birdjon Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	It’s actually amazing how little looks matter in comparison to confidence. I struggle a lot with #2. Sometimes I just feel like whatever will come out of my mouth is gonna be rude/creepy/ridiculous so I end up being anti social.	/r/seduction	06/08/18 02:50 AM
1	How to talk to anybody (mindset) What was the first step you took to escape the “idk what to do so I’m just gonna stay home and play games” mentality?	/r/seduction	08/07/18 04:28 PM
2	How to be More Attractive to Women Ahh that fucking dopamine. So many people don’t know how much their lives are effected by the instant gratification of having dopamine at he push of a button on their phones and various devices.	/r/seduction	24/03/18 02:03 PM
1	My confidence is completely gone What’s the very first step that you think someone should take when they’re unsure how to start?	/r/seduction	21/03/18 04:22 PM
2	I did an IOI experiment for you. Out of curiosity, what do you do for a living?	/r/seduction	06/03/18 01:58 PM
1	I want to make a group of people interested in seduction AND self-improvement to help each other. I want to join in! If you could PM me the details on how to join, that'd be great. Side note though, I'm a beginner. I hope I can still participate. FWIW I think discord would be the best way to go!	/r/seduction	26/12/17 04:44 PM
2	Soft-opener Strategy - Indicating interest Maaaan let MFs pick up the way they want. If it works for them, more power to them.	/r/seduction	12/08/17 12:09 PM
1	I'm 20 years old and have already given up with girls, is this a bad mindset? I haven't had success so I'm done. Chance he could have depression too. In which case, please see a professional ASAP so you can get back in the right mindset in order to even begin to take the proper actions to improve your life.	/r/seduction	05/08/17 02:04 PM
1	Had my first taste of the club scene tonight. Definitely not for me. Where else can you meet women? I hate how people downvote shit like this because it hurts their ego. Anyway, I think this may be different based on where you live. I've had mixed results based on where I was at the time.	/r/seduction	05/08/17 01:59 PM
6	What if you're kind of screwed up on the most basic level? This is where I'm at at. I feel fucked up on the most basic of levels. Is there a school for social communication and human interaction? There fucking should be	/r/seduction	02/07/17 01:06 PM
1	Do any of you guys ever had a girl ask you out on a date first? 21 years of my life and I never had a girl ask me out or told me that they liked me. The social skills part struck a nerve. I've worked a job where I talk to people on the phone for 2 years, and before that I had to talk to people in person in my previous job. Yet even after all of that "practice", every person I seem to talk to seems hesitant and untrustworthy of me. Almost like I'm giving off the creepiest of vibes. This happens with both genders.	/r/seduction	26/05/17 11:44 AM
13	Why Not Telling Your Crush How You Feel Means You'll Never Be Successful In Life What if you work with said crush and she's your superior?	/r/seduction	15/03/17 11:04 PM
1	I literally cannot approach a girl How do you develop activities and dreams when you have neither?	/r/seduction	10/03/17 12:34 PM
1	Ready to learn. Do I just read all of this? Also do. Read, yes, but don't get caught in the trap of reading and reading and reading but never doing. Doing is when you learn the most.	/r/seduction	20/01/17 02:54 PM
3	Feel like I'm missing out because I am depressed. I am depressed because I feel like I'm missing out. How to fucking break this cycle? How did you start? Just followed random recipes every day? I have discovered that I lack a shit load of kitchen equipment after trying to cook a few times. Guess I've got some shopping to do.	/r/seduction	24/10/16 02:19 PM
2	[FR] My first cold approach :) Did you have to rebuild your wardrobe during this process?	/r/seduction	02/10/16 03:42 PM
1	First kiss and losing virginity at 23 years old studying abroad, learned some game and how emotional neediness will destroy you I really like this guide. My question is this, I've already got a good pair of dark blue jeans. Should I build on that with some new upper body clothes? Bottoms are my biggest challenge so branching out to chinos and other types of pants right from the get go is going to be tough.	/r/seduction	29/09/16 05:30 PM
1	First kiss and losing virginity at 23 years old studying abroad, learned some game and how emotional neediness will destroy you Just skimmed it. Thanks bro; this looks super helpful. Going to read over it tonight.	/r/seduction	27/09/16 05:08 PM
2	First kiss and losing virginity at 23 years old studying abroad, learned some game and how emotional neediness will destroy you Thanks for the info. Sometimes I have an idea of what I want but it's so hard finding the pieces. Did you do most of your shopping at one store or were you bouncing around?	/r/seduction	27/09/16 03:12 PM
3	First kiss and losing virginity at 23 years old studying abroad, learned some game and how emotional neediness will destroy you 1 week? Did you have someone help you find the pieces? How many different stores? When I go out to shop for clothes, sometimes I come back with nothing even after visiting multiple stores.	/r/seduction	27/09/16 01:50 PM
13	First kiss and losing virginity at 23 years old studying abroad, learned some game and how emotional neediness will destroy you How long did it take you to create a new wardrobe? How expensive was it?	/r/seduction	27/09/16 02:31 AM
2	These Two Openers Work 99% of the time This is all great advice. It can be really difficult to break out of depressive thinking patterns even when you've identified the problem and read up on it. That's when a professional may be needed. It's what I've had the most trouble with in all of life in general.	/r/seduction	09/08/16 08:32 PM
1	Has meditation significantly improved your game? I've come across people in real life and online that say things like this. Meditation turned them into Super Saiyan Vegeta in 2 weeks. Meanwhile, when I meditated for a month, I saw no real change with the exception of the first week. The first week, my mind stopped racing immediately after meditating. I'd meditate for 15-30 minutes. I had a moment during one of these early sessions where the room began to spin as I went deeper and deeper. From week 3 and onwards I felt nothing. I somehow got wo…	/r/seduction	29/06/16 11:59 AM
1	[FR] First ever pull. My life has changed University campus? Did you have a dorm there or something? Or did all this take place in a cab?	/r/seduction	12/06/16 06:17 PM
12	The Fundamental Characteristics Of The Attractive Man – And The Only One That Matters (AKA I interviewed dozens of women, and here's what they said, and here's why it sucks) Amazing article. Thank you for sharing. Really resonated with me. I made a connection with my own experiences and the "I want her, so I'm going get her" mindset that you wrote about. Holy shit. I never really paid it much attention. Im saving this.	/r/seduction	16/05/16 04:10 AM
1	You guys changed my life... from suicidal to wanting to live life. One of my biggest problems by far is finding the right clothes. I find no value in material items or buying the most expensive shit to impress society. So I've never been good at shopping for clothes. How did you approach changing the way you dress? Did it make a noticeable difference in the way you were perceived?	/r/seduction	14/05/16 03:19 PM
9	Will women ever care how men think? This is the best response ever, and it doesn't have a condescending asshole-ish tone to it... Am I still on seddit? Wtf?	/r/seduction	04/05/16 06:41 PM
3	Five years in the Game and Yes, it ALL comes down to Confidence Love this post. Last year I felt like I was on top of the world. Felt so positive, confident, and happy. I was suddenly struck with anxiety that just never left. It turned into depression. Suddenly, I'm unable to articulate my words and I've lost a massive amount of confidence. I've lost the passion for my field of study which I'd been focusing on for so long. This has left me feeling worthless seeing as I don't have that "one thing" that I'm excited about and striving for. Me and an old flame d…	/r/seduction	25/04/16 01:05 PM
9	My first approach and what I learned from the experience. I wish there were more "first approach" posts. The way you described yourself basically describes me also. Congrats dude.	/r/seduction	06/03/16 10:15 PM
1	Models/Mode One: being direct/vulnerable/etc.. in social circle? Thanks for providing the example. Guess I'm gonna calibrate a bit but stay honest and direct.	/r/seduction	24/02/16 06:21 PM
1	Models/Mode One: being direct/vulnerable/etc.. in social circle? Will do.	/r/seduction	24/02/16 06:21 PM
1	Models/Mode One: being direct/vulnerable/etc.. in social circle? Any examples of how you've used this? I took honesty and vulnerability with a literal approach. Suddenly I became super weird to people... Either I'm super weird, or I missed something.	/r/seduction	23/02/16 11:32 PM
1	[FR] Did some daygame approaching. Kept my ego in check. No one likes to acknowledge this even when it's true. Damn it does make a huge difference though	/r/seduction	03/02/16 05:25 AM