| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 10 | Advice for being in a new city. Hard to entre bars or clubs. | Logistics | bipolarearth123 | /r/seduction | 06/02/20 05:36 AM |
| 6 | Any dating advice for a 29 guy really bad at dating? I’ll do almost anything to figure this out. | Outer Game | bipolarearth123 | /r/seduction | 04/07/20 06:16 AM |
| 2 | 31/m. Want to get into the dating scene. But insecure about my age. Where do I go to meet people? | Outer Game | bipolarearth123 | /r/seduction | 10/10/20 08:12 AM |
| 0 | 32/M where would be a good place to go to practice pick up? I’ve been in a relationship for two years and I forgot about everything. | Fundamentals | bipolarearth123 | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 04:35 AM |
| 0 | Pushed hard on a tinder date. She didn’t want to have sex but she said she wanted a long term relationship. Did I mess up? | Field Report | bipolarearth123 | /r/seduction | 01/11/20 05:41 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Pushed hard on a tinder date. She didn’t want to have sex but she said she wanted a long term relationship. Did I mess up?You’re totally right. And yeah Covid has put me under an immense amount of stress. I heavily appreciate the advice. | /r/seduction | 01/11/20 09:04 AM |
| 1 | Pushed hard on a tinder date. She didn’t want to have sex but she said she wanted a long term relationship. Did I mess up?I did. But I didn’t lead into it. We walked to my street from the bar. And when I got to my house. I was like “oh btw. This is my house let’s go!” And I touched her hand. But she froze up. So I was like. “Let’s walk around” At the time I didn’t know what I was doing. But thinking back on it. It was probably scary as hell for her. We meet up and then I surprise her by my apartment. So. I heavily regret that. | /r/seduction | 01/11/20 06:18 AM |
| 2 | Pushed hard on a tinder date. She didn’t want to have sex but she said she wanted a long term relationship. Did I mess up?Cool cool. Thank you. I really appreciate this advice. | /r/seduction | 01/11/20 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Pushed hard on a tinder date. She didn’t want to have sex but she said she wanted a long term relationship. Did I mess up?Well. I didn’t really pressure her for sex. Most of it was just escalation. I never touched her inappropriately. Maybe took her hands. But if she tensed up I let go, said sorry. And then I started talking about something else. | /r/seduction | 01/11/20 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Pushed hard on a tinder date. She didn’t want to have sex but she said she wanted a long term relationship. Did I mess up?I mean. I think we connect really well to be honest. It then again I haven’t been on a date in a while. I could honestly see us dating though. You’re right. I just feel confused by the situation. | /r/seduction | 01/11/20 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Pushed hard on a tinder date. She didn’t want to have sex but she said she wanted a long term relationship. Did I mess up?Yeah. You’re right. I feel like I pushed too much. I think it’s probably better to play by her rules too much. I will message tomorrow when I ask to hang out. | /r/seduction | 01/11/20 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Pushed hard on a tinder date. She didn’t want to have sex but she said she wanted a long term relationship. Did I mess up?Yeah. I mean. I am thinking she likes me. I honestly regret not making the situation more comfortable. She looked very very shy. But we connect on a different level. She is extremely reserved. I can tell by what she talks about. But we have very similar nerdy interests. Like we’re both graduate students. But she is definitely smarter than me. Lmao. But I do like her. | /r/seduction | 01/11/20 06:06 AM |
| 0 | Pushed hard on a tinder date. She didn’t want to have sex but she said she wanted a long term relationship. Did I mess up?Not gonna lie. I felt the exact same way. Afterwards I was like “I fucked up. She’s going to ruin me”. But honestly I tried to move things forward but if she ever showed a sign of discomfort I backed off and gave her space ASAP. Like honestly. I haven’t been on a date in months. I really suck. Lmao. | /r/seduction | 01/11/20 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Pushed hard on a tinder date. She didn’t want to have sex but she said she wanted a long term relationship. Did I mess up?You think so? Idk I heard it’s better to have sex and then figure out dating stuff. I’m worried she’s trying to lock me down or something. I honestly could see her ghosting. | /r/seduction | 01/11/20 06:02 AM |
| 1 | 31/m. Want to get into the dating scene. But insecure about my age. Where do I go to meet people?You have a good point. One girl told me I’m in my prime. But. Idk. I am a bit inexperienced with the whole pick up think. Or meeting a stranger. | /r/seduction | 10/10/20 08:21 AM |
| 1 | I've seen a lot of posts explaining everything about how to improve yourself in general which also makes you appealing to girls, and I agree with them. What about how to be appealing to guys?Oh totally. Well I was super socially inept. And I personally thought relationships (friendships/romantic) just happened. So I sat very lonely for a long time. Very depressed. But just explaining how to talk to people and how to be a normal person has changed me so much. Plus I’ve had a lot more relationships the last couple years. I still watch a video or two every once in a while. | /r/seduction | 20/09/20 08:18 PM |
| 1 | I've seen a lot of posts explaining everything about how to improve yourself in general which also makes you appealing to girls, and I agree with them. What about how to be appealing to guys?I’ll be honest. They did great work. Changed my life 180. I love life now. | /r/seduction | 20/09/20 03:48 PM |
| 1 | I've seen a lot of posts explaining everything about how to improve yourself in general which also makes you appealing to girls, and I agree with them. What about how to be appealing to guys?I thought someone else would know this. Lmao. Yes. | /r/seduction | 20/09/20 03:09 PM |
| 10 | I've seen a lot of posts explaining everything about how to improve yourself in general which also makes you appealing to girls, and I agree with them. What about how to be appealing to guys?That’s how I see attraction. Like I said some people might have a different view. As a man. If survival was hard. A woman would be looking for qualities of dominance and knows what he wants. Because leadership qualities were very important in terms of survivability. But as a woman it would be different. That’s my best aim for what attraction means. But everyone is different. A line of coke to a coke head would be very attractive. But it literally doesn’t help you survive. You want a younger girl… | /r/seduction | 20/09/20 12:42 PM |
| 19 | I've seen a lot of posts explaining everything about how to improve yourself in general which also makes you appealing to girls, and I agree with them. What about how to be appealing to guys?Yeah. I mean I find girls have a natural way of flirting back with IOI’s (indicators of interest) when they’ve been approached. Or interested. Either way. This is my perspective and someone else might think differently. But in terms of attraction. People are looking to mate with each other based on 1. How well you survive 2. How likely your children survive 3. Good emotions. Because you’re a woman and men seem to be pretty visual seeking at first. You probably want to aim for a youthful look. Al… | /r/seduction | 20/09/20 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Why are american women so picky? What’s the cause of this?Too many guys are coming for American women. So they’re in abundance. | /r/seduction | 29/08/20 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Any dating advice for a 29 guy really bad at dating? I’ll do almost anything to figure this out.Can I have advice on where to start? Or what should I explain? | /r/seduction | 04/07/20 06:17 AM |
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