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I read a story once about a man who posed as his 65 year old ex girlfriend and put an advertisement on Craigslist offering casual sex. She had to get the police involved because so many men were showing up to her door at all hours. I'm pretty sure a 65 year old man would have few, if any, takers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/14 03:42 AM
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Is it just me or does she really strange in the fat suit makeup? It's hard to look at her face. Not because she looks like she gained weight, but because something just doesn't look right. It almost looks as if she was in some kind of accident, and the unnatural way she moves adds to the awkwardness. I think the experiment would be better with an actual heavier person replacing the skinny model.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 10:17 PM
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You should be aware that many women will be judging you by the same standard, especially as you get closer to 40. We know that your fertility rate and sperm quality are on the way down and that your own biological clock will probably start ticking soon if you don't already have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/14 12:25 AM
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Where is the female Stanley Kubrick? If there IS no female Stanley Kubrick by now, WHY not? How do you not know of Leni Riefenstahl? She was a horrible person, but you could not possibly deny that she was enormously innovative. I suggest you read up on her and watch a couple of her films. She was interviewed by 60 Minutes or some other news program in the 1990s and interrupts her own interview to show the cameraman how to a get a better shot. She still had the vision and perfectionism of an arti…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/14 11:35 PM
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It is kind of ironic. I am blue pill and brought up the body symmetry study when arguing with a red piller over whether looks were a factor in female partner selection. Muscle and facial symmetry are indicators of youth and virility. Why would it be surprising that women would be more aroused by young, virile men? They have the healthiest sperm and are probably stronger and more capable to help care for a child, and have more years of life to support it. Considering that the purpose of female or…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/14 12:38 AM
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Actually, if you read the okcupid page they did find men responded to poses and lighting. Girls did better when smiling, but smiling and not showing teeth with backlighting was best. I replicated the poses that were popular for my own profile and got more responses and a lot of 5 star ratings afterward. Lighting and angles make a huge difference in portrait photography. I guess you are answering my question in a way, because I think most young women know that and have probably experimented throu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/14 05:23 AM
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It does seem that the women put more effort into posing with good lighting and angles than the men did. Maybe it is because girls internalize from an early age the messages that appearance is important. I can remember posing in front of mirrors like a model, seeing attractive women in every commercial and on all of the magazine covers. Are boys also conditioned from childhood to know that looks are important? That is an honest question. Some men are good at presenting themselves visually in dati…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/14 04:31 AM
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He knows she has problems and that she wants to be loved not just fucked. I don't know that his behavior could be characterized as abusive, but he is taking advantage of a person who I think has likely been abused or traumatized in the past. At the very least, she is deeply immature. The right thing to do would be to break it off and find another way to get his dick wet rather than stringing her along.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/14 08:44 PM
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I never said he was abusive. Like there are people with low intelligence who can easily be conned out of money by unscrupulous salesman because they lack the ability to make good financial decisions, there are also people with low emotional intelligence who can be conned into making poor choices in personal relationships. It isn't normal for someone to react to the statements he is making by screaming and crying or begging for affection. That is a big red flag that she has had some trauma in her…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/14 08:33 PM
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I think the usage is appropriate. From Wikipedia: "The term sexual predator is used pejoratively to describe a person seen as obtaining or trying to obtain sexual contact with another person in a metaphorically "predatory" manner ... The term is applied according to a person's moral beliefs, and does not necessarily denote criminal behavior. For example, a person who cruises a bar looking for consensual sex from someone else could be considered a sexual predator by some." Based on his own admiss…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/14 08:06 PM
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Trying to guilt someone out of one is no better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/14 07:07 PM
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Have you ever been around a dog who has been abused and neglected? It will cower if you make any type of aggressive movement or raise your voice. That is what this interaction reminded me of. It reads as verbal abuse toward a person who is deeply insecure and has a learned helplessness. He got the response he was looking for, but it is nothing to be proud of or feel good about. This woman needs therapy and support to recover from her past, not to have her unhealthy mental state exploited by a se…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/14 06:58 PM
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Most men would rather be the alpha who got sex with hot young women than the beta who got the girl in the end. You guys talk as if casual sex is the only thing men are after and no man wants a relationship. Don't you think it would be evolutionarily stupid for a man to keep having casual sex and end up turning 40 with his sperm quality now rapidly deteriorating and no offspring or only unsuccessful offspring to show for all of this sex? Here is where redpill theory defies logic to me. You guys i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/14 07:23 PM
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You are a little too old to get away with the bad boy act now. Women will usually only put up with it from high testosterone young males. Imagine a middle age woman doing a vocal fry and "not even" routine, that is how silly the older bad boys are to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/14 07:58 PM
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Why wouldn't men have a baby clock, too? Chances of attracting a young mate decline, as do fertility rates and sperm quality. You are saying men have no internalized desire to actually produce healthy children and help parent? Given historically high risks of disease and death near middle age it seems realistic to assume most men would want to start having children by their 30s at the latest. Populations with younger fathers would be at a huge evolutionary advantage over populations where men wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/14 11:28 PM
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I think they are saying attractive men have no problem getting an fwb/ons. 25 year old Brad Pitt could get sex on any given night with no trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/14 11:17 PM
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It doesn't work that way. Male refractory period is variable, increases with age and will still exist but only be reduced to some degree when new partners are introduced. You can't just orgasm an unlimited number of times over a certain period. Your body needs to be able to regenerate sperm. Not to mention you are increasing cellular mutations every time you do so, therefore high partner count in men might have some negative repercussions on offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/14 11:00 PM
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You've never heard of the term "player" applied to a man who sleeps around? It has a very negative connotation. Women do not want to be played or date players.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/14 09:12 PM
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I think you're conflating two different concepts. Women may not find porn made for men as appealing because the scenarios are fake and the sex does not look enjoyable. The camera angles and genital closeups are not what we would encounter from our point of view during sex. Too much of the focus is on the womens bodies. But we still need the visual stimuli of an attractive fit man in the scene. Porn made for women usually features good looking young men and the focus is more on the male body.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/14 09:02 PM
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I've had plenty of men tell me they can't get off to just a picture of a woman, they need explicit video porn. One told me he got bored of still images when he was just a young teenager. I can't get off just from looking at a picture, however I found that if I look at pics of a guy I think is hot right before I finish, it's a lot better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/14 09:51 PM
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You might be interested in this study which found frequency of female orgasm is associated with her male partner's body and facial symmetry: http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/000334729580014X Symmetry is a visual cue. It is an indication of fitness, good genetics, and youth. This data shows women with symmetric male partners came a lot more than women with asymmetric male partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/14 08:04 PM
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College age guys who are charismatic and social. They have the most energy, are welcome at the type of events where hookups happen, encounter large numbers of unattached females on a regular basis and still have their youthful looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 09:09 PM
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I very much believe it is wishful thinking on the part of young men who have difficulty attracting women and hope the tide will turn in their favor and they will be fending off hot young women some day. I have profiles on many casual dating websites and get contacted by so many men. The ones over 30 who are physically attractive to me are few and far between. I know that is subjective, but you can also look at hot guy tumblr pages and the male gonewild sub-reddits and see that most of the men th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 12:41 AM
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Meh. An OSU student's thesis where she got 184 volunteer undergraduates into a computer lab, gave them some photos and asked them to self-report how likely they would be to pursue a relationship with the subject of the photo. And is she really arguing in conclusions that Desperate Housewives is responsible for an increased propensity on the part of women to pursue attached men? Not only does this sound completely outlandish, but there is no data within the body of her paper to justify such a con…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/14 06:58 PM
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How can you reach that conclusion after learning marriage rates are lower and divorce rates higher for women with less education? Or learning professional women have a better chance of marrying professional men? Successful women just have more options, especially as they get older. And educated women who never marry have better longevity and health than any other group.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/14 07:13 AM
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Where did the study say college educated men were attracted to women who were also college educated? If it wasn't stated then don't try and claim you know those men were attracted to their wives brain and not their tits or ass. Or that they got her pregnant and had to get married. This study doesn't prove much. Besides the study doesn't even say if these women are intelligent. All that was required was a bachelor's degree. Were these accredited colleges, or Ivy League? For all I know this study …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/14 04:21 AM
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For the same reason that I stated. The pool of available mates near them happen to have the same level to education. They don't specifically prefer or want the education. It's hard to imagine the sole reason is access. In any city or suburb it's likely easier to find people less educated and less successful if you have a college degree and good job. I'm also not certain why it matters if they are choosing educated women because of proximity or desire for a more equal-status partner. The end resu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/14 03:37 AM
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No it doesn't. It says college educated men were more likely to marry college educated women. It didn't say that's what attracted them to those women. If college education and professional careers were not attractive attributes, there would be no demonstrable preference, but the study found a clear preference. It also didn't say how successful those marriages are. It also was based on people ages 30-44. There are two studies, the one you refer to was a Pew study. Why do you think the ages and su…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/14 01:04 AM
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If 100% of women had college degrees and professional careers, this type of analysis could not be done. However, 100% of women do not have degrees and careers so the comparison on preferences can be analyzed. From looking at income data, the authors were able to show that successful men and women preferentially marry each other rather than randomly choosing from the available pool or choosing lesser educated and non-professionals.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/14 10:55 PM
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You've been reading studies and articles, but you can't cite any of these studies and articles? You only give a personal anecdote. The studies I linked to up above show that successful men appear to be attracted to successful women precisely because they are successful women. The statistical correlation is no accident. You may know that levels of wealth inequality have been on the rise in the USA. Social scientists believe that this trend of successful people marrying each other is a significant…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/14 10:14 PM
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Where is your evidence that this is what the majority of people want? Assortative mating trends appear to dominate marriage statistics, with college-educated career men preferring college-educated career women by a significant margin. In fact, if you are a woman who wants to marry an educated man with a good career, completing college and entering the work force puts you at a decided advantage. http://pareto.uab.es/nguner/ggksPandP-December2013.pdf http://www.pewsocialtrends.org/2010/01/19/women…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/14 10:00 PM
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Not sure that jealousy needs to be brought into the mix. I sort of look at women like this the same way I look at men like the Wolf of Wall Street guy. Sure, if you're greedy and materialistic and have no morals you can make a quick buck. You'll lose all respect in the process because you're saying you value cash more than your reputation and more than personal relationships. Also, women don't need to be all that attractive to get sexual attention from men, case in point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/14 08:53 PM
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Not going to downvote you, but I don't think this woman is very attractive, she's had a lot of plastic surgery and is rather strange looking. The man involved is a hideous beast and I doubt even the ugliest of women is going to be jealous of that relationship. I'd personally rather be ugly, working a minimum wage job and spending time around people I enjoy than in the midst of this psychodrama hoping some racist old manhag throws change at me for pretending to like him. Life is too short.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/14 07:07 PM
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Sorry. Julianne Moore looked terrible in Don Jon She was supposed to look terrible in Don Jon (edit: at least as terrible as an A-list actress can, which is still way hotter than an average person on their bad days). That was the whole point (swoosh). The guy ends up having a meaningful sexual relationship with a woman who is too depressed to even put on makeup, dress well or do her hair. Her character is the counterbalance to the appearance-obsessed Scarlett Johannsen. Even look at the way the …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/14 12:17 AM
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I want my children to have the best chance they can get. Then you should have them while you are young in your peak physical and mental years for raising a child, with fresher, healthier sperm. There is a reason sperm banks refuse donors past a certain age, generally early to mid thirties.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/14 11:15 PM
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I have a real life anecdotal example. A 10/10 friend is drowning in pussy, asked me not long ago why none of the girls he dates want an LTR. Because they know you're a manwhore player, good for fun times not commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/14 10:58 PM
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Not disagreeing with you, but I think the women use him to get their name out in the tabloids more than simply for his money. If you notice he always "dates" up-and-coming models and they are very conspicuously photographed in bikinis in what appear to be staged/approved shots, designed to make the women look as attractive as possible. You'll never see the "girlfriend" in a natural pose, meanwhile Leo's belly is hanging out. It worked for Giselle and Bar, who became famous and wealthy and the ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/14 10:51 PM
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The word theory has a specific meaning in science. These views do not qualify as a theory, at best you have an inference or a model, and not a scientific one at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/14 07:24 AM
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Why would men want to see older women in porn? My guess is because men are stimulated by variety in secondary sexual traits and novelty far more than they are by youth. When you get a little older and saggier you will probably understand what that means. I'm not afraid of aging as so many red pill men appear to be. My female role models are in their 50s and 60s, beautiful and accomplished. Sexually active, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/14 07:11 AM
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MILF is a body type, typical of women who have had children and gained weight in the hips and bust. One of the most popular MILFs is Lisa Ann who is over 40. She is also one of the top searches in a few countries. GILF or mature porn is a fast growing market. Many actresses portraying teens are in their 20s and 30s. I would likely be cast as a teen if I did porn since I'm petite with a young looking face, even though I'm closer to 30. Welcome to reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/14 06:30 AM
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It various by country, but the number 2 search in the USA is MILF. It is hardly a surprise teen would be number 1 considering the biggest market for porn is teenage boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/14 06:21 AM
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The wall only applies to women How is this not religious and tribalist thinking? It sounds as if red pill belief offers men the false hope of prolonged/eternal youth for being part of a sanctified group (men), while denying this privilege to "the other" (women). It is like a way to bond with men and feel like part of a community while being told things you want to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/14 06:19 AM
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I'm better looking, in better shape, smarter, more experienced, more self-confident, wealthier etc etc. Which is true for millions of women your age, too. But when it comes to seeking out a ltr, most young people will probably still prefer to find someone closer to their own age with common goals which may include accumulating wealth and experience together.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/14 10:53 PM
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If they are post wall why do men love masturbating to porn which features them? Maybe I don't understand what the wall means? I thought it is the point at which a person is no longer sexually desirable to most people. MILF and cougar porn is very popular and mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/14 10:25 PM
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I was able to find some statistics for marriage and it looks like age gaps over 10 years are very uncommon. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships 60% of people marry someone within 3 year of their own age. Over 90% within 10 years. I'm a kinky sub and I date younger men. My experience is that older men just don't have a strong enough sex drive to keep up with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/14 09:58 PM
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