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1	I can’t tell if my belief that “warmth/showing interest = unattractive” is true or just something red pill content installed in me — and now I second-guess every warm thing I say You’re not wrong and I think the mentality pushes a lot of men away further from finding something beautiful. I wouldn’t be with my partner today if he loved me any less or was less of a ‘simp’ (I hate that word). I admire how vulnerable and how freely he can love wholeheartedly.	/r/ExRedPill	05/08/26 06:58 PM
1	Anime and Comic Book nerd My boyfriend is the biggest anime nerd out, before dating him I never really watched anime. Now I’m hooked and one of my favourite things to do is watch anime with him. I support his pop vinyl ‘addiction’ and actively help him research shops where we can go to see if we can add to his collection. 😂 He’s a big dork but I freaking love that about him. I love how passionate he is about his interests and how he lets me in his world and shares it with me. Please don’t let people rob you of your inter…	/r/ExRedPill	05/08/26 12:50 PM
1	I can’t tell if my belief that “warmth/showing interest = unattractive” is true or just something red pill content installed in me — and now I second-guess every warm thing I say I feel I can relate to you so deeply on what you’ve wrote, even though I’m at 27F. Maybe we got to feeling the same things out of different situations and experiences through our life but I really feel like I could have wrote this myself a couple years ago. I’m really happy to hear you’ve put a lot of work in over the years, and honestly that would have been my only advice. So all I can really say is keep pushing through. I remember having this conversation with my psychiatrist who eventually en…	/r/ExRedPill	05/08/26 12:33 PM
2	I can’t tell if my belief that “warmth/showing interest = unattractive” is true or just something red pill content installed in me — and now I second-guess every warm thing I say To try and keep this brief and to the point, I think it depends entirely on the other person and what they are willing to accept from another person. I’ve had times in my life due to a lot of childhood trauma leading into abusive relationships where I simply was stuck in cycle of accepting not being treated well that if someone came along and was nice and caring I genuinely didn’t feel deserving of it let alone it actually felt not normal because I hadn’t really experienced being treated well. A…	/r/ExRedPill	05/08/26 12:19 PM

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