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View 0 posts and 29 comments by bilbomontague10 on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
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You are good to go my brother. Put it behind you and plow forward.
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/24 12:40 AM
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Mine altered a space without even asking knowing we were headed towards splitsvile and said it’s her house. Just vindictive stuff. It’s good you documented everything. Be careful.
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/24 01:40 PM
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One upping or what you described seems to be a thing for them. Maybe ask on r/narcissisticabuse to get more opinions.
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/24 01:34 PM
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It’s a narcissist thing.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/24 07:14 PM
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Mine came in and surveiled my place, then questioned me about stuff. I was trying to be civil at the time and didn’t say none of your gd business anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/24 07:13 PM
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It won’t pay off for them.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/24 12:32 AM
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You now have three kids in your life. Sorry man. My ex is hostile and vindictive as well. Whatever. They will always be miserable. We won’t. The kid entanglement sucks but maybe the bad behavior will get you full custody or make her straighten up from the possibility one day. Take the high road and choose happiness for yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/24 06:14 PM
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Mine threatened same. It’s comical and traumatic at the same time.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/24 01:21 AM
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Oh yes. Typical. We are the Great Satan. It’s comical. No accountability whatsoever and we are serial killers.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/24 01:19 AM
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Thanks for the response. I can certainly empathize.
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/24 07:18 PM
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Just curious… does that mean you won’t see anyone again or just no marriage/cohabitation? Also do the consequences mean financial and mental stress? I’m out of a long term marriage. I won’t get married again but don’t think I can rule women out ever.
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/24 10:07 AM
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Grieve then realize this is an incredible opportunity to rebuild. Your life sucks now but you’ll pull it together over time. You’ll get a job, get your shit together, and the kids will see this and be back in your life. Don’t know why, probably your writing, but I know this will happen for you.
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/24 12:21 AM
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It’s all business now! Congrats on both.
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/24 10:15 PM
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Time to man up.
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/24 02:39 PM
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I have read all the posts and thought what about the nookie? Is everyone over 45 just done with it.
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/24 02:32 AM
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BTW it probably is overused but I bet your mind will be blown if you visit the sub and see how many people share the same sad story. Helps you heal. Best wishes.
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/24 09:32 PM
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This is what I saw in your post: putting on for others stonewalling you beat you down into submission It sounds emotionally abusive. Other traits I experienced include excessive belief in self/grandiosity, me always being wrong, no accountability, no apologies, projection of their negative traits on you, fact twisting, and gaslighting. There’s more. No idea it applies to you. After being a boiled frog for decades the subreddit helped me see what I experienced and how to cut the tie.
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/24 09:19 PM
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Ribbit
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/24 07:06 PM
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Join r/narcissisticabuse
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/24 07:04 PM
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Yes, add me to the list.
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 10:30 AM
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The irony is we, the bad guys, are generally happy. They’ll be miserable forever.
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 10:29 AM
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Whataboutism! That registered. Every fight spun off topic into Whst About When You…. Thanks for the PTSD bro.
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 10:27 AM
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I’m a dumbass frog too.
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/24 09:02 PM
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Great advice.
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/24 09:01 PM
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It’s a grind with lots of ups and downs, but you have to power through. Is there anybody that can help you out a little bit? It’s a life you’re not used to, but think about all the single moms that have had to work multiple jobs and raise kids. they certainly sacrificed and it sounds like you’re in that position now. Just be the best you can for your kids. Things will get better with time and as the kids get a little bit older and independent. Try to find some help if you can.
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/24 12:04 PM
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Mine come out of their rooms and actually hang out now. Never thought I’d see the day. LOL.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/24 04:40 PM
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Newly divorced with kids. Reading advice from our friends on Reddit definitely helped me. You don’t need to start over, consider it living differently. Standards are… exercise, get sleep, eat right, don’t be a hermit. Learn to talk to people if that’s not your skill. And if you’re good with it, dress better. Confidence is king. I know a lot of guys who improved themselves and/or had some good experiences. Most wound with partners or gf’s later. I’ve already made good and bad decisions. I’m anxio…
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/24 04:09 PM
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Is it bad I enjoyed your story?! Post divorce is weird. Every day I’m happy is a W, and I’m pretty darn happy. I know my former paramour never will be.
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/24 06:38 PM
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If you think there is hope, maybe try therapy/counseling to reignite the flame and communicate better. If not, go live your best life rather than being a passenger on somebody else’s.
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/24 01:24 PM
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