bishop_larue Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
121	3 things I think are important if you want women to chase you	Fundamentals	bishop_larue	/r/seduction	19/02/20 01:25 AM
73	Step by step breakdown of two Tinder opener templates I have used to score hundreds of dates	Conversation	bishop_larue	/r/seduction	17/02/20 11:35 PM
9	Instead Of Mateguarding When A Guy Approaches Your Girl, Test Her For Loyalty	Conversation	bishop_larue	/r/seduction	26/02/20 01:37 AM
1	Do Good Things Come To Men That Wait? Or Did My Momma Tell A Lie?!	Resources	bishop_larue	/r/seduction	04/03/20 12:25 AM
0	Why Women Almost Never Reject You Directly	Outer Game	bishop_larue	/r/seduction	05/03/20 08:08 PM

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5	How can you avoid getting overly exited (obsessed) when you are dating a girl that has everything you are looking for? Have a higher purpose in life other than dating	/r/seduction	07/08/21 05:21 PM
10	Paying for sex I’ve slept with two attractive escorts when I was younger. One was very transactional and one was in a different country where she didn’t speak English. The latter was trying very hard to give me the GFE since she was attracted to me, and although it was fun, I still wouldn’t do it again because it still felt fake as fuck. Finding girls isn’t that hard even if you’re busy and successful. An escort on the higher end is 300$ an hour. Even if you only do that for 1 hour per week, that’s 15,600$ per…	/r/askTRP	12/05/21 04:21 PM
2	[SERIOUS] I made a lot of money on side businesses and can stop working for good, but my girlfriend works in the same place and they hate us. Should I refrain from quitting or quit anyway and leave her alone in that place? How much passive income do you make vs how much do you make at work on a monthly basis Can your passive income sources be scaled with more effort Answer that and I can give you advice you’re looking for	/r/askTRP	17/03/21 05:04 PM
1	Why Women Almost Never Reject You Directly In this video we talk about girls avoiding rejecting men to their face because they often face backlash from men who can't handle rejection well. We also talk about why you shouldn't be asking women "if they like you" because it gives away most of the mystery and reveals your intentions and often makes you predictable and not interesting enough to chase.	/r/seduction	05/03/20 09:01 PM
1	Instead Of Mateguarding When A Guy Approaches Your Girl, Test Her For Loyalty Sup man, Curious if you can elaborate on how it sounds insecure, I'd like to hear your view on that	/r/seduction	27/02/20 08:01 PM
3	Instead Of Mateguarding When A Guy Approaches Your Girl, Test Her For Loyalty so if you mansturbate does that make you a manlooker?	/r/seduction	26/02/20 04:33 AM
7	Instead Of Mateguarding When A Guy Approaches Your Girl, Test Her For Loyalty TLDW; Mate guarding is an insecure behavior that males participate in when they think another man is competing for their woman. It projects insecurity and low value. Instead of mateguarding, test your woman and see how she reacts around high value men who show her attention. If she welcomes their advances in the slightest, disqualify her from relationship material and only persue a casual relationship.	/r/seduction	26/02/20 01:39 AM
1	They Had An Argument And She Cheated The Same Night (How To Get Over An Ex Girlfriend That Cheated) If you are currently recovering from a partner who cheated or are trying actively to recover from a oneitis - consider watching the whole video. Greetings Seddit, in this video advice segment: Mike gets in an argument with his girlfriend and she downloads a dating app and promptly ragefucks a stranger the same night, he is devastated and in need of advice. We talk about mental crisis management. We talk about how Mike dodged a bullet and this situation is a blessing. We go into some of my beli…	/r/seduction	21/02/20 01:52 AM
2	3 things I think are important if you want women to chase you Haha well there is hope bro. As a former 300 lber I can tell you that long term change is possible. If you want any advice feel free to hit me up.	/r/seduction	19/02/20 08:49 PM
2	3 things I think are important if you want women to chase you I regularly attend social events like language exchanges, dance classes, activity groups that I'm interested in. Usually I'm learning a skill for myself and the women are simply around.	/r/seduction	19/02/20 08:48 PM
3	3 things I think are important if you want women to chase you To me social skills usually fall into two categories. This is the verbal aspect of conversation, which is you talking to other people and also the non verbal aspects of communication like social cues and body language. Developing your verbal skills means to master things like conversational flow, conversational topics, illiciting emotions from conversation, confidence talking to strangers, among others. This takes practice and awareness. To develop the secondary category is harder. You would nee…	/r/seduction	19/02/20 08:46 PM
3	3 things I think are important if you want women to chase you Sup Vince. Yes, this was more of an introduction and a general article but I'm happy to dive deeper if there is an interest from the audience. So just so I understand what you're asking- you wish that the article dove deeper into specifics behaviors that you should pay attention to that help affect your perceived value in the womans eyes and reduce your effort in the relationship?	/r/seduction	19/02/20 08:40 PM
2	Girls says we can't keep seeing each other for these reasons, please advise Are you being weird and ominous when you avoid it? She’s probably worried about STDs. Go get tested if you’ve been sleeping around because it’s a good idea. Show her the results. If that’s not enough, I wouldn’t deal with the hassle and talk to another girl. Telling her you’ve been with a lot of women is pretty much never a good idea.	/r/askTRP	18/11/19 01:35 AM
5	Girlfriend(28) asking me (27) to marry her Glad someone said it.	/r/askTRP	13/11/19 05:54 PM
10	Remember boys rejection is part of dating! Make yourself a good night anyways Don’t forget that hazelnut chocolate bar peeking out of the corner 🍫	/r/seduction	06/11/19 08:47 PM
6	I did my first approach Keep that momentum going. The first one is the hardest one.	/r/seduction	01/11/19 12:04 AM
1	Been doing cold approach at my college recently and have a few questions: Anytime, happy to help those helping themselves. The friend zone play you are running is a good sign that you will succeed in this game. Take those numbers but make sure you run the play to actually get with the friends. Think of what kind of value you can provide the girl to get her to want to introduce you to her friends. Good luck.	/r/seduction	31/10/19 09:29 PM
5	Getting ghosted even though things seemed to be on course / attraction being built? Is this more common these days? I get it. Don’t take this the wrong way, but this is your ego upset that the woman didn’t find it worth while to validate your existence, and it’s upset because you invested time and got nothing back. Unfortunately the world is cold, and sometimes shoves a fist in your face. It becomes much easier once you condition yourself not to care for the actions of others that you have limited control over. Good luck in your journey!	/r/seduction	31/10/19 09:27 PM
1	Where do you draw the line between honesty and not showing weaknesses? You should be comfortable showing vulnerability. The problem is most guys do it before they have any investment from the woman. That’s when their masculinity takes a hit.	/r/seduction	31/10/19 09:03 PM
36	Rejection and getting hurt is the best way to improve Agreed. Rejection builds resilience and forces you to adjust strategy. Everyone who has ever achieved anything worth achieving likely faced tons of rejection. It’s the first few that are the toughest. Keep it up.	/r/seduction	31/10/19 09:00 PM
2	Been doing cold approach at my college recently and have a few questions: Both plays can be executed well, but I always preferred the phone number because it’s a bit more personal and the woman has to invest more and give it to you. Saying a woman has a boyfriend can either be true or just an easy way for the women to reject you without hurting your feelings. The truth isn’t all that relevant because either way it’s a rejection. Keep it up!	/r/seduction	31/10/19 08:57 PM
5	Getting ghosted even though things seemed to be on course / attraction being built? Is this more common these days? Your likely mistake isn’t in texting but poor date management. You should of slept with her on the first date. Someone else came along and ran the play and she bunked up with that guy. As far as your feelings toward the interaction, I get it, but that’s something you have to get used to. Women are generally elusive in rejecting men and aren’t encouraged to do so because the army of modern day nice guys will just call her a <insert butthurt insult here> afterward. Way easier to just ghost and avo…	/r/seduction	31/10/19 08:52 PM
1	How do you balance multiple women at once? The same way you eat three cheeseburgers at once. You take a bite of each one at a time. Be more specific. Your question is too broad. What aspects of balancing women are you having trouble with ?	/r/seduction	31/10/19 08:45 PM
1	[FR] My date comes under heavy fire Listen to this advice, it’s spot on. Another red flag was her on a dinner date. She basically informed you that she is at best using that guy for free dinner, at worst lying to you because she plans to sleep with him. Low class woman at best. With other red flags mentioned here, I’d be very cautious. I would suggest you don’t wife this girl up. You should already be able to see the unfortunate road that could potentially go down. Have sex until the relationship falls apart, don’t invest emotiona…	/r/seduction	29/10/19 04:33 AM
3	To double text or not to double text? She is already open about having sex. You’re over gaming and going to game yourself out of easy sex. Your weekend busy text is awkward and easy to see through, real busy people don’t actually send that text. They just don’t message. At best your text suggests you are actually busy but really needy. Do not send that message... Give her a call once she’s in town, seal the deal. Pretend the neg didn’t happen. You don’t need to game this woman. It’s already an established relationship. Good luck	/r/seduction	29/10/19 04:12 AM
8	PUA arrested for talking to women, IncelTV claims it was because he was ugly. 1) recording the approaches against consent 2) uncalibrated overly direct approaches 3) forceful and pushy when it’s clearly obvious the woman isn’t interested It’s better that guys like this end up in jail so clueless noobs who watch their videos don’t pick up lifelong bad habits and try to copy them.	/r/askTRP	28/10/19 03:30 PM
4	So I’m going out tomorrow and have a plan to get over over AA. Don’t allow some comments to let you down in a previous post. A lot of guys who post here are rehashing information they think is right and not actually doing any approaches and don’t actually have their own data. The opinion (indirect) opener is great to get started in overcoming your AA because it shows you that you are capable of making an approach, even if it doesn’t go anywhere after the open. That’s a small step in showing yourself you are capable because it will give you confidence in you…	/r/seduction	25/10/19 03:27 PM
12	How do I get over the fear of not getting hard? You sound like you’re cucking yourself in your own mind dude, that can’t be healthy for your confidence	/r/askTRP	22/10/19 08:56 PM
3	Can you comeback after being corny and goofy? Let’s take a second to identify the real problem. You are worried about the validation of others and it will show through your interactions with them. This means that they won’t treat you worse because of the corny joke, they’ll treat you worse because you think they’ll treat you worse because of the corny joke.	/r/seduction	22/10/19 04:39 PM
3	Crush talked about bring "friends" next time we go Latin dancing. Do I still go? Understandable. There’s a lesson here... Listen to a woman’s actions and not her words. Let’s flip the script to another scenario. I’m running at you full speed with a bloody knife and it looks very much so like my intent is to stab you to hell. Yet, I’m yelling “Hey buddy, I just want to be friends! Don’t run!” Would you trust the actions or my words? If you want to know for sure, ask the girl over to your place for hang out just you and her. If she makes any excuse at all, you have your answer…	/r/seduction	17/10/19 05:52 AM
3	Crush talked about bring "friends" next time we go Latin dancing. Do I still go? Right. So here’s what it looks like from the outside. It sounds like at the first sign of actual physical intimacy (dancing) the woman then suggested to you through text multiple times that she doesn’t want the next encounter to be private. Does that sound like the actions of a woman who wants you to take her to bed or be your girlfriend? It sounds more like the actions of a woman who probably knows you have a crush on her and wants to not hurt your feelings by keeping your expectations realisti…	/r/seduction	17/10/19 05:41 AM
1	Crush talked about bring "friends" next time we go Latin dancing. Do I still go? You’ve met many many times yet you still haven’t kissed or done anything ?	/r/seduction	17/10/19 05:21 AM
18	Stepping Through WINDOWS to Massively increase Your Success - (Med-Adv "Game" topic) Windows are very real and often only come once. This is a woman’s covert way of screening out inexperienced men and getting exactly what she wants. She doesn’t have to do anything and only men who understand her specific message proceed to the next step.	/r/seduction	15/10/19 05:00 PM
1	Dating advice for begginers(men only) This post is like telling a beached whale that he needs to get back in the water soon. “Stop being needy guys!!!” “But how?” “Just stop!!!” “Ok...” Some of the concepts here have somewhat decent intentions, but any beginner who actually follows this advice isn’t going to get far at all, probably will move in the opposite direction.	/r/seduction	14/10/19 06:28 PM
17	If I fuck an HB4 is that preselection for HB9/10 or am I worse off from it? Jesus bro what is a 2 anyway? I’m afraid to even imagine it lol.	/r/askTRP	12/10/19 02:52 AM
1	Is this a good idea when bulking? Need some advice. This is good advice. Focus on dumb bell compound movements first. Avoid bar bells completely for at least 2 months or until well researched in form and technique. A lot of guys hear this kind of advice and they hop right on a barbell and take themselves out, and op sounds like he is on first week. Research the Smith Machine and practice your compounds there along with dumbells until you get a solid foundation then start the progression to barbell training	/r/askTRP	11/10/19 06:40 AM
3	Emotional fluctuations while in field and instant blowouts (rejections) How about you give examples of what is causing instant blowouts. That sounds like you’re coming in really hot and uncalibrated. Stopping the girl walking in the middle of the party is what suggested that to me. It sounds more like you are giving off a gamey and non genuine vibe and women are picking up on it immediately.	/r/askTRP	11/10/19 06:29 AM
2	Do any of you guys actually pull from day game? Between 8-12 women per year. Very few approaches, only women who give strong IOI on day to day activities	/r/seduction	08/10/19 07:50 AM
2	How to ask out my ex's earlier flatmate? Don’t bring up the ex. Pretend it never happened until she brings it up on the date. Ask her out and go from there	/r/seduction	04/10/19 05:55 AM
10	got nexted because of ASD? Too many wild assumptions on your part, advice is somewhat ok but doesn’t fit the context. Nosebleeds aren’t caused by blood pressure unless the girl is extremely hypertensive or has heart failure, both unlikely since op seems inexperienced which would put him in a younger age bracket . Nosebleeds aren’t body language anyway. That’s a ridiculous statement and attack on op for no reason. If we are to gauge body language analysis she took her own shirt off which suggests she is okay with the escal…	/r/askTRP	02/10/19 05:34 AM
1	My life as an extremely ugly young man growing up in the social media era. What to do? This is a well thought out response and has covered every aspect of what you need to do.	/r/askTRP	01/10/19 03:52 PM
1	This chick is mission impossible. I failed the mission yesterday. How do I succeed again? (Long story, girl is insane) This type of girl likes to be dominated and wants to submit and be beneath you, but you’re pedestaling her and putting her above you. It’s too late to change that. The frame is set.	/r/seduction	28/09/19 04:42 PM
83	PSA: Many Women Want Sex Immediately Very correct advice. Being identified as sexually undesirable is a terrifying situation for a woman. This is the worst possible rejection. When she goes out of her way to show you she wants sex And you don’t pick up on those signals, she will rationalize to protect her own ego and block you out. This is the same thing men do after failing to approach. Kinda sucks when you think about it, both you lose out and she gets hurt by the lack of action. Bishop	/r/seduction	28/09/19 12:31 AM
27	Date with 2 girls. Advice. Sure it’s plausible they want some drinks, just don’t pay for their shit and let them know that out of the gate. Bring your gym bag in your car and bounce and head to the gym if they give unpleasant pushback. I take it you have been in monk mode. Go out and have some fun with two hot girls. Even if you don’t smash you may actually build some rapport and smash later, meet some of their friends who might want to smash, or use the fact you’re at a bar with two models to pick up numbers from any of …	/r/askTRP	25/09/19 06:01 AM
0	Field Report You made an assumption that was an obvious insult to her intelligence and capability. It happens man, but I’m sure you realize that was rude and made her uncomfortable. You probably aren’t going to get the girl, but what you can do is make it right. Put “seduction” to the side for a bit and approach her and apologize. Since this is a girl you’re likely going to see a lot, it’s the right move for both you and her. Walk up to her next time and say this... “Hey, after our talk last time I realized …	/r/seduction	24/09/19 05:22 PM
12	Common ways people ruin their lives /future Credit card debt. Not personally, but I’ve talked to a lot of older heads who are in debt and they’re basically fucked for life because of the interest rates	/r/askTRP	19/09/19 02:34 AM
1	How to deal with getting shit tested by women of low SMV? It looks like they are just bullying you :/ I think AA here shows a weaker frame and they are taking advantage of it because it’s how they can get in your proximity. Starve them of your attention completely unless absolutely mandatory and they lose they start to look like monkeys dancing without an audience. Don’t do it with your tail between your legs, do it with indifference like you would deal with a plate that is misbehaving. If they continue, confront the behavior and shut it down directly.…	/r/askTRP	17/09/19 09:07 PM
3	Does the Guilt go away? You should really re-evaluate your standards. Compromising a friend ship for some vagina speaks very low of your character and moral compass. I’m surprised you refer to this man as your “close friend”	/r/askTRP	16/09/19 02:12 AM
2	LTR says she decided to save herself till marriage If you were to read your own comments from an outside perspective you would see how frantic you look. It’s okay, everyone has been through it. Meet with her. Don’t lead the conversation. See what she has to say. She’s going to give you some kind of excuse as to why it’s not working. She’s not telling you the truth. She can smell your weakness just like we can smell it through your posts. Don’t cry, don’t complain, don’t try to make it work. Tell her that you agree because the relationship wasn’t…	/r/askTRP	15/09/19 08:44 PM
1	Guys in Their Late 20's through 50's, What are Some Socially Acceptable, Non-Violent Ways to Enforce Boundaries Against Other Men Who Lack Respect Enough for You to Openly Hit on a Woman Who is With You in Some Capacity? Sure, I have one that works for me. One day I was in college at some party wearing a bright pink shirt. I had a random guy walk by and say something to me along the lines of “Nice pink shirt, what are you a faggot or something?” A few seconds later, he immediately apologized and excused himself. I hadn’t said a word to him, so I was a bit confused myself by his actions. A few minutes later a good buddy of mine came up to me and told me that he had witnessed and heard the whole thing. He asked me…	/r/askTRP	14/09/19 10:11 PM
9	She’s saving herself till Marriage Hi there, Consider this. The last thing you want to do is spend your entire youthful years waiting for a woman, commit to her, then find out you are sexually incompatible. This will lead to you hating your life, and eventually hating her. Then divorce. Then you wishing you hadn’t wasted all your good years. You would be surprised how often this happens. Sex changes everything in a relationship. If you aren’t sexually experienced either, that multiplies the risk. Choose your next steps wisely, be…	/r/seduction	13/09/19 05:35 PM
1	How do you not see seduction as a "conquest" if you arent experienced? Hi there, You used the word conquest and goal as if they are the same thing. Having a goal is great. Anyone who suggests avoiding a goal oriented method of approach to anything in life likely has never accomplished.... anything. Take every win you can get. Plan your next move, execute and repeat. A conquest is like invading a foreign country by force, sending their women to slavery, etc. it’s a rough ass word to use in seduction. I think your curiosity stems from a natural feeling of domination …	/r/seduction	13/09/19 07:08 AM
4	Update: girl explained things to me after class You aren’t screwed but you should lay off the gas. That took some balls to do and may have been just a bit creeper but it’s okay, it worked out for the most part. Good job for pushing yourself. What you need to do is give her space now. Stop bringing up the dates and hang outs for a bit. Any more pressure and she might feel like you’re stalking her. Instead continue to build rapport as if she was a friend of yours. If her story checks out, that’s the way to get her comfortable and attract her. I…	/r/seduction	06/09/19 02:01 AM
1	Flirting with an ex boundaries? I agree, I think outcome independence is critical for success. Although I’m confused because you said you have no outcome in mind but you want to have sex with her. Those are very mixed signals that likely you’re projecting on her as well. Identifying your goal is important if you’d like to Ever get there. Flirting doesn’t come off as weak unless it comes from an unhealthy place mentally. An unhealthy place could be that you are hanging out with your ex girl who broke up with you meanwhile she i…	/r/seduction	05/09/19 06:45 PM
2	Flirting with an ex boundaries? What is your outcome ? You didn’t really mention that	/r/seduction	05/09/19 05:50 PM
3	Girl was really feeling me when we first met in class, now slowing down? For next time, avoid the movie as a first date. It’s not a great date because it doesn’t allow you to connect much (little talking) Regardless... You aren’t a priority, “she may be busy” is basically like saying “I currently don’t have plans but will not schedule plans with you either because I don’t want to do that” It’s just a no I’m disguise. Any time a woman asks you “like a date?” It usually means in her mind you were already in the friend zone and she is surprised you’re breaking out It’s …	/r/seduction	04/09/19 11:25 PM
1	Girl was really feeling me when we first met in class, now slowing down? Give her a day off from texting and in person, then see how she reacts. Greet her in person and that’s it. Don’t be a cold and sour attitude but more of a “my attention is elsewhere “ attitude. Have a fun conversation with others in class and make sure she sees it. If that’s not possible just have a “I’m in my own thoughts today” attitude and don’t give her much attention other than maybe saying hello at the start of class Pay attention to her response. She will probably get jealous. If she come…	/r/seduction	04/09/19 08:57 PM
5	Why do I always find myself mumbling “dumb slut, cunt bitch, whore” or some other variation? Because you are unwilling to accept that the rejection is because you are unworthy, for whatever reason, to that particular woman and so your ego tries to create a situation where it’s her fault so you can feel better about yourself. It’s standard nice guy behavior. Try to condition yourself to be more outcome independent and it should dissolve with time	/r/askTRP	04/09/19 06:15 AM
3	Women just aren't into me because im short. So let’s change that. Fear isn’t permanent. Have you made any approaches this year?	/r/seduction	04/09/19 06:02 AM
5	Girl was really feeling me when we first met in class, now slowing down? Maybe met another guy who is progressing the relationship. Maybe hooked up over the weekend at a party and is weening you off. Relationship talk way too soon either way. You just met the girl, don’t do that so fast. That can make you seem kinda insecure. Jokes are fine, slow down the texting. Slow down the attention. If it’s the first week and you are all in on her with attention, she may assume you don’t have much options. Ask her out as soon as possible. Something casual on campus is a good id…	/r/seduction	04/09/19 05:55 AM
2	Women just aren't into me because im short. The question isn’t what to I do, but what have you done ? If you want constructive advice, give the community something to work with. Tell us your background, statistics and what you have tried that has failed. But actually write it. If you aren’t willing to do at least that, why should anyone put in effort to help you? I have a 5’4 friend that sleeps with 10-15 girls a year. It’s not the height. He is okay in the looks department and doesn’t have status or money. Yes obviously the height makes …	/r/seduction	04/09/19 05:50 AM
5	First HS party is friday night. I’m not extremely extroverted and I barely know anyone that’s gonna be there, except for one of my friends. I really want to be invited to more parties and have some fun, but i’m not sure on how to act and behave so people will like me and not ignore me. Don’t worry so much about talking to the women. Talk to everyone and use your friend as a home base for when nothings going on. Make friends and don’t embarrass yourself making any weird or aggressive approach, that is one way to not get another invitation. You’re much more likely to get the womens attention if you are validated as a equal by the other man and come off as friendly an social. You will get invited again and can work your way into the social circle. On the other hand if some woman …	/r/seduction	04/09/19 04:17 AM
4	Messaging game Hey there, Sure. Well there isn’t much to expand in really. Your mistake was sending a bunch of weird stuff, which is ok - we all did it at least once or ten times. The concept you are referring about is called investment. The idea behind the theory is that after you have secured the date, you don’t want to over invest. What kind of message does that send to the woman? Texting too much shows that you are overly excited and that just gives off an air of inexperience. If a woman dubs you inexperie…	/r/seduction	19/07/19 03:59 AM
4	Asked girl for her number this evening, she then asks if I want to follow her home. Unclear how you got into the situation, that’s important... but here is what it looks like on details provided. The likelihood of you getting with this woman is extremely unlikely, as the other commenter posted. Going for sex or trying to noodle your way into the apartment would have been a huge mistake, even though you have “nothing to lose” you should still have some general class. you would of made yourself seem pathetic, inexperienced and desperate had you tried to close. There are appropria…	/r/seduction	17/07/19 11:16 PM
2	I don't enjoy being a jerk with girls, but it gets me results. You’re welcome, the comment is updated. If you would like to provide some specifics on your situation maybe I can help with providing a mental shift for you. Good luck Bishop	/r/seduction	17/07/19 07:30 PM
2	How often should one text (or call?) a girl you had a vacation fling with (given that you had sex) if you want to keep yourself in her mind for a potential future LTR? Once every 3 of months at most. You should really move on though, this isn’t a healthy mentality that you have here. The chances of you getting together are so staggeringly low, unless she lives within a drive able distance of you. I know it’s not the best news, but it’s just the way it is. Bishop	/r/seduction	17/07/19 07:25 PM
18	I don't enjoy being a jerk with girls, but it gets me results. Hey man, So what you have mentioned doesn’t sound like being a jerk. Playful teasing and being rude are two very different things. Maybe you just aren’t comfortable with teasing women yet? What a lot of beginners see is that teasing is just a fun way to show a girl that you aren’t beneath her. Guys who supplicate and worship women would be too afraid to pick on them a little and women pick up on that. Teasing is a huge part of flirting and guys who aren’t doing it will have women leave them cons…	/r/seduction	17/07/19 07:20 PM
5	Anyone ever done an exercise/fitness date before? This wasn’t a great first date idea. The purpose of the first date is to connect and flirt. You can’t accomplish that as easily when there are heavy weights and hot guys around. Try and remember this for future dates! Nonetheless, it’s not lost. Have things ready for lunch at your house. She isn’t going to want to go out on the town sweaty in gym clothes. Have lunch ready and propose going back to your place to make lunch in a casual manner. This will give you privacy and you can close there, ma…	/r/seduction	17/07/19 01:47 AM
4	Where did I go so wrong? Sounds like you aren’t trying and expecting women to do the work for you. You said it yourself. You’ve never asked a girl out, but the girls you like aren’t into you? I wonder how you could possibly know that if you’ve never tried. Maybe you’re assuming that because they don’t throw themselves at you. But why would they? Did the professors during medical school do your homework for you? Probably not. Sure, they could of... but why would they? They hold the power. Just like hot women have power o…	/r/seduction	17/07/19 01:42 AM
18	A girl I like texted me that her bf cheated on her. What should I do? She is looking for a rebound. Go out with her and take her home, if you don’t someone else will shortly. Don’t become overly needy afterwards , just play it cool and she will likely feel that you have some value, if you become overly needy you are immediately getting friend zoned because she is emotional and most likely NOT looking to get into another relationship right away. Don’t be overt comforting when she talks about her ex, instead show her that there is value in other relationships by giv…	/r/seduction	15/07/19 01:34 AM
3	(24F) HOW DO I FLIRT? I have a crippling image of myself due to being overweight right now. And I don’t know how to show someone I’m more than my weight. The answer isn’t really what you probably want to hear. Reality is that if you are mentally uncomfortable with an aspect of yourself, your attempts to hide it will fail and the guy will likely pick up on it. E.g, when a girl gets dressed after sex but awkwardly does it in a way that hides her body. Guys see that stuff and it turns them away, not because of how THEY feel about your appearance but because YOUR opinion of yourself causes them to question their decision about you. The answer to is e…	/r/seduction	14/07/19 11:06 PM
1	How do I get over this girl and forget her? The first step is to eliminate the source of negative feelings. Block the girl on all social media and it will get better in time.	/r/seduction	12/07/19 12:54 AM
2	How do I get over this girl and forget her? The first step is to eliminate the source of negative feelings. Block the girl on all social media and it will get better in time.	/r/seduction	12/07/19 12:50 AM
9	I think I might have a problem with porn/jerking off and it’s starting to interfere with work and school. What can I do to quit this addiction? The easy answer is to stop watching porn and jerking off. The hard answer is to implement a ladder approach to where you slowly reduce the good feelings from the stimulus that you have cultured yourself to be addicted to. First identify your triggers and develop a strategy to eliminate them then report back for next steps.	/r/askTRP	11/07/19 11:04 PM
5	Where did I go wrong in this message? There were several things wrong with the text but it likely wasn’t your problem. Chances are she never planned to text you and gave you her number so you would leave her alone. Maybe she gave you a wrong number. Maybe she has a guy already, maybe your approach was uncalibrated. No way for us to know. Either way, forget it and move on. There is no way to save it if she never responded. Another message won’t miraculously get her to respond as she likely knows exactly who you are and made a choice …	/r/askTRP	11/07/19 10:51 PM
1	Should I let it go? You have really bad one itis. Forget about this girl, go enjoy your trip. You will likely meet many attractive women on your vacation. Stop messaging her. If she is around when you get back in class, ask her out. You should have asked her out a while ago but it sounds like for whatever reason you didn’t, now you are devastated because you don’t know where you stand with her. Let this be a lesson that you shouldn’t hide your feelings in the future. Hope you aren’t upset by my words, this has happ…	/r/seduction	11/07/19 10:25 PM
-6	I've been trying to break up with my LTR (2.5 years) and now she just disrepcted me. Is ghosting an okay thing to do or do I need to tell her in person? Don’t ghost her, that is a cowards way out. Handle your business. Just send her a break up text then block her so you can let your mind rest. If you ghost you’re more likely to let her crawl back in	/r/askTRP	11/07/19 10:18 PM
2	Girls lose interest in texting back after a while. There are no texting skills that will keep a girl interested in the long run. Are you asking them on dates?	/r/seduction	11/07/19 06:07 PM
1	bluepill close friend ghosts me after I call him out... should I just give up? Well, it’s not your life man. It’s not your place to give him advice unless he asks for it which definitely sucks. Cut contact with him. It’s a part of life to do this, even if it’s your friend. It’s clear he has chosen his path and if it doesn’t align with your life you should just move on. One day he will come back and wish he listened.	/r/askTRP	11/07/19 06:04 PM
3	Guys who invite a girl back home on the first date: Does she usually respond well or does it usually backfire? It goes well if you can lead her. She’s going to check your behavior for insecurity and if you’re nervous chances are it won’t happen. If you play it cool she will resist a little but almost always give it up	/r/seduction	10/07/19 11:55 PM
1	Finally got some courage to flirt with a girl but don’t know what I did wrong? Hey Topside, Tough to say. Following her could of been a good idea because it sounds like she may have been looking for a reason to be alone with you, we will never know. She seemed pretty specific about where she was going. I think it was a fantastic job for a first time flirting with a girl, keep it up. Maybe for next time think of a way you could get to a situation where you are alone with a girl who seems to be showing interest. -Bishop	/r/seduction	08/07/19 04:38 AM
1	A tip for guys in casual relationships Hey diablo, I agree that asking is simpler for sure. From my experience conversations like that damage or end the relationship. There are two types of women I’ve noticed that like casual. The girls who say it out of the gate (very few of these) and girls who sweep it under the rug. Usually when the subject is addressed so directly the first group seem to lose interest and stop investing, and the second group either lie, push a relationship or put pressure on you to disclose your intentions with …	/r/seduction	08/07/19 04:12 AM
1	Should I offer to give girl I like from soccer team a ride to games as I drive past where she is already? Hey BBQ, There are some pro and some con. The pro is isolation which can give you time to connect, just like you mentioned. Also it would be easier to transition into a date naturally if you are already in a vehicle together. A potential can be that by providing such a resource shows a substantial investment on your part, which isn’t always a bad thing but sometimes can complicate the relationship. Is she showing you any signs that she is into you? -Bishop	/r/seduction	08/07/19 02:28 AM