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MINDSET SHIFTbirdsandcraftsbitch/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 04:59 PM
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Never care about someone’s problems more than they do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 01:53 PM
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I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about this and I’ve been using a few strategies to build my idea community around me! I tried identifying HVW who were already in my periphery, maybe they were small business owners, friends of friends, someone involved in a hobby community, and started throwing out feelers for potential friends. I recently told a HVW I’m already friends with that I’m looking to meet more like-minded (high value) people. I asked her to invite me to social gatherings sometimes, a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 03:53 AM
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I recently tried out dating apps again and I feel like they are not worth our time right now. The last person I talked to on an app said after exchanging 5ish messages each, “What do you want to know about me?” I want to know if you are a good conversationalist who is interested in other people, which is clearly not the case. I’ve seen a lot of women saying dating apps are bleak right now. I deleted all dating apps and I’m working on starting a business. I’m working extremely hard on it, and I f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 12:14 AM
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I can so relate with being more accountable and respectful of other people now. I feel so free now that I can just be calm and respectful with others now and I feel like I can trust myself so much more. I used to always feel like I had something to make up for, there was always a feeling of being behind and inadequate and that made me preoccupied and more likely to say something bizarre or rude. I give compliments freely and genuinely because I’m not focused on my own shortcomings. It’s such a h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 11:47 PM
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I was also lounging and sleeping on the floor while the LVM I dumped almost 2 years ago but was still living with and financially supporting (and was cooking for) enjoyed the comfy chair while we watched TV. It’s crazy to me that I thought that was fine. I hope you and your lawyer nail your ex’s ass to the wall. All the best ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 11:39 PM
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Lmaoooo. Thanks for this. The other one was also so good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 11:23 PM
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Not a bad exit strategy, lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 01:39 AM
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Thank you for keeping a watchful eye on the sub! After making the mistake myself, I will try to keep an eye out as well and gently correct others when I see it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 11:41 PM
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Absolutely. I did read the handbook and I very much want to follow the rules and things 😇 thanks for keeping a watchful eye to keep the sub safe!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 11:33 PM
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Yes I completely agree on the Christmas gifts for kids joke. Same people who think Dad deserves a parade for “babysitting” his own children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 11:24 PM
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Lol seriously. The women in these posts would clearly be glad to get even something they DON’T like if it was nicely wrapped and on time but It’S tOo StReSsFuL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 11:20 PM
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I was baffled when my choad quit brushing his teeth and I was simultaneously relieved and horrified when I saw posts about personal hygiene on the aforementioned sub at least 2-4 times a month. Like, thank god I’m not alone here? But if this is the state of affairs we are fucking doomed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 11:11 PM
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Exactly. A nice candle from a cute lil shop you think she would love is SO EASY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 11:09 PM
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I’m currently building my business and I cannot believe how fast things are coming together now that I’m spending my precious energy nurturing my own life and my own goals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 11:06 PM
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There’s nothing you can do but peacefully detach and distance yourself IRL from people with a low vibe mindset. I also had to come to rock bottom (sadly it was not with the loser I referenced in the original post), but it shattered all of my previous patterns and habits and now I feel more free than I thought was possible. I feel like every time a woman levels up and refuses to settle for scraps, she imparts a little of that strength to women everywhere even if they don’t know it. I feel like I’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 11:04 PM
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Or that we’re just magically better at cooking or cleaning than men. No, I’m good at making dinner because I’ve made myself dinner 5000 times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 10:52 PM
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“Kevin helps you with the chores by sometimes putting his dirty socks in the hamper so you should really cut him some slack, Carol.” /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 10:49 PM
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Good call. I debated that when I was writing but I just redacted the name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 08:17 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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