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| 0 | Does the 80/20 rule apply to your quality of partners? | Discussion | biplab1990 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/20 04:41 PM |
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| 5 | I constantly read on this sub that men don't put nearly as much effort into their appearance as women. Other than common sense and being physically fit, what can men really do?Women are just salty, that men can wake up in the morning and look presentable in 5 minutes flat. They want men to spend as much time as them getting ready, just for the sake of it. Other than common sense like wearing clean clothes, trimming your beard, brushing your teeth, and putting on a deodorant, nothing else matters when it comes to attracting women. No woman is going to reject a man just because he doesn't have a skin care routine. It's besides the point, but as a man, I don't think wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/20 09:34 AM |
| 2 | I find it weird how Dead Bedrooms is mostly women. Why is that?Novelty, variety, and validation are a big part of male sex drive. Once it wears off, sex isn't that exciting anymore. That's why these men would rather watch porn than have sex with the same person for the zillionth time. Also sex as a man involves far more effort and initiation, which I imagine isn't worth it in the long run. A man in his mid 30s or 40s can cum once or twice a day at most. Vanilla sex with his obese wife means he missed out on his time with his 19 year old pornstars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/20 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Do guys go to the gym so they can be hot and fuck more woman?Steer clear of people who say they go to the gym for themselves and not women. Narcissus was someone who fell in love with his own reflection, these people probably jerk off to themselves in the mirror. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 03:30 PM |
| 1 | People of color: what have your dating experiences been like?South Asian living in the US. Started dating pretty late about 3 years ago. Been with about 30+ women. Most of them were white or black. I am usually interested in short term and casual. So that probably explains why Indians, Asians, and Latinas avoid me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 12:55 PM |
| 6 | Are most people who can only imagine fucking young girls (18-24) around the same age bracket?In my experience women in their 30s are no more mature than women in their 20s, not to mention they're far more indoctrinated than the younger generation. Anyway, maturity and stability are not high on the priority list for men who are sorted out themselves. In fact it sounds boring and vanilla. High value men usually seek out partners who are attractive and fun. And younger women do go after older men, quite a few times. Yes, money and status are part of the equation, but so is the case for any… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 03:36 PM |
| 7 | Are most people who can only imagine fucking young girls (18-24) around the same age bracket?Throughout my 20s I chased women in their 30s, and even 40s thinking they were experienced and straightforward. Had a couple of relationships with a 10 year age gap. Avoided women my age, because I thought they were shallow and childish. Now as I step into 30s I realize what I mistook for experience was just baggage. As I became more and more emotionally independent, I realized how much fun dating a younger women is. They are much more open minded, are in no rush to label the relationships, not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 02:21 PM |
| 3 | What’s the difference for you between someone you’ll hookup with compared to a relationship person?Be physically fit for hookups. Be physically fit, mentally stimulating, and financially independent for a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/20 05:55 AM |
| 0 | Do men have to always date down if they even want a slight chance at all?For long term stable relationships there has to be power imbalances both ways. If your partner is above your league physically, then you should be above her league in some other way, maybe socially or financially. An average woman in a western country has more power socially, owing to her readily available suitors, so you better be above her station physically or financially. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 11:24 PM |
| 1 | What does a man have to do to get a reasonable proportion of women to not impose gender roles and expectations in a relationship?Be tall, white, bearded, and muscular. In other words look exactly like society's image of masculinity. Only then can you afford to not be actively masculine in your everyday life. A short Asian nerd will be seen as too feminine with those qualities. But you will be seen as someone who is secured with theirs. If you don't look the part, to get a reasonable percentage of women interested in you, you'll have to act the part. No two ways about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Is feminisms really to blame for any of men’s problemsWhen you say high tier men, you mean men of high socio economic status. Yes, men of wealth and status, have always been able to buy sex and women. But again most of those were clandestine affairs. A man not born into those societies definitely had a boring sex life. You could say feminism has made it harder for men to 'buy' affection and sex. But I don't know if 'bought' sex is any good either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 04:40 AM |
| 2 | Is feminisms really to blame for any of men’s problemsMost high value men benefit from feminism if anything. In the absence of the third wave and sexual liberation, they would have been stuck with a single woman for their whole life. An active and varied sex life for a man is almost unthinkable without feminism, and women being vocal about their sexual proclivities. Yes, low value beta men would have had a boring life long monogamous partner, but that is hardly an upgrade from jerking off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 02:37 AM |
| 3 | Are most men really attracted to everything?Most men will stick their dick in anything. Many among them will keep sticking their dick only in someone special. So, either be the best hole they can stick their dick in, or be something more than a hole they can stick their dick in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/20 03:13 AM |
| 3 | Update on Polycule Discussed Months Ago on PPD: It Got DarkYeah those who proudly carry the poly badge are almost always obese. It's the 'poly look'. Carries over to the kink clubs as well. Hot people are into non-monogamy, but they usually keep to themselves. What is commonly referred to as the swingers lifestyle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/20 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Update on Polycule Discussed Months Ago on PPD: It Got DarkI have nothing against non-monogamy or polyamory. I don't think I have ever been the first to ask anyone to be monogamous with me. But I went to non-monogamy as a relationship anarchist. And most poly people are obnoxiously obsessed with labels and relationships. They love to have a hierarchy of people. They love ranking and compartmentalizing their relationships. Their life is so empty they seek out meaning in their little flings. Let's not forget how insufferable they come off when they claim … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/20 10:05 AM |
| 10 | Testosterone levels and attraction?According to my blood test I'm high T for a natty. I find the first chick disgusting. Although I can still get it up for her. It probably means you're a fat ass yourself, as are most American men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/20 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Men, let's settle this once and for all: do you believe that you're entitled to sex?I don't think men are entitled to sex, but they're certainly deserving of. And I don't really know where the line is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 03:23 AM |
| 2 | Women are the stronger sex and hypergamy is a good thingRestoring the natural order of things is all fine and dandy, but don't forget 80% of men are the workhorse of our civilization. And for most of them coming back to a loving family is the only motivation for working their asses off. You take that away and civilization collapses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Why is hypergamy viewed as worse than polygyny?PPD claims polygyny is in men's nature. But honestly would any man here prefer a harem of 5s than dating a 9/10 monogamously? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 07:11 PM |
| 5 | Dating app stats don't demonstrate extreme hypergamy, it demonstrates an oversaturation of menMen and women both harbor desires of hypergamy. Most women (and ultra rich men) just have the means to act on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/20 08:15 PM |
| 1 | If a man has an ugly face, can building a muscular body make that much of a difference in improving attraction?Yes. Especially in the age of tinder, where you can put shirtless pics. But the key is usually leanness, than muscles. Average man can pack on the required muscles in a year. But staying at 12% body fat is the hard part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 07:52 PM |
| 5 | Why do women seem to love damaged men? It doesn’t line up with any “pill”.Women want to be desired by men for more than just sex. A man who has spent considerable amount of time self improving, who is emotionally and financially independent, would only need a woman for his sexual needs. A broken man taps into their maternal instincts, and gives them a sense of purpose. That desire to prove themselves more than just a sex organ is extremely fulfilling, I would imagine. Men do that by being providers. They just want to be desired period. Even if it's their money that ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/20 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Two evolutionary psychologist argue that Evo Psych should move from a MCFC(males compete females choose) model of human mate selection, and focus more on a MMC(Mutual mate choice) model.Males propose and females select is actually the basis of a famous algorithm in game theory called Gale-Shapely algorithm, which aims at producing a stable pairing for the population: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gale%E2%80%93Shapley_algorithm Funny thing is, the solution is optimal for the proposing gender (men), or in other words it maximizes the total happiness of all men with respect to their pairing. For women on the other hand the happiness is sub optimal. Another interesting corollary,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 01:10 PM |
| 1 | What is the sluttiest outfit a man can wear in public.Pretty much this: http://imgur.com/a/IQr8Acd Tighter shirt and trousers if you got the goods | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 08:29 AM |
| 2 | For those women who believe in the 3 month wait ruleI meet quite a few women who say they want to wait a month or two before sex. I've no problem with that if I found them interesting otherwise. However, I offer to be friends instead in the meantime. Because I feel it is inherently creepy me going on romantic dates, and trying to flirt with them, when they've no intention of having sex with me. None of them agree to be friends though. Most of the women who want to wait usually enjoy the attention, and get a kick out of men chasing them. Playing t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Do you think we should be teaching young men that it’s okay not to be stereotypically masculine?Much of what we call instinct is just social conditioning. Teaching women to question their attraction, for a change, would be a good start. And I believe dads have an immense role to play in this regard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 02:08 AM |
| 6 | Q4Men: Do you think we should be teaching young men that it’s okay not to be stereotypically masculine?No, we should be teaching young women it's okay not to have a stereotypically masculine partner. Once non masculine men are seen as attractive, toxic masculinity will die in an instant. Until then, teach your boys to be men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 12:13 AM |
| 3 | Why is it that for most of human history women were held to higher beauty standards than men?Because most of human history was written by men. Why the fuck would they write about male beauty? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/19 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Why do women constantly complain about “unrealistic” beauty standards?It's a self imposed pressure, probably stemming from the fact that the average woman in media is far attractive than the average man. Even if the pressure were societal, they're definitely not succumbing to it. If they were, 40% of women won't be obese. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/19 07:38 PM |
| 3 | Why are women so triggered by sexually unsucess*cel*ful men?Pretty much like most things discussed here on PPD, women in real life don't give a second thought about incels. Only on Reddit do people get their knickers in a bunch. Most people mocking incels are blue-pilled chubby simps. Black pill makes them uncomfortable. So they shit on incels to make themselves feel better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/19 05:49 AM |
| 0 | Q4Men: If sex for you was like it is for us...Again with the orgasm argument. As a man I'm envious of women's orgasm. The full body, legs shaking, eyes rolling in the back of the head kind. I've never experienced anything of that sort, while sometimes I see my partner having them twice or thrice in a row. It's about time women took responsibility for their own orgasms. It's baffling the amount of times I've heard, "I don't know they just do things", "I like whatever you're doing", "you really know what you're doing", when I ask them how exa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/19 11:34 AM |
| 11 | As the average American female is a whopping 171lbs at 5'4, is wanting a girlfriend under 140/150lbs now considered "high standards"?An average guy wanting to date a fit woman, is a statistically high standard. I'm a 5"6" 150lb lean muscular guy, and I'm often told my standards are way too high when I say, I only go for girls with a sub 25 bmi. The funny thing is there are overweight and obese women, who would rather date a fat guy than a fit dude, because they want to feel 'small' in a relationship. And honestly there are as many overweight men as women in the US. And with tinder, and body positivity, there's no pressure on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/19 12:25 PM |
| 0 | Excels: how did you make it?I was the textbook incel: short balding Indian late twenties in STEM. Only thing that helped was lifting and being a sarcastic asshole. Since I had sex for the first time 2.5 years ago I've hooked up with more than 20 people. But it's just that. After realizing the truth about dating and attraction, I find myself irreparably damaged. I just can't see myself in a relationship, let alone fall in love with someone. My ONS this weekend yelled at me later over text, as to how rude I was kicking her o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/19 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Is being friends with someone before dating them a good way to develop a healthy relationship?Healthy or not, that's the only way below average men get into relationships. When girls say I fell for his personality, they usually mean guys who took the time to be friends with her, gets to know her, and then asks her out. I would say it's the other way round. Sexual compatibility is important for short term relationships, while both emotional and sexual are important for long term relationships. Unless you're only interested in LTRs and absolutely hate STRs, doesn't make sense to be friends… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/19 02:31 AM |
| 1 | For Those Who Say The Dating World Isn’t Fair - What changes would make things fair?I for one welcome out robotic overlords. A matrix like world where we're free to live our own fantasy is the only solution. I never really understood why Morpheus and Neo ever chased the truth, when most people just want a beautiful lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/19 02:13 AM |
| 20 | Would more men pursue alternative models of masculinity and gender roles if female sexual preferences weren’t so rigid?Absolutely. In fact, one of my friends, who's a gender studies professor believes that fastest way to enact a change in the behavior of men, is for women to start rewarding it with sex. I get torn to shreds when I say, women are as much responsible as men for toxic masculinity. If women want positive masculinity in men, start fucking men exclusively with those traits. Men will do anything to get laid, changing your personality is one of the easier ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/19 06:39 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Bloops assuming "insecurity" is the reason men can't get dates is unfairly blaming them for their problems.The things this guy had to pay $1000 for, Chad experiences it with every new girl he dates.. for free. And the kicker is those are genuine experience unlike that dude's | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/19 05:19 AM |
| 7 | CMV: Bloops assuming "insecurity" is the reason men can't get dates is unfairly blaming them for their problems.Man that post is sad as fuck. Realizing what an average day as a high SMV male is, will wreck most men. And those bloops are clueless as fuck. If they only had Chad friends they would realize how unfair this world is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/19 02:35 AM |
| 1 | What type of man cares deeply about things feminists say?I'm a man who doesn't care about superheros (I can talk about movies across the world though), doesn't watch any of the big 3 American sports (can talk your ear off about tennis and f1 though). I'm decently versed in feminism, not the Twitter variety. I'm talking about actual feminist texts from Simone De Beauvoir to Roxanne Gay. I've also read the manosphere's favorites Roosh V to Mark Manson. I'm not even a sociology professor, I work in computers. I just have a morbid curiosity about all thin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 07:19 PM |
| 4 | Do you feel that online dating has a good thing or a bad thing for modern society?Online dating is the most sexually liberating thing that has happened to women since the 3rd wave. It has done more for feminism than any of your favorite feminists. Good or bad depends on your personal point of view. Is moving from a regulated market to a free market good? How bad will a late stage capitalism be? Do you want regulation in the form of religion and patriarchy? Do you want science meddling in the process through eugenics? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/19 08:28 AM |
| -1 | why would any man marry any woman he already knows wont do sex things he wants?As if the average dude can afford to be picky. Women fake orgasms to keep the guy invested. Men fake entire relationships for easy availability of sex. Also most guys have no idea what they want, because they rarely have the same sexual opportunities as an average woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Can you break down the appeal of commitment from an average guy?Most people want their feelings reciprocated. Most people understand that it's not only important that they like their partners, but also that their partner likes them back. Most women develop an attachment with their sexual partner and the chads aren't going to like them back. So they have to make a compromise where the feeling's mutual. Now there are women who can keep sex and emotions separate. They are pretty much happy being dicked down by chads throughout their lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 09:19 PM |
| 2 | An aspect of AF/BB: Men and Women have a fundamentally different thought process behind Sex and CommitmentThese issues only happen when people are ignorant of each other SMVs. Guys need to understand that the girl they are in an LTR with has had way more sexual opportunities than them. Even if there was no video evidence, it's highly probable that her sexual past is wilder than theirs. Also experimenting is a big part of sexual experience. Although I'm exclusively a dom now, I have done things with dommes that I wouldn't ever do again. At that time the newness was enough to make them enjoyable. I wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 08:58 PM |
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