting point to grow from. I was the same way. I now can approach at night somewhat consistently, day game still sucks.
/r/askTRP30/11/16 09:38 PM
3

As my SMV goes up I am noticing the same thing. In fact, I told a girl last night that I was married and that my wife was here. Her response "We're both smart creative people, I'm sure we can figure out a way to make it work".
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 07:45 PM
1

Be genuine. If you want to help her without ulterior motives (eg get her to take an interest J you) then do it. If not then tell her I don't know or can you ask someone else or I'm not at a good stopping place at the moment.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 05:18 PM
1

yep - it's great! Some of my clothes look like shit now which sucks, but others that haven't fit in years (or never fit) now do fit! Keep it up dude.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 10:45 PM
3

You sound like me when I started my career. I am talented, confident, and don't get impressed by titles or degrees. I often did what was best vs what was convenient. People, especially older people, didn't like this. I learned that people will always avoid direct conflict. They will instead be passive aggressive. People will say they are happy to your face but later tell someone else they are not. They do this to avoid discomfort. Remember, your coworkers are not your friends or family. You are …
/r/askTRP07/11/16 07:43 PM
0

I have about 60 a daybtital, it's called keto. I am muscular but for. My love handles are almost gone giving mr a v taper.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 04:11 PM
43

I've cut out carbs for the past six weeks. I've gone through one belt and is amazingly the increase in attention I get. I am still 40 lbs away from my goal, I can't fucking wait.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 05:03 AM
1

My plan is to lose weight, get my money in order, continue my hobbies, take on some new ones, and work on improving my relationship with my wife by leading her better.
/r/askMRP24/10/16 07:55 PM
1

Thank you for this perspective. I agree with you that I need to work on my frame.
/r/askMRP24/10/16 07:15 PM
2

Where did you go? How did you swing that with work? I ask because getting out of here for three months sounds exactly like what I need. I agree with you. My perspective needs some work for sure.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/16 11:57 PM
1

You risked your relationship to either validate yourself or seek the ultimate in abundance mentality. What would someone who did it for the latter reason look like?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/16 06:12 PM
1

Agree with you 100% and am doing what I can to figure out my shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/16 12:18 AM
1

I wouldn't say low value. It's risen over the past year and she has noticed. However, I have some work to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/16 07:09 PM
2

Great perspective. To her credit, she is a solid woman - low n-count, loyal, hard working, smart, etc. The kids comment was, what I believe, an emotional comment. I am not against kids, I am just not ready right now and she is therefore she's trying every trick in the book to try to get them.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/16 04:38 PM
2

nailed it.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 08:40 PM
1

Awesome, thanks. This is along the lines of what I was planning.
/r/askTRP25/09/16 04:18 PM
2

You can't You should be continuously reading these books. Skim it during subsequent reads. Also, you don't need to remember every single thing to be effective. Remember, 20% of the info will give you 80% of the results.
/r/askMRP07/09/16 04:26 PM
2

She stayed up there for a song then came towards the bar and asked be if I saw her. I smiled said yeah and she kept going to the bar, I think maybe she thought I was holding her drink lol. Then she went back on stage. I danced with another hotter girl after but didn't escalate with her. Then the bar closed. Abundance mentality though.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 01:35 AM
2

Who cares man. If you already know you have a big nose why are you butt hurt about it? Next time this happens just agree and amplify. Stay calm, don't get upset, and definitely don't let her see that it bothered you. "yeah it's pretty big. I think it's probably the biggest nose in the room. So what are you up to tonight?" Just respond to the shit test and move on with your life.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 01:51 PM
1

Thank you. I am training for a Spartan race right now and incorporating a lot of body weight stuff. I did KM a few years ago and just about died, I'll look into MMA.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 03:40 AM
7

Oh.. I wish I had abs! I was just saying I know that's what women want. I myself am still in the 80%
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 01:16 AM
117

and more importantly, lose fat like your life depends on it! For years I have been hiding behind the stupid excuse of not wanting to lose my muscle and would rather be strong. Sure, it attracts some girls but I know the really hot ones want abs!
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 01:02 AM
6

Haha. No they were daughters/family of the restaurateurs in the area.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 05:27 AM
10

I went to Mexico last year and sat down with my wife next to a table of three hot 18 to 20 year old natives. One looked over and adjusted her hair. The other two looked over and then they adjusted their hair. The first one reacting to the other two adjusted her hair more aggressively. In the end all three were fucking with their hair like they had lice. It was pretty hilarious, I had to look away to avoid laughing.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 01:49 AM
1

My wife has a great relationship with her dad and uncles. She has a low N count (less than 3), and is very redpill. AWALT, but, having a good relationship with makes seems to make them more stable and loyal.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 09:50 PM
4

There is so much BP vomit in that thread. "doesn't she realize that men can be good before they have accomplished anything? “ Sad to see these stupid fucks thinking that a woman can like them for them, not what they do.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 03:05 PM
1

Good point. It is just a weird feeling I suppose seeing the situation for what it is. I wanted to get it off my chest but wasn't about to go tell my wife about it.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 03:08 AM
2

I second salsa. The nice thing is that any dance class will make you feel more confident dancing in any situation, which is attractive.
/r/askTRP30/07/16 04:54 PM
11

Aside from programming, it could be hormonal. Having sex with someone releases oxycotin; the "love" hormone. This is meant to bond you with the woman. Perhaps because of that you feel like you owe her something or like you should be "nice". Just know that this is at play and will subside. And remember - they want promiscuous sex just as much as we do.
/r/askTRP29/07/16 02:00 AM
1

hahahaha thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/16 07:10 PM
1

Exactly. The idea of "the one" that Rollo Tomassi talks about in "Rational Male" is exactly what's at play here. I hadn't even talked to the fucking chick and already, my mind is trying to convince me that SHE is the one.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/16 05:59 PM
6

Dread isn't a way to sprinkle alpha on it. None of this is for her. At this point, your relationship is a dead husk, and you are applying dread as the way I've always described it: A deliberate set of steps, which remove you from a shitty relationship, and put you on your best foot forward for the next one/s, allowing enough time for the people in your life to get their shit together and fight to have you back. Damn - this is legit. In the past I applied dread as a covert contract. Now I see tha…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/16 07:01 PM
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Absolutely. I realized that some of my past goals were really just covert contracts. "If I continue to do this activity then my wife will want to clean."
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/16 04:32 PM
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The biggest detriment to our self esteem is using these false core values. If I do x, I'll be y. If I fulfill my mom's every need, I'll have value. If I fulfill my mom's every need, she'll fulfill all my needs If I comfort her like I comforted my mom, she'll never leave. Catching these thoughts is so helpful to finding your true self and acting with more congruence.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/16 02:21 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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