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I have been with my partner for 19 years (since I was 20). Neither of us wants to marry, and we have no intention of breaking up. Don’t see the point to it all. To each their own though.
/r/MensRights02/03/24 07:41 AM
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I’m not gonna take part in body shaming. I’m also not gonna waste my breath defending T.
/r/MensRights15/02/24 12:54 AM
2

I would love a source for that CEO quote. Who said it?
/r/MensRights26/12/23 06:34 PM
1

I’d love to read more about that California law. That’s so messed up. Could you send me in the direction of some articles?
/r/MensRights21/12/23 08:21 PM
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I know. We shouldn’t.
/r/MensRights20/12/23 08:11 PM
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This! This is what I came to say.
/r/MensRights20/12/23 07:06 PM
-2

Good point.
/r/MensRights20/12/23 06:59 PM
1

Doesn’t make sense to me, but to each their own.
/r/MensRights20/12/23 01:02 AM
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I’m just giving my experience and saying what is and isn’t okay for me. I’ve heard the line before, and I don’t feel comfortable not using a condom. That’s just me. Other people may have different experiences and opinions or give different lines.
/r/MensRights20/12/23 01:00 AM
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You seriously think if you get a woman pregnant that it doesn’t effect you? You sound very naive.
/r/MensRights19/12/23 03:32 PM
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Yeah. I don’t buy the “sex doesn’t feel good with a condom” line. Honestly, if a guy says that, it’s such a turnoff and I worry who he’s done it with before and I question his judgment. And I feel like if he says that, he’s assuming I’m stupid or something. Just a bad scene, all around. But yay for men having more options for birth control! That’s fantastic.
/r/MensRights19/12/23 03:20 PM
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This is great. Men should absolutely also have the option to take birth control. The less unwanted pregnancies, the better, and we should all have the right to choose what to do with our own bodies and futures.
/r/MensRights19/12/23 03:15 PM
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Not sure why this is getting downvoted.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 06:34 PM
2

I think it’s great when people take back power for themselves. People should be applauded for that, and they should be allowed to make their own choices. I say this as a female in a relationship, you should have just as much autonomy as anyone else. I think there’s kind of a double standard against men in this regard. If women choose not to pursue men, they’re empowered and considered strong and independent. It should be that way for men too. I abhor sexism in all forms, so all I can say is, you…
/r/MensRights11/12/23 03:29 PM
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Those are very true words. So, do you stop pursuing relationships, stop pursuing sex, or stop pursuing both?
/r/MensRights11/12/23 03:02 PM
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Yeah, that will definitely take away the power of sex. No denying that.
/r/MensRights11/12/23 02:53 PM
2

How?
/r/MensRights11/12/23 02:49 PM
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I hate this! Nobody ever believes bisexuals. If you’re a man and you’re bisexual, they’ll say you’re gay. If you’re a woman and you’re bisexual, they’ll say you’re straight and just doing it for attention. Bisexual people just can’t win.
/r/MensRights11/12/23 12:24 PM
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Makes sense now. Thanks.
/r/MensRights08/12/23 07:08 PM
1

What’s an inkwell and what’s a PUA?
/r/MensRights08/12/23 04:41 PM
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I think it comes down to a loud minority of people who care more about hating women, or at least hating feminists, than lifting up men.
/r/MensRights07/12/23 01:01 PM
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I’m way behind on my Disney I suppose. I haven’t seen most of those. I e heard weird things about the new Snow White though.
/r/MensRights06/12/23 02:08 PM
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What Disney movies do you mean?
/r/MensRights06/12/23 01:03 PM
1

This is true of some women. I think it’s stretching to say “most”.
/r/MensRights05/12/23 08:52 PM
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I would agree with that.
/r/MensRights05/12/23 08:52 PM
1

I totally see your point. And however clear the actual definition is, it does become vague when a group of people assume control of its meaning, adapting and using it to their own purposes. I guess all I can do is correct them when they use it incorrectly. Language is almost like a living thing, constantly shifting and changing. It’s my hope to take some of these words back to their actual definition. Unfortunately, their capricious nature lends itself to misuse and change by others.
/r/MensRights04/12/23 06:16 PM
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Either way you slice it, they’re wrong.
/r/MensRights04/12/23 10:10 AM
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I don’t think it’s right or fair to let them make up fake definitions for words. The term itself isn’t as vague, as it is misused by ignorant people. That’s just my opinion. I think language is important, and I hate to see it bastardized.
/r/MensRights04/12/23 10:09 AM
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Like I said, I totally agree that the term is bastardized and overused, often to attribute a negative connotation to benign (or even positive) characteristics. And to people who might disagree and who think all masculinity is toxic, I say fuck that, and they need to go back and learn more about human behavior.
/r/MensRights04/12/23 10:07 AM
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I totally agree that there are people that are far too liberal with the phrase, and they incorrectly equate it with masculinity. I’m not averse to the idea of coming up with a better phrase to describe the idea as a whole. If men prefer the word “machismo” or something like that, I’m happy to use that word instead. But I will continue to call out people who use the phrase “toxic” to describe all masculinity. They’re just plain wrong, and (I think) on that, we agree.
/r/MensRights04/12/23 10:03 AM
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They are misinformed then. It’s barbaric and a practice that needs to end.
/r/MensRights04/12/23 09:56 AM
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Any person/feminist who uses the phrase “toxic masculinity” to be interchangeable with “masculinity” is misunderstanding the meaning of one or both phrases. They aren’t transposable.
/r/MensRights04/12/23 09:55 AM
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I acknowledge that it’s equated as same by some feminists. I’m saying they are unequivocally wrong.
/r/MensRights04/12/23 09:51 AM
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Whoever is using the term in that way (and I don’t deny your point that some people do consider all masculinity to be toxic) is corrupting the words and should be called out for it. There’s a massive difference.
/r/MensRights04/12/23 09:50 AM
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Anyone who says all masculinity is toxic is bastardizing the word altogether. Toxic masculinity would involve traits deemed masculine that are hazardous to men, women, and the culture at large. It is not meant to imply that all masculinity is toxic. Masculinity itself is something that may be defined differently by different people, but is not in itself harmful to others or to society as a whole. In my opinion, masculinity is a beautiful thing. Just as an example a person might think of: someone…
/r/MensRights04/12/23 09:46 AM
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I’ll say it again… ANY form of genital mutilation is WRONG. I don’t know how else to word that. I’m against mutilating genitals. I hope you are too.
/r/MensRights04/12/23 09:25 AM
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They would be wrong then.
/r/MensRights04/12/23 06:36 AM
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I hear that.
/r/MensRights04/12/23 06:03 AM
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Yeah, totally. My bad if I wasn’t clear.
/r/MensRights04/12/23 06:00 AM
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I’m not saying masculinity is toxic. It’s not. That’s why I don’t think masculinity and toxic masculinity can be equated.
/r/MensRights04/12/23 05:56 AM
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You can think people are toxically masculine or not, but you can’t deny that toxic masculinity is a concept, and it’s different than masculinity.
/r/MensRights04/12/23 05:51 AM
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There’s a difference between masculinity and toxic masculinity.
/r/MensRights04/12/23 04:59 AM
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How is this only an American issue? To say all Americans are mentally challenged is ridiculous, as the culture and opinions vary wildly throughout the Americas. Plenty of North Americans, including people from the United States, are vehemently against circumcision and do what they can to fight against it.
/r/MensRights04/12/23 01:34 AM
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Just because MGM is horrifying, that’s no reason to excuse FGM. And I don’t believe for a second that circumcision doesn’t effect sexual pleasure or the ability to orgasm. With FGM the ability to orgasm may not be as effected if the labia are clipped. But if the clitoris is removed, there is just no way ability to orgasm wouldn’t be effected. There are even types of FGM where they essentially sew the vagina closed. That would certainly effect the ability to enjoy sex. Even clipping labia, while …
/r/MensRights04/12/23 01:28 AM
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Not what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:46 PM
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You say yourself you have a very negative portrait of women. People are just taking what you say at face value.
/r/MensRights22/11/23 02:45 PM
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It’s hard not to get defensive when someone is insulting your entire gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:13 AM
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I worked in the service industry too, and you’re right. There’s definitely entitled pricks on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:11 AM
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No one said it was exclusive to being a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:09 AM
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The people who shame me for supporting MRA are usually other members of this community, honestly.
/r/MensRights20/11/23 05:57 PM
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As long as sex work exists isn’t it better to have it be with normal women and normal circumstances, rather than traumatic circumstances?
/r/MensRights18/11/23 01:57 AM
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I hear you. I have a friend who uses OnlyFans all the time. Most of the girls seem straight forward enough, but some of them act like they actually would love him and date him and shit like that, and I think that’s so shitty. He’s a smart guy, and I know he knows he’s being lied to, but I still feel like I need to defend him. If it makes him happy, that’s all I want though. If any of those women ever hurt him, they’d be hearing from me though. I also understand that there are some people that it…
/r/MensRights12/11/23 05:02 AM
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I would argue that therapy targets lonely people and creates addicts. Only half kidding. To be serious, thanks for the explanation. I haven’t changed my mind, but I definitely get where you’re coming from and your points are totally valid, so thanks for helping me to wrap my head around all this.
/r/MensRights12/11/23 04:24 AM
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I’ve noticed a lot of backlash against OnlyFans lately. Why does it make a woman an enemy or untrustworthy as a person if she chooses to work in the sex industry? I’m not trying to be contrarian; I just don’t understand why all the anti-OnlyFans in specific. How does it hurt MRA, and why not be against all sex work? Like, what is it specifically about OnlyFans? (To be clear, I’m not against sex workers. I say to each their own, and consenting adults should do whatever makes them happy, but I’m o…
/r/MensRights11/11/23 07:32 PM
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I didn’t read your comment beyond the beginning where you called me an idiot. I’m not getting in some grade school whining competition that’s devolved into personal insults. Have a good one. Hope you work it out with your mother. Bye.
/r/MensRights08/11/23 01:16 AM
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About a world wide pandemic of mothers hating their sons? No, I’m not knowledgeable about this whiny “mommy didn’t love me enough” joke of an idea.
/r/MensRights07/11/23 11:03 PM
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Love is a concept and a feeling. It’s as real as any other idea or emotion. Maybe your mother didn’t love you enough, I don’t know. But that doesn’t negate the feelings of mothers world wide who do love their sons and would give their lives to protect them.
/r/MensRights07/11/23 11:01 PM
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I’m sorry women don’t like you or that they treat you like livestock or whatever. Most men don’t feel that way. I won’t deny your experience, but I refuse to believe that all women are abusers. That’s just not true.
/r/MensRights07/11/23 10:58 PM
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I didn’t mean to sound aggressive. It’s an honest question. If women working is a disadvantage in your view, what is the solution? It really was just an honest question.
/r/MensRights07/11/23 10:53 PM
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Source?
/r/MensRights07/11/23 10:51 PM
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I already explained it. The whole post just seemed bitter and personal. You’re turning it into men vs. women, some ridiculous competition over who is discriminated against more. You’re using a personal anecdote for your evidence that all mothers hate their sons. And then there’s the idea that all women are indoctrinated by radical lesbians. Why are you being weird about lesbians? It’s all just fear mongering, over the top rhetoric, and it’s a huge turn off to most people. I don’t think it helps …
/r/MensRights07/11/23 10:49 PM
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When did I say your mother was a victim? You made that up. And I’ll ask again, when did I say I was a victim?
/r/MensRights06/11/23 10:41 PM
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When did I claim victimhood? Or are you just throwing out buzz words? And who are you to speak for all motherhood? Get a grip.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 10:34 PM
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Am I the only person here who doesn’t loathe my mother? I’ve seen comments comparing mothers to dogs, retarded children, and just awful people in general.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 10:31 PM
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I feel bad for you. Especially if you’re heterosexual.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 10:21 PM
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What is your solution? Should women not be allowed to work?
/r/MensRights06/11/23 10:17 PM
-1

Is this a joke? I feel like this can’t be serious.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 10:07 PM
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The idea that all heterosexual sex is rape is so not a mainstream view. And women can think for themselves. There is no mass indoctrination by radical lesbians. Mothers don’t hate their sons en masse. This is the kind of rhetoric that muddles our message and turns off outsiders. It makes us look like a bunch of bitter incels, to be honest. It’s alarmist and sounds like we’re phobic of women.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 10:05 PM
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I think most everyone knows that males are more likely to die in war or commit suicide. Who is saying it’s women?
/r/MensRights06/11/23 09:59 PM
-1

It honestly sounds like you hate women. Mothers hate their sons? Men shouldn’t trust their mothers? I’m seeing many other red flags in this post. You say all women hate men, but I’m hearing a deep bitterness towards women, even your own mother. Downvote me if you want, but this kind of attitude and hatred is not conducive to equal rights, nor does it make MRA look good. This is what outsiders think MRA is, and it has the ability to be so much more and so much better than this.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 09:56 PM
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I’d recommend people seek professional care when coming off of benzos/Valium or alcohol, as cessation can cause seizures which can be deadly. Glad to hear you were able to come off the pain killers and Valium by yourself though. I hope it went smoothly for you.
/r/MensRights05/11/23 07:18 PM
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I’m not turned off by a guy who cries over the loss of a friend. I don’t like when people, male or female, cry often and over nothing. That is admittedly a turn off. But crying after a death? Totally fine. One of my favorite Beck lyrics: “I’m a full grown man and I’m not afraid to cry.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:01 PM
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Please don’t race to be like Andrew Tate. That’s not a race to the top. That’s a race to the bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:44 PM
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Thank you for explaining that! Makes perfect sense now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:31 PM
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I guess I was thinking more of an Andrew Tate type. I see what you’re saying though. More socially engrained, taught since birth micro effects, is that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:51 PM
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Got it. Totally get what you’re saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:31 PM
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You think so? I don’t know. That’s some of the things I think of. What do you think of when you think “toxic” masculinity?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:29 PM
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No. But like I said, my cycle doesn’t change what I find attractive. It stays the same day to day. People like what they like. Hormones influence behavior to a degree in men and women, but I don’t magically change to a different person with different opinions once a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 05:23 PM
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I can assure you, the kind of men I find attractive doesn’t change based on my cycle. What’s attractive one day is not hideous the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 05:08 PM
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If she’s menstruating? Haha what the fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 04:16 PM
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If every woman you interact with thinks you’re hitting on her, I’d look at how you talk and behave around women, because asking a woman to move or selling a woman a product or whatever, is usually not construed as sexual advancement.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 04:14 PM
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I don’t think there’s anything wrong with men showing emotions. I wish society was more accepting of vulnerability in men. I also think it’s okay if a woman is not very vulnerable or “feminine”. It doesn’t mean she’s frigid or butch or whatever else unemotional women get called. Men and women have way too much pressure on them to be one way or another, and I try my best not to judge regardless of gender.
/r/MensRights01/11/23 04:10 PM
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Can I ask, is there a specific behavior or character trait you have that you feel is viewed negatively by women or society as a whole? A trait you have to suppress?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:52 PM
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I love Gen X, personally. I dig the whole “whatever, never mind, loser” attitude. As far as women I know from that generation, they’re doing as well as any other generation, I guess. As a millennial (born in ‘84), I find getting old to be hard, and I suppose that’s true of any generation and gender.
/r/MensRights01/11/23 03:47 PM
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Work on your reading comprehension. And again, learn what “literally” means. Peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:10 PM
1

Show me where I literally said women should be allowed to touch without consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:06 PM
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Okay. Learn what literally means, because I literally did not say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:05 PM
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I never said women should be allowed to touch men inappropriately. I don’t know where you’re pulling that from.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:03 PM
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No. I didn’t say any of that. I am sorry you don’t understand what I’m saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:59 PM
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Okay. I guess that guy should’ve just beat the shit out of the teenage girl who swat his ass. That’s reasonable. Just beat the shit out her in the middle of the linen section. You win.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:56 PM
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I just don’t think the answer to unwanted attention is beating the shit out of the woman. We all have to deal with unwanted attention or even inappropriate touching at some point in our lives. Very few people respond with violence, and most men and women aren’t sitting around lamenting that they can’t beat women. If someone traps you and threatens your safety, and flight is not an option, sometimes fighting can be a reasonable option. I don’t think violence was warranted in the situation given t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:51 PM
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Sure, if you’re fighting off a rapist, do whatever you have to to get away. If a woman or man swats you on the butt or makes a comment about your body that makes you uncomfortable, kicking their ass is a bit extreme, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:39 PM
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A response to unwanted attention shouldn’t be kicking that person’s ass. That’s a good thing. I don’t know any men who are walking around wishing it was socially acceptable to beat the shit out of a woman, nor do i know any women who would hit another woman, if only it was not sexualized.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:34 PM
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I believe “toxic masculinity” is harmful all around almost always, but it’s far more harmful to men. Masculinity is a beautiful thing. I love it. When it becomes toxic it’s harmful towards men, women, and society in general. The most masculine men I know could never be described as toxically masculine, because to be a man does not mean you have to be harmfully and overly aggressive or violent,promiscuous/heart breaker, homophobic, without feelings, no emotions, or any other unfair (and frankly u…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:25 PM
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Doesn’t it make anyone a little uncomfortable to have to reject someone? I don’t think it’s something that anyone actively looks forward to doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:15 PM
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The best thing to do in either situation is to act like adults and try not to make it weird. It goes without saying, it’s always a little awkward to reject a person, but it can be done with maturity and kindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:13 PM
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I don’t get why they’re posting their personal shit on FB anyways. If they were already living together and each paying their fair share, then he sounds like the kinda guy that would have supported the child and helped her out while she was unable to work regardless. It just seems really weird that she would go public to say he should give her 50k. What an odd thing to post about. TMI.
/r/MensRights01/11/23 02:07 PM
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Yeah. Mutual friends can be a great way to meet people.
/r/MensRights01/11/23 02:02 PM
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I would try meeting women in real life, like at a bar or at work or through mutual friends or something. Women online can be kind of skittish. I can say with 100% certainty that a big problem with online dating through the eyes of women is the unsolicited dick pic, and things of that nature. It happens CONSTANTLY. You don’t seem like the kinda guy doing that, but just know that women looking for a guy like you have to sift through a bunch of guys that can seem nice than they get presumptuous and…
/r/MensRights01/11/23 02:00 PM
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I have never heard this phrase. As someone who considers myself a feminist, an MRA, and a humanist, I don’t find this phrase to be problematic. Unless I’m misunderstanding it’s use… with no context, I don’t see the problem.
/r/MensRights31/10/23 06:50 PM
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People are talking a lot about how no one socializes anymore. Couldn’t it be that you’re just getting older? That’s one thing we all have in common, and historically people socialize less after a certain age.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:55 AM
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What’s going on in Columbus? A woman I knew in high school got busted for sleeping with a male student. My ex-high school teacher got busted trying to sleep with multiple young female students. My old art teacher used to try to give massages to his female students. And now this. What the fuck Columbus?
/r/MensRights30/10/23 05:31 PM
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Yeah, that’s indisputable , which I acknowledged. I was saying we don’t know what happened regarding the DV accusation.
/r/MensRights30/10/23 04:11 PM
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At any rate, not meaningless. There probably is some level of lying by some people if it’s for something like sex. I wonder if that’s taken into account when they calculate margin of error.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:12 PM
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Well said!!
/r/MensRights28/10/23 09:19 PM
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It’s all good. I hate misandrists too.
/r/MensRights28/10/23 09:12 PM
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Sure, if a woman said misandry isn’t bad, I’d call her a misandrist. And I don’t know who you’re quoting. I didn’t say any of that.
/r/MensRights28/10/23 09:00 PM
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Nah. I’m just saying if you go around asking why hating women is bad, you might be called a misogynist.
/r/MensRights28/10/23 08:00 PM
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Men and women who know what they’re talking about love a smart debate.
/r/MensRights28/10/23 07:26 PM
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You ask why it’s bad to hate all women and then act surprised that get called a misogynist. Hating women is not the point of MRA, or at least it shouldn’t be.
/r/MensRights28/10/23 07:22 PM
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I have noticed this too.
/r/MensRights28/10/23 07:18 PM
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Women who don’t get along with or don’t like other women are a minority. At the very least, that’s true of the women I’ve known in my life. I have, however, met the kind of woman you’re talking about and I find them to be unbearable. It’s actually kind of sad and pitiable. They’re missing out on some great relationships.
/r/MensRights28/10/23 07:04 PM
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A lot of feminist ideals coincide with MRA ideals, hence why you’ll find people who identify as both, or identify as humanist.
/r/MensRights28/10/23 07:00 PM
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Not to nitpick, but sharks generally only attack people by accident and release their bite upon realizing it’s a human.
/r/MensRights28/10/23 06:52 PM
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I see you’re getting downvoted. For what it’s worth, I get what you’re saying and understand the point you’re making.
/r/MensRights28/10/23 06:40 PM
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Banning and blocking are such cowards’ ways out in my opinion.
/r/MensRights28/10/23 06:38 PM
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This is a good point. People would get upset if a feminist sub said all or most men are hyper confrontational, so I can’t be shocked when women don’t like being told all or most women avoid confrontation. I think generalizations tend to upset people most of the time (to make a generalization myself). Even true generalizations can rub people the wrong way.
/r/MensRights28/10/23 06:37 PM
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This is true. I got torn apart by a bunch of people just for saying we don’t know for sure what happened with Justin Roiland (creator of Rick and Morty). I didn’t say he did it or didn’t do it. I said we didn’t know what happened, and people just lost it on me. I also said the show was going to go downhill without him, and was told I supported pedophilia because of that. It’s ridiculous. I am not a monster. Of course I think it’s important to take accusations seriously, and of course my empathy …
/r/MensRights28/10/23 06:25 PM
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I think both sides have their close minded members. I’ve been bullied and called awful names by feminists and MRAs alike. I’ve also had really respectful and thoughtful debate with both.
/r/MensRights28/10/23 06:18 PM
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I’d give this advice to men and women. Marriage isn’t always worth it, and only have kids if you really, really want them.
/r/MensRights27/10/23 11:12 PM
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What’s wrong with having female world leaders?
/r/MensRights27/10/23 11:00 PM
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Surveys should always be taken with a grain of salt, but in general they’re a decent barometer and tool to track statistics and trends. Honestly, 15% sounds about right to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 09:40 PM
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Why do you think some men hate women?
/r/MensRights27/10/23 09:23 PM
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You make some good points, so let me amend what I said to better reflect my meaning… I don’t wear make up to compete with other women. I am human, and I do care what others think about me. If I go out with my sisters or my friends, I want to look nice for them, but it’s not about looking better for them. In general I just feel better if I look nice, so in that sense, I do it for myself. I suppose in some sense I also do it for other people too, just not in a catty or competitive sense. I just li…
/r/MensRights27/10/23 08:53 PM
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It IS good for me. It’s also pretty typical and normal. I’m sure there’s some couple out there fighting about makeup, but they’re the minority. I’m glad I’m not wasting time and effort arguing about makeup with my partner.
/r/MensRights27/10/23 07:44 PM
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Good because that woman sounds unbearable.
/r/MensRights27/10/23 07:36 PM
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I’ve never once gotten in a fight with a man about makeup. Sometimes I wear it. Sometimes I don’t. I don’t expect anything in return either way.
/r/MensRights27/10/23 06:27 PM
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You need to meet new women. That sounds awful and unreasonable.
/r/MensRights27/10/23 06:25 PM
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Same here. I have one special occasion dress for funerals, weddings, etc.
/r/MensRights27/10/23 06:23 PM
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Society judges everyone by their looks. Men and women.
/r/MensRights27/10/23 06:20 PM
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I wear makeup because I like the way I look in it. Sometimes I don’t wear makeup. It is what it is. I’m not doing it to compete with my friends or sisters or other women. In my experience, some men like makeup, some don’t. To each their own.
/r/MensRights27/10/23 06:16 PM
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Yeah. Both sides have extremists that make everyone look bad… the loud and obnoxious minority.
/r/MensRights26/10/23 12:44 PM
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Agreed. Get rid of the draft or make it gender neutral. And only supportive roles for the men and women who would be drafted, no forced combat.
/r/MensRights26/10/23 12:42 PM
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Speaking as a woman, I see that all as positive things. Great answer.
/r/MensRights26/10/23 12:39 PM
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Same as for feminism: People who aren’t actually humanists. People who are just filled with vitriol.
/r/MensRights26/10/23 12:23 PM
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I hear you. I’m always looking to expand my beliefs and thought processes. I engage with people on the opposite side of the political Spectrum regularly. As a humanist, I’ve been disappointed with how frequently I get misunderstood and fought with in this community. But I stay because I DO believe in gender equality and I so enjoy the conversations and discourse with intelligent people like yourself.
/r/MensRights24/10/23 11:22 PM
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Don’t put quotation marks around something I didn’t say. And who is “we”? I only see you.
/r/MensRights01/04/23 07:16 AM
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I’m not the one nagging. I’m the one being laid back. You’re the one nagging your partner. How would you like it if she told you that you were forbidden from guys’ night out? I’m nagging? I’m the one who doesn’t give a fuck and is saying to each their own. And at least I take the time to read what others say. I don’t not read a comment and then still have the self assuredness to say “this is why people dump you.” You didn’t read the comment, so how would know that’s why? Also, all of my breakups…
/r/MensRights29/03/23 08:10 PM
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Me too! And I usually like that style of music as well. He just never intrigued me. He never released a song that really hooked me. Also agree on hating him ha
/r/MensRights29/03/23 07:45 PM
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What is this, Puritan England? Amish country? ISIS? What world do you live in where the majority of men consider dancing disloyal? What man is going to freak out because his girlfriend danced with people at a wedding? What man would forbid his wife from enjoying a party with friends, like everyone else? Even boys and girls at prom dance with their friends and each other. What man would forbid his wife from attending her own sister’s bachelorette party? Maybe that’s the norm for you, and that’s f…
/r/MensRights29/03/23 07:43 PM
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I don’t take issue with being against domestic violence, whether it’s done by a black person or white person, a man or a woman. I’m not going to give someone a free pass for domestic violence just because they’re black. Just like I won’t give women a free pass.
/r/MensRights29/03/23 07:25 PM
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I’m just giving my opinion. People are acting like she fucked Chris Brown because he danced around her fully clothed. Who gives a shit? To each their own, I just don’t see the big fucking deal.
/r/MensRights29/03/23 07:21 PM
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That’s fair enough. I don’t feel that we know the whole story. We have Chris Brown’s version of events, but I wish there was more information available. If she did try to grab him or hit him while trying to grab his phone, that was wrong and dangerous on her part. But two wrongs don’t make a right, and he committed a much more brutal act of violence in response, which was wrong on his part. I am shocked at the amount of support and defenders he has. At the very least, for the people who are judg…
/r/MensRights29/03/23 07:19 PM
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Oh man. Hopefully he wore a rubber, because from what I’ve heard, he’s kind of promiscuous (no judgment), and I don’t think he’s the kind of person who would warn his sexual partners (judgment).
/r/MensRights29/03/23 07:12 PM
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I do want to be part of the discussion. If you don’t want me to be, ignore me. And I’m sorry I got mixed up with your comment. I already admitted my mistake/mix up. I don’t know what else I can say about that. It’s not a big deal.
/r/MensRights29/03/23 07:03 PM
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Yet you call me a racist (in the most disgusting way possible, using the most vile language) because I think DV is wrong for men and women. There’s only one account from that night and it’s Chris Brown’s.
/r/MensRights29/03/23 07:00 PM
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I don’t know what to tell you. I’m fine with you living your lifestyle. I don’t know why my lifestyle makes you so angry.
/r/MensRights29/03/23 06:56 AM
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So if it’s not personal experience, where do you get this idea that women love dating drug dealers?
/r/MensRights29/03/23 05:02 AM
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I was responding to comments, not just the original post. If I had a focal point that you don’t see the relevance of, I’d be happy to clarify.
/r/MensRights29/03/23 05:01 AM
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Please for the love of god stop saying things like “monstrous negro”. It’s disgusting and makes my skin crawl. They were obviously in a toxic relationship, and neither Rihanna nor Chris should have ever laid hands on the other. But she had her face beat in, and you’re defending that for some reason.
/r/MensRights29/03/23 04:57 AM
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Like I said, if you think a man or a woman is a whore because they partake in a dance or whatever, that’s fine. You live by your rules; I live by mine. Personally, I like unique life experiences, whether it’s me or my boyfriend getting called on stage at a concert, or going to a bachelorette party or bachelor party, or just my guy having a boys’ night out. It’s not a big deal to me. I understand and accept that there are people who don’t want their partner doing any of that, and that’s fine. You…
/r/MensRights29/03/23 04:51 AM
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Of course I hold Rihanna to the same standard. I don’t know if his version of events are true, but I know that her face was beat to a bloody pulp and I never saw a scratch on him. If she attacked him, that’s wrong. I know he brutally attacked her. Are you really condoning what he did?
/r/MensRights29/03/23 04:36 AM
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Maybe that’s your personal experience, but I find the notion of wanting to date a drug dealer absurd. Why would anyone want that?
/r/MensRights29/03/23 04:29 AM
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I appreciate your honesty and frankness.
/r/MensRights28/03/23 11:34 PM
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That’s ridiculous. Why would the average woman want to date a drug dealer? I know I wouldn’t. Some women have bad judgment. Some men have bad judgment. But for most all people, being a drug dealer is a deal breaker. Not in a million years.
/r/MensRights28/03/23 11:33 PM
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I don’t know what you’re talking about with people getting shot and transphobic hate and only dating guys who are 6’ tall. You’re rambling and not making relevant sense, and then saying women lack common sense. I don’t think anyone in their right mind thinks just because they get pulled onstage that the pop star is going to take care of them. It’s entertainment. If it’s a violation to you, that’s absolutely fine. You decide what constitutes cheating for you and your partner. It’s different for d…
/r/MensRights28/03/23 11:30 PM
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I’m happy to engage in conversation with anyone who wants to have intelligent conversation. Just because I’m a female, doesn’t mean I’m not on your side. I believe in men’s rights, and sometimes I’m not always treated very nicely by this community, but that will never stop me from fighting against sexism against men, and it won’t scare me away from the conversation. I’ve also talked with a lot of really amazing men on this sub. I want to hear the male point of view, and it’s the men who are will…
/r/MensRights28/03/23 11:18 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/MensRights28/03/23 11:09 PM
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I didn’t say most people are partnered. I was speaking to how most people behave who are partnered, not to say there are more couples than single people. Obviously I can’t see behind every closed door, but pretty much all truly hateful sexist language I witness is online. I would never call my boyfriend an incel or simp or any other sexist insult, and he doesn’t call me a whore or bitch or cunt or whatever else. I only get called that online. I understand it’s just my own personal experience and…
/r/MensRights28/03/23 11:09 PM
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Yeah, for sure. To each their own. We’re all different; I’m just saying for me a lap dance isn’t cheating. I would be so amused to see Britney Spears or Beyoncé or someone like that, dance for my boyfriend. But yeah, for some people that’s a betrayal, and that’s fine too. I definitely have celebrities that I look up to and whose work, talent, and artistry holds a great deal of importance to me. But celeb worship can get out of hand, especially when the celebrity can do no wrong and their fans de…
/r/MensRights28/03/23 10:59 PM
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If felons have higher reproductive rates, that has more to do with socio-economic status, not being irresistible to women. And while some girls like “bad boys” or the mysterious type, no one is getting off fantasizing about rap sheets. But you’re absolutely right that a lot of people put too much importance on fame. Personally, I no longer perceive him as masculine in the slightest. He is the opposite of masculine. I see him as weak and stupid, lacking the intelligence that I look for in a good …
/r/MensRights28/03/23 10:41 PM
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Oh, absolutely agree, 100%. It being from Chris Brown totally changes things. If he called me onstage, I’d go up just to tell him to his face what a piece of shit he is. Then I’d decline the lap dance.
/r/MensRights28/03/23 10:36 PM
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Ew gross. Bitches be crazy, for lack of a better phrase, I guess. I used to think Brown was kind of good looking, but now the thought of letting him touch me makes my skin crawl. Not in a million years!
/r/MensRights28/03/23 10:34 PM
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No. Just, no. Most women do not want to date some guy who robbed a liquor store, and they certainly don’t want to be brutalized and have the ever living shit beat out of them.
/r/MensRights28/03/23 12:29 PM
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I was talking about all the people applauding the overuse of violence and brutality by Brown. As far as the guy and his girlfriend and the “lap dance”. It is what it is. People can do what they want. If that crossed a line for him, then okay. I think it’s weird, but he’s well within his rights to leave her.
/r/MensRights28/03/23 12:27 PM
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What he did was horrible. He didn’t do it because he was black. And I would be just as disgusted if a white person did that. Black, white, whatever, I do not get why his fans and people like you defend such disgusting violence.
/r/MensRights28/03/23 12:23 PM
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I know. That’s my point. How could anyone, male or female, still be attracted to his sick ass?
/r/MensRights28/03/23 04:25 AM
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You do you. I have no problem with that. If you’re at a concert and decline getting a chance to go on stage, that’s fine. I personally don’t see the big deal of someone dancing around me or my significant other. To each their own. It’s okay to agree to disagree.
/r/MensRights28/03/23 04:24 AM
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How do you know that?
/r/MensRights28/03/23 04:21 AM
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What kind of privilege do you mean?
/r/MensRights28/03/23 04:17 AM
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I know there’s a lot of talk like this online, but in the real world, most couples are just normal couples. No simps or incels or anything in between. Just normal couples enjoying each others company and not worrying about other people.
/r/MensRights28/03/23 04:17 AM
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Who gives a shit about a supposed lap dance (which is really just some asshole pop star dancing around a female fan while she sits in a chair, both fully clothed)? I am not disgusted by someone having a pop star dance around them. I’m disgusted that Chris Brown is a violent monster who somehow still has a career, and still has fans who would even show up to his concerts, let alone get some PG lap dance from him. Who in their right mind is still attracted to this guy?
/r/MensRights28/03/23 04:13 AM
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Everybody has celebrity crushes. It’s weird to get jealous or angry because she liked Ed Sheeran’s song writing.
/r/MensRights28/03/23 03:57 AM
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It amazes me that your comment got downvoted.
/r/MensRights28/03/23 03:55 AM
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If my boyfriend got pulled onstage to have a PG “lap dance” from a female pop star, I’d be thrilled. What a crazy life experience.
/r/MensRights28/03/23 03:52 AM
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No one said she fucked him.
/r/MensRights28/03/23 03:50 AM
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Having boundaries is one thing. Enforcing those boundaries by beating the living shit out of your partner is another.
/r/MensRights28/03/23 03:49 AM
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I don’t care what Rihanna did. By the way, what did she do to deserve getting her face bashed in?
/r/MensRights28/03/23 03:48 AM
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Troll. No one who has seen the photos of Rihanna’s face would say that.
/r/MensRights28/03/23 03:46 AM
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I really don’t think it’s a big deal to go out with friends to the strip club and get a lap dance. Some couples even like to go together. But FUCK Chris Brown. That egotistical, violent, face-bashing asshole can go fuck himself, because he will never turn me on.
/r/MensRights28/03/23 03:46 AM
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As a woman, I don’t care if my man or woman gets a lap dance. It’s all innocent fun. But getting a lap dance from a piece of shit like Chris Brown is another story entirely. How could anyone be turned on by him after what we know he did?
/r/MensRights28/03/23 03:43 AM
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I enjoy messing around with AI and testing it’s limits and capabilities, but I would never seriously date an AI. The technology isn’t there yet anyways. Even if it was, I’d rather just be with a human female. Of course, no judgment against what other people decide to do with their lives. If it makes you happy and you aren’t hurting anyone or bronging society down, do whatever you want to do. We only get one life. Do what truly fulfills you.
/r/MensRights28/03/23 02:44 AM
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Exactly. That’s my point.
/r/MensRights26/03/23 02:39 PM
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Yeah, it’s definitely two entirely different categories.
/r/MensRights25/03/23 06:13 PM
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But it is a myth that masturbation is inherently bad for you. It’s only a problem if someone does it to the point where it’s effecting their responsibilities and personal relationships. Otherwise, the “problem” is just an imaginary myth being perpetrated.
/r/MensRights25/03/23 06:10 PM
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Firstly and most importantly, female genital mutilation is absolutely a problem. There are countries in the world that circumcise nearly 100% of their girls and women. They do it at birth, and they do it to older girls and women as punishment for innocent behavior. Sometimes they just cut the clitoris. Sometimes they cut the clitoris off and sew the vulva nearly shut. They rob the females of all sexual pleasure, making sexual contact not just desensitized, but painful, thus rendering the girl li…
/r/MensRights11/03/23 04:12 AM
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As a person who was once a teenage female, I can assure you catcalling by grown men was constant. Maybe that is not true for other females. I don’t know. For me, it was a very regular occurrence. You may not think it’s a big deal for grown men to yell sexually inappropriate comments at minors. You can say it’s “trivial”. You can think it’s “not a big deal”, but it has a lasting effect on young girls. “In 2022, women earned an average of 82% of what men earned, according to a new Pew Research Cen…
/r/MensRights10/03/23 09:27 PM
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Reproductive rights are under attack, and it effects both women and men.
/r/MensRights10/03/23 03:38 PM
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I understand why catcalling doesn’t seem like a big deal, but when you’re a 15 year old girl constantly dealing with men catcalling you, it gets old really fast. It’s disgusting. I am sorry you were circumcised without being able to consent. That’s unequivocally wrong. So is catcalling to kids (and adults), harassment against anyone, and inequality in pay for equal work. We’re all human. No one should have their genitals mutilated, earn less for equal work, have catcalls and sexually explicit ph…
/r/MensRights10/03/23 03:19 PM
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Daddy issues? Really? Could you reinforce sexual stereotype beliefs more?
/r/MensRights10/03/23 02:58 PM
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I think she was speaking to the “pink tax”, not blaming men in particular for the fact she has to buy tampons every month. Of course getting paid less isn’t directly your fault either. I don’t know what you mean by not being able to cook, but no one is blaming you for that. Some people can cook. Some can’t. It’s not effected by gender.
/r/MensRights10/03/23 02:57 PM
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That commenter who thought all women were trying to turn her lesbian is fucking insane. She belongs on r/notlikeotherfemales (or whatever it’s called), because she clearly thinks she’s special. I understand what the original poster was trying to say. People don’t always take harassment or stalking seriously, and it should never be laughed at, no matter the gender of the people involved. Many times I’ve been followed home as I walked through dark streets, just wanting to get home safely. It was t…
/r/MensRights10/03/23 02:50 PM
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Agreed.
/r/MensRights09/03/23 02:37 PM
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Your sister-in-law (the one who refused to even listen to your kind advice) seems like she was being willfully ignorant. I hate when people are like that. The least she could’ve done is at least read what you sent her and consider your advice. I hate how in movies and stuff they act like women are disgusted by uncircumcised men. They always make jokes about it, but I’ve never actually heard any of my female friends talk like that. But they keep perpetuating that stereotype, and that’s really sad…
/r/MensRights17/02/23 06:57 AM
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Whether he total mutilation is done for cultural reasons, religious purposes, or pseudo-scientific reasons, doesn’t matter. Just because people in the west are against female genital mutilation, that doesn’t make the battle won. Like I said, there are still other countries with bear 100% FGM rates. That’s unacceptable. Also. neither male nor female genital mutilation reduces the spread of HIV, but even if it did, no one should be okay with genital mutilation.
/r/MensRights17/02/23 06:31 AM
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We all gotta do what we gotta do. People can only control what they care about to a certain extent. As for me, I fucking wish I had better things to do right now. You’re lucky. The honest truth is a bit of column A, a bit of column B: I can’t help but be truly sincere, but maybe I should be doing something else with my time. I think I’m gonna go play some Kirby or have sex or read a book or some shit. I don’t know.
/r/MensRights17/02/23 06:18 AM
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Wow. That’s pretty fucked up. Who would do that to a person???? Honestly though, America regularly hands out unbelievably harsh jail/prison sentences to non-violent offenders. Our prisons are filled to the brim with people who aren’t a danger to society. We throw them in prison with people who actually are dangerous, and they do not come out “rehabilitated”. They come out worse. Men and women who were once minor offenders, learn violent tendencies and become rightly embittered towards society. I…
/r/MensRights14/02/23 06:58 AM
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Sometimes knowledge is good just for the sake of having it. You don’t need to hold great influence to further your education. You seem like a smart guy. I’m sure you get that, and I’m sure you get that I mean no offense to anyone. I just feel very strongly about circumcision for both men and women.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 06:52 AM
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Yeah. I know the line. That’s what I’m saying.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 06:43 AM
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In part because I was replying to someone who made a direct comparison to how one speaks to grade school children. I wasn’t the one who brought up that example. Someone else did. I find it condescending to speak to adult women and men like they have the learning capacity of a five year old. I understand that no one is an expert in everything, and sometimes things need to be explained simply. I love the “explain to me like I’m five” subreddit. But from the picture that was painted, it all seemed …
/r/MensRights14/02/23 06:42 AM
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It’s not fair to make that choice to alter someone’s body before they’re old enough to express what they want or even understand what’s being done to them.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 12:34 AM
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That’s insane. There are countries with nearly 100% FGM rates.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 12:31 AM
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I don’t know what you’re talking about. Find a condom that fits better.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 12:30 AM
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No. You speak to grown women like your five year old daughter. You’re just proving feminists’ points when you do that.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 12:22 AM
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Well, at least you acknowledge it’s possible. I encourage you to do more research.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 12:18 AM
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People like you are the reason I use Reddit. I enjoy talking to a stranger who can maybe teach me something new about my beliefs. I enjoy talking to people who instead just writing me off, listen to me. Mostly I just enjoy people that make me question and think twice. So thanks for being awesome, smart, and respectful.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 12:11 AM
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It just sounded condescending to me the way OP described it. I don’t know what else to say.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 12:05 AM
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Last chance for what? I’ve seen The Matrix like ten times. It’s a classic flick. At it’s least, it’s a great sci-if story. At most, it’s a metaphor for reality and perception.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 12:00 AM
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I don’t think rape applies here in that manner. We are talking about having choice taken away, so I understand the comparison coming up on the fringe of the conversation. But there’s definitely been comments that took the comparison too far.
/r/MensRights13/02/23 11:56 PM
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I don’t need a penis to know the science. Being uncircumcised is not “dirtier”.
/r/MensRights13/02/23 11:52 PM
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That’s the opposite of what I’m talking about. I believe in educated CHOICE. I’ve been clear about that. So why would I accept someone telling me to get a breast job? I’m all about bodily autonomy. And I won’t be getting off this sub, because I believe in the rights of men, and I believe in combating sexism against men. Just because I’m a woman, doesn’t mean I can’t care about men.
/r/MensRights13/02/23 11:50 PM
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I’m not trying to tell you what to do with your penis. That was done long before this post was ever made, by your parents, I assume. My entire point is you should do what you want with your penis, and it’s not my place or anyone else’s to make that choice for you! If you wanna get adult circumcision, go for it. If you don’t want kids, don’t have them! If you want to transition to female, sure, go for it! If you wanna be celibate, do it! If you want monogamy, do it! If you want many sexual partne…
/r/MensRights13/02/23 11:46 PM
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Just because I don’t have a dick, doesn’t mean I can’t know basic facts. Uncircumcised penises are not dirtier. Also, bodily autonomy does NOT equal forced pregnancies. Both men and women should be free to make their own choices. A woman shouldn’t be forced to carry an unwanted pregnancy to term, nor forced to have their genitals mutilated, nor raped, nor forced to have any medical procedure she doesn’t want. A man shouldn’t be forced to be genitally mutilated, nor raped, nor forced to be an act…
/r/MensRights13/02/23 11:35 PM
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Nobody is going to force me to be a parent if I don’t want to. Nobody is going to force me to carry an unwanted child to term and put my body through the stress and physical and psychological trauma of carrying an unwanted child to term. It is my choice whether I want to put my life on hold, whether it’s for nine months or a life time. It’s not my responsibility until it is viable outside of the womb. At that point, I have a responsibility. Until then, it’s just some cells growing inside of me. …
/r/MensRights13/02/23 11:27 PM
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You knew what I meant about “being alive”. You’re being purposefully obtuse.
/r/MensRights13/02/23 11:21 PM
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Sexual pleasure is absolutely diminished by removing the foreskin. Having foreskin increases pleasure for the man, as well as his partner. I am not saying that circumcised men can’t receive or give pleasure. They can, on both counts. But it is decreased on both counts when circumcised. Also, you don’t need to sarcastically tell me to learn how to use my dick, as if uncircumcised men don’t know what they’re doing. First of all, you don’t need to teach uncircumcised men how to use their dicks. I’m…
/r/MensRights13/02/23 11:19 PM
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I think most labiaplasty is probably elective cosmetic surgery. I know labiaplasty has become a big trend in the porn industry, which I think it stupid, but at least it’s their choice. The removal of the clitoris and closure of the vulva are far more consequential and dangerous than a labiaplasty, for sure. Some countries have nearly 100% rate of circumcision for their girls, and it leads to a lot of pain, suffering, and death. And it’s just normal. Just like circumcision of baby boys is “normal…
/r/MensRights13/02/23 11:07 PM
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I agree that female circumcision is worse than male, especially when they see the vulva nearly shut as well remove the clitoris. Risk of infection is worse, it’s more likely to be done by non-professionals, and is almost guaranteed to completely eradicate a woman’s ability to orgasm, as well as make sex painful. But just because female circumcision is worse, doesn’t make male circumcision good. I don’t blame or dislike circumcised men, I just wish they had a choice. I’ve dated circumcised men, s…
/r/MensRights13/02/23 10:58 PM
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Calling him a child rapist is beyond extreme, and I think you know that. Simmer down.
/r/MensRights13/02/23 03:50 AM
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I’m sorry you were assaulted and I’m sorry you were mutilated. Neither was a choice and neither was fair or okay.
/r/MensRights13/02/23 03:49 AM
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Why is he left wing?
/r/MensRights13/02/23 03:47 AM
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???? “You literally ended your comment by saying you talk to feminists like you talk to your five year old daughter.” Don’t take shit out of context.
/r/MensRights13/02/23 03:45 AM
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Yes!!!
/r/MensRights13/02/23 03:40 AM
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From a fellow layman’s perspective, it seems like unnecessary, invasive brutality. There’s no point to it. It’s cruel, and just because it’s normalized, doesn’t make it okay.Extreme pain and trauma followed by lifelong diminished to zero sensitivity is the best case scenario. Worst case scenario is fatal infection.
/r/MensRights13/02/23 03:39 AM
1

No one thinks adults should be spoken to like school children. Exactly. It’s condescending. If you don’t want to listen to me just because I you think I might believe in gender equality, that’s your choice. But you basically just agreed with what I said.
/r/MensRights13/02/23 03:22 AM
2

That is fucking disgusting. Countries with high HIV rates use that as an excuse to mutilate little boys and girls. It’s sick. It’s vile. It’s torture.
/r/MensRights13/02/23 12:19 AM
0

That makes sense from someone replying to me.
/r/MensRights13/02/23 12:17 AM
2

So you’re admitting I’m right about it decreasing sensitivity.
/r/MensRights13/02/23 12:16 AM
0

I can’t say whether the problem is on the receiving end or the giving end without knowing the couple personally. I know wherever the problem lies, it’s not innate to being male or female. I know I don’t like condescending people. That’s about all I can say with certainty.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 02:47 PM
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Yeah, I get how brutal it is. I still think it depends on the situation.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 02:44 PM
1

My comment wouldn’t post and then posted and is acting all weird, so I’m just deleting and starting again. Sorry for any confusion. You literally ended your comment by saying you talk to feminists like you talk to your five year old daughter. That’s what I’m talking about. I don’t know why you need examples of things my partner explains to me (not my husband, but that doesn’t matter), but an example would be something to do with web development or programming. Something like that where he knows …
/r/MensRights11/02/23 02:42 PM
2

My comment wouldn’t post and then posted and is acting all weird, so I’m just deleting and starting again. Sorry for any confusion. You literally ended your comment by saying you talk to feminists like you talk to your five year old daughter. That’s what I’m talking about. I don’t know why you need examples of things my partner explains to me (not my husband, but that doesn’t matter), but an example would be something to do with web development or programming. Something like that where he knows …
/r/MensRights11/02/23 02:42 PM
2

I’m sorry. You didn’t understand. I said neither. That means not one nor the other. It doesn’t mean you choose one or the other. Let’s say I have a bunch of apples, and I offer you a choice between two. If you don’t want either, you can say “neither”. Does that help explain?
/r/MensRights11/02/23 02:31 PM
7

First of all, men don’t have a clitoris. Secondly, it is fact that sexual pleasure is diminished for both the male and his partner when he is cut. It’s not his fault. A crime has been committed against him. But the facts remain.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 02:26 PM
3

You have no idea what condescending means to me outside of this conversation. Don’t act like you know me because I think adults shouldn’t be spoken to like school children.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 02:23 PM
1

Fair enough.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 02:15 PM
3

I assume you’re being sarcastic, so I’m gonna say good comparison. Fake science is fake science.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 02:05 PM
8

It’s really not cleaner or safer. And sex feels better for you and your partner if you’re uncircumcised.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 02:03 PM
5

Yeah. Saying you’ve heard horror stories about uncircumcised penises is like saying you’ve heard horror stories about feet or arms. An uncircumcised penis is just a natural body part. You want real horror stories, look up botched circumcisions.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 02:01 PM
4

Yes!
/r/MensRights11/02/23 01:58 PM
4

You are ridiculous. Everyone should have bodily autonomy. Sorry to tell you, a human being isn’t formed the second you come inside someone, and circumcision doesn’t make you cleaner.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 01:58 PM
4

It’s not true you’re more likely to get STDs. It is true that uncircumcised men are more sensitive, but that is a wonderful thing.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 01:54 PM
6

Not true.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 01:53 PM
4

What does it have to do with BLM? And what’s wrong with BLM?
/r/MensRights11/02/23 01:52 PM
5

Why would it be an issue? Ribbed condoms are actually made to mimic the natural feeling of an uncut penis.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 01:51 PM
1

As much as I’m anti-genital mutilation, I wouldn’t take it quite that far. Depends on the circumstance.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 01:49 PM
12

Circumcision does remove the most sensitive part, whether it’s male or female circumcision. Also, male circumcision diminishes pleasure for the partner. Uncircumcised men experience more pleasure because they still have that huge bundle of nerve endings. It’s incredibly sensitive.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 01:47 PM
7

I’m a woman. I’m more anti-circumcision than most men I know. I feel very, very, very strongly about it and I am whole-heartedly against the physical and psychological damage it causes.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 01:43 PM
5

Somebody finally gets me! Thank you.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 01:39 PM
10

For what it’s worth, I’m a woman, and I believe in gender equality, am a feminist, and I am a staunch advocate of ending genital mutilation. It’s an issue I feel very strongly about.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 01:38 PM
8

That’s a good point. I’ve never met an uncircumcised man who wasn’t thankful for his parents deciding to not mutilate him.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 01:34 PM
15

Are you kidding me? Would you want someone who is not a medical professional slicing your genitals up with little to no anesthetic? Do you know how many nerve endings are lost by boys when they lose their foreskin? The physical and emotional damage caused by genital mutilation cannot be overstated. Male and female mutilation leads to infection, pain, diminished sexual pleasure, necrosis, gangrene, and even death. Little boys still get cut like it’s nothing. Little girls have their clitorises sli…
/r/MensRights11/02/23 01:31 PM
1

I wouldn’t call being stupid a “wrong”, but sure, maybe. Why not? I don’t know the lady.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 01:19 PM
1

Haha yeah, it freaks out my friends and family when I use “work voice”. You’d think I was possessed or something.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 01:17 PM
0

Mansplaining and I’m a fucking idiot are my only choices? I choose neither.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 01:05 PM
1

So true. Whether it occurs to them or not how much danger they’re putting him in doesn’t really matter, because they don’t care either way. They aren’t like normal people. It doesn’t occur to them to care. It is beyond sick. It is evil. They are the absolute worst kind of people.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 12:30 PM
3

No. Anyone who is condescending is off putting. I don’t care if it’s a man or a woman.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 12:27 PM
2

Okay. So your girlfriend is smart, but you once had to explain an algorithm to her. So what? Everyone has moments like that. Sometimes my partner has to explain things to me, and sometimes I have to explain things to my partner. But neither of us do it as if we’re speaking to grade school children. We just talk to one another like adults. I know a lot of things other people don’t know. Other people know a lot of things I don’t know. We can still exchange ideas and not treat one another like litt…
/r/MensRights11/02/23 12:25 PM
2

Thanks. I’m most familiar with Ohio law, but I know it varies wildly, and some states have more severe divorce laws than others. My heart goes out to any person navigating their way through divorce. All you can do is hope the judge will be fair, and best case scenario, both parties walk away without regret.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 12:15 PM
2

Could be… I don’t know. Hard to say. I’m in the service industry and I pitch my voice up to sound friendlier and more feminine when I speak to customers, but I never talk like that in my private life. But there are other parts of my work personality that follow me home sometimes, so I do see your point. It’s definitely possible.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 12:10 PM
2

Yep. And lack of empathy is basically the worst quality a person can have. Anyone who starts a sentence with, “I love to be mean,” is not a person who should be dating any decent person.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 12:00 PM
3

That’s a fair enough critique. I absolutely believe adults should be able to do whatever they want to their own body. “Psycho” was a harsh word, and I didn’t mean to imply that they shouldn’t be allowed to make that choice, more so that I don’t understand that choice. Thanks for the feedback. I’ll be more selective with the words I choose next time.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 11:53 AM
0

If he’s just awkward than there’s no problem. Let the guy be awkward, I guess. Awkward people are great and it’s all good. But it sounds to me like he’s clearly making you uncomfortable, and if that’s the case, it’s gotta be more than just a little social strangeness. If he is putting you in a position of being uncomfortable, I don’t see why it’s your job to support him or make him feel comfortable. He clearly doesn’t feel the same way about supporting you or making you comfortable, so why is it…
/r/MensRights11/02/23 11:49 AM
3

I’m sure you’re one of the many who downvoted my comment, but I upvoted your comment because I wholeheartedly agree. I suppose I should have made that more clear in my original comment. Condescension is not a masculine or feminine trait. Anyone can do it.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 11:38 AM
2

Yeah, maybe she’s just dumb. I don’t know. I don’t know them. But yeah, possible she’s just dumb.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 11:30 AM
2

I get what you’re saying. Talking down to someone is not a masculine trait. It’s annoying and disrespectful, and women do it too. If someone talks down to me, I don’t automatically think it’s gender related, because that’s not a gender specific trait. Anyone can do it.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 11:29 AM
2

That’s the only explanation I can think of to talk that way. Maybe she’s just legit stupid.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 11:26 AM
1

This is really great advice and observation. I’ve had this issue with guys since I was 12 years old… you’re nice to them, and they think that means you’re their girlfriend. It’s a delicate situation to deal with, because you don’t want to further hurt them, but at the same time, you have to draw a line somewhere. It’s a really tricky situation to be in.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 03:25 AM
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He’s obviously making you uncomfortable. To me, that says that he’s behaving inappropriately and not listening or accepting your polite rejection. That’s not okay. Don’t let him do this to you. You get paid to do your job. You don’t get paid to provide him with hopes of a relationship or to provide him with masturbation fantasies. If he can’t pick up on your polite signals, you need to put your foot down. Be more blatant or forceful, or go to HR if you have to. Most guys or girls would just take…
/r/MensRights11/02/23 03:19 AM
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Anyone who “loves to be mean” to either gender is just a mean person.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 03:06 AM
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Masculinity is great. It’s fantastic. But explaining everything “slowly and simply” to your wife because that’s how you used to talk to your school children is just stupid.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 03:05 AM
103

Circumcision is a crime against boys. It’s a violent and unnecessary assault on our baby boys. It’s also an assault on girls and women. Western society needs to put an end to this barbarism against our boys. We can’t forget about our girls getting cut and sewed up either. Circumcision is traumatic for its recipient. It can also cause infection and even death. For women, you lose your ability to orgasm, and sex can be incredibly painful. Boys lose sensitivity and they’re robbed of a large percent…
/r/MensRights11/02/23 02:53 AM
1

I understand that. In my experience and my understanding of the law, the person who ends up having to pay out is based on income rather than gender. At least that’s the way it’s supposed to be. To be fair, men do make more income than women in general, although that gap is closing. When my parents got divorced, my dad had to pay child support, but he made a lot more than my mom. By the time I was 14, they both just kind of gave up on it anyways, and there wasn’t a lot of support paid after that.…
/r/MensRights11/02/23 02:29 AM
2

That sucks, but actually makes a lot of sense. It’s like when cities “clean up” a “bad” neighborhood, all the crime and poverty just moves down the street. It doesn’t disappear. I wish I could like your comment more than once. It’s an interesting history of this sub, as well as some really great commentary on what it means to believe in men’s rights.
/r/MensRights10/02/23 04:20 AM
1

Haha totally! Go to some fancy awards ceremony, hit up a yacht party, do some mansion swimming, and then go on your merry way. Sounds good to me.
/r/MensRights10/02/23 04:18 AM
2

It’s enraging. It’s like a train wreck though. I can’t look away. Psycho Karens screaming to 911 operators that they’re terrified for their safety and life. It is some of the most disgusting, racist, sexist, horrifying shit you’ll ever see. I cannot stress how racist these dumb bitches they are. They’re going to end up getting an innocent black man shot, acting like that. You can’t lie like that and scream and cry that your life is in danger. Some cops have an itchy trigger finger. Throw in the …
/r/MensRights09/02/23 10:40 AM
1

Have you seen the other two videos I was talking about?
/r/MensRights09/02/23 10:32 AM
7

Sometimes it can be hateful, to be honest. But nearly every sub has trolls and extremists. That’s par for the course. Most people in this community are kind and respectful. Most see it as a forum for equal rights, not as a forum for hatred and vitriol. How can anyone argue against equal human rights? It’s just a few bad apples giving a good philosophy a bad name. I won’t let hatred or idiocy on either side stop me from believing in the rights of men and women. Fuck people who bastardize men’s ri…
/r/MensRights09/02/23 09:43 AM
9

That’s fucked up. I’ve never personally experienced that regarding this sub, but I’d be pissed if that happened. I’ve been following this sub for a good while now, and in my experience, most people are reasonable. There is a loud minority of hateful extremists, but there’s also a ton of thoughtful, rational men and women who just believe in gender rights. They are the people I come here to talk with. I’d be enraged if I was banned just for engaging in civil discourse. OP doesn’t seem like a psyc…
/r/MensRights09/02/23 09:34 AM
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Damn. That’s super messed up. And here I thought I had been banned from subs for stupid reasons. You should be allowed to post wherever you want.
/r/MensRights09/02/23 09:27 AM
18

Did you seriously get banned in other subs? That’s tucked up. What happened?
/r/MensRights09/02/23 09:20 AM
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Absolutely. For sure. I’d take it a step further and say luckily we all have cameras. Every truthful person benefits from it, be they make, female, black, white, Asian, etc. I can’t think of a group of people who has deserved their truth being exposed more than black men though. They’ve been saying for decades this shit has been going on, and no one listened or believed them. Hard to deny the truth when it’s staring you right in the face.
/r/MensRights09/02/23 09:18 AM
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This is disgusting. Unfortunately, I’ve seen a thousand Karen videos like this. It reminds me of the Central Park woman with the dog, or the public park woman who flipped out over a cookout, etc. One of the great things about technology is that we all have cameras in our pockets. People are able to better prove the falsehoods rallied against them. It’s been helpful for both women and men alike in verifying the veracity of claims about daily treatment and interactions. Black men in particular hav…
/r/MensRights09/02/23 09:14 AM
15

“I wouldn’t date a nineteen year old personally. But who gives a fuck. It’s so weird to me how people are consistently saying people, especially women are children who can’t make their own decisions…” Preach! Who. Gives. A. Fuck. They’re adults! Let them sit next to each other or date or whatever the hell they were doing. I’d date Leo whether I was 18 or 90. Just like I would date Christina Hendricks regardless of my age, and she’s 47. Let’s be honest, most of us would date one or both them (dep…
/r/MensRights09/02/23 09:03 AM
1

I think it’s kind of rude to film at a gym, whether you’re male or female. It’s like filming at a doctor office. You’re technically allowed to, but it’s kind of in poor taste. A lot of people actually do go to the gym for health purposes, not just to admire themselves in the mirror. It just seems rude to film someone trying to better themselves in what should be a somewhat personal and private space to work on one’s self. With that said, if another gym member is behaving legitimately inappropria…
/r/MensRights09/02/23 08:50 AM
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Circumcision is a violent criminal act, whether it’s done against a baby boy or a baby girl, a man or a woman. It’s barbaric. It’s cruel. It’s dangerous. And it’s totally normalized in some countries. Genital mutilation is NOT normal!!! It’s not okay to cut off a boy’s foreskin, and it’s not okay to cut off a girl’s clitoris and even sew her vulva shut. It’s disgusting, it has ZERO health benefits, it’s not cleaner, and in fact, it’s actually dangerous and torturously painful for the recipient. …
/r/MensRights09/02/23 01:28 AM
2

Well said.
/r/MensRights09/02/23 01:17 AM
1

Yes! It’s such a great moment to realize you have a partner who really knows you. For me personally, i love having someone who just knows how I like my tea, coffee, steak, Manhattans, etc., especially since I’m so picky and weird about how I take my coffee, cocktails, meats, and whatnot. I looked up sexual peaks, and most people say men peak in their twenties and women in their thirties, but there’s so many differing opinions on the topic, that I’d say it’s hard to determine with any certainty. …
/r/MensRights04/02/23 02:03 AM
2

Your “ramblings” were very coherent and well thought out. They definitely gave me something to think about. And it’s so nice to meet a fellow MRA who sees through the Andrew Tate type bullshit infecting the movement and infecting social media right now. They take advantage of vulnerable people and take their money, and they have no right or qualifications to speak as “experts” on anything. You really do seem like a thoughtful guy, and I always enjoy when someone can really make me think and grow…
/r/MensRights31/01/23 02:48 PM
2

Wow. That was really good food for thought. It makes me think of past relationships I’ve had that were very passionate, but tumultuous on a constant basis. I wasn’t truly content. I was miserable with moments of bliss. You’re speaking truth. I have definitely known some golden apples with rotten cores. Those podcasts and TikTok and YouTube videos really are poison. I love your description of them as being shallow people trying to play the game better than other shallow people. It’s not at all he…
/r/MensRights31/01/23 03:00 AM
1

First of al, wow, that was really well said, what you said about winning at the game of being shallow. I couldn’t have said it better. Those online hustler classes are ridiculous, and men and women who treat dating like a competition are children. Also, different people for sure have different wants and needs. Some people want a true partner, some a friend to fuck, some a one night stand… it’s all well and good. Whatever someone is looking for at that point in their life is fine. Also agreed, It…
/r/MensRights30/01/23 09:41 PM
1

What’s that Latin phrase? Something about vinos veritas? This time it’s in vodka veritas. Sometimes both sides need to hear the honest truth. The good news is, women apparently peak sexually at a much older age. Not to give too much information, but that’s definitely true for me. I was very sexually adventurous in my twenties, but it’s different in my thirties… more pleasing. I wish you both the best in the future. It sounds like you’re on the right track.
/r/MensRights30/01/23 09:25 PM
0

It’s would never be my personal preference to wear things like thongs when exercising. But I can understand spandex and compression tops and whatnot. I think it’s pretty normal exercise clothing. Just like I wouldn’t wear a thong bikini, but I’ll wear a regular bikini. That’s normal. I just don’t see what the big deal is.
/r/MensRights30/01/23 09:19 PM
1

Yeah, I totally get that. If I didn’t get that point across properly, all I meant to say was, we’re all free to have preferences. Whether it’s what you prefer in another person, or what you prefer to do with your own body, it’s all good.
/r/MensRights30/01/23 01:36 AM
1

That makes a lot of sense, actually. I can totally understand her side and your side, so I’m glad it all worked out the end. Just curious, is there any particular thing that helped the two of you move passed that rough patch? I’ve never been married or had kids, but I think this can be a common problem for married couples, especially if they have children.
/r/MensRights30/01/23 01:32 AM
1

I just think if what you’re looking for is a healthy, sexual, monogamous relationship with your wife, you didn’t go about it in the healthiest or most respectful way. I don’t know if that would help. You know your situation better than I do, so maybe I’m dead wrong, but that’s just my reaction.
/r/MensRights30/01/23 01:21 AM
1

I’m not saying it never happens. I will say it depends on the person. People like what they like, and that varies wildly from person to person. As long as it’s legal and consensual, go for it.
/r/MensRights30/01/23 01:15 AM
1

Haha, I don’t go to professional gyms, outside of a rec center occasionally, but the taking endless photos would definitely make me eye roll. I still wouldn’t call them whores or anything, just eye roll at the over abundance of selfies. The workout clothes don’t really bother me.
/r/MensRights30/01/23 01:12 AM
1

Very true. Not all people have the highest standards for themselves or others. 100% agree. With that said, I find that being in their thirties doesn’t detract from most women’s beauty. I would absolutely date a woman in her thirties.
/r/MensRights30/01/23 01:09 AM
1

Not necessarily. But I’m still saying I can’t think of a single woman I’ve ever known in my entire existence that had trouble finding a date. If anything, it’s the opposite.
/r/MensRights29/01/23 05:29 AM
2

I’m not special. There’s no reason I wouldn’t have a pretty normal experience.
/r/MensRights29/01/23 04:50 AM
1

Or you can go on TikTok and look at all the pathetic videos on how to pick up women and get them to like you. Those are hilarious. They’re a dime a dozen, and they’re all pathetic. I don’t see women posting videos like that.
/r/MensRights29/01/23 04:45 AM
2

That’s a good point. It used to be far more difficult to leave a toxic relationship. At least now there’s more resources and support for people who want to leave abusive situations.
/r/MensRights29/01/23 04:42 AM
1

So true!
/r/MensRights29/01/23 04:40 AM
1

So true!!! Sometimes people could still be with someone, but are single for a good reason, like leaving an abuser.
/r/MensRights29/01/23 04:32 AM
1

I have no reason to believe it’s a freaky, random statistical anomaly that all the women I’ve ever known in my life have or had no trouble getting dates in their thirties. It’s not as if I or the women I know are special. It’s more logical to conclude it’s easy for a woman in her thirties to find a date.
/r/MensRights29/01/23 04:30 AM
1

Just don’t ever be like me and let one bad experience ruin what could be future happiness.
/r/MensRights29/01/23 04:24 AM
0

How am I missing the point? You’re free to have your preference. Other people are free to do whatever they want with their own bodies. What point did I miss by saying that?
/r/MensRights29/01/23 04:22 AM
1

My idea of a self-proclaimed “alpha male” is the kind of guy who looks up to Andrew Tate, who spends obscene amounts of his income on online classes about how to get laid, who disrespects and harasses women, but thinks he’s a lady’s man. Any of those descriptors fit. Some self-described “alpha males” would deserve far worse descriptors, but that’s the basic idea… Andrew Tate and all those TikTok douche bags.
/r/MensRights29/01/23 04:20 AM
1

It’s also funny when single men in their thirties judge women for being single in their thirties. What is that about?
/r/MensRights29/01/23 04:13 AM
1

You took the words out of my mouth. I especially like, “There are plenty of deadbeat losers among each gender.” Preach!
/r/MensRights29/01/23 04:12 AM
-2

You sure sound angry.
/r/MensRights29/01/23 04:10 AM
1

Meh. It is what you make of it.
/r/MensRights29/01/23 04:08 AM
0

Yeah, you’re allowed to have your preference, but they’re allowed to do whatever to their body.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 11:21 PM
1

That could be true. Sounds about right ha
/r/MensRights28/01/23 11:18 PM
2

As a bisexual female, I had a terrible and toxic relationship with another female that turned me off to women for a while. But I can’t help what I’m attracted to. I really can’t. I hope to be able to explore that side of my sexuality more someday. That would make me happy. I hope you find someone to make you happy as well. Just keep an open mind.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 11:17 PM
1

Self-proclaimed alphas don’t need to say it. Their douchiness is written all over their face.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 11:13 PM
2

Fair enough.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 11:11 PM
0

Shitty for you, maybe.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 11:10 PM
1

Who the fuck is crying over who DiCaprio dates?
/r/MensRights28/01/23 11:08 PM
2

If that’s the main reason we have sexual desire, than the same would be said for women desiring young men. Most people just want companionship. They want someone who likes the things they like, who remembers the same things they remember from childhood… It’s fine to be with an older or younger person. A far larger indication of attraction is compatibility and physical desire.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 11:02 PM
2

Right. Who are we to assume why a man or woman is single in their thirties? It’s actually incredibly common nowadays.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 10:55 PM
-3

Keep dreaming.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 10:53 PM
1

What reason is that?
/r/MensRights28/01/23 10:52 PM
1

Neither was the right woman for you, obviously. It is what it is.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 10:50 PM
1

Maybe you’re just not attracted to women, and that’s okay.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 10:48 PM
2

Nah, man. Self-proclaimed alpha males are a whole different thing. They’re the saddest of the saddest.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 10:46 PM
0

God forbid someone sets their age preference to somewhat match their own age.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 10:42 PM
2

My dad also married a woman over a decade younger than him, but he loves her for her. He doesn’t love her because she’s younger.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 10:38 PM
1

That’s ridiculous. My dad and my step-mom have about the same age difference, and no one has ever blinked an eye.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 10:36 PM
-1

Why wouldn’t the answer for anyone be “their body, their choice”?
/r/MensRights28/01/23 10:35 PM
1

Ha? I don’t know what you want me to say to that.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 10:31 PM
1

I’m in my thirties and I’ve never had a problem getting men or women.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 10:27 PM
1

Angry men who can’t get laid so they make shit up about grown women.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 10:27 PM
2

Wearing a leotard is necessary to judge an Olympic gymnast. It doesn’t make them a whore. The judges need to see body movement. What would you have them wear?
/r/MensRights28/01/23 10:25 PM
0

Clearly, he’s not any of their target market.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 10:21 PM
0

Yeah. He’s a natural Winston Churchill with his public hair jokes. (And a complete misunderstanding of vaginas in their thirties.)
/r/MensRights28/01/23 10:19 PM
0

I’m not getting emotional. I’m saying most women of my age have no problem getting dates.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 09:53 PM
0

That’s ridiculous. I’m in my thirties, and I still get hit on constantly. If I wasn’t in a committed relationship, I’d have no trouble getting a date. Neither would any of my peers. People can date whomever they want to date, but women who are 30+ are having no wide spread issue of finding partners, and they certainly aren’t crying into their pillow every time some guy gets married.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 09:42 PM
-2

It’s still a ridiculous notion, either way. Women aren’t wringing their hands over every man who gets engaged.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 09:23 PM
-2

Assuming women are just devastated because you’re no longer in the dating pool. Congrats on your engagement, but pretty much all women would just congratulate you and not care. Their hearts aren’t ripped in two and they didn’t lose the light in their eyes because you left the dating pool. That wouldn’t even happen if Chris Hemsworth was taken off the market. No one cares or is losing their light or whatever. I wish you the best in your marriage though.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 09:05 PM
2

Really well said. As long as it’s consenting adults, I don’t care what people do. I have also always been open to men and women of different ages. I get that some people want younger women, and that’s fine. I don’t want to date someone who doesn’t want me. I just don’t like how disrespectful some people can be to women in their thirties or older.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 03:39 PM
2

That might be the most narcissistic thing I’ve read all year. It actually made me laugh.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 10:30 AM
4

Being called a “neckbeard” has nothing to do with shaving.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 10:27 AM
4

I’m a thirty-plus year old woman, and I see no problem with men dating younger women. I have and would date younger men, if I was still single. There’s nothing wrong with someone in their 30s dating someone in their 20s. Personally, I don’t find younger people to be overall more attractive, but if you do, that’s fine. STDs vary wildly depending on age. Some STDs are actually far more prevalent in young people; some are far more prevalent in older people. The people with the lowest number of STDs…
/r/MensRights28/01/23 10:19 AM
-1

Men and women should make their own life choices and their own medical choices. People should have bodily autonomy. It’s no one’s business to interfere in someone else’s life like that.
/r/MensRights21/01/23 08:24 PM
0

Then those people are extremist idiots. I’ve never in my life met someone that would think forced vasectomies on boys would be a good idea. That’s so asinine.
/r/MensRights21/01/23 08:23 PM
-3

I think comparing this psycho to the average feminist is like comparing a member of ISIS to the average Muslim. She’s an idiot and an extremist. I 100% agree that it’s hypocritical to fight for bodily autonomy for women, but take it away for men. Both should have the right to choose what to do with their own body. Men and boys shouldn’t be forced to have vasectomies they don’t want. Women and girls shouldn’t be forced to have babies they don’t want. Period.
/r/MensRights21/01/23 03:39 AM
7

Oh my god. This has to be a troll (at least I hope it is). This is stupid on SO many levels. First of all, while vasectomies are almost always reversible, some are not. And the longer you have a vasectomy, the more likely it becomes to be irreversible. Second of all, you can’t force people to have unnecessary invasive medical procedures that they don’t want to have. Even if a person is dying, you can’t force them to get a necessary procedure that will save them if they don’t want it. How about y…
/r/MensRights21/01/23 03:32 AM
2

Wow. Congratulations on nearly 40 years together. That’s beautiful. And I think it’s fantastic that you still care enough to put in the effort to deal with any issues you have. I’ve been with my guy for nearly 20 years, and I thought that was a long time! I truly hope I’m lucky enough to still be with him in another twenty years. I’m no expert, but I recommend being open and vocalizing your needs to one another. I know that can be difficult for someone who was raised religious, but it can be don…
/r/MensRights20/01/23 06:29 PM
0

You’re welcome. Maybe consider reading more if you think a small handful of sentences is an essay. Or maybe you just don’t like reading, and that’s fine too. Not being sarcastic. At least, not for the second part. You do you.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 05:33 PM
2

I appreciate that. Well said.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 05:29 PM
1

How did I defend abuse?
/r/MensRights20/01/23 07:16 AM
1

I haven’t defended abuse at all. I hope it’s not a case of abuse. If it is, I hope he leaves her. I don’t defend abuse by women or men. You’re making assumptions about me and I don’t know why.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 07:14 AM
0

As soon as you found out I was a woman, you said, “Nevermind. You’re a woman. Typical.” And then went on to assume I’m abusive. Seems like you have preconceptions. I’m not pulling this shit out of the air. I would never say, “Oh, nevermind. You’re a man. There’s no sense in talking to you.”
/r/MensRights20/01/23 07:10 AM
1

I don’t know why you think all women are abusive, but I hope you can find a friend or girlfriend or whatever else who will change your mind. Women have the same capacity for kindness as men. There are a lot of amazing women out there, just like there’s a lot of great men.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 06:58 AM
1

I absolutely made an assumption about this situation. To be clear, I’m not privy to the details, and I can’t speak for either party involved. All I was saying is hopefully it’s just a case of someone being mad at their partner, and not wanting to have sex because of that. Hopefully it was not a case of manipulation. I don’t know the motives for sure. I don’t mean to write off abuse of men. The world does that enough. I don’t want to add to the swath of people who disregard female on male abuse. …
/r/MensRights20/01/23 06:56 AM
1

Empathy is the greatest quality a person can have. I didn’t say it’s bad to be empathetic. I said I hold both genders to the same standard.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 01:32 AM
2

Totally. Hopefully they’ll listen. If they don’t listen, I’m still gonna hate the bitch (or jerk, in other cases), and I won’t stop trying to make them see the light. People need to hear the hard truths from their friends sometimes.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 01:08 AM
2

I’m a pessimist usually, but I’ll agree to that. Here’s to optimism.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 12:54 AM
2

Maybe things got a little too heated too quickly. Creepy is an awful thing to call a man. Maybe I was a little hyped up when I said that. I’m not usually like that. I don’t usually like falling back on base insults. I don’t know you. I don’t know your life experience. I apologize that I insulted you. I was having insults thrown at me left and right. Had I been less heated in that moment, I would have taken a different path maybe. I just don’t want men to think all women are awful. Or vice versa.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 12:53 AM
1

I honestly didn’t understand that comment when you first sent it. If I knew a woman or man who was actively being sexually manipulative right now, I would tell them it’s wrong. All I can say is that I condemn anyone, male or female, who manipulates and abuses their partners.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 12:46 AM
1

You’re totally free to respond to shitty behavior however you want. As long as there’s no abuse, assault, etc., people are free to do whatever they want. I’m not gonna judge someone unless they become violent or abusive or racist or homophobic or sexist, or abusive in some other way. So, you do you. You’ll find no complaints from me. There’s nothing wrong with casual sex. Live your life. It doesn’t mean I won’t defend myself if my own character is attacked.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 12:43 AM
1

Not gonna lie, your response is funny. I respect the wit. It’s very Churchillian of you. You obviously aren’t an idiot. You must realize it’s a big world out there, with manipulative people of both genders. Men and women are both capable of being awful people.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 12:33 AM
1

I’m not defending abuse. It’s wrong for a man or a woman to use sex as a tool to get what they want. (I would think that whether I was a male or a female.) I would also assume that most men or women usually don’t want to have sex when they’re upset or fighting. (I would also know that, whether I was a man or a woman.) You think just because I’m a female, that I must have done the exact thing I’ve been calling childish and manipulative. Like just because I’m a woman, I must be abusive. I’ve never…
/r/MensRights20/01/23 12:26 AM
0

I understand the difference between “applaud” and “understand”. I didn’t say or mean the words were synonymous. I said it’s hypocritical to applaud or understand behavior like that for one gender, but not the other. It’s stupid no matter who does it.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 12:19 AM
1

I hope I’m right, but it’s possible OP is being manipulated. Hope not. That’s some childish, dumb shit to pull.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 12:16 AM
0

I like to spend time on Reddit. So sue me. I’m pretty sure everyone here would say the same thing, hence us all having accounts and replying. Whether I want to spend my free time on Reddit, playing video games, fucking, or just lying around with my cats and reading books and feeding squirrels, what difference does it make to you? If you don’t like it, don’t respond. Or keep responding and calling women you disagree with “bitches”. I get along great with men. I have female friends, but most of my…
/r/MensRights19/01/23 11:57 PM
1

Fair enough. It’s something both genders do, and it’s stupid.
/r/MensRights19/01/23 11:48 PM
1

I honestly don’t know enough about this situation to say anything with 100% certainty. I just think it’s natural for a man or woman to not want to have sex with someone they’re upset with, thus likely that this could be the case. If my assumption is wrong, and she’s basically withholding sex just to get her way, that’s stupid. It would be stupid whether it was a man or woman doing it.
/r/MensRights19/01/23 11:47 PM
1

I literally said people shouldn’t play games. You said you had a better idea, and then went off on some weird tangent about me screenshotting myself.
/r/MensRights19/01/23 11:43 PM
1

I’ve been with the same person since college, and we have always respected one another. Our relationship is fucking solid as diamond, and we both treat each other with respect. We also both have a shared hatred of passive-aggressive behavior. I dated a passive-aggressive guy once (and before you start accusing me of hating men, I dated a passive-aggressive woman). They are both good friends, but were beyond aggravating to be with romantically. I’m still friends with both of them, but their child…
/r/MensRights19/01/23 11:41 PM
2

If I’ve misunderstood any comments, my apologies. I know OP was talking in a much more general sense. Some of the comments seemed to be saying if you pay your significant other’s rent, they have some obligation to provide sex whenever it’s wanted. As far as that goes, I hope I am wrong, because that’s a terrible way to look at a relationship. In direct regards to what OP said (leaving all commenters out of the equation), I think it’s messed up if someone withholds sex to get their way. That’s al…
/r/MensRights19/01/23 11:32 PM
2

When I said rose colored glasses can be a blessing or a curse, I didnt mean exclusively for abusive relationships. Like I said, I hate to see anyone taken advantage of or abused in any way, and it can be very difficult to watch a friend stay with a negative person. You can’t force anyone to do what’s right, but you can be there for your friend and hope they wise up eventually. Rose colored glasses in an abusive relationship are terrible, and can even be dangerous. On the other hand, in a healthy…
/r/MensRights19/01/23 11:26 PM
1

What am I misunderstanding?
/r/MensRights18/01/23 11:28 PM
3

I’m not saying that at all.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 11:26 PM
1

It’s not about male hypocrisy. It happens with women too. There’s absolutely hypocrites on both sides. Whether you want to use the word “understand” instead of “applaud”, the same hypocrisy remains: it’s okay for one side to use sex to manipulate, but not okay for the other. I’m just saying it’s a shitty tactic for either side.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 10:05 PM
2

That’s interesting. I didn’t know that. I don’t have kids. I wonder if there’s not some innate biological cause to that. I’ve heard of women losing their sex drive after having kids, or men seeing their wives as mothers instead of lovers after having kids. Stuff like that. I don’t know what causes it. I think it can be overcome. I honestly hope so, because everyone should enjoy a healthy sex live, even after having kids. Maybe even especially after having kids. Whatever issues you and your wife …
/r/MensRights18/01/23 09:59 PM
2

Okay. I’ll acknowledge that sex can be used to emotionally abuse someone. But there’s a difference between not wanting to have sex and using sex as a weapon. The two aren’t always mutually exclusive.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 09:48 PM
-2

Got them guts? I think you’re doing it wrong. In more ways than one.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 09:45 PM
-1

I’m focused on your response because you’re the person I’m currently responding to.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 09:44 PM
0

Like I said, don’t be surprised when you’re met with childish bitches when you act like a childish bitch.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 06:57 PM
0

That’s why I included both words.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 06:55 PM
1

What?
/r/MensRights18/01/23 06:55 PM
1

Games are stupid. Casual sex is fine. There’s a way to have casual sex like adults. Relationships are also fine. They can also be handled like adults. Saying you don’t give a fuck anyways after you already got what you wanted… those are child’s games. Planning dastardly deeds is child’s games. Either be in a relationship, have casual sex, or be celibate. But do it like a man. If you don’t, don’t be surprised when you’re met with childish bitches. You get what you put out.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 06:52 PM
-2

Or you could just not play games. You could be adults.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 06:43 PM
-3

Again… creepy.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 06:39 PM
1

I would agree that anyone in a monogamous relationship has made an agreement to be faithful. All I meant was that no one has an obligation or requirement to have sex when they don’t want to. It could be a symptom of a deeper issue, but they still shouldn’t be forced. But yeah, a mutually agreed upon expectation of monogamy should be honored.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 06:38 PM
2

Yeah, there’s always a lot to consider, especially as your history grows longer. I’m sorry you went through that. I hope it worked out. I can’t imagine how difficult it would be to have issues with someone you have children with. That’s probably the roughest example I can think of for “it’s complicated”.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 06:34 PM
3

I don’t agree with either side using sex as a weapon. I just think it’s hypocritical to get upset when one party uses sex as a defense, and then applaud when the other side does it.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 06:30 PM
1

You aren’t a victim because somebody else won’t have sex with you.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 06:28 PM
3

Fair enough. Some people either don’t want to leave or it’s a very difficult option to leave. Sex is important to a relationship. So just saying, leave if you don’t like it, is often easier said than done.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 06:27 PM
-2

I don’t like to see people walked all over either. I had a friend who dated someone who just treated them like a personal servant. They were constantly berating and putting down. It’s hard to watch, especially when it’s someone you care about as a friend. I hope things don’t get worse for your friend, but sometimes it has to get worse before it can end or get better. All you can do is be there as a friend. I guess when all is said and done, rose colored glasses can be a blessing or a curse, depe…
/r/MensRights18/01/23 06:25 PM
-4

Wow. You’ve clearly figured out the female psyche and put a lot of thought into how to break an already broken and fragile woman. You for the win.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 06:16 PM
2

I’m a female, and sex has never been less important to me than my partners. We’ve always been pretty equal. If that’s not the case for you, you’re in the minority. I’ll agree with you that if it’s being used indefinitely for no reason, then that’s a shitty move. It is absolutely manipulative. I just don’t think sex matters less to women.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 06:13 PM
-2

“Do the Creep” is satire. They’re making fun of dudes like that. They’re laughing at them. Have fun with your “DASTARDLY” deeds.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 06:09 PM
4

Holy shit! What millennium are you living in?
/r/MensRights18/01/23 06:07 PM
-2

You can’t require a person to have sex when they don’t want to.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 06:06 PM
6

Exactly. That’s what I’m saying. Rent is not a sexual transaction. Not having sex is signs of deeper problems.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 03:54 PM
-2

I say it’s rare for men and women.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 03:52 PM
4

They have the option to work the problem out. They have the option to leave. No one has an obligation to stay or have sex.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 03:51 PM
-21

Love does give you rose colored glasses. It’s called empathy. It’s a desire to work it out. Nobody is perfect, but if you’re lucky you can be perfect to someone and find someone who is perfect to you. Something about her clearly makes him happy, and he must make her happy. Good for them.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 03:48 PM
3

Agreed.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 03:43 PM
-2

Sounds like you’re the one who used sex as a weapon.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 03:42 PM
-3

Not if the man is good. Who is gonna punish themselves like that? Sorry for your troubles.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 03:41 PM
-6

Creepy.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 03:40 PM
-4

Oh yeah. Women are so turned on by men that cheat.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 03:39 PM
1

So, use sex as a weapon?
/r/MensRights18/01/23 03:38 PM
-12

Are you using a sugar daddy site to find women? Or do you just expect any woman or man you buy a gift to have sex with you?
/r/MensRights18/01/23 03:37 PM
-27

You have a very juvenile view of women.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 03:34 PM
-14

Sounds like he got off on anticipation. To each their own.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 03:31 PM
0

So, when you and your wife are angry with each other, if you don’t want to have sex it’s because you’re angry and not in the mood, but if she doesn’t she’s a withholding, manipulative bitch?
/r/MensRights18/01/23 03:30 PM
7

I agree with everything you said. If a woman or a man uses sex as a weapon against you, leave them. But he’s talking about buying prostitutes to punish his partner. I’m not morally against paying for sex, but how is that any different than withholding? You’re both using sex as a weapon! It’s gross. Like you said, sex is an equal value exchange.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 03:27 PM
-2

Ew.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 03:22 PM
-1

Wife or husband, no one has an obligation to have sex with someone when they don’t want to.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 03:21 PM
-3

Why are you talking about sex with teenage girls? Teenage girls are out in droves using sex to get their rent paid. This is a conversation about adult relationships. Seriously, why do you go straight to being upset about teen girls withholding sex? I truly hope you’re a teenager.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 03:20 PM
-6

She’s not a prostitute. Maybe she does all the housework. Maybe she’s raising the kids. Maybe she does nothing but be there. Whatever the case, she doesn’t owe him sex for paying rent. I’ve been in relationships where I made more than my partner, relationships where my partner made more than me, and relationships where it was pretty equal. I never expected sex in return for my money, and no partner ever expected sex in return for money. My sexual partnerships have never been contingent on income…
/r/MensRights18/01/23 03:16 PM
3

It’s understandable to not have sex with someone you’re in a fight with. It doesn’t mean a woman is punishing her partner, it just means that arguing and disagreeing is not an aphrodisiac. What do you expect? Women (or men) to just drop their pants when they’re upset with one another? Hate fucking/anger sex is definitely a real and beautiful thing, but it’s not always going to happen. Usually, the issue needs to be resolved before anyone’s libido can be reignited.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 03:07 PM
-16

He must have a reason for defending her.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 03:01 PM
19

Agreed. She’s not obligated to have sex with him. He’s not obligated to pay the full rent without help. They need to break up or figure their shit out, but exchanging rent for sex is not the answer. It would fix nothing, and it’s not the anyone’s obligation to fuck or pay for anyone they don’t want to fuck or pay for.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 03:00 PM
5

That’s not cool that she’s blabbing about it. I mean, it’s fine to vent privately to your mother, but to do it in a public forum, loud enough for others to hear, is not cool. But it’s also not cool to expect sex in exchange for rent. If two people are together and not having sex, that is usually a sign that there are issues in the relationship, but rent has nothing to do with it. Paying someone’s rent, whether you’re a male or a female, does not entitle you to sexual favors from the other person…
/r/MensRights18/01/23 02:57 PM
3

I’m a bisexual female. I’ve been with both men and a woman who did this. I think it was more about them not wanting to be intimate when they’re upset, than some kind of punishment. If you’re going to punish someone, why do something that punishes you as well, ya know? It’s more about them just not wanting to be affectionate or intimate with someone they’re fighting with or upset with at the moment… at least in my experience with men and women.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 02:53 PM
30

Yeesh. Those are some intense answers.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 12:08 AM
1

If you say so. Either way, I have no desire to go backwards as a society. People are always using “Twinkie defenses”, but I really don’t see a ton of people (men or women) getting away with these types of defenses. Everyone deserves a fair trial, and if some dumbass wants to risk using a Twinkie defense, that’s their right and their risk to take. It is a huge risk, and in the end, it’s up to a jury and/or judge, of course.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 12:05 AM
0

I already said in another comment that if a man isn’t sure, he should just wear a condom. I think I’ve said that twice in comments on this post. That doesn’t change the fact that most vasectomies are reversible. It’s up to the man to make an informed decision for himself and to decide for himself what risks he’s willing to take. It’s not up to you to tell other people what to do with their bodies.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 11:58 PM
-1

It’s not misinformation. They are reversible. I would still recommend to any man getting a vasectomy that he’s certain in his decision.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 02:48 AM
1

Seriously? Western society. And beyond.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 02:46 AM
0

Yeah well, abortions are expensive too. This is why I suggest people just use common sense and wear condoms if they’re not sure what they want.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 02:45 AM
1

Ah yes, let’s go back to good old days. Make America great again, and all that stupid shit. Let’s be afraid of progress.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 02:43 AM
1

Yeah. Everybody should have control over who they want to have kids with. That’s what birth control is for.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 02:41 AM
0

So, if there’s not a huge problem and swath of mothers changing their child’s sex, why even bring it up?
/r/MensRights17/01/23 02:40 AM
1

It is quite the contradiction.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 02:38 AM
1

Exactly.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 02:36 AM
0

Hahaha women can’t get baby trapped? That’s a joke.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 02:35 AM
-2

If you don’t want kids, get a vasectomy. It’s a great way to avoid paying for child care you never wanted to be a part of or getting into a custody argument. But I still say it’s stupid to be afraid of women.
/r/MensRights15/01/23 10:40 PM
-3

I’ve seen family court first hand. Men should get vasectomies if they want. I just think it’s stupid to be afraid of all women.
/r/MensRights15/01/23 10:25 PM
7

I don’t know about that fifty year old case. I’m not familiar with it, so I can’t really speak to that.
/r/MensRights15/01/23 10:23 PM
2

They can though…
/r/MensRights15/01/23 10:14 PM
-4

There is not a pandemic of mothers changing the sex of their babies, and vasectomies are reversible. It’s not a big deal. I trust men to make that decision for themselves.
/r/MensRights15/01/23 10:14 PM
-3

Men should get vasectomies because they don’t want children, not because they’re afraid of women.
/r/MensRights15/01/23 10:12 PM
5

I absolutely think men should be able to get vasectomies if they choose. Anyone who says otherwise can fuck off.
/r/MensRights15/01/23 10:10 PM
16

Who got off of a murder charge because of PMS?
/r/MensRights15/01/23 10:08 PM
1

I think it’s just a harmless metaphor. Lyrics are often filled with metaphor.
/r/MensRights15/01/23 10:03 PM
2

Story of my freaking life.
/r/MensRights14/01/23 03:30 AM
2

What point is that?
/r/MensRights08/01/23 08:04 AM
0

Haha that’s really funny. Gave me a good laugh and some needed perspective.
/r/MensRights08/01/23 08:03 AM
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Wow. Just wow. So you speak for everyone now? This is why you “don’t like my kind here”? And you’re openly admitting that “my kind” gets shit on here, right after you incredulously demand proof of it. Just wow. You are a piece of work. Cool job making the bold text though. Very emphatic. What is that, HTML?
/r/MensRights08/01/23 08:01 AM
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Cool. Again, with the fake quotes. You know it’s bad when you have to make up what the other person is saying.
/r/MensRights08/01/23 07:55 AM
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You do you. If you want to dig through my comments and posts, go for it. If you don’t want to, don’t. I don’t care either way. But I’m not digging through them for you. You can attribute as many fake quotes and fabricated girlish giggles to me as you want.
/r/MensRights08/01/23 07:53 AM
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It amazes me that people downvote comments like this! I upvoted you to try to undo whatever dumbass downvoted.
/r/MensRights08/01/23 07:38 AM
1

I’m sorry. Why do I need to spend hours to read through my comment history, 99% of which has nothing to do with this sub, and report back to you? If you care so much, you do it. My history is public and accessible. Have at it if it means that much to you. I have said nothing untrue and have nothing to hide. Enjoy your reading.
/r/MensRights08/01/23 07:34 AM
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Feel free to dig into my history of comments and posts. There’s a fair amount and will probably take you a few hours, but you do what you gotta do.
/r/MensRights08/01/23 07:30 AM
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Feel free to spend the next three hours going through years of my post/comment history if it’s that important to you. I have nothing to hide. It’s all public.
/r/MensRights08/01/23 07:29 AM
-1

I think that kind of sexist hatred needs to be cut out like a cancer in MRA and feminism. Straight ignorance is all it is.
/r/MensRights08/01/23 07:20 AM
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How is that false? Feel free to go through my comment history.
/r/MensRights08/01/23 07:18 AM
0

Well, you sound like a good guy. I always downvote anything disrespectful too. It doesn’t further the cause or conversation.
/r/MensRights08/01/23 07:16 AM
1

Who the fuck is we?
/r/MensRights08/01/23 07:14 AM
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In my experience, it’s always privileged people who shit all over someone else’s experience, instead of asking what their experience was. But I’m not talking about a smidge of disrespect. I’m talking about being called a whore, a bitch in need of a leash, incapable of male level thought, being told I need to be a good dog and do as I’m told. Why would you anyone treat a fellow MRA like that? How is that just a smidge of disrespect?
/r/MensRights08/01/23 07:12 AM
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I appreciate your respectful tone. But I’m not here to lecture anybody. I just believe in men’s rights, and want to take part in the conversation. If the moderator requested that females not give their opinion, I’d just unjoin the sub. A lot of the things that have been said to me were said just because I admitted to being female and/or admitting to believing in gender equality. It doesn’t feel like a safe space for me anymore when I’m getting called a whore or compared to a dog/bitch who got of…
/r/MensRights08/01/23 07:04 AM
1

I appreciate the welcoming attitude, but I’ve been a member for a long time. I know there a lot of really decent, kind, normal, intelligent men that frequent this sub. But sometimes the minority can be louder than the majority. I joined this sub because I truly and wholeheartedly believe in human rights, and that obviously and absolutely includes men. But the second people find out I’m a female or that I believe in women’s rights, I get insulted in ways that would shock most people, and even thr…
/r/MensRights08/01/23 06:49 AM
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I’m a woman who joined this sub because I believed in MRA, but the way I’ve been talked to, treated, and disrespected, makes me want to just walk away from it all.
/r/MensRights07/01/23 11:53 PM
2

Wow!!! You are amazingly mature for your age. I was totally assuming you were at least in your thirties, if not older. You show a lot of wisdom, empathy, and intelligence for a young person. All I can say is, you’re more of a man than some of the grown, older adults I’ve met in my life. Truly. I’m still totally split in MGTOW. On the one hand, I have spoken to individuals who were fair-minded and logical. On the other, I’ve seen swaths of awful, hateful posts and comments from others. I guess it…
/r/MensRights30/12/22 07:17 AM
1

This is such a great post and fun conversation starter. I believe everyone has masculinity and femininity. As a female, I think it’s fantastic when men just don’t give a fuck and are like, yeah I like musicals, so what? It’s bullshit that some men and women judge men for having feminine interests. It’s so stupid. Like, who doesn’t love a fruity girly drink? They’re delicious! I’d never judge a man for ordering a cosmo. I’m from a large family, and when me and my siblings were little, we played e…
/r/MensRights22/12/22 12:34 AM
2

So true. Yeah, there’s plenty of attractive people out there with great personality, but I wouldn’t exactly say that being extremely attractive does anything to build character. That’s why I’m always pleasantly surprised when someone totally gorgeous is funny.(Sorry, beautiful people, but it’s true.) Maybe that’s also why beautiful people are stereotyped as being unintelligent. I just try my best not to make assumptions and give people a chance regardless of how they look. Of course, it’s only h…
/r/MensRights07/12/22 07:09 AM
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As a female, I’ve been held verbally hostage by both men and women. In regards to attractiveness, it happens more often with very attractive people. But as far as male and female goes, it’s pretty equal.
/r/MensRights06/12/22 11:05 AM
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Honestly, I’m not gonna judge the situation, because I wasn’t there. For all I know, the guy was being creepy. For all I know he wasn’t. If he was being creepy, I’d appreciate someone looking out for my kid.
/r/MensRights06/12/22 12:33 AM
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I don’t know. I still think pretty much everyone appreciates physical beauty, some people more than others. Everyone has their type. Personally, my ideal for men is Beck, and for women is Marilyn Monroe. Some people are a bit shallow or stubborn and won’t step outside of their ideal; some are more than capable of being attracted to someone outside their ideal. Personally, I’m open to all different kinds of people outside my type. I find intelligence to be sexier than pretty eyes or sexy hair. (I…
/r/MensRights05/12/22 11:06 PM
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Hemsworth is an extreme example, admittedly. He’s unreal. He was just the first man that came to my mind. Maybe someone like Harry Styles or those BTS guys, or young Tom Hiddleston, Mekhi Pfeiffer, or Elijah Wood would be more realistic examples.
/r/MensRights05/12/22 01:44 PM
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Yeah. We all like what we like. As long as it’s legal, no one should give a shit who someone wants to fuck. But I’ll still go to my grave believing that sexy is sexy at any age or gender.
/r/MensRights05/12/22 01:38 PM
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Also can’t deny that they’re mostly male dominated fields and jobs. I was kinda curious, so I looked up what the most dangerous jobs in America are. The majority are careers that typically men have, like roofers and loggers. A few are jobs that are 50/50 male/female, like delivery driver. And a handful are not 50/50, but probably close, like pilots/flight engineers, farmers and agricultural workers, etc. One thing I noticed, a lot of the pay for these jobs should be higher. Agricultural workers …
/r/MensRights05/12/22 01:33 PM
1

Women.
/r/MensRights05/12/22 01:59 AM
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Maybe I’m biased as a bisexual female, but I don’t think so. My female friends are definitely into adult men of all age groups, younger more so than any other age group. Most single sixty year old women would have sex with Chris Hemsworth If given the chance haha. When I was a teenage girl, I was attracted to Mick Jagger, who was old enough to be my grandpa. Now as an adult female, I’m attracted to Harry Styles (and still into Mick). But most of my friends would rather get with Harry than Mick. …
/r/MensRights05/12/22 01:58 AM
1

I don’t understand. Near women?
/r/MensRights05/12/22 01:49 AM
1

Wait, what?
/r/MensRights05/12/22 01:47 AM
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For what it’s worth, as a female (and someone who believes in men’s rights and feminism), I’ve had a lot of cool conversations with some really interesting and smart people on this sub. Given, sometimes I get written off, called nasty names, and dumb shit like that, but it’s the minority. For the most part, when it comes to the men who are willing to actually have a conversation, it’s been cool and I’ve learned a lot about the unique struggles that men face, and I hope I’ve helped illustrate fem…
/r/MensRights05/12/22 01:45 AM
2

How about nobody should be drafted?
/r/MensRights04/12/22 08:23 PM
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I can’t tell if you’re being sarcastic or not, which speaks volumes of this group.
/r/MensRights04/12/22 08:21 PM
1

First of all, yes!!! I agree with not giving a shit about other peoples business. It’s my favorite part of libertarianism. Populism is a dangerous trend that’s been getting worse lately. Cult of personality has taken over, and it’s terrifying. That second paragraph was really well said. I’m glad I hung around and asked for clarification, and that you didn’t just instantly start hurling insults at me, because in the end, I get what you’re laying down.
/r/MensRights04/12/22 07:40 PM
1

Are you saying the stats that say men are more likely to murder than women are lying?
/r/MensRights04/12/22 06:36 PM
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Some people in this group generalize all the time though. They talk as if all women are money grubbing, man hating whores. It goes both ways. We shouldn’t generalize either gender.
/r/MensRights04/12/22 06:34 PM
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I’m not gonna victim blame men or women. Just because most violent crimes are perpetrated by men, doesn’t make it the male victim’s fault. But that doesn’t make it any less true that most shootings and assaults are done by men. If some guy gets shot by a mass shooter, he’s a victim. Period. But the person behind the gun is likely to be a man. Doesn’t make the guy who got shot less of a victim or put him at fault in any way.
/r/MensRights04/12/22 06:28 PM
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I didn’t say I know nothing about it. I said I know basic/average knowledge. And I never accused you of forcing yourself on anyone; I said no one should fuck someone they don’t want to, whether it’s their husband or wife. And yeah, I’d recommend not getting married to anyone. They can do what they want, but that’s my recommendation, for sure.
/r/MensRights04/12/22 04:13 PM
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I don’t know. I think marriage is pointless. I’m not a lawyer. I don’t know the divorce laws outside of super basic knowledge, like the wealthier spouse usually ends up paying alimony or some shit. Whatever the laws are, that’s how it is, I guess. Lobby to change them if you don’t agree. I recommend just not getting married to begin with. It worked out well for me. I’ve been with the same person for nearly two decades, and we’re good.
/r/MensRights04/12/22 04:05 PM
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I don’t know. I still consider that no one’s responsibility. I’ve never been married, so I’ve never gone through a divorce (just a child of divorce), so what do I know? But I don’t think it’s anyone’s responsibility to be sexual with someone they don’t want to be sexual with.
/r/MensRights04/12/22 03:33 PM
1

Thanks for the video. It certainly helps clarify where you’re coming from. I understand more now, but I can’t agree. It seems like it was basically saying dictatorships are better than democracy. I can get behind that. I do agree that the whole world is basically oligarchic, and there’s not much we can do about it, but I also don’t want to encourage it to thrive or grow. What, if any system, would you say is the most beneficial to society?
/r/MensRights04/12/22 03:09 PM
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Nah man. Sometimes attraction grows with time;?sometimes it diminishes. It’s no one’s fault. No one should have to fuck someone they’re no longer attracted to.
/r/MensRights04/12/22 02:55 PM
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That sounds like a perfect example of no fault divorce to me. If a husband or wife decides they’re no longer attracted to their spouse, it just is what it is. It’s no one’s fault.
/r/MensRights03/12/22 03:11 PM
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First of all, all people are attracted to beauty, and anyone would prefer wealth over poverty. Male or female, on both counts. But most people don’t say their partners lose value as they age. That’s fucking crass and creepy.
/r/MensRights03/12/22 03:10 PM
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Shouldn’t apply or shouldn’t exist, I don’t get your point however you want to word it.
/r/MensRights03/12/22 03:04 PM
1

I just don’t see a better system than voting. Certainly not monarchy.
/r/MensRights03/12/22 03:02 PM
2

But you said no fault divorce shouldn’t exist.
/r/MensRights03/12/22 01:04 PM
1

You clearly have no clue what women are attracted to, or men for that matter. But you keep doing you and see how that works out for you. I hope the people you date know they have an expiration date. You’re fucking creepy and weird. Most men don’t act like that.
/r/MensRights03/12/22 01:00 PM
1

Agree to disagree. At least when we vote a “prick” into office, it only lasts four years. It’s better than lifelong power given to people who no one even chose.
/r/MensRights03/12/22 12:49 PM
2

Instead of saying men should retire earlier, you should say these more dangerous, often male-dominated fields should retire earlier.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 10:29 PM
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I don’t see why removing sex means that no fault divorce shouldn’t exist.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 10:22 PM
1

Both genders are attracted to sexy. The average man or woman is sexually attracted to all kinds of traits. I’m in my thirties, and I’m absolutely attracted to men and women in their twenties. I’m also into older men and women. It just depends. Sexy is sexy, at any adult age. But trust me, women are physically into younger men. It is known.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 10:20 PM
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There’s far too many women women who are grown and sexy to consider that a rule.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 10:13 PM
1

Monarchy is dumb as hell. Having a leader just because they were born to the right family makes no sense. Democracy and republics make far more sense.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 10:11 PM
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“Lol” indeed. Truly agreed on the “Lol”. So what do you do when she supposedly loses her “value” and ages? Trade her in for a new model? Because that’s going to get more difficult the older you get. The average twenty year old doesn’t want to date a guy two or three times her age. Do you just walk around hitting on college girls, creeping them out until one of them says yes? Just because you can’t get women your own age, does it not still bother you to be laughed at by the vast majority of young…
/r/MensRights02/12/22 02:25 PM
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My boyfriend and I don’t want kids, but I get where you’re coming from. Dating an older woman, especially 40+, could cause issues down the line if things get serious and she can’t have kids. You never know though. My step-mom got pregnant with twins, using birth control, and she was over 40! It was quite a shock to everyone. She thought she was done raising kids, but surprise! Now we have my fantastic twin brothers. Life is all about personal choices, but I guess it’s filled with unexpected twis…
/r/MensRights02/12/22 02:11 PM
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Fair enough. That is when fertility starts to dip for people. I thought you meant like all men aren’t physically attracted to women in their thirties.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 11:02 AM
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None of the females I know regret the way they spent their twenties and thirties. Why would anyone consider finding yourself and having fun time wasted? People dating in their young adulthood is not a bad thing. I know I enjoyed it.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 07:23 AM
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If she says you’re just friends, than you’re just friends. Take it or leave it.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 07:18 AM
2

Have fun trying to date twenty year olds for the rest of your life.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 07:14 AM
1

How do women control sex and men control commitment?
/r/MensRights02/12/22 07:05 AM
1

Christina Hendricks is nearly fifty. Need I say more?
/r/MensRights02/12/22 07:04 AM
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Nobody is better looking in middle age than as a young adult. If you think women aren’t drooling over perfectly ripped, gorgeous young actors, than you don’t know women. When me and my girlfriends talk about men, we’re talking about young adult Adonis-like actors and guys like that. It doesn’t mean we aren’t attracted to older guys too, but trust me, women get off to men in their twenties.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 07:01 AM
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Why wouldn’t grown men be interested in a thirty year old woman, or older? I don’t think that’s true. Both men and women admire the beauty of young adults, but most all couples tend to be close in age. If you think women become unattractive when they hit thirty, that’s on you. Most men aren’t like that.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 06:56 AM
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That’s an interesting point. I’m a feminist (who also believe in men’s rights). Just to be absolutely clear, I’m both MRA and feminist. I do not want children. I will never a child. I know this. But as I’ve gotten older, even I feel the anxiety of it no longer being a choice. It’s easy to not have kids when you have decades of fertility ahead of you. It becomes more difficult when you get closer to it no longer even being a choice. I’m not saying I’ve changed my mind about having kids. I don’t w…
/r/MensRights02/12/22 06:52 AM
1

And I’m a woman haha
/r/MensRights02/12/22 06:43 AM
1

I hear that!!! Me too.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 06:43 AM
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Wouldn’t it be more logical to say that anyone with a dangerous or physically exhausting job should be able to retire earlier? Like, why should a male math tutor be able to retire earlier than a female coal miner? It makes more sense to say that coal miners in general should retire earlier than math tutors. You know?
/r/MensRights02/12/22 06:42 AM
1

Women are human beings. They are absolutely capable of love, compassion, and empathy.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 06:39 AM
1

I don’t think men put in the vast majority of effort in relationships. I don’t think women do either. It just depends on the relationship. Sometimes men put in more effort; sometimes women put in more effort. Ideally, it’s going to be pretty equal. With my relationship, it’s generally equal. If one of us is going through a really difficult time, the other will provide extra support, but generally it’s equal in normal day to day life. I would hope that’s the norm for most people.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 06:37 AM
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Agreed. It’s important for both people in a relationship to be upfront and honest about what they want out of a relationship and what their life goals are. I told my boyfriend I didn’t want to get married or have kids when we first started getting serious nearly twenty years ago. He said he also didn’t want marriage or children. Here we are, 18 years later, and we’re still together with no plans for marriage or parenthood.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 06:33 AM
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Neither men nor women are owed sex or marriage though.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 06:28 AM
1

No one is owed shit. I expect certain obvious things (mutual respect, no one to be physically or sexually abused, etc.), but women aren’t owed a ring. Men aren’t owed sex. No one owes shit, and if someone is unhappy with that outcome, they’re welcome to dump the other person. Period.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 06:27 AM
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That’s stupid. As a woman, I don’t even want to get married. I’ve been with my guy for nearly twenty years, and I don’t want or expect a ring. If we broke up, I wouldn’t regret our time together or consider it “wasted time”, and I don’t think he would either. At least, I hope not. I guess if a woman wants children, she should maybe try not to get serious with someone who doesn’t want kids. But even if she only dates men she could see herself having kids with, you never know what’s gonna happen. …
/r/MensRights02/12/22 06:23 AM
2

As long as we all agree that women should keep the right to vote, and that it’s a bad idea to start taking voting rights away from any group.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 05:54 AM
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Thanks for getting back to me. Jesus, that’s insane. I sincerely hope that’s not something that any country makes a common habit of, because that’s cruel as fuck. Not just because of the money, but to force anyone to relive their trauma over and over again… it doesn’t allow that kid to move on and heal, because it’s still a constant presence in his life. It’s really sad. It’s the same reason even people who are against abortion make exceptions in the case of rape. No one should be forced to live…
/r/MensRights01/12/22 10:05 AM
1

Sorry. I was kind out out of it earlier. That comment was meant for someone else.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 09:35 AM
1

I wasn’t clear. I was talking about a lot of the things being said in the comments, not the post itself.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 09:34 AM
1

That wouldn’t be illiteracy. That would be reading comprehension. You’re accusing me of not understanding what I read, not being incapable of reading.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 09:31 AM
2

Did that happen before or after he destroyed his finances?
/r/MensRights01/12/22 01:20 AM
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You’re agreeing that women shouldn’t be allowed to vote. This is why people don’t listen to or take groups like this seriously. You’re hurting the cause you claim to support. Very few people in this day and age believe in denying voting rights to any group of people based on gender or race or religion. Rightly so.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 01:15 AM
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Yes. It’s extremist to say women shouldn’t have the right to vote, and archaic to deny any group the right to vote.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 01:12 AM
1

It’s surprises me how many anti-abortion people exist in our community. To me, that doesn’t seem to align with the core beliefs of men’s rights. Why is the answer to take rights away from women and men who choose to not have children and want to go through with an abortion? How does that help? It just seems vindictive against the people who choose to go that route. I just don’t see what taking away the rights of someone else helps.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 01:07 AM
1

Citation/sources?
/r/MensRights01/12/22 01:01 AM
0

So we should take away abortion rights?
/r/MensRights01/12/22 12:55 AM
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You give MRA a bad name.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 12:54 AM
-1

People can hold off on having sex for whatever reason they want. It’s their call.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:31 AM
1

Kids are expensive. That’s one of the many reasons why I chose not to have them. Use protection/birth control, because kids are expensive as fuck.
/r/MensRights30/11/22 09:29 AM
1

Why is your job above me or the other commenter?
/r/MensRights29/11/22 09:45 PM
1

Me neither.
/r/MensRights29/11/22 05:51 PM
1

Okay. Go back to your “research”.
/r/MensRights29/11/22 05:51 PM
1

I don’t think you’re a researcher, to be honest. That seemed like an excuse to not tell me what you work on. How in the holy fuck was I doxxing you?
/r/MensRights29/11/22 05:47 PM
1

I am interested in research. That’s why I specifically was interested in what you’re working on these days. You didn’t sound like you were kidding when you accused me of doxxing. You sound like someone who can’t tell me what their job is. It aggravates me, because I’m so against doxxing. I really did just have a natural curiosity about what you’re working on. Just say you won’t tell me. Don’t act like your identity will be exposed if you give me vague details about what you do.
/r/MensRights29/11/22 05:46 PM
1

Okay… I was just curious about what kind of research you do. If you don’t want to answer that, that’s fine. But I don’t dox. Just don’t answer if you don’t want to. .
/r/MensRights29/11/22 05:37 PM
1

I wasn’t trying to dox you. And I didn’t ask where you worked. I was just curious what field you were working. Fuck. Forget I asked, I guess.
/r/MensRights29/11/22 05:32 PM
1

I’ve always wanted to go into research too. You can do more good for more people. Are you working on anything interesting these days?
/r/MensRights29/11/22 05:06 PM
0

Ughh this is stupid. I honestly think you should find a profession that suits you better. It feels good to be proficient in something, “expert” if you will. It worries me that you say you can’t help men, and you aren’t an expert in your own profession. You seem like a smart enough person, so maybe it’s just that your intellect would be better used in a different profession. It really is rewarding to know that you kick ass at your job, regardless of what the job is.
/r/MensRights29/11/22 05:00 PM
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I am calm. It just sounds like you’re calling yourself an expert based on all the special and unique things you’ve seen. So can we agree that experts exist? Not gods or perfect beings. Experts.
/r/MensRights29/11/22 04:48 PM
1

Then why bring it up?
/r/MensRights29/11/22 04:38 PM
1

It’s not immature to think a plumber or a doctor or a construction worker is an expert. They are. What’s weird is to say experts don’t exist. I still say you’d be singing a different tune if you need your roof fixed, electrical wiring shit done, a medical procedure, etc. But you’re free to believe “there’s no such thing as an expert.” I’m free to call a plumber when I need a new toilet installed or whatever. To each their own.
/r/MensRights29/11/22 04:34 PM
0

Experts don’t exist? Say that next time you need new pipes put in your bathroom, or an oncologist to diagnose you, or a new house built, or a simple cavity filled. Experts don’t exist… really? Why are you bragging on your psych degree then? Because you think it makes you an expert.
/r/MensRights29/11/22 04:23 PM
0

Okay, psych major. You literally started this by saying, yes talk to men, and as a female I can’t handle this well. It was shitty advice, especially for someone who is supposedly a psych expert. I honestly would hope a psychology expert would be better at handling a situation where someone tells you they’re suicidal, but I guess you just aren’t that kind of person because you “don’t do well” with how men express themselves. Not all women are like that. Not all men are like that. Maybe find a new…
/r/MensRights29/11/22 04:15 PM
1

I’m not saying male community isn’t important. But no man deserves to die unnecessarily, prematurely, and alone because some woman on Reddit told them they can only get help from men, and their mother, sister, wife, daughter, female friend, or female doctor is incapable of helping. To anyone who is thinking of hurting themself, get help. You know the people in your life. Male or female, go to someone who understands or has resources or someone who will simply just care that you’re feeling that w…
/r/MensRights29/11/22 04:03 PM
1

I just don’t think you should discourage suicidal people from reaching out for help. Just because you’re a woman and you didn’t handle it well in the past, doesn’t mean you should say he should definitely go to men for help. A person should seek help wherever they feel is best for them. As long as they seek help. I don’t want anyone to feel like they can’t reach out and ask for a lifeline. Both men and women are capable of helping. Maybe not all men and women, but if someone is struggling and th…
/r/MensRights29/11/22 03:53 PM
1

I encourage men to be more vulnerable and honest about their feelings, whether it’s with other men or with women. As a female, I’ve helped male friends through some really dark times, and they’ve helped me. I just want OP or anyone reading this who is struggling to know, if you’re feeling suicidal or depressed, talk to whomever you trust. It doesn’t matter if they’re male or female. Ask for help wherever you feel comfortable. Don’t hold it in because you feel like you can’t talk to someone becau…
/r/MensRights29/11/22 03:44 PM
1

I’m a female, but if you need someone to talk to, I will listen without judgment and with empathy.
/r/MensRights29/11/22 06:50 AM
-1

It sounds like you’re “gendering” the issue.
/r/MensRights29/11/22 06:47 AM
1

Women are perfectly capable of being there for their male friends.
/r/MensRights29/11/22 06:45 AM
1

If a man is suicidal, he should reach out to people he trusts and/or professionals, whether it’s a female or male. He just needs to get help where it exists. This is a really serious subject matter. Please don’t make it about hating women.
/r/MensRights29/11/22 06:44 AM
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My advice to a suicidal man is to reach out to anyone he trusts, whether they are male or female. If you don’t feel comfortable speaking to someone you know, there’s resources online and numbers you can call to get emergency help. Just please get help. Whether it’s help from a man or a woman, or even a stranger, please reach out. There are people who care. Don’t feel like you have to carry the burden silently.
/r/MensRights29/11/22 06:41 AM
18

Don’t have kids you don’t want to support.
/r/MensRights29/11/22 06:30 AM
1

I’m not familiar with Einstürzende Neubauten. What kind of music do they play? I used to be pretty into German/European industrial bands. Also, Manson is one of my all time favorite artists. I was around 10 or 11 years old when I first heard Antichrist Superstar, and it was like nothing I had ever heard before. Ever since then, he’s been one of the greats in my opinion. It’s not just his band. He’s obviously an amazing musician, performer, and song writer, but he’s also a brilliant writer, and o…
/r/MensRights29/11/22 06:20 AM
1

Even if you take it for it’s literal militaristic meaning, it’s tucked up. The Jewish people are not coming to attack Kanye. They just aren’t.
/r/MensRights28/11/22 10:52 PM
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I understand both it’s literal/militaristic meaning, as well as the figurative/colloquial meaning, and either way, that’s a fucked up thing to say.
/r/MensRights28/11/22 06:28 PM
1

Haha it’s all good. I always do that too.
/r/MensRights28/11/22 06:26 PM
1

I’m a long time Kanye fan, and I understand he has mental issues, but mental illness doesn’t make a person prejudice. It may make them more vocal about their prejudice, or worse yet, it may make them act on it, but it doesn’t make a person prejudice in itself. I also understand he’s going through a bad break up, and I’m no fan of Kim, but he has been terrible and frightening following their break up, and no one deserves to be treated like that or threatened or to have their private business expo…
/r/MensRights28/11/22 06:25 PM
1

The make up subs are like 99% female members, and they’re really inclusive and positive. They’re really welcoming to all new comers. Some of the trans and lgbtq communities can be a good place to discuss women’s issues, even if you’re straight. And there’s a ton of subs out there that are literally created as a place to discuss any and all female issues, and they don’t tend to get mean or nasty. They are usually inclusive. Of course, it depends what your specific life is like. I’ve had some grea…
/r/MensRights28/11/22 05:53 PM
1

If all Kanye sees is a lot of Jews making money off his talent, he can fire them if he wants. I’ve worked in the restaurant industry for a long time with a lot of people culturally different from me, and I’ve been treated unfairly, robbed, and physically assaulted. That doesn’t mean I damn their entire race, culture, ethnicity, or whatever else. I also think people give too much power to the word “evil”. People act like it’s some powerful, dirty word. It just mean immoral, or not good. In my opi…
/r/MensRights27/11/22 05:41 AM
1

FDS is awful to women and men alike. They’re just awful.
/r/MensRights27/11/22 05:10 AM
1

I’m a member of a lot of subs that are majority female (from make up groups to feminist groups to general spaces for women to talk), and FDS is by far the shittiest. It’s like the women posting there are trying to be a cliche. It’s sick. Definitely one of the worse female subs out there. It’s unfortunate, because there’s a lot of female subs that are very inclusive and positive, but it seems like all FDS posters want to do is live up to the absolute worst stereotypes of being a woman. Whether th…
/r/MensRights27/11/22 05:08 AM
1

I don’t want to force him to do anything. He can do what he wants. I just think it’s awful to say he’s going to go defcon on Jews.
/r/MensRights27/11/22 04:57 AM
1

Also, people definitely know what DEFCON means.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 06:50 PM
1

I understand. I read Mein Kampf as a teenager, and I recognized the tactical genius from a propaganda standpoint. I even thought he made some good points about the education system and other things. That doesn’t mean I suddenly defend Hitler. Whatever good ideas he had about education or anything else, excluded Jews and blacks and homosexuals and the mentally I’ll, etc., so it nullifies any point he ever made. He’s an evil piece of shit, and anything intelligent he ever said is overshadowed by t…
/r/MensRights25/11/22 06:41 PM
1

I’m sorry, but I don’t get how you can defend what he says after he’s praised hitler, and after he said he was going to go “death con 3” (sic) on Jews. He has made repeated anti-Semitic remarks. It’s indefensible.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 02:47 PM
1

The shit Kanye said and did was way worse than anything Cube did. I like them both as artists. I’m a long time NWA fan, and I’ve been a fan of Ye’s since back when he was doing beats for Jay-Z before Kanye started rapping. But Kanye is a psycho anti-Semitic. He clearly has questionable judgment if he dated a woman like this, which is not a good thing, but to each their own, I guess. But his prejudice attitude and anti-Semitic behavior is absolutely unacceptable.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 09:39 AM
1

Oh yeah. I think I’ve heard of that group. TwoXchromosome, or something like that, right?
/r/MensRights25/11/22 09:30 AM
1

It’s always satisfying to see it come back and bite them in the ass when they take it too far. Like when Kanye got dropped by all of his sponsors after saying all that weird anti-Semitic shit, and he he had just said how no company would ever drop him. Haha, guess that’s not true. He got dropped left and right and took a HUGE financial hit personally. Smug bastard.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 03:52 AM
1

Okay. I guess that’s true of all people, more or less.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 03:44 AM
2

What is TwoX?
/r/MensRights25/11/22 03:41 AM
1

We aren’t a product.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 03:40 AM
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I will call out any feminist who treats a man like he’s a criminal just for being a man. I will call out any men’s rights activists who talk like all women are money grubbing, weak, manipulative whores. Most people are basically decent. To treat an entire gender like they’re prone to rape or deceit or stupidity, is so incredibly ignorant. I believe in human rights, and I believe that men and women both face unique challenges in obtaining equality and fair treatment. I have heard awful statements…
/r/MensRights25/11/22 03:38 AM
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I am a woman, and the women in my life are all “high value”, though that’s a kind creepy and weird way to put it.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 03:21 AM
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I think you’re right… celebrities are the ultimate trolls. Anything to get attention.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 03:18 AM
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They’re both complete psychos and/or trolls.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 03:16 AM
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Preach!
/r/MensRights23/11/22 05:50 PM
0

Well said.
/r/MensRights23/11/22 05:48 PM
1

She’s an idiot because she’s stupid, not because of how many sexual partners she’s had.
/r/MensRights23/11/22 05:46 PM
6

Classy woman.
/r/MensRights23/11/22 05:43 PM
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Your mom hated herself. Or someone made her feel really inferior. That’s unfortunate.
/r/MensRights23/11/22 05:42 PM
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They’re both idiots.
/r/MensRights23/11/22 05:40 PM
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Yes. I’m sure Kanye was totally reasonable and the perfect boyfriend.
/r/MensRights23/11/22 05:40 PM
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If a woman doesn’t wanna date you, she doesn’t have to, whatever the reason. Same goes for you. That doesn’t mean she’s a psycho like Fox.
/r/MensRights23/11/22 05:38 PM
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No one picks up the story because no one knows who she is. She’s a wannabe.
/r/MensRights23/11/22 05:34 PM
-4

Have fun enjoying your life not looking at females.
/r/MensRights23/11/22 05:33 PM
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What are you talking about saying it wasn’t okay for Jews to speak out against Germans or blacks Americans against the American government pre-civil rights? You sound like you’re defending it.
/r/MensRights23/11/22 05:31 PM
1

Julia Fox is disgusting, but that doesn’t excuse Andrew Tate. They’re both horrifying people.
/r/MensRights23/11/22 05:27 PM
1

She is insane, stupid, and a celebrity chaser. She is not indicative of the average female.
/r/MensRights23/11/22 05:23 PM
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I can’t imagine what evidence she could possibly have that would get you fired. I’d just ignore it.
/r/MensRights18/11/22 03:51 PM
1

I totally agree, but I get the same treatment from MRA. I LOATHE the kind of so called “feminists” you’re talking about. I know their type, and I hate them. But both groups have people who are quick to judgment, hatred, and hypocrisy.
/r/MensRights18/11/22 06:45 AM
1

It’s so nice to talk to someone who is so clear and concise with their language. I do consider myself MRA, but a lot of times when I talk with other MRA members, they don’t make me feel welcome. The second I say I’m a feminist, they just call me names and babble on with a bunch of presumptions and hatred towards me. It’s like they stop hearing me the second I say that. If they actually took a moment to talk to me, they’d see I don’t hate men just because I’m a feminist, just like I don’t hate wo…
/r/MensRights18/11/22 06:39 AM
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You hit the nail on the head: feminists need to police their own members. That’s true of any group, whether it’s a religious group, MRA, feminists, political parties, or whatever else. There is a cancer in feminism, and it needs to be cut out. While, I don’t agree that these imbeciles comprise the majority of feminists, I agree with all of my heart that they damage not just feminism, but society as a whole. Men and women face unique challenges regarding sexual assault. There’s so much shame invo…
/r/MensRights18/11/22 06:10 AM
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All I can say is, as a feminist, I believe ALL sexual assault should be treated equally under the law.
/r/MensRights17/11/22 02:45 AM
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I guess we just have different life experiences. In my experience, most feminists are just average people. People talk about the silent majority, but there’s also the screaming minority. Those so called feminists are louder than your average run of the mill feminist, but it’s my experience that they’re few and far between compared to the masses of people who just want gender equality. And trust me, no one hates those extremist idiots more than me. I rage watch their videos and I laugh at how ins…
/r/MensRights17/11/22 02:40 AM
1

That’s why people should be more specific.
/r/MensRights17/11/22 02:32 AM
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I just go based on definitions, not reputations. I am a feminist and I am a mens’ rights activist. Doesn’t mean I agree with everyone who is feminist or MRA.
/r/MensRights16/11/22 11:18 AM
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Stats don’t argue why; they are just numbers. Pundits and talking heads assign reason and cause. It doesn’t make the stats not true. Rape is often defined as penetration only. If a man or woman is not penetrated, it will be considered sexual assault. With that said, more and more states are doing away with the legal idea of rape and just using to e blanket charge of sexual assault, so that’s a good thing.
/r/MensRights16/11/22 11:12 AM
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To answer your question, if you call yourself a pacifist and say you’ll beat the shit out of anyone who uses violence, then no, you cannot call yourself a pacifist. That defies the literal definition of the word. I would call out anyone who calls themself a pacifist, and then advocates for violence against non-pacifists. Language matters. I’ll also call out anyone who says an egalitarian society doesn’t include all people. I’ll also cal out anyone who says that feminism is defined by hating men.…
/r/MensRights16/11/22 11:08 AM
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I’m getting tired of repeating myself. In its simplest definition feminism is “advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes.” If you want to talk about different sects and different levels and different types of feminism, that’s fine. But feminism is defined as advocating for womens’ rights on the basis of equality between the sexes.
/r/MensRights16/11/22 11:03 AM
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There’s a lot to unpack here! Gotta say, I appreciate the thoroughness and what looks to be a lot of sources. So, whether I agree with you or not on everything, thank you for being clear, sticking to the main topic, and providing quotations and whatnot. I gotta take care of some shit right now, but I just wanted to let you know that I will be reading everything and I’ll definitely be back to continue this conversation.
/r/MensRights15/11/22 04:23 PM
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I was trying to have a conversation. He wouldn’t explain himself. He repeated himself and purposefully misunderstood the meaning of egalitarian and said childish insults. He straw manned me.
/r/MensRights15/11/22 03:15 PM
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Feminism in itself is not defined by anything other than advocating for women’s rights on the basis of equality of the sexes. Anything beyond that needs to be clarified and established upfront. It was not. Most women I know are feminists and they are not insane like that. It is psycho and extremist to not want to prosecute if a man is raped. He should have made it clear up front that he meant extremism, if that is even what he meant. I don’t know, because he just said “feminism”.
/r/MensRights15/11/22 03:10 PM
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Again, if you want to talk different sects and different sub-categories of feminism, that’s fine. But as an umbrella term, and without whittling it down to subgroups, feminism is defined in its broadest terms as “the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes”. Does this mean that there aren’t psycho fringe elements? No. Just like the extremists in any group don’t speak for the whole. I’m not trying to play word games; I’m really not. I’m just a person who appreciates c…
/r/MensRights15/11/22 03:04 PM
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Why is everyone in this sub always calling everyone else idiots and assholes, etc.? I swear, every time I read MRA posts, the conversation instantly devolves into a childlike argument the second someone doesn’t agree or doesn’t understand or whatever else. Also, you have no way of knowing what happened behind closed doors to arrive at 50k. Did you read her mind and his mind? The only thing you know is they both agreed to it, so why do you care so much if he agreed to the number? I think it sound…
/r/MensRights15/11/22 02:52 PM
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What makes you think the stats aren’t real? Government rape stats (the stats that everyone else relies on for info) just consist of stats for how many reported, how many prosecuted, how many convicted, how many served time, how many found not guilty, and other things like that where they can measure with certainty the numbers of each category. Saying X number of rapes were reported this year, doesn’t mean that’s how many happened. It means that’s what got reported this year. So I don’t understan…
/r/MensRights15/11/22 02:44 PM
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Also, the guy is clearly a troll anyways, that’s why I stopped replying. Most of us are here to have a serious conversation about mens rights and how that relates to human rights, etc. Some people are just here to be obnoxious, troll the comments by blatantly and purposefully misunderstanding ideas and concepts, and repeating themselves like children. I’m over it. I’m happy to have a conversation with you or anyone else at this point though.
/r/MensRights15/11/22 02:34 PM
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The first comment, I think? Whether you call it “egalitarianism” or “equal rights”, or call it “feminism” or “women’s rights” doesn’t matter. They’re synonymous. He said something about egalitarianism being anti-feminist. Egalitarianism is defined as equality between all people. Feminism is defined as “advocating for womens’ rights on the basis of equality of the sexes”. People seem to want to make up whatever definition they want, whether it’s true or not. If people wants to discuss different s…
/r/MensRights15/11/22 02:31 PM
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It seems like a lot of people misunderstand what egalitarianism is as a philosophy. I’m gonna keep it simple and just quote the philosophical definition of egalitarianism in its purest form: Egalitarianism (from French égal 'equal'), or equalitarianism,[1][2] is a school of thought within political philosophy that builds from the concept of social equality, prioritizing it for all people.[3]
/r/MensRights15/11/22 02:16 PM
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How is he sponsoring her?
/r/MensRights15/11/22 01:57 PM
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The kind who is waiting to see if charges will be given, I’d imagine.
/r/MensRights15/11/22 01:56 PM
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She said that he is entitled to part of her assets since she makes more money… and both parties agreed on 50k. What makes you think 50k is an unfair amount?
/r/MensRights15/11/22 01:55 PM
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Wow. Okay. You’re either a complete imbecile or you get off on using the internet to annoy people. Or maybe you’re both. Either way, I’m out. Nobody has time for this shit.
/r/MensRights14/11/22 11:48 AM
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I didn’t make anything up. e·gal·i·tar·i·an /iˌɡaləˈterēən/ Learn to pronounce adjective relating to or believing in the principle that all people are equal and deserve equal rights and opportunities.
/r/MensRights14/11/22 11:41 AM
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You can say that all you want, but if anyone is a troll it’s the guy repeating his comments and claiming egalitarians believe that women shouldn’t have rights. Nobody could be truly that obtuse/stupid.
/r/MensRights14/11/22 11:38 AM
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No. I’m being totally sincere. A true egalitarian is not against women having rights. How is that difficult? It’s right there in the name: “egalitarian”.
/r/MensRights14/11/22 11:34 AM
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That’s fine if you think it’s sexist, and you can make an argument for that, but to respond to the term “mansplaining” with the same disgust as the n-word is just horrifying.
/r/MensRights14/11/22 11:17 AM
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Why would the FBI lie about crime data and rape stats? And why would the US Census lie about the pay gap?
/r/MensRights14/11/22 11:13 AM
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The point of MRA shouldn’t be to silence women and tell them they aren’t allowed to have an opinion. It’s not about taking women to shut up, or at least it shouldn’t be.
/r/MensRights14/11/22 11:09 AM
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Every keeps talking about fake rape statistics. What stats do you mean? Do you really not believe any of them? Why would the FBI lie about the data it collects on crime statistics?
/r/MensRights14/11/22 09:59 AM
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You can’t be egalitarian and be against the rights of females. Whether you call it “feminism” or “womens’ rights”, doesn’t matter. It’s all just semantics. Being anti-womens’ rights is clearly not egalitarian.
/r/MensRights14/11/22 09:54 AM
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“Rich people think homeless people are privileged because they don’t have to do anything all day.” Wow. That’s the most insane shit I’ve read in a long time. That is so wrong and ignorant.
/r/MensRights13/11/22 06:15 AM
1

Wow. That got nasty real quick.
/r/MensRights04/11/22 12:14 AM
0

Universities want all the money they can get, whether it’s money from a male or female. Also, who does or doesn’t go to college because they saw an ad?
/r/MensRights04/11/22 12:09 AM
1

I don’t believe in harsh sentencing, but going on a mass shooting spree is basically one of the worst, most heinous crimes a person can commit.
/r/MensRights03/11/22 11:39 PM
2

Yes. YouTube comments are not jury statements.
/r/MensRights02/11/22 09:19 PM
1

I was thinking the same thing. People are obsessed with Dahmer right now. I remember when I was a kid, people did the same thing for the Columbine shooters. Anyone remember when they acted like the Boston Marathon bomber was a sex symbol and put him on magazine covers? Same thing happened with Bundy back in the day. It’s so weird.
/r/MensRights02/11/22 09:18 PM
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There’s been a lot of romanticizing serial killers lately that borders on hero worship, respect, and adoration. I watched both the Dahmer movie, the Dahmer tv series, the Monster movie, and countless other serial killer movies. While I find the stories fascinating, I do not see them as people to look up to. Seems obvious that you should not have serial killers as heroes, right? I guess Dahmer’s dad is even suing Netflix or something for glorifying his son’s crimes. I don’t get this trend of hold…
/r/MensRights02/11/22 09:13 PM
0

Well, that’s fucking insane and evil. I don’t even believe in circumcision, let alone castration. Two wrongs don’t make a right though. I don’t like extremists on either side. Sexual violence, ideas, and threats against men or women makes my skin crawl with rage and disgust. At any rate, thanks for explaining what 2XC means.
/r/MensRights01/11/22 04:40 AM
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What is 2XC? I’m not familiar. How did they violate the Geneva Convention? I’m genuinely asking. Either way, two wrongs don’t make a right. But I’m really curious about this Geneva convention violation, if you could help inform me.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 09:20 PM
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I’ve actually seen some pretty scary things said on MGTOW forums. It doesn’t come from everyone, but I’ve definitely seen comments of a threatening and frighteningly angry nature.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 11:41 AM
1

I just looked up Stuttberg, and there’s some really beautiful architecture there!!! Seriously, the buildings are stunning. And you’re right, everyone in the Midwest seems to have German heritage, myself included.
/r/MensRights30/10/22 03:32 PM
2

Yeah, I hear you. I’m not super knowledgeable when it comes to Indian law, but I do have a lot of Indian-American friends who have educated me a bit on it. In my opinion, laws like this hurt both men and women. They’re just bad for everyone. People should be free to have sex with whomever they want, without fear of being called a rapist or a white unworthy of marriage. I think India has a beautiful culture, the best food, and some of the best people I’ve ever met, but these kinds of laws have go…
/r/MensRights30/10/22 03:22 PM
2

I respect other cultures, but dowry is a fucking stupid concept. So is arranged marriage.
/r/MensRights30/10/22 12:32 AM
0

Marital rape is a real thing, and should be treated and tried as the crime that it is. Just because a couple is married, doesn’t mean one can’t rape the other. But when you start impugning men and women who have premarital sex, that’s an entirely different category. That’s consensual on both sides. Even so, if a couple is caught, it can destroy both of their lives.
/r/MensRights30/10/22 12:30 AM
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Laws like that are bad for men AND women.
/r/MensRights30/10/22 12:27 AM
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This isn’t western in any way, shape, or form. I live in the US, and I’m horrified at the idea of a woman being damaged goods because she had sex. No one in their right mind would consider premarital consensual sex to be rape in the west. These kinds of laws hurt both men and women. When two people have sex, it doesn’t make the man a rapist, and it doesn’t make the woman damaged. It’s a sick and unjust law that hurts everyone involved in the supposed crime.
/r/MensRights30/10/22 12:26 AM
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I’m a northern girl, Midwest technically, but I want to move down south. I’ve spent a lot of time in the Clear Water/Tampa area and I’ve spent a lot of family vacations at Hilton Head. I don’t align with the south’s politics or social beliefs, but I can’t stand these Ohio winters. I’d give anything to move to New Orleans…I’ve also always wanted to spend a year in Germany. Where in Germany are you living? Where I’m from, men and women almost always split the bill. Even once I’m officially dating …
/r/MensRights29/10/22 11:49 PM
1

I was thinking exactly the same thing! Women didn’t have earning power back when men would pay for dates. Women went straight from living with their parents, to marriage, and would rarely have their own source of income. Now that women have more independence and are rarely without their own income, it’s no longer a foregone conclusion that a man will pay. I prefer to either pay for myself or pay for both him and myself, that way I don’t need to feel guilty ordering the steak or that extra cockta…
/r/MensRights29/10/22 11:55 AM
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I don’t know. I’m not an old fashioned person, so I don’t personally get it. I do think it’s a nice gesture for a woman or a man to be generous and offer to pay if they like the other person. It’s also fine to split it. I definitely don’t expect a man to pay these days, and that should not be the expectation. Like I said in my other comment, I just play it by ear. Sometimes I go out planning to offer to pay. Sometimes I assume we’ll split. Sometimes I think he might offer to pay, but I would not…
/r/MensRights27/10/22 06:06 PM
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No, I don’t wait for the other person to offer. I guess I just play it by ear. I would pick up the check if I feel so inclined. If nothing is said, I’d assuming we’re splitting. If he offers, I may accept. It really just depends on the situation. I just play it by ear.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 06:01 PM
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I think you and I agree for the most part. Our opinions diverge in some places, but for how divisive this issue is, I’d say I agree with you more than not, and I definitely agree with you more than anti-abortion people. Even the stuff you said that I don’t agree with, I do get where you’re coming from, and you made your point logically.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 05:29 PM
0

Lesbians can be evil. I just don’t think you need to worry about lesbians stealing your sperm.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 05:13 PM
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I’m really sorry man. My parents also had issues figuring out custody. My mom especially hated the judge. Thankfully, it kind of worked out in the end. I sincerely hope you’re able to gain equal custody at some point. No matter what, I’m sure your kid knows you love him and he misses you just as much as you miss him. Your ex-wife can’t take that bond away from either of you.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 05:07 PM
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After reading some of the comments I have one more thought: The concept of men paying for dates comes from a time when the vast majority of women didn’t work. Most all women work now, so it’s not longer needed for men to pay. That doesn’t mean it’s not a nice gesture if a man does pay, or if a woman wants to pay for the man. Some women find old fashioned notions romantic and gentlemanly. Some women prefer to be generous and offer to treat her date to a night out. It just depends on the couple. W…
/r/MensRights27/10/22 04:59 PM
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I personally like paying for a man (or woman) if I like him. I think it’s a nice gesture and shows I’m into him.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 04:51 PM
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Firstly, who goes out with someone they aren’t into just for a free burger or something? I would never. I don’t suffer fools easily, so if I’m not into a man, I’m not going to spend two or three hours with him just to save fifteen or twenty bucks. Anyways… The way I see it, I never expect a guy to pay on a date in this day and age. It’s 2022, and it seems a bit archaic (or at the very least, old fashioned) to expect a gentleman to cover date expenses. When I’m on a date, if the man offers to pay…
/r/MensRights27/10/22 04:01 PM
2

Ughhhh that’s ridiculous. Kids need and want time with their parents! Not just one of them. That’s really messed up that she purposefully moved far away. Are you sure there’s nothing a lawyer could do to help? Sometimes they can block people from moving kids away from the other parent.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 06:42 AM
2

Yeah, you would expect her to do the right thing. Hopefully she’ll come to her fucking senses. When my parents got divorced, they HATED each other, but the one thing they agreed on was that they didn’t want me and my siblings to lose our father or mother. I am really thankful for that. I know it wasn’t easy for them, but they were able to come to an agreement. I hope your ex eventually sees reason and decides to put your kid first.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 06:28 AM
2

That sucks. I hope your ex will come around and act like a human being and do what is right for your kid. There are some really good lawyers out there that are much cheaper than that. It might be worth looking around.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 06:14 AM
-3

I’d get a better lawyer. Get partial custody, and have her pay you for child support.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 06:07 AM
0

I don’t think lesbians are scheming to steal your sperm.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 05:53 AM
-3

I hope that’s not true. I’d like to believe most people believe in equal rights.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 05:52 AM
-3

Because you aren’t the one who actually gets pregnant.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 02:28 AM
-2

Sperm jacked??? What the fuck is that?
/r/MensRights27/10/22 02:27 AM
4

That’s ridiculous. I’m a woman and I would never do that.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 02:26 AM
1

Yeah, it’s really weird when people idolize murderers. I don’t get it. They romanticize it. It’s just gross. Also, I guess those “yandere” characters can be kind of funny sometimes, you just can’t take them too seriously.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 01:45 AM
1

I had to look up what yandere meant. I never heard that word before. But I know exactly the kind of anime character you’re talking about. I fucking hate those characters.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 01:33 AM
2

That sucks!!! My brother is WAY more responsible and nurturing than me, and I think everyone would agree with me on that. I’m a great aunt and babysitter, but my brother is a god damned Saint. Your family needs to have more trust in you, man. You literally worked with disabled kids, so I’d guess you’re capable of babysitting. I believe you, but I’m not gonna lie… either your family is insane, or you’re unintentionally giving off some weird vibes. I’d guess your brother is kind of crazy. I hope y…
/r/MensRights27/10/22 01:23 AM
1

But if she was stalking you for three weeks, why agree to go out with her?
/r/MensRights27/10/22 01:09 AM
1

Absolutely not. To each their own, I say.
/r/MensRights26/10/22 04:13 PM
5

After reading the comments I have more to say. For the sake of clarity, I’m a feminist and an MRA. You can never totally protect your children, but common sense should dictate the actions taken to protect them. Common sense is not: single father=pedophile. It sends a bad message to kids, and you’re wasting time and energy that could be spent actually protecting your child and teaching a kid to be smart and independent. Another random thought: I used to play softball for years in my youth. I enjo…
/r/MensRights26/10/22 04:11 PM
21

Jesus Christ man, your own brother believed that rumor? That’s fucking rough. And here I thought it was bad when a boy started a false rumor at school that I rejected him because I’m a lesbian. (Joke’s on him because I’m bisexual, and that rumor caused a girl to flirt with me for the first time in my life.)
/r/MensRights26/10/22 04:00 PM
15

Whoever this lady he married is, she has awful friends.
/r/MensRights26/10/22 03:54 PM
7

Wow. This is really fucked up. The sad thing is, the person getting hurt the worst by this is the kid. The therapist made a good point when she talked about maintaining a sense of normalcy after a divorce. The child is already going through so much change, to change their social life and essentially take their friends away is only hurting the kid. It makes me thankful for my upbringing. After my parents divorced, my friend’s parents always allowed them to hang at my Dad’s place. I had sleepovers…
/r/MensRights26/10/22 03:53 PM
-3

Why would you get with a stalker?
/r/MensRights26/10/22 06:00 AM
1

Yes, I speak English. In my experience, people are rarely in relationships to validate themselves. That’s my personal experience. You’ve had a different experience, and thus a different point of view. I’m still not sure how that equals me proposing something, or what exactly it is you think I was proposing by saying that. You saying, “Anglish, do you spoke it” didn’t answer that question in any way, advance the conversation, or express anything meaningful.
/r/MensRights26/10/22 04:51 AM
0

Pretty sure that guy you’re responding to is a man, not a woman… and he’s right, you are the one getting bent out of shape over a hypothetical.
/r/MensRights25/10/22 09:07 PM
2

First of all, thank you for being civil and actually listening to what I said, and then responding intelligently and well thought out. You’re a skilled writer and clearly a thoughtful man. I’m all about civil conversations and debate, and I love to learn something from people that I might disagree with at first. I appreciate other people who partake in civil discourse and learning. That’s a good analogy about plane crashes. You’re right. Just because it’s not common, doesn’t mean false accusatio…
/r/MensRights25/10/22 08:56 PM
2

I totally agree that forced insemination is totally evil on an insane different level. That’s horrific to think of. But making abortions illegal and telling women to keep it in their pants isn’t fair at all. So, only women who want children can or should have sex? No way. I don’t think men OR women should be told to just keep it in their pants. As long as it’s consensual and doesn’t involve someone too young, adults should be able to seek out whatever kind of sexual relationship they want. If, g…
/r/MensRights25/10/22 08:18 PM
0

Again proving how smooth you must be with the ladies. Man, do I know your type… Judging by your hackneyed insults and platitudes, I’m guessing men don’t much enjoy your company either, as most all men would prefer more intellectual stimulation. If you want to debate a point I make, or even if you’re just out to knock me down a peg, try to make an actual point yourself. All you’ve done is drop trite, overused insults. Make a point. If you want to insult a female, come up with a clever retort, not…
/r/MensRights25/10/22 08:08 PM
2

Personally, I have no problem with the age old tradition of ladies night. With everything else that goes on in the world, it’s not really an issue on my radar. As a female, I rarely, if ever, go to ladies nights. It doesn’t always attract the best clientele. There’s nothing wrong with it or the men and women who attend ladies night; it’s just not my scene.
/r/MensRights25/10/22 07:51 PM
0

It wasn’t meant to be thinly veiled. I meant to say you obviously don’t get laid a lot and seem like you’d be bad at it. You don’t even seem to want to get laid. So, thinly veiled wasn’t my intention. You know, if you’d stop being so bitter and mean and hateful towards women, you’d be surprised what a different reception you’d get. That’s my unsolicited advice for you. Ignore or it or don’t. It makes no difference to me. I just think you’d be happier if you let go of that bitterness and got laid…
/r/MensRights25/10/22 10:51 AM
2

First off, that’s incredibly messed up that your legal system doesn’t recognize female rape. Females can absolutely rape men, and should be held to the same legal standards that men are held to in that situation. I’m from the United States. Thankfully, we have that whole “proof beyond a reasonable doubt” rule. This makes cases of rape incredibly difficult to prove, as it’s usually a case of he said/she said. Rape is a crime that rarely has witnesses, so without DNA and signs of physical trauma, …
/r/MensRights25/10/22 10:46 AM
0

I’m confused. What am I proposing? It’s just my experience and the experience of others I’ve witnessed that most relationships aren’t based on self-validation.
/r/MensRights25/10/22 10:29 AM
1

But men aren’t being forced to farm. Women are being forced to have unwanted children. Men are being forced to enlist in the military. All situations should not be a reality, but one of them is not a reality. I just want people to live their lives the way they want. Men shouldn’t be forced to be soldiers if they don’t want to be. Women should have to be mothers if it’s not what they want. People should be free to do what they want, so long as they aren’t hurting others. It’s enraging to think of…
/r/MensRights25/10/22 10:26 AM
1

Cool. Then agree to agree. 👍
/r/MensRights25/10/22 10:19 AM
0

It’s funny you talk about falsely projecting, when that’s what you’re doing to me. How many times do I have to say I’m for scientific advancement before you’ll believe me? I’m all for advancing science, and if we can create artificial wombs, sure, why not! It wouldn’t be a personal benefit or deficit to me, but it sounds like it would help you, and at the end of the day, progress is good!
/r/MensRights24/10/22 11:02 PM
0

I’m not a mother and I have no desire to be a mother. There’s value in being a mother, but I do not believe a woman’s worth lies in her reproductive organs. I don’t want kids, and I don’t give a shit if someone else wants them. People can do what they want. Why should I care? You seem to have a serious issue with women. You keep using stereotypical overblown language like “whiny, screeching harpy, ignorant, histrionic, obsessed, etc.”
/r/MensRights24/10/22 10:10 PM
0

Calm down. I’m all for scientific advancement, but you are way too into this idea of negating the need for women. You’re calling women screeching harpies and calling me histrionic and terrified, though I’m still not clear what it is you’re accusing me of being terrified of. I could get truthful and mean, but I’m gonna bite my tongue and not say what I’m thinking. All I will say, is I’m not terrified, and I’m unclear what it is you think I’m terrified of.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 09:57 PM
1

Sure. Yay science, and all that. But it will never replace actual sex as an expression of love or act of pure pleasure. People will always want to fuck. Maybe not everyone, but most people want to have sex. It’s all good either way.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 09:47 PM
1

Totally. You do you. I just don’t get it. Whatever makes you happy is fine by me, within reason. So keep doing you. I don’t feel the need to worry about becoming a slave to an ex or a lover. That would never happen.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 09:45 PM
-1

No. I’m not terrified of men doing away with the need for women. If you want to root for a sexless society where women are no longer needed to procreate, go for it. Whatever reproductive scientific advancements may happen, it will never erase the desire to make babies the old fashioned way for most people. I can absolutely tell you unequivocally that I am in no way “terrified” or concerned that men will negate the need for women, because most heterosexual men WANT female contact and they actuall…
/r/MensRights24/10/22 09:39 PM
1

Why freak out about something that’s not happening? Why even talk about it? Men aren’t being forced to farm or whatever, so why use it as an example? Why talk about like it is happening?
/r/MensRights24/10/22 09:28 PM
1

And personally, I’ve known some single mothers who were smart as hell. My mother was one of them. Being a single mother doesn’t equal being stupid, and it’s really presumptuous of you to assume you’re smarter than all single mothers.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 09:25 PM
1

I’ve just never heard of someone using fifteen forms of birth control. Either way, if someone uses birth control and it fails, that’s where abortion comes in. It’s so people who don’t want to be parents don’t have to and unwanted children aren’t brought into the world. It happens to people in long term committed relationships, as well as people having casual sex. And it’s not your place to say women “barely need or want” sex. I’m sorry if that’s been your experience with women, but it’s not fair…
/r/MensRights24/10/22 09:23 PM
1

In my country, men aren’t being forced to be farmers or whatever else.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 04:27 PM
-2

I can’t tell if you’re kidding or not. Men would invent an artificial womb in five years and do away with the need for women? Is this a joke?
/r/MensRights24/10/22 04:25 PM
1

Fifteen different forms of birth control? Does the man have super sperm or something?
/r/MensRights24/10/22 04:23 PM
2

Both should be a choice. No one should be sent to war against their will. No one should be forced to be a parent against their will. Just because they aren’t the same situation, doesn’t mean that people should have the right to choose for themselves in either situation.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 04:21 PM
0

I’ve always said, I think people should have tax breaks for NOT having kids.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 04:01 PM
1

I just don’t think most people engage in sexual or emotional relationships to validate themselves. I guess that’s a thing some people do, but not the vast majority.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 03:33 PM
2

I’m sorry you had a shitty relationship, but swearing off women is extreme.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 05:06 AM
2

It is real work. It should be legal work. Also, a lot of feminists are against prostitution.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 05:03 AM
3

I keep hearing about this red pill talk. I think I get the gist of what it means, but I could be wrong. I’m all for free thinking, but I’m against shutting down a person just because of their gender or things like that. I’m certainly not against casual sexual relationships. I’m totally fine with friends with benefits, casual dating, prostitution, or whatever other form of casual sex. What I don’t get is the mistrust. An escort can just as easily say you raped her as a girlfriend could say. But w…
/r/MensRights24/10/22 05:00 AM
2

That’s fine. I also have no intention of ever marrying. I’m honestly new to learning about MGTOW, and from everything I’ve read online, it seems against all female relationships and interaction. Maybe there’s like different levels of MGTOW; I don’t know.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 04:42 AM
1

I totally get that. I’ve gone through phases where I happily went years without having any serious relationships. I definitely understand the appeal of that lifestyle. Nothing wrong with keeping life casual and fun.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 04:38 AM
2

MGTOW is defined by male separatism. It’s weird and off putting.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 04:08 AM
4

That’s totally fine. Whatever works for you. There’s nothing wrong with being aromantic or having emotionally detached sexual relationships. Just from what I’ve read online, MGTOW is known for male separatism. There’s a huge distrust and hatred of women, neither of which has anything to do with being aromantic. I really and truly don’t get it. But I do get where you’re coming from. That makes a lot more sense.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 04:05 AM
-2

That’s what I was saying. Abortion isn’t fucked up, but sending an ex off to war as some revenge is crazy as hell. It’s not my place to draw a line at when abortions become too much. The way I see it, no one should be forced to have an unwanted pregnancy. Ideally, contraception will be used before that ever becomes a necessity, but when all else fails, abortions are the last resort and should be available.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 03:57 AM
4

Vasectomies are perfectly reasonable, but men who swear off all women are a different story.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 03:50 AM
-1

I don’t want to be dependent on anyone. But I also wouldn’t give up sexual intimacy or friendship with the opposite sex, because I happen to love the company of the opposite sex, and there are things they can give me that my own gender can’t. I’m not afraid of them.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 03:49 AM
2

But the whole point of the philosophy is men “going their own way” and avoiding female interaction. It seems like an extreme sacrifice. Like I said in my other comment, if I was a straight male, I’d love to be in the company of women. I’d rather be in the company of beautiful, intelligent women, than secluding myself with other “men going their own way” who live in fear of women.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 03:46 AM
-1

Sounds paranoid. And I don’t get the whole men living without women thing. If I was a straight man, I’d want the company of women.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 03:42 AM
2

So you think that paying child support is worse than being forced to go through a pregnancy, give birth against your will, and raise a child (which costs more than whatever child support is given)? Not to mention, if the mother makes more than the father, she has to pay child support to him in shared custody situations. That’s just insane. You’d be singing a different tune if it was you that got pregnant, or your fifteen year old daughter. Child support is paid by the parent with the higher inco…
/r/MensRights24/10/22 03:38 AM
2

How? That’s not specific. What did I suck up?
/r/MensRights23/10/22 11:13 PM
2

I sucked what up?
/r/MensRights23/10/22 10:47 PM
3

I don’t think having the wealthier parent pay child support is as bad as forcing a woman to have a baby. Child support is not the same as abortion. I don’t think men should be forced to fathers if they don’t want to be. I also don’t think that a wealthier mother or father who pays child support after a planned pregnancy and a divorce, is anywhere close to the same thing as forcing a woman to give birth to a child she does not want.
/r/MensRights23/10/22 10:24 PM
2

Like I said, no one, male or female, should be forced to be a parent against their will.
/r/MensRights23/10/22 10:18 PM
-4

Everyone, both men and women, have a right to choose if they want to be a parent or not. You can’t force someone to be a parent against their will. I wholeheartedly support birth control and the morning after pill, and if all else fails, I support abortion. Children should be wanted. They should be born into a household capable of supporting them financially and emotionally. What right is it of you or the government or anyone else to tell someone they MUST be a mother or father? You have no righ…
/r/MensRights23/10/22 10:10 PM
3

Abortion isn’t selfish. In fact, it’s a difficult thing for a pregnant woman to go through. To put abortion on the same level as sending your ex-husband off to war is just wrong. It’s not equal and it’s not the same at all.
/r/MensRights23/10/22 10:00 PM
0

Abortions aren’t selfish. They’re an unfortunate necessity. And abortion in Russia is generally legal up to twelve weeks, so that’s not enough time for most women to be able to realize they’re pregnant, get an appointment, and raise the money needed to pay for the procedure. So, it’s legal, but it’s not like it’s an abortion free for all.
/r/MensRights23/10/22 09:53 PM
-3

I don’t get it. So straight men just never have sex again?
/r/MensRights23/10/22 09:49 PM
13

That’s for sure. You definitely don’t want to be gay in Russia. The beatings, degradation, imprisonment, and humiliation suffered by homosexual Russians is beyond fucking heart breaking. The people in the Russian government who perpetuate this discrimination make me wish Hell was real, because there’d be a special place in Hell for them if it existed.
/r/MensRights23/10/22 09:48 PM
5

I mean, is anyone surprised that Putin is crazy enough to draft so-called “deadbeat dads”? He’s an inhumane fucking psycho.
/r/MensRights23/10/22 09:42 PM
0

I absolutely support being fair and balanced, but I don’t think MGTOW is balanced or fair, just as one little example. Both sides, MRA and feminists have extremist fringe elements that I find to be completely unbalanced and unfair. Maybe “funny” isn’t the best word to describe those people and their beliefs. There’s nothing funny about hatred and ignorance and hypocrisy. With that said, sometimes I can’t help but laugh at complete dumbasses, so when I saw that FDS sub, I couldn’t help but laugh.…
/r/MensRights23/10/22 09:12 PM
5

My boyfriend urged me to kill myself when I was younger. I’m lucky I survived. It’s an unforgivable thing to do to another person.
/r/MensRights23/10/22 10:17 AM
8

Haha I think I stumbled across that once. It was fucking funny.
/r/MensRights23/10/22 12:42 AM
1

Yeah, Wikipedia is about all the solid info I could find, and I got the same gist you did.
/r/MensRights23/10/22 12:04 AM
8

What’s FDS?
/r/MensRights22/10/22 11:56 PM
3

People are so stupid. As a female, I totally support women proposing to men. And it sounds like her man appreciates having a strong woman who thinks for herself. Fuck the haters.
/r/MensRights22/10/22 11:56 PM
1

I’m just curious, do you engage with females as friends? And do you also disengage from male interaction or just female? This is my first time hearing of MGTOW, so I’m just trying to understand.
/r/MensRights22/10/22 12:45 PM
2

Holy shit. I didn’t know that. US Navy subs are so amazing. Pretty much everyone in my family was in the Navy. Even I almost joined, but I wanted to be on a Trident like my older brother, and that wasn’t possible back then. I’m too old now, but I still kind of regret never joining up. Anyways, shout out to all the sailors out there. You guys are bad ass. Fun Navy SEAL story: my brother’s SEAL buddies had a paint war battle with some Marines, and they obliterated them. With markers. Haha Sorry Ma…
/r/MensRights22/10/22 11:35 AM
2

It kind of disturbs me that your instinct was to immediately believe her and destroy his life. It’s good to want to protect your step-daughter, but you could’ve done that without immediately throwing your son in jail. Obviously I would never falsely accuse anyone, but hypothetically, if I accused my step-brother of sexual assault, literally no one would believe me. They shouldn’t, because he would NEVER do that. They wouldn’t take action to put him in jail, get him kicked out of college, or dest…
/r/MensRights22/10/22 12:20 AM
1

Never start a land war in Asia.
/r/MensRights22/10/22 12:14 AM
1

My brother was a nuclear engineer on a Trident sub, and my ex-boyfriend/friend served as a sonar tech on a fast attack. The fire power on US submarines is staggering. My brother used to sleep practically right on top of a nuclear missile that could wipe out mankind. If anyone tried to launch a nuc at the US, it’s likely the Navy would shoot that shit out of commission long before it reached American shores.
/r/MensRights22/10/22 12:13 AM
1

Ideally, I’d only fight for a cause I believe in and am willing to die for. If I was forced to fight for a cause I don’t believe in, then I’d fight for my life.
/r/MensRights22/10/22 12:05 AM
1

I think I’m gonna send that link to Legal Eagle on YouTube. He’s an American lawyer who makes great videos about the law, the constitution, and laws from other countries. I’d LOVE to see him tear this to shreds for how ridiculous and difficult to implement this law is. I really don’t see how a court could fairly implement this law or prove ill intent by the defendant.
/r/MensRights21/10/22 11:47 PM
1

Yikes!!! That’s pretty wild. Everyone knows how bad it sucks to get creepy stares from other men and women, but to make it illegal? Sexual harassment on public transit sucks, but as long as people keep their hands and bodies to themselves, it shouldn’t be illegal. I used to ride the bus a lot. It was about an hour and a half ride to get home from work, and I would often just put in headphones and totally zone out. I don’t even know what I was looking at really, because I wasn’t paying attention.…
/r/MensRights21/10/22 11:43 PM
1

God dammit. I still can’t see it.
/r/MensRights21/10/22 03:37 AM
1

Thanks. I’ll check it out.
/r/MensRights21/10/22 03:37 AM
1

I think a link was sent, but I can’t find it now. Would you mind resending it?
/r/MensRights21/10/22 03:02 AM
1

It’s illegal to look at a woman on a bus? I’m not being glib, I genuinely haven’t heard of this.
/r/MensRights21/10/22 02:47 AM
0

Where have feminists made it illegal to look at a woman on the street?
/r/MensRights21/10/22 01:47 AM
1

Women’s rights ARE human rights!! If some people had their way, abortion wouldn’t be a right for anyone. Every HUMAN has the RIGHT to choose how they want to live. I believe that all men and women have the right to choose whether or not they want to be a parent. For women, this right obviously involves their body, as women are the ones who have to carry the child. My comment wasn’t about abortion anyways. That was just one small part of it. To reply by shit talking feminists is exactly what I wa…
/r/MensRights21/10/22 01:44 AM
1

Very true that women tend to go for older men. I don’t know why that is. I’m glad dynamics are changing and there’s more women dating younger guys. I think a person limits themselves by only dating one type of person. Exploration is a good thing when it comes to dating. It’s ridiculous to say a man is perverted for dating someone ten years his junior (unless he’s like mid-twenties age). You made another good point… people should trust grown ass women to make their own choices. If she wants to da…
/r/MensRights20/10/22 06:43 PM
1

I fully and whole-heartedly support mens’ rights. The only reason I don’t officially identify with MRA is because of some of the anti-female rhetoric. It’s the same reason I don’t identify with all feminists. Most are okay, but feminism shouldn’t be about tearing men down, just like mens’ rights shouldn’t be about hating women. I guess both sides have fringe elements that I don’t agree with, but for the most part, I think we all just believe in human rights and want equality and freedom for all …
/r/MensRights20/10/22 05:48 PM
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There’s definitely a ton of hypocrisy out there. I will not deny that. I also think a lot of people, women particularly, deny the natural beauty of youth. While I understand the cultural and psychological reasons for this denial, let’s be honest… youth is beautiful. (When I say youth, I mean young adulthood.) Maturity and the grace that comes with age is also beautiful. It’s all good. As a human rights advocate, I do consider myself a feminist (among many other things), and it does frustrate me …
/r/MensRights20/10/22 05:28 PM
2

I don’t think that’s a big deal. I dated a 30 year old man when I was a 20 year old woman. My parents are ten years apart. I think the older you get, the less age gaps matter. Ten years is too much if you’re 15 and 25, not a big deal for 20 and 30, and even less of a deal for like 55 and 65. Eilish does seem a bit immature, but I think that has more to do with her personality than age. Personally, I’d definitely date an older person. I haven’t dated many younger people, just a few, but I would d…
/r/MensRights20/10/22 05:14 PM
1

I’ve unfortunately seen a lot of homophobic bullshit on MRA forums. That’s not to say all mens’ rights advocates are homophobic, but it does seem to be a common theme. Human rights are important, but it should include all humans. Gay, straight, male, female… human rights should include all of us. If someone makes you feel like you are less than them, or deserve less rights than they do, they aren’t true believers in human rights. Full disclosure: I am a bisexual female, and I haven’t always had …
/r/MensRights20/10/22 09:06 AM
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Oh man, I remember that lady. She was a total nightmare. Didn’t she like get up to make nachos and when she came back he sleeping, so she pinned him down and forced herself on him? She was a piece of god damn work. I could be wrong, but I’m almost positive in the States, that would also be considered sexual assault. If she had anally raped him with an object or finger, that would be legally considered rape. Stateside the legal definition of rape is all about penetration. With that said, socially…
/r/MensRights20/10/22 08:23 AM
1

We have the same definition in the US (rape=forced penetration of some kind using a penis or object), so men can still be legally considered rape victims because they can be penetrated against their will.
/r/MensRights19/10/22 06:34 PM
1

There should be human rights! It shouldn’t just be rights for men or rights for women. Rights don’t mean shit if it’s only for some of the people. Constitutional rights and laws should apply to everyone equally. Same goes for harassment. It doesn’t matter whether it’s a man or a woman, sexually harassing another person is wrong. Period. Legally, men and women are equally protected under the law against harassment, but there’s a long history of men not coming forward. I think it’s really great th…
/r/MensRights19/10/22 03:46 PM
1

I don’t see how that’s relevant. Why do you ask?
/r/MensRights19/10/22 03:31 PM
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Good. I hope they all get shut down. It’s disgusting and cruel to do to a human being, whether they’re male or female.
/r/MensRights19/10/22 04:22 AM
0

I can imagine if the roles were reversed because I’ve seen this happen to both men and women. Ever heard of those sites where men post revenge porn?
/r/MensRights19/10/22 04:16 AM
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What on earth are you talking about? If you think the simple act of noticing the beauty of another person is objectification, I don’t know what to tell you. I don’t agree. I do think it’s bad when men harass women. I also think it’s bad when women harass men. But just noticing a beautiful person isn’t harassment. I don’t know what I said that makes you believe I want laws to allow women to abuse men. I didn’t say anything of that sort. I wouldn’t. That’s a crazy thing to say. I do like freedom. …
/r/MensRights19/10/22 03:51 AM
1

It sounds like you know some pretty shitty women, and that sucks. What kind of person isn’t attracted to humor and intelligence? The shitty kind, that’s who. As a female, I’m attracted to physical beauty, but the other main attributes I find attractive are intelligence, humor, passion, talent, kindness, empathy, similar interests, cleanliness, loving, wisdom/life experience, and a million other things. Intelligence is a HUGE turn on for me. And I don’t care how sexy someone is, if they’re cruel …
/r/MensRights19/10/22 02:58 AM
1

Oookay. It’s just as well that you’re incapable of hearing outside of your echo chamber. You’re a weird guy (and not in the good way) who seems incredibly bitter and not fond of women, and oddly obsessed with pedophilia. You don’t care about mens’ rights, you just care to talk about pedophiles and how feminism promotes child rape. It’s just as well talking to you is like talking to a skeevy door stop. You’re like a creepy broken record. I’m kind of glad you’re incapable of actual discourse and d…
/r/MensRights19/10/22 02:40 AM
2

Haha twerking during work is not a good sign. That sucks. I was kind of excited to check that show out. But that sounds cheesy as fuck. Also, not to get all comic book nerd, but the Hulk has always been stronger than She-Hulk. It’s hard to say which one of them is smarter, but as far as strength goes, Hulk is basically a god. There’s not many people in the Marvel universe that could oppose him. I might still watch the show because I really do love lawyer shows, but I will cringe so hard at that …
/r/MensRights18/10/22 06:25 AM
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Cool. Thanks for actually answering my questions in a thoughtful and eloquent manner.
/r/MensRights18/10/22 12:11 AM
1

Did you miss the part where I read the article? I don’t know why you’re getting so angry or what science I’m ignoring, but since you missed it before I’ll say it again… I read the article. And I don’t even think I’ve expressed an opinion on it yet, because you just keep saying I ignored science or didn’t read it. I did read it, and you didn’t even bother to ask me my thoughts on it. You just want to jump in and accuse me of ignoring it. It’s pointless. You don’t care that I read the article or w…
/r/MensRights17/10/22 11:51 PM
1

I don’t know… I honestly don’t know many women who don’t want to admit they’re attracted to beauty. I guess there are people I it there, most of whom are probably female, who claim that looks don’t matter to them. While it’s an admirable thought, I call bullshit. Looks aren’t everything and they shouldn’t be too important, but nobody wants to date someone they find unattractive. I don’t know. Maybe there really are people who don’t care about looks, but I doubt it. As a female, I’ll definitely a…
/r/MensRights17/10/22 11:44 PM
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I’ve been watching In the Dark on Netflix and it’s really good. Russian Doll is also very enjoyable. Natasha Lyonne is always fun to watch. She’s so fucking cool. If you’re into animation, Rick and Morty is one of the greatest tv shows of all time. Or Attack on Titan is good if anime is more your style.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 11:38 PM
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My favorite Resident Evil movie/show is still the first movie with Milla Jovavich. I’m like halfway or three quarters of the way through the Netflix series. It’s okay, I guess. There’s some cool Easter eggs for people who played the games. I kind of stopped watching it because they got rid of my favorite character. I’ll finish it eventually though.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 11:30 PM
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Seth Mcfarlane is the greatest. Everything he makes is always hilarious.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 11:26 PM
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What’s wrong with She-Hulk? I haven’t seen it yet. I was gonna watch it because I love lawyer shows and I love comic books.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 11:25 PM
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There’s about 100 men for every 102 women, not one man for every 300 women.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 01:41 PM
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I guess for some people dating just isn’t worth it. To each their own.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 01:39 PM
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Feminism has taught them not to settle for anything less than what? Than dating people they’re attracted to? No one should be forced to date someone they aren’t attracted to.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 01:37 PM
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And men aren’t attracted to fit beautiful women? What’s wrong with being attracted to beauty?
/r/MensRights17/10/22 01:33 PM
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For what it’s worth, I’ve known guys with speech impediments who ended up in really great relationships. Hang in there. Anyone worth dating won’t judge you for that. That’s such a stupid thing to judge a person for.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 01:31 PM
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You’re being really vague, so I don’t know exactly what happened, but for whatever your female friend clearly feels uncomfortable with you now. Id leave her alone and just try to be more aware of your actions in the future. It kind of seems like you’re looking for forgiveness posting on a forum like this. You could’ve posted this anywhere, but you posted it in the one place where you know at least some of the people will say you were in the right no matter what. I’m sorry you lost a friend, but …
/r/MensRights17/10/22 01:24 PM
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This is so true. As a female, I’ve worn male and female clothing since I was a little girl, and no one ever gave me a second look. Men get judged for it. It’s stupid. People should wear what they like.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 01:15 PM
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Men should be able to wear whatever clothing they want. Period. It’s clothing. No one should police that.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 01:12 PM
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I just think it’s become more socially acceptable to not have kids, so men who don’t want kids aren’t having them. All the more power to them. Live your life like you want.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 01:11 PM
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But I did read it. I’m asking what science I ignored and what you’re correcting me on.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 12:58 PM
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What science did I ignore?
/r/MensRights17/10/22 12:52 PM
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I don’t follow or read the three feminists you mentioned. The only one I’ve even heard of is Simone de Beauvoir, and I wouldn’t exactly consider her relevant or contemporary these days. What I do know, is feminists aren’t lobbying for pedophilia. I know that feminism is not pedophilia. They are two separate things. Feminists, like everyone else, are against pedophilia. 99% of feminists are against child abuse, just like 99% of people who aren’t feminists are against child abuse. Who is lobbying …
/r/MensRights17/10/22 10:45 AM
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I’m laughing at the absurdity of it. Who is lobbying for pedophilia? I’ve heard of NAMBLA, but outside of that small, pathetic group of men, I’ve never heard of anyone lobbying for pedophilia. It’s absurd. You act like feminists are marching for child abuse and calling on Congress to legalize it. Its beyond absurd. I get that you don’t agree with or like feminists, but it seems like you’re just equating feminism with the worst thing you can think of just to make up an awful reason to justify you…
/r/MensRights17/10/22 09:22 AM
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Who said regret sex equals rape? I certainly didn’t. How do I objectify women? Because I said there’s beautiful women on Instagram? There are beautiful women on Instagram. Just because I think someone is beautiful, doesn’t mean I’m objectifying them. I never said it was mens’ jobs to protect women. I didn’t even suggest that. You do you. Protect a woman in need if you want; don’t protect her and walk on by if you don’t want to. It’s your right to decide what you want to do. That’s freedom. I’m g…
/r/MensRights17/10/22 09:14 AM
1

What decision? I didn’t make a decision.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 09:08 AM
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It’s his choice to carry that weight. You may not agree with it, but we can’t force a man (or woman) to be a parent if they don’t want to. I think it could’ve been a lot worse. At least both parents are in agreement. The child will be taken care of by the mother, the father will offer his financial support only. No arguing or court room drama. It sounds like the mom really wants the kid, so he or she will grow up feeling wanted and taken care of. I think that’s a better scenario than forcing the…
/r/MensRights17/10/22 09:07 AM
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I’ve been denied medical treatment I want, and I’m a female. It’s frustrating, and I’ll keep trying to get the treatment I need. The point is, women don’t get whatever medical treatment they want. They get denied too. Doctors are not willing to take a chance or to think creatively, and that ends up with them denying patients all kinds of treatments to men and women. It’s bullshit, but it’s not a problem just for men.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 12:57 PM
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What morals? The woman wants the kid and says the father doesn’t need to be involved. The father doesn’t want involvement, but wants to offer child support. Sounds like everyone is happy.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 12:49 PM
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Holy shit. You think the pink tax is literally a tax on things with pink packaging. I thought it was bad when you thought buying tampons was a life preference. But it’s so much deeper.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 12:47 PM
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I am laughing. Feminists are into child rape? Recent cohorts of feminists are lobbying for pedophilia? Yeah. I’m laughing.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 12:44 PM
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This is an unfortunate truth. A lot of rape victims, both male and female, experience shame and guilt because their bodies had a physiological reaction. It’s really sad.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 12:40 PM
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Misogyny is not disagreeing with a woman. Rape myth involves things like believing female reproduction has a way of shutting itself down when rape is involved, for example. Another example would be the belief that rape is over reported and lied about more often than not. Remember that whole “legitimate rape” discussion that happened some years back? That’s an example of rape myth. I’m a female and I don’t post on Instagram. I’ve still be objectified. Instagram is not to blame for the bad behavio…
/r/MensRights16/10/22 12:37 PM
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I read the post, your comment, and the article. I stand by my statement.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 12:26 PM
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Doctors tend to not do surgeries they deem unnecessary, unfortunately. Personally, I think patients should have more of a choice in their own treatment. But a better comparison would be if a menopausal woman wanted surgery to tie her tubes, a doctor would deny her too. It’s a much more direct comparison than a teenager getting the pill, which I don’t really see the equivalency of. It’s possible if you keep asking around, you might find a doctor willing to do it, but I doubt it. Doctors just aren…
/r/MensRights14/10/22 01:48 AM
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How is this a pass? Men and women have tried filing similar lawsuits in the past, and it nearly never succeeds. I guess we should just never help anyone since both men and women have been know to be ungrateful pieces of shit? I really don’t think this belongs on this sub. Maybe a frivolous lawsuit sub. But I’m not seeing the pass this woman has received.
/r/PussyPass11/10/22 05:28 PM
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She should be held accountable, but as far as Cosby goes, it’s not the best comparison, considering there are no allegations of rape, and no victims have come forward. No victim willing to speak, means no day in court.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/10/22 05:21 PM
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Why do you think that a judge not dismissing a case means they will likely rule in favor of one party or the other? Not dismissing a case has no bearing on the judge’s eventual final decision. That’s not how the law works. If it was, that’d be pretty fucked up and illogical. This is basic elementary school civics.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/10/22 05:17 PM
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Honestly, I don’t know what they do. I’m sure they’re all different. I’m just speaking based off what the OP said was reported in the study. I don’t know why it’s getting downvotes. It’s a weird brag to say they have no proclivity towards rape, but have tendencies towards misogyny and rape myths, as well as objectifying. It just is. What are people downvoting? Sigh.
/r/MensRights07/10/22 03:40 AM
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If you can’t get a vasectomy, that sounds like an insurance or income issue, not gender. You’re just as free to get a vasectomy as woman with your income and insurance is to get her tubes tied. If you want a vasectomy, I absolutely support your right to do that. I sincerely hope you’re able to get one in the future if that’s what you want. It’s your right.
/r/MensRights07/10/22 01:11 AM
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Hahaha
/r/MensRights07/10/22 12:54 AM
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This is hilarious. It belongs in that one sub… not how females work or something? I can’t remember what it’s called. But I got a good laugh off this.
/r/MensRights07/10/22 12:24 AM
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Which is it? Is a woman’s body and choices a man’s responsibility, or do women have more autonomy? You kind of contradicted yourself there. Also, how do women have more rights regarding our own bodies than men? Specifically, bodily autonomy.
/r/MensRights07/10/22 12:18 AM
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What’s the problem? She said he doesn’t have to be involved on any level. To each their own.
/r/MensRights07/10/22 12:12 AM
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What feminists are okay with raping boys?
/r/MensRights07/10/22 12:08 AM
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That’s great that they don’t have a proclivity for rape, but misogyny, acceptance of rape myth, and sexual objectification isn’t a good thing.
/r/MensRights07/10/22 12:03 AM
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I’m really sorry your mom put you through that. I’m sure she didn’t mean to cause you harm. She was probably just repeating what she was taught by her parents. I think you would benefit from some kind of therapy. It sounds like your mom has instilled some pretty unhealthy ideas about sexuality in you. There’s nothing wrong with desiring someone you’re attracted to. There’s nothing wrong with acting on it. We all have feelings like that, and most all of us act on them. I wish you the best and enc…
/r/MensRights06/10/22 11:58 PM
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I’m sorry you got called into HR for something so trivial. I’ve also gotten in trouble at my job for similar language a few times. It’s fucking stupid. You’re right about it being a high stress environment with a bunch of guys hopped up on adrenaline and testosterone. It can cause for sexual harassment. It can also cause for awful cases of hazing. When my fiancé had just gotten out of bootcamp, a young man was actually killed because of hazing on his base. I know that this mixture of stress and …
/r/MensRights06/10/22 11:46 PM
1

I don’t think we should require mens only gyms, but I have no problem with them existing.
/r/MensRights06/10/22 11:33 PM
1

It doesn’t sound dumb, I just don’t understand what you mean.
/r/MensRights06/10/22 11:32 PM
1

My boyfriend is an anecdotal example, but in all honesty, I don’t know any men who can’t handle being around women in exercise clothing. Was my boyfriend just one example? Yes. The point is, he’s normal.
/r/MensRights06/10/22 11:31 PM
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We should all dress however we want, as long as it’s not breaking any laws.
/r/MensRights06/10/22 11:28 PM
0

You’re obviously a troll.
/r/MensRights06/10/22 11:27 PM
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I liked your comment even though I don’t agree with all of it. First of all, I think my comment was a bit harsh. I know men act a certain way around their boys, just like I act a certain way around my girls, and while exceptions to the rule apply, most people behave differently depending on if they’re with their own gender or not. I get that. Secondly, thank you for your service. Even if you weren’t a SEAL, that’s pretty bad ass that you got to work with them. Thirdly, that female officer sounds…
/r/MensRights06/10/22 11:25 PM
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Women don’t dress to provoke men. They don’t want to be harassed. Everyone checks out other people. I’m not saying looking at another person is a crime. We all do it. Calling that love is creepy though. There is no love at first sight. And “sick women” don’t “trigger that kind of behavior on purpose”. Anyone who becomes that obsessed with someone just by looking at them for the first time, has serious issues.
/r/MensRights06/10/22 11:10 PM
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I have no problem with gender specific spaces. It’s not something I feel I need, but if men or women feel they need a space to not be around the opposite sex, I don’t care.
/r/MensRights06/10/22 11:04 PM
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I’ve read a lot of these comments, and most of the male comments are claiming that all women say they don’t feel safe around them, but it’s the male comments that are repeatedly saying they don’t feel safe around women. For the record, as a female, I feel safe around nearly 100% of men. If women don’t feel safe around you, maybe look at yourself. If you don’t feel comfortable or safe around women, I don’t know what to tell you. Home gym?
/r/MensRights09/07/22 07:38 AM
1

A lot of people meet at gyms. Why is that weird?
/r/MensRights09/07/22 07:32 AM
1

I don’t understand why it’s easier for you all to be more playful around a man than around a woman. We’re all just people.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 07:30 AM
1

Can I ask what it is that you’re scared of, specifically?
/r/MensRights09/07/22 07:28 AM
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I don’t have a problem with gender specific spaces, but I live in a large city and there are no female only spaces that I’ve heard of.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 07:25 AM
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I don’t think buying tampons is a preference.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 07:11 AM
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I agree. As a female, I don’t feel a need for a female only space, but if men want a male only space, I don’t see the issue with that.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 07:06 AM
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Let me get this straight. In your own words, women “dress in a way to provoke” and men can’t help but harass a woman dressed like that. So women “provoke” to be harassed “on purpose”, and most men will harass a women who dresses a certain way? That’s unfortunate that you have experience with this and “it happened to you”, but I can guarantee you that 99% of men won’t automatically harass a woman because her looks “provoked” him. And it’s crazy to me that you think that that’s normal or that you …
/r/MensRights09/07/22 07:00 AM
1

Any gym who instilled a dress code like this would lose business. That’s why they don’t do it.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 06:20 AM
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Is this whole “inappropriate” clothing like a religious issue you have or something? I’m just asking because it’s usually just certain religious people who get this upset over clothing. All I can say, is that if you’re that uncomfortable seeing womens’ exercise clothing, maybe the gym isn’t the best place for you. I have no problem with gender specific gyms, but until you find one, women at a gym are going to wear exercise clothes. Based on your feelings about appropriate attire, I’m assuming yo…
/r/MensRights09/07/22 06:19 AM
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It’s kind of weird that there are so many comments about how men need to be free, which everyone should have freedom.. but to go on to then say how women try to control men, and then to follow that up by trying to control and say what kind of clothes a woman should wear. Who cares? Wear what you want. I don’t tell random men what to do, so don’t tell me what to do.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 06:01 AM
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It’s kind of sad that so many grown men are incapable of being around women in exercise clothing, to the point of trying to tell women what they should or shouldn’t wear. I’m also sorry for you that you can’t be yourself around a female. My boyfriend has many female friends, and quite enjoys the company and friendship of both males and females.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 05:55 AM
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Circumcision is an archaic and barbaric practice. It’s awful and heartbreaking that male genital mutilation is so common in western society. But I don’t see how that relates to women wanting rights.
/r/MensRights06/07/22 08:49 AM
1

Asking this in all seriousness… is the expectation of all men to be hyper masculine at all times a good thing or bad thing?
/r/MensRights05/04/22 02:02 PM
1

Your post is way too vague to comment specifically on anything. No one has any idea what your slide show said or represented.
/r/MensRights05/04/22 01:45 PM
1

Do you really want to sit around and talk about your white man feelings with other white men and how the world is so unfair? Honestly, I just don’t need groups like that to begin with. I guess I’m just not a resource group kind of person.
/r/MensRights05/04/22 01:41 PM
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What on earth are you talking about? Are telling me that my grandmother didn’t care when my grandfather died? She married him when she was 17, and never spent a night apart for seventy years (not including WWII). She was devastated. She was well into her nineties and hadn’t slept without him since the 1940s. I lost a fiancé. I was destroyed. What are you talking about that women don’t care when men die?
/r/MensRights02/04/22 04:40 PM
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Because it’s crazy to blame women for male mortality rates. Because professional female athletes are good at what they do. The average man can’t possibly think he could beat the average professional female athlete. And seriously, I’m confused about the mortality rate. You are aware that the lower life expectancy for men is not caused by women killing them, right?
/r/MensRights02/04/22 03:08 PM
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You have to be a troll.
/r/MensRights02/04/22 02:28 PM
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No I did not. I admitted to saying you are scary and creepy. I never said anything else you claim. This is insane.
/r/MensRights02/04/22 02:09 PM
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Haha, yeah. Everything I saw in this sub always gets either a million downvotes or they’ll shock me and give me a ton of likes. I can’t understand it. Mens rights are good. All people deserve rights, obviously. The MR organizations are not always so good. Some people don’t care so much about mens rights, and it’s more just a really weird intense hatred and bitterness towards all women. Also, can someone tell me why the hatred for humanitarians? Humanitarians are on their side!
/r/MensRights02/04/22 01:55 PM
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All the stuff you’re saying is what I was trying to say. I was not qualifying the facts, I was just stating them. Thanks for this comment. You said exactly what I was trying to say, but with much more clarity and better explanation.
/r/MensRights02/04/22 01:46 PM
1

I understand if someone is against prostitution for both men and women, and I also understand if someone thinks it should be legal for both men and women. I don’t understand why women shouldn’t buy sex from men, unless you believe that men shouldn’t buy from women either. You said women shouldn’t buy sex from men. So based on that comment, I’m asking why gender should effect the law. Personally, I think it should be legal whether it’s a man, a woman, gay, or straight. I don’t understand why it w…
/r/MensRights02/04/22 01:42 PM
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I didn’t say I base my whole perspective on anecdotal evidence. I said I base my life experience on what I’ve experienced. Seems like an obvious, logical, and inevitable basis.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 06:58 PM
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I don’t know what else to tell you. I’m fine with the laws regarding nudity where I’m from. Male or female, you can’t expose your genitals in public, but every thing else is okay. I’m good with it.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 06:54 PM
0

Why?
/r/MensRights31/03/22 06:48 PM
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Thanks. It’s a difficult topic to talk about, so I’m glad you understand where I’m coming from.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 06:11 PM
0

I was just hoping to get a brief explanation of this law that you are so passionate about. Does the law state that women can sell and buy sexual acts, and men can not sell or buy sex acts? Or does it state a person can sell sex, but cannot buy sex, regardless of gender?
/r/MensRights31/03/22 06:08 PM
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Exactly! There’s a difference between anecdotal evidence and scientific evidence, but my personal preference and experience will obviously be guided by my experience. And just to be clear for people, I’ll again state that I would never reject a man because of he was circumcised or not. I just think that circumcision is an archaic and brutal custom, and in my experience (and from the experience of other women, and for the man), from what I’ve read, sex is better with and for uncircumcised men.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 05:55 PM
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God you’re a prude. I’m sorry. We are just from different walks of life when it comes to sex. Also, people do go out showing their ass. It’s called a thong.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 04:29 PM
0

So the law doesn’t target women or men specifically?
/r/MensRights31/03/22 04:16 PM
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I don’t know how else to explain this to you. I base my own life experience on what I have experienced and what others have told me. I can’t make that more clear.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 04:15 PM
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I’m fine with it just being genitals that need to be covered. We have a big festival in my city where women often get their breasts painted and walk around topless. I think it’s fair to just say both genders can’t expose their genitals. Just my opinion.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 04:13 PM
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My personal experience can absolutely be used for my personal preference. I never said I wouldn’t date a circumcised man, by the way. I was engaged to a circumcised man. But my PERSONAL experience should and can influence PERSONAL preference. Saying otherwise is crazy.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 03:49 PM
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I’m just expressing my experience with men, and what I’ve heard from my male friends. They haven’t had the same issues as you as a male. That doesn’t invalidate your issues. I’m just saying your issues are not the end all be all of being male. Everyone has their own experience.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 03:29 PM
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I’m fine with locker rooms and nude beaches, and wherever nudity is expected. I just don’t think people should be exposing themselves in grocery stores or parks or places where it’s not allowed.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 03:26 PM
2

I don’t think my male friends would agree with you, but you’re free to your opinion and I accept that it’s been your experience.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 03:03 PM
4

I’m confused by this comment. I’m okay with genitals, but at the same time, I’m not okay with them being exposed in a public park.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 03:01 PM
2

Look at this or literally just Google “do women pay child support?” (like I already https://codes.ohio.gov/ohio-revised-code/section-3109.04
/r/MensRights31/03/22 02:59 PM
1

Oh Jesus Christ, you’re seriously going to make me look it up. Hold on…
/r/MensRights31/03/22 02:54 PM
1

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Child_support_in_the_United_States If you’re curious about my state, Google “do women pay child support in Ohio?”
/r/MensRights31/03/22 02:49 PM
6

There’s a thousand articles on male circumcision, some in favor, some not. I don’t know what to tell you if you can’t find them. But you can not deny my life experience. I wouldn’t not date a guy because he was circumcised against his will as an infant. I also would prefer he was not circumcised. It feels better. It just does. I guess we can both have our different preferences for what we prefer in a dick. Give me a break, seriously. What are you on about? Why are you ranting about this?
/r/MensRights31/03/22 02:44 PM
9

Oh my lord, I am not getting more graphic with you. Google it. I’m not describing my sexual history to you. Circumcision is barbaric and unfair.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 02:37 PM
6

In my experience it feels better to sleep with an uncircumcised male than a circumcised. As far as male pleasure goes, there is a ton of sensitivity in the foreskin. It’s just better all around to not genitally mutilate people, babies or adults. What do you want me to say? I won’t get more graphic than that, so I hope that answers your question.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 02:28 PM
2

I didn’t ask why, so I don’t need you tell me “because”: I asked what are you asking? You seem to just be asking for details on my sex life. I’m happy to provide them, if that’s what you need, but I don’t want to misunderstand your meaning.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 02:21 PM
9

What are you asking exactly? Because it seems a bit improprietous to ask me to go into detail.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 02:16 PM
15

Because I talked about how it diminishes pleasure for the male and female.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 02:13 PM
10

No. I’m an uncircumcised female.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 02:11 PM
22

I have read a lot of studies that say that it diminishes pleasure for the male and female when the make is cut. I know there’s studies that give differing opinions, but I can say from personal experience that circumcision effects sexual experience.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 02:10 PM
1

I don’t want anyone to get in the way of gender equality. Extremism on either side is dangerous. Women and men should have equal rights under the law. Period. Nobody gets special treatment. That’s my ideal.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 02:03 PM
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Yep. That’s the law where I’m from.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 01:56 PM
1

Duly noted. I did not remember saying that, but I remember now. He just seemed very angry at fairly benign comments, so that’s why I said that. I didn’t mean to imply he is a danger to society. Just meant he seemed angry and very emotional.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 01:54 PM
1

It should always be innocent until proven guilty, not the other way around. I hope your country finds a way to protect both women and men from sexual assault, stop criminalizing adultery, and have fair laws to protect all citizens equally. I really do hope the best for India. Your country has a lot of amazing people. You all deserve better.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 01:50 PM
-1

Okay… if you get two seconds to tell me if that law makes it legal for women to buy or sell sex, but illegal for men to buy sex, I’d appreciate it. I think I know the answer already without you telling me. Otherwise you’d just answer and not dodge the question. I’ll just have my coworker look at it. He can translate. Thanks for engaging me in a conversation where you didn’t know what you were talking about and could not answer simple questions.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 01:43 PM
0

Thanks for sending the source. Much appreciated. But English is the only language I speak with any fluency. I can’t read those. I have a friend who could though. Maybe they’ll give it a look and explain to me. But I definitely can’t read that. Could you just tell me?
/r/MensRights31/03/22 01:27 PM
1

I didn’t call you a rapist. ???? I never mentioned rape. I never called you scary. Where are you getting this??? And as far as me not supporting men, I’ve said like ten times that I support rights for men and women, not just women. I don’t like seeing men being discriminated against. It enrages me. But I don’t like to see it done to women either. That doesn’t make me a Nazi. It doesn’t mean I called you a rapist. It doesn’t mean I said I was scared of you.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 01:23 PM
0

I live right next to you in Ohio. Glad to hear to you got custody of your kids. I trust the court made the right decision. In my experience, most people I know get shared custody, and the parent who makes more money pays support. In your case, since the mother doesn’t have custody, I’d assume she should pay support of some kind, but it’s not something I’m super familiar with, so I truly don’t know for sure. All I know is, legally, with shared parenting the parent who makes more pays support. The…
/r/MensRights31/03/22 01:15 PM
2

Not gonna lie, you’re kind of a scary guy. You seem unhinged and angry, and I’m sorry for that. But me supporting equal rights for men and women does not make me the same as the people who burned people, gassed them, and put them in mass graves. Get a hold of yourself before you hurt someone.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 01:06 PM
2

Wow.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 01:03 PM
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I’ll check it out. I still don’t appreciate being compared to a Nazi just because I believe in legal equality when it comes to protection for both genders.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 01:00 PM
7

That is interesting though. I always wondered about those old timey mens bathing suits. It all makes sense now. People used to be such prudes.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 12:49 PM
7

No, I’m saying it’s a good thing that the laws allow both men and women to go topless where I live.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 12:48 PM
5

Fair enough. Female breasts are definitely sexualized. But I’m glad I live in a place where indecent exposure laws are totally equal regardless of being a male or female. That’s the way it should be.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 12:46 PM
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That’s not my experience with custody. Every kid I know that is a child of divorce went through shared custody, myself included. Most all of my friends growing up came from broken homes, but we were nearly all lucky enough to have both parents stick around. It’s not an easy thing to go through, and I know it’s not easy for the parents either. But again, whichever parent makes more money pays support. Doesn’t matter gender. That is the law. The post asked about laws.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 12:36 PM
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I think changes needed to be made in Indian law. What happened in that infamous gang rape and murder was tragic. I fucking hate when governments use tragedy like that to create bad laws. So I was 100% on board with you for the first half of your post. While I understand the comparison you’re making on some level, like where you say bad laws came about because of a tragic, violent act, you kind of lost me when you started comparing the purported evil of feminism to the evil of nazism more literal…
/r/MensRights31/03/22 12:19 PM
1

Just curious… so the law says it’s illegal for men to buy or sell sex, but women can do either?
/r/MensRights31/03/22 11:55 AM
50

It’s disgusting how common male genital mutilation is in the US. It’s really horrifying when you think about it, but people act like it’s totally normal. And what people don’t realize is that, while females basically lose their ability to orgasm with FGM, when men are circumcised (AKA mutilated), they lose a ton of sensitivity as well. And it doesn’t feel as good for the woman. It’s a brutal, senseless, and strange practice that I will never understand.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 11:20 AM
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Men sell sex too. Prostitution is not a gender specific occupation. That’s stupid though. It should be legal for both buyer and seller.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 11:15 AM
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Yeah, that’s stupid. But most places it’s the opposite. Men can walk around topless on a hot day, but women can’t. Thankfully I live in a place where it’s 100% equal. Male or female, you just need your genitals covered. 👍
/r/MensRights31/03/22 11:11 AM
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I can totally understand being unhappy with Indian laws, but what’s with the hatred for Indian women? I have many Indian-American friends, and male or female, they’re all really kind and good people. The older Indians I know are pretty old school (not always in the best way), and I don’t think it’s right that some of my friends are in arranged marriages (unfair to both men and women) but other than that, I’ve really enjoyed learning about their culture, customs, families, and even religion (I am…
/r/MensRights31/03/22 11:09 AM
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In the US, whichever parent makes more money pays support. Edit: I think it’s ridiculous this post is getting downvoted. I just said what the law is in the US. I honestly didn’t think that would be divisive.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 10:42 AM
1

I guess I’ll never know where you draw the line, and I’ll never know why you think I’m equal to a child rapist because I use condoms/birth control. All I can say is, I think it’s disgusting you would say that I’m basically a child rapist, you are weird and gross, and I have never once in my life done anything that slightly resembled or was immorally equivalent to child rape. You have a sick and angry mind. When someone talks about sex, it’s weird when people automatically go to dark place of chi…
/r/MensRights28/03/22 02:29 PM
1

Thanks man. I don’t wish anyone bad luck either. There probably are certain things I should take care before it’s too late entirely. I’m sure I won’t because I always procrastinate everything. At any rate, best of luck to you too. Thanks for an interesting talk.
/r/MensRights28/03/22 06:49 AM
2

Thanks. I’m not looking for a fairy tale ending, but It’s a nice thought. I’m living for the moment, enjoying spinning around this globe with my favorite person ever, and having fun with him. It’s really all I want. If people want to believe I put in nearly twenty years because I wanted his money, they can believe that. The truth is, I love him to death, and he makes me happy. It’s that simple. As far as money goes, I’ve always taken care of myself. I don’t know about you, but it sounds exhausti…
/r/MensRights28/03/22 06:19 AM
1

I’ve never “desperately” wanted commitment. In the past I dated people until it didn’t work anymore, and it wasn’t the end of the world when I had to break it off with someone. And your main point is that I’m still with him because he didn’t give me commitment? We’ve been together nearly two decades. Sounds like commitment to me. Where is your logic with that statement?
/r/MensRights28/03/22 05:47 AM
1

I don’t see us breaking up. He’s not just my significant other, he’s my best friend. I’d do anything for him, and I know he’s got my back too. We’re solid, and I’ve never thought about or considered making our relationship legally recognizable. I have no desire to legally attach myself to anyone, even him. (If I got a terminal illness, I would want him to have the right to make choices on my behalf, but that’s it.) I was pretty sure you were wrong, so I looked it up, and thankfully for both me a…
/r/MensRights28/03/22 05:41 AM
2

I’ve been with my guy for about 17 years, and we are happily unwed.
/r/MensRights27/03/22 12:05 AM
1

That’s why I was asking where you draw the line, with birth control but you refused to answer beyond saying it’s all murder? So where do you draw the line? Birth control pills? Morning after pills? Condoms? Vasectomies? And yes it is a serious question. How is me not wanting to be forced to have an unwanted child and me using birth control methods equivalent to me being a child rapist? Hoping I can actually get a few of my questions answered this time, because I ask them genuinely.
/r/MensRights26/03/22 10:25 PM
1

I’m from the US where even up until high school we all had to ask permission and get hall passes to use the restroom, so it’s kind of a foreign concept to me all together.
/r/MensRights26/03/22 12:50 AM
1

I don’t think my moral compass is convoluted because I don’t want a child every time I have sex. If you want a child every time you have sex, that’s fine. It’s not for me. And that does NOT make me a child rapist. And you still refuse to explain how and why that’s equivalent to child rape.
/r/MensRights25/03/22 09:27 PM
10

Very true. Always remain silent.
/r/MensRights25/03/22 09:16 PM
4

I am a waitress, and even I wouldn’t work for 100 a month. Haha
/r/MensRights25/03/22 09:14 PM
0

People hate lawyers because they’re idiots.
/r/MensRights25/03/22 09:13 PM
3

Honestly, unless she has solid proof, you won’t be convicted. Her just saying it happened is not enough for a conviction. Just don’t ever talk to police without an attorney, don’t admit to anything you didn’t do, and hopefully the truth should come out in the end. My guess is, like most sexual assault cases, there isn’t much proof of guilt or innocence on either side, so the case will just get thrown out. I am not a lawyer. Just giving my two cents.
/r/MensRights25/03/22 09:09 PM
2

Red flag at me, or red flag at his friend saying black men shouldn’t have casual sex with white women?
/r/MensRights24/03/22 05:47 PM
4

I’m a white woman, and I have never once in my life regretted sleeping with a guy because of his skin color. I would also never falsely accuse any man of sexual assault. Period. If you get an opportunity to have consensual sex with a woman and you’re into it, I say go for it. If you’re more comfortable waiting for something more long term, that’s fine too. But please don’t let your friend convince you that every one night stand with a white woman will end with a rape conviction. That’s just craz…
/r/MensRights24/03/22 04:27 PM
1

You didn’t answer my question. You’re talking about one year olds versus eight year olds, as if I want to kill children. I asked you where you draw the line. Are you against the morning after pill? Birth control? Condoms? Do you want a child with every woman and every time you have sex? The fact that you compare me asking you these questions to me a child rapist, speaks volumes of how insane you are. Explain that one to me.
/r/MensRights24/03/22 12:58 AM
1

This has to be a troll. No one is this psycho.
/r/MensRights24/03/22 12:38 AM
1

Seems like we both agree it’s a well known phrase, so there’s not much more to say in this conversation, unless there’s more meaningful content you want to discuss. This issue seems pretty well wrapped up.
/r/MensRights22/03/22 12:42 PM
1

I get the aphorism. You’re missing the point again.
/r/MensRights22/03/22 12:32 PM
1

To explain my point further…. The fetus doesn’t “want” anything. That is my point. To claim a fetus has wants and desires is absurd. My original point expressed incredulousness at the idea of a fetus wanting anything. Woosh.
/r/MensRights22/03/22 11:51 AM
1

What are you talking about place A and place B? Stop acting like there’s no difference between an eight month pregnancy that is possibly viable outside of the womb, and a pregnancy of a few weeks. Are you anti condoms? Do you want to live in a world where everytime you have sex you have a child?
/r/MensRights22/03/22 11:44 AM
1

You must’ve missed the conversation. “That what I’ve been smoking” has already been addressed and discussed intelligently and respectfully, almost to the point of being ad nauseam. It’s been enlightening and a pleasure discussing (and sometimes debating) this issue with everyone. I don’t see a point in discussing this with someone who misunderstood my comment and then insinuated I’m on drugs. Just because you can’t understand someone’s statement, doesn’t mean the other person is smoking crack. (…
/r/MensRights22/03/22 11:33 AM
1

That’s a senseless question. You might as well ask a woman with a planned pregnancy, “What if the child wants to die?” It’s an inane question.
/r/MensRights22/03/22 11:19 AM
1

It comes down to whose body it is. A man shouldn’t be able to force a woman to have an abortion or have a child, just like a woman shouldn’t be able to force a man to have a child or to get a vasectomy.
/r/MensRights22/03/22 11:17 AM
1

Are you serious? You think just never having sex is a solution?
/r/MensRights22/03/22 09:58 AM
1

And if they don’t both consent, what happens then?
/r/MensRights22/03/22 09:56 AM
1

I would say of course not. People should be in charge of their own medical choices and they should be in control of their own bodies. A woman shouldn’t be allowed to force her husband to get or to undo a vasectomy. She shouldn’t be allowed to force him to do any medical procedure. It goes both ways. People should not be banned from treatment. They also shouldn’t forced to do medical procedures they don’t want. Male or female.
/r/MensRights22/03/22 09:52 AM
1

Abortion is legal in every state.
/r/MensRights22/03/22 09:43 AM
1

Consent from both sides is ideal, but what if there are opposing sides? Do you force her to have an abortion against her will? Do you force her to carry his child against her will?
/r/MensRights22/03/22 09:37 AM
1

Or course not. If a father wants an abortion, he’s free to put forth his point of view to the mother, but not to force her into a medical procedure she doesn’t want. He can try to convince her. If she still doesn’t want an abortion, there’s not much else to do other than walk away and not be a part in any of it. Otherwise, what he is supposed to do? Strap her down and force her to abort her child against her will? That would be crazy. He can speak his voice and give his opinion. He can walk away…
/r/MensRights22/03/22 09:22 AM
1

I see where you’re both coming from. The comment was vague and open to interpretation. I already admitted that maybe my interpretation of what the commenter said could have been misread. It would be nice if the original commenter would chip in and clarify him or her self. All I was saying originally, was that I think it’s insane to force a woman to birth your child, only to bail and want nothing to do with it after that. That’s just insane. I think that, male or female, no one should be allowed …
/r/MensRights22/03/22 09:08 AM
2

I read it as him being disturbed by both scenarios, since he said forced financial help is “more” disturbing. You could be right though. Maybe its not meant to insinuate a father’s right to have a choice for an abortion. It’s just how I read it. I guess the original comment didn’t word that part very strongly one way or the other.
/r/MensRights20/03/22 11:35 PM
57

Just to clarify my two cents… people shouldn’t be forced to do things they don’t want to do. If a woman wants an abortion, she should get it and she should not have to ask the father’s permission. If a man doesn’t want anything to with being a father, he should not be forced, financially or otherwise, to be a father (although I could see an exception for dissolved marriages and planned pregnancies). At the end of the day, maybe some people will call you a baby killer or a deadbeat dad, but most …
/r/MensRights20/03/22 11:31 PM
17

That sounds fair.
/r/MensRights20/03/22 10:33 PM
6

What are you saying? You want to force her to have the baby against her will, and then have no responsibility after that? Bring on the downvotes, it’s whatever. But that is insane.
/r/MensRights20/03/22 10:30 PM
1

1) I don’t know any women who don’t work. Also, I don’t know about where you live, but I live in Midwest America, and child labor is not an issue here, so I certainly can’t say it happens more to boys than girls in my area, because it doesn’t happen at all. I assume that’s true where you’re from as well. From what I’ve read, in countries that do have child labor, they use and abuse them all pretty equally. It’s a sad truth that both young girls and young boys are exploited in some countries as s…
/r/MensRights10/03/22 05:56 PM
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