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100% a joke and i thought it was funny. This sub is just max incel
/r/PussyPassDenied09/03/21 05:29 AM
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Been to that sub plenty of times. Toxic as fuck
/r/MensRights31/01/20 09:55 PM
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Why the fuck does any one want a virgin girl?
/r/MGTOW15/01/20 06:51 PM
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Yea that’s exactly why I asked. If they’re not relevant than go for it. But if it’s because he’s getting sad and jealous, then he has other issues he needs to be dealing with.
/r/seduction15/05/19 09:11 PM
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Where the fuck are the mods?
/r/seduction15/05/19 06:22 PM
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How does this kind of thing work in a really loud setting? Do you think some lines work better when it’s extremely loud vs quiet?
/r/seduction15/05/19 06:20 PM
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Black guy here. Not true
/r/seduction15/05/19 06:18 PM
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How did you get all those followers without any pictures?
/r/seduction15/05/19 06:12 PM
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If you feel shitty about other people having fun, the problem isn’t that you see other people having fun, the problem is that you allow other people’s online perception impact your own self worth. You should revisit your approach to social media and how it’s impacting your mental health. You should also not be getting upset seeing other have fun, and instead be having fun yourself. Why aren’t you posting things on Snapchat that would make her feel jealous? If you’re adding someone on social medi…
/r/seduction15/05/19 06:09 PM
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First you explain to me why you feel the need to delete someone or unmatch them?
/r/seduction15/05/19 06:04 PM
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Open and shut case then...
/r/seduction15/05/19 06:02 PM
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Always make him want more. Give him attention but don’t give him all of your attention. Flirt but don’t pursue.
/r/seduction15/05/19 06:01 PM
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The way I’ve always viewed it was that I don’t deserve a partner I can be proud of until I can be proud of myself. It’s a 2 sides goal where I work on myself because I know what type of person I want to be but at the same time I don’t believe I should be with someone who can sweep me off my feet until I can do the same to them. You’re definitely right though. I wouldn’t recommend anyone improving themselves just for the sake of someone else. Do it because you know it’s the right thing for yourse…
/r/seduction11/03/19 11:13 PM
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No problem. Don’t be too hard on yourself too. You’ve got what it takes. Just need to tap into it
/r/seduction11/03/19 08:15 PM
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Yes I know exactly what you are talking about and thats what I am trying to say. The reason you feel like you can't take off the armor is because: she could be my dream partner You are putting way too much pressure on her and yourself here. Take it easy. Most people do not propose for 5-8 years because they want to be 100% sure that the person they are seeing is meant for them. Take it easy and start looking for flaws. I know that sounds weird but the best way to relax around a girl is to think …
/r/seduction11/03/19 07:56 PM
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If I give you signs that she wants you to kiss you, then you will only look for those signs and not actually make a move. Instead, I will give you no advice. Just make it happen man. She went on 2 dates already and is willing to go on a 3rd. You are lucky that she is willing to go on a 3rd after you havent kissed her already. She is probably wondering wtf is taking so long. Get it out of the way in the beginning. Do not overthink this and do not make it a bigger deal than it is. Just an innocent…
/r/seduction11/03/19 07:51 PM
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He is right. Being pretty should not be enough for any man to bend over backwards for a woman.
/r/seduction11/03/19 07:49 PM
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Literally just tell her she is beautiful. If she looks at you like a puppy who just did something cute, then you have no chance.
/r/seduction11/03/19 07:47 PM
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Go for it, like the other guy said. If she tells you she is definitely a lesbian, tell her you still think shes cool and want to go out with her. Having a woman as your wing works really well. I would suggest getting close with her.
/r/seduction11/03/19 07:46 PM
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Staying relaxed in social settings. No one would ever guess that I am nervous by looking at me. But mentally I just overthink and over analyze. I have gotten better at stopping myself in the moment but it still happens constantly and by the time I stop, its usually too late.
/r/seduction11/03/19 07:45 PM
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Tell her "I want to take you on a date." See what happens
/r/seduction11/03/19 07:43 PM
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You should ask him
/r/seduction11/03/19 07:42 PM
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Get better with seduction in general and you wouldn't have this problem
/r/seduction11/03/19 07:41 PM
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You are right. You should do nothing and continue hugging for the rest of your lives! /s
/r/seduction11/03/19 07:38 PM
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The reason you cannot be yourself is the reasons you listed already. I(19) really admire and I want her to be "the one" (because she might be) To be honest, we are not so close yet Also I know that I might be the one for her But when I'm with a girl I'm highly attracted to, I get quiet and way too nice than normally I am It would be a huge loss. Just imagining it hurts my heart You are acting very foolish and all over the place. No offense but you are acting like a 19 year old would when he meet…
/r/seduction11/03/19 07:35 PM
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It's not worth changing yourself just to please someone else, and even less if you only want sex Its worth changing yourself to fit the partner you want to attract. The way I see it is this: I have certain criteria for what I want in a woman. If I am not excelling in that criteria beyond what I am expecting, then I am being dishonest with myself. Change yourself to fit your ideal partner. Not for them, but for you to attract them.
/r/seduction11/03/19 06:46 PM
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That won't scare him away if he likes you. If you say it with confidence you won't make him nervous. If you say it with no confidence he might panic and not know how to answer. You don't have to make it a big deal. You don't have to call it a date either. Just say "You know, from what i can tell you seem pretty cool. But I think we should get to know each other better. What are you doing this weekend?" Say it after he makes a joke or something. Who ever told you guys don't like it when you talk …
/r/seduction19/07/18 03:03 AM
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It takes about 5 minutes to approach a woman and ask for her number. You should be fine.
/r/seduction18/07/18 10:43 PM
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"I like you. Want to go on a date?" Seriously just get it out of the way. It can only go 2 ways. If he likes you he will say yes. If he does not like you he will say no. If he says yes then you're good. If he says no you're still good. Good luck.
/r/seduction18/07/18 10:37 PM
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Oneitis is when you put all of your focus and efforts into one girl. You put her on a pedestal and you're afraid to mess it up. Game is not about saying the right things to the right people. It's a state of mind that comes with having abundance and confidence. Without that state of mind, nothing being offered on this sub will work. If you're afraid of losing her then you've already lost. If you've been reading on here for months then you'll be just fine when it comes to going on a date. I'll ass…
/r/seduction10/07/18 09:51 PM
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My advice is to go out and try to date other girls while you wait for her to get back. You can't just be sitting around with your dick in your hand while she's in Australia. Even more I would suggest not typing up a lengthy post detailing your conversations and her personality and asking for advice on how to fuck/date her. You've got oneitis for her hard. That's only going to make it more difficult. The advice for every girl on here will be more or less the same. Doesn't matter how artsy she is …
/r/seduction10/07/18 06:48 PM
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She likes you....
/r/seduction10/07/18 06:32 PM
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Just do it. No advice other than that is needed. You'll be terrible at first and then you'll get better.
/r/seduction10/07/18 06:31 PM
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Oh don't get me wrong. The majority of PUAs literally give themselves those titles as a way to get rich quick. The fundamental principles of game are still around if you can find them. Shitty PUAs represent the current state of the pick up community but in no way represents the effectiveness of game as an ideology. RSD had a period of quality free content but that all went out the window when they ran out of ways to teach game so now all they took about is meditation, business tactics and drinki…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 07:34 AM
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What I'm (poorly) trying to say is that it's not all about canned and scripted material. It's more about the concepts underlying the material. The material and the lines are just tools to practice the game and help understanding it so it becomes second nature. I have rarely run across the "Follow my script for success" PUAs but that's probably because I've stayed away from them. The older PUAs did rely on scripts but they always explained their scripts and why they worked. The modern PUAs either…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 07:15 AM
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Ok but let's not get confused here. A PUA is not the same as someone who practices pick up or learns the game. I learned about a ton of redpilled ideologies through my research in pick up. It was only later that I discovered this subreddit but it was too late. I've gained nothing from this sub but additional motivation to continue improving my life. It's all confirmation bias. I believe the majority of lurkers on this sub are the same. They started in PU and came here to learn more.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 06:52 AM
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Ok but even Neil Straus said back in the day that pick up lines and canned openers were for beginners only. They were a tool to help one improve and should be abandoned quickly because they can stifle progress. Advanced pickup is strictly no lines. It's all about emotional spiking and frame management. It's about dealing with shit tests and using negs. Body language, story telling, cold approach, kino escalation and plenty more. Anyone following TRP who doesn't at least attempt to familiarize th…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 06:45 AM
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Came here to say all of this. Thank you. PUA discussions gave birth to the redpill ideologies. It was the PUAs that had sex with hundreds of women, many of whom were married or in relationships, that first began to see them differently.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 06:33 AM
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I'm not gonna read your wall of text. Move on and find a new girl. Learn game so this doesn't happen again.
/r/seduction06/07/18 06:16 AM
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Seen this post a million times. I'm scared to cold approach because of [insert imagined flaw or shortcoming here]. What do I do?! The answer is always the same. Your race is not the problem. Your confidence is. If getting low matches on tinder is enough to make you self conscious then you've got a big problem. If you automatically assume that every rejection or imagined rejection is because of that specific trait that you chose to highlight in yourself then you've got a problem. No one here can …
/r/seduction06/07/18 06:14 AM
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The solution to your insecurity? Well it depends on how deep it is. If you're horribly insecure then you might need therapy. Otherwise I'd just suggest reading a book like "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck" or something similar. It's all on you man. You've got to decide that your voice is not the problem here. It never has been and it never will be.
/r/seduction22/06/18 04:50 PM
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Your voice isn't the problem. Your insecurity is. I've said it 100 times on this sub. Post like this pop up all the time. "I'm funny, tall, charming, and a generally nice guy but I have such pointy elbows! What can I do to overcome this? Is this why I don't get laid? I'm so worried girls will make fun of me!" Insecurity is unattractive. More unattractive than any physical abnormality you can conceive of.
/r/seduction22/06/18 04:45 PM
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Friendzone territory. Ask her out instead.
/r/seduction22/06/18 04:42 PM
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Typically I'd say don't go see a movie because you can't escalate and you can't talk and you can't do anything while you're in the movie. As a first date it sucks. You're just sitting next to each other staring ahead in the dark waiting for it to be over so you can awkwardly discuss it 2 hours later. Go get ice cream and walk around the park or something cute like that. Girls love that shit and it gives you a chance to display your personality.
/r/seduction22/06/18 04:41 PM
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TIL that self improvement is considered selfish and therefore wrong. TIL it's also demeaning to be called beautiful by a stranger. As if anyone gives enough of a shit about his blog or project to be offended by it. I think it's a great experiment or game or whatever he's doing. It's interesting and insightful for a lot of readers here. On top of that this is like a year old and he's just reposting it for those of us(me) who haven't seen it. It's the kind of content we need more of on this sub so…
/r/seduction14/06/18 10:58 PM
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Are you saying he's getting rejected because he's not white and that's his fault for not being aware and adjusting his approach technique? Because that's a load of shit. If any woman is afraid of him because he's black then him being aware of that won't change that in the slightest.
/r/seduction14/06/18 10:53 PM
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Your friends should be helping you instead of making fun of you
/r/seduction04/06/18 08:13 PM
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Anytime my man. Good luck.
/r/seduction25/05/18 02:07 AM
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Can't borrow the parents car for the evening? Either way you should tell her to meet you somewhere that has a few places to go to. Like a town square or something. That way you're not asking her to coffee or ice cream but you can meet at X location and when she asks where you're going you just lead her there. Much more manly and romantic at the same time. Believe me she won't care where you take her and your reputation is what you make it. Anyone says "Oh you took her to get ice cream?!" You say…
/r/seduction25/05/18 01:59 AM
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Wall of text incoming: Dude your problem is that you're trying to fake all your interactions with people. You're trying to pretend to be someone you aren't. You've got to accept yourself my man. You can't go around and putting in 100% mental effort into trying to read everyone's mind and figure out what they want you to say. You've got to say what you want to say! Nothing more and nothing less. People can sense when you're being disingenuous and you are. You're making jokes, not because you thin…
/r/seduction25/05/18 01:50 AM
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If you can still count how many rejections you've gotten then you ain't even close kid. Most of us have been doing this for years and are probably on rejection 1000+ 18 girls weren't interested in you? If that's enough to hurt your self confidence then you've got a lot more to work on. No one can fix you but yourself. Practicing the approach does 2 things. It helps you get used to rejection and it allows you to practice whatever aspect of your game you are trying to improve. Don't just walk up a…
/r/seduction25/05/18 01:37 AM
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If she's interested in you then she's there to hangout with you and not to be entertained by bowling or whatever it is you kids do. Just ask her to hangout. If she asks what you want to do just say "Idk let's grab coffee or something." Get the coffee go on a walk and go get icecream. Idk it doesn't matter what you do as long as you're with her and you can isolate her to escalate. Ask her sooner rather than later. Tomorrow if you can. Edit: also who cares if your parents drive you? She ain't got …
/r/seduction25/05/18 01:30 AM
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Should set up a new date instead of texting all the time. You shouldn't be texting all day every day anyway.
/r/seduction23/05/18 09:07 PM
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Take a risk and maybe you'll get hurt but either you'll end up with a great girl or you'll learn some valuable lesson. Take action my friend.
/r/seduction23/05/18 08:05 PM
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Why haven't you set up another date yet?
/r/seduction23/05/18 08:00 PM
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No problem buddy. Go get em. No fear my friend.
/r/seduction17/05/18 10:46 PM
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I can't help you with your confidence. The most I can do on here is tell you that it's irrational and you have no reason to be thinking about something that isn't happening. The best I can say is to stop being so afraid of rejection. It's silly. No one is going to hurt you. When you're running game you get rejected a lot. If you're afraid of that then you shouldn't even bother. Rejection is the only way we know how to improve. Like I've been rejected 1000s of times and I'm not complaining about …
/r/seduction17/05/18 10:41 PM
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Ok so you know the problem. What is it you are asking?
/r/seduction17/05/18 10:33 PM
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At least you can grow stubble lol my cheeks grow around 20-30 hairs so outside of my goatee it looks like I glued them on myself 😂
/r/seduction17/05/18 10:11 PM
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Not bad dude. Hardest part is approaching. After that it's mostly about practice. We could give you lines but if you don't know how to deliver, it won't matter. Just keep putting yourself out there and get creative. Test some shit out just to see if it works. Don't get worried about the end result, just try to entertain yourself and she will be entertained.
/r/seduction17/05/18 10:05 PM
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I can't grow a full one either :( but I have a miniature goatee going on that makes me look a bit older. Took me literally 2 months of growing it before it actually looked decent. I suggest letting it all grow as long as it can get and shape it into something you can appreciate.
/r/seduction17/05/18 10:00 PM
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Set up a date and don't text her so damn much. Just set up the date.
/r/seduction17/05/18 09:59 PM
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Ever think of growing a beard? Also don't smoke before you go out. You'll never approach anyone if you're high. Just get out there and have fun practicing flirting. Don't stress about rejection and don't even expect anything. Enjoy yourself above everything else. Have fun my friend.
/r/seduction17/05/18 09:58 PM
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If you get rejected then you get rejected. What is it you want?
/r/seduction17/05/18 09:55 PM
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Buddy if you've got good game you'll have decades of pussy coming your way. That should be your one and only concern.
/r/seduction11/05/18 02:00 AM
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No homo but you're a pretty attractive. You look like a Dave Franco type with extra edge. Your looks are going to be your biggest advantage man. As long as you dress well you will be fine. Lucky bastard lol Cmon man there are guys on this sub dealing with early balding and being grossly overweight or terrible acne. You're white(yes that helps), clear skin, and you're young.
/r/seduction11/05/18 01:30 AM
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Exactly. I mean you've watched Owens videos so you get it. He's ugly as fuck. Balding fat ginger dude. High pitched voice and he acts like a child. Yet he still gets it.
/r/seduction11/05/18 12:17 AM
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The only way to get over it is to do it. There is no magic trick to it. No amount of videos will help you in that department. If you don't do it. You'll never get over it. The more you do it, the easier it gets. Trust me on that one. Let go of your expectations. Let go of your wants and needs. You have a new goal when approaching women: Self Improvement. Look at women as practice. Failure is expected and part of the process. Walk up, fuck up, and repeat. After each approach just consider what yo…
/r/seduction11/05/18 12:10 AM
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Some girls like baby faces. Some girls like older men. I knew this chick that said Chris Hemsworth was ugly as hell and Andy Samberg was her celebrity crush. Girls are all weird as hell and I know it's corny but there is someone out there for everyone. There is a ton of literature on seduction. All the information is out there and available to you. We live in a great time for pickup. Tons of infield videos and informative content available for free at a moments notice. You're in a great spot to …
/r/seduction11/05/18 12:03 AM
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Sounds good buddy. Make sure it's spontaneous but also make sure she doesn't have somewhere to be in the next 10 minutes.
/r/seduction10/05/18 11:23 PM
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I hope that's not sarcasm
/r/seduction10/05/18 11:15 PM
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Don't worry about getting laid right away. You just got out of a breakup. Just focus on the interaction and being flirty. Make your intentions clear without being crass. It's coffee and midday so it's way too casual to make a move. Some light kino is the most you'll be getting away with. Keep it exciting and change the venue halfway through the date. Spontaneity is key. Good luck and most importantly have fun.
/r/seduction10/05/18 11:11 PM
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Best way to get over approach anxiety is to approach. Straight up my man. Practice makes perfect. Just do it. If your freeze up 50 times in row and approach 51st time then that's progress. Only you can make it happen.
/r/seduction10/05/18 11:09 PM
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Don't respond if there is nothing to say. Set up a date with her as soon as possible and go from there. If you're just texting all the time she will lose interest if she hasn't already.
/r/seduction10/05/18 11:06 PM
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In short stop putting yourself down and take action. Self pity has never in the history of human life resulted in any progress. You're being downvoted because we see these low quality posts all the time. "Am I too awkward to get a gf?" "What to do if you're ugly and want to get laid?" "How can I become a PUA if I'm a piece of shit?" Or posts that focus on tiny aspects of their appearance or personality that just make no logical sense. "Can't grow a beard. Forever alone?" "Is my voice too high pi…
/r/seduction10/05/18 11:05 PM
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I don't want to be their friend Too bad? Beggars can't be choosers.
/r/seduction10/05/18 08:02 PM
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Any James Bond movie lol
/r/seduction10/05/18 08:00 PM
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Open your eyes and lift your head. Slightly raise your eyebrows too.
/r/seduction10/05/18 07:59 PM
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Go do some cold approach. Go to a club and flirt a bit. Ask them to dance. Invite a "friend" out for dinner and drink and escalate.
/r/seduction10/05/18 07:58 PM
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I have posted a similar response on here countless times. I'll say it to you again because your video really drove home the biggest problem you have. The biggest and only problem you have is that you are insecure about your "problems". You're so hung up on your shortcomings that you're not allowing yourself to go out there and find success. You've quit the game before you even started. By saying you can't do this and can't do that and you're bad at this and that is making things difficult, you'r…
/r/seduction10/05/18 07:40 PM
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Just like the other guy said. Can't focus on a girlfriend if you can't even get a date. Learn to walk before you run. Cold approach women on campus and get good at it.
/r/seduction10/05/18 07:27 PM
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I prefer to call them. If communication is absolutely necessary to maintain/build a relationship or to set up plans then calling is the way to go.
/r/seduction09/05/18 09:04 PM
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He does go through each step in the interaction from open up close. Lots of useful strategies for beginners but it's hard to implement it all at once. It's something that definitely needs to be practiced. If you read through the whole book in one night and try to implement it, you'll end up tripping over yourself.
/r/seduction05/05/18 05:30 PM
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No problem. Easy to digest yea totally. It's not going to correlate straight to better game. Not all of it is still relevant today but you can still learn a lot about the principles behind game. Things like push/pull and openers. A ton of what he taught became the foundation for modern game. The exact methods are a little dated though so just take it with a grain of salt.
/r/seduction05/05/18 05:24 PM
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Very true. The game is a cool intro book but MM is the real strategies.
/r/seduction05/05/18 05:12 PM
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I think I read the mystery method. I also listened to the game by Neil Strauss. Interesting stuff.
/r/seduction05/05/18 05:11 PM
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Honestly no haha I had to read the book. There may be videos about it but I wouldn't know. You can also listen to the audio book.
/r/seduction05/05/18 05:00 PM
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Mystery was great because everything he developed he did so from scratch. He had no one to teach him so it's all his own knowledge. His stuff works but it's very niche. There are underlying reasons as to why this stuff works. Natural game would help contextualize a lot of mysterys strategies.
/r/seduction05/05/18 04:39 PM
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No. They are not a game. They aren't objects. The game is socializing. The target is a human being with complex thoughts feelings and emotions. If you try to disconnect yourself from that, you will never find success. The game requires empathy, more than anything.
/r/seduction05/05/18 04:27 PM
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You are a bad person and should not be associated with this sub or the pick up community. Learn respect and grow up. i see these girls wearing revealing clothing and i hate it Seriously grow up.
/r/seduction05/05/18 04:06 PM
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Your opener probably sounds needy. Want to dance with me? Open up with a neg or something instead. Joke that she is a terrible dancer. The worst you have ever seen. Say it with a big smile on your face and with warm body language, so she knows its a joke. Then you can "show her how to dance" and boom you are dancing with each other with out having to ask. She might still reject you, but at least you put in a genuine effort instead of just asking.
/r/seduction05/05/18 04:01 PM
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Meaningless.
/r/seduction05/05/18 03:57 PM
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"I love you and never cheated on you. I trust you, you trust me. Simple as that." Say it just like you said right there but add in this it will be up to her to trust me or not from that day on Tell her this is really her problem more than anything. You can only do so much to make her feel comfortable in a relationship but you will not be bending over backwards to feed into her irrational thoughts.
/r/seduction04/05/18 06:45 PM
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Lmao sounds like you are in a relationship still man! A relationship without any of the benefits. (unless she is a FWB. If thats the case then you are still dating lol) If she annoys you, then you need to drop her. You owe her nothing!
/r/seduction04/05/18 06:42 PM
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If you can get some professional photos done, you will probably have a good chance of getting matches.
/r/seduction04/05/18 06:40 PM
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You have shit game. Your looks have hardly anything to do with it. Trust me. I have 6'5 and have been told I am very attractive by multiple men and women. You know how far that gets me? 5 minutes. It gets me 5 minutes with a girl before I have to step up my game to keep them around. Men and women are different. While you would sleep with a 10 just because she is a 10, most women cannot just look at a man and be interested. They need more than looks. They need to feel comfortable. They need to ex…
/r/seduction04/05/18 06:39 PM
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Take your time man. No need to rush to cut her out of your life. In a few week/months, you two will naturally drift apart anyway. When that happens you will find a new woman to obsess over and the whole process starts over again :)
/r/seduction04/05/18 06:30 PM
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After a while, all this "babe I love you, please trust me." Will not work. You might have to put your foot down and lay it all out there. She needs to understand the hard truth about relationships. If your SO is going to cheat, they are going to cheat. Calling them in the middle of the night, complaining about it, checking up on them when they are out with friends, and just talking about it nonstop, will never stop someone from cheating. She really should just keep it to herself, or if she can't…
/r/seduction04/05/18 06:28 PM
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Start going out. Every night. Go to some bars and clubs and start approaching. Do not drink and waste your money. Just get out there and practice. That is literally the best and only advice you need. If you are not going to practice, then it is not worth being on this sub. You have no responsibilities so take advantage of that free time and practice. Do your writing, meditating and start reading too. When the sun goes down, approach. Your goal should be 10 a night, every night, until you get lai…
/r/seduction04/05/18 06:22 PM
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Super underrated. Coconut oil is peak. Great for massages too.
/r/seduction04/05/18 06:15 PM
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Lots of girls report high levels of anxiety while on BC. Most of the time the solution is to switch it up or stop taking it all together. If she isn't taking any kind of hormones, then I guess she is just a naturally insecure person? To me that just screams immaturity. But maybe she was burned before. Either way, she won't really be able to fully get over it. She can work on it a bit but she will never be 100% trusting.
/r/seduction04/05/18 06:13 PM
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None and all of them. You cannot learn from one source. If you try to do that, you will only be trying to copy what you see in the videos and it will come off as unnatural and you will feel awkward, because it is not you. You need to watch as many videos as you can to understand the concepts of game. There are no tricks in game(unless you count magic tricks). Just because you see a video of a dude picking up a girl and spinning her around as his opener, does not mean you can do that too. What yo…
/r/seduction04/05/18 06:10 PM
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The ex thing is hard. I was in your exact position. I got tons of numbers and flaked on dozens of women week after week. It was really weird how when I was the most apathetic, I had the most success. Don't sweat it man. You will come around after you distance yourself from your ex a bit more. You are friends with her because right now she seems like a great person to be friends with. At least thats what youre telling yourself. The truth is, you do not need more friends. You do not need her as a …
/r/seduction04/05/18 06:07 PM
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Good pictures. Do not message past 1am. Do not say "Hey" Message something mildly creative. Tease here and there. Set up date and ask for number quickly (aka do not message her for a week straight before asking).
/r/seduction04/05/18 06:03 PM
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Just one question. Is she on birth control?
/r/seduction04/05/18 06:00 PM
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I’m still good friends with her Thats the problem. I've been there and that is going to cause a lot of issues. Another thing. Are you meeting these girls from Tinder? If so, then ditch it. Approach girls in person and you will find yourself way more interested. When you browse hundreds of pictures of girls and you keep seeing 9s and 10s but match with an 8, you get disappointed. It feels good to make them chase but its not fun beyond that. When you approach an 8 in public, it is totally differen…
/r/seduction04/05/18 05:52 PM
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You only want her to be exclusive because you can't be bothered to talk to other girls. Why would you want to be exclusive with someone who isn't over their ex? Go play the field and get over it.
/r/seduction04/05/18 05:41 PM
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Because resorting to insults when you know you're wrong is very manly. No I don't know what you mean beyond what you literally said. I just know that the whole debate surrounding Kanye was that we all need to think deeper about his words and not take them at face value. I assumed you'd demand the same.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 10:37 PM
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being a blue pill slave is the worst kind of slavery You're trolling right? A blue pill can live a relatively unfulfilling and average life of mediocrity. An actual slave in the height of slavery can attempt to have a family only to be sold away to a master that brutalizes and beats them daily. They don't live a life of mediocrity, they live a life of pain. Find a different analogy man. It's not the responsibility to read into the true meaning of your text when what you say is blatantly false.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 09:48 PM
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The message will get lost when your words spell out historical inaccuracies. If you(and by extension Kanye) want to avoid being misunderstood, perhaps a different analogy would be helpful. There were plenty of slave rebellions throughout history. Most were either killed or worked 10 times harder until they died. Any semblance of resistance was often met with brutal punishment. To imply that a beta male is similar to a slave is really pathetic. There is a ton of risk for a slave to make a change.…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 07:54 PM
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Having high social approval is definitely going to help you though. If you can be honest about it and it works, that's totally fine. If not, just don't bring it up unless they ask. If they do ask just say they must've left and you'll meet up with them later.
/r/seduction03/05/18 07:31 PM
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You make a lot of assumptions here and I am wondering why you are dong that? Why do you think you are overbearing? What is the problem with predictability after 2 months? Why are you worried about exclusivity? Why you do you feel like you two should be texting more? None of these things can be answered by anyone on here. It is all up to her. Honestly I suggest you bring it up to her. As long as you can bring it up in a non-needy way, it should be fine.
/r/seduction03/05/18 06:15 PM
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If you can go to a place with multiple venues it will help. I tried going out by myself once. It was this shitty bar with a decent amount of people but the vibe was all off. It was in a small town where everyone knew each other. No dancing and lots of sitting. No close by bars, so no one walking outside to the next place. I would suggest finding places where bar hopping is typical. If a girl asks why you're alone, just say you're meeting them at the next venue.
/r/seduction03/05/18 05:47 PM
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What should I wear Anything. or bring her? Nothing. Have fun buddy
/r/seduction03/05/18 05:42 PM
1

Nope. You're giving her attention for no reason. You and probably several other guys all complimenting this girl. News flash: girls don't care about compliments. Especially pretty ones. They get complimented all the time by everyone they've ever met. Having another guy call her pretty every other day for a month straight is nothing new. I'm sorry to be so blunt about this but you can't spend a whole month complimenting her and expect her to like you. Have you hung out with her at all? Gone on a …
/r/seduction01/05/18 09:56 PM
1

Alright yea I guess just say tell her the bodysuit is on you and you'll pay for the next night. But if you're going to say that you have to set up another date too. Ask her what her plans are this weekend. "I'll take care of that don't worry about it. Got any plans next weekend?"
/r/seduction29/04/18 05:12 AM
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I'm drunk so be warned. How about "I'm keeping the bodysuit. I think it looks good on me ;)" If you wanna be less stupid then "Lol I got you on the necklace but how about a drink instead of the $20"
/r/seduction29/04/18 03:48 AM
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Yea I tried not caring and it didn't work. Then I learned seduction and I'm way better off. Best advice I can give you is to stop dwelling on your failures. If you approach 100 women and only 1 says yes, do you know what that means? The 100th woman only said yes because of the experience and knowledge you gained from the past 99 failures. Without those failures you'd have no success.
/r/seduction28/04/18 04:47 AM
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I'm glad you like it. Just elaborate, the tease I had there is an example of a push/pull kind of flirting. Telling someone you're nervous is perfectly fine when you're starting out. As you progress it's better to avoid that. Right now you're correct that you want to focus on being comfortable with approaching. There are a ton of other things I could suggest too but I don't want your next approach to be trying to remember 1000 little nuanced techniques and mannerisms. For now just focus on having…
/r/seduction28/04/18 02:55 AM
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That's not bad. RSD videos are much longer. I used to listen to them when I was on my commute to work or when I was at the gym. https://youtu.be/IxHi0d5wBF0
/r/seduction28/04/18 02:31 AM
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Lol it's real social dynamics. A company that employs a bunch of pick up artists who get together to teach game. They have tons of free videos on tons of topics. They're a bit clickbaity at times which can be annoying but overall they're solid.
/r/seduction28/04/18 02:15 AM
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Haven't seen it myself. I used to watch RSD infield stuff but you gotta be careful with them. They tend to branch into really bullshit pseudoscience philosophy. They have taught solid game in the past but I think they're running out of material so they're stretching into meditation and telling everyone to drink kale juice lol. Other than that they have very solid infield breakdowns if you can find them.
/r/seduction28/04/18 02:10 AM
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It's fun to learn honestly. Well for me it is because I study human behavior already. Lots of info on the side bar and tons of books on the subject. Seriously pick up a book. Watch some YouTube videos. Some infield stuff.
/r/seduction28/04/18 02:06 AM
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Lmao solid rules not gonna lie. I think we have all been there. Try out OkCupid. Build yourself a solid profile and throw out some funny lines. Most of the basic principles of game work fairly well online.
/r/seduction28/04/18 01:56 AM
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Raise your standards how?
/r/seduction28/04/18 01:39 AM
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Yea parents can be a reeeeal mood killer. I live at home too. Luckily my girlfriend has her own apartment. If not then idk what I'd do.
/r/seduction28/04/18 01:34 AM
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Well a stranger is only a stranger until you get to know each other. Get out of what makes you comfortable or you will never live the life you want to live. No one has ever accomplished anything significant by staying comfortable. Do something uncomfortable until you become comfortable doing it.
/r/seduction28/04/18 01:22 AM
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You can approach any girl anywhere. The only thing is not to approach girls you work with and as a general rule, try to not approach a girl who is working (barista, cashier). Girls are everywhere man trust me.
/r/seduction28/04/18 01:13 AM
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The movie thing is a common mistake but seems like a no brainer when you really think about it. Honestly, I would suggest you stay away from making a move on a coworker. It could go really badly.
/r/seduction28/04/18 01:08 AM
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Do not see a movie with a girl you like on the first few dates. Sitting in a dark room ignoring each other is not what people do to get to know each other. Again: She might not be interested. Be careful.
/r/seduction28/04/18 01:05 AM
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That isnt flirty. That's just friendly. Tbh its really risky. You work together. If things do not go well and she sees you as more of a friend, things will get awkward. The only way to find out for sure if she likes you is basically to admit in one way or another, that you like her.
/r/seduction28/04/18 12:49 AM
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Yes it will increase attraction but just be careful she might get pissed/jealous. Either way it is good for you but you just have to be ready to stand your ground if confronted about it.
/r/seduction28/04/18 12:11 AM
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I mean that's good for sure. You've got to invite her out though. The longer you chat with her at work the more you're considered a friend. If you're not flirting you're not making anything happen.
/r/seduction27/04/18 11:50 PM
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That's the point. It's supposed to be uncomfortable. The more you do it the easier it gets. Just put yourself in that shitty situation and allow yourself to be awkward. Who cares if you tense up? Really. She will forget about you the moment you are out of her sight. You're just using her as a means to better yourself. If it helps you can walk up and tell her "Hey I'm trying to get better at talking to girls so I decided to approach you to practice." She will probably think it's funny and chat wi…
/r/seduction27/04/18 11:49 PM
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This was many years ago. I would read an article here and there. Watch a YouTube video occasionally and it was all really amateur beginner stuff back then. The basics of it was just boiling down to "go for it and stop giving such a shit." I took the attitude that I wasn't approaching girls to get laid, I was doing it to impose my social skills and if I happened to get laid in the process then great. And then I did. I don't practice game anymore but I've read a few books since then and learned a …
/r/seduction27/04/18 10:40 PM
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I agree. That guys frame was pretty weak. He feels awkward and he is showing it. It only serves to make her feel awkward too. That being said, good for them for recording their progress. Very interesting content.
/r/seduction27/04/18 10:34 PM
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I'm not saying she's following trends. I bet she genuinely enjoys those games. For you to find a girl with those interests is special. For her to find a guy with those interests is very common. That alone won't get her to like you. I just want to make sure you have appropriate expectations here. Having the same interests won't be enough for her to like you. My friend really likes that his girlfriend loves dark souls because it's his favorite game. She likes that he is a confident, caring and gen…
/r/seduction27/04/18 10:21 PM
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Just like the other guy said. Fight through it. Stop expecting to get sex and worrying about making mistakes. Go and fuck up and learn from those fuck ups. You'll find that no one on this sub has sympathy for social anxiety because we all had it at one point(mostly still do) but we fought through it. It sucked a lot. Months of approaching women while covered in sweat and embarrassing myself over and over and over and over. Stammering through lines I found on the internet and getting mad at mysel…
/r/seduction27/04/18 09:24 PM
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Game helps you get laid. Becoming FWB or entering a serious relationship is all on you. For FWB you have to be good in bed but ensure your intentions with her are limited from the beginning. At the end one of you will catch feelings and it will end terribly so I don't advise it. What you should do since you're on this sub is learn game. There is no quick fix for getting over an ex. Most say to go out and bang a bunch of girls to make yourself feel better. I suggest being satisfied with no one in…
/r/seduction27/04/18 09:21 PM
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She has the same interests as you and like 70% of other guys out there. She may seem special to you but you may not seem special to her. If you want to impress her it's got to be more than "I also like Pokémon!"
/r/seduction27/04/18 09:04 PM
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Online game is very difficult and 80% of it comes down to your profile. If she's a 10 on her profile you need to seem like a 10 on yours. It's the first thing she will look at and judge you on it more than anything you can say. If you've got a 10 profile then a simple "Hey how's it going ?" Would be enough. Social media game is a thing but it's very difficult.
/r/seduction27/04/18 09:01 PM
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You should really be starting by reading the side bar. Looks like you're not asking for advice but more how to change your life. The side bar has pretty much all the info you need. Come back here when you have specific questions.
/r/seduction27/04/18 08:57 PM
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Say "So are the women in my country. Got any plans this weekend?" She will probably reject you but go for it.
/r/seduction27/04/18 04:25 PM
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She texted me that she had fun and we should do it again Ok great Did I fuck up? Dude why are you asking us? She already answered your question for you. I hate seeing posts like this where a girl says "Hey you're cool" and they ask "She said I'm cool. Does that mean she thinks I'm cool?"
/r/seduction27/04/18 04:21 PM
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That's an interesting video series you two have there. I really like the idea of a woman running game and doing cold approaches. I think you guys touched on a lot of important topics there but I'd like to go further. I think it's important to display confidence in your approach. This isn't to say you walk up and stick your chest out and act like you're better than everyone else. But let go of your expectations from the approach and just enjoy yourself. Self amusement is a key complement of game.…
/r/seduction27/04/18 04:12 PM
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Sounds like a good ass night. How about a joke? send a pic with "Little too soon for you to be getting me gifts no? Idk if its my style."
/r/seduction27/04/18 03:58 PM
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Ohhh minute or two I'm sorry haha well either way it all starts with small talk. "Nice shoes. Got any plans this weekend? You're funny! We should hangout sometime :)"
/r/seduction27/04/18 01:33 AM
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two or three times a week That is a lot! You're seeing each other almost every 2-3 days.
/r/seduction27/04/18 01:22 AM
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If she's very busy then texting her might be problematic. After a few dates it wouldn't hurt to give her a call when you're on a commute or something to shoot the shit. I think calling a girl out of the blue is pretty ballsy since no one does it anymore. As long as you can talk then it should be fine.
/r/seduction27/04/18 01:20 AM
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I want an emotional relationship first not sex Too bad man. Game will get you laid pretty easily but a relationship depends on you and you alone. Relationships are massive commitments that two people make to one another. Game can only get you so far. As for your weight. The only problem is how you feel about yourself. Why do we tell guys to go to the gym on here? Is it so they look better? No. It's so they feel like they look better. For game to work you have to believe that a woman is attracted…
/r/seduction27/04/18 01:16 AM
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Why? You should assume attraction and take action. Not look out for fake flirting. If she's faking for a drink or for attention then it's because you've made yourself too available already. No need to look for fake flirting if your game is on point.
/r/seduction27/04/18 01:07 AM
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General rule of thumb in seduction is to assume attraction and take action.
/r/seduction27/04/18 01:05 AM
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Yea that's fair. It's definitely not a hard rule but this is more about what's more likely to be successful. If i approach 20 baristas at work vs those same girls out on the street, I'm sure I'd have more success outside of work. If anyone disagrees that's fine and I'd love to hear other opinions on this.
/r/seduction25/04/18 03:33 PM
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Yea it's just a guideline. We avoid saying the maybe this and maybe that because it usually results in noobs getting kicked out of coffee shops all over town lol If you know how to read IOIs you can always drop a joke here and there and gauge the reaction. The problem is that most of these customer service jobs are required to fake the IOIs for the sake of the job. She might start talking to you in a way that makes you think she's interested when she's really thinking "holy shit if I have to mak…
/r/seduction24/04/18 10:52 PM
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The only problem with that is a lot of girls on tinder or other online formats use social media to determine if a guy is a murderer or not (stupid but it's true). If you're approaching women in a bar or on the street oh should be just fine. If it's online, you'll have some problems.
/r/seduction24/04/18 06:29 PM
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Rules are no different for 10's because they do not view themselves as 10's. She is just like any other girl but the difference is, she is not off Tinder. Tinder has this underlying implication that often makes things go smoother. Without the implication, there is a lot of guessing. From what it sounds like, yall hit it off really well and she likes you. Go for it man. Goodluck.
/r/seduction24/04/18 06:12 PM
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It is all about how she views you. Is she attracted to you? If yes, then does she fear she might lose you? If also yes then she will try to tie you down. If she does not care about losing you or fear that you might leave her, then she has no reason to make you commit.
/r/seduction24/04/18 06:06 PM
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If your game is perfect, then it does not matter what you look like (mostly). But no one in the world has perfect game because no one can be perfect at all times in every interaction.
/r/seduction24/04/18 06:03 PM
1

Well you've got to avoid small talk. Sometime funny that shows your personality a bit. Cocky funny as they say. Go for the number after a few positive responses and set up the date over text. Preferably 3 days beforehand. Don't set up a date 2 weeks away or you're almost guaranteed a flake.
/r/seduction24/04/18 05:47 PM
1

Are you really ready to drive 5 hours to see some chick on tinder?
/r/seduction24/04/18 04:53 PM
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Social Media mostly matters when you have it and its really pathetic. If you do not have an instagram FB or whatever, then it won't matter. But if you add a girl on your insta and she sees pictures of you in the mirror of a dark bathroom, she will be very turned off.
/r/seduction24/04/18 04:51 PM
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Totally this. Do not even try to "play it cool" here. I guarantee she will admire the balls you had to approach her.
/r/seduction24/04/18 04:48 PM
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She is working and probably does not want to be bothered. If you see her on campus when she is not working, it would be a great time to approach and strike up a conversation.
/r/seduction24/04/18 04:45 PM
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You do not. You have to start the conversation on a high note and keep it elevated until you find a chance to invite her on a date. Small talk is boring and everyone hates it. Jokes and negs are the only way to keep someone engaged long enough to go for a date. Transitioning to heated conversation should only really happen in person.
/r/seduction24/04/18 04:44 PM
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Perfect haha Seriously the more you're willing to embarrass yourself, the more you'll see women actually respect that. That's the first step for them to let their guard down and see you're harmless. Read the side bar and check out a few books on the topic of seduction. Once you're comfortable with the approaches, start incorporating a few things here and there. Just to see what works and what doesn't. Seriously with your attitude, you'll make a lot of progress quickly.
/r/seduction20/04/18 06:38 PM
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Don't bother. I put way too much effort into helping him for him to tell me to fuck off. And if he's a troll then he probably still has mental issues. Mods need to take care of this. Just report it.
/r/seduction20/04/18 06:33 PM
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Nah nah you can just say "Very cool! I gotta get myself a pair(especially if they are heels)." And walk away man. Just to get you started. Doesn't matter what you say really. Go ahead and embarrass yourself. Allow yourself to fuck up a little bit. It's all for fun man. You should be enjoying yourself out there. Say something stupid that you think is funny. If she doesn't get it just walk away.
/r/seduction20/04/18 06:27 PM
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I made the mistake of talking to him for over an hour with like 20 messages back and forth. He didn't listen to a single thing I said and kept going back to "am I ugly?" I tried to help but he has mental issues I swear. Claims he hasn't left the house in 29 months because of how ugly he is but he's also a waiter and talking to girls on tinder. It's way too specific to be a troll I think.
/r/seduction20/04/18 06:24 PM
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Let this be a lesson to ALL guys on here about exactly what it is like when we act desperate to women. Seriously this is a fantastic post about what it's like when guys bend over backwards to try to hangout with a girl. If I were you, I'd go for it but set clear boundaries. Sounds like you're already doing just fine but keep her at a distance. A relationship with her would only result in more crazy (why don't you want to hangout with me?! Don't you like me?!)
/r/seduction20/04/18 06:22 PM
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Sounds like success to me! Part of game is building up a solid social circle. That social validation is key! Just remember to think about each interaction and focus on areas to make improvements. Keep it up!
/r/seduction20/04/18 06:15 PM
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I've already answered you. Fuck off. Can the mods ban this guy?
/r/seduction20/04/18 06:09 PM
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Good job my friend! Next up you can ask a follow up question. "Nice shoes! Where'd you get them?"
/r/seduction20/04/18 06:08 PM
2

I like your comparison to Trump there. As RSD would say, he was "state pumping" the American people. Evoking a bunch of various emotions back to back. Negative or positive, doesn't matter. Outrage, victory, shock, fear, humor, disgust, joy and more victory. All those emotions and more in every single speech he delivers. Something the American people could shut their brains off and just feel good about. It's like Hilary was the guy who went up to a hot girl and talked about how he's got a good jo…
/r/seduction20/04/18 05:41 PM
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Sometimes though.. one of those really really good nights where you're just on top of your game and executing every interaction perfectly. It feels like magic lol
/r/seduction20/04/18 05:34 PM
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Throw her a compliment and gauge her reaction. Deliver it in a neutral tone of voice in the same commanding and dominant way you've been doing it. "Nice watch." And maintain eye contact. From there you can start to comment on changes to her appearance and maybe build a rapport. "Different watch today?" This is a subtle way to show interest without being needy or holding up the line. From there it's on her. If she engages you more then it's on. If she remains flat, back off.
/r/seduction20/04/18 05:31 PM
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By entertaining yourself first and foremost. By letting go of expectations. By allowing yourself to not only have fun, but share that fun. When you speak, it should be something you want to share, not what you expect everyone will approve of.
/r/seduction20/04/18 05:23 PM
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Not gonna lie man I was really rooting for you in the first half of your summary and got pretty bummed out reading the rest. I felt it through my phone haha You did fantastic for the most part but shit tests are real. The complexity with the other guy is probably her fuck buddy who won't take her seriously. She wants a guy who will take her seriously and you didn't show her that. Like the other guy said you gotta flip it around on her. She says you only want one thing? You say "hey now I'm not t…
/r/seduction20/04/18 05:21 PM
1

From your comment history "I want the sweetest youngest jb just to give pleasure to all night" Get the fuck out.
/r/seduction20/04/18 05:06 PM
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Not bad but it seems a little obvious that you're making yourself seem busy when you're not. You basically confirmed that you're not busy and pretended you might be busy. Not a big deal but if you're going to give her that impression, id go all the way with it. Maybe instead say "I'll have to check my schedule and get back to you. First rounds on you though."
/r/seduction20/04/18 04:51 PM
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Yea the fact that she asked you when you're free and then followed up with an alternative suggestion is a good sign.
/r/seduction20/04/18 04:48 PM
1

Yea I've always found that weed makes me get way to into my head. Causes a lot of approach anxiety. If you can make an approach work while high, you can make it work any time.
/r/seduction20/04/18 04:47 PM
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If she's the one trying to make plans and make things work that's a great sign to me. Most girls would just say "Maybe another time!" Or "We will figure it out!" and leave it at that. Those are bad signs.
/r/seduction20/04/18 04:45 PM
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Yes to all of the above. Cold approach, clubs, libraries, classrooms, in a house with a mouse. You get the idea. Go for it all man. The world is your oyster and if it doesn't work out, go for the next one. You're surrounded by women. This is the perfect time for you to be practicing. You say it's not your style? Make it your style. Seriously you'd be surprised how much potential you have. Tons of guys on here would kill to be in your shoes. Freshman at college in a major city? Dude you are in th…
/r/seduction20/04/18 05:15 AM
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Ouch. Yea that's rough and awkward. If I was in that situation I'd probably end up doing the same. But as an outsider, it's a bit easier to make suggestions. Maybe you could have asked her for something to drink. Then you could follow her into the kitchen(away from the roommates) and suggested going to her room. "I know we aren't going to be watching tv all night, are we? How about a tour?" Remember she probably felt just as awkward as you did. It's possible she wants to make up for it. If you a…
/r/seduction20/04/18 05:06 AM
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As flirting should be :)
/r/seduction20/04/18 04:58 AM
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No problem. Remember: flirting is fun. If you're not having fun, you're not flirting. Lastly, tell her she has a beautiful smile while she is laughing. Preferably after you race her.
/r/seduction20/04/18 04:56 AM
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Not bad. Next time try to focus on the coldest one. Win her over first.
/r/seduction20/04/18 04:52 AM
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Few things. Awkward pauses aren't awkward. Be comfortable with silence. Confidence is not something you get more of. You just be it. You have to make the decision to be confident. how can I be confident if I'm so awkward? You tell yourself you're awkward then you're awkward. You should be asking how can you be awkward if you're so confident. Anyway just talk to the girl man. Get to know her by asking her questions about herself. Don't ask the usual boring shit. Ask something weird and out there.…
/r/seduction20/04/18 04:49 AM
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If you're good enough to get numbers from girls you don't like then you're good enough to go for girls you do. Newsflash: they are no different You don't need practice with girls you don't want anything from. You're studying for a test you're never going to take. It's a lot harder to talk to a girl you actually want something from. Practice that instead.
/r/seduction20/04/18 04:41 AM
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Plan B if you're really nervous but if her period is in a few days then she's not ovulating. You should be fine.
/r/seduction19/04/18 10:16 PM
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Read the side bar. Lots of useful information on there. Kino is basically physical escalation. Small touches progressing into bigger and more intimate touches (high five to shoulder pat, to a push, to a hug, to touching the leg, holding hands, kissing, fondling and so on). None of that is exact but that's just an example. The idea is to test each level of kino to determine if you can advance to the next. Does she hug you back? Touch her leg. Does she put her hand on yours when you do? Progress. …
/r/seduction19/04/18 10:14 PM
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Idk any resources but I'd suggest just talking that way to everyone you see everyday all the time. Do it as often as possible and eventually it'll be a habit.
/r/seduction19/04/18 10:09 PM
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From what you said, no it doesn't seem like she wants a nude pic. She didn't suggest you send one to her. She just said it's not too late for you to send one in general. If she wanted one I'm sure she'd be a lot more obvious. That being said you can still continue to flirt with her about it. Say like "oh it's not too late for you either!"
/r/seduction19/04/18 10:07 PM
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Kino kino kino kino. Everyone forgets the basics.
/r/seduction19/04/18 09:36 PM
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a girl might not like me I feel like a monster Dude come on...
/r/seduction19/04/18 07:31 PM
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No you're right. It is difficult to reconnect with someone and make them interested when in reality they have no reason to be interested. If you don't look like you have a bomb ass life on social media, then most likely she will lose interest right away. Even if you come up with the greatest line ever, she might be interested for a moment until she looks at your profile and sees just a basic ass dude doing basic ass shit. Flirting online is very difficult. She's literally just reading text. You'…
/r/seduction19/04/18 07:17 PM
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She didn't just lose interest. She never had it to begin with. All you did was say she's pretty and ask her boring questions. Why would she care to go out with you? Your strategy was to keep asking her more boring questions and then ask her on a date? Imagine you're a sales man and you're trying to sell someone a product. When you tell a girl she is pretty you're basically saying "Hello customer! The only reason I'm talking to you is because you have the money to buy my product!" And then changi…
/r/seduction19/04/18 06:47 PM
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The moves are always the same. Follow the basics. You're lucky you guys all go out together all the time. Push and pull. Talk to her, show interest, pull back and ignore her, isolate her, escalate with kino. Go from there. Good luck.
/r/seduction19/04/18 06:31 PM
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Go see a mental health professional. The problem is not your looks. I'm not replying anymore so take that advice and run with it.
/r/seduction19/04/18 12:20 AM
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Decent troll. Not sure what the point was but I applaud the effort.
/r/seduction19/04/18 12:16 AM
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Spoken like a true virgin for life
/r/seduction19/04/18 12:12 AM
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No dumb ass. Read the side bar
/r/seduction19/04/18 12:10 AM
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Learn to read
/r/seduction19/04/18 12:09 AM
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Yes
/r/seduction19/04/18 12:08 AM
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Do you speak English? Because I'm speaking English and Idk if you're understanding anything I'm saying.
/r/seduction19/04/18 12:07 AM
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I'm not answering that. You need to work on your confidence now. The fact that you are asking me that is a problem.
/r/seduction19/04/18 12:05 AM
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I already told you. They're all bad pictures and you need new ones. I left a comment on that already but I'll say it again. Who cares if they were laughing or not. Maybe they were and maybe they were not. Get over it. You're not confident and that is the problem. You will never get a girl if you can't be confident. Girls want a man who acts like a man. Not a guy who says sorry and tries to get other guys to rate his pics on Reddit. Not a guy who worries if others were laughing. Check out the sid…
/r/seduction19/04/18 12:01 AM
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Wait you're the same dude who posted about those girls laughing at you? Dude seriously stop with the pictures and work on your confidence. You'll never get a girl acting like that. Also learn to take a hint and pick up on social cues. I said to stop with the pictures and you keep asking me about them. It's not important. This is a seduction sub. Not a rate my pic sub.
/r/seduction18/04/18 11:57 PM
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Yes/no/who cares. Take your pick. Asking the wrong questions.
/r/seduction18/04/18 11:51 PM
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You know what? Forget the pictures. Delete tinder and work on you're confidence. Read the wiki and get it together.
/r/seduction18/04/18 11:47 PM
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Dude it doesn't matter. You look fine in all the pictures. Go meet the girl and make something happen. You're obsessing over these pictures when they're all shitty. You look fine. The pictures are bad. Get better pictures. Until then, worry about the girl.
/r/seduction18/04/18 11:43 PM
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Yes they look different. You're not a bad looking guy but that doesn't matter on tinder unless you have a good picture to show that off. Nothing blurry. Nothing in the bathroom.
/r/seduction18/04/18 11:39 PM
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Talk to him about it anyway. If he's a good friend it's not worth letting some chick get in the way of that. There are plenty of women out there. Finding friends is a lot harder than find women to fuck.
/r/seduction18/04/18 11:38 PM
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Bring it up. If you don't it's awkward. Something like "that night was hot but don't think I'm that easy."
/r/seduction18/04/18 11:36 PM
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No. Did you read my suggestions? These are all blurry and shitty. It looks like you're trying to show off your haircut. Why are you wearing a button up in the bathroom? It doesn't matter what you look like as much as it matters what the pictures tell about your life. What will the girl think when she looks at your pictures. What can she expect from a date from you? Nothing. She can see nothing about your life from that pic. Reread my suggestions and fix it.
/r/seduction18/04/18 11:34 PM
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"Does she flirt with everyone like that?" If he says no then just explain what you said here. No need to say she wants you when you don't know if she does or not. Some girls like to create drama so just be careful not to let her fuck with both of you like that.
/r/seduction18/04/18 11:29 PM
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Terrible pictures. Makes you look creepy and lonely (blurry and no friends). Don't both with tinder until you get better pictures. Some even go as far as to pay for professional pics. Find a photographer. Friend of a friend or on Craigslist. Pictures of you doing something fun or with friends. Pictures with color. Pictures with animals or kids. Definitely no mirror pictures and if it's blurry don't bother.
/r/seduction18/04/18 11:27 PM
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Talk to your friend about it.
/r/seduction18/04/18 11:23 PM
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Why did you ignore her? That's so awkward. Make a joke next time
/r/seduction18/04/18 09:39 PM
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I really would not call that love. That's lust more than anything. Being in love with a romantic partner, in my opinion, requires that you view them as someone you could spend the rest of you life with. Someone you trust and that you can feel vulnerable with. A stranger in a club is not someone you can trust. Just because you shared an intimate moment doesn't mean she would be a fitting partner.
/r/seduction16/04/18 09:51 PM
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Tinder has fallen off lately. I think it's full of bots and the real women on there is wildly flakey or just unattractive. I switched to okcupid and had more success. Actually met my current girlfriend on there. It's less for hookups and more for dating which is why it's way less flakey and people are more willing to get to know you before ditching.
/r/seduction16/04/18 05:50 PM
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Dude no. RSD is only half of the answer. RSD is great for helping depressed suicidal virgins become confident and strive for more. But you didn't learn game. You learned to be an asshole. Confidence without tact is a recipe for an asshole. The RSD guys told you "all you need is inner game." They lied to you. Everyone needs inner game so they can use outer game. But you need outer game or inner game is useless. Women are attracted to confidence but without class, you're annoying. I can tell from …
/r/seduction16/04/18 05:42 PM
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You cannot be in love with someone without getting to know them very intimately. There is a lot that goes into falling in love and it takes months of consistent communication and relationship building. I had a friend say to me once: "You cannot be in love with someone if you don't know what their farts smell like." The way I interpret this is that you need to see this person in their lowest, stinkiest, ugliest state and if you still feel that way, that's love. And no just because you can imagine…
/r/seduction16/04/18 05:21 PM
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Listening to The Game was more entertaining than informative but was still a great introduction into the seduction scene.
/r/seduction16/04/18 05:09 PM
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Are you in high school? If so, stop asking random girls to go out with you. Even more if you're not in high school. Stop asking random college girls who don't know you if they want to go out with you. You don't ask women for sex. That's the least sexy thing ever and completely counterintuitive. You need to read the Wiki on here. Learn about IOI's. When you start seeing those, you can make your first move. Your first move is not to start having sex. It's called kino escalation. Starting with smal…
/r/seduction16/04/18 05:04 PM
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I'm with you OP. I don't take everything on here as word of law. I'll probably get downvoted on here but I really don't agree with most redpill philosophy. I took what I needed from this sub in an effort to help me get laid while ignoring most of the toxic and vengeful stuff. A lot of men on here are only here because they want to treat women the way they were treated in the past. They become the very thing they hate and justify it by claiming that it's the only way to "win". Take what you need …
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 08:24 PM
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No problem. And seriously even the most beautiful people are insecure about some shit. Often the more beautiful they are, the more insecure they are!
/r/seduction29/03/18 07:46 PM
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Back when I was first starting approaches I remember I faced so many rejections I became so jaded to them. I just walked up to a woman and had no idea what to say. So I told her "hey I uhhh... well... ok I don't know what to say... pause yea I got nothing" That wasn't even a line. I genuinely had no idea what to say or do (I was very new to this). She ended up actually talking to me for a bit and asking me questions. Maybe she felt bad for me or maybe she liked me. It was too long ago for me to …
/r/seduction29/03/18 07:31 PM
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You need to start taking note of your self esteem issues. Saying things like "IDK what is wrong with me" is just an example of low self esteem. You already know what is wrong. You're lacking confidence. That's not to say that something is wrong with you as a person. Something is just wrong in how you view yourself as a person. Your self esteem issues are just feeding into your self esteem issues. "I lack confidence therefore something is wrong with me" instead of "I lack self confidence and I wi…
/r/seduction29/03/18 07:25 PM
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