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the men under your comment are really just..... exemplifying the victim mentality i'm sure they love to criticize whenever they see women displaying it jfc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 05:36 AM
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"be super wealthy"... my dude the list was basically to have hobbies, be mentally stable, and go out sometimes? my bf is a blue collar normal ass dude and hits almost all the points she listed. if you think literally just having a life is some level of exceptional reserved only for the rich thats really telling actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 05:34 AM
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women who are against sexual promiscuity by and large prefer men who are also against sexual promiscuity. by your own flawed logic you're still a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:06 PM
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i was sarcastically pointing out the hypocrisy of a man who regularly engages in casual sex himself preferring a virgin for a relationship. the fact that you didn't pick up on that shouldn't be surprising what with your glaring lack of self awareness and all but damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:17 PM
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have you explicitly seen women who engage in casual sex criticizing men for also engaging in casual sex? or is this just some odd hypocritical strawman you've created? i criticize men who engage in porn and casual sex because i'm against both. when i'm single i am in fact celibate. no hypocrisy about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 06:55 AM
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you're braver than i am thats for sure 😮‍💨😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 06:25 AM
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LMFAO well first one gets extra points for the hair bc i LOVE long hair on men but physique-wise? no i don't find any of these men attractive personally
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 07:09 AM
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i mean yea a little definition and whatnot is attractive but once it goes over a certain point i do find it unattractive (and that point is well before 'extreme bodybuilding'). not sure how exactly one would define that but a slightly out of shape guy is more attractive to me than a TOO in-shape guy. i also find the whole 'gym bro' thing really unattractive. like going to the gym a few times a week is a good and healthy habit that shows discipline but a man who's in the gym hours a day? and into…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 07:02 AM
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"I have had sex with plenty of both non-virgins and virgins, and I definitely preferred a virgin for marriage and long-term commitment" yep and thats where i stopped reading
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 06:44 AM
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yea you just compared not wanting kids to anorexia and self mutilation, theres no talking sense into you. you need to expand your horizons or something. go read the regretful parents sub. go read what happens to people who have kids simply because they think it's what they 'should' do and not because they genuinely want to. substance abuse, depression, and anxiety galore in that forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:35 AM
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ok would you allow something to grow inside your body for 9 months? for a large sum of money? no? exactly. "you can hire nannies" as the solution here really just proves that you haven't actually considered all of the potential reasons women choose not to have kids. and if your next argument is "oh but you can make a surrogate carry it!!!" yea sure i guess. in a hypothetical where i get 1 billion dollars to basically donate my eggs to another woman and then foist the kid off to nannies and never…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:44 AM
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you didn't say this but just to add to the analogy: if the catch for getting this hypothetical billion dollars was that i had to have a kid i absolutely would say no thank you. i mean that so sincerely. some of us HAVE done the introspection and still feel very very strongly that it's not for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 01:16 AM
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yep. and secure men want secure women. i knew my bf platonically for nearly a decade and he didn't ask me out until i worked on myself and developed the attitude you're describing. i use to be a bit desperate for love (ok 'a bit' is an understatement..) but i got to the point where i was stable, grounded, and content on my own, but still open to a relationship IF it aligned with my values. all of a sudden the calm stable guy i'd known for ages that i NEVER thought would be interested in me like …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:59 AM
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this is a fantastic list
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:24 AM
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-honestly my #1 advice is don't be desperate for a relationship. a) dating out of desperation will cause you to ignore red flags and potentially even end up in a dangerous situation. b) predators can literally smell desperation. you NEED to learn how to be comfortable by yourself while also being open to the right relationship. -for the love of good stop fucking men on the first date. good respectable men don't want a girlfriend or a wife that puts out for literally everyone they meet. 'situatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:16 AM
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no same and also in the reverse i cannot IMAGINE a situation where i'd want a man to put on a strapon... like that would instantly kill the vibe for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 07:13 AM
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i mean if their dating pool is that dire what even is the point of arguing over paying for a plate of food? they always say they don't want to be taken advantage of but simply choosing a simple lunch, or even a nice bakery for a drink and pastry, will eliminate the 'gold diggers' they're so worried about. vast majority of us just like the gesture of being taken on a date and don't care about the dollar amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 06:42 AM
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not men in here claiming it's 'not a real choice' because it reduces their dating pool.... yea, that's what literally every single dating standard does? every lifestyle choice even. the whole point of dating is to find someone who's compatible with you. if you specifically want a woman who's fine with 50/50 then you need to find one, not throw a fit about the women who aren't. if you find that the venn diagram of women you want to date and women who are fine splitting the bill is two circles may…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 06:29 AM
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eh. i mean first of all i don't want to marry a man who i'd HAVE to play any type game with. yes, there are some things i'd only do in the context of marriage because it would be absolutely stupid to do so beforehand (truly shared finances/investments/property is one i can think of off the top of my head) but cooking? nah. second of all, i don't even understand how this method would actually work? plenty of men want a woman who can cook well. i consider the fact that i happen to be a good and pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 05:39 AM
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i've encountered a few. not a very common thing in real life but they're out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 12:57 AM
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not the commenter you're replying to but i fully agree with her definition and no, that would be fine imo. the whole key with the 'nice guy' thing is that they're in fact NOT nice. flying off the handle because you got rejected isn't what normal, kind, emotionally regulated, 'nice' people do. it shows that the 'nice guy' is in fact just as big of an asshole if not worse than the men he's jealous of.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 12:56 AM
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exactly this\<sup>\</sup><sup>\</sup>^ you worded it better than i was going to. being upset that your crush doesn't like you back is normal and fine. turning into an absolute lunatic over it is not, and is also evidence that the 'nice guy' will also be an abuser if he WERE given a shot. that's the irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 12:51 AM
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i mean yea for sure, but i don't think the 'horrible partner' experience is necessarily a gender-specific thing. i know plenty of men who've been duped by a shitty woman in the same way. i just haven't seen any women sitting around saying "ugh men only like bitches" the same way men claim we deliberately choose bad partners over good ones. (i do see victim blaming absolutely, but just not in the same way).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 12:41 AM
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i'm confused because i constantly see feminists defending her? i'm a woman who finds her absolutely repulsive and honestly i do hope she gets locked up, but i'm not a feminist and never claimed to be, so there's no contradiction in me having that stance as a woman. not all women are feminists nor are we a hive-mind. a LOT of us are extremely frustrated by 'sex positive' culture and the women who constantly act like fucking a billion men is somehow 'empowering' instead of disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 06:17 PM
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i think a lot of men miss the fact that we don't want assholes, a) we get FOOLED by assholes. especially when we're young and b) a lot of 'assholes' are literal predators. in my early 20s i had this friend who was kind of an odd person (for brevity i have to leave out a LOT here). he caught me in a vulnerable spot and pulled out all the stops to get me to date him. i wasn't particularity interested but somehow he managed to convince me that he could give me everything i'd been wanting if i just …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 05:56 PM
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well good thing i didn't reject my friend when he asked me out i guess because all this sounds horribly awkward to navigate lol. hypothetically though i'd try to respect my friends feelings as best as possible. i don't think keeping my new boyfriend a secret would really be respectful to either man in this situation. i wouldn't spring my new relationship on my friend without warning or rub it in his face but i would have a conversation and tell him, if he chose to take space or even end the frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 08:09 AM
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honestly no. i live in canada so there is nothing a man can do that i can't do as a woman, i own my own business so i don't care about being 'taken more seriously' by a boss i am the boss, would it be nice to have random men leave me alone? sure. but i'm mean. i can handle it. overall personally i benefit more from the benefits of being a woman than i would the benefits of being a man. i like that i don't have to make the first move, i like not having to pay for stuff, i like being driven around…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:50 AM
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Example: the walking spiritual malignancy that is my ex wife i'm stealing this one to use about my own ex thank you lmaoooo but yes you pretty much nailed it, i'm a FANTASTIC judge of character objectively speaking. i have a knack for predicting when someone is a red flag even when it's so subtle that everyone around me thinks i'm being paranoid or cynical lol and i got like a 99% success rate. still managed to find myself in an abusive relationship (circling back to that aforementioned ex) beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:19 AM
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eh i've seen both. i've seen plenty that are consistent where they just think casual sex is fine across the board, but i've also seen a lot of men, specifically in red pill spaces, who think men are 'supposed to' have a lot of sexual partners whereas women are 'supposed to' have few or none. the whole lock vs key analogy. i fall into the 'hookup culture bad for everyone' camp and i have genuinely had men debate me on it and say that stance should ONLY be applied to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 04:57 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 06:21 AM
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^ this right here. also what i think a lot of these guys forget is that not all women are college girls at the club. the type of women they eventually want to settle down with (more conservative/traditional) shocker also care about body counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 05:28 AM
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i know the electronic/rave scene is a different culture than the music i listen to (metal) but i’m also going to a music festival this year. fortunately in my case my bf said yes to joining but if he said no i was going regardless. i can promise you going alone and possibly having other men try to chat me up would have been nothing but an annoyance lmao. decent and morally sound people will remain faithful regardless of the environment they’re in. i think it would be a huge red flag if he didn’t…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/25 06:22 PM
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'until there's a label' WAS my rule but it didn't really work. my last relationship was very rushed in the beginning, i believe partially due to this rule of mine. i didn't really have time to do the proper due diligence because he was so ALL IN right away (i know about lovebombing and whatnot now but didn't in my early 20's). now it's 'we're going to be exclusive for a good while before you get sex so buckle in' lmao. it was about 4 months in with my current relationship and honestly it would h…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/25 05:31 AM
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you're in an abusive relationship. what you just described is the cycle of abuse.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/25 02:41 AM
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yea i find it so odd because for me i really wanted to take it slow when my current relationship first started (we had already known eachother for a while so the 'ur basically a stranger' first few meetings phase wasn't a thing) but exclusivity was still a given. even prior to anything physical happening. i would feel so gross and weird seeing and being genuinely interested in one person and then going off with another to 'test the waters'. i feel like once you're actually SEEING someone and int…
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/25 01:28 AM
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i mean you're giving him all of the benefits of a girlfriend while's he's still free to go on dates and sleep around? am i understanding that right? first of all, why are you sleeping with someone without exclusivity? thats the #1 sure-fire way to become a 'plate'. don't do that. second of all plenty of men who are 'high value' on paper aren't good partners. that's not to say you should settle for a low value man by any means but don't get so caught up in him being 'high value' monetarily or in …
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/25 01:06 AM
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i hate it tbh. i'm not a 'girls girl' and on the flip side i'm not 'one of the boys' (cringe) either. i'm loyal to my friends absolutely but i have no loyalty towards someone just because we share a gender.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/25 05:49 AM
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I agree with all of these and I would also add (as someone who has been in OP's position) - Form healthy, stable, and solid female friendships. It's hard I know especially nowadays but one of the best choices I made was cutting out all of the women who enabled my bad behaviour. Hell, most of them where engaging in even worse behaviour than I was which really made it easy for me to justify what I was doing (eg: "welllll at least i'm not doing drugs"... "at least i'm not involved in sex work", etc…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/24 12:05 AM
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I do unfortunately agree that he is likely watching porn as he seems to have some type of sexual addiction/compulsion. I just didn't agree with the wording of that particular comment.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/23 08:33 PM
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I disagree. I’m an atheist and I’m very morally opposed to pornography. It’s exploitative, abusive, gives people an unhealthy view of sex and relationships, plus the entire industry itself is falsely promoted as ‘empowering’ and leads countless young impressionable women (and men, but more often women from what i’ve seen) down the path of selling their bodies online, Porn is just awful. You don’t need to be religious to have a moral opposition to it.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/23 05:55 PM
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I feel like context is important though. Like I personally study this type of stuff as a hobby. For example with tarot cards I like learning about how the mythology/symbolism has evolved though different decks and societies throughout the centuries. I even own a reproduction of the first one ever made back in the 1400’s in Italy. I don’t BELIVE in any of it, nor do I like ask a deck of cards about my problems in life, but it is possible to have an academic type interest in this stuff without goi…
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/23 04:06 AM
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I feel the issue was less about your spiritual disagreements and more about the fact that you essentially traumadumped on a man who was basically a stranger.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/23 03:56 AM
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I’m not saying her preference isn’t valid but isn’t there a point where being overly critical of your partner can be unhealthy? If this is just a personality trait of his or a bit of awkwardness telling him its a turnoff could be very hurtful.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/23 11:30 PM
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This is really odd to me because I’m so weird and awkward about sex and honestly ideally just wouldn’t have it (alas I do want to remain in a relationship so) but one thing that actually helps take the pressure off is a bit of silliness. Makes me feel less uncomfortable about the whole thing. Maybe your husband is just a bit awkward and doesn’t know what to say? He married you obviously he finds you hot. Idk I’m obviously biased but I feel like this should be seen as a cute quirk and not a perso…
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/23 11:10 PM
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I am interested in politics, I always vote, I enjoy having ability to vote, but honestly I'd willingly give it up. Women being involved in politics as a whole has caused a whole plethora of problems. Women are naturally emotional and easily influenced by emotions which is a strength in some aspects. Being incredibly empathetic is a fantastic quality in a mother, a partner, and even in some career choices like a teacher, but it's a horribly quality when it comes to leading and influencing a count…
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/22 06:24 AM
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I really just reject modern relationship dynamics, feminism, and I have a positive view of gender roles. I believe in monogamy and think casual sex/hookup culture/onlyfans and such is horribly detrimental. I believe in men being the financial providers but I also reject the whole 'sugar baby' mentality. I am perfectly happy to take on the traditional female role and take care of cleaning, cooking, errands, budgeting, etc etc. I think relationships work best when each person plays to their natura…
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/22 06:19 AM
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I think it really depends on what exactly these dresses were? A bit low cut? a bit short? not necessarily provocative but just more revealing than you're comfortable with? or full on fashion-nova-esque tacky club clothing held together by a single string? those are very different things.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/22 05:51 AM
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Sit him down Apologize for criticizing such small things and say you appreciate his help Leave him alone for a bit If you REALLY do hate the way he does things then yes do them yourself, but I think the healthier thing here would be after leaving him alone for a bit ask him to help out with some small things and reenforce that you appreciate his help without criticism. He should come around. If theres something he does that makes your work more difficult (example: if improperly folded clothes li…
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/21 08:57 AM
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Uhh he'd scream and break things? That sounds abusive. Nagging like OP is one thing but thats.... yikes.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/21 08:52 AM
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I don't know if this will help but I didn't really question much about modern society and toxic interpersonal dynamics (hookup culture, serial dating, fwbs, etc) until my early 20s. Which meant when I was collage age I unfortunately took part in the lifestyle you're describing your friends have. It was horrible, unhealthy, draining, lonely despite all the 'attention', I went home crying more often than not, I gained a large amount of weight from all the drinking and garbage late night food, my s…
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/21 11:52 PM
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Nah honestly the fact that this is a regular occurrence is weird to me. He didn’t just say “oh your friends are beautiful” he goes through their photos and comments on their appearance on the regular? Anyone would be mad. A saint would be mad at that.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/21 06:02 PM
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-Get some cute loungewear, pjs/houseclothes don't have to be ugly. (victorias secret is having a sale right now actually) -No need for a full face but doing your skincare and tossing on some light powder and mascara is quick and can really wake up your face -Brush your hair out and replace the messy bun with a cute headband?
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/21 04:39 AM
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I agree with this although I do think some things should be universally shunned. Hookup culture for example. If you want to sleep with a different person every week you should be ALLOWED to but it shouldn't be encouraged or glamorized. People can do what they wish behind closed doors but I really hate seeing young girls who are freshly 18 thinking that that type of lifestyle is whats going to make them happy and then ending up with severe emotional damage as a result. I feel the same about any o…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/21 05:56 AM
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I've wondered just how bad highschool must be now and well... this answered my question. The bad news is I don't think there's anything you can do about your peers. I've lost many many friends over the years due to my politics and values (I live in an extremely liberal city) and I've kinda just learned to deal with it. I can imagine thats a lot easier said than done when you're around them every day though. I'd recommend getting involved in something outside your school if you're feeling isolate…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/21 08:23 AM
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Ugh SAME when I was 18/19, barely legal and not even able to go to a bar yet, my group of female friends were quite literally all involved in some type of casual sex or 'poly' lifestyle, and/or some type of sexwork, and of course very into modern lib feminism (I'm not a fan of any type but i think trendy lib feminism is the most harmful). They all swore up and down that this 'freedom' they had to just do whatever and whoever they wanted was the key to a happy life. Nah. Their relationships all c…
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/21 02:02 AM
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Right no one will ever convince me hookup culture is anything other than toxic. It’s been proven that having sex with randoms is both physically dangerous, emotionally damaging, socially destructive, a whole plethora of awful things and yet having a different partner every week is still seen by some as ‘empowering’. I can’t imagine how.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 08:01 AM
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What gets me about the whole aggressive ‘sex positive’ thing and nudes is how comfortable they seem to be to just share those images behind a 5.99$ paywall. Like…. Quite literally anyone can see that? Family, coworkers, anyone willing to shell out the price of a coffee to satisfy their curiosity. Just the idea of it gives me anxiety. Whats funny is that the behaviours that come from this ‘sex positivity’ are ironically very negative both psychologically and physically.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 07:54 AM
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Agree to an extent but also disagree. The industrial revolution, feminism, AND the sexual revolution (which has had all sorts of horrible consequences), were all contributing factors that snowballed into the complete rejection of natural roles we see today. Obviously not everything can change overnight and honestly there really is no harm in single or childless women having a career it's the "YOU CAN HAVE IT ALL!" mentality that told women they can have high powered careers and still be the perf…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/21 01:37 AM
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Yea I've always really disliked the hookup/casual/player/PUA (i don't really know what the exact term i'm looking for is but just all that nonsense lol) side of the redpill convo. I feel like the focus should be building healthy relationships with like-minded women, not spitefully engaging in meaningless sex. They criticize women who waste their 20's hoeing around and stacking bodies up while they do the exact same gross thing they're criticizing? idk.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/21 05:28 AM
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See I am team traditional gender roles but my argument against this would be that this isn't 'traditional' in any way. 'Traditional' roles would be a man providing for his wife/family financially while she takes care of the home, errands, childcare, etc etc. You can't just slap the label of 'traditional roles' on something to justify it when flirting with and using random men from a bar that you have zero interest in is about the furthest from 'traditional' you can get.
/r/MensRights14/06/21 04:59 AM
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I think the bigger issue will be finding someone who shares your values who is also childfree. Once you find that person i don’t think you’ll need to worry about him leaving simply because you didn’t have kids together though.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/21 07:48 AM
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