| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 19 | My observations with guys who pull womenIs reverse parking a thing that girls are into? | /r/seduction | 16/07/23 10:13 PM |
| 4 | Old School Tip: The hand test & determining the perfect time to kiss.Nice tip, but no comma is needed between subject and verb in a sentence: "Pussies don't get pussy." | /r/seduction | 15/04/23 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Got her number, what should I text her?Don't put lmao at the end of the text. In fact, stop doing that completely in any context whatsoever. I see younger dudes adding "lmao" to the ends of sentences that are not even remotely funny, and I think it's a way to mask social anxiety. People want to believe that it shows you're fun-loving and carefree, like, "Lmao, can you believe how ridiculous the whole dating song and dance is? It's totally lame, and I'm totally beyond it!" But I think the message it actually sends is "I'm afraid you m… | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 06:14 AM |
| 5 | Unprotected sexSome say that's all you need... | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 06:05 AM |
| 15 | Unprotected sexBaller move. | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 04:38 AM |
| 3 | So I did it, I worked on myself for years and the ladies came pouring in… now I find myself being wanted by 2 awesome women (gf material), and not sure what to doHey man, so glad I was able to help even a little bit! I was lucky enough to have a good dad and a good stepdad, so I'm happy to share some of that excess Dad wisdom I've been blessed with... even though IRL I'm more like an underachieving uncle. | /r/seduction | 31/05/21 10:59 PM |
| 9 | So I did it, I worked on myself for years and the ladies came pouring in… now I find myself being wanted by 2 awesome women (gf material), and not sure what to doHey dude, I'm a middle aged guy who feels compelled to respond to your post with some old dude perspective. This problem will resolve itself. I saw your reply to prettylittlepenguin's response, and it looks like it's starting to resolve already. First Girl isn't in your city and doesn't think the timing's working atm. So that's out. Might come back again someday, but it sounds off the table at the moment. So that means focusing on 19-year-old for as long as it will work. My gut feeling, just lis… | /r/seduction | 31/05/21 08:54 PM |
| 7 | I think I’ve found a cheat code for getting girls out on datesThis is a great point, and I'd like to chime in and suggest that we also ban the word "banter". I think it's equally robotic and suggests a scripted rom-com meet cute when what we're really looking for is a connection with another person. Don't focus on making your banter witty, focus on what you find interesting about the other person and have fun talking to them. | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 08:06 PM |
| 11 | I think I’ve found a cheat code for getting girls out on datesI think your instinct is good, but you could shorten it to "no pressure" in the future. That way you could get the idea across without suggesting that you suspect they may not be down. | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 07:57 PM |
| 2 | [22M] Struggling with self esteem: I feel inferior to attractive girlsSo, I think you're suffering from what they call cognitive distortions, which are basically negative thought patterns. I suffered from these, too - they're very common. Just from reading through your post and responses, I think you're displaying "All or Nothing" thinking. It sounds like you're suggesting that if you're not the Alpha Chad, then you're a total failure. That's a false dichotomy - both are illusions. I think you're also "Catastrophizing" a little bit. There's no reason you couldn't … | /r/seduction | 14/11/20 09:07 PM |
| 1 | [22M] Struggling with self esteem: I feel inferior to attractive girlsYou never had any friendships at all? Also, if they can fake confidence, why can't you? | /r/seduction | 14/11/20 08:23 PM |
| 1 | [22M] Struggling with self esteem: I feel inferior to attractive girlsCouple thoughts. 1.) You're overestimating teens. If some teens have high self-esteem, it's much more likely the result of the environment they were raised in than something they figured out on their own. 2.) Are there other situations where you benefitted from the advice of someone who knew more than you? For example, did you have guides when you started going to the gym, either in person or through videos or books? I bet you did, and I bet you didn't beat yourself up for not figuring out 1000+… | /r/seduction | 14/11/20 02:59 AM |
| 3 | Older guys, what is some advice you can give to younger guys?Everybody is self conscious. Everybody has something about themselves they'd like to change. Don't worry so much about what other people might be thinking about you, because they're probably worried about what you're thinking about them. Be kind to people. Most of us have stories we tell ourselves, and sometimes these stories limit us. "I'm not smart enough, I'm not rich enough, I'm not attractive enough, I'm bad with women, I'm bad at [x]." It's useful to sometimes consider how you might be foo… | /r/seduction | 09/11/20 05:00 AM |
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