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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	My feminist wife age 44 who used to complain about abuse of male power at work is now having sex with her 29 year old employee while breaking our marriage vow Women somehow assumed that if they were in power they wouldn’t act on their libido? File for divorce first(before she does). You'll have a huge advantage outcome-wise.	/r/MensRights	13/09/23 03:19 PM
3	How do you protect yourself against being accused of sexual assault. Make sure she's on top at some point and have her acknowledge it later in a text.	/r/MensRights	11/09/23 03:48 AM
2	Kevin Costner ordered to pay ex-wife $130,000 per month in child support Yeah but you'd never truly appreciate the value of it. You'd never know the time and energy spent to get things correct.	/r/MensRights	17/07/23 05:08 AM
17	Kevin Costner ordered to pay ex-wife $130,000 per month in child support In some places she could buy a home every month or more frequently.	/r/MensRights	17/07/23 03:43 AM
3	Women and the trap of "oPeN cOmMuNiCaTiOn" Sort of. Traditionally women had a man in their life until marriage. Their father. They lived at his home until they moved in with their husbands. The woman's family even paid a dowry to offset the burden. Women do best with a strong male role model always around to guide them. Find a women with her father.	/r/TheRedPill	02/07/23 04:22 AM
-2	Women and the trap of "oPeN cOmMuNiCaTiOn" You sound young. Get better at moving on more quickly. Being open and honest and vulnerable will make you a team but obviously if she's not on the team quickly diagnose it and tell her and if she still doesn't get it move on. Many girls, especially in the west carry more traumatic load than anyone can reasonable handle. It's a shame but it's not your problem to fix. Do not take away the idea that it's open honest communication that's the problem. It's the key to true intimate teamwork with an ap…	/r/TheRedPill	02/07/23 04:17 AM
1	Being asked about past relationship experience and LTRs. If you have to use dread game more than a few times it's probably time to next and find a more unicorny LTR. I know plenty of married women who break the AWALT mold. Of course, you still have to be a man and lead, and age and experience do help as well, but you can find one who doesn't chronically misbehave and actually wants to be a supportive partner and not some financial emotional parasite with a vag.	/r/TheRedPill	28/06/23 04:06 AM
1	Being asked about past relationship experience and LTRs. If her entire judgement frame about you and the relationship is based on the cold facts of relationship lengths then you've done something terribly wrong. You have to be fun, sincere and charming and have good interactions that create good feelings and demonstrate social proof and at that point you can tell her you were a marionette until a magic spell turned you into a real boy and she'll find a frame to make it okay because she likes you.	/r/TheRedPill	28/06/23 03:59 AM
11	Being asked about past relationship experience and LTRs. Your mindset with this fictitious future woman is already that of seeking her validation. You need abundance mentality. Just be straight right away and if she ghosts because if it then it was never going to work. Also, screen her first and then she'll self-qualify and seek your validation. You should be worried about HER body count, not ashamed of your own. Women don't discount men for that it's actually an add for men because of social proof.	/r/TheRedPill	28/06/23 03:53 AM
1	Being asked about past relationship experience and LTRs. Don't lie, it's anti-charismatic. Nothing is a bigger red flag then incongruity. Just say "Don't worry about it." Or even better "I'd tell you, but then it wouldn't be a mystery." If you end up getting serious about commitment then you could say "Listen, we've both been with other people, the truth is those others don't really matter to me, you do. So people that matter, just one."	/r/TheRedPill	28/06/23 03:47 AM
1	Had two great dates, then she ghosts me She did something for you that you should have done. Screening. She knew there was not an ideal connection between you guys other than physical. You can do better. Screen next time and be discerning. Be the validator. I mean good on you for smashing but it's not like she's going to be good company outside that frame. Get there faster and avoid time-wasting. Screen and escalate and always keep abundance mentality.	/r/TheRedPill	22/05/23 03:41 AM
1	Do men really age like "wine" (especially past 40)? You're looking at it through the lens of how a man judges SMV. Women DO judge on looks but it's not as heavily weighted in the calculation as how we judge women on looks. A confident unflappable kind man of good humor will always be more attractive than a younger try-hard who's in good shape. A man in his 40's usually has his shit together and rarely worries about much as he's built his career, his wisdom and his social skills in a way no younger man who's still working on these things can fake.…	/r/TheRedPill	10/05/23 02:42 AM
1	Is anyone else completely sick of the "man stupid and incompetent" trope in every single piece of media now a days? Korean dramas are pretty much all I watch anymore. Sometimes the men are simps but you don't often see them portrayed as incompetents.	/r/MensRights	03/05/23 08:31 PM
1	Interpreting strange signals from weird girl Your availability is too high. You spend too much time beating around the bush. Just say "hey let's fuck" next time or physically escalate. If she says no just back off and give her some time for the idea to marinate. In the meantime, expand your social circle and meet other girls. Eventually shell contact you again after you go silent. By then you should have other girls in mind. Remember, if you don't respond to a text that makes her curious and raises attraction. If you have multiple girls te…	/r/TheRedPill	22/04/23 06:22 AM
-1	My boyfriend's cancer was ruining my mental health so I left him So Newt was honest about it.	/r/MensRights	22/04/23 03:58 AM
2	My boyfriend's cancer was ruining my mental health so I left him Didn't Edwards do that as well?	/r/MensRights	22/04/23 03:45 AM
6	How do I fix my brain and mind? Check out "The power of Now" by Eckhart Tolle. I recommend the audiobook. It tells you, within the first 10 minutes, how to control your mind and be at peace. From there you can choose your path mindfully.	/r/TheRedPill	15/04/23 05:15 PM
16	Exes. Emotional investment is biologically programmed. Especially your first love. It's a hangover from a time when if you just left after you banged, she'd be pregnant and alone and your offspring would be at a severe disadvantage as another man has no desire to provide resources to your offspring. You'll just need time. When you think of her, think of her as a normal person who wipes poop off her butt, cuts people off in traffic, doesn't pay people back on time, eats the last donut...etc...instead o…	/r/TheRedPill	10/04/23 03:50 PM
3	"If I Don't Text You Don't Get Mad, Alright?" The problem here is incongruence. You are faking abundance mentality. Sometimes you can pull that off but more often than not people can detect it and then you're toast. A better plan would be to become busier, meet more people and screen them. Then you'll have a natural abundance mentality. It doesn't have to be parties on the weekends and going out on weeknights or cold approach day game in the street. Get involved in clubs and organizations. Do volunteer work. Attend a church or a temple regu…	/r/TheRedPill	10/04/23 03:13 PM
12	Got invited out with cute blonde, she carpooled with me \| Night went sideways, she got her period and was occupied by orbiters You missed an opportunity with the Betas. Women are acutely tuned to social hierarchy, especially among men. If you want to be good with women be good with men too. When the betas came in they judged you as a competitor for her attention and framed you as such. An opposition frame. You had an opportunity to pressure flip by not framing them as opposition but future friends. You can become the validator in the interaction and get them self-screening. Be nice, be friendly. Introduce yourself. Defl…	/r/TheRedPill	09/04/23 01:41 AM
9	A little story. She's using you for an ego boost. Do the same. Be noncommital when she asks you out like "maybe, I might have something going on that weekend, I'll let you know." And then use the interaction to boost your confidence to ask someone out who knows how to communicate.	/r/TheRedPill	23/03/23 10:05 AM
9	My girlfriend is calling me immature for being upset that my PS4 broke. Takeaway: Something upsetting happened to you and she's not being supportive.	/r/MensRights	30/01/23 08:40 AM
2	Is there a cultural push to make men accept cheating or cheating-like behaviors from their wife ? This is why I watch Kdramas now.	/r/MensRights	23/12/22 12:51 AM
3	My friend (16m) is being blackmailed by a random stranger (19f) because she sent him a nude . That task force was dissolved in 2011 by Eric Holder.	/r/MensRights	13/10/22 10:28 AM
68	If she was stolen then she was never yours to begin with You were never hers, it was just her turn.	/r/TheRedPill	01/09/22 11:40 PM
2	Circumcised male here, why do people hate circumcision? There is evidence that the trauma of it so early in life causes lifelong psychological issues including, anxiety and depression.	/r/MensRights	05/07/22 12:48 AM
3	Fucking some other guys girlfriend This guy either did not see the red flags or chose to ignore them.	/r/TheRedPill	01/06/22 03:33 PM
1	Don’t forget to give Uber a one star rating in the App Store/Google Play Who is using that rating to decide at this point? 😆	/r/MensRights	21/05/22 03:27 PM
0	Lady who tries to expose toxic men gets called out for her own toxicity ...very few "instincts" deal with social situations. those aren't passed down genetically, they're learned behaviors... Ok no. They are passed down genetically. Please study more evolutionary biology regarding behavior. Specifically social behavior and the effects of seretonin on sexual selection.	/r/PussyPassDenied	23/03/22 05:28 PM
0	Lady who tries to expose toxic men gets called out for her own toxicity Oh lol. Sorry to hurt your fellings sweetheart. I guess you have a better explanation.	/r/PussyPassDenied	23/03/22 03:18 PM
9	The fact that a pregnant woman publicly and proudly announces that she'll abort her kid if it's a man makes my stomach turn inside out Cultural madness is a luxury available only to wealthy and prosperous societies. I suspect the great collapse will end it swify.	/r/MensRights	23/03/22 02:58 PM
0	Lady who tries to expose toxic men gets called out for her own toxicity Right, It's a behavioral phenominon known workdwide and throughout all recorded history that just happens to be a learned behavior passed down through the generations...	/r/PussyPassDenied	23/03/22 02:41 PM
-4	Lady who tries to expose toxic men gets called out for her own toxicity It's like kicking the tires for women. It's also instincual programing not learned behavior. What the chick in the post is talking about is not that though.	/r/PussyPassDenied	22/03/22 09:25 PM
0	Lady who tries to expose toxic men gets called out for her own toxicity Its a good sign if you are getting shit-tested. I actually appreciate it. Getting last-minute flaked though is entirely different.	/r/PussyPassDenied	22/03/22 09:24 PM
9	Lady who tries to expose toxic men gets called out for her own toxicity Or at least shit test in person. I don't undesrstand how a woman wants to be with a man that let's her disrespect his time.	/r/PussyPassDenied	22/03/22 03:37 PM
3	My story needs to be shared. Although I’m nobody important, everybody should know what happened to me. Can you move away to a place where she can no longer reach you with lawsuits?	/r/MensRights	05/02/22 04:19 PM
5	My story needs to be shared. Although I’m nobody important, everybody should know what happened to me. Maybe the best thing to do is leave it all behind. I've found anger resentment, revenge etc... End up draining energy I could be pointing with in a positive growth direction. Cut all ties and just let it go and move on if you can. Every moment you pour into it is like adding to the loss. Before long it'll be a memory and you'll be free. I know that's a hard choice but always remember it's available to you.	/r/MensRights	05/02/22 05:12 AM
2	My most direct experiences with misandry were when I had cancer Be the change you want to see in the world.	/r/MensRights	24/01/22 02:58 PM
5	My most direct experiences with misandry were when I had cancer Society is not sympathitic to male pain. You can bemoan that but I've chosen to accept it and know I dtin't need it to be happy.	/r/MensRights	23/01/22 10:07 PM
1	Woman explains how men crying turns her off I mean...	/r/MensRights	12/01/22 03:12 PM
1	Does it get better? Make friends through shared passions. Also, meditate and read more self help. Long-term internal happiness cannot be generated by external circumstances.	/r/askTRP	09/06/21 08:50 AM
2	Ignored by every girl, ever, on every platform, and in real life. It's making me depressed. Maybe you have a problem with your fundamentals. Maybe not but here is what you might doublecheck: When you speak, you do so in an unhurried way with a deep voice. You do so with clarity and authority, warmth and a touch of playfulness. When you walk, you do so with your shoulders back, standing tall. Your movements are relaxed and unhurried. You make eye contact. Solid and unflinching but not oppressivly so.(this is a major turn-on) Mentally you have outcome independence and playfullness on you…	/r/askTRP	08/05/21 10:48 PM
0	Millennials & Younger Generations Are Quickly Dividing Into Two Separate Species! They make difficult decisions that affect the future of companies with hundreds of thousands of employees. These decisions, if gotten wrong could hurt the lives and futures of all of them or, conversely, if they get those decisions correct then the business can thrive allowing new hiring, raises and job security...not to mention the products that those companies bring to society. What is the most number of people a bad decision you made affected? But even if they didn't add a thing if value, tha…	/r/TheRedPill	09/03/21 10:50 PM
1	Millennials & Younger Generations Are Quickly Dividing Into Two Separate Species! The term "income inequality" means you think you have the right to look at what someone else has and compare it to what you have. You don't. That's pretensious bullshit. The world does not owe you anything. Be glad for what you have or improve your situation but don't go around assuming you have the right to assess the total amount of weath in the world and then make moral judgements about it's distribution. I never hear people who talk about the poor mention poor people in other countries and c…	/r/TheRedPill	09/03/21 05:03 PM
1	Can you recover from doing too much for a girl ? Give it some space. Wait for her to initate contact, then don't be immediatly available. Protip: actually be busy with hobbies/interests/career/other women or friends/bodybuilding....etc. to the point where you can't fit in spur of the moment plans and need at least 3 days notice to make time to meet.	/r/askTRP	09/03/21 04:50 PM
2	Dentist told me to consider braces at the age of 35. Not confident about it. Exactly who's judgement of your looks for a year matters more than the long term health of your teeth? Just do it and see if you can run game with them on. Some girls may see them as a status symbol. Anyway, not giving a fuck is sexy.	/r/askTRP	09/03/21 04:40 PM
1	During the date, the girl mentions meeting another dude later that day? Don't kiss before you have her alone. It escalates sexusl tension but then allows it to drain off if you are not in a position to go further. Then they go cold.	/r/askTRP	01/03/21 07:18 AM
5	TRP is real, 80/20 rule is real You hope this is true because working out and eating correctly are within your control. Being comfortable approaching and putting in the work to approach and get shot down and be humiliated is terrifying. Here's the truth; He has confidence to approach that may have come from being good looking but it's that approaching that matters and if you don't believe me you've never met a fat short guy who has a lot of confidence and gets laid by hot girls a lot.	/r/askTRP	26/02/21 03:30 AM
1	I fucked up, now I am hurting Yeah it's like unlocking a superpower. Deep inner peace, available on demand.	/r/askTRP	25/02/21 07:02 AM
8	I fucked up, now I am hurting Get busy. Don't have time to dwell on things you can't change. Don't ruminate. Don't ruminate. If you find yourself thinking about her, actively think about something else....or clear your mind of all thoughts and meditate. Check out "The Power of Now." By Eckhardt Toll (life changer). Begin a peoductive hobby that will grow your skill and confidence.	/r/askTRP	24/02/21 02:55 PM
1	Girl flaked twice You didn't generate attraction within her.	/r/askTRP	07/02/21 09:01 PM
2	What do you think will happen when GEN Z women hit the wall? Dude.... The genetic algorithm of our genes doesn't care about political trends.	/r/askTRP	06/02/21 08:21 AM
2	Plate rating my SMV in excel spreadsheet Achieve some high level goals. Excel at some unique skills. Build some things that other people can't build. Earn some money. Have hobbies you enjoy. Do these things and you'll never worry about what someone who doesn't thinks about you at all.	/r/askTRP	02/02/21 11:41 PM
5	Is Black Pill full of shit? Actually, hot girls are easier to bang because they aren't carrying as much resentment, anger and hostility. Unless you have a low self-esteem then fat ugly girls are easier to bang. Confident people relate to confident people regardless of looks. Looks do matter but far more so for women than men. Men have game. Women rarely do and that's a huge disadvantage.	/r/askTRP	16/01/21 10:42 PM
0	Is Black Pill full of shit? Anyhow, black pill typically attracts guys who are 5ft3 and under, with an ugly face, early balding, severe facial disfigurement etc. Like the serious 1/10s or lower. Then yeah they kinda have a point. It's unfortunate. Benjamin Franklin was morbidly obese and he slayed pussy like a champ. Attitude can overcome quite a lot of physical defects.	/r/askTRP	15/01/21 08:50 PM
12	How To Text A Girl If You Don't Want To Use It Exclusively For Logistics It's difficult over text because 95% of communication is nonverbal. I'd suggest that teasing or qualifying in a playful way would be good. Girls also can use emojis far less sparingly as well. Something like: "So you seem cool. Please don't tell me you're a Dolphin's fan though😝😁." Maybe subtly set some frames in there as well like. "Okay, we can go for Italian, but If I smell garlic on your breath later, you'll be the one wearing the paper bag on your head." The implication there that you'll be…	/r/seduction	19/12/20 12:48 AM
1	How To Text A Girl If You Don't Want To Use It Exclusively For Logistics I think its still good.	/r/seduction	19/12/20 12:36 AM
2	I’ve made animated summaries of 50 of the best self improvement books. I’ve made a list of the links for each of the videos so you can find and watch the summary of the book you are interested in more easily. Hope this is useful. But the core of Seduction is having confidence and self-assurance. These books provide the tools to attain them.	/r/seduction	16/12/20 11:10 PM
4	I’ve made animated summaries of 50 of the best self improvement books. I’ve made a list of the links for each of the videos so you can find and watch the summary of the book you are interested in more easily. Hope this is useful. I haven't read all of these but as I scrolled through I saw all of the best that I have read in this list. The greatest of these, in my opinion, is The Power of Now. I listened to the audiobook and I'm not exxagerating when I say that I can devide my life into two parts. Before hearing The Power of Now and after. This should be required reading for every human. I was never truly alive prior to this book.	/r/seduction	16/12/20 11:09 PM
1	Getting Laid a Lot Requires You to be “Creepy” Being "Creepy" just means she doesn't know what you want because you are hiding it. Its incongruity. Your words and actions don't match. Either that or you have a very needy vibe. You can be butfugly but if you confidently approach a woman and tell her clearly, playfully, sincerely and unabiguously that you want to fuck, in a way that conveys an offer of value and doesn't come off as desperate or one-sided, she may think you bold, silly or even outragoeus, but she won't find you "creepy."	/r/TheRedPill	16/12/20 09:24 PM
2	How can I stop being needy when I'm friendless? Friends are made thtough mutual interest. You charm naturally when doing something you love. Hobbies, goals, and skills you need them. Make a goal to have a hobby of buiding a skill. Achieving and progressing towards them builds confidence. Last year I built a flowerbed. This year I'm studying a new language. I can't go a week without my friends bugging me to come out and play. When you master a skill you gain non-neediness and outcome independence. Try meditation for improving your mood. It bri…	/r/askTRP	10/11/20 10:06 PM
1	How the fuck do I stop being so quiet around girls? You seem to be judging the girls without even knowing them. Some of the most amazing people I know are not striking at first glance. Step 1) Leave judgement behind. You never know how awesome poeple are and judgements only put a barrier between you and others. Think of Van Wilder in the movie, he was carefree and kind to everyone. Step 2) Be fun. You can be aloof and get aproached by being fun. Maybe dance around a bit, hum, put some sing-song in your voice. Or at least be comfortable. Meditate …	/r/askTRP	03/11/20 07:30 PM
3	“Father” bring lawyer to expose pregnant cheating wife at baby shower. Abortion can damage reproductive organs and cause long-term and sometimes permanent problems that endanger future pregnancies. Women who have abortions are more likely to experience ectopic pregnancies, infertility, hysterectomies, stillbirths, miscarriages, and premature births than women who have not had abortions.	/r/PussyPassDenied	02/11/20 05:08 PM
0	“Father” bring lawyer to expose pregnant cheating wife at baby shower. I think we all understand what he meant. No need to be rude to the ESL crowd here.	/r/PussyPassDenied	02/11/20 03:34 PM
1	Moving To A New City (A Reflection on 4 Years of TRP) Indeed. Body language reflects confidence. I've discovered that when I meditate in a bar, people feel very at ease with the peace I radiate and approach.	/r/TheRedPill	14/10/20 10:03 PM
1	Moving To A New City (A Reflection on 4 Years of TRP) My reaction to that scenario is to reply "I'll buy the first round, you get the next one, deal?" This works well because it also conditons behavior (either she accepts or does not) and sets the frame of mutual respect. In addition, it also sets the frame that we'll be having more than one drink together. If she declines then I have a chance to say something like "oh you can't afford it?" With a playful smile. Either way, in this scenario, the woman was initially disrespectful but my method is no…	/r/TheRedPill	14/10/20 06:25 PM
1	Moving To A New City (A Reflection on 4 Years of TRP) You make a fair point. I think we need to distinguish rudeness from playful flirting. It can be subtle and with deadpan delivery. This may be intentional(instinctual) behavior to judge wether a man is easily aggrivated. Telling a woman calmly that it's disrespectful and you don't to appreciate it may be different from becoming upset.	/r/TheRedPill	14/10/20 04:52 PM
2	Moving To A New City (A Reflection on 4 Years of TRP) I think pointing out disrespect is important in a relationship. With strangers I count it as banter or sarcasm and react playfully. If someone who doesnt know me at all is disrespectful, that's not actually about me, it's a reflection of weakness in their charachter. If I agree and amplify then I have risen above the disrespect without setting it up as a relationship pattern.	/r/TheRedPill	13/10/20 06:32 PM
1	Moving To A New City (A Reflection on 4 Years of TRP) Crack open the Power of Now. That book resonated with my soul and opened a new dimension to reality. It should be required reading for all humans. Better still, the audiobook. Listen while you walk or work.	/r/TheRedPill	12/10/20 01:54 PM
1	Moving To A New City (A Reflection on 4 Years of TRP) In what ways can I make myself more charismatic? I'm still on the extreme of introverted, and I don't want that to negatively impact my ability to build a network of people in this new place. Meditate. Look up an audiobook called "The power of now."It will teach you to find deep peace on command. Angry?-deep peace Bitter?-deep peace, Depressed?-deep peace. It's like learning a super-power to control your emotions and check your ego. You'll be surprised how quickly people in a bar will cold appro…	/r/TheRedPill	12/10/20 07:58 AM
2	No such thing as a Female Simp Thats the most retarted shit I've ever heard. Hit the gym, meditate and work on your attitude. You sound like a butt-hurt self-pity loser who'd rather make excuses than do self-improvement because it's hard. You and the 2 people who upvoted should re-read the sidebar. Until you do that and get over your anger phase you have no business posing here.	/r/TheRedPill	20/09/20 05:44 AM
1	No such thing as a Female Simp He's wrong	/r/TheRedPill	19/09/20 05:52 PM
0	No such thing as a Female Simp Wrong. Not all men are equal. Yes, a lot of men are sad and women have their pick of them, but they do not have thier pick of srong, confident, self-assured, men. Different markets. Here is a great article explaining it.	/r/TheRedPill	19/09/20 05:51 PM
1	Need some older male advice here Avoid toxic people. Avoid complainers. Avoid judging people. Avoid negativity and control your thoughts. Meditate each day. Be aware of sources of negativity in your life wether they be "friends" or family or your own thoughts and cut them out of your life (yes even family, especially family). Maybe also check out Owen Cook on youtube.	/r/askTRP	08/09/20 12:36 PM
3	Splitting hotel room bill with chick Here's what I do with dates or drinks. I say "I'll get this one, you get the next one." This does several good things: -Sets the frame that we'll be spitting costs and the relationship will be equal in that regard. -Establishes that there will be a "next one." -Avoids an awkward moment where sbe expected you to pay and discovers otherwise on short notice. And If there is no next time, NBD because we aren't broke and it's setting the frame of equality going forward that's important.	/r/askTRP	31/08/20 03:40 PM
1	Why some guys refuse to be friends when I say we could be friends, as a female? Maybe he just knows that he's very attracted to you and knows that he would feel that every time he interacted with you.	/r/seduction	28/08/20 05:16 PM
2	Failed a shit test with a chick at gym. ...aww yeah I totally blew it. My bad. I guess I owe you dinner now.	/r/askTRP	24/08/20 05:05 AM
1	So how am i supposed to act in terms of kino, on a date, in these corona-times? Maintain eye contact. Touch her upper back naturally. Slap her knee on the way to the restroom. Put your hand on her lower back and guide her while crossing the street. ∆That last one.	/r/askTRP	22/08/20 07:19 AM
2	Never Let a Woman See You Bleed. The flip side of the coin is congruity and alphaness. Nothing builds trust in a relationship like honesty and opening up. You don't have to lie or hide and you become relatable. We speak with our body more than words so the vast majority of our communication is non-verbal. In other words, feeling like you have to hide your weakness is beta and if you have that minset you can't hide it. I lead with that shit because its alpha to show you dont care if they'll judge you negatively for it. If they d…	/r/TheRedPill	21/08/20 06:26 PM
2	Broke up with a LTR girl and she hopped on tinder and seeking arrangement right away You've been her plate this whle time. You got nexted.	/r/askTRP	21/08/20 05:28 AM
6	I rejected a shy girl that suspiciously changed her behavior. "easy" ...except that a 20 year old is dumb and crazy. What comes after the meaningless nut? Rape acusations is what.	/r/askTRP	07/08/20 06:00 AM
1	Fort Knox Army sergeant, 46, is stabbed by his wife, 42, for failing to clean the couch and suffers a punctured lung. Wife reportedly claimed that she was carving a turkey when Gill 'came at her,' and that he accidentally 'lunged into the knife.' You ever sat on a dirty couch? Its a totally justified stabbing. It counts as self-defense.	/r/PussyPassDenied	03/08/20 10:03 PM
2	How do I add a bit of comfort to plates to prevent them from breaking too quickly? If they break let them break and meet new ones. Don't be incingruous and perpetuate a false frame.	/r/askTRP	31/07/20 10:48 PM
2	I think I found out why my social skills suck I recently listened to "The power of Now." By Eckhart Tolle. It is the solution to your problem.	/r/askTRP	24/07/20 11:23 PM
2	Red Pill In Action: Relationship Advice Edition Pic and send to the other two were there for you when we were together 😊♥️♥️♥️😁👌♥️😊❤️♥️😊😁❤️😊♥️❤️😊💕♥️❤️😁❤️😁♥️😊😊😁😁👌❤️😊😊😊😊♥️❤️😊😁👌👈 y yo I'm so happy 😭💀💀💀😂💀😂😍💀😭😍😍😍😂😍😍😂😂🙌💀😭😂💀😭😂😍💀💀💀💀😂😍😍😍😍😭🙌😍😂😍😂😂🙌😂😂😍😂😭😍💀😭😍 gg a little warm 🔥🌞🌞🌞😁🔥😍💀😂 Edit: this is a pocket-dial comment that apparently happened while riding my bike but I'm leaving it because it came out pretty cool.	/r/TheRedPill	11/07/20 12:57 AM
1	Red Pill In Action: Relationship Advice Edition That may be true or just how they perceived it after getting clingly oneitis and driving them away and then trying to figure out why she left and deciding that they were a victim of judgement for being honest.	/r/TheRedPill	10/07/20 11:47 PM
1	Red Pill In Action: Relationship Advice Edition This. This post makes a lot of assumption based just on what one person in that situation said about it. There may have been any number of reasons she lost attraction but the one she said might have been the way she perceived it or maybe not. Maybe he did something that seemed really clingy or like he didn't have abundance mentality. Either way, honest communication builds relationship. You lose them when you front. BUT you also have to not get oneitis and lose abundance mentality and get clingy…	/r/TheRedPill	10/07/20 11:44 PM
6	Tinder date goes south. Sounds like she had issues then. Maybe childhood abuse, who knows.	/r/askTRP	07/07/20 01:49 PM
-5	Tinder date goes south. In that case it does sound like a shit test. Agree and amplify in that case. Her : Don't touch me. You: Yeah, good call, that kind of made me want to throw up in my mouth a little. We should swim out here a little more and see if the ocean can't wash the smell of broccoli farts off of you.	/r/askTRP	07/07/20 01:20 PM
4	Tinder date goes south. Protip: Light physical escalation is great to build sexual tension but if you start messing around and back off then the sexual tension dissolves a bit. Don't escalate physically in public beyond light touch.	/r/askTRP	07/07/20 01:04 PM
1	I need help, pretty young. You are overthinking it. Don't be afraid to go for the LTR just because of TRP if you want it, but set boundaries. She has low partner count and could be a loyal low-drama partner. You've read enough to know how not to be taken advantage of but sometimes you can find a good LTR early. Worst case you make a mistake but at 17, NBD. Mistakes help you learn. First of all, know what YOU really want. That's the hard part. No set of books or articles or sayings has a perfect answer. TRP is a guide, not…	/r/askTRP	02/07/20 04:35 PM
1	Ex texted me that she's fucking other guys If you hard nexted her then you don't have oneitis. Give it some space and meet other people and you'll pave over it quick.	/r/askTRP	21/06/20 11:04 PM
1	What’s the most beta shit you’ve ever done/said to a girl? That actually sounds boss as fuck, so long as you said it in person. You did right? Or....did you text that?	/r/askTRP	14/06/20 04:58 AM
1	Fort Knox Army sergeant, 46, is stabbed by his wife, 42, for failing to clean the couch and suffers a punctured lung. Wife reportedly claimed that she was carving a turkey when Gill 'came at her,' and that he accidentally 'lunged into the knife.' He couldn't just clean the couch?	/r/PussyPassDenied	28/05/20 07:16 AM
1	“she said what she said” I'm guessing that last name is "Rigsby".	/r/PussyPassDenied	28/05/20 07:02 AM
1	Guy at my LTRs job is trying fuck her There's a reason she's telling you this. It's a comfort test. Stop reacting. Agree and amplify. Your only response should be (playfully) "cool, well if you do end up banging the guy use protection. I don't want to end up giving my next GF the herp." And then never bring it up again.	/r/askTRP	14/05/20 05:57 AM
1	Exception They do that already. I think it's constitutionally protected speech. I get that it's nasty and I wouldn't like it nor would I do it to others but I also don't like the idea of it being illegal. Harassment is a crime though and that should be enforced	/r/PussyPassDenied	06/05/20 04:10 PM
1	Exception Some mods are claiming there were bribery offers. I'm not sure if I believe it though.	/r/PussyPassDenied	06/05/20 03:11 PM
1	Exception I think the valet wouldn't give him his car keys because he was too drunk.	/r/PussyPassDenied	06/05/20 03:09 PM
4	Exception I don't get why doxxing is suddenly a crime. The phone book used to doxx the shit out of me. Name, number, street address.	/r/PussyPassDenied	06/05/20 03:06 PM
0	Exception I like the part where he makes fun of the guy who's choking him out's watch and holds his up and says "this is worth $50k." This guy is getting clowned on for the same reason 4-chan went after Shia Lebuff's "hwndu" flags.	/r/PussyPassDenied	06/05/20 03:00 PM
5	Exception Because he's a grade A pussy with an acute sense of entitlement.	/r/PussyPassDenied	06/05/20 02:48 PM
1	"I won't be available for a week" I think a better question would be "what are you doing to build social momentum, your social circle, and meet more women?" Get busy and you won't even have time to worry about flakey girls. Date two at the same time do if one flakes your are still good and if both show up the date goes even better.	/r/askTRP	01/05/20 03:48 PM
1	My girlfriend just got a love message from her ex and I don’t know how to handle this cause she didn’t block him nor shut him down appropriately The whole point of avoiding deep commitments is that you never have to stress over anything one girl does. A man who has options and excersises them regularly internalizes abundance mentality. A man who exudes abundance mentality naturally polarizes a reaction in women that have them seeking his validation. Your girl is obviously not seeking your validation....you are seeking hers.	/r/askTRP	18/04/20 05:41 PM
2	Today Was a Bad Day, and I'm Glad It Was Aren't pre-workouts like 40% caffeine?	/r/TheRedPill	08/04/20 01:13 PM
1	Today Was a Bad Day, and I'm Glad It Was I think you can do both, should do both, but staying disciplined and mindful in regards to the empty pleasures.	/r/TheRedPill	08/04/20 01:11 PM
1	Today Was a Bad Day, and I'm Glad It Was Meditation between sets... This seems like a fantastic idea. I'm going to try this instead of grabbing my phone.	/r/TheRedPill	08/04/20 01:10 PM
2	How To Sexually Escalate Without Looking Thirsty Oh...yeah. You are corrcet, I should have put the '"' after the "?." This is what I meant to type: Other times a girl I met 20 minutes ago has literally said "why are you touching me on the shoulder like a buddy?" The close quote goes after the punctuation mark.	/r/seduction	26/03/20 06:48 PM
1	How To Sexually Escalate Without Looking Thirsty Nah, I made out with her at the bar a little then we exchanged numbers and I never called her. A few weeks later she started popping up on my "people you may know" list on Facebook. Also, the quotation mark goes after the period in a written sentence.	/r/seduction	23/03/20 01:49 PM
7	Are you TRULY happy single? I know that's part of the philosophy here, but I'm struggling to get there after a break up. Why does it feel like this doesn't apply to relationships? It just seems deeper than that. There's a continual goal of mutual growth. When you "project" the wife role onto someone, they take a different place in your life where it's not goal attainment anymore. You start acheiving goals for the both of you, as a unit. The other person is not an achieved goal. OK but that's the same point. You feel happy in a relationship because it's an unachieved goal. Also, although you feel like you are worki…	/r/seduction	22/03/20 05:08 AM
5	Are you TRULY happy single? I know that's part of the philosophy here, but I'm struggling to get there after a break up. She wasn't the person you had in your mind. That's who you miss, your fantasy projection of her. It's like a dream or a goal. It feels great to have in place while you run towards it but nobody is the person we fall in love with, that's a creation of our minds. That's what love is. It's an emotionally driven ideal we project onto a person. This is useful from a biological standpoint because it keeps people together for the purposes of reproduction and teamwork to raise children. True happiness i…	/r/seduction	22/03/20 03:47 AM
2	This piece of shit, literally... She claimed she did it to get him moved to a better ward.	/r/PussyPassDenied	22/03/20 01:50 AM
1	Advice on getting sex drive back... practically turning asexual smh In my experience the following things increase my libido: 8-9 hrs of sleep per day. Squats, deadlifts, leg press. Eating carbohydrates, especially bread. Taking BCAA's (also this lifts my mood) No fap for over 8 days. Regular cardio, walking/biking/elliptical/spin etc... Feeling clean, having a clean house and a settled mind. Talking to beautiful girls. All this may help your libido but I see a potentially deeper issue. Your post suggests that you may hang your self-worth/happiness on ge…	/r/askTRP	20/03/20 02:49 PM
5	Did i rush it? Then he goes silent. It's push-pull.	/r/askTRP	17/03/20 10:29 AM
5	Hooking up with neighbor? Shitting where I eat? Renting? Go for it. A new place is far easier to get than a new job, which is where the "eat" part comes in.	/r/askTRP	17/03/20 10:20 AM
2	How To AMOG Beta Males I bought a Ring Fit for the switch in January for about $60. I've done about 30 workouts since then ranging from 30 minutes to over an hour. It's not weight training but it has cardio/isometric/body weight/jogging/resistance band/interval training/stretching all built into each workout. I'm not bulking up but I am increasing my stamina and cellular mitochondria count and my core feels tight and strong.	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/20 06:22 PM
2	I have to fake my personality around girls and it's exhausting Non-neediness, sincerity, passion, eye-contact, active listening, screening and validation, kino, leading and decisiveness. It's not a trick, it's practice, reflection, experience and knowing what you want.	/r/askTRP	16/03/20 07:21 AM
2	I have to fake my personality around girls and it's exhausting Girls like confident guys for one main reason...confident guys are not hiding anything. They open up without fear of judgement. Your problem is not who you are, it's your lack of embracing it passionately. Think about what you truly get passionate about, express that fearlessly and without shame and bring them into your flow. When they see you not hiding, they will be attracted to the realness you shamelessly embrace and express. I got vibes from gorgeous women talking loudly to a friend about P…	/r/askTRP	16/03/20 07:09 AM
17	How To Sexually Escalate Without Looking Thirsty It only works if she's comfortable around you. If her responses indicate that she isn't comfortable with it then you don't continue. Iv'e been on dates where she was not receptive. Other times a girl I met 20 minutes ago has literally said "why are you touching me on the shoulder like a buddy? And then moved my hand lower. "	/r/seduction	15/03/20 08:34 AM
63	How To Sexually Escalate Without Looking Thirsty When you speak to her, lightly touch her upper back or shoulder while keeping eye contact. When you get up to go to the restroom, slap your hand lightly on her knee and say "I'm headed to the bathroom, I'll be right back." While keeping eye contact. When crossing the street, put your hand on her lower back and guide her across. Slowly escalate touch as the evening wears on.	/r/seduction	14/03/20 11:02 PM
14	How To Sexually Escalate Without Looking Thirsty You didn't mention touch at all. Touch, done smoothly can build sexual tension. When you speak to her, lightly touch her upper back or shoulder while keeping eye contact. When you get up to go to the restroom, slap your hand lightly on her knee and say "I'm headed to the bathroom, I'll be right back." While keeping eye contact. When crossing the street, put your hand on her lower back and guide her across. Slowly escalate touch as the evening wears on and before you know it she'll be saying thin…	/r/seduction	14/03/20 11:00 PM
6	Joe Rogan is stunned at Miriam Nakamoto’s open display of hypergamy Sure, that's a phrase I came up with meaning "don't try to change a person or change yourself for a person. Meet more people, maybe a LOT of new people with that same effort and you'll find someone who already has what you were trying to achieve. The analogy would be, instead of just taking some plot of land and moving tons of dirt around to make it the way you want, just look around for a plot that already has the features you want.	/r/TheRedPill	14/03/20 03:39 AM
9	Joe Rogan is stunned at Miriam Nakamoto’s open display of hypergamy Don't allow other people's opinions about you be your basis for your own opinions about yourself. If you are weak, fix it or accept it. Just be up front and if they don't like it, you've screened them and you go talk to someone else. Don't grade the terrain, map the terrain.	/r/TheRedPill	13/03/20 06:26 PM
6	Don’t Fear the Reaper \| Kill to Party I understand how this applies to outcome independence but also this author is cynical. He's reflecting on endings. He's writing the endings before he begins because he has no (or not clearly defined) goals for the relationships and doesn't screen his partners enough on the front end before investing time and energy into them, only to later regret them.	/r/TheRedPill	13/03/20 05:17 PM
1	Instantly losing interest. Try guiding the conversation. There are literally a million directions. You can find a way to relate and engage without following her lead in determining the direction of the conversation.	/r/askTRP	11/03/20 08:17 PM
1	I fucked up guys. Rookie mistakes. Let this be a lesson, especially to the new guys because we all take an L on occasion But enough of that. I’ve got this hot little Latina from Miami calling me from the end of the bar to play truth or dare with her and her little friends. #DreadGame #OutcomeIndependance #AbundanceMentality This is the key point of the post folks, take note.	/r/TheRedPill	11/03/20 02:24 PM
3	My life is decent and I'm lucky. I am also depressed and nothing excites me. Depression is a "zooming out" problem. Zoom in. Don't worry about the rest of your life, worry about the rest of the hour and go from there. The map is always changing. Read "The Power of Now" by Echart Tolle. Realize that you can, at any moment, escape your ever-present stream of thoughts, wants, needs, and worries, and then you can truly appreciate the beauty of being present in the unique part of time and space you currently exist in.	/r/askTRP	02/03/20 10:04 PM
2	Just witnessed a 29yo hot girl begging a 18yo guy for his number and it made me question lots of things Don't draw any conclusions from one incident. It may just be this one girl. Frankly she sounds nuts. I don't know of a girl who would ask a guy why he didn't want her number, that's just straight up cringy and most girls have a very strong social radar, far stronger than most men.	/r/seduction	02/03/20 06:00 AM
3	I struggle to get erect with new girls I think it's not uncommon. I've found if I start fingering them,properly mind you, that as They start to get off I get excited and if I start hacking it, things time out well, arousal-wise.	/r/askTRP	28/02/20 01:35 AM
2	Getting a girl’s # that works at my gym - yay or nay? Yeah I suppose I hadn't thought of it that way. Although, most communication is nonverbal though so she'd know I wasn't stalking her, she'd know I'd moved on by my demeanor, but I can see how that would be a problem for some guys who aren't direct and give off a creepy vibe.	/r/askTRP	27/02/20 07:17 AM
0	Getting a girl’s # that works at my gym - yay or nay? I wouldn't fuck up my gym time, I'd make a pass and if it fails I'd just grin and keep doing my thing. And as far as "captive" I think you'd have to be talking about something entirely different. If she feels trapped then there's something wrong. Talk, ask and move along. No need for holding hostages, at work or otherwise.	/r/askTRP	27/02/20 06:18 AM
0	Getting a girl’s # that works at my gym - yay or nay? I don't think it really matters if you think it's "desperate and sad" if there's a chance it will work. Having someone think your pickup attempt was sad literally has zero effect on your life but if it does work, then it will have a good effect for two people.	/r/askTRP	27/02/20 04:01 AM
1	Veer Clear of Female Therapists Unless they are older. I've had good experiences with some of the older ones.	/r/askTRP	19/02/20 04:09 PM
4	Didn't work like she thought Maybe they just need some titties in their mouth.	/r/PussyPassDenied	19/02/20 06:51 AM
3	First Ever Bar Pickup On First Try Social Circle game. You didn't have to make an approach which is nice. Introductions are huge.	/r/seduction	14/02/20 01:52 PM
2	Master the basics of Frame Control \| Women by Todd Valentine Exercise \| The interesting thing is wether or not you find yourself in the position of being the validator or the qualifier. You can trigger these roles automatically just with your tone and body language. I was in a job interview a few months ago with one of the owners of the company and during the interview a salesman interrupted. The owner, after he left said "Brian is a real go-getter but his demeanor takes some getting used to." When that happened I realized that the owner was qualifying himself to me…	/r/seduction	23/01/20 03:05 PM
2	Second billboard sign in Manchester UK Wasn't the Manchester bomber a woman?	/r/MensRights	23/01/20 06:30 AM
2	So basically women will fuck the most attractive guys they can and will only settle down when they've hit The Wall? It's about a number of things. Birth control removed the negative consequences of sex outside of marriage. There is no longer a social stigma for that or for divorce. Child support means that divorce is no longer disincentivized. Social services are available for women when birth control doesn't work, even if they don't know who the father is. We have made free housing and food available to almost everyone regardless of thier behavioral patterns so there's no consequence anymore for behavior tha…	/r/askTRP	16/01/20 04:32 PM
4	The Power of Abundance My goto for questions I don't want to answer is "Well I'd tell you but then it wouldn't be a mystery" * Big smirk Drives them crazy and then they keep chasing into that frame and you can tease them around endlessly. The sad thing is it can be something really small that they can already figure out but it'll fuck with them for years. I had one ask me about it years later after we broke it off.	/r/TheRedPill	14/01/20 02:59 AM
1	Am I being fucking stupid? You should say exactly this to her. Maybe take out the part about BJ's and Brazilian ass. Whatever you decide your relationship and your life with or without her will be better if you tell her the truth. She may say something that sways you one way or the other but either way, standing on honest ground is the most refreshing and freeing relief you'll ever feel and whatever comes of it will be burden-free and better-informed.	/r/askTRP	09/01/20 06:10 PM
1	Dear TRP: You were right You knew what you wanted, you screened for it and your screen/filter succeeded. You knew when you were sending long/needy replies that you were pushing her away. It was a win/win. Always be sincere, it's a great filter. You just weren't that into her and if you really were then you'd have charmed her with passion and sincere enthusiasm. You'd have honestly stated that you wanted to be in an LTR instead of playing games and running tests.	/r/TheRedPill	06/01/20 04:27 PM
1	My #1 rule of seduction: Never fucking chase The only way to truly understand how to apply this advice is calibration. Experience will help you reflect on this and know how to apply it.	/r/seduction	20/12/19 02:56 PM
3	My #1 rule of seduction: Never fucking chase Okay it's like this, say you are out and about in public and you talk to a girl but you know you are about to meet up with some friends in a few minutes. You'll talk to her in a non-committal way because you have other plans and it shows. You can make plans to see her later or not but you'll be busy regardless. So now say you talk to a girl and get shut down, but you know in your head that you'll be talking to another girl in a few minutes so it doesn't even faze you because there are 1000 reaso…	/r/seduction	20/12/19 02:50 PM
2	My #1 rule of seduction: Never fucking chase Unless you full push and the go silent , then that can sometimes generate a strong attraction weirdly. In my experience it can take weeks or months and sometimes they contact you.	/r/seduction	20/12/19 02:43 PM
1	Just had a huge fight with my wife over men's rights... [rant] You take your wife's opinion too seriously. Next time just pay her on the head and say "bless your heart." Then react to any further anger with amusement.	/r/MensRights	11/12/19 06:12 AM
1	Girl wanted to bring her BOYFRIEND and a female friend on our hang out? I bailed - good choice? So you were trying to get with a girl who had a boyfriend? That sounds unnecessarily difficult. Most of the time in a situation where a girl would get with you but has a BF she doesn't mention him. It would probably just be easier if a girl mentions a BF to move on at that point and talk to more girls.	/r/askTRP	25/11/19 11:35 AM
10	You should be talking to as many women as possible, even if you dont like them or have intentions with them. People. Talk to a lot of people. The cashier, the cab driver, the guy next to you in line. You can get (and give) a confidence boost from good interactions with anyone. Young, old, black, white, fat, thin, male, female, whatever. And this lasts a few days psychologically as well. You wear it without even noticing.	/r/seduction	24/11/19 04:10 AM
3	"Are you calling me fat?" Well if she's fat I and said "sorry, I have a height requirement." The why not just say "well damn, I guess that means it wasn't meant to be. A guy can hope. I'll try and move on as best I can with my life...somehow..."	/r/PussyPassDenied	04/11/19 03:20 AM
2	Approached by a girl on a night out Nice work. We are most attractive when we are care-free and having fun or passionate engaged in something we are good at. Just remember to escalate and act quickly because attraction starts to wane with time. It may be a good idea if you find yourself in a similar situation to try to take her home that night.	/r/seduction	01/11/19 05:10 PM
1	How do you respond to another guy asking your ltr to dance? Take it away hot shot! Sweep her off her feet, but don't start anything I can't finish.😉	/r/askTRP	01/11/19 03:07 PM
2	Frame You can win frame by zooming out to the meta. If someone wants to win a point then say, yes but in the big picture not so much...or just minimize the importance of the whole issue, you don't want to invest emotion in a frame battle and lose or attraction goes to zero.	/r/TheRedPill	01/11/19 02:43 PM
5	Frame Jordan Peterson mentions hierarchies of competency which fits in here. The math teacher is at the top of the hierarchy in math whereas the Chad is at the top of the hierarchy in building attraction in women. Just be aware of the hierarchy at hand and strive to capitalize on the hierarchy of which you are at the apex.	/r/TheRedPill	01/11/19 02:40 PM
3	Frame You can always maintain the position of the validator. Even the CEO wants to be liked and so long as you don't offer too much value and availability(chasing) you can ask qualifying questions and get them validating themselves to you. The curious outsider is always welcome if his interest seems genuine and then people begin to self-qualify and validate. This happened to me recently in a job interview where a sales guy interrupted and the interviewer apologized to me about the interruption and the…	/r/TheRedPill	01/11/19 02:37 PM
2	Girl leaves date crying I think she may have been validation seeking. That's generally a good thing in that it means she wants you to like her. Her tearing up and leaving indicates that she was upset that she failed to achieve your approval. As for the money thing she may have been in the mindset that if you pay then it counts as a romantic date but that's speculation at best. In any case my go to line in these situations is "I'll get this one, you get the next one." This sets up both the idea of her paying her fair sh…	/r/askTRP	29/10/19 02:30 PM
1	Friend used me for sex to rebound. Caught feelings but she got back with her ex. Any advice to get over her. Get busy.	/r/seduction	26/10/19 10:01 PM
3	Going out alone It's only weird if you feel weird doing it. Plenty of people breeze into bars and clubs solo. In fact it's easier to maneuver logistically this way.	/r/seduction	25/10/19 09:12 PM
9	Going out alone Don't force it. Breeze in and people around you may open you. Or otherwise you can open on a mutual shared passion. Or you can just walk up to a girl you like because you enthusiastically and genuinely like her and if that shows she'll be carried into your frame of attraction. It's when you hold back that you come off awkwardly because it doesn't seem genuine when you hold back.	/r/seduction	25/10/19 09:08 PM
6	Going out alone You see, the thing is, you want all those people you don't know to like you.. but the truth is they want you to like them. So just go in with the mindset that you have the power to grant or withhold validation from them and you'll relax and have a great time.	/r/seduction	25/10/19 09:06 PM
2	In case anyone was wondering what they teach in our schools today. Taught that men don’t experience sexism today. Wait...."adultism?!?!!?" Lololol!	/r/MensRights	10/10/19 02:58 PM
16	More Women Are Paying Alimony In Divorce Settlements & THEY ARE PISSED!!!! Sound like a win. Alimony is fucked.	/r/PussyPassDenied	01/10/19 04:10 AM
2	Made over a mill by age 34, now more depressed than ever Your attitude is the problem. No purpose. You lost optomism and a sense of achievement Get goals. Achieve goals. Dialy, weekly, monthly, yearly, decadely goals. GOALS	/r/askTRP	14/09/19 01:38 AM
3	Round 2 boys Maybe find a way to indirectly imply it and move on during the conversation like: You: do you like swimming? Her: yeah I do actually, I go a few times a week to the YMCA pool. I love it, it s a great workout. Do you ever swim at the Y? You: um..actually I don't swim in public pools because I have a hard time finding trunks big enough to prevent a wardrobe malfunction but I like to go to lakes. My buddy has this awesome cabin up north. Great hiking there too. I love hiking BTW, do you like to hik…	/r/seduction	27/08/19 03:34 AM
1	Women-only STEM college programs under attack for male discrimination What if I identify as a woman?	/r/PussyPassDenied	21/08/19 05:19 AM
1	Denied I've gotten an A/C cold many times. It's a real thing, anecdotally speaking.	/r/PussyPassDenied	18/07/19 05:33 PM
1	I am a good and genuine person who made a “mistake” and regret it deeply 13? Chomo!	/r/PussyPassDenied	18/07/19 05:28 PM
2	Whats a high income skill you should learn in your younger years? Hard work.	/r/askTRP	30/06/19 12:03 AM
6	Miss Hooters Tennessee finalist, 21, is arrested for smashing up her boyfriend's house Nice word economy!	/r/PussyPassDenied	24/06/19 10:17 PM
4	Why have male attraction standards for looks increased so much relative to female standards? Because 99% of the time given the choice between learning approach or doing online dating, guys will choose online. Go out and approach. Even if you are bad at it you are still in the top 1% and can slay tail.	/r/askTRP	24/06/19 10:07 PM
1	i just don't know what i'm doing with this LTR, help me asktrp Start being more honest. Don't fear a confrontation, just say it. Then set boundaries and stand by them.	/r/askTRP	27/05/19 10:39 PM
6	I can't seem to stop. I found that replacing "short dopamine" activities which feel good but are unproductive (Weed, video games, mastrubation, alcohol...etc...) With "long dopamine" activities which are less satisfying but yealyd measurable gains to your life (completing my homework, working out, completing an art project, taking a nature hike, fixing my car, gardening, etc...) Is, in itself, addictive and becomes an obsession. Since then my life has become much more fullfilling. I still slip up and waste a day or t…	/r/askTRP	21/05/19 09:13 PM
5	The Basics Of Game Determine why you think it's a lie and fix that.	/r/seduction	16/05/19 02:01 PM
1	Found LTR on tinder Walk towards your next relationship	/r/askTRP	15/05/19 06:42 PM
0	Alyssa Milano Calls For Sex Strike To Oppose Abortion Law I mean...until you get all smooth and seduce her. Then shell make up excuses to do what she wants to.	/r/TheRedPill	12/05/19 03:24 AM
1	Chateau Heartiste Has Been Shuttered in What Appears to be WordPress' Opening Salvo as They Join the Greater Tech Censorship War. Yeah maybe, but incomplete censorship is ineffective.	/r/TheRedPill	11/05/19 10:19 PM
1	Chateau Heartiste Has Been Shuttered in What Appears to be WordPress' Opening Salvo as They Join the Greater Tech Censorship War. Ultimately futile. They'll chase off the money along with men and men will just migrate to other less mainstream sites. Never use half-measures, it allows your opponants to adapt.	/r/TheRedPill	11/05/19 07:07 AM
2	Chateau Heartiste Has Been Shuttered in What Appears to be WordPress' Opening Salvo as They Join the Greater Tech Censorship War. Read it. It's an anti-communist warning. A dystopian novel. Also it's really dark	/r/TheRedPill	11/05/19 07:02 AM
1	Do women challenge men who act dominant? I disagree, a direct approach sets frame, shows confidence and unless she out right rejects him that unbroken frame stands and puts him in a good position. You can never be perceived as creepy if you make your intentions clear.	/r/askTRP	10/05/19 03:24 PM
2	Do women challenge men who act dominant? It seems like she was "Screening you. Maybe not but to be sure, next time, try leading her. Interrupt her and say "Listen, I'm enjoying this conversation but this scene is getting stale, what do you say we head over to (local nearby spot) and continue the discussion over there?" That's called "moving her" and if she goes along it's a good sign that you can lead the Interaction to a more private location later with a comment like "why don't we go somewhere a little quieter for a night cap." If sh…	/r/askTRP	10/05/19 03:20 PM
1	Attention, my fellow FuckButts. Although I do believe the star wars trailer gave away to much. I heard a familiar laugh.	/r/PussyPassDenied	27/04/19 06:36 AM
1	What is a creep? Being "creepy" means they don't know what you want or that your intentions don't match your body language. It comes off as weird.	/r/seduction	27/04/19 12:20 AM
3	Got brutally reminded If you're fucking a girl every other night then your body is not the problem. Improve it for sure if it helps your confidence but the way you'll improve fastest is by studying and practicing Amused mastery and outcome independence. Lifting is great but I've known a ridiculous amout of truly buff guys that are still insecure because they though getting a perfect body would be easy mode. They still get shit-tested its just now they are "dumb" or "cheap" or "douchy" or whatever. You can be as buff …	/r/TheRedPill	23/04/19 05:32 PM
2	Got brutally reminded "The first one was just telling the truth." No, she was shit-testing you...hard. That's an opportunity. Even if you don't pass, never just accept it as "the truth." She framed you hard and you let it drop you emotionally the rest of the night.	/r/TheRedPill	23/04/19 03:14 PM
20	Got brutally reminded No, it's no about lifting. You failed 2 shit tests and lost frame. Study and practice Amused Mastery. It's simple, agree and amplify. Her: "You have no ass." You: " Yeah but my dick is small too so it all balances out." Then smile, put your hand on the small of her back while looking her in the eye and lead her upstairs. Her: " You have no game." You: " Yeah, I'm pretty pathetic so we're a good match." Smile eye contact*... "But don't get excited, I don't go home with just anyone, buy me a drink…	/r/TheRedPill	23/04/19 02:58 PM
3	Fuck this hurts so bad There is another post that ripped this. It's fatalistic and wrong. You may not be able to keep every girl but if you have the correct mindset most quality women will fight to keep you.	/r/TheRedPill	21/04/19 06:32 PM
7	Fuck this hurts so bad But the upside is that once you know you can act in such a way as to maximize the happiness of both yourself and the women in your life. Challenge them and lead them. Be successful and motivated in your work and hobbies. Be sincere and direct. Set boundaries and enforce them and never chase. Be calm and unflappable. Keep abundance mentality and amused mastery. Do these things and it will bring out their best, most loyal selves and you can be confident that you'll never have to worry one way or a…	/r/TheRedPill	21/04/19 06:28 PM
1	How do you guys deal with existential crisis? It can go either way...sometimes it can change very quickly and unpredictivly. It all depends on who you're with and what thoughts go through your mind. I've had some great experiences too but the bad are not worth the good IMO.	/r/askTRP	20/04/19 01:08 PM
2	How do you guys deal with existential crisis? Not mushrooms. You don't want to have the "life has no point" trip. Believe me.	/r/askTRP	20/04/19 06:35 AM
1	How do you guys deal with existential crisis? Zoom in. You can always zoom out to make your lifespan seem insignificant. Zoom in. Worry about the meaning of your day or week. It's all about framing. Worry not about that which you cannot control.	/r/askTRP	20/04/19 06:33 AM
1	A Doctor’s opinion on infant circumcision Is this the cuck from the presidents tweet replies?	/r/MensRights	11/03/19 03:27 PM
1	Bumble is launching a women-first networking tool that lets recruiters exclude men Is that 50-100% of overall value or of profit after bills are paid?	/r/TheRedPill	03/03/19 08:23 PM
2	Bumble is launching a women-first networking tool that lets recruiters exclude men Well we're dealing with a lot of intangibles here that I fold in like work environment, other employees, tool of the job in terms of pay and benefits so its not an easy question, more of a relative one but, assuming I don't have the capital to start a business and work for myself I'll pay about 25-50% for access to their capital and process structure which makes me much more profitable and effective. So then about 50-75% of my overall profitability to the company paid back is enough to keep me f…	/r/TheRedPill	03/03/19 07:02 AM
1	Bumble is launching a women-first networking tool that lets recruiters exclude men I assume by good you mean profitable. By that definition any ratio less than 1 that also allows you to keep that employee from seeking a better opportunity.	/r/TheRedPill	02/03/19 07:14 AM
2	Bumble is launching a women-first networking tool that lets recruiters exclude men More power to them I say. As a man I honestly don't care if a business excludes me for that. I think it's a dumb idea for business. When I work for a company I receive pay and benefits and they receive the benefits of my work which, logically will be worth more than they pay me. If a company would pass over an opportunity to receive the benefit of my work for someone female but less valuable then that is their loss, not mine. The same would be true of a restaurant who had a "no men allowed" poli…	/r/TheRedPill	01/03/19 11:04 PM
2	Is this forum filled with nerds pretending to be alpha? If you are worried whether or not someone thinks you are alpha or not then you have more work to do. Jumping up to prove your worth when it is challenged is the same as chasing. Be the validator not the one seeking validation. Be the fiddle player not the dancer. Lead, do not follow.	/r/askTRP	25/02/19 06:52 PM
11	Tired of being a failure with women; especially being at college right now. 3 points. Point 1 - "Creepiness" means you are being unclear of your intentions right from the start. You have hundreds of muscles in your body that affect your posture and facial expressions. You cannot hide your body language which is a true reflection of your state of mind. If your words say one thing and your body says another it freaks people out. Express unabashed interest in a fun and flirty way right away. Don't approach in a hurried way. When you talk to her don't try to come in sideway…	/r/seduction	14/02/19 04:44 PM
1	Slept with girl from my class, said sex was too rough? Use less force on the slap. Whats rough to a guy and whats rough to a girl are different.	/r/askTRP	02/02/19 10:02 PM
1	Slept with girl from my class, said sex was too rough? This seems easy. Just keep it going and don't be as rough next time.	/r/askTRP	02/02/19 10:02 PM
2	TLC Broadcasts the mutilation of a minor in first recorded and televised "celebrity" sex change. I use the "reddit is fun" app.	/r/TheRedPill	01/02/19 04:20 AM
1	TLC Broadcasts the mutilation of a minor in first recorded and televised "celebrity" sex change. I'm sure the mother will take the starring lead role as "victim" in her child's suicide.	/r/TheRedPill	01/02/19 04:19 AM
5	What happened to my country? (Brazil) When women can cast off their historical and darwinian instinct to prove virtue, class, loyalty and value to keep a provider in her life for the kids she produces because the government replaces the need for fathers with entitlement checks, then women have no reason not to succumb to hedonism because there is no risk that not having the father of her children around puts them at risk of starvation.	/r/TheRedPill	22/01/19 09:17 PM
34	[F28] SHY GUYS: How do I tell a potential (but extremely shy) guy that I'm in an open marriage and want to play, without scaring him away? He's going to fall in love with you or already is. Shyguys are not good targets for casual affairs. They are romantics and someone us going to get hurt. Don't lead him on.	/r/seduction	23/12/18 01:12 PM
2	anyone wanna talk? You need goals. Figure out what you want to to with your life. What does life mean to you? Most people go with "have kids." Some do not. You need a goal for your life, a goal for your decade, a goal for your year, a goal for the month and a goal for the week. You start putting checkmarks in your shorter and medium range goals and you'll find your zest for life.	/r/askTRP	11/12/18 12:02 AM
1	Co-worker accused me of staring at her ass (lifeguarding) Why are they like this? "I was actually trying to stare at your cunt but your ass kept getting in the way."	/r/askTRP	08/12/18 11:04 PM
1	Why do I lose all my confidence and momentum after jerking off? I start to get a bit agitated irrationally and women I wouldn't normally find attractive start to seem kinda hot. Its like the prison effect where more and more starts to seem plausible. Also there are "discharges" from my dick when I take a dump. I assume its like an overflow valve from my balls being too full. So anyway, at that point the aggression and libido are high enough to cause frustration which counterbalances the confidence and energy.	/r/askTRP	06/12/18 03:40 PM
15	Why do I lose all my confidence and momentum after jerking off? Having an orgasm triggers hormonal changes in your body. It absolutely has a noticeable effect. I can't speak for others but the longer it's been since I came, the more energetic and confident I feel....to a point. After 6 weeks it gets a bit weird.	/r/askTRP	05/12/18 07:56 PM
2	So the good looking guy in my friend group is a virgin but the obnoxious one who pees on cars gets laid all the time? He's comfortable in his own skin and doesn't put on airs or get nervous. He just does what he does an it comes off as obviously genuine. Selling genuine passion and realness is effortless. You can impress a woman by talking sincerely and passionately about how awesome your star wars figure collection is as long as you really believe it and believe they should believe it too. It ties into the concept of "leading."	/r/seduction	24/10/18 09:31 PM
3	So my drink got spiked Practice?	/r/seduction	13/10/18 06:56 AM
2	When you hear "Not Ready For A Relationship” - PLEASE Learn from my mistakes Maybe, maybe not. Her leaving caused you to do quite a bit of self-analysis. Perhaps there was less under your control then you imagine.	/r/seduction	25/09/18 08:32 AM
9	Efforts to ban TRP have surfaced once again The right thinks the left are insane. The left thinks the right is evil. We're laughing at them and they're fighting a holy war.	/r/TheRedPill	12/09/18 07:33 PM
1	One of the popular girls in my college dorms is openly defending me from bullying. While I'm thankful, it's not doing me any favours for my SMV... Do something your good at, something you win at or are good at and enjoy. When you are seen going somewhere, leading, not following, then others will notice and begin following you. This can be a sport or hobby or passion. Sincerity and passion will draw others to you naturally. It sounds like you are trying to fit in. Even if you try to hide it, your body language gives it away. You aren't hiding anything. Even if you go up and say "hey I'm new and I'm trying to find a social group to fit into"…	/r/askTRP	03/08/18 03:23 PM
4	"It's kinda sick how much joy I get out of being cruel to old white men" - the new NYT editor everybody... So she's on the editorial board but all but one of those tweets has a grammatical error.	/r/MensRights	02/08/18 07:09 PM
3	"It's kinda sick how much joy I get out of being cruel to old white men" - the new NYT editor everybody... If what she says is true then I'd like to see the original tweets she was supposedly parodying.	/r/MensRights	02/08/18 07:03 PM
-1	Machiavellian Tinder - How To Play Tinder: The Pussy Slayer, The Videogame Interesting idea but does it work?	/r/TheRedPill	14/07/18 07:58 PM
1	Is this a shit test or genuine feedback? Me: "not worth it."	/r/askTRP	19/06/18 04:46 AM
1	[FR] “Buy me a drink” shit test It works either way. As soon as she agrees you got her and if she says no to the offer or renigs then it makes her look like cheap or like a user and she's not going to risk that once you set the frame.	/r/seduction	30/04/18 06:38 PM
13	[FR] “Buy me a drink” shit test My go to for this: "Tell you what, I'll buy thus round, you get the next." This not only solves the power dynamic but it also sets a frame that you'll be talking for at least two drinks.	/r/seduction	30/04/18 05:49 PM
2	How NOT to Day Game You have a bad approach mindset. Have a mindset of giving and lack of expectation. Have fun and when you get rejected remember your successes and reset your mood.	/r/TheRedPill	21/04/18 12:04 AM
4	Lift I think once you start TRT if you do it for more than a few months then you have to continue or your T will drop below the levels it was when you started and never return to normal.	/r/TheRedPill	18/03/18 06:44 AM
1	5 Signs She Wants You to Approach Her My fat friend kills because he is bold and a little pushy but it works. I once saw him walk up to a girl, say "what's up?" With his arms open. The next thing I knew they were making out. Turns out she was a newlywed.	/r/seduction	18/02/18 07:40 AM
1	So, you're a dopamine junkie? The gameplan is as follows: Step 1- Make an effort to remember that the next time I find myself going for that short-term dopamine hit, stop and think of the bigger, better dopamine hit released from achieving my goals and try to do that instead. Step 2- repeat Step 1. It doesn't have to be complex, just habitual. One simple change done over and over makes a for a big change.	/r/TheRedPill	08/01/18 03:19 PM
1	So, you're a dopamine junkie? Right, that's what he's saying. Specifically "right when you get that urge, think about the long term goal, right at that moment." As a new habit to be developed. I started doing that last year and my life has vastly improved.	/r/TheRedPill	08/01/18 02:37 PM
1	So, you're a dopamine junkie? No he actually said that you should seek out "goal-released" dopamine instead of "bad-habit" dopamine. You can think about that next time an urge comes up.	/r/TheRedPill	08/01/18 02:19 PM
1	Bitcoin: The biggest wage gap experiment ever devised I another good points can be made here about approach anxiety. You think you are risk averse? She's not going to approach you. You have to be able to overcome hesitation and take risks.	/r/MGTOW	05/01/18 07:12 PM
6	Sperm donor must pay child support to lesbian couple Because the state of Kansas would rather be shitty than make an entitlement payment.	/r/MensRights	10/12/17 05:52 PM
0	Do not talk about negative shit. Fear of those things is having way more of an impact on you than those things actually are. They are outliers highlighted for ratings and political motivation. It helps those who highlight them but not you. Whenever I feel overwhelmed I compare myself to almost everyone else in human history and realize I have it made.	/r/TheRedPill	30/10/17 05:35 PM
1	Do not talk about negative shit. I think also that it's not so much not showing "weakness" as helplessness. I think that genuinely acknowledging (though not highlighting) your flaws is fairly alpha so long as you aren't complaining or being needy because you also aren't projecting insecurity about those weaknesses.	/r/TheRedPill	30/10/17 05:30 PM
1	A girl busted my game. That's what you get for White Knighting.	/r/askTRP	15/10/17 03:34 PM
1	My prediction was correct, domain registrars are the new arm of censorship. Gab.ai gets ultimatum. Delete content or lose your domain. Actually yes. As you read, gab will be finding a new host to pay as their current host loses current and future business.	/r/TheRedPill	06/09/17 12:57 PM
0	"Just to be clear it's not a date haha" "I'm glad this is understood. Also, we're not going to be making out tonight either."	/r/seduction	01/09/17 05:41 PM
1	I've been talking to a girl (19) from a dating site. The night we met, she added me on skype, deleted her account, and we've been hitting it off amazingly (she said I know her better than her own mom does). Now after 4 days, she's gotten extremely distant. Is this a "shit test?" There's always push-pull.	/r/askTRP	15/07/17 04:30 AM
1	Had the worst sexual experience of my life last night.. Oh lord, please don't tell me people are that Dumb. I mean damn..... Not answering a complaint?!?	/r/askTRP	09/06/17 07:17 PM
1	Had the worst sexual experience of my life last night.. You can't draw blood from a turnip.	/r/askTRP	09/06/17 03:58 AM
5	Pretty sure my wife is cheating. For those who have been in similar situations, how did you moniter her phone? Relationships require trust. You don't trust her anymore. It's over.	/r/askTRP	01/06/17 11:09 PM
1	Roomie just brought back his abusive ex and Im frightened Tell him you don't want her in your house. If that doesn't work, tell her. If both fail, make new living arrangements.	/r/askTRP	29/05/17 11:01 AM
2	Hot Asian chick approached me, offered me to join her in her "super-car" around London, with her friends. I said no. Trust your gut. It seemed odd and you know it. There was an angle. No doubt.	/r/askTRP	20/05/17 09:39 PM
1	Has anyone recovered from my point? You, at 19 can absolutely do it. Start changing bad habits one at a time and if you fail, identify failure points and retry. Get rid of bad influences. If you are around people with bad habits, go to social gatherings and meet and befriend people without them. Taking control feels fantastic. You can lose the weight and get surgery for the excess skin. Change your life by changing your habits.	/r/askTRP	07/05/17 10:35 PM
2	Ex GF is miserable... Wut do? Don't reward a shitty approach. She can come correct or not at all, either way you're on to the next one. If she does decide to approach nicely she's a plate now at best. Never more.	/r/askTRP	21/04/17 06:47 AM
3	Fat? You either lazy, a liar, or mentally weak. (Unless you can show me the sonogram of a 40 pound tumor.) Whenever I do Keto and count calories I struggle with mood issues. Supplementing with BCAA's helps a bit. Do you have any Advice for keeping mood high enough to be outgoing and approach?	/r/TheRedPill	15/04/17 05:21 AM
7	[FR] Girl says: "I'm not gonna have sex", end up having sex... Kissing a girl in public can be tricky because it's a form of physical escalation but when you have to stop because you're in public it can de-escalate attraction. Best to keep the tension up until you are logistically capable of full escalation.	/r/seduction	13/04/17 04:13 PM
3	Retraction of the doxxing and firing. And my point is that if all it takes is some weirdo contacting your boss with accusations to get you fired then they were probably trying to get rid of you anyway and looking for an excuse. Most at-will situations work well for the business because they value your contribution as much as you value your paycheck.	/r/PussyPassDenied	07/02/17 10:30 PM
3	Retraction of the doxxing and firing. I actually didn't believe he got fired. Think it through. How would that actually go down? You'd have to have a number of things line up wrong for that to even come close to happening. 1: Those threatening to doxx would have real info on you (plausible but not likely outside the realm of posibility) 2: Your workplace would have to believe them. 3: Your workplace would have to give a fuck. 4: Your workplace would have solid ground to terminate (but how easy would it be to deny anything they sugge…	/r/PussyPassDenied	07/02/17 07:47 PM
2	What do you talk about in the first 10-15 minutes of a date? Also very important. Don't look at your hand when you touch her.	/r/seduction	31/01/17 07:35 AM
1	How to tell a girl my time is too valuable to deal with flakiness without coming across like a dick? Maybe even half that. "K" would be damn near flippant.	/r/seduction	17/01/17 06:43 AM
3	How to tell a girl my time is too valuable to deal with flakiness without coming across like a dick? I like "I understand. Perhaps another time then." And then I go silent and don't contact them again unless they contact me.	/r/seduction	17/01/17 06:39 AM
1	How to approach a group? Address them all briefly and ask them brief questions and then when you get back to her follow up with..."so you said....tell me more about that." And go from there. It will just look like she said something to strike your interest.	/r/seduction	29/12/16 09:32 PM
2	Need some advice, I had never gotten this much attention from the ladies before, and last night might have gone a little too hard. While that's true, it can also backfire if you don't hold very tight frame. I could easily see a situation where things get hairy. It definitely doesn't hurt to demonstrate social proof and have abundance mentality however; there's the chance that some of the better ones catch on and go into autoreject mode.	/r/seduction	11/09/16 03:25 AM
9	Need some advice, I had never gotten this much attention from the ladies before, and last night might have gone a little too hard. Okay, the issue is that they will all try to be right next to you all night. I'd do my best to stay moving and encourage them to take the opportunity to network. Introduce them to your friends and get them talking and excuse yourself.	/r/seduction	10/09/16 07:30 PM
1	How do you pick up older women? If you are getting these responses that's a good sign. All 3 are "shit tests" which means that they are testing your merit. That's your in. In instance 1, she was being playfully sarcastic. Keep up the interaction. Your strategy in instances 2 and 3 is to Agree and amplify. Ex1: Her: "Thanks, I grew them myself." You: "Impressive, I'd love to see more of your work." Ex2: Her: "I was until you showed up." You: With a smile "People see me coming and run right off. You're still here though. Then ag…	/r/seduction	09/09/16 07:17 PM
1	Is the whole "looks don't matter" mantra bullshit? Since when do looks affect social status? A girl may not care what you look like but she will care what her friends and family think you look like. If she gets a sense that her overall social standing will take a hit because of reasoning like "If that's the best she can do maybe there's something deeply wrong with her and she has to settle." Or maybe they don't think that per but just pressure her to do better based upon looks.	/r/seduction	25/08/16 07:40 PM
2	Is the whole "looks don't matter" mantra bullshit? I would agree and just add that if you have many positive social interactions in a day you can forget that maybe you don't look like a movie star and you will be happy and outgoing and genuine and it comes off as confident and charming.	/r/seduction	25/08/16 03:07 PM
2	Is the whole "looks don't matter" mantra bullshit? I don't know that they don't matter at all but I know fat guys with game and they take home good looking girls. They don't Date good looking girls probably because at some point the initial charm wears off and they realize they would be socially embarrassed but they do go home with them. I think looks are part of 3 things: 1. Initial attraction and 2.Social status. 3. Sexual satisfaction. You can overcome #1 by being charming and forward and pushing your way through. This helps alleviate #3 as w…	/r/seduction	25/08/16 02:53 PM
2	I'm not an expert by any stretch, but I have a method that I've found useful for "getting in the zone". Before I enter a bar or public place I remind myself that everyone is seeking approval and validation and I have an opportunity to make people happier.	/r/seduction	16/08/16 01:13 PM
1	Any advice on tinder game? Maybe you're waiting too long to respond. Girls no doubt get more matches than guys and if she hits you back but gets another match in the meantime then she suddenly has some options.	/r/seduction	05/08/16 02:35 PM
2	How to properly handle the "how old are you?" question You play it off. If you're older you go older. "Let's put it this way, We'd better hurry up because the elder care nurses at my home are going to notice I'm gone any minute. Oh, by the way, are you into rubber sheets?" If you're younger you say "don't worry about it, my parents won't press charges for statutory." Also notice the other frame in both statements.	/r/seduction	02/07/16 08:49 PM
0	Do you keep having amazing sets that look like they're down, but never hear from them again? 2 subtle techniques I learned from women (who did it on me) that skyrocketed my game... I swear to you it's so simple its scary It's not trying to seem mysterious, It's being cheeky and not being supplicating. It's telling them than they don't necessarily get to just know everything about you because they ask. Depending on how you say anything it can seem any number of ways. You'll throw this line out dismissively and playfully and leave them unsatisfied and curious. I use it all the time and it never gets a bad reaction.	/r/seduction	09/05/16 05:57 PM
0	Do you keep having amazing sets that look like they're down, but never hear from them again? 2 subtle techniques I learned from women (who did it on me) that skyrocketed my game... I swear to you it's so simple its scary ANSWERING ALL OF HER QUESTIONS. ONCE IN A WHILE, INTENTIONALLY DON'T ANSWER ONE OF HER QUESTIONS. Sometimes when a girl asks a tricky question I smile and say "well, I'd tell you but then it wouldn't be mysterious."	/r/seduction	09/05/16 04:43 PM
1	Posture and eye contact Yoga nails it. Mountain pose.	/r/seduction	01/04/16 05:58 PM
1	10 Text Mistakes to Avoid I think he means text her back within a window of 3 to 120 minutes. Leave a little mystery and intrigue about what or who you might be doing. Don't play it cool in person. What you think is readable like a book in person. you have thousands of muscles in your body and they all react to your thoughts and paint a clearer picture that you might think. In fact they say more than your actual words.	/r/seduction	30/03/16 04:27 PM
2	Where can I find good examples of kino and a list of IoIs? When she has to go to the bathroom, she comes back Ha! Dead giveaway right there. Another interesting sign. I've heard that if someone is in a group of people and someone else says something funny that that person will turn to look at the person they have the strongest connection with.	/r/askTRP	29/02/16 04:54 PM
0	Being a bad listener is killing your game. Here's how to be a good listener. If I give the linked website my e-mail what do they do with the information?	/r/seduction	26/02/16 05:49 PM
5	Dale Carnegie's Core Principles in "How To Win Friends and Influence People" are incredibly useful for everyday interactions with everyone. Try incorporating one of these each day. I thought all of the points discussed were remarkably straightforward. That is, I, and I assume/hope most people consciously and unconsciously practice these already. I think it all depends on the amount of socialization you had growing up. If you grew up in a big family and played sports or joined clubs and generally interacted with a lot of other people regularly then you'd learn these things naturally. For others who are more solitary or may have been an only child they may need to be explici…	/r/seduction	16/02/16 06:11 PM
1	So i just asked a girl out for the first time in my life, at 27... The real question is, do being funny and witty get you there or do you want to aim more for serious and dominant? Girls may laugh and smile at the funny guy but they follow the serious/dominant guy.	/r/seduction	06/02/16 05:59 PM
1	So i just asked a girl out for the first time in my life, at 27... Everything you mentioned absolutely can be changed. In fact it's one of the first things most seduction instructions teach. The term is "Fundamentals" and it takes some time and practice but yes, these are exactly what you work on.	/r/seduction	06/02/16 04:18 PM
1	So i just asked a girl out for the first time in my life, at 27... Well yeah, smell too, It's not an all-encompassing list but you get the idea.	/r/seduction	06/02/16 05:43 AM
2	So i just asked a girl out for the first time in my life, at 27... My point is that a little bit of success erases all of those rejections. Sometimes it can even turn them around if one of those girls who rejected you sees you with one who didn't. Also, time of day makes a huge difference too. Girls at bars have their guard up while girls out and about during the day tend not to.	/r/seduction	05/02/16 09:38 PM
4	So i just asked a girl out for the first time in my life, at 27... That's a situation where you should have made your move much sooner. She may have made up her mind in the first 5 minutes and you just didn't do much to change that impression. With romance, strike fast and if it's no good move on and don't carry rejections with you. Let me ask you this, If you asked 100 stunning beauties out and 99 said no and 1 said yes would you dwell on the fact that 99 said no or would you be excited because a bombshell babe agreed to go out with you?	/r/seduction	05/02/16 09:16 PM
5	So i just asked a girl out for the first time in my life, at 27... I think this will be my biggest battle, since i cannot physically change them Yeah, I had to practice eye contact it and made a big difference. For self-esteem I realized everyone was full of shit. Everyone. They are not better than you. They just pretend. Everyone is seeking approval and validation. Walk into a room understanding that everyone in the room is insecure and you'll do fine. As for confidence, confidence is remembering success. If you KNOW you can be successful then you have no self…	/r/seduction	05/02/16 05:55 PM
18	So i just asked a girl out for the first time in my life, at 27... I read something really great about rejection that went as follows: When a girl rejects you what is she rejecting? She doesn't know you. You've been in her life for 30 seconds. All she has to judge is your body, dress, posture, eye contact and general demeanor. You can upgrade all of those things and try again. No need for rejection to be taken deeply.	/r/seduction	05/02/16 03:44 PM
1	I think girls talk to me because I'm friendly and non-threatening...but I'm afraid to ask for her number because I think she's just being nice talking to me...because I'm nice. as she leaves, she says "maybe I'll see you again" You: * smiles * "Why leave it to chance?"	/r/seduction	28/01/16 04:29 PM
3	How to get to a girl who's been always complimented It depends on how he would say it. If he had a deep voice, spoke slowly, made eye contact and had a half-smirk and lowered eyelids you probably wouldn't care what his actual words were unless they were disqualifying trash like "wow, you're so beautiful" -------> into the dustbin of boring, unoriginal chasers!	/r/seduction	06/01/16 08:49 PM
11	How to get to a girl who's been always complimented Compliment something that is more about their choices. Compliment her choice of dress or her hairstyle but don't compliment her eyes or her beauty.	/r/seduction	06/01/16 08:45 PM
1	My go-to pickup line Ask her a question about herself and then ask another question based upon what she answers. Find areas of mutual interest that you can relate to.	/r/seduction	29/12/15 05:08 PM
2	[30M] I'm sick of women being so insulting and toxic in the dating game and that my only option is to accept it and move on. It's making me hate women. As a moderately attractive and charming guy, if you go out to any bar or club and casually talk to girls in a normal way, like 50% of them will treat you like shit and insult you or at the very least look at you like you're a piece of shit for thinking that it's okay to strike up a conversation. That's because they have their guard up. Try day game or indirect approaches. Otherwise, hang out (doing your own thing confidently) in their presence until they open you. On dating services a lot of gir…	/r/seduction	18/12/15 09:03 PM
2	Best Ways of Calming down when you're with a Girl you like? It also works to reduce attraction and energy and can be counterproductive. Be careful with this one.	/r/seduction	17/12/15 11:20 PM
1	Best Ways of Calming down when you're with a Girl you like? When you feel like that just stop and remember...YOU are the prize, not her. She's lucky to be with you not the other way around.	/r/seduction	17/12/15 11:19 PM
1	I don't fucking understand what to talk to girls about Also amplify areas of relatability. People feel a connection with those with which they share a common interest.	/r/seduction	15/11/15 12:09 AM
7	New to US dating scene. Need some cultural advice. I would suggest when it comes to paying say "I'll get this one and you can get the next one." This implies future dates and doesn't set the tone of the relationship as one where you always pay.	/r/seduction	01/11/15 10:47 PM
1	24 years old and going on my first date ever. What are some things I should know? Just be matter-of-fact about it. She'll say "oh god, I'm so sorry" out of social obligation and you'll say "no worries"... Etc and then change the subject back to her family.	/r/seduction	29/10/15 05:39 PM
1	24 years old and going on my first date ever. What are some things I should know? Make good eye contact. Move and speak slowly and in a deep voice and when you are crossing the street or moving through a crowd place your and on her lower back and guide her. Good luck.	/r/seduction	29/10/15 05:34 PM
4	24 years old and going on my first date ever. What are some things I should know? • Don't make future plans as if you were in a relationship with her. Example: "I live by myself, why don't you move in?" Wow is that....is this a common mistake these days? I feel like if this needs to be addressed then social trends are moving faster than I can keep up with.	/r/seduction	29/10/15 05:31 PM
2	Sober Seduction I disagree. Maybe if you are obviously not drinking someone may say something but I often just drink a diet soda. Helps me keep a level head.	/r/seduction	24/09/15 05:47 PM
9	Just a reminder: your female "friends" can often be trying to cockblocking you. This is extremely true. I can give a huge long post essentially confirming this but for now let's say I agree %110.	/r/seduction	14/08/15 02:02 PM
23	How to say "no" without sounding like a jerk. Don't refuse. Take the bag and put the strap around your shoulder and pose as if you wear it better with your outfit. You set others opinion of you holding the bag and if you are unflappable then that makes you sexy. However, if you can't see yourself taking this route then when she asks just look into her eyes and say "excuse me?" with a look of genuine confusion as if she started speaking french. Then if she asks again don't speak, just change the look on your face from confusion to "Are you k…	/r/seduction	23/07/15 02:54 PM
2	Is any old endo able to help? Do both and get multiple opinions. Older guys have invaluabe wisdom but younger guys have newer training.	/r/askTRP	19/06/15 01:26 AM
8	Girl who has been 'just friends' with me suddenly comes on to me. Don't cut her off completely but start responding less and less.	/r/seduction	16/05/15 05:12 PM
3	Female Orgasm 101: What every guy should know but few do 1 - At work so not clicking on a Redtube link. 2 - I was asking for a source on the urine claim not how to perform the maneuver.	/r/seduction	28/04/15 07:11 PM
1	Female Orgasm 101: What every guy should know but few do Source?	/r/seduction	28/04/15 04:35 PM
2	The "wait" line is a perfect 2/2 It's a way of catching her off guard.	/r/seduction	02/04/15 09:40 PM
65	The "wait" line is a perfect 2/2 I have a variation on that that works well. I say goodnight and hug and give a kiss on the cheek. Then right after that while they are chucklink or saying "that's sweet" I go for the real kiss. 3/3 so far.	/r/seduction	02/04/15 07:52 PM
1	I have stumbled into hell... Invite her over to spend time with you...then proceed to bore the living shit out of her. After three or four times of this she will be disillusioned. Then flip the script and start acting clingy and needy. But mainly...and trust me this works....be boring and allow her fantasy of who you are meet the reality of a very boring person. It may take some work but I think you've probably been on enough bad dates where she talks about herself or her ex or the weather and suddenly you just wish you wer…	/r/seduction	25/03/15 03:58 PM
3	How do I respond when a girl tells me that their friends likes me? Girl, you like Pac-Man? Wakka Wakka Wakka Wakka Wakka	/r/seduction	25/03/15 01:57 PM
5	How do I respond when a girl tells me that their friends likes me? Truth^ I've had a jealous fatty cock block me. "We have to go...come on..." that type of thing and it's because I ignored her.	/r/seduction	25/03/15 01:57 PM
2	How do I respond when a girl tells me that their friends likes me? Go for it. That's the easiest relationship of all and it brings you up her eyes too.	/r/seduction	25/03/15 01:55 PM
1	If you meet a woman and interact with her long enough for her to form an initial impression of you, and she feels no attraction for you, then THERE’S BASICALLY NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT! Wrong. You can absolutely turn that around BUT it probably is not worth the effort. An initial impression, while powerful, is just that. It can and in fact does change and, yes, with a little social proof and some effort you can change an initial impression and create attraction it's just an uphill battle. Uphill battles have been fought and won.	/r/seduction	20/03/15 08:38 PM
13	How to be a bad motherfucker I read something once which really stuck with me: "When you hit on a girl and she rejects you, what exactly is she rejecting? She's known you for like 30 seconds at that point so don't take it as a damnation of who you are as a human being. Just work on your approach style and wardrobe. Maybe fit-up a bit and stand taller and try again." There is an amazing video of a guy in Vegas straight-up asking 100 women if they would like to have sex. 6 of them say yes and go along. That tells you everythi…	/r/seduction	26/02/15 03:49 PM
5	Aspie male who's taken the red pill I might almost agree except that he didn't use it as an excuse. I think there are many people who legitimately do not use it as an excuse. The question is whether you mention it to people in person. If you do then that's more like making an excuse. I never mention my diagnoses to anyone in a professional context.	/r/askTRP	16/01/15 08:26 PM
1	New Red Piller. Advice required. (Friendzone) I'd like to offer alternative advice. IF....and only if....you think you can hang out with her without having or developing oneitis then going out with her platonically can increase your percieved value among other women. So long as it's not you chasing or following her and it's clear that you are both friends with no interest otherwise. If it looks like she's chasing you that's the best case scenario.	/r/askTRP	07/01/15 07:39 PM
1	Notes and tips from 5 months of heavy tindering Just a really quick add here. You mention a kiss on the cheek. I used to do this because I was afraid to kiss on the lips or that it was too forward and awkward. Once I kissed a girl on the cheek and regretted it and she giggled and said "that's swee..." and at that point I kissed her on the lips and she kissed back at that point. It was a solid move and I now have done it over and over with great success.	/r/seduction	30/12/14 07:11 PM
1	Do you worry about your stuff getting jacked when you bring a girl home? Can you elaborate on the concept of holding frame a little? I think this is an area I need to work on. Even some links would be cool for further research.	/r/seduction	02/10/14 02:34 PM
1	Interesting female opinion on being approached and creepiness during daygame approach. I would assume he means don't try to hide attraction or romantic intent. Some people like the "indirect" approach. It allows them to feel safe and avoid rejection because "I wasn't really into her anyway." The better you get at handling rejection the less insecure you are about it and the less rejection you get. It's difficult to achieve outcome independence but rejection really truly is painless. You talk to enough girls and you'll find that you can be blown off by unattractive women and then t…	/r/seduction	29/09/14 06:33 PM
0	Interesting female opinion on being approached and creepiness during daygame approach. Creepy is about the vibe you put out with your body language and how you speak. But those two things are directly controlled by your mindset. If you are hiding your intentions or have a shy posture or don't make eye contact...all those things are creepy but you can avoid them, regardless of dress or hygiene even by getting your mindset correct first.	/r/seduction	29/09/14 06:19 PM
26	Interesting female opinion on being approached and creepiness during daygame approach. Being subtle allows girls to convince themselves that they aren't being slutty.That's the difference between "Let's go back to your place and fuck." and "I'm having a great time, let's head somewhere quieter. You got anything to eat at your house?"	/r/seduction	29/09/14 06:12 PM
4	[Rant] Someone once told me that starting off F closing more unattractive women will help me gain experience. All I feel is regret after trying this. I'm sure he was just frustratingly trying to get off and it was just a byproduct.	/r/seduction	28/09/14 02:48 PM
2	The more I do pickup, the more I find "there are plenty of fish in the sea" is bullshit Standing. Her back is against a wall. Or she's sitting on the back of the couch or the edge of a bed. If you are in bed just use your hand. If you get resistance back off to kissing and then try again a bit later.	/r/seduction	18/09/14 08:34 PM
7	The more I do pickup, the more I find "there are plenty of fish in the sea" is bullshit I've found that once you get the kiss it's not that hard to close if you are alone. Do the knee technique. While you are making out slide your knee gently into her crotch and rub her with it. She might swat a hand away but she'll probably grind on a knee.	/r/seduction	18/09/14 02:36 PM
3	The more I do pickup, the more I find "there are plenty of fish in the sea" is bullshit *at current population levels	/r/seduction	18/09/14 02:32 PM
1	The more I do pickup, the more I find "there are plenty of fish in the sea" is bullshit Sounds like you don't Kino. Don't get discouraged. Reflect on your experiences and go back in with a focus on closing and Kino. Take control. In most situations a girl who agrees to go out with you will be supplicant to your requests at first so lead her in the direction you want to go and use Kino more.	/r/seduction	18/09/14 02:30 PM
7	Four years of practice, here's what I've learned Before you step through the door just take a long deep breath and remind yourself that ever person in there is seeking approval and is insecure. I then ask myself "what can I do do make someone else's day a little brighter." That's a mindset that will attract people.	/r/seduction	11/09/14 01:12 PM
2	Four years of practice, here's what I've learned A good way to practice is to start a conversation based on a frame of reference you both share. The weather, a logo of a band on her shirt, a weird person passing by...etc. Then just roll with it. Ask her a few light questions then let the conversation linger until she asks about you.... Now more advanced seducers will suggest a more direct approach but this should help you get more comfortable approaching.	/r/seduction	11/09/14 01:07 PM
17	10 Gold Tips Tips for Kino: -Don't look at where you go for the touch. Be giving eye contact. -Start with a shoulder or arm and then maybe go for the leg next time. -Go for the lower back after this. -Kino isn't just a suggestion it's huge. In my personal experience it's the #1 difference between taking a girl home and striking out. With it any girl can be seduced and without it almost none can. Get comfortable with casual touch and then, at the right moment, go for a kiss....etc... After a date when you go …	/r/seduction	07/09/14 06:22 AM
5	A girl wouldn't kiss me on the first date - I debated asking her on a second date, until I read this link. http://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&cd=1&ved=0CBwQtwIwAA&url=http%3A%2F%2Fm.youtube.com%2Fwatch%3Fv%3Dr62_qMog1Mw&rct=j&q=shipoopi%20family%20guy&ei=af_uU_bZGoS0yASw4oCIBA&usg=AFQjCNFJ165W26yNaumHpJQeqW2QQgv52Q&sig2=N3FHzVo7YqZkHNuARoJ6gA&bvm=bv.73231344,d.aWw	/r/seduction	16/08/14 06:54 AM
1	When game goes wrong: A seddit horror story He said they were under 21 not under 18.	/r/seduction	16/08/14 03:11 AM
9	Hug or nothing! So later do you want vaginal or anal sex?	/r/seduction	09/07/14 02:09 AM
2	Going solo - how do you deal with "where are your friends"? Why did you go solo? "I wanted to meet some new people tonight and that's harder to do in a group."	/r/seduction	06/07/14 06:13 AM
1	Going solo - how do you deal with "where are your friends"? That brings a negative frame into play ie "I'm boring." If you are going that route maybe say "they are my friends but I can tell they get a bit jealous and I didn't want to deal with that tonight." That frame is "I'm getting girls that make them jealous" and adds implicit value to you that you can and do pull hot chicks on the regular.	/r/seduction	06/07/14 06:08 AM
6	Im getting 'teased' for trying to learn? It's not jealosy it's ignorance of what PUA really is. Most people think it's just cheap misogynistic douchbaggery or manipulation. That and many times your friends will ridicule you for trying to change.	/r/seduction	20/06/14 06:05 AM
0	Im getting 'teased' for trying to learn? So? I mean if you are going to be the guy who talks to 10 gorgeous women in a night willing to get blown off by all of them and be fine just for the chance to get one of them then that should rate a negative zero on your reaction scale.	/r/seduction	20/06/14 06:02 AM
1	I've done over 100 approaches in 2 years and here's what I've learned Half the times I get on the dance floor and let loose I get a playful girl backing it up and dropping it low. I usually put my hands on her waist and go with the flow for a minute but I haven't figured out a good transition yet. Point being if you let loose and have fun that's attractive and you'll get approached sometimes.	/r/seduction	14/06/14 12:19 AM
3	Married guy here, I read this /r/seduction for self improvement, unexpected # close at grocery store Yeah he could have mentioned he was married so she didn't feel rejected. Live and learn.	/r/seduction	16/05/14 04:30 AM
1	How do you lot fall in love? I think if you stop seeing seduction as a "game" or a manipulation and start seeing it as a way to pique interest and maximize your positive appeal so that you both have a good time then maybe you'll stop thinking of the girls you pick up as victims of manipulaton whom you would have a hard time respecting.	/r/seduction	13/05/14 08:01 PM
1	How do you lot fall in love? In my humble opinion you'll fall in love with the one who both impresses and challenges you. You also have to have a high level of relatability. I don't think pick-up is incompatable with love it just raises the bar....which may be a good thing.	/r/seduction	13/05/14 07:56 PM
0	Any sedditors over 40? I've seen it 3 times in the last year with two of my friends. One weighs around 280 and the other more. The women were all 9's. Now granted, my friends don't have massive "rolls" but they do have huge bellies and are generally thick all around. I think that mindset may be holding you back. I mean I'm not responding just to be contrarian but as I get into PUA the more I discover is that looks are actually less than 40% of attraction...at least for women. I used to believe that if I got into good …	/r/seduction	20/04/14 07:52 PM
-1	Any sedditors over 40? "If you're overweight or out of shape, it's going to negate almost anything else you're doing." Not exactly. If you are engaging, Relatable and friendly and smiling you can score no matter your weight. I've seen it and so have you. We all have "Big guy" friend who end up taking home girls we were jealous of. The power of a smile and eye contact alone can do wonders.	/r/seduction	20/04/14 05:53 PM
1	Any sedditors over 40? "; coming off as a creepy/cranky old man; etc. I'm pretty sure I'm just making excuses for myself to avoid taking action, but I've got to admit that it seems harder to get motivated at this age. I just feel old, and hitting on women feels kind of ridiculous." Body language is unfakable...mostly. If you feel that way it comes through. So....get that out of your head. Talk to more people. Smile, and after enough positive interactions in a given day just go out to have fun. You'll be carrying the s…	/r/seduction	20/04/14 05:49 PM
8	Get inspired by job applying mistakes Also 75% of that cannot be faked. You have to change your mindset and it will be reflected genuinely in your body.	/r/seduction	19/04/14 01:41 AM
1	I'm successful with attractive women I don't actually "like". I'm unsuccessful with the ones I'd actually like a relationship with. Help? There's a saying I've heard and it goes something like "Don't think about making her like you. Instead think about banging her while you are talking to her and/or ask yourself 'what do I want?'"	/r/seduction	17/04/14 06:19 AM
1	[FR?] Girl throws her number at me, barely talked to her? Can you point me to some resources on this?	/r/seduction	28/03/14 03:53 AM
2	[FR?] Girl throws her number at me, barely talked to her? No...not through texts. Texts are for planning not relationship building.	/r/seduction	28/03/14 01:27 AM
1	The art of persuasion in 59 Seconds. Ask for sex...lol. You start escalating physically while you make out. If you are touching her pussy that means yes.	/r/seduction	23/02/14 04:06 PM
1	The art of persuasion in 59 Seconds. I think some guys use this on girls who don't want to actually have sex as a way to get the girls to change thier minds.	/r/seduction	23/02/14 04:02 PM
1	"You're a different man than I knew a few months back, you're happier, friendlier and more fun to be around" ~ Thank seduction. The line is so thin it's unbelievable. Just avoid neediness and think "how can I make someone smile today?"	/r/seduction	06/02/14 07:08 AM
5	"You're a different man than I knew a few months back, you're happier, friendlier and more fun to be around" ~ Thank seduction. Then don't approach with the purpose of picking her up. Just go talk to find out her name and say a few words and move on. No neediness, no expectation. You are just trying to make the next few moments between activities a little less boring. No stress there right? And once you see how she reacts to that I think you'll un derstand how truly hollow the monster really is. And then you'll get excited at how easy it was and want to do it again.	/r/seduction	06/02/14 07:00 AM
3	How I ask girls out Why text back at all?	/r/seduction	04/02/14 05:51 AM
1	OK so girls grind on me a lot, we dance, have fun, but I have never pulled this way. How do you guys take things further? I was with a friend of mine in a bar one night and feeling very comfortable. I accidentally kicked her foot and apologized. She replied "It's all good" casually so I got a playful smirk and began lightly kicking her foot. this delighted her. The rest of the night I continued to touched her arm, shoulder, back and hugged her at certain intervals as we got drunk. Later...sloppy close.	/r/seduction	28/01/14 04:59 AM
1	OK so girls grind on me a lot, we dance, have fun, but I have never pulled this way. How do you guys take things further? Really? Cause I get danced up on quite alot and I've never known how to close that. Can you tell me how it went cause I'd love a more direct approach even if it's only 1 in 3.	/r/seduction	27/01/14 05:41 AM
8	OK so girls grind on me a lot, we dance, have fun, but I have never pulled this way. How do you guys take things further? Although statistically there is probably at least one girl in 20 who this would work on but that's a lot of risk.	/r/seduction	26/01/14 09:20 PM
0	How I ask girls out "So I was feeling like maybe there was a connection between us but now I'm thinking I misjudged the situation. We can be friends." That could be good. But hindsight is 20/20. At least you had the nerve to tell her how you feel.	/r/seduction	22/01/14 05:04 AM
12	How I ask girls out Only problem is your text came off as slightly emotional. Not a big deal but it betrays emotional investement.	/r/seduction	21/01/14 06:00 AM
0	A note on one-itis, outcome independence, and inner game I disagree. There may be a gradient but that can change with style, hair, fitness etc. I think a well shaved overweight man in a suit is more attractive than a supermodel with no make-up the morning after a coke binge. Furthermore there is no "absolute" anything. Categorical thinking is a lazy shortcut. Nothing fits in a category. The term "aboslute" is the same as "infinity" and "forever." They can describe concepts but not actual real things.	/r/seduction	02/12/13 08:06 PM
1	A note on one-itis, outcome independence, and inner game I'm not disagreeing with most of what you posted but I would disagree with the idea tha no matter what there are some girls a guy just cannot get because of "league" issues. I'll agree that some people are just not compatable for many reasons but categories are not one. I will say that "percieved" catagories could cause specific relationships to not work because one person or the other would be embarrased by friends and family. I won't disagree about the hobbies but I do think if your hobbie is …	/r/seduction	01/12/13 07:52 PM
10	A note on one-itis, outcome independence, and inner game I agree. I thought the description of Kyle was a little weird because the OP described him as being "out of her league." The only way that could ever have been true is if it was in Kyle's mind that way. Look at the comedian Ralphie May. Can't tell much by looking. I'll bet he turns down girls like "Kelly" on a regular basis due to having his hands full already. People believe what they want to believe and a lot of guys don't want to believe how much of getting what you want is up to you and your…	/r/seduction	01/12/13 10:16 AM
3	Today I finally said fuck you to my AA Give update.	/r/seduction	25/10/13 06:39 PM
2	Today I finally said fuck you to my AA I had an experience recently which changed my whole vibe. I had worked with a woman for a year and a half when she left to marry a man in Tenessee. I saw her every day and thought she was super-cool. We'd always talk and shared details and stories from our personal lives. One day I was in her home-bar on a whim and ran into some friends who mentioned she was in town for the weekend and that they'd be meeting up with her later. I said to tell I said hi and they texted her. Then I didn't hear anyt…	/r/seduction	25/10/13 06:33 PM
3	PSA: Stop TELLING girls you like them and instead SHOW them!!! Thanks.	/r/seduction	13/10/13 06:48 PM
2	PSA: Stop TELLING girls you like them and instead SHOW them!!! What is Kino?	/r/seduction	11/10/13 07:21 PM
1	Some girls you will have chemistry with and some you won't. Take the pressure off yourself and enjoy the process. Because we realize how thin that line actually is and develop successful habits and attitudes.	/r/seduction	26/09/13 01:52 AM
1	Some girls you will have chemistry with and some you won't. Take the pressure off yourself and enjoy the process. True but there is a MUCH better chance of that happening if you make a graceful and playful exit and...as the other poster suggested "next" her.	/r/seduction	26/09/13 01:50 AM
1	Some girls you will have chemistry with and some you won't. Take the pressure off yourself and enjoy the process. I almost did the same. She's toxic though and didn't allow me to grow. Thank god for unanswered prayers.	/r/seduction	26/09/13 01:48 AM
3	A great response to "Why are you looking at me like that?" When holding eye contact. [Intermediate Mid-game] No shame. Only regrets in life are risks not taken.	/r/seduction	19/08/13 07:08 AM
1	Seddit, how is it best to approach women who are clearly in a conversation with their friends without appearing creepy? But if you have it in your head that you are more valuable to her than her wallet then that will show through in a thousand subtle micro movements, expressions and postures and she will see that and know from you that you a man she's lucky to be talking to.	/r/seduction	18/08/13 10:40 PM
1	Seddit, how is it best to approach women who are clearly in a conversation with their friends without appearing creepy? I gotta disagree here. In my experience the approach is crucial. If you can make subtle changes from coming off as creepy to coming off as bold and refreshing you can make a huge difference in the rest of the conversation. I've done approaches that were so awkward that the girl literally started laughing at me. Needless to say, I didn't close those girls.	/r/seduction	18/08/13 06:16 PM
1	I interviewed a group of 10 girls about their dating/sexual history and preferences... Here's some of what I learned. I can confirm. The first one I stopped talking to for a year. Worked out like crazy the whole time using my rejection as work out fuel. Jumped back into her life and made a big move. It worked...but whatever didn't click the first time still didn't click. The second time she never officially said it but implied friend zone. Then we got drunk together and I made some very smoothe moves... It worked but then got weird...	/r/seduction	17/08/13 04:50 AM
1	I interviewed a group of 10 girls about their dating/sexual history and preferences... Here's some of what I learned. I've made it out of the friend zone a couple of times. The first time took years and, ultimately we were not relationship compatible but remained friends. The second was much quicker. Still though, not quite a fit. Still friends with both and see them regularly. The point is that IF you get friend zoned it may not work out even if you manage to spur enough attraction to pop out. TLDR: Don't grade the terrain. Map the terrain. Much easier to find something which works than to try to make somethin…	/r/seduction	17/08/13 04:01 AM
4	I interviewed a group of 10 girls about their dating/sexual history and preferences... Here's some of what I learned. Why were you talking about yourself? You gotta make her talk about herself.	/r/seduction	17/08/13 03:54 AM
4	I interviewed a group of 10 girls about their dating/sexual history and preferences... Here's some of what I learned. I'm glad you responded about paying for the date. In my experience it does imply that you are chasing and can be off-putting. I have had much better results with girls who saw the experience as a more of a partnership than a chase. Nobody can look at someone who put them on a pedastal with as much respect as someone who challenges them.	/r/seduction	17/08/13 03:52 AM
1	[FR] From strangers to F-close in an hour For guys who don't have game and don't work on it...which is most of them...they think playing it slow is the way to go...thats the message from society...but girls don't find that exciting. So yeah, sadly I believe it.	/r/seduction	16/08/13 02:54 AM
1	[FR] From strangers to F-close in an hour I've read that if you and a girl make eye contact then you have 3 seconds to open her or it comes off as insecurity.	/r/seduction	15/08/13 05:41 PM
1	[FR] From strangers to F-close in an hour My own personalexperience with overcoming LMR is to back off a little, touch as much as she's good with...kissing...rubbing...until she's a little more comfortable and then escalate. You may have to back up a few times but eventually her resistance will erode and she'll tell you to grab the condom.	/r/seduction	15/08/13 05:36 PM
2	[FR] From strangers to F-close in an hour People don't fit into neat categories. For guys who really have thier game down...and they are not all that common...a lot of normally prudish girls become very pliable. This does not make them slutty. But I agree with the condom advice.	/r/seduction	15/08/13 05:32 PM
1	[FR] From strangers to F-close in an hour Just the tip.	/r/seduction	15/08/13 05:30 PM
1	[FR] From strangers to F-close in an hour When you locked eyes with her what was your facial expression? What was on your mind? What was your body language expressing? Who broke contact first and why?	/r/seduction	15/08/13 05:26 PM
2	ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there! Well being more aggressive does 3 good things for you right off the bad. 1) Saves you time if it'sca no-go. 2) Improves your chances of doing well because girls will reject you if you move too slow. Caution is kind of a turnoff. 3) Keeps you out of the "Creepy" zone. Being considered creepy is a combination of 2 things. Being needy and being vague about your intentions. Making agressive moves right off the bat wipes this out. Bonus) it sets the frame. If you ask a girl to go home with you but sh…	/r/seduction	05/08/13 06:35 AM
2	ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there! I've been reading Chase's blog a lot. He advises moving faster and pushing as soon as possible. He talks about escalation windows. If you wait too long...even the next day...all your hard work could be lost. Girls like a guy who is...for lack of a better term "Pushy"...but only if you successfully overcome their objections. Try only getting numbers as a last resort to taking them home the same night.	/r/seduction	05/08/13 02:37 AM
3	How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back - if you've ever asked that question, this will shift your paradigm Man you nailed it. Thanks for being so concise!	/r/seduction	13/07/13 08:37 AM
2	Basic guide to the world of men's fashion. 48 laws of power. Never outshine the master. But honestly I don't think jeans and a hoody is too bad. I have very broad shoulders though so maybe I just pull it off well.	/r/seduction	10/07/13 05:19 AM
0	Is the "strong silent type" just a hollywood trope? How does a man attract by simply being comfortably handsome in a corner and grunting a suave comment once and while? James Deen is a pornstar. Different than James Dean. Subtle. And that's why I said WHOOSH! But take pride in the fact that you are not a demented perv.	/r/seduction	21/06/13 02:36 AM
-1	Is the "strong silent type" just a hollywood trope? How does a man attract by simply being comfortably handsome in a corner and grunting a suave comment once and while? James Deen is only 5'8" CHECK IT So yeah...WHOOSH	/r/seduction	21/06/13 01:55 AM
-1	Is the "strong silent type" just a hollywood trope? How does a man attract by simply being comfortably handsome in a corner and grunting a suave comment once and while? Whoosh	/r/seduction	21/06/13 12:54 AM
0	So my gf stopped taking the pill 4-6 months ago, without telling me, and last week found out that she's 17 weeks pregnant. Didnt I also see something about a male birth control pill recently?	/r/MensRights	30/11/11 07:54 PM