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ADVICEbiposting/r/RedPillWomen01/07/22 02:42 AM
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SELF IMPROVEMENTbiposting/r/RedPillWomen08/02/23 05:12 PM
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Same! Birth control helped a lot with my sex drive tbh
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/23 04:58 PM
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Yes I'm Latina and my husband was raised in rural Utah. It's been pretty smooth re: introducing each other to our respective cultures. Admittedly we tend to engage more in mine but he's had no complaints and has even wanted to learn Spanish. Intercultural love is a beautiful thing :)
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/23 04:57 PM
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I'm incredibly religious and I smoke multiple bowls a day. I don't drink, party, or anything of the sort. It just helps me relax and eases my chronic pain. Love to see more Christians being open about smoking the devil's lettuce!!
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/23 04:56 PM
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As many other people brought up, it takes practice to be able to control your temper effectively. It will feel fake and unnatural, but if you're honest with the guys you're going on dates with, I think you'll find someone willing to be with you as you grow and learn to control your temper. I have a HORRIBLE temper because both my parents are total hotheads, but it's become a lot more in control due to DBT (dialectical behavioral therapy) skills I learned. I also am on mood stabilizers and that's…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/22 02:03 PM
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I'm also looking to lose weight and could use some accountability!!
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/22 01:59 PM
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Yep as someone in academia I can attest to be the rolling out of bed person. Trying to change that though because it does feel great to be treated with more respect when dressed well
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/22 01:54 PM
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My husband has always been incredibly attentive, chivalrous, and committed. I'm so happy i never struggled with getting him to commit; our courting phase was fairly short. We became official after like 10 days of talking (we had been acquaintances for months beforehand though) and we were talking about marriage within the first month together. We tied the knot impulsively last summer and we've been together and happy for a few years now!! I love him to death and I feel so lucky to have him
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/22 04:08 AM
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Hi ladies! Just wanted to say I've been reading all of your comments and i deeply appreciate them :) gonna work on getting up early and dressing up for work
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/22 03:45 AM
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Honestly good communication, kindness, similar values, and respecting my boundaries. I don't have much experience with hookup culture though; the one guy i was fwb with I just didn't like his personality or politics. I felt he was rude, reactionary, pushy, little empathy, and piss poor communication skills. Also he was a pig. He seemed super immature and apathetic, which isn't attractive in a partner at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:31 AM
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Tbh if he doesn't want to get married, I'd keep your distance. He may change his mind, but there's no way to truly say and it would only hurt you to become invested in someone who doesn't have the same long term ideals as you
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/22 02:20 PM
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Hmmm yeah, I would absolutely wait to heal because things are definitely pretty raw for now and you're juggling a lot. Honestly, if you're religious, that really helped me get through this past year as it was an incredibly difficult one for me. I became a lot more observant and it gave me a lot of joy. Otherwise, have you considered looking at jobs out of state? I'm moving out of state soon myself, so I've been looking at remote jobs based in my new home state so I have some money and a secure j…
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/22 02:47 AM
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Honestly therapy (particularly dialectical behavioral therapy) was super helpful for me because it taught me skills on how to control my more impulsive actions (which often is my sharp tongue getting me into hot water). I used to be super combative as a person, but I've been working on myself for the past 2 years and I'm a completely different person. While my mood stabilizers do help me stay calm, I don't meds come even close to helping one become a kinder, softer person
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/22 02:39 AM
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Honestly I'm super nervous about the idea of being a homemaker due to how expensive life is here at the moment. Also, I went to college and I don't want my degrees to go to waste 😂 However, my husband and I have decided it is best for me to at most work at home due to my chronic pain Edit: I meant to add that if you do want to be a SAHM, your spouse being in a more "prestigious" career may be a good option (doctor, lawyer, tech, etc) or alternatively, men in trade jobs make decent money as well
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/22 02:32 AM
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What sub is this?
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/22 02:26 AM
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I'm honestly straight to the point and I try to keep it respectful. If I feel that he isn't respecting my perspective or why I'm hurt, I ask him straight up why he's arguing with me about what I should feel or why my perspective is completely wrong to him. This usually changes the conversation and makes him think about how he's speaking to me. Then our disagreement goes pretty smoothly. Remember to use "I" statements!
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/22 02:23 AM
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How long ago was this? I would wait to heal or move out of the blue state first. My husband and I are moving to the south and we're super excited to meet more like-minded people. If you're able to wait and move to, at minimum, a purple state then I think you'll have more success in finding your ideal partner and relationship. However if you don't want to wait, Bumble allows you to state your politics/values so it's easy to find others who think like you, even in blue states
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/22 02:18 AM
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Personally I think it's out of economics honestly. Maybe that's just because that's the reason I want only 1-2 children. Kids are super expensive, I have a lot of uni loans, credit card payments, other loans, etc. As much as I would like a large family, I just don't see it as financially feasible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 06:49 AM
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I'm graduating from college this spring and I've never had a partner who was in college. However, I don't think my experience is common at all honestly and would largely agree with you that most people date within their education level.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 06:41 AM
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