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There will be some very strong opinions on your question, it is easy to feel overwhelmed here. From my experience the ladies here do not want to see anyone get taken advantage of or waste their time with someone who is not as invested in the relationship. So, take your time and feel free to ask questions. Reformatting your original message will help, answering those questions can be a learning experience.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/16 04:13 PM
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Hours in tea rooms, private lunches, sharing intimate details of his life...if he is beta he is orbiting. If is really is alpha (which I have my doubts) he is grooming these women to keep them around as options for later. 6 months might seem like a lot to give up on. But, he isn't going to provide a return on your emotional investment. One of these girls will eventually pull the damsel in distress card and next thing you know your relationship is in serious jeopardy. Being a Red Pill Woman is no…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/16 01:25 PM
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Sounds like a good plan to me. You might have a small up hill battle at first to get past the bar-girl-make out incident. But, I think you can do it. Just be patient.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 08:42 PM
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Some people do. I strive to not ever be one of those people. I have seen true cell phone/text/social media addicts in the gym. They are the ones chillin' on a bench...facebooking. It is ok to hate them. The slippery slope is when someone who is prone to cell addiction uses their phone for music of whatever whilst at the gym. It can be
/r/askTRP01/02/16 08:41 PM
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Try disconnecting during certain times of day. For instance, you can make a rule that you do not text or do any form of social media after 8:00pm. Or, ban yourself from personal communications while you are at work. My personal rule is to never take my cell phone to the gym and I don't do texting when I am trying to wind my day down. If you want to clear your head then turn the phone off for a while. Start with an hour a day. And try to be yourself in that hour with out giving into the need for …
/r/askTRP01/02/16 06:47 PM
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Some performing arts entities will show their dress rehearsals for free. If there are any theater groups, ballet, or orchestras near you I would check that out. A lot of places to free museum days or open gallery walks on certain evening of each month. Also check your local book store or library for free readings and also check improv/comedy group for amateur free shows. Parks and arboretums often do free guided tours and walks.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 06:39 PM
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It sounds like this girl got really invested in you emotionally. A salvage situation might look like an LTR to her, which could get tricky if you are just looking to plate her. She might just need more time to justify in her head what happened, the hamster can get tired sometimes. It seems like you have some abundance so I would just move on. It doesn't sound like the two of you are looking for the same things right now.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 06:34 PM
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When you were trying to make plans did you offer any activity other than drinking?
/r/askTRP15/01/16 02:21 PM
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I agree with this. Dude needs to lead by example. Be something she needs to work to keep. Average Joe's don't gym, so why should she? Girls don't work hard to keep an average Joe.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 03:34 PM
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A lot of women prefer to let the man ask. Some view it as emasculating to do the asking. Allowing or preferring the man to do the asking is pretty old school, and in line with some Red Pill values. So, as long as she keeps accepting then keep asking. Stopping asking and waiting for her to catch a clue will be the incorrect answer. I am willing to bet that once she get comfortable she will do more asking. Until then, kill the hamster for crying out loud and remember, the answer is always no if yo…
/r/askTRP08/01/16 02:43 PM
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The conflict is in the goal. If you are just looking to spin plates, then drop them if they don't put out. If you are looking for an LTR, then seek the quality ladies. The two pieces of advice you speak of are applicable depending on your goal.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 02:38 PM
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That's exactly what I meant by new audience. ROTC was taken pretty seriously at my college and they were respectable men and women. You should be a natural leader in the exercises and games since you have real world experience. I'm willing to bet a lot of your ROTC cohort will look up to you. Use that to your advantage to build a good network.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 10:45 PM
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Take mini breaks: bathroom, get a fresh drink, retrieve snacks, whatever. If you create movement it will be an out for others to also get up and move around. You might be able to cultivate a secondary conversation in the kitchen. Just leaving would be a little rude. So, I wouldn't advise it, especially if you want to spend time with the other attendees. If you are trapped at the table, and this guy starts acting like a tool, just smile and turn to someone else to change the conversation. (Guy st…
/r/askTRP03/01/16 05:30 AM
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Guys like this need an audience. Don't be a member of that audience. If he tries to argue with you just disengage. Smile, "cool story bro," walk away. He has already won (in his tiny mind) if he gets any kind of reaction out of you. Don't give it to him.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 05:15 AM
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When you see her this evening, give her a hug, tell her it is good to see her, tell her she looks great, and excuse yourself to get a drink. Shake hands and bro out for a sec with her orbiter. "Hey man, how are ya. Good to see you." Smile, try to make it look genuine and move on. Start making rounds. If this girl isn't your goal, don't waste time on her. Whether or not she decides to block you or not, at least try to start the evening off on a positive note. If she is your goal, flattering her a…
/r/askTRP31/12/15 09:58 PM
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If she is playing specific favorites like that then you should probably study her habits and find a way to get in good with her. This one might be a tough nut to crack. I am surprised she hates men but likes American football. Of all the brutish misogynistic sports...there might be hope for you yet.
/r/askTRP31/12/15 09:47 PM
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Couple of questions. Do you know how your grades in her course stack up against other students in that same course? Is she just hard on everyone, what evidence do you have that she is targeting you? Whether or not she is a lesbian, if she in in fact marking you lower than women then she is likely working to gain the favor of the women in the class. Get the women to like you, but don't ever try to pick any of them up. Ever. This would be fuel for your professor to continue her discrimination agai…
/r/askTRP31/12/15 02:00 PM
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Girl 1 sounds like the type that magically ends up preggers. Avoid. That one is looking for a savior and was probably thinking about someone else when she was all quiet. She clearly can't get her shit together. Chaos is contagious. Avoid. Girl 2 has all of the ingredients necessary for a hot and delicious slice of crazy pie. Eat only if you love the savory taste of drama. Is the stock on POF really that bad? There has to be more...what EmDeeEx14 said. Seriously.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 03:25 PM
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Sounds like you already know the answer to your question then.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 03:07 PM
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You can try changing how you word the approach. Your strongest game is in person, so I would advise strengthening your in person approach overall. Next time instead of asking her if she wants to get coffee, declare it prior to or while getting her number. Example: I would like to get coffee with you tomorrow evening. One of two things will happen, she will either say yes and you can proceed to making finalized plans right then (confirming via call or text the day of said plans), or making actual…
/r/askTRP30/12/15 02:36 PM
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Women want to feel special, even if it is just as a plate or one night stand. The trick is to find enough balance between the dread and comfort. If you don't want her settling into an emotional relationship with you, then don't let her clean your house. That is nesting and can imply an emotional commitment. Knowing how to make a woman ignore the hamster, worship the ground you walk upon, and be open to sexy time all the time takes a balance. A woman will do whatever you want if she knows you hav…
/r/askTRP30/12/15 02:20 PM
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Messing with hair and blushing are pretty good indicators of attraction. Check out Love Signals by David Givens. Nothing wrong with having your son with you. Think of it as the lion king and his cub out on the hunt. Also, your son might make you more approachable (he has his son with him, what an awesome dad type of thing). If the kid is chill and polite he will never hurt your game.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 02:08 PM
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She might not be sleeping with Tom, but she is cheating on an emotional level. Getting upset that he didn't say Happy Birthday signifies that she was making some sort of emotional investment in him and getting nothing in return. Your gut feeling is very telling. You can stick it out for a bit and see what happens or next her. If Tom really is "gone," how she responds to that will be interesting.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 02:00 PM
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European girls in the US have a pretty high SMV. They are gonna get asked out a lot, and they are gonna be able to trade up a lot. Are they better LTR material? Probably no more or less than any other girl...they are all just girls. If RP theory holds, especially at the biological level, then culture should have less to do with it.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 09:46 PM
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I agree about finding a new crew. Don't waste your time with people who don't value your presence.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 09:29 PM
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I am willing to bet money this girl wants more out of you somehow. Her attitude is poisoning your experience in this circle of friends. There is an artificial hierarchy here created by the fact that some are RA's and what not. When they start this crap find a graceful exit. As for the mean girl, don't engage with her. She clearly has no respect for you or is trying to subordinate you or somehow own you. Get new plates. You are a well read man with a charming accent, get a better audience for tho…
/r/askTRP29/12/15 09:14 PM
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Happy relationships are like customer compliments...you don't hear about them. Complaining is what gets the main stage and that is why you don't hear about happy men in LTR's with their perfect unicorns here. Those men don't have much reason to come here. I agree with in addition to looking at RPW, check out r/thankTRP. You might find some happy endings there. Best piece of advice for finding a woman capable of fidelity, loyalty, and devotion: stop looking on crap sites/apps like Tinder. FFS, hi…
/r/askTRP29/12/15 09:06 PM
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Next her indeed. It occurred to me that OP could also be some sort of pawn this girl is using in an attempt to make roommate jealous. The potential for her to bust cray is just too high. I mean, the logic in this scenario is not sound. If all the roommate wanted was sex, and if she really likes OP better, why did they both have to agree that roommate needs to know before they smash? I guess I just don't get it.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 08:48 PM
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Learning and being more social will help. Getting a new audience will also help (maybe even more than anything else). If you have an intellectual, old-soul kind of personality you will find that it does well at college, especially with those bookish women who want a good looking man who is also smart. Keep learning and reading, trial and error may be the next step. Being more social typically just involves...being more social. Go out and do fun stuff. Join a club or meetup that has men and women…
/r/askTRP29/12/15 06:57 PM
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A taken/committed woman who is looking for male friends on the internet probably wants more orbiters, needs validation from men because she is shallow and her self-esteem is externally based, is looking to trade up, is looking to cheat, or wants a free meal/drinks/date. In any case, or combination, it is pretty low. It is misleading for committed women to have profiles on dating websites. If anyone decides to engage with these women, please be prepared to ride the emotional roller coaster with t…
/r/askTRP29/12/15 05:28 PM
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She knew who you were...probably before you met for the date...didn't tell you until heavy petting...has been to your house... Crazy. Tread lightly.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 05:20 PM
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If she isn't making time for you or trying to come up with times to meet then she isn't actually into you. If she is testing you to see if you will wait then she doesn't respect your time. The ultimatum might have been a bit much. But, if she is being vague, not making actual plans, saying "oh, I might be busy...blah blah blah" then she is holding her schedule for other things or other prospects. Don't be a fall back plan.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 04:01 PM
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I don't recommend you emotionally invest in any woman who would give you reason to doubt their integrity by putting themselves in an intimate situation with another man. Using the friend as proof is BS. The friend could by lying, her allegiance is to your gf, not to you. Your best interest is not of the highest priority here. She should feel like a shitty gf. She let this happen and she should feel bad.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 03:27 PM
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She sounds like more trouble than she is worth. I am sure that sounds terrible to some. But, this whole push-and-pull stuff is boring and tiresome. She ignores you then wants you to miss her...she is shopping for new orbiters.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 03:09 PM
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Wow, this all sounds like a nightmare. Don't ever invest in any woman who puts herself in suspicious situations. Personally, I would never ever give my SO a chance to doubt my integrity or honesty. It sounds like this girl made cheating her favorite hobby. So glad to hear you got out of that one.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 03:07 PM
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u/Stokestix has the best response. For the love of god, don't listen to the one below about giving a grace period and explanation. That one will result in an argument...where she will likely show just how much of a dummy she thinks you are. If she is calling you a dummy then she does not respect you. That is something to think about. Do you really want to go on with someone who will belittle you and likely continue to do so in front of friends or family? I sincerely hope your answer is no. It is…
/r/askTRP29/12/15 03:02 PM
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The language you use shows a separation. You say he didn't try to fight "his friends" when they held him back, but he certainly wanted to fight you...which (by this logic) means he does not regard you as being one of his friends. He is beat nice guy with a short fuse who sees you as competition. He will hurt your game. One bad apple spoils the batch and all of that stuff. You can still be connected to the group and not have this guy in your inner circle. Be cordial and polite, but I don't recomm…
/r/askTRP29/12/15 02:41 PM
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Now is a great time to work on the wardrobe. Every clothing store in the universe wants to clear out holiday inventory. You don't need to go all out at first. A few good basic pieces to start is a solid approach. Every man needs: -a good pair of jeans that make his ass look good, typically in a darker wash. If you stop reading here just know this: we look at how your jeans fit. Accentuate your assets. Don't wear those baggy cargo jeans you've had since junior year of high school on a date. Ever.…
/r/askTRP26/12/15 08:16 PM
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Short or not...you can always raise your SMV. "All the gym in the world" will help. Looking and feeling healthy and confident does more than you know as it is an unspoken communication that you have your life together. Women can smell a lack of confidence, and it makes you beta. I know a short guy, he is ripped, confident, happy, and funny. All of these transcend his height. He dates only the highest quality women and never lets something as trivial as height get in his way. My advice would be t…
/r/askTRP26/12/15 04:00 PM
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I couldn't agree with this advice more. Seriously. I am not an advocate for "ghosting" on a regular basis. But, in this case it is 100% the appropriate response. I would not waste any more time on this guy, at all...ever. Your silence will tell him. He will know he has been busted. The last word is not worth spending any more of your time on him. It won't make a difference. People like this often has sociopath tendencies. Your feelings don't matter to him. All he wants is some side action. You a…
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/15 03:35 PM
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Thanks for posting this! I felt bad for the first guy. He bought his wife a Dyson! Or, at least it was portrayed as a Dyson/very nice vacuum. That is an expensive vacuum cleaner! I would be pretty stoked over that. I love clean carpets. Poor guy. :(
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/15 02:40 PM
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So far, the comments and suggestions here are really solid. I agree with a lot of what is being said: do your job, be strong, don't take it to heart. All of that stuff is great, seriously. As far as understanding the "why" behind her attitude towards you, I think I might have some insight. I have encountered women like this before. They think that they have to make it hard for you to protect their turf, or maybe they don't think you deserve to have an easy time. It was difficult for them, so it …
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/15 05:07 PM
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I would love something handmade. I love to give and receive handmade gifts. I am grateful that my loved ones have never made me feel inferior or bad about my handmade gifts. This girl is a terrible person. ...and you all just made me realize that I need some new socks.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/15 09:38 PM
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99.99999% of my dating experiences end in the fade or "this isn't going to work." (I am just guessing at the % here...lol). So, I am not inclined to think that it is you, I feel it is more "the nature of the beast" of online dating. I feel you on men maybe being intimidated. I work in a male dominated industry and am very good at what I do. I have traveled and done some truly amazing things in my career. I live in an expensive city in a nice apartment on my own, and I have gotten the same reacti…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/15 02:25 PM
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You absolutely can. I know a lesbian couple who embody Red Pill values. A lot of people on here discuss Red Pill stuff along "traditional gender roles," Red Pill theories can easily apply to anyone. It doesn't have to be based on your biological gender, it can totally apply to your gender identity.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/15 04:42 PM
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I seem to have missed the party on the original message (it is blank for me). But, I think my point of view can still be helpful to anyone who came here wondering the same thing. I have found the best way to bolster a man's ego, make him feel strong and virile, is the good ol' fashioned BJ. It is the male version of being held and told they are pretty. So, take this with a grain of salt since I don't know the context of the original question. I think it would be difficult to find a man who disag…
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/15 04:24 PM
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Check out Prana and Toad and Co for some ideas. Their stuff is geared towards the outdoorsy girl. Simple, comfy, and largely based on jeans!! Some of these looks might give you ideas for a more feminine look. I love their dresses. They are comfortable and look super cute with tights and boots for a nice winter look. You can still rock the jeans, t-shirts, and chucks and tone down the tomboy aspect. Heck, you can even keep the ponytail if you add the right elements. I would look for t-shirts that…
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/15 03:44 PM
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This is such an interesting topic and I love seeing everyone’s opinions! However, my position on gossip is pretty firm: I don't do it. I am speaking about gossip in its most terrible form. Gossip is negative, catty, and typically a sign of jealousy or lack of understanding. Speaking of someone in a hateful or derogatory manner behind their backs is an indication of weak character in my opinion. You were right to leave. I would have done the same thing. Someone below said that gossip is "toxic," …
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/15 04:08 PM
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