He talks to her on a regular, not about the kids. I'm not an ass, I understand being in good terms with your co-parent even tho his kids are in their twenties. It def doesn't require constant contact about their days and what not.
I don't need the win, I can have someone come home to me that doesn't have emotional obligations to an ex. Also he's extremely jealous, I have a ton of guy friends (that I've never slept with and never will) and I can't talk to them cause he says they all wanna f me on the DL. It's hypocrisy and I don't like that. It's also the way he handles my feelings about it. He's just like "too bad so sad" which feels like not the best attitude one could hope for when you tell someone you feel uncomfortabl…
He was married twenty years but the first ten he was in jail, so effectively 10 yr marriage and they began talking divorce like a year and a half ago, he bought his condo in April. I know him since we were 15 and were mid-forties now. My issues is him putting her feelings over mine, like hiding me so she didn't get salty and they have eachother blocked in social media so they don't get upset. Does that sound like a friend to you? I'm an idiot.
That's what I don't understand, if one isn't OK with ending the relationship, don't end it! He makes me feel like I'm petty and jealous and that's not who I am at all. I think this is a boundary I'm Judt not OK with and I should accept that and move on from him.
It used to be hot to bind women's feet into gnarled little stubs in China. I'd say there's plenty of room for society to influence what's perceived as attractive. If you look at the swimsuit edition of sports illustrated from the 90s the girls, you'd be hard pressed not to notice that they're chunky by today's standards, and that was only 30 years ago. Someday it won't matter, it'll be like Ready Player One and then we'll ha e to find something else to judge women harshly on 🤣
