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| 208 | Dealing with being purposefully celibateI’m in the same boat as you- 37 and just left a relationship with someone I thought was a HVM but turned out I was manipulated and lied to in the craziest way. I’ll spare the details. I’ve also decided to stop pursuing men indefinitely which means celibacy for me. I don’t see it ever ending. At first I was upset and embarrassed like “I must be such a loser for not getting laid as much as my friends” but I soon realized (thanks to FDS) that’s a manipulation tactic a patriarchal culture has embedd… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/22 12:18 PM |
| 142 | Men that talk about social mobility/social class/wealth, is this a red flag?I feel like If it wasn’t a competition to him, he’d have no need to point it out, at all. Or compare. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/22 01:42 AM |
| 36 | Reminder: Men will keep you around for however long is convenient for them - even if they’re not that into you. Break up at the first sign of his disinterest because he will NOT do it for you. 3rd slide is a commenter.Lolololol Let me predict the future- he dumps gf to live this crazy party life filled with sex and women. He moves into new house, suddenly realizes he actually can’t pick up women and becomes increasingly more desperate. Then he also realizes that damn, I not only have to pay my full rent but I don’t have anyone to pick up after me! So then in about 6 months, he will come crying and begging for his ex to take him back- even though he still knows they aren’t compatible. Hopefully, his ex realize… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/22 12:10 AM |
| 10 | Abortion starting to be banned in many states. No exceptions.This may be a radical thought- but I think women in these states (who aren’t planning on having children or don’t want to have them period) should STOP HAVING SEX WITH MEN. Until we have complete control over our reproductive rights, they shouldn’t be allowed to enter our bodies. Period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 10:53 PM |
| 38 | OLDs are literal hellHonestly, I’m to the point where I truly believe a lot of these anti vax men aren’t anti vax bc they genuinely are concerned or care- it’s an excuse to argue, especially with women. I’ve seen it a hundred times since the vaccines came out- they take a strong stance but only want to argue their point with women. I am willing to bet this guy just wanted to start an argument with you which is why he matched you even though he knew you were pro vaccination. There’s a nice chunk of LVM that really ge… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/22 02:12 PM |
| 105 | NVM Single DadsThat’s actually really concerning for his daughter- if he felt comfortable saying that to you (someone he is still in the honeymoon phase of a relationship with) imagine what he says/does when nobody is around. That is literally insane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 11:49 PM |
| 27 | I need support, I think I need to break up with himHe is psychologically manipulating you to become dependent upon him. You’re playing right into his motive by questioning “if I’ll ever find anyone better”. Your bar is too low. He’s treating you like a dog by giving you small bits of communication and then taking it away the second you don’t “please him enough”. You are hurting because of this, not because he’s a good man. You are hurting because of the manipulation. I promise you, if you left him- it would hurt bad for about a week but then you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 11:54 PM |
| 9 | Why does being hyper feminine translate into bimbo for some of tiktok? I don’t understand this trend and the point. I love pink, purple, dresses, typically “girly” things. However, I don’t see how degrading ourselves with a misogynistic term that has no positive meaning would ‘take back our power’.I had an ex tell me one time that sometimes men just like to bang women to (and I quote) “degrade them a little bit” when I asked what this meant? He said that sometimes men come across women that are loud, obnoxious and “cocky” (ahem…self confident ) and that they like to f**k them to degrade them and bring them down a few notches. It was disgusting and I couldn’t believe that was a thing, I even thought he was kidding. Luckily I know now how depraved men truly are and I don’t even give them th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Why community-dick-men is a red flag telling you that they are a non-monogameous.This is amazing but I have a question…why do some of these community dick guys go out of their way to love bomb and trap a woman if they know they will never be faithful to her? Like why not just swear off relationships and sleep around…I dated someone who was a community dick but he love bombed me so hard and made me think that I was the one who made him not even think about other women (what a fool I was back then because he was cheating on me with all types of women). But I just never underst… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 09:18 PM |
| 14 | Don't cry, beg or show emotion or over communicate. State what you want then leave when it's not met. Men enjoy the begging, crying and emotional outbursts because they know this means you're wrapped around their finger and will stay. It is a massive ego boost for them to have that power over youMy narc NVX- will to this day (we’ve been divorced 10 years) call about our son and randomly start accusing me of something ridiculous. I never understood why he would do it and I’d get so furious with him, but a few years ago I realized he just wants a reaction, period. Narcs live off of responses, it feeds their supply. Now when he starts, I calmly say “I’m hanging up now”. And I hang up. After a while of following through with hanging up when he would get abusive, all I have to say now is “I’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 09:13 PM |
| 165 | What is the most low value reason a scrote has tried using to manipulate you?Not me- but my friend told me once that her bf disappeared for a week and wouldn’t return her calls. She was freaking out thinking he died. He shows back up out of nowhere and she starts thinking he’s been cheating. She starts asking questions and he starts bawling and says that his daughter had died.(he had a 1 yo baby). She obviously felt awful, and let the cheating accusation go. But she started asking for details about how it happened and when the funeral was. He was being shady about it and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 02:21 AM |
| 31 | Woman tweets about her divorce and the comment section is….yikesFunny how a lot of the comments are blaming women for divorce since “most divorces are initiated by women”. They take this “fact” to try and shift blame to the women for leaving. When in reality, it proves that most MEN are to blame for the dissolution of their marriages which is why women leave them to begin with. These scrotes are so clueless, it’s a wonder half of them live to see old age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Male highly driven predatory sexual appetite & drive VS women’s easily controlled, & sometimes non existent drive. Is this nature or nurture? Is there any coming back from generationally being hunted for sex from childhood?I think it’s because sex, historically, has not been pleasant or enjoyable for women. Also, a lot of times, sex with men can have violent undertones and the number one killer of women is- violence at the hands of men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 02:21 PM |
| 24 | Zero Effort Valentine’s DayIt sounds like he is trying to see what he can get away with. Like how little effort he can put in and not suffer any consequences. I’m not sure how long you all have been together, but if this was your first Valentine’s Day- I feel like he should have gone above and beyond . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Valentine's Field ReportWhat a great idea- start spreading love to other women on Valentine’s Day! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 09:40 PM |
| 5 | Trust your feelings and the strategyGood for you! Men have such a “grass is greener” mentality, and they really don’t ever expect women to not put up with it. Question for you OP- was he surprised when you cut it off? Angry? I feel like their true selves often come out when they get called out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 08:39 PM |
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