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78

No issue as long as she's honest. Otherwise a house in the burbs, 2 kids and a dog later and you run into a football team she fucked while you're getting Starbucks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/22 07:51 PM
1

iT wAs JuSt a qUeStiOn!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 09:45 PM
1

Knowing what a rhetorical question is makes one struggle in dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:12 PM
2

Op mentions escorts and very high n-count women. I enjoy alcohol in safe and socially acceptable amounts. But I'd still expect to be negatively judged by others if I was an alcoholic. BUT you have zero right to judge non-virgins or cast aspersions on them He was also very clear about not "casting aspersions on them". He has every right to judge them for their behavior, same as every other behavior people exhibit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:09 PM
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Like its not outdated because it's born out of that mutual agreement "you raise our kids and give up a history of work, thus putting up a greater financial risk long term, so I will cover those payments, and you are due equal assets and some basic monthly income. If you signed a rider to the marriage vows outlining these terms I would agree with you. Otherwise I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 04:41 PM
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Alimony isn't common, so I don't think reform is needed. That's like saying most black people don't get beat up by police so reform isn't needed. Alimony as a legal concept is outdated and unneeded and should be reformed. Studies show men who ask for custody get it about half the time Location dependent. assets aren't split based on sex lol OK? I never said they were.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 04:09 PM
0

Right - but I'm not saying how things are currently but arguing how the law should be reformed obviously. Marriage has become too risky financially for men given the ease at which a no-fault divorce can be obtained.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 03:58 PM
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Alimony is born out of a mutual agreement that both people opted in for. What? Marriage vows are all about "till death do us part". That is the contract people opted in for. Once divorce happens, all obligations under the marriage contract should cease immediately. If a lower earning or stay-at-home spouse is concerned about post-divorce earnings then he/she should opt to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 03:54 PM
2

No. 2 is also still quite relevant with higher earning parents having to pay child support to the lower earning one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 03:49 PM
6

Yeah this but mostly alimony. I don't even care about asset splits in divorce. Split it in two and walk away. What I find totally ridiculous is that there can be ongoing contractual financial obligations after the other party decides to end the contract. I think a lot of what's wrong with current divorce law could be fixed with: Custody is automatically 50/50 unless the parties decide between them that they want a different arrangement. As per the above, 50/50 custody means zero child support wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 12:42 PM
61

Jabba the slut.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/22 03:14 PM
19

Want a ferrari, can't afford a honda accord...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/22 02:36 AM
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humorous take on placard I disagree. women are not only protected ... The point is that there are no religiously inspired, puritanical laws that prevent men from getting any necessary medical procedures. The same should apply to women. The fact that this is not the case is certainly not a case of "pussy pass denied". You might feel the same when you knock up some fat drunken slob and are stuck paying child support for 18 years. go study up Ditto...
/r/PussyPassDenied28/05/22 06:54 PM
25

My brains far exceed my beauty. IQ of 60...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/22 10:44 PM
41

Have you watched TV in the last 20yrs? This is some intellectual shit right here.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/22 01:55 PM
16

Dude...I just had breakfast ffs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/22 02:16 PM
0

She should be held in contempt for refusing to answer the question.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/05/22 01:14 AM
1

I'd report the banning for harassment.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/05/22 01:04 AM
14

Wrong sub
/r/PussyPassDenied19/05/22 10:40 AM
16

But he used his legal gun. This will confuse some people.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/05/22 10:35 AM
2

Financial liability for paternity fraud would be a good logical first step that doesn't have the same problems of putting the child first that disavowing paternity by the actual biological father has.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:52 PM
15

I'm not sure what exactly you're asking about, because "in shape", "decent" and "female equivalent of a v taper" are all different things. BMI <25 is a good place to start.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:47 AM
2

When pressed by Mason as to whether he "crossed the line," he suggests that he didn't do anything that others haven't. No shit Sherlock! That was kind of the point of the me too movement.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/05/22 11:54 PM
42

Fat, ugly, smoker, single mother and a bitch. I think that's a bingo!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/22 06:21 PM
12

Everybody settles in all aspects of life with every decision they make. It's about having priorities and settling in such a way to maximize the total package. With dating and relationships are you just looking for arm candy? A lifelong companion? Regular sex? Someone with similar values for child-rearing? Someone who will contribute financially? Etc, etc etc. Refusing to compromise on anything will mean staying single as no person can be everything to anyone. The same is true for jobs, where you…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:54 PM
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6'3" 275lbs 18% bf. my normal. Your BMI is 34.4. You do not have 18% bodyfat. You're 2 inches shorter and 15lbs heavier than Dwayne Johnson lol. You are very a very fat man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:19 PM
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Was it unclear?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 07:07 PM
1

If you can't back it up with data then its feelings. The data I've seen is that when you consider hours worked in domestic labor + hours worked in paid labor then married men and women work very similar hours. And that's not adjusting for the difficulty or value of that labor, just hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 01:46 PM
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There are simple explanations for married couples having more housework. Children obviously but also marriage tends to improve couples finances. So you'd expect to see more married people in single family homes than apartments and condos. Also there are still many traditional couples out there which skews heavily towards the man being the main earner. Clearly in such cases the stay-at-home or part-time employed person should be doing more housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:47 AM
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They're talking about domestic labor. Surveys and actual data > feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:44 AM
7

As usual, cherry picking data allows you to tell any story you want. Here's a source that says the opposite based on data from the US Department of Labor: https://visme.co/blog/wage-gap/ Highlights: men work more hours than women. According to U.S. census data, men spend an average of 41.0 hours per week at their jobs, while women work an average of 36.3 hours per week. But we also found that married fathers work even more than other men, while married mothers work less than married women withou…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 10:22 PM
6

Agreed.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/05/22 01:43 PM
4

Vice still occasionally puts out some real journalism.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/05/22 01:05 PM
21

I was having a hard time imagining a bigger piece of shit than Amber Heard and then I read your comment.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/05/22 01:05 PM
3

I want to see if there's a pattern here as it's very likely that most men in this sub work in heavily male dominated professions which renders them incapable of understanding women in real life. This is a very problematic approach to discovering anything of any value whatsoever. You're looking for evidence to support your pre-existing idea by sampling a small, biased sub-group.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 12:15 PM
8

Work hard, make money, exercise, do well for yourself and the reward is Chad's leftovers when you get to your 30's. Its also bad for average women too. Attention, easy dates and sex in your 20's from men who would never look at you as a long-term partner dials the delusion up to 11. Get to your 30's and your scrambling to lock down a sub-par guy or those who are too cynical to fall into the trap.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 11:53 AM
9

Imagine having so little to say that you feel that attacking the quality of an analogy is the same as arguing a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:25 PM
7

They were only dainty little lady balls.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/05/22 12:52 PM
1

Pine for maybe, not expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:15 PM
2

Well then I assume you agree that women should bury their traditionality as well? They already have. My point is that your post is preaching to the choir. Nobody here is going to change your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:27 PM
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'Traditional' relationships are a thing of the past. A lot of men on this sub have accepted that fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:13 PM
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Normally in a debate you discuss the substance of the argument, not personally attack your opponent and assume things outside of the scope of the discussion. This is what OP is talking about, not his dating intentions, not how attractive or unattractive he personally finds the subject of his anecdote. the fact that she would assume this, is because she likely only focuses on guys who only want sex to the point where she feels this is the norm, this is probably the reality for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 05:25 PM
5

So in the post he should lie and say she's more attractive? And then you'd be on here commenting that she's out of his league. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 03:32 PM
1

Then why are men shamed for that preference?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:34 PM
1

Who am I kidding. Of course I'm going to pirate it!
/r/PussyPassDenied29/04/22 04:34 PM
60

I wasn't going to watch Aquaman 2 after having seen how awful the first one was. Now I'm not even going to bother pirating it.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/04/22 11:40 AM
2

There's more societal pressure for men to be held accountable for their actions and do their duty (in this case contractual obligations).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:29 PM
1

they claim women of all age groups are pickier about men's education, then they say men are more picky from age 40+. wtf? You're misreading what they are writing. Women have a higher minimum level of education at all age ranges on average. When they break it down into age groups, men were more picky in the 40+ range. This could be because the disparity was greater in younger men and women or because men's pickiness was with regards to something other than the minimum standard (e.g. instead of re…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 02:58 PM
2

For couples where both people are working the tax benefits are marginal and there can even be some penalties if both partners are high earners (threshold for +0.9% medicare surcharge for example).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 04:35 PM
2

Jfc a preference for a non-slut is trivial next to the list of ludicrous requirements most women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 07:01 PM
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I guess I'll be a hoe in every man's eyes. Well yeah you fit the definition of the word perfectly. Why is there any confusion about this?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 01:32 PM
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no way she's only 46 Might have been a smoker.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/22 08:58 PM
4

This is cuckold mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 12:39 PM
3

Exactly. If he's not dumping her for sexual incompatibility he could be dumping her for her bad decision making skills. Result is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 12:36 PM
1

What makes men date women with mental illnessess? Because the easy availability of burner phones.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 08:03 PM
1

Possibly there's a biological connection for that reason. Similar to women who find ambition a turn-on and vice-versa. Instinctually attracted to provider ability.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 11:38 PM
11

Yeah of course but we all lived in houses, not barns, so such talk in front of small children would be frowned upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 04:11 PM
17

At 4 or 5 you were listening to groups of men harping about their bitch ex-wives? You had a different upbringing than I did for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:41 PM
35

At that point it's a little late don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 02:42 PM
3

Re. the pair bonding thing - it also goes both ways. I don't care at all about n-count (assuming no STDs etc) for a casual dating partner but I find it to be a complete emotional turn-off for a deeper connection so there cannot be anything more to the relationship. And no I've never been hurt or cheated on (that I know of obviously). It's an instinctual turn-off.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 11:18 AM
4

Longer? Yes. Stronger and denser? That requires exercise. Muscle strength is a function of cross-sectional area. If you work out and bulk up you will be stronger. The taller guy will have greater reach which could help in a fight but not nearly as much as strength and training.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 10:14 AM
4

Your response has nothing to do with op's question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 10:09 AM
15

Women have an enormous list of non-physical mate preferences (income, ambition, values, financial history, past behavior, etc,etc) but if a man even has a hint of finding promiscuity unattractive all of a sudden his "insecurities" are the only possible cause. Its just a massive cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 06:33 PM
1

Im not more attractive then MOST, im just above average, And bad at math apparently too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 02:36 AM
14

+ its hardly a big male alpha demonstration to hit a 90lb, nearly 60 year-old man who is guaranteed not to fight back. If John Cena had made the joke Will wouldn't have said or done shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:23 PM
21

Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide Then fails to elaborate on what value they bring...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:12 PM
5

Wreckon boys. Wreckon...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/22 11:49 PM
2

Which group are the real winners: Men who have sex, or men who have children? Do you know how babies are made OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 01:54 PM
2

Totally missing the point of OP's post. Hot and rich vs ugly and poor shouldn't have any bearing on the moral judgement of a person's behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 03:08 PM
2

Why is someone having trauma a red flag? Not everyone wants to be capt. save-a-hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:04 PM
2

OP's point was that there was a causative effect - lots of casual sex leads to trauma etc. But it also goes the other way - trauma (or other issues like low self-esteem) leads to lots of casual sex. Either way it confirms the main conclusion of OP's post which is that high N-counts are a red flag to watch out for in a partner you're considering for a LTR or marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:56 PM
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PTSD, history of abuse and trauma, high n-count. I don't know how you think your experience is a counter-point to OP's argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:49 PM
4

I think he's referring to a related concept where people form an amalgamated idea of a perfect partner from the best features of a number of past partners. So the alpha in the alpha-widow might never have existed but you take one tall guy, one rich guy, one guy great in bed, etc. and she'll never be happy with a real person who couldn't possibly live up to the unrealistic standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:46 PM
0

I highly doubt its the norm for the vast majority of women to spend anywhere near 2hrs/day shaving and doing hair/makeup. I do however work out for 8hrs/week or more and also have to shave etc. and I don't look close to super ripped, 10% bf%.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:24 PM
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It takes way more effort to maintain a low bf% ripped body than to just be thin.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:03 PM
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You didn't bother to read any of what op posted then? Its right there in the data that women also have N-count and partner past-sexual-experience preferences (disliking virgins and bisexual men for example).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 01:31 PM
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In a world of hook up culture and casual sex only a fool worries about promiscuity. What's the point? There's no proof as to whether somebody has been promiscuous. In a world where the NHTSA exists only a fool worries about automobile safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 01:28 PM
3

Haha quality. Run away to your safe space!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:40 AM
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Ok? I don't know what you think my "excuses" are and personal attacks aren't necessary either. If you think society doesn't generally frown on female promiscuity you're hopelessly naive at best but more likely just willfully ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:09 AM
4

Take it up with society at large...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 11:22 PM
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"Actual worth" is an imaginary and undefined concept. We are discussing their value to others as potential romantic partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 11:12 PM
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sex doesn't lower a person's worth Of course it does. You don't think there are social consequences for women (and men but probably to a lesser degree) who are known to be highly promiscuous? You might not want it to lower a person's worth but that is just wishful thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 11:06 PM
1

aesthetic I think you mean "athletic". Beauty standards can vary considerably across time and cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:59 PM
19

Yeah but there are probably even more guys that look at her, think she's good enough for a pump 'n dump and she's obviously a hoe, so swipe right and hope to win the numbers game.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/22 06:52 PM
7

Why won't all these men stop using these (working) pump 'n dump strategies???
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/22 07:08 PM
1

Its the least-bad option. Not a perfect solution but that's life....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:21 PM
1

Funnily enough if I look at successful marriages among my friends the norm is either the woman marrying up (looks and/or financials) OR the man is treated poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:32 PM
0

Sure but OLD makes transactional autists out of everyone (at least at first).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:28 PM
7

You really want the kid to have a different quality of life depending on what parent they are staying with? Having a kid with someone doesn't shouldn't make you responsible for their lifestyle or ability to pay their obligations. If they can't afford necessities then they shouldn't have custody at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:30 PM
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A few ideas... Alimony should only be granted in exceptional circumstances and for a statutory, reasonable and minimal time needed for the non-working spouse to become self-sufficient. 2 years max would be plenty IMO. The marriage contract ends, so should the responsibilities. Equally shared custody should be the default and payments should be based on time only, again with statutory limitations. Its ridiculous that parents with 50% custody still have to pay child support because they out-earn t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:40 PM
6

Am I the only one having issues accessing these archive links? HTTPS errors won't let me view the page. Can someone post the full text in here?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/22 04:40 PM
2

Translation: I have unhealthy porn viewing habits and will project my experience onto all other men rather than do any meaningful introspection.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:58 PM
5

Or a different kind of confirmation bias - people who over share their personal lives online are more likely to have some sort of mental illness that makes them more likely to choose abusive partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 01:59 PM
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Its very jurisdiction-dependent. In some cases the presumed father can even be blocked by the court from submitting DNA evidence. Just google your state + child support + paternity + equitable estoppel
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:34 PM
3

If you were not married to the child’s mother at the time of the child’s birth The problem is that in many jurisdictions if paternity has already been established by statute (assumption of paternity for married men for example), the courts will not disestablish paternity unless the bio-father has been identified. That means if your hoe wife fucked a bunch of randos and doesn't know who the father is, you can be stuck paying child support. This is an actual thing that happens and in some places c…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:26 PM
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Married men absolutely can be forced to pay for another man's kid due to assumed paternity and courts that put the needs of the child above that of the adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:03 PM
14

There are plenty of women (on this sub even!) who are quite vocal about not being interested in high N-count men. Do you blame that on the patriarchy as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:02 PM
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Feelz > facts? Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:31 PM
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So let me see if I understand your response above correctly. The people in my life that are sexually active are more thorough with std screenings and checking their health than my friends that don’t do hook ups. You think that people with a higher number of sexual partners are less likely to have an STI? I would trust someone that’s slept with other people more than I would trust someone that’s only slept with me not to cheat on me. So? The actual data says otherwise. And literally anyone can be…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:20 PM
0

Oh so you don't know what a red flag is. Its hard to debate someone with such a poor grasp of the English language.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:16 PM
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Of course it is. It's a red flag for STIs, infidelity, mental illness, etc. It's not a guarantee of any of these things of course but that's not what red flag means.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:13 PM
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Low value then. But the guys hit their 30s, start earning, the wall looms and all of a sudden it's time to man-up and turn these hoes into housewives. No thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:53 PM
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You'll also likely never know if your partner used to be addicted to pills or declared bankruptcy or raped someone or all sorts of bad things. The point is that if you do find out you should pay attention to the red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:49 PM
1

Typical bs non-answer that absolves women of accountability for their actions. It doesn't matter how she feels about it. If the guy is disgusted by her sexual past then he won't commit to her. Also it's been shown here before that women have the same feelings of disgust for bisexual men. If your bf told you he had fucked 50 other dudes before committing to you I'm a hetero relationship woul you be ok with that? Edit: sry meant to reply to the op. I'm agreeing with your comment just to be clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:44 PM
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Do you feel white guilt for your ancestors' misbehavior too?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:29 AM
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For me being a parent is more of a bond that the person has with the child rather than the blood relation. So step/adoptive parents are still parents even though the child has no blood relation to them. But with paternity fraud that relationship only exists because of the criminal fraud. Would you be in favor of the family of a kidnapper keeping custody of a kid they had raised because of the established relationship? You're also forgetting that this kid does have a bio father out there somewher…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 12:44 PM
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A prostitute who you pay to not have sex with. I don't think that's going to work.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/22 11:49 AM
7

Depends on the console. Series x before Xmas? Get suckin' mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:45 PM
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I'm hungry She really should have lead with that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/22 01:44 PM
3

Well to be fair she didn't say what those morals and values are.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 04:31 PM
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It's a very old joke meme thing from south park.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:03 PM
2

It's usually ??? followed by profit I believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:55 PM
1

Easy. I would date either of them but marry neither of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:43 PM
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all men The existence of a small number of cuckold fetishists doesn't change the fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:15 PM
12

Not with that attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:27 AM
1

The op's go-to one liner for dismissing an opposing viewpoint is to call it gay. I don't think asking for clarification is going to be a good use of your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:04 PM
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But hilariously she says "until they get one." So she's under the delusion that men like her fat slobby body in theory but not in practice. She's half right I'd say.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 03:03 PM
7

Yeah. His mistake was letting himself become emotionally involved knowing what she was like before he started dating her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 03:01 PM
5

You assume that all red pilled men arrived there from the same place and for the same reasons as you which is extremely myopic.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:29 AM
4

I'm with you on the not caring. However I know a guy who got plugs and the newer tech or maybe more skilled doc (??) did an amazing job. You'd never know it wasn't natural hair.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/22 04:19 PM
3

The guy said shoe lifts are "weird". Then goes on to say that he's 5'7" and wears 2" cowboy boots but thats ok because its his style. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 03:37 PM
6

So it's ok for you for reasons but not for others for other reasons. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 02:59 PM
1

I don't see the point of making him feel special to me when he isn't. The point is that's a turn off for the guy. So is having a non-exclusive fwb.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 02:54 PM
2

Yeah I agree. This: as long as they’re having sex with their partner, not let it bother them Is a function of not knowing the truth - out of sight, out of mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:12 PM
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Affordable, great weather, even better food, public healthcare, close to all sorts of other idyllic holiday destinations, etc. South of France has a lot going for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:08 PM
1

Lol ok then.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:32 PM
2

We get the basis of our society and legal system from the Romans. Are you suggesting we start including Jovian philosophy in discussions of modern society?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:30 PM
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Its the other way around. Religion is a reflection of society. Christianity doesn't pre-date any of the things you listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:22 PM
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We're discussing actual social and biological differences here, not fairy tales.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:15 PM
1

None in Africa. Most countries in South and and a few in Central America, poorer Asian countries like Vietnam, etc. Some of the post-Soviet countries could definitely count though - places like Albania and Moldova 15yrs ago were dirt poor. The difference with poor African countries is that everyone at least has basic access to education.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:03 PM
4

Actually I was curious so I counted. I've traveled to 43 countries of which 29 can be considered "3rd world" at the time that I first visited them at least (post-soviet reconstruction countries for example).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 01:30 PM
4

Great so you can say "I'm full of shit" in at least 4 languages.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 01:23 PM
7

Is English your second language or something? Words can have different meanings even if you find them triggering.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 01:12 PM
14

No it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 12:56 PM
0

Geez OP it not a mystery or anything. Women have very little accountability for their actions. End of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 11:49 PM
31

Shows up 4yrs later and tries to fight him and his new wife? Lol she crazy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/22 05:46 PM
6

There are obvious lies like the HAES movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:42 PM
23

Especially in India. Arranged marriage cultures have a heavy 'business transaction' component to marriage with the love and affection expected to develop down the line.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 02:01 PM
2

I agree with the sentiment. I just find that labeling everyone as phobic this and that has overtones of calling someone a bigot for perfectly normal behavior and preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:41 PM
1

As a straight guy is it sexist or misandrist to say I'd never date a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:22 PM
2

How have I not seen that before??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:20 PM
7

Well you are biphobic I wouldn't consider finding <some characteristic> unattractive means that someone has an irrational fear or aversion to that characteristic. Its a simple preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:07 PM
2

No I'm not. You can't tell if someone is a parent by looking at them. I'm only talking about relationship value. Dating someone with kids is less desirable than dating someone without. Dating someone older is less desirable than dating someone younger. You describe yourself as fit and attractive but there's no getting around age in both cases. There are single ex-models who find themselves in the same situation for the same reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 08:45 PM
5

Right, so you have a subjective opinion on what high value qualities you believe you possess and bring to relationships, and the other posters hold the subjective opinion that those things are less important than your 2 biggest low-value qualities - being an old single mother. Also by virtue of the fact that you are an old single mother, it becomes harder to believe that your other positive qualities are as good as you say. Fit, attractive, intelligent, etc but not smart enough to avoid having a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:58 PM
1

You've made a lot of assumptions in your post and I'm responding in kind. We'll see whose proved correct in 2 years won't we?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:48 PM
0

Well IMO long engagements are a sign of hesitancy by one or both of the people involved are a bad sign for the success of the marriage. Over the next couple of years as your dating marketplace value falls and the guy's second thoughts turn into certainties, you can revisit your post with more experienced eyes. RemindMe! 2 years
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 02:08 PM
6

More like the statistics reveal a lack of control.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 02:03 PM
35

You're even being generous putting $40k income in there. That won't be enough to "make her dreams come true."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 07:08 PM
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Because he/she disagrees with the content. If they had a substantive criticism they would have posted that instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:26 PM
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So male disadvantages aren't really problems at all if we only justify, deflect and minimize them! You're doing exactly what the OP post is advocating against.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:25 PM
11

OP sounds like a typical "do your research" type. Utterly superficial "understanding" of something based on a few minutes of googling and now thinks he's an authority.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 02:48 AM
2

You just contradicted yourself. You have a normal body fat percentage and BMI puts your weight within the normal range. What result would you expect?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:33 AM
2

Only at extremes though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:29 AM
35

At least in this instance it doesn't look like that will happen. She mentions that her sons are old enough to decide who they want to live with. Hopefully the husband is able to deduct child support from the alimony.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/22 07:23 PM
2

Her choices are hers to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:05 PM
12

However, sometimes you're just not going to be the best, it's not statistically possible for a lot of people. Its a simple numbers game. If the number is high, its game over.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:38 PM
1

He'll never know. That's why you shouldn't marry a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:35 PM
9

This post seems more like you want to be told your the best without putting in any effort. You have no thoughts on the actual post so you write this ridiculous straw-man argument that has absolutely no bearing or relevance on the points OP made and it gets voted to the top? WTF?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:30 PM
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No but it's an interesting factoid that she thought to include to make her profile more interesting. Most people would treat a traumatic event like that as deeply personal and only share it after some level of connection and trust had been established.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/22 01:19 PM
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"Mother of 2 but one's dead. Anyway I like long walks on the beach..." Fucking batshit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/22 01:17 PM
2

So him going for poor chicks is "ew" but women seeking a wealthier partner is A-OK? Logical consistency is a tool of the patriarchy apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:17 PM
0

If this was a sudanese website talking about FGM you'd see the same things from women who have had it done. The victims are often the biggest proponents later in life. But there's no real argument to be had. Its a barbaric, medically unnecessary practice that can result in a range of permanent health issues from sexual dysfunction to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:20 PM
17

She also has the gall to say... I regret....us not working on our relationship when we could. After all that she still blames at least some of the breakup on the guy lol.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/22 01:20 PM
9

Are you lifting weights? That should be priority #1. Take care of your body and everything else will start to fall into place. It will help with how you're feeling too. This program is a great way to get started.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/22 01:08 PM
1

Alpha-fucks/beta-bucks
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:11 PM
2

From another of the OP's comments. Thing is he isn't really her type but I know he makes good money and is poised to make a shit ton more. Sounds like the stereotypical AF/BB scenario with the only snag being that she didn't separate herself far enough from her past.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:58 PM
0

So this post is supposed to be a counter-point to this one I take it? Its hardly the same thing though. The other post was generalizing the mainstream views of modern women (whether you agree or disagree is not relevant). The incel 'community' is a fringe group full of extremists. Are you actually surprised that they have extreme views?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:54 PM
3

Proper Bo I tell thee!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/22 04:11 PM
6

The immediate reaction of the women in this thread to defend the hoe tells you all you need to know op. You need to do the same and defend this other guy from the gold-digger. We're living in a society here people!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:51 PM
1

The average would change substantially if you were looking at relevant age ranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:00 PM
34

It's the old "women are born, men are made" type response. By virtue of being a woman she "deserves" a good partner despite her low status and baggage, especially since she's putting in so much effort. A man on the other hand, only has himself to blame for any lack of success in any area of his life so if he complains about it, he's really just broadcasting his failure.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/22 01:21 PM
2

Low effort. Somewhat ironic though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:19 PM
4

This reads like a wealthy guy explaining to a poor person why they are poor. A bunch of "I feel like RP is..." followed by... They often use pseudo-science and claims from sketchy sources And then you go on to say: They have very conservative views and they kinda go all maga on women. They often miss the old days when women couldn’t speak without being spoken to and couldn’t vote or own land. They love the idea and it’s I’d assume because as men they feel entitled to women and their bodies. They…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:12 PM
5

"very ambitious" Lol she'd have to be with all that baggage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/21 12:42 AM
3

If 50% have actually been diagnosed with a mental health disorder then its an absolute guarantee that a majority actually have mental health issues as some % will be undiagnosed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:47 PM
9

And yet she'll probably still get matches.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/12/21 02:09 PM
11

So? Not all men have the same standards for their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:24 PM
118

TL:DR - fat, with a side of mental illness.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/21 02:37 PM
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Wife material = you're everything I'm looking for in a partner Husband material = you meet my long term provider requirements and at least my bare minimum attractiveness requirements
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 02:21 PM
2

It's a lot of "he claimed" this and that based on absolutely nothing. He assumes that gender roles are the result of socialization. Did he actually formulate a testable hypothesis of how this happens and then test that hypothesis against the experiences of different societies and cultures or a single society through time? Has he related supposed social-constructs to similar behaviors found in the animal kingdom? Did he even base his initial assumption that men "don't like women" on any actual ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:56 PM
3

This is a good example of why the term "social sciences"is a misnomer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:05 PM
2

Of course people will judge women for their sexual choices and behaviors just like they'll judge them for all their other choices and behaviors too. That's how individuals function in groups ffs. What you're really asking for is total freedom to do as you choose (this is fair) but also to be free from the consequences of your actions (unfair).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:12 AM
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So you think that he is cruel after she tells him he's pornsick because he was unable to finish? Is there ever a situation where the woman can do wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 01:45 PM
11

Sex work is work. Its also degrading, low class and dangerous work.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/21 02:42 PM
6

She could be Rodney Dangerfield's daughter. The likeness is uncanny. I went to the doctor and he said I was too fat. I said "Whoa, hey!" I'm gonna need a second opinion. He's says "Sure ok. You're ugly too."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/21 03:17 AM
3

Groups of people very rarely do anything for reasons other than self-interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:40 PM
6

blah blah blah...women have no agency or accountability for their actions...blah blah blah. We've heard it all before.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:02 PM
17

Jush a little drinky-poo bo'bandy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/21 08:02 PM
5

You do what other women do and lie. Don't kid yourself that you can have a normal marriage based on openness and honesty though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 02:46 AM
6

So we can never learn anything about human behavior because there are always exceptions to the rule? Brilliant analysis...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 02:44 AM
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Yeah and guys like girls with big tits too so they should all man up and grow a pair!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 02:40 AM
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Unless you're wearing a sport coat. Then it can go either way or you can take the best of both worlds and have a messy half-tuck, beckham style.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/21 06:17 PM
6

It all comes down to: become more attractive, but don't commit to women who are mainly interested in you because of your status, just use them for sex. I think it's a bit more complex than this. Becoming more attractive gives men more options and reduces simping behavior and oneitis for low value women, freeing them up to meet and form a LTR with a HVW if that's what he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 04:30 AM
2

Thanks mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 10:13 PM
3

I'm in the best shape of my life, doubled my income and will likely never be returning to fulltime, in-office work. The pandemic has been a positive, permanent life changer for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 09:52 PM
14

Some people come out of the casino ahead too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 06:35 PM
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She's trying to sneak in at the finish line. The men in her age range were locked down many years ago by women who were willing to bet on their potential, not try to snag the finished product.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/21 05:10 PM
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It's because FDS women don't seem to be struggling on getting dates.I have never seen a post where they complain about no man wants to fuck them. This isn't really relevant. FDS: strategies for landing a HVM for a traditional marriage. The implication is that they haven't been able to achieve this on their own. TRP: strategies for attracting women for sex. The difference is that while TRP approaches the problem from a "accept reality and adapt to it" standpoint, FDS is to basically wait for ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 06:34 PM
10

having high standards Sure this one is obivous - part of the definition of what they're looking for. Its not a 'method for attracting high quality men'. holding out on sex...pretty good method... Really? Do you have anything to back that up? I think one of the universal qualities of both HVM and HVW is that they have options so they can choose to be discerning. As soon as there's a hint of multi-dating bullshit or playing games around rules-based intimacy no self-respecting man would continue wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 06:24 PM
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While that's part of it I think their goal is to get a traditional marriage to a HVM. Their strategies to do so are opposed to that goal in many instances (IMO).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 06:12 PM
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The philosophies are completely at odds though. TRP: teach men what women really want (in their opinion) and recommend strategies for attaining those attributes. FDS: teach women what they should want/demand and hold out till the bitter end until they find it. You can disagree with TRP's assumptions, conclusions, etc but at least it has some basis for what it preaches and if it doesn't work out for some particular guy, at least he will have improved his fitness. I honestly don't know what FDS wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 05:50 PM
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Why do guys need sex to feel validated? Try to stay on topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 11:11 PM
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Yeah but he's not in a relationship. Do you really find it surprising that a guy who has a mutual attraction to a girl wants to have sex with her? It isn't fucking rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 10:38 PM
54

She wants a parfait but offers an onion.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/21 06:42 PM
6

There's also the value of work done. If the wife spends an hour doing laundry that's worth $50(??) in terms of what you would have to pay for someone to do it for you. If I spend an hour fixing an appliance, doing the car maintenance or building something for the house, that could be worth hundreds or maybe even thousands of dollars.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 03:07 AM
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This is just an example of selection bias. You'd see the same thing if you looked at cases where the father was seeking child support. You also see it in every other kind of official civil proceedings like traffic court. People who wind up at that point without lawyers tend to be poor and irresponsible. Surprise, surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:27 PM
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women [...] call me a “misogynist” just because I admit I don’t want a woman who has a body count that is higher than 5 That's how he's phrasing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:19 PM
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He never said it was? I'm specifically referring to him being judged as a "slut shamer" for preferring low n-count women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 01:56 PM
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Because men holding women accountable for their behavior is a big no-no. This applies to all aspects of life, not just when it comes to having standards for romantic partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 01:37 PM
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Not really looking for a hookup Translation: definitely down for a hookup.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/21 05:41 PM
3

She doesn't understand the difference between fact and opinion. You're not going to be able to convince her of anything by rational argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 01:08 PM
2

It's a silly ad hominem dismissal based on nothing. There are many red-pilled married men and men who are very successful in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 11:21 PM
1

Dave is that you? Tell me more master.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 12:55 PM
1

Fuck dave from hawaii.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 12:48 PM
0

No it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 12:03 PM
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He's just expressing his ire (ish).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/11/21 11:38 AM
3

crickets
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 11:25 AM
-1

Another person confusing TRP with PUA. There's a Venn diagram to be sure but its not just a circle like you're implying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 11:24 AM
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Relationship therapist Charisse Cooke told FEMAIL: 'Golden Penis Syndrome speaks of the delusional belief that you are unusually and uniquely gifted as a man, sexually or otherwise, and are above established norms of good manners, respect and dating etiquette. But here's the thing - as more women go to university and increase the educational gap with men, but at the same time still only desire to date and marry up - these men do have 'golden penises', i.e. structurally more options than either t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 03:03 PM
1

Did you seriously miss the very next sentence after that quote?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:14 PM
1

Its like speaking to a brick wall honestly. Maybe an analogy would help? If I'm renting a car, I don't care what I get. I usually go on the website and book the cheapest one that will get me from A-to-B. if I'm buying a car, I do a lot of research into models, reliability, features, maintenance, etc. Its a much bigger commitment than a rental so I take my time. That is what I do. That doesn't explain the why though. I'm looking to maximize value, minimize future maintenance headaches, possibly e…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:39 PM
1

You're not making any sense at all. You don't think its unwise to jump into bed with a rando because you have already decided that he's not relationship material. But with a guy who's already passed some initial screening, you don't sleep with him right away because that would be too soon? Send the wrong signal? Scupper your relationship chances? Put yourself at risk emotionally? Etc, etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:23 PM
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If it’s someone I actually like I’ll take my time and get to know him before jumping into anything That's all you said. This is explaining what you do not why you do it. Is English your second language or something? Did you never learn the differences between the 5 W's?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:18 PM
1

You didn't explain at all why you feel like waiting for sex is preferable with a potential committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:06 PM
1

ou're not exactly interested in the relationship, are you? Just the validation you get Um..no? Like all sorts of other non-verbal communication, its a signal about how she views the guy's attractiveness or worth as a partner. Its not the only signal but its a pretty big one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:03 PM
1

You explained the what not the why (at least in the second case).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:00 PM
1

And you nothing-matters-nihilists live in a state of complete self-delusion. Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 12:50 PM
1

That's a lot of words to say not much at all. The bottom line is that you assume that N-count is some special exception to the past/future behavior relationship and choose to ignore the actual statistical data that points to the opposite. Marriage is probably the biggest legal and financial commitment a person will make in their lives. Trusting your gut and ignoring red flags is not good advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 12:26 PM
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If you are evaluating a potential mate for marriage then it absolutely is relevant to ask the question. Your checking account analogy is silly though. A better one would be would you ask your marriage-potential partner about their finances like if they had ever been bankrupt? Past behavior is the best indicator of future behavior. Not accepting that simple fact of life is lunacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:13 AM
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Do not use an electric razor. Does anyone have any clue where this came from?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 01:48 PM
2

So you'd be ok with dating a bi-sexual man?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:29 PM
3

It's sexist if you're not similarly disgusted by bi-women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:28 PM
4

So you'd have no problem dating an ex-prostitute, assuming she was free of STDs?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:26 PM
3

Birth control...completely destroyed higher level though processes... Implying that this is a new post-birth control problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:03 PM
3

Worst Where's Waldo ever!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/21 10:44 PM
1

Logically just the fact that it's unusual enough to go viral is a pretty good affirmation of OP's point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 11:31 AM
2

Her entire look says her affections will last as long as your money. Trash.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/10/21 09:41 PM
3

Couples are happier when... ...goes on to quote studies where the only change in happiness is among the women. Being neurotic doesn't make you happy. Whodathunk?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 03:07 AM
5

I recall reading that there was a big change though depending on the setup. When women were walking around to meet men seated at fixed tables, some (maybe all) of the effect was reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 04:24 PM
2

Someone who isn't attracted to him? That's another huge assumption based only on the fact that she once had a different boyfriend. No. In a post where she's defending her current relationship vs her past ones, she describes her fiance as "decent looking". Not enthusiastically attracted to someone you're not even married to yet?? Do you need her to spell it out any more clearly? I'm sorry if i assumed you are insecure because your assumptions on this guys relationship are all insecurity based. Fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 02:36 PM
2

Its not a competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:37 PM
3

if your standards are based on deep seeded insecurities that's probably not going to work well for you in the long term No. My advice to the OP's doctor fiance would be to rationally assess the risks before committing himself financially to a woman who isn't attracted to him. He holds all the cards - he's a young doctor with options. Why would he gamble his financial future on someone he doesn't trust? And your personal attacks on me are just silly. You don't know anything about me and your assu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:34 PM
2

Good for your cousin. I'm sure her experience is the norm. And just skip over all the other red flags from the original post. We all know that men having standards is just insecurity and incel misery. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 12:30 PM
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We're not talking about regular boyfriends. The type of girl who dates college-level athletes who themselves have lots of options meant she was out-competing a whole gang of other hoes. The doc would be insane to marry her. She danced around the issue in the original post but it was clear that she wasn't attracted to him. It's a divorce rape in the making. She's probably already getting fat too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:44 AM
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Or you know, he could just find a girl who managed to skip the hoe phase, or he could choose to not get married. You seem to think his only option is to stick to what he's got. And thinking that would make him "miserable forever" rather than being married to a woman he doesn't trust and is resentful of?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 10:52 AM
6

Well why is he with her then? It doesn't sound like he will be for long.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 10:50 AM
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So she aged You're still missing the point. She's only with him because a) she's aged and doesn't have better options, and b) he makes a lot of money. No one wants to feel like the settled-for beta provider. Is that really so hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:15 AM
1

There's no contradiction. All humans form closer pair bonds through sex. There are chemical reactions and hormonal changes that happen which are part of being in love. That said, men also have a biological imperative to fuck multiple women. We can suppress it through self control but that doesn't mean we don't want to and obviously it does happen quite a lot. It doesn't necessarily change the long term partner relationship either as long as the cheating isn't a symptom of some other issues. It's…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 11:06 AM
0

Its hard to have patience for people who come on here with silly validation-seeking posts while deluding themselves about their own behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:13 PM
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Seems like you were trying to subtly neg him to me. What would a non-relationship guy that she was dating look like? Edit: lol a downvote but no answer. Looks like I was right on the money. Keep simping hard op. Maybe she'll fuck you one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:20 PM
0

So what did you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:01 PM
1

It could be a sign of that. It could also be a sign that the GF is a nutcase who tends to get dumped once her BFs figure that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:36 PM
1

Some people gotta learn the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:34 PM
21

They do care which is why they lie to guy no. 2 and to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:21 PM
30

As long as you're honest with 2nd pick guy there's no problem. That's rarely the case though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:20 PM
6

women who portray themselves as promiscuous on social media, get far more attention from men for sex, dates and relationships than women who don’t. Men don't want to marry hoes. Where are you getting this from?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:53 PM
0

face, weight, boob size, and body for women. You missed the part of the OP's point that women can and do change these factors quite easily. Face: make-up, fillers, botox, hair extensions, etc, etc. Weight: eat less and exercise more Boob size: implants For men, there are no good options for any of these physical traits. Fitness is not listed but is the one thing that can make a big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:51 PM
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The cat on her neck looks like it was traced from a child's coloring book. What a disaster.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/21 04:05 AM
20

Because men having standards is seen as mysogenistic judgement by sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 10:18 PM
1

You're the one who's CMV states that no one is attracted to money, status, etc. The existence of groupies is an example to the contrary. It's not complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 04:43 PM
1

You agreed with me above that it happens. We've all seen it with our own eyes and now you're questioning it because it doesn't fit your narrative?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:13 PM
1

Thanks for proving my point Not a point. An assumption that runs contrary to the evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 02:45 PM
2

Lol yeah right.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 01:26 PM
12

The ugly dudes in bands and ugly actors or famous men still get plenty of genuinely turned-on women to fuck them. What do you think the attraction is coming from?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 12:31 PM
7

If you're having casual sex with 'madonnas' I've got news for you bud...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 12:35 PM
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Just turned 30, has some nagging suspicions about the approaching wall but still thinks the party can go on for a bit longer. Not realizing the "serious, established, career-oriented guys" have already found their wives and partners (the ones who want that lifestyle anyways). All that's left for her is the single-forever playboys with $$ who will pump n' dump or the recently burned-by-marriage types who are too smart to make the same mistake twice, especially with a used up thot.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 08:37 PM
8

It would probably fix the insomnia too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 06:14 PM
4

Reminds me of this classic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/21 10:40 PM
5

Being a fat, ugly single mother and making any sort of demands on OLD is ambitious indeed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/21 10:37 PM
2

Its perfectly fine and not unattractive to be a nice guy. When women talk about "nice guys" though they're referring to men who think that they should be entitled to relationships or sex because they act nice or do nice things for women. Its very transactional in their minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 03:24 PM
2

Lol reducing the book of pook to "pithy aphorisms" is basically just an admission that you've never read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 11:41 AM
5

It's being misquoted. The original doesn't attribute weight to the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 05:30 PM
11

And your dismissal is different how?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 05:29 PM
14

Dating is her number one strategy to achieve financial solvency though. Its a bad strategy in her case but still...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/21 12:36 PM
3

New flair suggestion: You Were Warned.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/21 02:24 PM
2

Hell yes. Meeting the right person can lead to a life-long, committed, fulfilling relationship. A job is a 2-4yr deal only. Passing up on a great partner in favor of some faceless corporate entity that will drop you in the blink of an eye is silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 02:00 PM
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She's deluded because she snagged a handful of good looking men at closing time for a one-time pump 'n dump.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 01:22 PM
1

She looks like Bo' Selecta!'s scary spice spoof.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 01:07 PM
16

Fat and bitter too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/21 03:54 AM
6

I'd consider myself somewhat similar but I do have a big problem with a lot of the right-leaning views on fiscal conservatism, especially when it comes to the costs of doing nothing on environmentalism. The GOP has devolved into thinking that govt investment never has a positive ROI which is at odds with historical reality and cost/benefit analysis of current spending. Conversely, tax cuts have an extremely low ROI (even negative) when targeted at high earners.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 04:12 PM
6

I'm actually pretty liberal/leftist, although not progressive. What does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 03:31 PM
3

Did you ever see the woman that Hugh Grant cheated on Elizabeth Hurley with? Its not always about looks....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 03:29 PM
4

What are you talking about? It wasn't like this 20 years ago, I was there. I was there too and yes it was. You can go back and watch any '80s movie to see who was getting laid. I dunno. It doesn't matter for my argument. Once it's time to settle women will take anything. So you think men should laze around and hope a desperate spinster falls into their lap in their 30s? Great plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 02:25 PM
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Back when I was young self improvement did not exist as a popular concept. This isn't true for any where or any time in human history. Physical fitness and success have always been the keys to getting women. People either got a partner or not. What do you think separated the haves from the have-nots? Hint - its the same things that separate them today. The reality is that women are generally not going to deal with men unless they get compensation somehow, or they have to. Guys are much better of…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 01:55 PM
3

Child support has nothing to do with marriage. You make a baby, you pay for it - single, married, whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 01:45 PM
1

Yeah I agree. Single mom but she doesn't list any unreasonable demands and paints a fair picture of herself. The photo isn't trying to hide anything either.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/21 06:50 PM
2

Sex robots are the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 12:17 AM
4

Some people just have to learn the hard way.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/21 06:21 PM
3

And those are all reasons why there's a legitimate debate to be had about whether or not sex work is just work. Again it has nothing to do with people morally judging sex workers under either circumstance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 03:07 PM
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"these jobs are just like all others" Nobody is saying this though. When people say "sex work isn't different from any other work" they aren't saying its exempt from moral judgement, but that it is legitimate work. An individual in a free society should be able to choose to perform sex work, pay their taxes, get a mortgage, etc. and feel like they are a part of the legitimate labor market. That is completely different than thinking that it should be free from moral judgement, which is the same a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:48 PM
2

She looks like Sheldon from the Big Bang Theory.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/21 01:58 PM
12

Saying that "sex work isn't different from any other work" or that "sex work is just work" is hypocritical if doing this jobs disqualifies someone due to some moral complications People pass moral judgements on all sorts of jobs. I would never work or associate with a bail bondsman, a debt collector, someone who worked in telemarketing or a predatory financial industry, etc. Its not at all hypocritical to pass similar moral judgements on sex work even if you think it is "just work" and should be…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 01:52 PM
1

Michael's Story proves all the negative stereotypes people have about TRPers One person's creative writing exercise doesn't "prove" anything. As far as it being linked in the sidebar of that sub, its under the "new here" bit and is clearly there to appeal to people who may be finding the sub for the first time and can maybe relate to some of the material. It shouldn't come as any surprise that some RP men are there because they haven't had success with women. But that's not what TRP is about at …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 09:37 PM
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Unvaccinated with 2 of the most serious co-morbidities for covid (obese smoker). She could be a good bet even if the policy was expensive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/21 11:42 AM
9

An atheist druid..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/21 03:30 PM
5

PUA is a part of red pill No it isn't. I'm sure there's a significant cross-over if you were drawing a Venn diagram but that doesn't really mean anything. Also nothing in the article you're responding to above has anything to do with men showing emotional vulnerability. It is describing a PUA technique for bedding women. Love bombing instead of negging - its not a contradiction, its a different strategy to get the same result. Red pill claims that you get women into bed by negging them and being…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 02:17 PM
5

There are a variety of views on the subject as the poster above indicated. The core tenets of TRP doesn't have much to say on having female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 02:10 PM
4

You're confusing TRP with PUA.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 02:09 PM
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Throughout this thread you've been twisting your own 'evidence' to suit your narrative, dismissing counter-factual evidence and labeling RP men as social outcast losers. I can't be 100% sure but I suspect you're not debating the topic in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 02:07 PM
9

You're in the minority there sport.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 06:53 PM
11

You understand the concept of having a preference right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 06:43 PM
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OK fine I'll google it for you. Here's a couple times in this sub: In the post: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/okwshl/where_are_all_the_good_men/ In the comments: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/oloirr/the_rise_of_sexlessness_among_men_is_not_normal/ https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/orv9xu/the_truth_about_dick_is_abundant_and_low_value/ And that's not to mention that its been posted lots in other subs too. and the numbers you used are all …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:54 PM
2

Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:49 PM
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Under 30, thin, big tits, father owns a pub.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:47 PM
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This calculator has been posted several times and its more of an ego booster for the guys than for getting a realistic idea of how a man compares to his peers. First of all, its using the entire male population. Just putting a reasonable age range and very average guy characteristics narrows the % to a small number. For example: 25-35yrs old not married white at least 5' 6" tall any weight earning at least $45,000 per year Answer = 12.7%. Does that mean a guy meeting the above requirements is cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:44 PM
2

Pre-nups are only useful for protecting assets that pre-exist the marriage. They don't (except in very limited circumstances/jurisdictions) protect any assets accumulated during the marriage or get rid of the obligation to pay alimony. Unless you've inherited something early in life, pre-marriage assets are likely to be insignificant.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 01:57 PM
1

I think its a huge risk for a man to have a traditional marriage where the wife is dependent on him, etc. if she spent a good portion of her youth having a 'hoe phase' before settling down with a provider. All of the obligations and risks are carried by him and continue post-divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 12:55 PM
1

Some of us do want traditional relationships but not with non-traditional women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 12:22 PM
2

I'm not pissed off, it's absolutely astonishing to me that you men who advocate for TRP cannot see that FDS is the same coin as you. Are you joking? In all my comments above I was saying that the deception and manipulation is the same whether its men doing it or women. Show me where ? Show me explicitly where it tells women to go on dates with men they are not interested in and get them to pay for dates and string them along. I don't know about FDS in particular but this is a very common thing f…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 09:16 PM
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Let me be clear, these women out here are nothing special. Just average plain janes out here wanting the whole package. This is exactly why they complain about where are all the good men. They think that because Chad pumped 'n dumped them that they are capable of landing a similar man for a LTR.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/21 09:03 PM
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I thought ignorance was supposed to be bliss? Why do you seem so pissed off? lol In the examples above, are FDS women using men for going on dates then dropping them after they get free meals ? Or are they "vetting" men who will pay for the date? If the man isn't going to pay - they are not even going to bother with the dude. You frame the actions of FDS'ers in the most favorable light and men trying to get laid in the most negative. The result is your ridiculous, hypocritical blindness to the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 04:29 PM
3

How can someone TRICK you into paying for a date? The same way someone can TRICK you into sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 04:10 PM
3

Someone is going to trick you to pay for a date? You dismissed the idea out of hand which is obviously implying that its a non-issue. No need to get emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 04:05 PM
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I wasn't saying that it doesn't happen. I was pointing out the hypocrisy of thinking that tricking someone into paying for something is not bad but tricking someone into having sex is. They're both bad but you only have a problem with men behaving badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 03:46 PM
2

Um isn't the big complaint about PUA is that its 'tricking' women into sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 01:24 PM
2

The whole multi-dating 'strategy' (i.e. stringing the LTR guy along while fucking other guys on the side) is lying and manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 01:23 PM
12

Diet and exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 02:38 PM
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Nothing in the article you posted above supports your claims. The BBC article even concludes with this: While the figures may seem stark, it is in isolation in some of the happiest - overall - countries on earth. Although the report particularly focuses on Nordic countries, it does compare some of the data to that recorded elsewhere. So while 3.9% of people in the Nordic region may report scores so low they are classed as "suffering" - that level is as high as 26.9% in Russia and 17% in France. …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 02:11 PM
3

You asked the question and got a well thought out answer. Sounds like it wasn't one you wanted to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 01:03 PM
2

The Shermanator!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/08/21 12:53 PM
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I fail to see the point of your post. No one here or in TRP or anywhere is saying women are instantly attracted to Chad on looks alone. PUA and RP advice is all about improving looks through fitness and improving game through confidence. Your 'lessons' are common RP theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:56 PM
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Maybe she should be more upfront about the baby in her profile.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 01:30 PM
21

Rule 34...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 09:02 PM
10

I wonder what her view of a woman who did the reverse would be? Got married mid-20s, raised kids till teens and was now trying to rejoin the workforce. The author would probably (rightly) think it would be a seriously uphill battle for that woman and that if she really wanted a career, she should have started earlier. Its just a simple fact of life - you can't be all things to all people and there are no do-overs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 08:59 PM
5

Right so you're built like Arnold schwarzenegger at his peak but with more muscle and 30lbs of fat? You're delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 11:45 PM
3

18% body fat at 275lbs? Yeah right unless you're 7' tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 09:31 PM
1

Why would any man want to narrow the dating pool that much and limit himself to career women only? Instead, how about making marriage less onerous and one sided in the event of a divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 07:27 PM
1

You are assuming 2 things: 1) there's deception involved and 2) the woman wants marriage. On the second, feminism assures us that women can be just as strong and independent as men. In that case there's nothing wrong with having a long term committed relationship, kids, etc without needing the govt stamp of approval.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 07:25 PM
1

I'm not sure what the point of your post is. Are you suggesting that we should strive to have more 'intact families' and more children because it's desirable in and of itself? That is a very different matter than something like red pill philosophy that is about the individual. And despite my "admission" above, I don't speak for all red pill men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 12:20 PM
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Judging from the fan mail good looking murderers get...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/21 11:16 AM
3

Choosing whether or not to have children is a separate matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 10:55 AM
5

The solution for men is to not get married. if their SMV is high enough to get a young woman then there will always be another young woman if the first one says no-marriage is a deal breaker. Divorce rape is a consequence of antiquated laws and legal norms that haven't kept up with social changes in modern marriages and relationships. Marrying someone closer in age doesn't change that reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 09:57 AM
4

Or "yeah! Up to the elbow!"
/r/MGTOW231/07/21 11:33 AM
2

That bottom pic tho...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/07/21 01:06 PM
1

We are facing an existential environmental crisis likely within our lifetimes and certainly within our children's lifetimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:16 PM
2

I think people who dislike the vstrom's looks just don't appreciate its rugged practicality.
/r/MGTOW229/07/21 01:09 PM
2

Why is you're first paragraph in quotes? If you're quoting something you should put the source.
/r/MGTOW229/07/21 01:07 PM
1

Despite what she says you know she's down haha.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/07/21 01:03 PM
8

Nah. They'll grow up thinking all women are like their worthless single mother and nope out of marriage and commitment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/07/21 11:13 PM
1

I don't think anyone should be celebrating this. Spousal support beyond what is needed for someone to get back on their feet in specific circumstances (e.g. spouse quit job to raise kids by mutual decision) is an anachronism, especially now that divorce is commonplace.
/r/MGTOW228/07/21 11:09 PM
5

The other guys paid $100k+ to bang her for several years. They got off cheap!!
/r/MGTOW227/07/21 01:08 PM
2

Their logic is a little more nuanced than just equal pay. I've heard the argument that they think an initial money losing investment in the early years will attract talent and fans and turn profitable down the line as several other pro sports have done. The difference obviously is that the caliber of play will never match the men's leagues so their idea is untested and highly risky from a business perspective. Also 50% of the population are women. If they're not watching women's sports already w…
/r/MGTOW224/07/21 06:00 PM
1

She's bout 10-15 years too late to be looking for something serious. But she wasn't ready 15yrs ago and now she is. Form an orderly queue boys. I'm sure free airfare in exchange for taking care of this princess will be an economical trade.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/21 05:02 PM
2

If you read his comments he is equating correlation and causation without any other evidence or theory about why the relationship exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 11:13 AM
2

Yes I know. Plates are normally 45lbs, not 90 so 4 plates + bar is 225lbs not 405.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/21 02:02 AM
3

The correct way to fix this guy.
/r/MGTOW223/07/21 03:44 PM
2

That is the most pathetic thing I have ever read. Does he have no male friends or family members that can smack some sense into him? He should pack all her shit up when she's on her trip, change the locks and block her number. Wtf?
/r/MGTOW223/07/21 03:40 PM
2

You use 90lb plates?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/21 03:31 PM
116

The answer is easy. He should tell her that she is FWB material only. Good lay, fun to be around but too much of a hoe to marry or commit to.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/21 03:17 PM
7

Also I noticed a lot of posts are leaving out the profile pic. Is that a new restriction?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/21 03:11 PM
4

I can't tell if you're trolling or just don't know the first thing about statistics (other than the line or two you've pulled from Wikipedia). The correlation/causation thing is very important in determining whether or not one thing can predict another. Global warming has increased and there are fewer pirates sailing the seas. Does that mean a lack of piracy is causing global warming? With ONS and mental illness it could be the case that mentally ill people seek out ONS at a greater rate than me…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:48 PM
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She'll definitely be angry but probably won't understand the cause.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/07/21 06:23 PM
5

Well to be fair they did have the mental power to play Bear Grylls.
/r/MGTOW220/07/21 11:54 AM
0

When a woman is on OLD and can select from loads of top guys, the ones she picks are much likelier to be men that she actually would want to date than is the case for the men on OLD. Not saying that women don't sport-fuck too but I doubt they do as much as Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:38 PM
15

I notice you didn't have fitness in your list of things to focus on. You should put that at the top and everything else gets easier.
/r/MGTOW219/07/21 09:36 PM
1

The abstract doesn't make their methodology totally clear but I thought they took a bunch of pictures of men and tweaked each one in the same manner (widening the face, enlarging the eyes, etc). Then women looked at both faces and chose the high and low sociosexual. That would mean that both groups would have the same average characteristics unrelated to the facial structure changes (skin tone, beard, hair color, etc) because both end groups would have the same people in them. But it looks like …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:28 PM
-2

Yeah but what about when you fuck us?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:24 PM
-2

Well that's a totally different discussion. Beta bucks men should be angry that women settle for them after years fucking Chad and those women who end up settling should be mad that they were the sold false promise that sexual interest from top tier guys was anything more than purely sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:04 PM
1

Actually now that I think about it, the beard issue is problematic regardless. I assume they took 100-ish men and used a computer to create different facial structures of the same man and then got participants to rate those. That means the final composites should have the same average facial hair for both which clearly isn't the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:15 PM
2

Because its behind a paywall.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:09 PM
-2

No. Women should be upset that they have the illusion of choice when it comes to looking for attractive men to date for serious relationships. They should realize that the massive amounts of attention they get on OLD bears no relation to their perceived value by the opposite sex. I.e. women need to have a realistic idea of their value if they want more than a string of pump 'n dumps.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:09 PM
4

In their example picture they gave the 'high' sociosexual score guy a beard ffs. I think they set out to prove something and generated the evidence to do so. They also used a small sample of test subjects and found that the women were "better than chance" at predicting the subject's self-assessed attitude towards casual sex. The abstract doesn't say how much better but I'd wager that its more explainable by tester bias (e.g. the beard) than by participant perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:58 PM
1

The irony of this spinster-in-the-making claiming to be a "relationship expert" is amazing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/21 01:23 PM
1

Why get jealous about other people making money? Aside from being wholly unproductive and needlessly bringing yourself down, you're also falling for the apex fallacy when you assume that most girls are top-earners. Its akin to getting jealous of the handful of (mostly) guys who got rich off Dogecoin. Let them enjoy their success and live your own life.
/r/MGTOW219/07/21 01:11 PM
2

That's totally fair but I don't think its hypocritical. It would be if I, as a promiscuous man who prefers low n-count women, got butt hurt over being rejected for having a high n-count myself. I think everyone is entitled to having their own standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:17 PM
2

You're unlikely to get much pushback for having these standards. People are much more accepting of women having strict requirements for the men they date than men doing the same. Of course you have to remember that a) there's no real way of knowing your partners true n-count, and b) the stricter your standards, the smaller the pool of potential partners will be. Personally I wouldn't even consider a sexless LTR or getting married before having sex even if we were super compatible in every other …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 03:46 PM
4

That's what all the "she had sex with other men faster/kinkier/cheaper than me" discussions boil down to. No sorry you're wrong. While that may be the case for some men, others like myself are not interested in LTR with promiscuous women even if that seems hypocritical with regards to our own sexual histories. I have different standards for women than I hold myself to and if women don't have similar standards then there's no issue. It's no different than women who earn very little wanting a weat…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:37 PM
2

But don't forget, some states can still require you to pay child support, even with 50/50 custody. Equality must never get to the point of holding women accountable after all.
/r/MGTOW218/07/21 02:33 AM
2

I think TRP has a lot of hate for the lack of accountability that women tend to have for their actions. Imagine being in a committed relationship or marriage (yikes) and finding out your partner was a former internet stripper. That's going to be endemic over the next 10yrs if the number of OF girls is anything to go by.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 02:04 AM
1

You think paternity fraud is more common than the combined rate of blended families, adoption and IVF using either donated sperm or eggs? A cursory search would tell you otherwise.
/r/MGTOW217/07/21 06:38 PM
4

Nobody won in this one except the lawyers but if my ex behaved like that and turned down reasonable settlements and dragged it out for years I'd feel like I'd won regardless. The guy still had massive earnings potential, a good quality of life and the kids are fully on his side. The ex got pretty much nothing and doesn't have the money to enforce the pitiful final alimony order. As soon as the child support rebate ended I'd be cutting that off too - appeals, missed payments, moving to avoid proc…
/r/MGTOW217/07/21 02:20 PM
2

They might not be her biological kids either. Donor eggs and implanted embryos is a thing, so is adoption, blended families, etc.
/r/MGTOW217/07/21 01:35 PM
2

Education is a proxy for income though, especially if you're getting married young before peak earnings years. Taking a bet on a partner with a higher education level gives you a better shot at higher income. If education becomes less of a distinguishing characteristic in terms of judging future earnings potential then women will look to other qualities instead. It doesn't mean that hypergamy is dead - just that education isn't as useful as a screening criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 05:17 PM
15

To be fair this is very likely an arranged marriage situation where she will have very little contact with the men pre-marriage. Marriage over there is more of a business transaction for both sides than it is here. The husband will get a dowry, the families have to be on board, etc.
/r/MGTOW216/07/21 04:22 PM
77

She was ho'in it up on myspace back in the day.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/07/21 11:10 AM
-4

Boo hoo for him.
/r/MGTOW213/07/21 02:34 AM
3

You could say the same about the Nazis.
/r/MGTOW213/07/21 02:33 AM
1

I guess it depends on what you consider easy. My experience starting out lifting was very similar to this but in my case I replaced fat with muscle rather than adding bulk from being skinny. Starving myself to single digit body fat % would have been much harder and I still wouldn't have had any muscle tone whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:17 PM
0

Look I don't know what your workout program is like and I was in no way saying that you'll hit peak muscle mass in 6 months. However, for an average man, going to the gym, following a program and using free weights, the first 6 months will be a transformation. Obviously I'm not talking about extreme outliers (morbidly obese or extreme underweight) people but average men with starting BMIs in the normal-to-overweight range. If that doesn't happen then it's because a) he's got fuckarounditis, b) h…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:07 AM
2

Ok? You're not contradicting anything I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:10 PM
3

I didn't say that's all it takes. Someone starting fresh with a decent program and sticking to it will see a significant increase in muscle mass in 3-6 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:56 PM
2

Mass is much, much harder to gain. Don’t make me tag someone What? No. Mass is the easiest thing to gain. You pick up heavy weights and put them down again repeatedly plus eat a lot of food. A average man will rapidly gain muscle mass if he sticks to any program for 3-6 months, even something basic like SL5x5. Once you have the muscles, the time it takes to do a cutting cycle goes way down because your baseline calorie burn is so high. Staying at the cut BF% is very difficult and unhealthy thoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 12:21 PM
2

I'm not trying to be rude or judgemental or anything but a 20yr old man who has no interest in women is not 'normal'. Maybe you're trying to convince yourself? MGTOW isn't about deluding oneself about basic biological desires but not letting those desires dictate the course of your life.
/r/MGTOW211/07/21 11:55 AM
3

I'm a 20 yo m that hasn't really been interested in girls. I don't really see the point of trying to date one and every time they have asked me out I have rejected them. MGTOW is for men who have woken up to the realization that the deck is stacked against them and the best course of action is to not play the game. Its not for men who have no desire or interest in traditional/normal relationships with women. If you're gay or asexual the whole concept just doesn't apply.
/r/MGTOW211/07/21 02:09 AM
10

How do you mentally handle the unfairness that you have to approach, make sex happen and protect a woman? Firstly, you don't have to do any of these things. The fact that you feel the way you do is actually counter-productive to the end goal of getting laid (I assume). You need to accept the reality of your situation. Do you wail about the unfairness of aging or that other people are wealthier/better looking/smarter/more confident/whatever? That's life. Deal with it. That you have to torture you…
/r/MGTOW211/07/21 02:04 AM
7

That and playing dumb. Done right and it becomes an art form.
/r/MGTOW211/07/21 01:57 AM
26

Definitely not a ONS. She'd make a fine FWB as long as you used a burner phone, fake name and only fucked at her house.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/21 01:47 AM
5

No one is entitled to anything Tell that to the family court judge when getting divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:35 PM
2

Thanks. It still comes up if you use this link
/r/MGTOW209/07/21 02:26 PM
2

Yeah. When I click on the title it just loops back here.
/r/MGTOW209/07/21 02:09 PM
2

Link was removed?
/r/MGTOW209/07/21 02:00 PM
9

She says it clearly right in there: mental illness.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/21 01:51 PM
19

From her 'about' page: My journey relating to love and relationships, in the past, has been somewhat of a rollercoaster. It took me until I was twenty-nine years old to work out that my self-hating, negative opinion of myself was attracting the wrong kind of partner. Tranlation: the wall loomed up out of nowhere!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/21 05:28 PM
10

The intro to the article is the generalized view of MGTOW before she presents the counterpoint to refute it. I don't think that she actually thinks it's a misogynist movement.
/r/MGTOW204/07/21 12:17 PM
1

She looks like Pete Davidson with huge tits.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/21 03:32 AM
17

Think of how many poor leopards were sacraficed to cover that travesty.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/21 03:29 AM
23

I feel for the poor bastard that had 2 kids with this harpy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/21 08:57 PM
0

so women not only have more valid reasons to cheat, they’re doing so when in an already unhealthy relationship Um no? I said nothing about the quality of the existing relationship. Monkey branching when someone 'better' or more exciting comes along doesn't mean anything was wrong with the previous guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 12:08 AM
2

Not convinced whatsoever that a man cheating is summed up as an “oppsie forgot I was a male!” and a women cheating is a cold and calculated affair. Not sure where you got that from what I wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:20 PM
3

The point is that when men cheat, its usually for pure physical reasons. When women cheat its usually for a combination of physical and emotional/mental reasons. That makes it worse because it is more of a symptom of a breakdown of the existing relationship that when a man cheats. For clarity: its bad either way, just worse when women do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:00 PM
29

Not with that attitude.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/21 11:28 AM
3

But the thing is that its unlikely you'd actually be "settling" (i.e. be with someone who is less than you think you "deserve"). The problem is that many (most?) women have an exaggerated idea of their own worth so what is actually a fair match-up becomes settling in their minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 01:36 PM
8

No kidding. They broke up and she moved on. Did he really expect any other outcome? Now I am no stupid dude ...proceeds to do a bunch of stupid stuff... OP - block your ex, block your ex friend, lift weights and move on with your life.
/r/MGTOW229/06/21 08:39 PM
30

Taking out too much student loans Some of the loans are for her too! Need a college degree to be a homemaker now? The guy has no clue.
/r/MGTOW228/06/21 03:55 PM
5

So now the change has to be sudden? Way to move the goalposts. People change substantially from when they're in their early to mid 20s to 40s+. The fact that you don't know this is an obvious indicator of your inexperience as anyone older will have seen it first hand over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:37 AM
14

Every single outcome in a relationship can be traced back to a decision you made or didn't make, and trying to claim lack of control is the lazy, irresponsible, victim mindset route. This is utter nonsense. Life is a collection of random events that happen to you and your actions and decions help steer things along but don't really provide any certainty whatsoever. Vetting your partner will never give you a complete understanding of them as a person and how they will change over time. Likewise y…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:34 AM
1

Very little self-reflection in this post. She's on redpill women but embodies many of the characteristics that make her unsuitable for a LTR according to redpill ideas. On the wrong side of mid 20's, already giving up on dating because of many bad experiences, coming out of her ho phase and into the epiphany phase. Her expectations and perceptions of men have been skewed by the sampling of individual HVM characteristics she's had from many different men but never in a single man, and if they wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 12:55 PM
5

While this is all true, the problem is when you start attaching moral judgements of the "society should be like..." variety. That means wanting the government to tell us how to live our lives in a society that supposedly values individual freedom. Instead we need to change our own mindsets. We're all just people trying to make the best of the time we have - men and women alike. Knowing that the deck is stacked against men when it comes to the legal framework around relationships and marriage, th…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre24/06/21 04:37 PM
32

this level of self-realization I doubt the conversation is any good.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/21 12:18 PM
9

What is your point? Women can also choose to date partners with low n-counts if that's important to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:28 PM
3

Lacking mental illness too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:26 PM
14

Its not at all unusual for people to have standards for LTR prospects that they themselves don't meet. e.g. women liking men who earn more money than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:13 PM
1

Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:14 AM
4

Alimony is in addition to the separation of marital assets. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:11 AM
0

You could post information to backup your assertion rather than expecting everyone else to do it for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:09 AM
3

They are most likely still liable for child support even with 50/50 custody, and often will be paying alimony too. There's only so many hours in the day to raise kids and work enough to pay for your deadbeat ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:08 AM
0

Both the articles you posted were dealing with cases where the court made a determination of custody and where some form of abuse was alleged. Neither is the norm. Most custody disputes are settled out of court without allegations of abuse. Your very limited lens tells us nothing about family court bias in usual cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:05 AM
6

Exactly. Alimony (should) have absolutely nothing to do with children and child support.
/r/MGTOW217/06/21 04:09 PM
0

Most of their responses were in negative in that the resources from the man would have to be split and thus not entirely on the focus. While this may be true (and totally unsurprising) as a preference, its definitely not a deal breaker for many (most?). I see plenty of blended families where both the man and the women have children from previous marriages. I'm pretty sure that most single fathers would prefer a childless woman too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 01:39 PM
10

MYTH #3 IF YOU’RE SINGLE AND HAPPY, YOUR STANDARDS FOR A MAN ARE PROBABLY TOO HIGH. This one is so twisted that it’s hard for me to even explain... There is some truth here... So not a myth at all then? Lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/21 02:45 PM
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What she also is failing to realize is that business transactions require risk taking. She is hoping to skip right to the wealthy guy without taking a gamble on a younger man, earlier in his career that has ambition and potential. By the time the guy has achieved success he's either been a) locked down by a smarter woman, or b) enjoying the endless supply of 25yr old hoes to pump n' dump. The 'plain' women she sees with the rich guys likely did exactly that. Its also obviously the apex fallacy w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 12:51 PM
1

Ok. That's besides the point though as the sentiments expressed are the same.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/21 10:46 PM
6

The posters on that sub go on and on and on about the qualities they want in a HVM and how everyone else is a scrote (lol). But when men have their own list for what makes a HVW.... wah!!! Its all so unfair!! The poster lacks even the barest capacity for introspection or she would realize she is a LVW and that no amount of being "nice and feminine" is going to change that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/21 06:37 PM
16

But even then her whole premise falls apart. She's also talking about men not bothering to work or get educated anymore because of all the easy sex with no commitment. She's talking about 2 different groups of people: HVM who are successful and can fuck loads of women easily - why would they want to commit to any women excep the very best and only when they themselves are 100% ready to settle down. Average joes who have been getting shit on for decades by the legal system, the economy and by wom…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/21 04:15 PM
4

And the reason men aren't getting educated and are seeing their earning slip is because of all that cheap sex! Whodathunkit? We're living in the golden age boys!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/21 04:10 PM
1

If you're looking for a LTR then obviously you want it to be special, i.e. lacking elements that other casual dating partners/relationships lacked. It's not purely about ego. It's also about fulfillment, life goals, and (for men mostly) mitigation of the risks that are inherrant to marriage and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 01:02 PM
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Why would a woman mention that kind of history is beyond me. Pure entitlement. She doesn't think her past is a negative at all and that the right HVM won't even consider such things when he sees her for the prize that she is. No self reflection and no accountability.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/21 12:58 PM
1

What a shit post. Link in the comments? Why? And it isn't even about the UK. Try harder op.
/r/MGTOW210/06/21 02:46 AM
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Those stats are for all ages. You'd really need to break down by generation to get a feel for different groups levels of promiscuity. 80yr old grannies married at 16 bringing the average down doesn't help today's 25yr old guy trying to find a non-slut to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 02:09 AM
1

Then she shouldn't have gotten married.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:52 PM
15

Fat woman: Fuck fatphobics I can do what i want when I want, I’m going to eat this cake and enjoy it! While also thinking they're above dating fat men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:34 PM
8

Posting fds content is cheating.
/r/MGTOW209/06/21 02:36 PM
2

Yes it can definitely happen but is much less likely to if the bio father is known. If unknown, the court basically just says that its in the best interests of the child so tough shit.
/r/MGTOW203/06/21 05:21 PM
1

The cause (like so many other problems in society) is a lack of accountability. Perjury is a serious felony charge yet no one considers filing it for false accusations made in family court under oath.
/r/MGTOW203/06/21 05:20 PM
3

Yeah but he has a very strong case to get out of it, particularly as the OP has admitted to everyone involved including the real father. The OP's husband is extremely lucky she came clean. If she had waited a few years the courts would consider the established child-parent relationship in its determination, especially if the real father was ducking his responsibilities.
/r/MGTOW203/06/21 05:16 PM
7

A good prenup does work but only really to protect assets that you bring into the marriage. People expect too much of them and fail to draft them properly which is the biggest problem. i.e. make sure both parties have independent legal council before signing.
/r/MGTOW202/06/21 06:57 PM
1

I think it's odd people go around announcing their preferences. Move in silence. No one knows why you're not dating them. I disagree. Especially in OLD its expected that you put some basic preferences at least. Its perfectly fine for women to want 'real men' with looks, fitness, income, height, etc requirements but as soon as men do it people shame them and scream bigotry.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 06:54 PM
2

I find it particularly annoying when fat women and the HAES movement try to tell me that not being attracted to them is a form of bigotry. Case in point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:56 PM
5

So not being in shape, not having money and not having status will help a man filter the LTR-material women from the rest? That's some quality advice right there!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:51 AM
19

Yup this. I've never had a disagreement with a woman that was worth arguing over. I'll say my piece and she can take it or leave it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/21 11:44 AM
1

I wonder how many fat guys this hog has dated?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 01:27 PM
2

Nah. Just look here for some examples. 30% is still in the normal body fat range for women. Scroll to the example picture or look at the navy requirements for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 12:42 PM
1

Lol down voted from people who didn't take stats 101.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 12:29 PM
5

Also women can be quite a bit fatter than men and still look quite attractive depending on where they carry it. 25% body fat on a guy looks quite pudgy. Women can get up to 35% and still look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 12:12 PM
16

Child support != Alimony. You can owe the former without ever having been married.
/r/MGTOW230/05/21 09:56 PM
39

I'm a 25-year-old straight cis-female trying to navigate the dumpster fire that is dating in this modern world Ok fair enough. trying meet dudes....because there are A LOT of single dudes in this city... and I've run the gamut And it begins... I'm a confident woman Over-bearing I'm an opinionated and nasty woman Loud, obnoxious, trashy I think I'm sexy Fat lot of them think I'm a call-girl (why??) Why indeed? A real mystery here boys. interactions online yield not a lot more than some dude looki…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 10:16 AM
1

Most of TRP "truths" are symptoms of America being a dysfunctional society If you're going to say something like this then you should at least make at least a cursory attempt to list these "truths". There are many misunderstandings about what TRP teaches. At its core it boils down to physical attractiveness matters. Its not rocket science and its not even controversial. If you don't think European women like fit, attractive men or high status men then you are delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 08:06 PM
1

Delete this. It's an embarrassment.
/r/MGTOW226/05/21 11:14 PM
1

I can not even believe in science too, it became a new religion, sadly. For example, when I am being told that getting 1m of water level during 100 years is risky, but tidals have 3m amplitude where I live, it just seems suspicious to me. This is quite frankly a ridiculous statement to make. You're basing your assessment of real science (i.e. not social science bullshit) backed up by mountains of data, interdisciplinary and peer validation, verified predictive power, historical evidence, etc, et…
/r/MGTOW226/05/21 12:36 PM
47

A cell phone and data plan is probably one of the best things a poor person should be spending their money on. You can get both for very little money too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/05/21 11:45 AM
1

The tax breaks are real (at least in the US) especially if one spouse doesn't work or earns a lot less. Also things like next of kin, medical decision making, etc but lots of that can also be accomplished via living wills and estate planning.
/r/MGTOW222/05/21 04:59 PM
1

Obviously its implied. What communication do you think op was referring to? What to get for dinner?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 02:49 PM
-2

No. It's that women find emotional vulnerability in men to be a turnoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 02:06 PM
51

She was a plate in her last "LTR" but doesn't realize it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/21 01:58 PM
11

I disagree. You can have different standards for casual sex partners and potential LTR partners. Screening for LTR involves a completely different set of requirements and risk factors (values, children preferences, financials, etc). The financial and personal risks of a marriage ending - especially for men - warrant having very high standards and its a proven fact that promiscuity is a risk factor for cheating and divorce. You can have different standards for your potential partners than you hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 01:39 PM
1

There's a big grey area between virgin and high n-count. I'm not talking about the 25yr old who's had a half dozen bfs and is looking to settle down. Its the ONS at the club, sex-on-tap hoes who have a history of making risky decisions and fucking loads of randos. she wants to commit to you and y’all get to that point, why not just get over it? Would you marry a former addict who's been clean for several years? How about a woman who bankrupted herself from credit card spending but has been respo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 12:26 PM
1

I agree that N-count doesn't matter for casual sex partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:54 AM
5

Not everyone has a cuckold fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:18 AM
2

Casual sex is normal and for women is easily available, annoymous (relative to her social circle) and can easily be kept under wraps by just not talking about it. Murder is hardly comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:08 AM
4

The same way as men complaining about female egos affects you. I.e. it doesn't, yet here we are talking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 10:29 PM
4

Yes. if you complaining about women's ago its your problem I'm ok with that - but in all fairness the post wall thots lose the right to complain about not being able to find a 'real man' to pay for her and Chad's kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 07:03 PM
109

So women's ego is another thing men are responsible for? I think I see a pattern here...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 04:25 PM
2

Its not necessarily the fault of the courts though. Alimony is only awarded when you sue during the divorce and get awarded the benefit. Women file in the vast majority of cases and are also much more likely to sue for support. The fact that men fail to assert their rights is as much to due with social stigma and self respect as the law. Edit in bold
/r/MGTOW218/05/21 02:36 PM
2

Why watch it now that you've given away the whole plot?
/r/MGTOW216/05/21 12:35 PM
1

I see way more single colleagues higher up the corporate ladder (finance). Mostly post-divorce but not always. Also it's more common in Europe than the US I've found.
/r/MGTOW216/05/21 12:32 PM
1

If you're giving a romantic interest a full breakdown of your finances then you are emphasizing your provider qualities. The question is about as useful as asking how high you can jump while keeping your feet on the ground. Keep that info to yourself until it becomes necessary to disclose - i.e. before marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:17 PM
2

If you insist on emphasizing your provider qualities them you'll attract women who desire those qualities. The entire premise of your question is a non sequitur.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 05:15 AM
1

Yeah 8 minute mile is definitely nothing to brag about. That's normal jog pace for a 10k.
/r/MGTOW215/05/21 12:09 AM
19

Is sexual attraction in such a different category than material security? Yes obviously. Why do you seem to make one an acceptable want but not the other? Both are desirable. I take issue with men being expected to provide one in the absence of the other from their spouse. Is it really that complicated to understand that men would prefer to be sexually desired in a committed partnership?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 04:42 PM
13

So your counter example is the super rich and warlords? I'm talking about real people and sugar dating proves my point. Those guys have accepted the reality and making the transactional nature of their relationships explicit. They're also choosing the less expensive option.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 04:25 PM
11

While I don't disagree with the premise that women's jobs matter, I think it's more just a simple social class preference rather than specific qualities of the jobs and the women who do them. Your entire post is basically a string of anecdotes and made-up guesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 03:07 PM
90

Yes, the rich nerd is going to be more attractive than the broke supermodel-esque hotties with older and/or more relationship minded women. Not "more attractive" at all. This is women sacraficing physical attractiveness for material comforts and security. Men obviously have an issue with this because no one wants to be in a committed LTR with someone who only values it on a transactional basis. What is the man getting out of the exchange besides extremely expensive sex? And then if he does make …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 03:03 PM
3

I'd guess it's equal parts virtue signaling and defensiveness from people who suffer from mental illness. Unless you're seeking a depressed mate (and I'm sure some people do, sub-consiously or consciously) then any chronic illness, physical or mental is unattractive. This is basic biology ffs. People are programmed to seek out superior and compatible genetic matches to improve the odds of their offspring thriving. It's also not unreasonable at all to choose not to date someone because of their d…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 01:36 PM
1

So you're saying the human race wouldn't exist without marriage? Real big brain time over here I can tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 07:10 PM
1

For me it was about seeing visible gains reinforcing the effort it took to make them. My mindset changed from exercise being a chore to it being a requirement to live the kind of life I want. Also I don't "diet" at all. I buy healthy food, eat reasonable portions and avoid feeling full, snack very little and drink low calorie booze. To lose weight and get in shape I lift 3x/week and use a stationary bike most days. You need to ingrain it into your day to the point where you feel bad if you don't…
/r/MGTOW213/05/21 04:01 PM
0

Ummm no.... We'll go on then...explain the difference. Air velocity is the same, feeling of weightlessness is the same, etc. Intellectually there's no real difference in the experience is there? Unless you're talking about the view but obviously a photograph is basically the same thing. I also played CoD on Xbox so now I park in veterans parking at Lowes too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:15 PM
4

That's like saying the air tunnel thing at the mall is the same as sky diving. Your biological functions aren't shallow and exist for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 04:42 PM
16

Maybe you're asexual or something. You're confusing physical sexual attraction, which is a basic biological response, to shallowness which is purely mental (e.g. being attracted to someone but not acting on it because of what your friends would say etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 03:47 PM
40

Sure if you treat your sexual relationships as a purely intellectual exercise. Meanwhile the rest of us want the real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 03:35 PM
1

dont men look worse after 25? After 25 your metabolism slows down and losing weight gets exponentially harder. This is only marginally true. If you maintain a decent standard of physical fitness and activity and eat a reasonable diet, your metabolism will hardly slow at all before your 50s. Some physical traits actually improve well into your 30s. Just look at the age of ironman triathlon winners (32 for men and 33 for women). Also male attractiveness is much less tied to youth characteristics (…
/r/MGTOW211/05/21 02:10 PM
1

Nah. Just use a Google voice number and don't tell them your real name.
/r/MGTOW211/05/21 02:03 PM
28

Russia did this in the aftermath of WWII but it was because so many men had been killed that they didn't really have a choice as they wanted to regrow the population. Single mothers were given housing and money and the social stigma against being fatherless pretty much disappeared as it was so common. Not sure about the crime impact though and crime stats before/after would have been useless anyway given the massive social and economic changes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/05/21 10:40 AM
16

Lol no. There's no real justice in the world. At 26 or so she'll snag a recent med/law/tech/finance grad and coast her way to riches with the poor sucker oblivious to her thousand cock stare and blown out pussy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 08:32 PM
2

Lots of men did this. It was a great transfer of wealth. A new generation of money has been born, sucked from the old guard. There's no generational wealth transfer involved in bitcoin. This is a small pool of investors bidding up an asset. Wealth transfer occurs from investors who are cashing out to new investors but most of these are the same group of people. Young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 02:36 PM
2

While the divorce rate per year has more or less leveled off at just under 50 percent
/r/MGTOW203/05/21 01:13 PM
5

Your understanding of the stats is definitely wrong and the quote doesn't clear anything up. 50% of all marriages are definitely not ending every year. What maybe is happening is the total risk of divorce for new marriages is indeed 70% but if you include all marriages the % drops closer to the often quoted 50% by including more successful marriages from pre-1990.
/r/MGTOW203/05/21 11:48 AM
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I don't like many movies but I did like this one. It wasn't an original story but it was well cast, well done for what it was, had well choreographed fight scenes and just enough humor to not be ridiculous. My main gripe with hollywood action movies is when they try to be too serious but are totally farcical (Without Remorse is the poster boy for this kind of barely watchable drivel).
/r/MGTOW202/05/21 11:55 PM
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That was exactly my take. It's a good watch and it was good to see Christopher Lloyd on screen again too.
/r/MGTOW202/05/21 05:01 PM
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You're thinking of HPV (see Michael Douglas). This chick has herpes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 04:58 PM
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Other infected people most likely.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 04:55 PM
1

Get some weights. Pick them up and put them down. Repeat until you see the past women you were able to pull as trash.
/r/MGTOW202/05/21 02:08 PM
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In addition to all her other faults, she's also stupid and pretentious. That’s where it all went wrong, when he asked where I like to “holiday”. “Where do you like to holiday?” is something Americans ask (holiday is not a verb) Holiday is indeed a verb and Americans say "vacation" in the same context. How did the Telegraph allow this garbage to be published on their site?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/21 02:41 PM
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Buried "lede".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/21 02:32 PM
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Splitting of property is tricky because for ex. some men want women who stay at home while he works so how would she have been able to contribute the last 10 years? I don't mean value her contributions at zero. She should be credited at some fair valuation for her work plus a share of capital gains on marital property. Am automatic 50/50 split is ridiculous though. I think common law marriages are great and fine. Why do you think it shouldn't be a thing? Because it's a bizarre implied contract. …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:11 AM
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A solution that seems pretty obvious to me is get married without the involvement of the government and yet I’ve seen no one propose this very simple idea What are you proposing? People get married in principle only? Have their own semi-legal marriage contract? That doesn't solve the problem at all. A legal marriage is recognized in the law and provides many benefits to a couple such as favorable tax treatment, inheritance, medical next of kin, parental rights, etc, etc. The cost of all that is …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:54 AM
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Being unemployed is unattractive. That's not the problem. The problem is that money is attractive so a man with money needs to question the motivations of the woman he's with. You don't need to worry about all the people that aren't fucking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 09:25 PM
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This post is hot garbage. You assume the entire history of male/female social dynamics is modeled off a distorted and very narrow view of a couple of decades of US history. Women back in the days, couldn’t work. Many men would argue that they gave away a good thing. What does this mean? Not only is it not true but who is arguing that the inability to work is good for women? That they were foolish to give up a ‘fulfilled’ life of work for the family rather than corporations. The ability to get pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 09:19 PM
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TBH it is very hard to tell what your point is from the post because it's so long and rambling.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 11:30 AM
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No idea. I haven't seen that stat. Was it never married or previously married? The latter is self perpetuating because women live longer than men regardless of marital status.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 01:44 PM
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Longer life is probably a stat where you'd want to check the assumptions. Marriage is "normal" so most heathly, normal men will get married. Conversely, unhealthy men (and/or clinically depressed and suicidal men) are less likely to get married which would skew the stats negatively for that group. If you adjusted for basic health and lifestyle I doubt you would find a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 12:56 PM
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It speaks directly to her character so of course its relevant snowflake.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/21 11:14 AM
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The whole point of using medians is to actual get a realistic average that is not skewed by outliers. The number of sexual partners a person has is not normally distributed (obviously). There is a lower bound of zero and an upper bound limited only by time and attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 07:51 PM
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For most social/economic stats the median is used most often as outliers skew the data heavily (billionaires and average wealth stats for example). For physical traits population stats the mean, median and mode will all be very close as long as you control for things like male vs female. Median is still more accurate most of the time to avoid silly things like saying the average person has fewer than two legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 02:08 PM
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The mean, median and mode are all different ways of expressing an average.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 01:45 PM
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It's literally mathematically impossible You're bad at math. If you're thinking of average as just being the mean then a single woman banging a thousand men would increase the group average even if the rest of the women had N-counts of 1. But normally when doing population statistics you look at the median numbers which exclude these outliers so the average can be very different between the sexes. Example: 1000 men and 1000 women. They all partner off in monogamously except that all the men have…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 01:44 PM
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If you fall in the normal range of male human physiology (i.e. not far from average height, no outlandish facial features, etc) you can be a 7 just by: Being physically fit. Keeping good hygiene + get your teeth sorted out. Dress reasonably well. To get to an 8 you do the above + be wealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 02:11 PM
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I get rejected, a lot. A. Lot. OK And no, I'm not psychotic either. I'll take your word for it. You can browse my profile if you must, I'm a perfectly normal attractive woman. Well if you're not psychotic, you sure are wearing a psycho's uniform.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 01:05 PM
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Similarly people often overlook or dismiss the physical toll that typically male dominated trades take on workers' bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 11:24 PM
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my 2nd husband tried to choke me to death...my favorite color is blue Moving quickly along then...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/21 11:11 AM
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Radius
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/21 06:40 PM
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Your comment made me curious about my own dating history. Its an interesting question I think. In my case I dated around 30 women before meeting my now wife at 26. Probably 4, maybe 5 would have worked out if circumstances had been different. People really need to get soul-mate magical thinking out of their heads.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/21 02:52 PM
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So you think women go from normal fertility to geriatric within a year?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 09:37 PM
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Female infertility rises in a pretty straight line from early 20s to around 35 and then accelerates after that. The definition of geriatric pregnancy isn't a counter argument to that fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 08:10 PM
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Its a silly question because money is a real thing and a "perfect relationship" is not. The whole concept of there being a single "soul mate" that's the perfect partner for you is obviously nonsensical. Finding a good partner is a mix of luck and effort and if it can be done once, it can be done again. I'd take the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 08:05 PM
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Keyword if a man stays fit in America More than 70% of the men don't stay fit so that's your key. Yes I agree. My point was that the testosterone drop is exaggerated because we have normalized obesity. Who cares about a woman's fertility . Lol 😂 hell I had a baby at 35 already had 2 before then , all my friends are having babies in their mid- late thirties grow up where do you live that You Don't see 35+yrs Plus women having babies are you living in a basement dude or in a 3rd world country I wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 04:30 PM
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The testosterone drop with age is pretty exaggerated (and is nothing like women's fertility drop). It peaks at puberty (duh) and then falls to a stable long term level before a man is 30. Subsequent declines are more to do with disease, injury and obesity than normal human physiology. If a man stays fit his testosterone levels should stay pretty constant unless there is some other health problem that lowers it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 03:59 PM
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A handful of states have these laws which can even let the jilted spouse profit from the divorce.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/21 03:26 PM
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There's a movie with Charlize Theron based on a true story of a prostitute-turned-serial killer due to the abuse she suffered.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 03:20 PM
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I remember reading somewhere that its very common among serial killers to have been abused by their mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 03:19 PM
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To me there's a very obvious reason why the sexes would react differently. Woman lies to man about job/weight/hobbies etc. They meet up and he discovers that the physical things were a lie. If he still sleeps with her then that is on him. The job, hobbies, etc are ancillary. If the physical things were not lies but he subsequently discovers the other lies and nexts her, he still had sex with a hottie so still a win. Or he doesn't care about the other stuff and is interested in continuing things.…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 03:10 PM
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There's also the situation that both go into it with the same intentions for a relationship with no lying but one finds that the sexual chemistry is lacking. That's a perfectly valid reason to next.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 05:54 PM
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Have you never had an aquaintance introduce you to their single friend? Once you're in the whatever club you've already passed the initial test of having a common interest with people there. If you're friendly and don't aggressively hit on the women you meet but let them know that you're single, odds are they have single friends to set you up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 02:20 PM
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So by the same logic if the woman behaves irresponsibly during the pregnancy she should be responsible for the future associated medical costs right? Let's say she drinks and the kid has FAS for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 02:00 PM
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Russian grannies with Soviet era fucking machines. It's intellectual.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 12:28 AM
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high value man that commits despite being able to cheat ABLE TO does not mean considering. You're insisting on reading what OP wrote in a specific negative interpretation that is all in your head. The vast majority of women are able to cheat on a whim if they choose. Does that mean they are all considering it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 05:21 PM
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The Ultimate Female fantasy is a high value (good looking, confident, wealthy) man who has a ton of options but who picks THEM out of all the other girls he could have sex with. Your negative spin is not what the OP wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 04:15 PM
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Good looking + wealthy + attractive = asshole? Bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 03:50 PM
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Womens' preference for tall men on tinder shows how shallow men are?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 03:38 AM
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You might want to read No More Mr Nice Guy first to stop you from erring in the other direction with your sons.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 01:00 PM
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3% of alimony payments go to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 07:03 PM
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Flip it around from the guy's perspective. Maybe the "dutch" guy is high value, has lots of options and is vetting you for a LTR. If you ghost him for not paying he might think he dodged a gold digger and move on to the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 08:12 PM
2

And assuming you don't maintain velocity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 08:05 PM
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Respond with a wide-eyed "meow".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 08:00 PM
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Its easy for the woman to say that when its the man who usually bears the cost of a failed marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 07:47 PM
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Personally I ask them. But I would also expect them to volunteer information that was relevant to something as significant as marriage. The difference between me and you is that you don't seem to think lying by omission is lying at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 07:40 PM
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And you keep overlooking my point. You don't know if your partner thinks the way I do because you've kept your past a secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 07:35 PM
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But your intellectually aware that people care right? Not being able to empathize with others is one thing but the fact that you participate in this sub means you have no excuse for willful ignorance. To be honest - and I'm not trying to be mean or anything - I think women like you are the reason the redpill is needed for men. A quick glance at your post history tells me: promiscuous past big time daddy issues bad with money unempathetic pansexual (I take this as sex for validation) secretive/di…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 07:15 PM
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So its (2) then. Personally I think withholding such information from someone you're getting married to is hugely problematic, whether he asked or not. It has the potential to create marital problems later in life with consequences growing the longer you stay together. An extreme example could be someone who was formerly a sex worker. Their LTR partner probably wouldn't even think to ask. Withholding that info is lying by omission quite obviously. I think a similar standard applies to someone wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 03:52 PM
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You can't remember if you had the conversation about your sexual history? That means that either: your comment is a lie and you know that the conversation actually didn't happen. you didn't have the conversation and you've convinced yourself that it doesn't matter to him (i.e. lying by omission). you did have the conversation where he explicitly said he doesn't care and doesn't want to know which takes us back to (1) - your comment is a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 03:38 PM
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Me: Does he know your N-count? I bet he'd care if he did. You: No clue, I don't remember having the conversation. If you stoop to lying anonymously on reddit I can only imagine how you really feel about lying (directly or by omission) in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 03:11 PM
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If you're lying by omission to secure a LTR, you're trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 03:04 PM
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That's a ridiculous statement. If you don't see the difference between inconsequential lies to casual aquaintances (which people tell all the time) and lying to someone you've committed to spending your life with then you are either delusional or completely lack the ability to self reflect.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 02:49 PM
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That doesn't answer the question. If he's chosen to remain ignorant, it may be because he knows he wouldn't like the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 01:37 PM
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Does he know your N-count? I bet he'd care if he did.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 12:17 PM
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Lying to a casual sex partner is not the same as lying to a long term committed partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 12:16 PM
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I think it speaks more to you as a man generally than as a particular type of man. I had plenty of casual sex from high school through college and for a few years after before marriage and I would avoid highly promiscuous women for a LTR. I think the number of women who have lots of casual sex for the 'right' reasons (enjoyment, open relationship with sex and sexuality, etc) is waaayyy smaller than those who do it for the wrong reasons (low self esteem, past abuse, validation, substance abuse, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 12:13 PM
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suggests that N is anything but a proxy for sociosexuality and culture at best, and mental illness, impulsivity, self esteem issues or other red flags at worst So? When a man is evaluating a potential partner for a LTR he's unlikely to require her to undergo a psychological evaluation with a trained professional. All he can do is look at the obvious risk factors of which promiscuity is one. Maybe the underlying cause is something negative and maybe not. Do you want to gamble your marriage on wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 12:02 PM
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You've been together 1yr in the future?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 01:40 AM
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RemindMe! 1 year
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 11:12 PM
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His point was that his remorse was unrelated to the quality of the woman. It would be less genuine remorse if it was tainted by the regret of banging a fatty or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 10:59 PM
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I don't read that sub but I imagine the male equivalent is divorce/breakup after she got fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 12:44 PM
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Um... correct me if I'm wrong but didn't you start the name calling when you said women were selfish for having orgasms? Anyway I wasn't trying to insult you by calling you an incel. It was a simple statement of fact. Like if I called you an moron for example. That would just be an accurate reflection of your mental ability based on the evidence presented here, not simply my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 09:54 PM
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Don't worry about it. Purpose or not, it has no impact on your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 08:47 PM
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Oh look an incel. How original.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 07:46 PM
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Is your knowledge of women so miniscule that you think they have as easy a time reaching orgasm as men? Also in before "but I know a chick that..."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 07:39 PM
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Achieving orgasm solo is trivial for a normally functioning man. It can be more difficult, time consuming and less satisfying for women. And there may be some stigma but there's also completely anonymous online shopping too so if men wanted the sex toys they would sell in greater numbers. Obviously the products exist so some men like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 04:22 PM
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You have no argument so you change the conversation. I never said anything about kids. If you have them, you should pay for them and raise them to the best of you ability. What I have a problem with is: nearly automatic female custody which necessitates child support 50/50 custody where (usually) the man still has to pay child support no fault divorce law where a wife can decide she wants out for no reason or even after an affair and the husband is required to pay for her lifestyle for years. al…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 10:21 AM
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Marriage and family stability makes for greater social stability, economic prosperity and better outcomes for children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 03:05 AM
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For men in western countries, female promiscuity is bad because of how we've structured our society. We are encouraged socially, legally, financially, morally, etc to get married and be monogamous. Once married there are huge costs associated with divorce and female promiscuity increases the odds of divorce. So on the one hand society is telling women that they can have it all but on the other, men are realizing that they are expected to bear the costs (by and large anyway). This naturally creat…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 02:16 AM
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Another point, why aren’t companies marketing it like this? Theres tons of horny, lonely men who need a simple way to solve their problems, especially with quarantine! Here's a simple truth: if there's money to be made, someone will step up and make it. What you are attributing to bias and social stigma is more easily explained by a lack of demand due to the fact that men come equipped with their own free sex toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 02:07 AM
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By freak I mean at the tail ends of the bell curve in terms of unchangeable physical characteristics (i.e. not body fat %). At 5'3", in North America or Europe you are indeed a freak. Edit: Here's some data to show you what I mean. It puts you in the 2nd percentile of male height, so 98% of men are taller than you. If you were to compare that to facial attractiveness, what do you think the 2nd percentile would look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 01:21 AM
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Today, I am working towards changing the medium of film forever and producing lasting and subversive art You're going to fail because you are dumb and have an overly inflated sense of your intelligence, insights and abilities. My advice is to set the bar a little lower. Start on fries, make your way up to flipping burgers and maybe with hard work and luck you'll be customer facing. From there the world is your oyster.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 09:03 PM
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I can't tell if you're dense or just being deliberately obtuse. If you're fat but relatively average in looks, you're below average overall. If you're physically fit and average looks, you're above average overall. It's really not that complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 08:55 PM
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unless you have freakish looks
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 08:44 PM
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That's what the Villages in Florida is for.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 07:35 PM
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Got me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 07:28 PM
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If you're physically fit you're pretty much guaranteed to be above average unless you have freakish looks. Get in shape and join sporty clubs, don't hit on all the women but if they think you're not an asshole they'll at least set you up with single friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 07:25 PM
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Haha sure but you can't judge a whole subreddit by it's most ridiculous posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 12:44 PM
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Good luck trying to find any semblance of a rational thought in that wall of barely legible drivel.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 11:36 AM
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That's a lot of words to say that RP is less effective because women know about it too. But what you're failing to see is the RP isn't a trick. It's telling men how to give women what they really want, not what they say they want, at least when it comes to sex and attraction. Getting physically fit and more confident talking to women isn't going to backfire on a guy looking to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 11:31 AM
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Thats probably true in a lot of cases but in MRP they get called out for it. Also the advice/reading is quite good. Get in shape, take ownership of your life and problems, don't display low value, etc. These are simple concepts that all men can apply to their daily lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 11:27 AM
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You started talking about intimate partner violence and downplayed the incidence of it from women. I did the same (facetiously) with parental violence and showed stats why you were wrong. You now expand the scope to all violence? That's called moving the goalposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 10:13 PM
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Well done moving the goalposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 10:06 PM
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Your TV watching habits don't make good science. From the stats I can find: In the US in 2017 there were 2,237 spousal murders of which 1,527 were women (68%). Source. While higher, the odds certainly don't favor men by a huge margin. Over the period of 1980 to 2008, a parent was responsible for 63% of children under 5 who were murdered. 33% male perpetrators and 30% female. Source. Pretty close to even if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 08:31 PM
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I read a lot of true crime and unfortunately it usually is the woman hanging around the playground that needs to be checked out. There is a real chunk of women who are violent baby murderers and instead of all of us trying to do something about it women keep pretending all women are the same "good mothers" who wouldn't harm anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 08:13 PM
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It could be different men feeling those 2 things. But generally society places a lot of pressure on couples to confirm to standards. The woman trading up, the man being taller than her, etc. Some of that is evolutionary too so their might be a more primal explanation for why we behave in certain ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 05:03 PM
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Does this men that men prefer women that make less money than them, as long as they are attractive? I think this is generally true but for several reasons: Lots of men just don't care about their partners' earning potential because they earn enough themselves and/or want a more traditional setup in a LTR. Some men feel emasculated by a higher earning woman. Knowing that women want to "trade-up", its a risk for a man to be in a LTR with a higher earning woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 02:39 PM
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If you were doing a statistical study on the subject, you'd control for factors unrelated to gender. Education, race, age, etc. Conflating the issues just creates confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 11:58 AM
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Hypergamy in women is that they will never be satisfied with their man and will be looking to "trade up" for a better man This is not what hypergamy means. It means that women seek partners that are higher than them in the social/sexual hierarchy. That could be any combination of looks, status, money, intelligence, etc. It doesn't mean that they will always be looking for a step-up once in a relationship as long as their partner starts and stays at a higher perceived value than themselves. Men p…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 11:47 AM
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And ever worsening stats around boys education.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 02:43 AM
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Don't forget Bezos too! Although she walked with quite a nice little golden parachute.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 04:30 PM
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Well reality is, most guys are: liars, cheaters, emotionally unvailable, manipulative/abusive, only care about their needs (specially their sexual needs) and about their egos and are not willing to invest much in a relationship. Most guys think having a relationship is just having a woman they can steadily fuck and don't think they have to put an effort into it, because if it ends, it's not their fault, just didn't work and they just leave to have other women. Yikes!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 01:05 PM
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Well I did have a look at the FDS sidebar to see the advice for women to become high-value and some of it is fairly straightforward - no argument there. But the money stuff, how to be high-maintenance, queen nonsense and odd rules about when to have sex would put off any guy (IMO) who had options.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 04:20 AM
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A non-substansive reply? I can't really say I'm surprisd.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 04:12 AM
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holding standards that discourage LVMs I won't claim to be an expert but a lot of the tactics and advice I've seen thrown around seem designed to do the opposite. No man with any sense of self worth is going to put up with it. Thirsty LVMs on the other hand...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 03:37 AM
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It's not an either or situation you utter moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 12:41 AM
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There were multiple attacks over a long period of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 09:24 PM
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Its the same with marriage and divorce. The deck is now so stacked against men with custody, alimony, child support, etc. + no fault divorce and women initiating divorce 80% of the time, it shouldn't come as a surprise to women that men don't want to settle down and get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 06:35 PM
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If the info is relevant then add it to the post. If not then why did you mention it? Also nice deflection. You don't get the validation you're looking for so that means I have a problem? I suspect rollo was right on the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 02:12 PM
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What I got from this post: you call out rollo by name but with no context, no proof and no details on the exchange you denounce them 'slut shaming' you but then go on to talk about the many men who have hurt you, assaulted you and/or threatened to kill you. Anyone considering you as a partner and knowing this history would be crazy to pursue anything seriously. Red flags all over the place and a obvious tendancy to make poor decisions. you lack a fundamental understanding about what the red pill…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 11:37 AM
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I get that it's easy to STFU, but I can't just never talk. Is this just a matter of continually falling on my face until I learn the lesson? STFU doesn't mean to act like a non-verbal autist. It means you don't talk about stuff that you should be internalizing and expressing through your actions. The captain/first-mate dynamic will come about naturally as you improve yourself as a man (lift, sidebar, etc). In this particular situation I'd just drop the conversation and chalk it up to the weed. S…
/r/askMRP14/03/21 12:49 PM
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I mentioned something along the lines of the captain/first-mate dynamic and broke it down a little This isn't an agreement that you verbalize but is the natural result of your actions and biology. Your mistake was to not STFU.
/r/askMRP13/03/21 02:59 PM
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Beginner-to-intermediate lifter. Good technique but I've never really lifted to a good program with a specific goal in mind. I want to get stronger and lose fat. Current equipment is zilch other than space. Plan was to buy some dumbbells and find a decent starter program that would get me into better shape for when the weather is nicer and I get expand my gym into the garage with heavier weights, a squat rack, etc. Thanks for the recommendation. I'll have a read through.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/21 10:18 PM
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Find a QUALITY home workout program. Any recommendations? I'm looking to expand the home gym a little but space constraints probably means I'll have to stick to dumbbells only.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/21 09:42 PM
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The Russians in WWII would tend to disagree with you. How the fuck you you think that not allowing patriotic, brave women to risk their lives in the military is PPD? Some fat neckbeard virgin fuck whining about women being the weaker sex. Nice...
/r/PussyPassDenied14/05/17 02:13 AM
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What?? Plenty of people defend men accused of rape, particularly in the absence of evidence beyond he-man/she-said and rightly so! Last I checked our justice system was still based on the concept of assumed innocence until proven guilty.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/05/17 08:21 PM
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He has a special on Netflix if you haven't seen it. Road work.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/03/17 05:12 PM
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Some of those arguments are valid. Don't tell me that hiring managers won't assume that given a choice between a late 20s married female and similar aged married male that the female is more likely to leave to raise children. That assumption can certainly hold an individual ambitious woman back solely because of her gender. Its a very difficult problem to solve however as women as a group will continue to do as you say - marry up and value home life more than career. Its similar to if you are an…
/r/PussyPassDenied09/03/17 04:19 PM
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An overworked public defender who will pressure his/her clients to plea out.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/17 04:14 PM
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She thought she could threaten physical violence with impunity probably in part because of her gender. Mostly a criminal lack of impulse control though.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/02/17 03:36 PM
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Good 'ol Piers
/r/PussyPassDenied22/01/17 06:58 PM
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I very mild burn is now ppd? The sub has hit a new low.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/01/17 02:12 PM
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No one said that she was right to do so you moron. Only that her actions are understandable given the circumstances and don't warrant the same degree of censure as would have been the case with an adult.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/01/17 12:21 AM
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Where's the pussy pass? This is a very normal scenario that's very likely more often the man doing what the author did early in his career as the resentful primary breadwinner.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/12/16 12:41 AM
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Leader bikes all the way.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/10/16 12:13 PM
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You must not read the news.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/09/16 10:35 AM
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This is a very troubling trend.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/08/16 06:46 PM
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I agree. But if you saw someone get kicked in the street you probably wouldn't have much of a reaction as a bystander. Its not everyday you see someone get KO'ed.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/08/16 02:00 PM
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Well it was a knockout hit vs a little kick in the shin. Of course that's going to generate more of a reaction. Also the second waiter looked to be getting involved more because the guy was pushing the first waiter.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/08/16 11:09 AM
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Niggers voted for Black African American Candidate simply because of the color of his skin. Like they knew his credentials or the functions of government of the division of powers and checks & balances of a 3 branch democratic republic. There you go.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/07/16 02:50 AM
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And his were "haha you're a whore that likes black guys". What's your point? Some of her fat jokes were pretty good.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/07/16 07:42 PM
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And she held her own pretty good too. The guy definitely had better stage-presence but she had some good burns.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/07/16 05:47 PM
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She reminds me of the women in that Canadian twitter harassment case that ended recently. Basically they claimed that the guy arguing with them was harassment but when they did the same thing it was simply defending themselves.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/03/16 10:18 AM
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fewer still have earnestly asked whether my protected right to speak out as a US citizen requires that I must be perfect while doing so. Physically attacking someone is not free speech you dumb fuck.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/03/16 11:31 PM
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"I don't always choke out protestors, but when I do, I prefer feminists."
/r/PussyPassDenied29/01/16 02:28 PM
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Nah that's just a UK thing. They rarely hand out custodial sentences for first time, nonviolent offenders.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/12/15 12:25 AM
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You're probably right but that is a different issue altogether.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/10/15 02:43 PM
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It's not that black and white. She's arguing that it was a consensual relationship and the court is arguing that he's too disabled to give consent. Its a tricky moral area as the court is essentially upholding the concept that people with 'mental ages' below a certain level are legally denied any sort of sexual relationship. The obvious counter argument is that this denies them a fundamental aspect of human experience and its incredibly stupid to think a 30yr old man with the mental capacity of …
/r/PussyPassDenied23/10/15 12:51 PM
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Or earlier when Andy Kaufman was the world inter gender wrestling champion From 1979-1983, Kaufman wrestled over 400 women (his most publicized match was against Playboyplaymate Susan Smith in 1981). He retired undefeated.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/10/15 03:36 AM
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In that case they're acting as an impartial ref like in a boxing match. It's a good thing.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/09/15 04:09 PM
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She could just as easily be seen as admitting that the perception of culpability would be damaging. This doesn't really add much to the case against her.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/08/15 02:05 PM
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Yeah, well, you know...
/r/PussyPassDenied28/08/15 03:32 PM
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Again I explicitly stated that the fact that they work less IS supported by data. Are you retarded or something? Can you read? The issue I have with Milo whateverthefuck is that he goes FURTHER and makes sweeping generalizations about the underlying cause of why women work less hours to begin with. Completely unsupported assumptions based on his own gut feeling. I'm not sure why anybody gives a shit what this muppet-looking talk head dimwit has to say on the subject. None of the research he quot…
/r/PussyPassDenied09/08/15 03:46 PM
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Obtuse it is then.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/08/15 03:04 PM
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Are you being intentionally obtuse or agreeing with me? I explicitly claimed that the supposition that women feel less valued is not supported by data. Neither was his claim that women are less motivated in the workplace. It was a mistake for him to base his entire argument on the assumption that women work less hours because are less career motivated than men. It makes him look as big a fool as the woman he's arguing against.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/08/15 02:20 PM
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That is part of his argument and its valid.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/08/15 12:23 PM
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That's not what I'm saying at all. Feminist claim: women earn less for same job (not supported by data) Milo claim: women earn less because they work less (supported by data). Why? Because they have different values than men (not supported by data). If he wants to criticize feminists for making unsupported generalizations then he should do the same and stick to the facts. If he wants to make claims about motivations or values then he should have surveys or something that supports his argument. A…
/r/PussyPassDenied09/08/15 12:21 PM
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While he certainly had a better case for his position than the woman, he made very similar errors in his argument. He goes on and on about the root of the gender pay gap being different career priorities between men and women. However, the simple economist counter-point would be that if someone doesn't feel valued in the first place, they are less likely to work as hard. Where is the data showing the different career priorities between genders?
/r/PussyPassDenied09/08/15 02:53 AM
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Wrong sub OP. This is more /r/justiceporn material.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/08/15 01:11 PM
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QUIT RUBBING IT THEN!!
/r/PussyPassDenied08/03/15 09:57 PM
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Mating ritual. Re-watch the vid with volume. There's some good commentary by David Attenborough.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/03/15 09:55 PM
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What a load of histrionic nonsense. The legal test in this situation is not considering whether or not there is some remote possibility of a future threat. Jamisbike: Hey that guy over there gave me a funny look! He could be a terrorist packing a fucking dirty bomb!!
/r/PussyPassDenied29/12/14 03:33 PM
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In the this thread: boot lickers that are happy to see women abusing their sexual status put in their place but cops abusing their authority get the blue pass. Fuck you ignorant fools, sleepwalking into a police state.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/12/14 02:38 AM
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