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| 8 | Dump Him.I just got divorced after 20 years. He was my first “real” adult boyfriend at 21. I fell for him because I had a ton of childhood trauma. My dad valued IQ above all else, and my ex is very good looking and very high IQ. I truly never realized how abusive he was because I grew up in abuse. It was all I knew. My parents didn’t model a healthy marriage, no other close family or friends did. “What It took” to break that trauma bond was him refusing to get a vasectomy, refusing to use a condom, orgas… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 06:55 PM |
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