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She has moved on for the same reason she wanted a divorce, she no longer has any feelings for you. That is your reality, following on social media is only hurting you. Saying you need to move on and stop thinking about her is easy to say, but hard to do. Yet there is no alternative, she clearly is not returning and at this point could care less about you. In time you will find someone who will love you .
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/25 06:18 PM
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Do not rely n any advice here with regard to your question. Seek advice from an experienced family law attorney.
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/25 12:35 AM
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I obviously don’t know the specifics of you situation, but I can say that the process of reconciliation and working on your marriage is a better alternative to divorce in many instances.
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/25 07:49 AM
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Since one under age child lives with you, she should pay you child support until he is 18.
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/25 07:27 PM
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Keep in mind when you date and make comparisons to your ex the one difference that matters, loyalty! Your ex gf had none she cheated.
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/25 08:08 PM
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Watched the video the insights were spot on.
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/25 05:35 PM
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Problem is to many women mistake the slow rhythms of married life with boredom and go looking for the supposed excitement of an affair. It’s not until they are caught the realize what they have lost. True love, family, home, respect, etc.
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/25 04:15 PM
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Why not take the time out? 3-6 months is not a big deal and maybe by some miracle she misses you enough to decide to control her temper.
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/25 04:51 PM
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A mother that would leave her children behind is trash. File for divorce asap, ask for full custody, do this before she has a change of heart.
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/24 03:03 AM
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You learned a lesson, it was expensive but worth it to be rid of her. You will find someone else that will be a true partner.
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/24 06:51 PM
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In the absence of abuse there is no basis for a court to order you to leave your home.
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/24 07:14 PM
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It sounds like you have custody of your son, be thankful for that. It takes time to overcome the effects of a divorce, but it will become easier day by day and week by week.
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/24 07:04 AM
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Have you thought about suing her for fraud, or defamation.
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/24 12:39 AM
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I don’t know the circumstances of the divorce but it appears that your ex not only has distanced herself from you but also her son.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/24 07:15 PM
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Divorce often leaves both parties worse off., than trying to fix a broken marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/24 07:43 AM
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You might not be ready to move on but your wife is. Soon she will be screwing these men while you are working your tail off. I would only cover the most necessary bills and cut her off from credit cards and cash. If she complains tell to ask her boyfriends for money. Give her a dose of reality.,
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/24 09:09 AM
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You are spot on! Right now in the middle of an argument with my wife of 57 years. It never ends, little snide remarks, then pretends it was said in humor. Never will admit she said anything wrong then retorts that what I say is worse. Now she wants to control everything I do, if I say I am going out, she invites herself along. I could go on and on.
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/24 07:54 PM
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The court can order the house be sold. If your wife refuses to sign any needed documents the judge can hold her in contempt of court and even put her in the lock up.
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/24 01:21 AM
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Maybe she gets off talking about him as you squirm. When she brings him up during a conversation just get up and leave. Why are you talking to her at all, go no to get over the past and move on.
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/24 06:42 PM
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Have to wonder how the child fits into things. Do you intend to maintain a relationship with the kid, or is this a complete walk away? If it’s a walk away just kick her to the curb.
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/24 11:31 PM
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When you meet, you need to discuss civilly, no crying, begging, anger, just be open to the blame game. She will justify her actions by accusing you of neglect and lack of understanding her needs. Let her know that marriage counseling is something you desire and that her actions affect not only the both of you but also your children. Wishing you good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/24 08:41 PM
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Tell her it’s either in or out. There is a marital relationship or nothing. Sounds like she wants the opposite of fwb. She wants to continue to lean on you for emotional support, screw that. You need a full partner moving forward, concentrate on that goal.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/24 07:21 AM
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I don’t understand, it sounded like your spouse was having second thoughts about finalizing the divorce, why not give it a chance for reconciliation. It sounded like you did not want the divorce, what changed?
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/24 07:15 AM
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Many questions, do you know why your wife left you for someone else. What was your relationship with your ex prior to her leaving. Before the split where you involved in the lives of your children, did you help care for them, play with and so on. Do you have any custody rights? You are the bio dad, at some point when they are old they might reach out and ask why you abandoned them, what will you say?
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/24 11:18 PM
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You mentioned that your ex was an amazing mon, did you have kids together? Hope you get to see them and have a good relationship with them. If that’s the case at least something good resulted from your marriage. Concentrate on being a good dad, not your ex.
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/24 04:43 PM
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