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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread If it isn't enjoyable, maybe it's just not your thing so far. Step back and enjoy other things. I think the only thing fooling you here is pride, dictating to you that other people are superior and laughing at you for not being able to get a girl blabla That's the root error. Forget those people, they're their own club, join your own club and focus on other things. It's this culture that deceives us into thinking that our only worth is procreation skills. That's wrong. People need to pull their …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/21 10:41 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Sure, learn from every rejection to better yourself and listen to those to set an ideal to strive for, build yourself up if you'd like a great partner, but for fuck's sake don't make sex/intimacy your primary goal of existence. The biggest mistake in all this is thinking you're running out of "prime time" or whatever and you need to rush it, now or never. Give it time, focus on other areas of life, focus on making yourself better than yesterday, look around, true love and friendship will come ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/21 10:05 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Nothing but circumstances would change that. That's the point, we're collectively duped into following our libidos and our egos blindly, and rushing to acquire more social currency, to outfuck and outfriend everyone around us as fast as we can, measuring our dicks and whatnot. That's a stupid approach altogether. Getting rejected is a good check on your unhinged libido, it gives you a reality check and a breath of fresh air, a chance to redirect your energy towards other meaningful things in lif…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/21 09:32 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread I think the phenomenon is in people's heads more than anywhere else. Once you recognize your unique self-worth, stop focusing negatively on the girls who are clearly not into you personally, and stop wasting your time tryna change their point of view or being frustrated about it like it's fundamentally wrong. Then you kinda start seeing a simple truth: you do NOT want to be with a girl who does NOT want you. Simple as that. And it's not because of other guys it's always strictly between you and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/21 07:32 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Nope what, can't find one single willing partner? I mean is that a real thing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/21 02:22 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread I think the incel condition can be otherwise characterized as just 'available dating pool dysphoria' or something lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/21 02:01 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread That's exactly the impression I've been getting, I don't get the whole incel movement tbh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/21 11:40 AM
7	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Curious thought/question. Don't be mad at me or anything, I'm really investigating this thought process I'm having. I have a theory that incels are not actually real. That every single person who considers themselves to be an incel is actually just unwilling to lower his standards/live up to his current standards of women he wants to get intimate with. I mean, surely you can find a partner for sex who's below you on the 1-10 scale at any time (at least in a big city or online) Or pay a sex worke…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/21 11:06 AM