billieshakes11 Archive

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6	For all this talk of “the Wall”, I think in big cities (certainly London in my experience), men need to be alive to the fact that there are a lot of women out there who are totally fine with remaining single well into their thirties and potentially forever This is one of the most underrated comments I have ever seen on this sub. I say this ALL the time. Valuable women aren't "comfortable being single." It's that relationships—getting a man to commit and invest in them—are just a means to getting status and attention over other women. Relationships are how women compete intrasexually. And if a woman can outcompete other women socially—being much hotter, more educated and popular, more successful, or the biggest one, getting more attention on social…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 03:56 AM
2	What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole? Insane they even did it lol. I think that the only thing that can save us is more technology, actually. Maybe the meta verse/AR? But idk tbh. What do you think?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 05:45 AM
9	What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole? This is ABSOLUTELY correct. It's actually gotten to the point where the commodification of tribes and community is a major selling point for brands and businesses. I spend a lot of free time studying startups and branding and many brands and businesses are scaling their business on the tribalism and community dimension very hard. I actually think because that's the major pain in society, it's a near infinite cash cow if you do it right. It's why Donald Trump can do everything he's done and get t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 07:55 PM
3	Red pill guides men towards transactional relationships with women. Reciprocal attraction requires a different approach. More than that, it will also attract women with repulsive mindsets. At least to me, personally. The idea of partnering with a woman who is TRULY and GENUINELY is SO attracted to money and status that she can completely change how she feels about you physically or emotionally (based on personality and mutual chemistry) is very repulsive to me. Women like that really gross me out. And I'm not one to say that often. The biggest benefit of the red pill is gender-based awareness. Which will free you …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/22 10:33 PM
5	The only "80/20 rule" on dating apps is that 80/20 is literally the male-to-female user ratio on them Wtf does this even mean? lol. There are women right now literally begging men to text them back. I ghosted a girl twice before, TWICE, and she still took me back. We need to stop with this idea that women require generosity and altruism when choosing sexual partners. They choose based on men they value. It's that simple. Which is their right. But no need to make it more than what it is. Hate when y'all say this shit. lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/22 08:51 PM
1	Women's standards are giving men body dysmorphia I disagree. What's causing body dysmorphia isn't women's standards, it's cultural secrecy around women's sexual selection. If you are familiar with men who have sex often, you will see there is a big variation in how those guys look. Many of them aren't in great shape, they're just not overweight. The issue is that absent PROOF (meaning men who actually get laid discussing their experiences and sharing best practices) that you don't have to be a TikTok chad to get laid, men will assume the men w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/22 08:38 PM
1	ONLINE DATING TRENDS: It turns out that Bumble, the app marketed as 'female-friendly' where only women can message first, has a user base of over 80% men in the UK. In the US, where the app is used by far the most, women are less than 1 in 3 users What's crazy to me is women systemically and collectively deliberately lying about dating. That is so insane to me. What is up with that? I honestly don't get it. I need to dig into this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/22 09:12 PM
2	ONLINE DATING TRENDS: It turns out that Bumble, the app marketed as 'female-friendly' where only women can message first, has a user base of over 80% men in the UK. In the US, where the app is used by far the most, women are less than 1 in 3 users You're definitely right. I grew up in a predominately white city but a predominately black neighborhood so I got to see both sides very intimately. I lacked a lot of the assertiveness other black men had growing up and noticed a big difference as I developed it as I got older. Black men are just allowed to do different things culturally, which makes them behave differently. And attraction is based on behavior. If enough black men interact with women of different races SOMETHING will happen. Whit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/22 08:47 PM
1	ONLINE DATING TRENDS: It turns out that Bumble, the app marketed as 'female-friendly' where only women can message first, has a user base of over 80% men in the UK. In the US, where the app is used by far the most, women are less than 1 in 3 users 80%? No fucking way lol. This has GOT to be a culturally caused phenomenon. The vast majority of sexual assaults are committed by people someone the person knows (which gets rid of that as a likely cause of the low ratio) and sex is DESIGNED to feel good. That't why dildos still exist. If just having a penis inside of you didn't feel good as a woman then dildos would be obsolete in favor of vibrators. This has got to be caused by women being taught to dislike men and therefore being quicker to f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/22 08:42 PM
1	What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls? It's because as primates, regardless of what feminists say or what women tell themselves, the male dominance hierarchy is the primary hierarchy. This means that the male dominance hierarchy is the true source of status and direction, whether or not we consciously know it. This means women just CAN'T have their own hierarchy based on their own things most of the time. It HAS to be in relation to men in some way. This likely manifests itself in women feeling the unconscious need to infiltrate ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/22 07:48 PM
2	Apparently, women were seen as the hornier sex for much of History Women were perceived as the hornier sex probably because patriarchy made them lower status by virtue of being women, which in turn made them perceive men to be of higher status, which makes them more likely to be sexually attracted to more men around them. Or the man they are the with. Women being sexually attracted to men of higher status is an ironclad principle of female sexual behavior, and while I don't encourage the implementation of patriarchy as a means to employ it, I don't doubt it end…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/22 07:39 PM
3	Women are attracted to forms of power. Kindness is an afterthought I completely agree with you. However, I would add one distinction here when it comes to female psychology—which is sexual attraction vs. sexual selection. One of the main issues when it comes to any sort of discussion and analyzation of women's sexual behavior is how risk-averse and political women are (political in the literal sense, not just in the government sense.) Men are not as risk-averse as women and therefore have a smaller buffer between their true desires and their behavior. Men are a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/22 09:04 PM
1	Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman. This is not a fair question. Women have superior social skills and social acuity. It is common sense that the average woman has superior social cues than men. A better comparison would be how the men with the best social skills would pick men. Or rather, we could also look at how the men with the best social skills (on par enough with women to get them laid consistently) choose partners. And those men report FAR fewer instances of ending up with a toxic partner. They still do for sure, but much …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 08:14 PM
14	Every time I message or DM a girl I never met in person she eventually loses interest and starts leaving me on read/being dry Right! I was like 3 months? Wtf is this dude doing lol. You gotta pull the trigger bro!	/r/seduction	18/09/22 04:20 AM
2	“Women make their own money now” Wow, this is a very thought-provoking post. Even as someone who has thought about this stuff a lot. One correction I would add is that I think that it has less to do with the fact that women don't need men for money and more about the fact of what women actually want men for. Women want men for STATUS. What is status? Status is priority of access to scarce and valuable resources. Put simply, status is your place in the line. That's why celebrities can skip the line in the club. That's why the CE…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/22 10:36 PM
12	What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women? By addressing what creates your fear of rejection. Neediness is just fear of rejection. Yes you can create it through being in abundance. But an even easier way is to address your feelings of scarcity. If you can just alleviate the fear of scarcity you’ll develop a good enough baseline to build on. And to be honest, even when you DO have an abundant life you can still come off needy at times. I’ve found that neediness can never be solved externally. It’s always an internal thing that you’ll have…	/r/seduction	15/09/22 06:56 PM
1	Does day game/cold approaching work well because women aren't approached at all anymore outside of bars and apps? I wouldn’t do this. I would just approach every girl possible and look for patterns and archetypes of women who naturally like you. The point of cold approach is to leverage information. When you cold approach enough, you learn things about women and yourself that you can leverage. The information is the most valuable aspect. Because once you have internalized the info, you don’t always have to cold approach. You can know which women to target in any environment situation and what to do. So star…	/r/seduction	12/09/22 10:26 PM
6	What are some books that can help me with holding a conversation with any stranger Models is a classic. Mark is the shit. Love his stuff. He’s got a few things I disagree with but overall he’s solid.	/r/seduction	11/09/22 01:15 AM
1	Bluepillers, you have a friend, he is 21, and he wants to get laid. He wants to have lots of sex with different and hot women. What advice do you give him? One of the most seldom given but simple pieces of dating advice is very simple—put yourself through situations of conflict. Especially with other men. Anything that involves you competing with other men in a zero-sum game (sports, martial arts, dominating social situations, fighting) has the opportunity to raise your internal sense of dominance. This is why athletes have that natural swagger women like. They are involved in very real and blatant dominance competitions with other men EVERY DAY. T…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/22 09:21 PM
1	Me: "Can I see you again?" Her: "You can come to my volleyball game" Exactly. Yes women go off looks but if you’re not chad level looks you won’t get chad level initial responses. No need to be but hurt about it. Just do your thing otherwise.	/r/seduction	09/09/22 09:06 PM
3	Me: "Can I see you again?" Her: "You can come to my volleyball game" You should’ve just asked for her info. You were too passive. If it’s not clear that you’re into her, she coild actually just be playing it safe. You need to be more assertive. Don’t go to the volleyball game, just wait until your see her again, and be more flirty and convey more leadership qualities. Then ask for her info. Keep it simple. Y’all overcomplicate this. Lol	/r/seduction	09/09/22 09:05 PM
3	Tinder Outcome Related Data Puts the 'Chad Harems' Notion Into Question I think it also comes down to what both sexes default to when presented with a certain choice architecture. I think that because most women will likely have a bad experience with casual sex (either through being ghosted/played lied to/or just not orgasming) they are not presented with much incentive to ACTUALLY use tinder for sex. And so when you combine that with the insanely skewed gender ratio, they end up only matching with the highest-status guys to "get something" out of the experience. I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 08:52 PM
1	Would you wait to have sex until a relationship is formed? How? He's just having sex with the other women too. What exactly does she lose? It's one thing if she's not having sex because of personal values. Like she doesn't believe in casual sex. But he's saying that whenever he asks she just doesn't say why. Sounds like she's just holding out. Which is fine. she can do what she wants. I just don't know why he's sticking around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/22 03:35 PM
1	Would you wait to have sex until a relationship is formed? Exactly bro. When are they going to understand that sex matters? SEX. Yes, other things like companionship matter but who's to say the women we're dating are even enjoyable to be with? The same way that women won't know if a man will be an enjoyable sexual partner, men don't know if women will be an enjoyable romantic partner. Women act like just because they want to be with us that we will enjoy it. Sounds like OP needs to break up with this girl. No use in dating someone with different sexual …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/22 03:33 PM
0	Would you wait to have sex until a relationship is formed? What do you mean bang maid? There are women in the world right now fucking guys they just met. Happily. You know how women have this underlying feeling that they don't really want sex that much because they're not sure they'll enjoy it? That's how we as men feel about relationships. Sexually committing to one woman is costly to us and is a sacrifice. Weird how people respect women's sacrifices but not men's.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/22 03:29 PM