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| 16 | Try not to say "Women".some of them don't even say 'women' lol they think it humanizes them too much. instead they use 'females, femoids, foids' etc. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/11/21 10:32 AM |
| 2 | Are friendships with women a good way to get sex or dates?I do think there are differences between men and women's preferences. Of course it's based on my own experience but I don't think most women find most men physically attractive, our tastes vary as much as men's though, I personally like a very specific type of guy and it's kinda the exact opposite of what redpill claims all women are attracted to lol I'm currently after a guy whom I thought was physically unattractive before knowing him so emotional connection does make a lot of difference but b… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/11/21 07:11 PM |
| 5 | In reality what will happen if you approach younger women as an older guy?It's not really that big of a deal, younger women don't necessarily prefer men a lot older than them like CRP says but it might be worth a try if you look decent. Think twice before considering LTR though, you likely won't have the same worldview as someone 10 years younger than you. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/11/21 11:44 AM |
| 20 | Should we be looking for women outside the west?dude, this isn't the sub for this type of bs. you don't seem very ex-redpilled to me | /r/ExRedPill | 31/10/21 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Is the psychological component of the red pill correct?When you tell people to "work on your looks/have more hobbies/try to be more confident", you are generalizing women by saying that a e.g. a certain type of looks or behavior is more likely to be attractive to many women than another type of looks/behavior. Most women are attracted to men with confidence and self respect. People in general want to be around others with confidence and self respect. It's not a baseless generalization as I don't claim all women are like that aka AWALT and there are … | /r/ExRedPill | 30/10/21 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Is the psychological component of the red pill correct?Assuming basic dating advice that's been around for ages is exclusively redpill doesn't make sense in the first place. Literally no one would ever deny that being confident can help you get laid, this sub doesn't exist to go against basic self improvement advice like "work on your looks/have more hobbies/try to be more confident" etc, it exists to criticize people who generalize about women, exaggerate their dating standarts, preach about how a 'real' man and woman should be like, deliberately t… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/10/21 08:59 AM |
| 1 | Sexual partner countAgain, with the confirmation bias. I'm talking about my own experiences. If you want to make dumb generalizations about half the world population feel free to link your sources. Make sure they explicitly say all women only like guys who have sex. Also 'like' in what way? I literally just mentioned I'm not attracted to them and their relationship status has no effect on our friendship other than the fact that it makes them less likely to misunderstand my intentions. You certainly sound like someo… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/10/21 08:30 PM |
| 4 | Sexual partner countIf you want honest answers perhaps you should stop it with your confirmation bias. You make it too obvious that you just want something that fits your narrative to demonize women. You don’t want to have sex with them but instead just use them as ATMs/chauffeurs/therapists. We do treat each other when we hang out and buy gifts for each other occasionally. I also do make them listen to my problems, just like how I listen to theirs and give them advice. Congrats for learning how friendships work. I… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/10/21 07:58 PM |
| 3 | Sexual partner countdude. i have several male friends i absolutely do not find sexually attractive but if you told me to choose between them and some random hot guy i would be interested in having a one night stand with i'd definitely choose the former. casual sex isn't something vulnerable for the women who often have it, you just have some fun and then go do your own thing. between a man i only meet to get laid and a man whom i choose to be a part of my daily life the latter is much more valuable | /r/ExRedPill | 20/10/21 07:19 PM |
| 5 | Sexual partner countAh yes, certainly you love someone you'd rather only fuck and not include in your daily life more than the person you want to spend your every day with | /r/ExRedPill | 20/10/21 05:13 AM |
| 7 | Muscles/bodybuilder looks actually hurt men when it comes to dating (in most cases)lifting is good, it's healthy and builds confidence. i'm just saying you don't need to overdo it | /r/ExRedPill | 19/10/21 11:56 AM |
| 15 | Do you enjoy or get off on rejecting men? Has there ever been a time when you enjoyed rejecting someone?Nah it makes me feel guilty as hell if they're genuine and scared if pushy | /r/ExRedPill | 19/10/21 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Do women secretly want to sleep with other men or are they content and satisfied with just one?it's fine to say 'women are more likely to do this' / 'men are more likely to do this' but it doesn't really help with the conversation to leave it at that since there are multiple factors affecting human behaviour and there's a fine line between just stating scientifical facts and bending it to fit your misogynistic / misandristic perspective. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/10/21 06:07 AM |
| 11 | Muscles/bodybuilder looks actually hurt men when it comes to dating (in most cases)mostly agreed. an average body combined with a decent face is enough for a lot of women. bodybuilder types instantly turn me off honestly, kinda similar to how men like big chests but get turned off when it's so big that it looks fake. i'm sure there are some women who're crazy about it though | /r/ExRedPill | 19/10/21 04:23 AM |
| 10 | Do women secretly want to sleep with other men or are they content and satisfied with just one?yeah not everyone is a good person suprisingly. totally a redpilled take. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/10/21 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Why does RP have this ideal image of what an attractive man is when it's highly subjective to women?My type is literally the opposite of that one model they claim to have the 'ultimate chad' look lol Super buff, masculine, aggressive chad who gets all the girls is a male fantasy and it's a bit sus when you consider these guys obsessively talk about his dick and how hot he is on a daily basis | /r/ExRedPill | 17/10/21 10:23 PM |
| 4 | "the red pill makes you love women" let me explainYou can be goal driven and nice. You can have self respect and still care for other people. They're not complete opposites. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/10/21 06:21 PM |
| 5 | "the red pill makes you love women" let me explainYou seriously needed redpill to tell you that looks matter? How old are you? You guys seem to think there's a spectrum where you can either be good looking or nice but it doesn't work like that. You can be attracted to someone physically but if they don't treat you well it's not gonna work, even one night stands require you to care for the other person's needs for you both to have a good time. Women want someone they find attractive but not all of them find the same type of person attractive, so… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/10/21 06:16 PM |
| 2 | "the red pill makes you love women" let me explainexplain how you were lied to about what women really want and what this shocking and angering truth redpill apparently showed you is | /r/ExRedPill | 16/10/21 03:29 PM |
| 2 | The Upcoming War Between Men and Womenyea sure | /r/ExRedPill | 15/10/21 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Isn't hypergamy (or whatever the male version is) something women should worry more about in men?Ehhh that's self-reported data. If you know a study that uses a more reliable method than surveys to determine how often and why cheating happens on a large scale I'd be happy to read it. I'm not saying women cheat more than the men though, my guess is its close to equal and much higher than 20% for each. Who knows. I'd disagree since most people do feel empathy and guilt but have no way to prove it wouldn't happen regardless. I just believe the majority of relationships do not end with one of t… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/21 05:26 AM |
| 8 | Isn't hypergamy (or whatever the male version is) something women should worry more about in men?The statistics I'm refering to are unreliable but the random people you see in your workplace represent all women? Plenty of my friends got cheated on by their partner, my own blood related relative cheated on his wife and believed it was completely justified cause "she didn't feel well enough to have sex with him" but I have no reason to use that as an excuse to think of men as a hivemind or present my personal experiences as evidence. It's completely meaningless since we don't know each other … | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/21 05:00 AM |
| 12 | Isn't hypergamy (or whatever the male version is) something women should worry more about in men?Do not cheat, don't get caught, or do things that they don't consider cheating? 20% of men and 13% of women cheat. Considering the existence of internet almost all women can technically find someone better in a short amount of time. If women are biologically wired to seek out better men and don't care about a man outside of his resources you'd think the stats would be way, way higher. For a number of women, casual sex on a girls night out, a holiday fling, or a one nighter on a business trip isn… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/21 02:02 AM |
| 14 | Isn't hypergamy (or whatever the male version is) something women should worry more about in men?Yes, men do notice pretty women, and given half the chance would love to spend the night with them, but the majority of men don't have the inclination, confidence, ability or looks to make anything happen. Should it make women feel less insecure about themselves that their partner would sleep with another woman in a heartbeat if they knew they were attractive enough to do it? Women in general, will at some point have choices and options of meeting someone better, either regularly or occasionally… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/21 01:27 AM |
| 1 | What is actual "alpha" and "beta" behavior?Confidence and self respect. The rest is just bs | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/21 05:39 PM |
| 4 | What rebuttals to redpill concepts are there which aren't appeals to emotion?'aren't appeals to emotion'? Elaborate. You can read the Redpill Detox post for the articles. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/21 05:37 PM |
| 1 | As long as we are attracted to anyone, we will never be freeI grew up in a country where the majority is Muslim and I never felt more objectified, I can't walk near a group of grown men without feeling like that since the age of freaking 10. In some places people casually walk up to me and call me names for the clothes I wear. Rape, child abuse, animal abuse and domestic violence are way more common than the average. Your prophet literally had sex with a 9 year old girl. Empathy helps, religion doesn't. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/21 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Why do we label people alpha and beta? It's so stupid."Just be yourself" sounds like a generic af advice but it worked for me. The times I tried to mimic popular & respected people were the worst years of my life. I constantly compared myself to them and it made me even more insecure and hateful. I despised other people for not accepting me the way I am when even I myself couldn't, I was a pretentious paranoid piece of shit. Even if other people liked me because of it (they didn't) it wouldn't be worth it if I wasn't happy so I just said fuck it al… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/21 09:07 AM |
| 4 | Is Internalized Misandry a thing?Holy shit that sounds sad. I don't think a lot of women believe that honestly, men are human beings. Just like women they're capable of both good and evil. They might be responsible for most wars and tragedies that took place throughout the history but it doesn't say anything about you as an individual. Also a lot of things I'm thankful for in my daily life were invented by men so... | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/21 08:56 AM |
| 1 | As long as we are attracted to anyone, we will never be freeThese type of questions don't have a place in real life, they're not exactly practical. If you don't want to have any sexual desire at all I'm sure modern medicine has a solution for that already. If you ask me even if we weren't attracted to anyone we aren't and will never be truly free. The concept of free will is an illusion. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/21 08:44 AM |
| 5 | What’s with the increase in black pill/red pill content here?I honestly don't mind it, the more people come to this sub and post about their beliefs more chance we have to help them get rid of the brainwashing. The problem is that some of them have a self esteem so low that what they need is not a bunch of people trying to explain why they're wrong but a damn therapist | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/21 08:37 AM |
| 6 | What's the deal with FDS (Female dating strategy)?Some people there are fucking pathetic honestly. Don't you love when the ones who complain about incels are literally the gender reversed version of them? The only reason I can think of as to why they haven't been banned yet is that I've never heard of FDS breeding any misandrist female mass shooters unlike RP and MGTOW. Really makes you think when you remember redpill's claims about women being the illogical, cruel and impulsive ones. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/21 08:28 AM |
| 10 | Male rape victim here. Red pill took advantage of my trauma induced insecurities. Feminists have also helped me way more with my ptsd than MRAs and red pillersYou absolutely didn't deserve that. Hopefully you'll only get better from now on | /r/ExRedPill | 25/09/21 11:50 AM |
| 5 | Is there a turning point or am i doomed. Im turning into someone i dont want to knoeDude see a therapist. It's their job to save you. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/09/21 01:22 AM |
| 11 | Practically "asexual"The fact that real women have their own motivations is a turn-off. I guess you found the reason you're on this sub | /r/ExRedPill | 24/09/21 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Are red pilled men just desperate for a way to get women to like them?You deserve to be happy man. Nothing good comes out of resenting people, it'll only make you more bitter and insecure. Instead try to make life a bit better for yourself and others. Start with small things and take your time. Those who think they have the right to tell you you're not good enough to 'be a man' are the pathetic ones. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/09/21 12:03 PM |
| 26 | Are red pilled men just desperate for a way to get women to like them?A lot of them are insecure losers who like pitying themselves. If you spend enough time in their forums you'll see they have an excuse for everything. They'll absolutely refuse to see things from a perspective that doesn't make them out to be the victims. It goes like this. What do you say when you see an attractive woman with an unattractive man? She must be leeching off of him. What if he's not rich? He's probably redpilled and knows the female nature. What do you say when you see an attractiv… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/09/21 07:57 AM |
| 5 | Men are not the prize; Not even women.It's pretty self objectifying honestly. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/09/21 06:42 AM |
| 3 | Does showing less interest with women work?That's not exclusively redpill though. It's a pretty generic dating advice and works on both men and women (of course not everyone, especially if they're over 25-30) No one likes needy pushovers, makes people think you have no self respect | /r/ExRedPill | 22/09/21 06:41 AM |
| 6 | What part of Game is bad? How is ugly short guy supposed to get anything or should i wait till i hit 30 to be settled for while the chick is done banging the hot guys and Chad is done with her?A lot of people tried to help you in your last post but can't help those who like victimizing themselves. In real life people don't categorize themselves into those who get sex & those who don't and form their whole identity around it. Stacy who sleeps with a thousand Chads before settling with an ugly guy is a redpill stereotype that make up a very small part of the population. The average woman and man have a very similar number of sexual partners their whole life. Even if I tell you "Try to i… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/09/21 01:24 PM |
| 11 | What part of Game is bad? How is ugly short guy supposed to get anything or should i wait till i hit 30 to be settled for while the chick is done banging the hot guys and Chad is done with her?That's good advice right there. Too bad OP doesn't wanna do anything other than form his whole identity around being short and pity himself. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/09/21 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Can a short man as desirable to a woman as tall man? Or am i just always going to be second option to women.If you're ugly and short most people won't find you attractive. Make dating your second priority and focus on improving your looks & gaining more confidence. Making friends who have the same interests as you helps a lot. I know it's easier said than done but it's absolutely not over for you. Also try checking out r/bropill for motivation/comfort | /r/ExRedPill | 21/09/21 09:07 AM |
| 3 | This channel is full of hateful content with comments talking about "Getting back at Stacy" and "leaving a permanent mark". He also has a video titled "R.I.P Jake Davison". I've already reported the channel but I don't know what else to do about it, seems incredibly dangerous.He's talking about murderers like they're heroes. He called the 3 years old who got murdered in the shooting a 'Stacy', said she's better off dead, constantly goes around harassing couples and minors irl and replied "We'll see" to someone asking if he'll kill anyone. People ignored Jake Davison when he was active on incel subreddits and we know what happened. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/09/21 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Can a short man as desirable to a woman as tall man? Or am i just always going to be second option to women.I'm not sure exactly what height counts as 'short' for you and what circumstances you're refering to so I'm gonna reply based on the article you linked above. https://www.mic.com/p/does-height-matter-on-dating-apps-heres-how-revealing-that-info-actually-affects-your-matches-18016680 I know you guys tend to focus on the negative part and ignore the rest but as they mentioned online dating is entirely based on numbers and it doesn't reflect reality. People are gonna be superficial because all you … | /r/ExRedPill | 19/09/21 07:51 PM |
| 3 | Can a short man as desirable to a woman as tall man? Or am i just always going to be second option to women.i love that sub lol it's kinda sad that doing the bare minimum like spoiling your partner is considered role reversal though | /r/ExRedPill | 19/09/21 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Can a short man as desirable to a woman as tall man? Or am i just always going to be second option to women.Remember OP's question. Can a short man as desirable to woman as tall man? Or am i just always going to be second option to women. Yes, short men can be as desirable as a tall man. Most women do prefer tall men but that doesn't mean height automatically makes you undesirable compared to someone taller. And no, you're not gonna be the second option by default just because of your height. If you're a guy with average height or even shorter you're already taller than most women, height matters but … | /r/ExRedPill | 19/09/21 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Can a short man as desirable to a woman as tall man? Or am i just always going to be second option to women.Why ask if you're only gonna consider taking the negative ones seriously? This is the problem with you guys, whenever you ask someone's opinion about something their answer is never honest or acceptable as long as they don't have the exact same opinion and experiences as you. You're not looking for an honest answer, you just want an opportunity to pity yourself. A short man can be attractive to women, a man who sees himself inferior because of his height and goes around bitching about it can't. … | /r/ExRedPill | 19/09/21 03:44 PM |
| 17 | I'm guessing this is a redpilled girl I came across but no matter what you think of someone's sexual past, comparing it to murder is absolutely gross as someone who has lost a family member to murderit's fine to want to date a girl with similar sexual experience. it's not fine to shame anyone for their sexual history. agreed comparing it to murder is fucking bs though | /r/ExRedPill | 19/09/21 06:41 AM |
| 5 | Just for interests sake. Are you a man or woman? If you're neither please specifyI didn't expect this many women here | /r/ExRedPill | 19/09/21 06:33 AM |
| 3 | Can a short man as desirable to a woman as tall man? Or am i just always going to be second option to women.all hands are good hands | /r/ExRedPill | 19/09/21 03:59 AM |
| 3 | Can a short man as desirable to a woman as tall man? Or am i just always going to be second option to women.i said i have a hand fetish not a choking fetish lmao what the hell is wrong with you | /r/ExRedPill | 19/09/21 03:57 AM |
| 3 | Are women really more emotional/annoying that men are?Man, you guys really like to exaggerate everything to make it fit your own perspective and ideas. "Hey people! I once read an article saying men are hornier and more aggressive than women. That means all men are capable of being ruthless psychopaths crueler than a woman could ever be. There has also been a lot of cases of sexual assault towards woman in the past. Does that mean all men are potential rapists?! I guess we shouldn't ever let men get near woman and children in case they try to use t… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/09/21 04:28 PM |
| 8 | Can a short man as desirable to a woman as tall man? Or am i just always going to be second option to women.all i care about in terms of appearance is the face honestly. bonus points if you have pretty hands cause that's my fetish | /r/ExRedPill | 18/09/21 03:02 PM |
| 4 | Women of exRed pilli'm from turkey | /r/ExRedPill | 18/09/21 05:44 AM |
| 6 | This sub is literally life saving. Thank you so much.We're here for you man | /r/ExRedPill | 18/09/21 05:31 AM |
| 8 | Women of exRed pillsaw someone in youtube's comment section talking about it and decided to read some posts. wish i read the articles first, it would be way easier to realize what they're saying is bs and get out of that mentality if i did actual research on it before jumping to read the forums but it's way easier to be manipulated by what people say when they present their arguments like 1 2 3 this and then put a bunch of articles at the end of it to make it seem credible. my country is full of shitty misogynists… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/09/21 05:00 AM |
| 8 | The normalization of casual sex culture among women encouraged the raise of TRPI believe in everyone's right to do whatever the hell they want as long as there's mutual consent and safety. I don't shame or look down on anyone who finds happiness in traditional values, not having sex outside of marriage, being a homemaker, staying home taking care of kids etc, good for them. But I have my own goals in life, having kids or being in long term relationships aren't one of them and life is too short to care about how people think I'm supposed to act as a woman. Casual sex isn't … | /r/ExRedPill | 16/09/21 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Girl I was seeing for two months told me I was a distraction, I said “okay” and leftGood for you! | /r/ExRedPill | 15/09/21 07:00 AM |
| 1 | How much does living with your parents affect your attractiveness in the eyes of women?it doesn't as long as you're still trying to do something with your life | /r/ExRedPill | 15/09/21 06:58 AM |
| 3 | If anyone is hypergamous its probably men not women.A man wouldn't fuck as many women as possible if given the opportunity if they're already in a relationship. Why? Because we are all human beings and most human beings feel empathy and guilt, that is the core reason why all toxic generalizations redpill make about women always was and will be false. Just because men can cheat doesn't mean they have to. Just because women can marry up it doesn't mean they have to. It doesn't even mean they 'want to'. Men's desire to make the person they love happ… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/09/21 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Why does RP focus so much on hypergamy? What's the point of emphasizing this?and you're replying with the same thing everytime you can't find anything to back up your bs. it doesn't mean anything if you don't have an actual argument. you're telling me you didn't know attractive women like attractive men before you discovered redpill? how old are you? | /r/ExRedPill | 13/09/21 02:12 PM |
| 3 | Why does RP focus so much on hypergamy? What's the point of emphasizing this?If he's willing to handle the housework why not. If I'm gonna have to work all day only to come home and find him sitting on his ass for the past several hours that would be annoying cause I'm looking for a partner, not a baby to take care of. I'd be totally fine with him earning less than me as long as he's also trying his best. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/09/21 01:55 PM |
| 2 | Why does RP focus so much on hypergamy? What's the point of emphasizing this?The hottest women want the alpha males. So you're telling me...attractive women want attractive men? That's a suprise/s | /r/ExRedPill | 13/09/21 01:39 PM |
| 4 | SolopismSeems even more absurd when you know men are 6 times more likely to have antisocial personality disorder than women. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/09/21 01:31 PM |
| 6 | How often are women looking for better men and do they actually practice this? AKA hypergamy.'better men' in what way? i couldn't give two shits about money but someone who's more intelligent, kind, skillful than others is attractive. i look for people i find physically attractive as well but my type doesn't really match with a lot of women so thankfully i don't need to compete with anyone. not that anyone would ever need to prove to others that someone is 'theirs', we are people not objects. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/09/21 04:13 AM |
| 12 | how many women in this sub?Woman here | /r/ExRedPill | 08/09/21 09:44 AM |
| 4 | Being shy as a guy is definitely the worst possible trait, right?i don't think being shy is something women strongly dislike. i mean yeah, it does make you difficult to approach and might lower your chances but i've heard some women say they like shy/introverted guys better cause those with a lot of confidence intimidate them/drain their energy. i would pass if a guy is too clingy/aggressive/controlling/depressive but being shy isn't bad at all as long as you also try to show some effort. it's definitely not the worst trait. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/09/21 03:57 AM |
| 2 | How to make female friends?How do you make male friends? It's the same thing. Just make extra sure it doesn't seem like you're hitting on them | /r/ExRedPill | 07/09/21 05:15 AM |
| 8 | Do women really see men as just walking ATM’s?look at OP's comment history, they must think we're all some type of master manipulators lol meanwhile here i am still cringing inside cause i tripped over my own feet and almost spilled a drink cause i was too nervous talking to this one guy | /r/ExRedPill | 06/09/21 09:07 PM |
| 5 | Do women really see men as just walking ATM’s?I have enough money to get most of the things I need, why would I need someone to pay for me? The only scenario I'd only want a guy who makes a lot is where I decide to be a housewife (which i don't plan to) and even then it'd make me feel guilty and incompetent so no and no. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/09/21 08:19 PM |
| 6 | Is Chris rocks quote, “only women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally, a man is loved under the condition that he provides”, really true?Men don't love unconditionally, women don't either. There's no need to turn it into a competition, neither of us have the moral high ground. But people can feel empathy, compassion and loyalty for others, that goes for both men and women. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/09/21 06:15 PM |
| 18 | Is Chris rocks quote, “only women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally, a man is loved under the condition that he provides”, really true?I wonder if they'd be fine with marrying an unattractive overweight woman who'd sit around all day doing nothing and wouldn't even have sex with them. I guess they'd still love her unconditionally | /r/ExRedPill | 05/09/21 07:06 AM |
| -1 | Why the red pill is so popular/truth in the red pillI thought most of these were common sense | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/21 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Is okay to be an incel(involuntary celibate)?I agree. The lack of mental support and healthy online spaces to discuss men's issues are exactly why hateful incel forums exist. People seek an explanation as to why they feel so seperated from the rest of the society and stumble upon redpill/blackpill that end up making them feel even more miserable. Not to mention the RP coaches/PUA who manipulate and make money out of them. If those people weren't allowed to spread their bs and there were healthier options for depressed & lonely men a lot of… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/21 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Is okay to be an incel(involuntary celibate)?A possible avenue worth exploration is the different sex-role expectations in this culture. The expectation that men should initiate heterosocial interaction may contribute to the greater importance of physical attractiveness for men as related to loneliness. Simply put, the unattractive men may be less willing to initiate heterosocial interaction than the attractive men. That's an interesting point. The problem might simply be the lack of self esteem and the expectations put on men to initiate … | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/21 07:20 PM |
| 8 | Is okay to be an incel(involuntary celibate)?That is not quite true, for a lot of men it actually does give them meaning, I can give you many examples of this that are popularly known such as men who threw away careers and went to live in Asian villagers just to have sexual access to poor ladyboys or children (Richard huckle is an example of a p*do who made his life revolve around abusing children). For many guys sex gives them meaning, in certain places of the world arranged marriages are still a thing (e.g. India). Most incels don't enjo… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/21 05:30 PM |
| 9 | Is okay to be an incel(involuntary celibate)?ahaha, i don't think anyone would deny that loneliness is bad for your mental health | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/21 04:40 PM |
| 11 | Is okay to be an incel(involuntary celibate)?You ended with talking about 'something meaningful' yet spent a lot of characters talking about how inherently meaningless life is as 'things just are' and no one is to blame 'it just is'. There's no greater meaning to life, I don't think it's worth bringing someone into and that's untimately my opinion. But I don't think people should just collectively commit suicide. It's up to me to find my own meaning and a way to enjoy life. Complaining all the time and spreading pointless hate will get me … | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/21 04:38 PM |
| 14 | Is okay to be an incel(involuntary celibate)?You won't stop being lonely when people find you physically attractive through. I get harassed by creepy old men on my way home all the time yet it doesn't make me feel less lonely. Platonic relationships are a thing. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/21 03:58 PM |
| 11 | Is okay to be an incel(involuntary celibate)?You only have God (if he exists) to blame for it. Some men don't find certain types of women atrractive, some women don't find certain types of men attractive. If incels were attracted to other men it would be easier to get laid but you can't blame them for liking women can you? It's not anyone's fault, it's just how the world is. I've been aware of that since I was a child yet I don't go around bitching about it or planning mass shootings, I just won't bring a child into this shithole and do an… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/21 03:51 PM |
| 23 | Is okay to be an incel(involuntary celibate)?The world isn't fair and it will never be fair. I work my ass off so much that I don't even have the energy to date but I'm not blaming anyone for having it easier than me. Not getting laid won't kill you, these guys lack genuine human affection and they sure as hell aren't gonna get it by sitting in their room all day writing essays about why women are spawns of the devil. It's dumb, self victimizing and makes them even more unhappy and bitter. There are millions of people who're happy being si… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/21 03:16 PM |
| 7 | Is okay to be an incel(involuntary celibate)?r/bropill r/menslib | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/21 02:38 PM |
| 43 | Is okay to be an incel(involuntary celibate)?There's absolutely nothing wrong with being a virgin as long as you don't blame women for it but I don't recommend identifying as an 'incel', people usually think of hateful bitter men when they hear the word rather than involuntary celibate. Your sexual history is no one's business and it doesn't make you more or less worthy of respect. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/21 12:05 PM |
| 7 | Do "Chads" really get all the girls?If crossdressers/femboys who're 5'9 at best count because of their facial attractiveness I guess I do like Chad after all lol | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/21 05:37 PM |
| 10 | Do "Chads" really get all the girls?how do you even define 'chad' lmao i'm attracted to feminine looking guys who aren't afraid of losing their 'manliness' when they do something that is remotely considered a woman thing. i guess you can argue that they're masculine enough to not be affected by these manbabies telling them they're not alpha enough to be a real man. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/21 07:42 AM |
| 4 | The Texas Anti-Abortion Bill has made me infuriated and I'm extra glad I got out of the Red Pill cult.I've seen redpillers who went around saying abortion is murder and I've seen some who supported it cause they didn't want the responsibility of a child after doing it without a condom. Again, the only thing they have in common is blaming women for it. I'm an antinatalist so pro-choice by default. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/21 07:02 AM |
| 9 | Are all Red Pill methods for attracting women bullshit?even if i say 'redpill is misogynistic' you can always use that one exception to try to prove me otherwise even if most of them are. there's an exception to everything. i wasn't sure which ones you followed so i looked through your profile and f & f was the first thing i saw, they're also one of the most popular channels that try to reinforce the redpill ideology so they do belong in this convo. 'you choose to only look at those type of comments' that is your impression of me. i can always form … | /r/ExRedPill | 02/09/21 07:41 AM |
| 10 | Are all Red Pill methods for attracting women bullshit?oh yeah? which redpill coach do you folllow btw? fresh and fit? his videos sure say otherwise. 'why platonic female friends are useless' / 'treat her like trash and she'll love you' he also seems to claim that women don't know what they want so you shouldn't take advice from them. not to mention the fact that %90 of his audience has revenge orgasms by seeing the women on his show get ridiculed and he seems to fuel that with his titles. i guess you didn't take the time to step back and look at it… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/09/21 06:52 AM |
| 5 | Are all Red Pill methods for attracting women bullshit?Almost all of the things you mentioned aren't exclusively redpill, they're things all pick up artists would tell you and some of them are literally common sense everyone is aware of. You think no one would've told you to improve yourself if you didn't come across redpill? Basic dating advice + dumb exaggerations about female nature + misogyny is literally what redpill is. I wonder how people ended up thinking being part of a community like that makes them special, it's almost like they use cult … | /r/ExRedPill | 02/09/21 05:53 AM |
| 9 | Are all Red Pill methods for attracting women bullshit?What you're doing now is called gaslighting but I'm not really suprised since cult tactics are how redpill operates and gathers people to follow it's bullshit anyway. If you want to argue with people you should have a response other than "waah you're just misunderstanding them" No one is 'misinterpreting', a lot of red pill coaches outright tell you that women have no value other than sex, they're overly emotional, illogical and only like people who put them down. That you should ignore them and… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/09/21 05:40 AM |
| 1 | What do you guys think the average women wants in a man?A feminine face can still be attractive, I personally prefer it to an overly masculine one. I think yours is more of an issue with self esteem though | /r/ExRedPill | 01/09/21 08:19 PM |
| 2 | What do you guys think the average women wants in a man?Someone equally attractive and succesful. Most people look for someone who can bring something to the table. A physically unnattractive man needs to have a lot of confidence and an interesting personality. Connecting through common interests also works. If someone has the personality of a cardboard their looks would obviously gain more importance. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/09/21 02:12 PM |
| 2 | What do you guys think the average women wants in a man?I can't talk for all women but I think these are more or less what the average woman would look for in a man. Decent looking face (not too feminine or masculine) I think most women go for average bodytypes. Fit but not to the level of a bodybuilder. Not too skinny or overweight. Somewhere in the middle. Social skills (you need to at least be able to keep up a conversation, doesn't need to be perfect though. making small mistakes is part of bonding with people and i've heard a lot of women say it… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/09/21 07:48 AM |
| 13 | What percentage of women would you say are affected by redpill thinking in potential partners?I'm not sure in what way you mean 'affected' but honestly not at all. I've met some people irl who actively followed redpill but I wouldn't consider someone so hateful as a potential partner anyway, I'm also attracted to the complete opposite of the person these guys want to be so I probably won't end up dating any of them. There's no point in being with someone so distrustful that they think I'll leave them the second someone richer shows up lmao I've yet to see anyone who uses the incel/redpil… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/08/21 05:41 AM |
| 2 | Is redpill THAT badGo to any online space discussing redpill (youtube videos, subreddits, forums etc.) and try not to come across a misogynistic comment within 30 seconds. The people who follow their advice says a lot about it | /r/ExRedPill | 30/08/21 08:10 PM |
| 19 | Men hit their wall too, at least most men.I (personally) would rather date a younger guy than someone more than 20 years older. No matter how rich and succesful they are. The overall dynamic of age gap relationships isn't for me. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/08/21 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Is the basis of the red pill repressed homosexuality?I don't think so. It's not like they don't want to fuck women, they're just pissed women don't want to fuck them. Also I don't think repressed homosexuality would lead to hatred of women but the blatant homophobia and absolute disgust towards emotional vulnerability is a bit sus ngl. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/08/21 09:02 PM |
| 0 | What do you think about "Chads" ? Legitimate?i don't really care about the height or income as long as they have a pretty face and a good personality honestly. still kinda shallow but i have my standarts lol most women probably do prefer taller & good income but i don't think it's necessarily a deal breaker if they don't meet the criteria | /r/ExRedPill | 25/08/21 10:38 PM |
| 13 | True or False Quizredpillers aren't consistent about their beliefs, the only thing most of them have in common is the misogyny and the tendency to blame women for everything. other than that they all seem to have different but equally dumb and contradicting views. they say women having a high body count is a bad thing cause the vagina does [insert random made up bullshit about women's anatomy] after having sex with many people but they themselves are desperate enough to sleep with anyone who comes their way. they… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/08/21 08:50 PM |
| 7 | Despite having your own reasons for leaving TRP, do you hold onto any values/ideas/beliefs from the community that you still go by?looks are important and self improvement is a thing which is literally supposed to be common sense | /r/ExRedPill | 23/08/21 05:02 AM |
| 9 | Is there a better way for men to talk about their problems outside the manosphere?not really. women want a man who they find physically attractive and has self respect, confidence, talents, goals and ambitions. it's the only criteria that applies to almost all women. if it's a one night stand looks matter the most, for a long term relationship stability matters the most. it's the honest truth yet yall try so hard to make it sound like if you're not over 6'0 with a fancy car acting like a big bad alpha no women will ever look your way. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/08/21 05:53 PM |
| 28 | Is there a better way for men to talk about their problems outside the manosphere?subs like r mensrights are literally all about women. feminist women, entitled women, how men have it worse than women, women, women, women. i know it's necessary to call out double standarts in some cases but it's like they can't talk about men's issues without turning it into some sort of competition. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/08/21 04:12 PM |
| 16 | How ?we are human beings and human beings have empathy and compassion. we can choose to not cheat, stay monogamous and value the other person's feelings. men don't have to spread their seed and women don't have to leave the person they're with for someone better just because they can. humans are supposed to sleep when the sun goes down but some prefer to stay up late. our instinct is to reproduce but some get hysterectomy/vasectomy by choice. human nature isn't as simple as redpill make it up to be. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/08/21 08:17 AM |
| 7 | Do women only want alpha men?how do you define 'alpha men'? confidence, masculinity, independence? arrogance, impulsiveness, aggression? having money and status? pretending to be someone else just to get laid sounds pathetic and it sure as hell isn't gonna work in a long term relationship if you ask me. if your whole identity is being an alpha male who pumps and dumps women you can probably attract the kind of women who'd be into that. even if you're the opposite of an alpha there are still people who'd be interested in you… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/08/21 01:04 PM |
| 1 | A true king!that's not how women talk lmao | /r/PussyPassDenied | 17/08/21 12:17 PM |
| 3 | Im coming here for helpyou might find r/bropill helpful | /r/ExRedPill | 16/08/21 03:39 PM |
| 8 | Red pill is the most depressing shit ever lol"there is some truth to it" like what? the shocking redpill theory that self improvement is a thing and it helps? that tall good looking men with a well paying job are attractive? there are more desperate male virgins than female? all red pill does is taking a century old dating advice, exaggerating the parts they don't like and coating it with misogyny to make women seem selfish and entitled. glad you (hopefully) managed to get out of that shithole | /r/ExRedPill | 16/08/21 02:12 PM |
| 18 | I find the "women seek providers" type of view utterly stupid. Growth must happen conventionally from both sides.it IS utterly stupid. "women seek providers" oh yeah? why am i working my ass off to earn a living when i could just find a rich old man on some dating app to pay for my every need then? didn't yall say it's easy for a woman to find desperate beta providers? these guys can't comprehend that most women have dignity as well | /r/ExRedPill | 16/08/21 01:19 PM |
| 5 | An alternative to The Red Pillr/menslib r/bropill | /r/ExRedPill | 16/08/21 01:07 PM |
| 8 | FEMCELSthat's what they don't understand when they say "females don't understand what loneliness is bohoo" if 20 men asks an ugly women to fuck 20 of them would do it with literally anyone else, nothing about you other than the fact that you're female matters. in other words you're just a fleshlight for them to fuck. how the hell is that supposed to make you feel happy and validated? | /r/ExRedPill | 16/08/21 06:13 AM |
| 3 | Healthy masculinity (and femininity)?stereotypically, feminine traits would be nurturance, supportivenes, empathy, cooperativeness, devotion (...) while masculine ones are strength, courage, independence, leadership etc. i don't think either of them are inherently toxic. a healthy person would have a mix of both. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/08/21 12:14 PM |
| 6 | Where did most RP gurus go wrong in their lives to fill their minds and others with their nonsense?they're just insecure losers that feel empowered by leeching off of men who can't handle the fact that life doesn't give the same opportunities to everyone. you can't get a gf by sitting in your room all day jerking off to porn. everyone likes good looking people. some women are gold diggers, some of them are shallow as hell. women aren't innocent angels but most of them are good people capable of empashizing with others. short men are less prefered than tall men. men with stable jobs are more p… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/08/21 09:17 AM |
| 1 | What happened to r/mgtow?imagine saying not all women are bad and getting downvoted | /r/MensRights | 08/08/21 12:40 PM |
| 7 | Ex Red Pill: Myers Briggs Personality TestFemale-19-ISFP Growing up in a religious society I had some internalized misogyny but eventually got over it with proper research. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/08/21 06:25 PM |
| 0 | Men's mental health and "the red pill"I would strongly recommend the r/bropill subreddit. Zero misogony, racism or cult bs, it's a really wholesome place and heard it helped many people with their struggles. They give really good advice too. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/07/21 07:09 PM |
| 15 | How do I stop feeling like a shit every time I get ghosted?The best advice you can get for almost every problem related to dating is to make it your second priority and focus on yourself. If you're not looking for a one night stand always aim to be friends at first and don't think it was a waste of time if it doesn't work out and you just end up as friends. The larger your social circle is the more opportunities you have to meet new people. Have lots of hobbies and interact with lots of women without any secret intentions, don't expect anything as long … | /r/ExRedPill | 28/07/21 03:47 PM |
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