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| 7 | Reddit, a girl in one of my classes has a boyfriend but is banging some other dude. Should I tell him?Yes. Tell her you know what she's doing and that she has 24 hours to tell him or else you will tell him. Then, follow through and end the bullshit before it goes any further. Sunshine is the best disinfectant. | /r/MensRights | 04/05/11 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Quotas and women-only shortlists aren't popular, but they workCompulsory, sex-based quotas and affirmative action policies in employment assume that: There exists endemic discrimination, even in the absence of indicators and evidence of such discrimination within a particular organization or firm; Differences in individual educational opportunities, opportunities for skill-building, and cultural status are wholly and universally inseparable from sex. These assumptions are utterly insulting to the individual and can serve only to demoralize workforces and p… | /r/MensRights | 03/05/11 06:12 PM |
| 3 | Today on Dr. Phil: Vows of Violence?Thank you for sharing that. I was married for four years to a woman who beat me very regularly until I finally had the courage (also, a dislocated shoulder and 3 broken ribs) to call the police, who did an amazingly good job at bringing justice to the situation. I never, ever threatened her with violence or touched her aggressively in any way. But I am absolutely sure that the only thing that keeps her going now is the perverted reasoning that Dr. Phil is spewing in that show. It's absolutely in… | /r/MensRights | 19/04/11 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Another man falsely accused of rape even with three witnesses. Guess wrong place wrong time.If he's been exonerated, why is the news still showing his mugshot? It's a bit of a contradiction. The texts says he's innocent and the picture says he's guilty. at least they followed up on the story after the original piece, which is usually where the media stops. But, you can't unring a bell. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/11 08:22 PM |
| 3 | Why do you sympathise more with a potential rapist than a rape victim? Is it because you are afraid that you might rape someone one day?[citation needed] | /r/MensRights | 16/04/11 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Do MRAs believe gender roles are synthetic and social like feminists or that there are inherent differences between men and women?There exist clear and measurable genetic, chemical, and physiological differences between males and females that generally preclude (for now) the elimination of sex-based social functions or the denial of sex-based unique experiences. Science and technology may mitigate or eliminate many of these differences over time, but for now there is a reality that requires acknowledgment. Second, a sociocultural construct are a technology(a la Jacques Ellul). It is simply a "way of doing" that serves a pa… | /r/MensRights | 16/04/11 01:15 PM |
| 16 | Has anyone been falsely accused of domestic violence, or called the police on a woman who was violent to you?My assumption is that the State Police have relatively (for police) high standards in terms of education and training. I know that my state requires at least a 4-year degree and multiple years of service before accepting new troopers. I worked with local cops for a couple years, and a lot of them were hired right out of high school (or GED) and had no real skills or abilities. I think the standards for local police are relatively low and it is fairly easy for bad (criminal) local cops to move ar… | /r/MensRights | 07/04/11 07:17 PM |
| 38 | Has anyone been falsely accused of domestic violence, or called the police on a woman who was violent to you?I was married for just over four years. I was slapped, choked, and punched dozens of times, but I never did anything about it until the last time. I knew I needed to go to the hospital so I called 9-1-1. When the State Police and the ambulance showed up (both got there at the same time), my wife in such disbelief that I had actually called the cops that she just got really quiet and didn't say anything. The cops and the EMTs took one look at my injuries (struck 30-40 times with the steel rod end… | /r/MensRights | 07/04/11 06:40 PM |
| 13 | What made you aware of the lack of Mens rights.After I got beat up and put in the hospital from a beating by my now-ex-wife (3 broken ribs, dislocated shoulder, concussion), I realized how few resources there are for men and how biased the domestic violence justice, advocacy and victims' programs are: I was told by the ambulance people, the ER nurses, and my friends/family (later on) how lucky I was that it wasn't me who got arrested (because "when the cops come out, the husband is always the one who gets arrested"), even though I had never,… | /r/MensRights | 06/04/11 01:58 AM |
| 2 | One of my teachers just got fired after a complaint about inappropriate contact with a student. This really bothers me.You're absolutely right. I'm trained in public administration, so labor law is usually the first thing I think about. No one today would think about letting a man (non-relative) babysit or be a nanny. I think I would have made a kick-ass kindergarten teacher, but there's just no way a school would let that happen. I think private schools will always find a way to just-barely-legally-bigot their way into getting what they want. But education is a public good, and it should remain a place free fro… | /r/MensRights | 02/04/11 09:22 PM |
| 5 | One of my teachers just got fired after a complaint about inappropriate contact with a student. This really bothers me.Is it a private or public school? Most public school teachers have a right to due process (hearing, appeal, etc.) before being terminated or disciplined. Private school teachers usually do not, and school administrators will get rid of anyone who might create any suspicion of impropriety among the people who pay them (mostly parents). | /r/MensRights | 02/04/11 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Girls léarn éarly that lying about rapé can pay off? 12 yr-old in Délawaré got caught aftér a hunt for hér imaginary attackér backfiréd.The article says the police were investigating it as an "attempted sexual assault," though? | /r/MensRights | 02/04/11 11:23 AM |
| 2 | Girls léarn éarly that lying about rapé can pay off? 12 yr-old in Délawaré got caught aftér a hunt for hér imaginary attackér backfiréd.I totally gét that kids léarn to lié on théir own, but this girl had no réason to lévél a rapé accusation at an imaginary malé prédator. Shé was pisséd off about hér family moving hér to a strangé placé, so shé wént out of hér way to call thé cops, téll thém a lié about béing attackéd by a man who wantéd to rapé hér, thén kéép that lié up for four days. Whéré doés thé inspiration for that fictional narrativé comé from? | /r/MensRights | 02/04/11 01:38 AM |
| 1 | **UPDATE** Caught my gf going through personals...Update to yesterdays thread.LIKE A BOSS | /r/MensRights | 28/03/11 02:40 PM |
| 13 | Female Spits Ice at Punk Rocker; Gets PunchedI do and I will. I was a victim of domestic violence (my ex-wife broke 3 ribs and dislocated my shoulder with a steel rod). No physical violence like this is justified, whether the assailant is male or female, unless it is in defense of your life or limb. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/11 02:11 AM |
| 4 | Female Spits Ice at Punk Rocker; Gets PunchedSorry, but you don't hit other people like that. Man or woman, you don't respond to being spit on by physically assaulting the person who did it. The guy is an asshole for hitting another person in anger. Downvote if you want, but no one was justified there. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/11 01:56 AM |
| 3 | Caught my gf going through my phone, facebook messages and email. What do I do?The fact that she went through your phone is a boundary issue and a dealbreaker. If the issue were just this, it's a simple fix: If you believe it is serious enough to warrant a break-up, then do it now and don't abide her apartment-squatting. Give her a firm time limit (1-24 hours, depending on how much stuff she has to move out) and communicate clearly the consequences of breaking that limit (cops). The fact that her mom discussed the issue of your relationship with you and defended her daught… | /r/MensRights | 26/03/11 07:54 PM |
| 67 | Fucking disgusting. [NSFW] [Extremely graphic and disturbing]Genital mutilation is genital mutilation. Fuck tradition. Fuck religion. Fuck your "it looks weird" cultural hangups. Fuck your "hey it might prevent AIDS" bullshit rationalization. It's a fucking crime against a child. STOP IT. | /r/MensRights | 23/03/11 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Philadelphia sanctions vigilante justice against presumptively innocent men accused of rapePresumed GUILTY. | /r/MensRights | 23/03/11 01:55 AM |
| 55 | Presumed Guilty: Philadelphia man, falsely accused of raping an 11 yr. old girl, severely beaten with bats and lumber. Police gave his photo to the public and advise use of force on him.Philadelphia Mayor Michael Nutter went so far as to characterize the second assault as "a further demonstration that Philadelphians care passionately about the city, about our quality of life, and certainly about our children" | /r/MensRights | 22/03/11 01:06 PM |
| 4 | More than 40% of domestic violence victims are male.According to the article, women's shelters outnumber men's shelters 350 to 1 in the UK, meaning that female victims have almost 300 times as much access to resources and help. I'm in the US and I would guess that the numbers are probably similar, if not worse for men. It took me 3 years, 3 broken ribs, a broken hand, and a dislocated shoulder to call the cops on my wife and leave her. When I did, I was refused a forensic nurse at the ER, turned away from every victim's resource agency because of… | /r/MensRights | 19/03/11 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Rouse allowed students to graduate short of required credits, gave credits to students who hadn't earned them and taught classes without a teaching license. Judge orders her reinstated. New principal, Matt Kingsbury, will likely be fired to give the criminal her job back.The Muscatine Journal reports a judge ruled Friday there was no evidence to support the firing. Firing someone from a public job is difficult. Public employees enjoy a property right to their job, so the employer must follow strict guidelines in serving out discipline to problem employees. Rule 1 - The public employer must have a written policy regarding the discipline process, which usually must include a hearing (in the case of appointed officials like principals, usually a public hearing) and… | /r/MensRights | 13/03/11 08:27 PM |
| 2 | INTERNET ANONYMITY AT RISK: An Indiana judge has ruled that news outlets can be ordered to reveal identifying information about anonymous commenters who post on online forums.Relevant Know how and when to use proxies, and this will be less of an issue, especially on commercial sites. | /r/MensRights | 03/03/11 11:49 PM |
| -2 | Generalizations.When you don't pay for a good or service, it's stealing. When you don't pay for sex from a prostitute, it's rape. The concepts are not mutually-exclusive, but they're also not collectively exhaustive either. | /r/MensRights | 03/03/11 02:09 AM |
| 3 | So, Hanna Rosin, of "The End of Men" fame, is boasting about circing her sons and how their penii now has the nice "familiar heart shape."So, even feminists can have double-standards. Classy. | /r/MensRights | 02/03/11 04:34 PM |
| 20 | College Under Fire For Letting Shortstop Play After Rape AccusationUntil a jury of his peers says that the weight of the evidence proves beyond any reasonable doubt that he is guilty of the accusations, FUCK OFF with your outrage. In 2009, my (now ex-) wife beat me senseless with a steel rod, breaking 3 ribs, partially dislocating my shoulder, and giving me a a concussion. I called the cops and had to convince them that I didn't hit her at all. Only after that did they call an ambulance for me and start thinking about charging her with a crime. When they finall… | /r/MensRights | 21/02/11 11:21 PM |
| 10 | University kills computer science major but keeps womens studies.Well I think Bisexual Asian Studies should have its own building. The question is: who goes? The math department or the hockey team? I think hockey. Think about it. /PCU | /r/MensRights | 20/02/11 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Why are charges of "soliciting a minor" valid when the "minor" is an undercover cop? Isn't this a type of "thought crime"?Attempted murder has a real victim, not a cop posing as someone who appears "murderable." | /r/MensRights | 20/02/11 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Why are charges of "soliciting a minor" valid when the "minor" is an undercover cop? Isn't this a type of "thought crime"?if it wasn't a cop, the crime would have happened. But how can you know that? Until an actual crime occurs, or the attempt at an actual crime occurs (i.e., actually soliciting a minor), where is the actual crime. Presumed future crime is not evidence of an actual crime. But, I'm no expert. I just want a little more objective criticism of these tactics. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/11 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Why are charges of "soliciting a minor" valid when the "minor" is an undercover cop? Isn't this a type of "thought crime"?But do defense attorneys even bring up the type of arguments I suggest? I'm clueless on the legal precedents surrounding this issue. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/11 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Why are charges of "soliciting a minor" valid when the "minor" is an undercover cop? Isn't this a type of "thought crime"?I see your point. I guess my issue is that, even in the cases of murder-for-hire, the case against the suspect is wholly dpendent upon the assumption that the interaction between the suspect and the fake service-provider would have gone the exact same way, assuming that the suspect were able to find a legitimate criminal (or minor, in the cases I'm talking about) to respond to their solicitation. That seems a huge stretch to me. Maybe not. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/11 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Woman, 28, charged with murdering 77-year-old wealthy boyfriend.Kids these days. They just have no patience. | /r/MensRights | 16/02/11 10:38 PM |
| 0 | 24-year-old woman videotaped sex acts with a one-year-old boyYou're right. The exception doesn't prove the rule and sensationalism is neither fair nor objective. That said, if myths are born of sensationalism and logical fallacy, can they not best be broken in the same fashion? | /r/MensRights | 16/02/11 07:26 PM |
| 0 | 24-year-old woman videotaped sex acts with a one-year-old boyI think the issue at hand here is that we live in a culture that demonizes men as being child abusers. Men are systematically excluded from jobs as teachers, babysitters, and care-givers because of a cultural assumption of male perversion and a myth that men have a natural tendency to sexually victimize women and children. This case, along with hundreds of others, demonstrates that this cultural assumption is fallacious and harmful, and these cultural norms need to be challenged aggressively in … | /r/MensRights | 16/02/11 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Fathers who lost their jobs or suffered a medical crisis yet can't get their child support payments reduced shared their frustration at a public hearing Tuesday night.Yeah, I guess I misused that phrase. I was just trying to make the point that the system works to reinforce income disparity by tying its payment orders to family income rather than some objective measure of child care costs. | /r/MensRights | 16/02/11 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Fathers who lost their jobs or suffered a medical crisis yet can't get their child support payments reduced shared their frustration at a public hearing Tuesday night.It seems incredibly unjust that the child support system lets rich kids stay rich and poor kids stay poor. I always assumed that there was some standard measure of how much it costs to raise a child based on some objective measure of costs of food, clothing, shelter, etc. and this was the basis for how much a child support payment must be. Now I guess I learned that child support is based on the income of the parent. That's sad and unfair to everyone. | /r/MensRights | 16/02/11 04:39 PM |
| 0 | Ex-Ultimate Fighter pleads guilty to sexual assault after trial and gets 25 years to life, but a juror says he's innocentSometimes, justice is deaf, dumb, AND blind. But mostly dumb. | /r/MensRights | 15/02/11 05:38 PM |
| 57 | Just another example of the crap men put up with, he won't hit back because he knows what will happen.If only every relationship came with a camera crew...I endured abuse almost exactly like this. Just watching this video makes me tear up. Men endure more abuse, psychological and physical, in relationships than anyone knows or wants to admit. The truth is that the justice and legal system is set up to ignore this type of female-on-male abuse, and even in cases like mine, where the woman is prosecuted, there are little or no victim resources available to men. The one domestic violence victim cent… | /r/MensRights | 22/10/10 10:47 PM |
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