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Perfect!
/r/seduction17/03/17 09:18 PM
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My stance is that a woman you are seeing always wants to feel a little more special than the other ones you are dating. I think what would convey low value is to get oneitis and not see others.
/r/seduction17/03/17 08:09 PM
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I don't see anything wrong with seeing multiple women or for a woman to see multiple men. I agree about the neediness point.
/r/seduction17/03/17 08:06 PM
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Oh good point. I should check the individual apps. Maybe I missed it.
/r/seduction17/03/17 07:58 PM
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Yeah. I could simply say "yeah she's a girl I'm <whatever> but we're here together right now. Let's make it a great night and not complicate things" I think I might just go with this. I like it.
/r/seduction17/03/17 07:57 PM
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That's a good point and why I felt that hiding my phone could just be masking a possible fundamental problem based on who she is. Better to find out sooner than later!
/r/seduction17/03/17 07:57 PM
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I like that viewpoint, and you're right. She has the freedom to have options too!
/r/seduction17/03/17 07:56 PM
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I was thinking saying a friend because technically a girl I'm just seeing is a "friend." If she leaves the discussion there, great, but if she pushes, I'm thinking this: "Yeah, she's a girl I'm talking to/seeing/going to go out with but it's irrelevant since I'm here with you :) " What do you think? Yeah I'm highly social and contacted a lot
/r/seduction17/03/17 03:49 PM
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My phone never comes out on a date other than for navigation and music in the car. They get my undivided attention
/r/seduction17/03/17 03:34 PM
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Hahahah
/r/seduction17/03/17 03:32 PM
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I agree. Just thinking of the words to say
/r/seduction17/03/17 03:32 PM
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Yes but lately of a girl texts me, we are either dating or have a date planned
/r/seduction17/03/17 03:32 PM
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BAHAHAHAH I wish I could upvote this over and over...
/r/seduction17/03/17 01:51 AM
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My most successful nights for pick up when I go to the pool hall alone at night during peak hours. Women get intrigued why you are the only one at a table alone, kicking ass with shots, and sometimes feigning a goofy smirk to make them wonder about you. I constantly have girls come up asking if I always play alone, if they can play, etc. I often go out with friends, but they are horrible wingmen. If I'm looking to approach, I fly solo. Exudes way more confidence and balls to go it alone, and you…
/r/seduction09/06/16 07:02 PM
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This. Don't let the mindset limit you. Find your match. We all have them. My matches tend to be quirky like me, lol
/r/seduction01/06/16 05:37 PM
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I'm pretty sure I'm on the spectrum of asperger's myself. Jokes no one gets, socially awkward, introverted, highly mathematical and wicked photographic memory but horrible at reading context, and so on. It's been painful, but I've gotten there. The forever alone mindset will keep you in your comfort zone. For years I easily said nah, I'd rather stay home. I can't comment on your spectrum and what you are going through. All I can say is my social anxiety was out the roof, and my life is different…
/r/seduction01/06/16 05:27 PM
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Thank you. It's been a long many month process. Not perfect, and you may occasionally have a day of meh, not approaching. That's alright, it happens. What I did: -force myself to go to the pool hall alone on busiest night. Learn the bartender names, guys and girls. Shake their hands and talk to them. This helps the anxiety, and others will naturally gravitate to you since you are approachable -counseling. Been on/off for years. At a point where I go only ever few months. Not bad. In my case, als…
/r/seduction31/05/16 08:48 PM
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Hahahahhaha!!!!!
/r/seduction31/05/16 05:18 PM
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Why married woman? What objective are you trying to achieve here? Does saying "yeah I succeeded" mean more than the effect it has on the other end? From someone who has been cheated on, try walking in their shoes.
/r/seduction19/05/16 02:04 AM
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This. Props you even are mindful of this. Many aren't
/r/seduction19/05/16 02:02 AM
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How does this help him?
/r/seduction19/05/16 02:02 AM
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It's natural. Society and dopey shows have taught us men to plead, beg, chase, and settle. Compare James Bond to Ross from friends. See the difference? Former had a purpose and is content with or without. In the latter, Rachel was his purpose...bad I can relate and won't say it's easy...I'm just starting to get this after months. Tell yourself what are requirements in a woman. Remember, it's up to you to determine whether she qualifies. Don't settle.
/r/seduction19/05/16 02:01 AM
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I think the context of simply meeting up for first date
/r/seduction19/05/16 01:58 AM
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Hey, I enjoyed our chat. Let's go do (insert activity) one night(important!!! Lunch = friends)...when are you free? Then wait. Let them speak. Your question is open ended and will tell you immediately how vested they were. I find that many girls like being pen pals
/r/seduction19/05/16 01:57 AM
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Sorry about hard times. One thing that helped...instead of laying in bed with regret, force yourself to go out and talk to people. Become social by default. Talk to guys and girls, attractive and unattractive. Treat everyone the same and be charismatic. That way when you find someone you like, it's more subtle. It's ok to be in a slump. Step back and say to yourself hey I'm down, but it's alright. Allow yourself to process things when thoughts come up. Don't suppress as it will lead to problems.…
/r/seduction19/05/16 01:55 AM
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This is excellent. Women should do most of the talking anyhow like you said 80+ percent). Relaying your interest and listening will get them curious about your side of things. Your approach reminds me of a YouTube video on 21 studios channel.
/r/seduction19/05/16 01:51 AM
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I think this works to your advantage, and in fact one way I tease women is telling them they are friend zoned if they do/say something funny. It's role reversal and women are more attracted when they don't know where they stand with you.
/r/seduction19/05/16 01:48 AM
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Oh and thinking about the response before sending will work in my favor anyhow...appear less eager and delay causes anticipation
/r/seduction18/05/16 05:24 PM
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Funny, last week I walked from a girl despite a killer first date because she reminded me of my ex. Btw today I've tried something. Screw cookie cutter responses, cater it, be charismatic, and don't send a response "until" you have an interesting draft. I got two girls today online to instantly respond after they ignored me for four/five responses. I tend to rush a response and use common non boring responses I've heard. But these are still generic, could look like cut and paste, and gamey. One …
/r/seduction18/05/16 05:21 PM
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Good points. I've gotten better at picking up interest. I understand that we guys thinking it was a great night more often than not doesn't align on the other end. What's frustrating here is it's only in these circumstances where she showed mutual interest where I don't get anywhere. If I get a hint a girl isn't interested and/or I'm not, I wouldn't ask her for the number.
/r/seduction18/05/16 02:16 PM
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That's a very clever point. Generally I say "when are you free" or "what's your schedule" and also say such and such place. When they say oh I'm free Tuesday, if I happen to be too I usually say ok meet me for drinks at <place> at 6. You make good points about the duality of this situation where I probably need to change my approach as that approach above which has worked for me online may not apply here because we've actually met in person.
/r/seduction18/05/16 02:14 PM
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True. We are human. I'm noticing it too where I'm currently in a rut with approach anxiety even though just two weekends ago I was approaching many groups of women solo at night with ease. Happens.
/r/seduction28/04/16 05:37 AM
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This. Obviously chasing women = creepy. Mind your own business with confidence and ignoring them = curious cat comes over with interest. You have plenty of time. I couldn't get a girlfriend back then but eventually did in college. When you say annoying...What's a typical interaction like
/r/seduction27/04/16 05:35 AM
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Permits...rather than that, think of it this way. It's our job as men to take initiative and escalate. Read her attraction level as a guide then slowly escalate. You don't need permission but of course she must be comfortable. Start small with high fives, then gently lay hand on back, etc
/r/seduction27/04/16 05:30 AM
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I go blue jeans and a black, well fitted t shirt. My arm tat is partially exposed. I wear comfortable black semi dress shoes. What matters more is how your clothes fits you / are you comfortable / being yourself. Women sense this. Oh, make sure belt color matches shoe color
/r/seduction27/04/16 05:27 AM
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Looks are third for what a woman looks for. Number one is confidence. We should encourage him to go for anyone.
/r/seduction27/04/16 05:25 AM
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Depends on your demeanor. I've been gaming at night at the same pool hall now for many months. All the bartenders know me, I'm friendly, tip well, they now often comp me on games / heavy discount, some of the female bartenders even hug me too. At night I go when it's super busy (college scene, pretty fun) for many reasons: 1) It's more fun. I love crowds 2) Approaching is easier to separate yourself from outcome anxiety. On peak nights, you can hardly walk and with how crowded it is, no one noti…
/r/seduction27/04/16 05:08 AM
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This. Now you have a data point. "Remember that time I talked to that bitch? Yeah this opportunity can't be as bad."
/r/seduction27/04/16 05:03 AM
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This is a win, regardless of the outcome. You approached. That in itself is a win. Bravo.
/r/seduction27/04/16 05:03 AM
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This. Been learning the hard way that if you make a woman your purpose, it always leads to disappointment. They sense this and lose attraction. Easier said than done...I've had two recent flakes and its bogged me down
/r/seduction24/04/16 06:55 PM
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Thanks for this. I'm struggling with the same.
/r/seduction24/04/16 06:54 PM
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Thanks a ton.
/r/seduction24/02/16 05:58 AM
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Onenitis sure is. It messed me up big time in November. Here's the thing. I've been getting about two dates a week and even this week have three other dates scheduled lol (one a second date) . Abundance mentality helps. In November I cancelled my dates, got over eager then communicated it. Big no no. Here I'm only scheduling once a week and don't initiate text in between. After three days she tends to reach out and I've been good at gauging she wants to see me. She's been doing 100 percent chase…
/r/seduction24/02/16 02:15 AM
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Thank you! I did close the deal last night...finally, lol. But the first time always gets my anxiety going with a new girl...So many unknowns haha. Regardless though, it was a good night and are seeing each other Thursday. Just planning on continuing to grow. I'm learning how to date at a slower pace the first time. I've only slept with women I married so this is definitely foreign to me. I also have said I want to go slow. I've made that clear now twice since I'm wondering if this girl is falli…
/r/seduction23/02/16 10:52 PM
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