| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 50 | i promise i quit OLD now. there is NOTHING in my profile that indicates an interest in bdsm, just that i’m a feminist. ALSO SIS THAT HAIR. went down well past his shoulders and thin on top! | MALE DEPRAVITY | bimbobunnyintraining | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 02:24 AM |
| 23 | sharon stone was blocked from bumble… | ROAST-A-SCROTE | bimbobunnyintraining | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 09:40 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 12 | I've started to use the phrase "forever girlfriend" in passing.trying to make a joke about how he might be trash named bill but i can’t do it because i’m so furious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 08:28 PM |
| 39 | Just saw this comment! What your opinion about it? Do you experience it? I hope it is not true at all!i’m mid-40s, my match rate went up after i hit 40! mostly very attractive 20-somethings, too. 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 11:49 PM |
| 30 | I feel like this is supposed to scare us? Hmm nope if I have a kick ass group of girlfriends and no man when I die that's a-okay with me! 👌i’d tag myself but none of them have snacks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 06:52 PM |
| 164 | How do I respond to my friends blaming me for expecting the guy to pay?why do you feel like you have to defend yourself at all? those are your standards and if they don’t like them they don’t have to live by them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 02:13 PM |
| 27 | Getting ready to put lots of effort into a booty call at 11 pmWOW. that poor pickmesha. three HOURS she spent. if that boy doesn’t go down like the titanic she’s the biggest clown ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 12:55 AM |
| 7 | Spectating a date’s sports game — thoughts?i would proceed with caution. go if you think it would be fun (and things outside your comfort zone can be great growth experiences), but don’t expect it to be a date and don’t let it become the only way you see him. edited for clarity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 12:52 AM |
| 7 | Knew this 48(!) y/o was a f***boi.. one of his pics was at least 20 years old and the others in his underwear but he kept saying he was open to a relationship. 2nd time he gave me his # I messaged him saying good morning without mentioning who I was just to see what happened. This is what ensued...oh my god i think i just had an aneurysm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 02:25 AM |
| 11 | Why I hate living in a college townthis has not got enough love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 02:02 AM |
| 12 | I am finally kicking my husband to the curb this weekend and he doesn't know.good for you! also, make sure to protect the house as your asset! i am a realtor and where i live even if one spouse is not on the title they are still entitled to half the matrimonial home! so definitely make sure he doesn’t get what you’ve been paying into! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 12:35 PM |
| 2 | All the men coming out of the woodworkthree texts in the last two days from ones i had forgotten about enough to have not blocked their numbers when i started fds… (blocked now!) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 07:54 PM |
| 161 | I learned a huge lesson about dropping your standards for a manyou are ABSOLUTELY a HVW. you left a bad situation (very brave!), and you’re going back to school to provide for yourself and your child. nothing low value about that at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 06:29 PM |
| 38 | I'm dating the guy I want to be with. Do I have to hold off exclusivity until he proposes?unless you’ve had the exclusivity talk you’re single! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 08:26 PM |
| 9 | His job makes everyone lock their phone up, so we can't text much during the day. How to handle?this made me cackle. all those pickmesha times when i took “i was at the dog park” as an excuse! lord i was a dumbass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 08:25 PM |
| 8 | Being with my "friend" from flirtationship in the same dancing classyou know the only option is to be a queen. of course whether that means staying no contact by not going (maybe doing something else fun for yourself on the night of the workshop?) OR going because you love it and fully grey-rocking him while you’re there is really only something you can answer… this is a tough one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 09:42 PM |
| 4 | My Sister’s Low Value Boyfriend And How LVM Drag Down HVWi’m also in a cold canadian city (-22 with the windchill this afternoon) and i would rather walk an hour in this cold to get pads than… i don’t even know what she’s doing? toilet paper? wrecking her clothes? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 09:35 PM |
| 9 | My Sister’s Low Value Boyfriend And How LVM Drag Down HVWokay this might be a dumb question but if the shopper’s is like 5 minutes up the road can’t your sister walk there? or bus? or take the loser’s car? sorry but your sister is equally LV if she doesn’t take care of/track her own menstrual health or clean up after herself. get your savings in order and move out as soon as you can, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 09:28 PM |
| 36 | One of the most egregious things I’ve read in a long time! LAOP’s husband left her and their 5 young children (1 with special needs), moved in with his girlfriend and cut LAOP off from every bank account, health insurance, and stopped paying the mortgage on the family home.ladies! always always ALWAYS have your own accounts!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 06:43 PM |
| 186 | Taken from insaneparents sub, lvw and lvm CANNOT raise children properlythat poor fucking kid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 04:09 PM |
| 4 | How Dare We Have Standards...an idea: how about we don’t post links to articles that clearly hate us so they don’t get our clicks? what is queen energy about reading bad press? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 10:51 AM |
| 102 | LVM think women are stupid.i honestly think most men don’t know google exists. i know EXACTLY what i’ll find when i google my name. i also know how to google restaurant phone numbers to make reservations HINT HINT. or directions. or any of the 9,000 other things i need to find out during the day. the number of times a man will ask me “where/what is that” drives me crazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 10:32 PM |
| 19 | We’ve all heard the phrase: “Clothes make the man”. What has been your experience?oh 100%!!! you should have seen them leering and judging the women who were there and not giving them the time of day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 07:06 PM |
| 24 | We’ve all heard the phrase: “Clothes make the man”. What has been your experience?only reason i can imagine: ENTITLEMENT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 07:03 PM |
| 56 | We’ve all heard the phrase: “Clothes make the man”. What has been your experience?went to a single’s mixer last night (i work part-time for an event planning company who throws them), i was dressed WELL (i’m super into fashion), and spent a good chunk of the time evaluating what people chose to wear to the event. 80% of the men were in jeans and a sloppy tee. 15% in a dress shirt and nice jeans. 5% in some variation of a sports jacket/tie/suit. guess who spent spent the whole night talking to each other? the 80% in jeans and sloppy tees. who got the attention of the female at… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 06:46 PM |
| 33 | Dates only, ladies.“these ones are defective” lmao FACT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 04:01 PM |
| 23 | Thought this could be usefulnot really new information but HOLY HELL i snort-laughed at the end. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 06:35 PM |
| 16 | How should I answer this question? If you tell them you want something serious they will morph themselves into boyfriend mode to make you comfortable enough to put out eventually. I don’t even know how to respond anymore. ***Overthinking***i usually go with “i’m looking to connect with rad people and see where it goes from there; what about you?” it’s vague enough that it doesn’t put me in any compromising positions and gets them to show their hand. most men respond that they’re looking for something casual (bye) or that they’re not rad (which i believe, also bye). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 02:17 PM |
| 12 | The Benefits of Sex Toys Compared to Men: How Vibrators Can Replace Men.a note on rabbit-style vibrators: they tend to be “one-size-fits-most” and don’t work for any woman whose proportions (vaginal opening to clitoris distance) varies from the average. i have a “tall” vulva and the clitoral stimulation device on these never hit the right spot for me. so don’t worry if they don’t work for you! there are so many other options! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 05:44 PM |
| 3 | Can we talk about STDs for a second?no but there are dental dams, condoms over toys, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 05:18 PM |
| 27 | Advice?block. delete. he’s not prioritizing you, why would you wait for him to “come back around”? he wants you to be a mind reader and GUESS at his schedule. BOY BYE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 10:06 PM |
| 8 | No sex until 10k ?everyone has their own jam. my rule is no sex until i’ve spent 24 hours with a person. very few make it to 24 hours without pressuring me for sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 08:09 PM |
| 56 | The Catch-22 when trying new sexual things with men you’re dating.THIS. no is a complete sentence and you don’t need to EVER tell a man why. you don’t owe him ANY explanation as to why you don’t want to be DEGRADED. and if he pushes back BOY BYE. (sorry for the caps i am MAD. my poor sisters in this horrid dating world i feel for you and love you so.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 02:47 PM |
| 126 | Don’t loose yourself trying to please a man! Either he wants you for you or he isn’t the one for you sis!or if the next one will be wetter… blech. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 09:40 PM |
| 14 | Stay safe out thererecommended reading on this subject: blink, the power of thinking without thinking by malcolm gladwell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 08:35 PM |
| 15 | I wonder why I keep attracting certain types of guysimportant point: YOU are not intimidating. THEY are intimidated. (i know that doesn’t answer your question at all but i think it’s something strong women get told a lot by weak men to stroke their own egos by turning it into a you problem!) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 12:56 PM |
| 50 | Beautiful queen who inspired me to start telling LVM to fuck offlove the look on her face when he will actually not stfu. she is so DONE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 01:23 AM |
| 23 | I don’t even know where to start; the threesome fantasy, the ‘conversion’ fantasy and her thanking him for making her day with his gross comment on her marriage... Just shows how they view women reallyso, here’s a question for my straight fds-ers. do guys in OLD ask you if you’re bi when you’re texting? or am i queer-signalling somehow? i literally get asked this all the time and i don’t know why!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 02:48 AM |
| 18 | Sis goes above and beyond to help this jobless LVM and is shocked when he flips out on her the one time she doesn’t baby him.i found a staple in my dinner at red lobster once but that’s what i get for eating something of SuCh HiGh CaLiBeR. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 02:44 AM |
| 16 | So he goes and uses a naive girl for sex, ghosts her and brags about it!! Can’t imagine how she must’ve felt once she realized what he’d really done! Ladies, do not be some douche bag’s brag tag!!“i cummed”. wow. grammar real good there buddy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 09:45 PM |
| 4 | LVM be like.. 🤣i’m sorry you’re dealing with that. i hope you get out soon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 01:21 AM |
| 3 | 2020 Energy.thank you! we don’t have that in canada either… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/20 11:16 PM |
| 10 | LVM be like.. 🤣maybe horribly callous of me but when an ex pulled that “i’m gonna kill myself shit” on me my only response was “well time’s a-wastin’, tick tock buddy get on it”. (obviously he didn’t.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/20 11:15 PM |
| 11 | 2020 Energy.sorry i’m an old lady can someone please explain this? what app is that screenshot from? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/20 10:45 PM |
| 27 | What are the jobs you consider a red flag? Why?i work in sales. can confirm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 02:13 PM |
| 32 | Afraid you’ll make a bad LVM decision tonight? (Don’t do it!) If you need a FDS crisis support sister for NYE, here’s some situations I can help with....doing the Lord’s work! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 05:04 AM |
| 3 | Men want cell numbers fast, why?“i’ll be happy to give you my number after our first (second, tenth, whatever your magic number is) date!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 09:25 PM |
| 9 | Lack of sleep causes premature aging - put your phone on DND!!six years ago i was pickmeisha-ing (yes it’s a verb now) a person who lived three time zones away. i used to SET AN ALARM to skype with him when he’d get home from partying in the middle of the night my time. six years ago. i still wake up in the middle of the night more nights than i don’t. fuck long distance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 09:18 PM |
| 15 | Man creates questionnaire website for finding a partnerguys i tried for you i really did but i couldn’t get through it without gagging. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 03:44 AM |
| 20 | sharon stone was blocked from bumble…the scrote who replied tho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 09:43 PM |
| 7 | Pack your gym shit right now.also: find out your gym’s new year’s day hours! mine’s on reduced hours. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 08:20 PM |
| 12 | Is it ever okay to date a project?the only project i’ll ever take on is men’s style. cultural misogyny teaches males not to care about fashion but i care about being taken out by non-embarrassments. granted, all i do is “oh you’re not taking me out looking like that come back when you’ve done better” so it’s hardly any work for me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Am I making a mistake?better to be alone than with the wrong person. use the time you spend with him working on your own goals and bettering yourself! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 12:32 PM |
| 7 | i promise i quit OLD now. there is NOTHING in my profile that indicates an interest in bdsm, just that i’m a feminist. ALSO SIS THAT HAIR. went down well past his shoulders and thin on top!oh girl i’m sorry you got roped into that mess of a male. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 03:06 AM |
| 24 | i promise i quit OLD now. there is NOTHING in my profile that indicates an interest in bdsm, just that i’m a feminist. ALSO SIS THAT HAIR. went down well past his shoulders and thin on top!i mean at least at some point he used the correct pique? *eyeroll | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 02:37 AM |
| 9 | Another disappointmentcame to say this. there’s no stripper. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 12:21 PM |
| 1 | I get stressed out when my boyfriend goes out to drink after work...came here to say this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 12:00 PM |
| 14 | Share your goals for levelling up in 2020just wrote these out for another sub! primary goal: 55 real estate transactions, representing either buyer or seller. i will do this by sticking to my time-blocked schedule, investing in my social channels to draw in the right kind of business, and following up on all leads with a focussed, value-added strategy. secondary goals: 1. go to the gym every day 2. declutter condo other goals: * start youtube channel to help other female sales professionals * read a book a week * maintain vegan diet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 12:55 AM |
| 3 | Should I tell him I don’t want to talk anymore? (LONG POST)cut. him. off. if a man is a HVM they will bend over backwards to make that first date happen. sorry but it sounds like he’s not one. and i hate to say it but by “nicing” him (asking if he wants space, etc.) you’re just giving him all the power and he will continue to string you along. bye boy bye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 08:00 PM |
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