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MALE DEPRAVITYbitch_not_it/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 03:00 AM
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Thank you for the vid.. it was beautiful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 02:20 PM
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EXACTLY... Ive practically run from the baby face younger guys in their early 20s literally because I can see and feel their naivety and seeing all the different ways I could easily manipulate them with superficial things that older people have that younger people yearn for. Car, your own place with no roommates, gifts for no reason, money in general... Its sick that older men specifically target younger girls for that exact purpose - its easy to manipulate them with simple superficial sh*t beca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 10:10 PM
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I had this terrible sad thought the other day.. how you could trust a group of adult women (who are strangers to him) to watch a 13 year old boy, but imagine the reverse... a group of adult men alone with a 13 year old girl. My heart just spikes at the thought of that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 10:06 PM
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There’s nothing or no one they won’t fuck, so don’t put ANY value in if boys/men find you attractive. It’s a complete waste of time. Use that time instead to invest in yourself, your career, goals, friendships, hobbies, $ You feel like older boys trying to date you are cool/you are special but they are objectively creepy and predatory, and they specifically target younger girls because they don’t realize that. Any adult man interested in you is a perverted predator, 100% of the time, zero except…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 02:19 PM
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They're willing/have ruined their entire family and life because they can't control themselves when they feel horny. Entire careers, no matter how important - from cancer researcher doctor as seen on To Catch a Predator to U.S. General +CIA director David Petraeus - because they lack the mental fortitude and discipline to control themselves when boner
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 10:23 PM
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"and if its a girl, you can pick the name"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 09:13 PM
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Yes, it's the most liberating feeling in the world... I have really bad social anxiety plus the way it does get ingrained into ALL young girls that she has to put up with every disgusting old creep and how he wants to force interactions... to be.. polite? idk so I never thought Id be able to do things to be comfortable when in public but tbh, it was really the pandemic and the social distancing. it became not just socially acceptable but encouraged to avoid being too close to strangers in public…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:45 AM
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creeps who notice (and complain) about ONLY (usually young) women and their behavior around them were 100% acting like fucking creeps they're disgusting fake assholes doing an aw shucks im just a nice guy, never mean harm.... and are trying to capitalize on the general vitriol and misogyny towards girls and women who hate/talk of unwanted attention in public (which is ALWAYS taken as superficial humblebragging rather than the very real debilitating anxiety and stress it causes) I noticed when no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:36 AM
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In all sincerity, can you point out what was wrong with my post? I'd like to improve my comments for this sub so that they are meaningful and constructive
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 03:53 PM
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... is he. Did he really just proudly list impersonating "a Chinaman" as one of his hobbies or personal feats he achieves in his free time? (I get that he was "joking" but also, I bet you he really does have an "infamous impersonation of a Chinaman" that he's practiced and has ready to go)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:10 AM
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It literally makes me marvel at their absolute complete lack of shame or awareness. Like not even the part where they're wrinkly, balding, potbellied but are completely obsessed with really young girls in middle/high school/college because they're under the delusion that literally men do not age But the part where the best they have to offer is a semi chub and maybe 1 pathetic round that lasts in the single digit minutes. And yet, they go around aggressively creeping out and bothering little gir…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 05:02 AM
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First of all .. "fatherfucker" 🤣❤️💯!!! And wow what a disgusting piece of shit, there are no limits to scrotes' depravity. Also, Idk what he's going on for about who's ugly and whose not when men will literally fuck a sewer grate hole. What a joke, acting like their word even matters on anything You're incredibly resilient, you are so valuable, I'm glad you're safe! A psycho who follows women around yelling racist shit AND films it because he has the complete lack of self awareness and minimum c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 08:56 AM
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I know I'm late on this and AngryBees88 said it 10000x better than I ever could've but just wanted to second that you absolutely did the right thing I completely understand the rage and regret and blaming yourself for not doing anything, and fantasizing and dwelling on all the things you could've done... but if this lunatic is the kind of raging asshole who will attack a woman in broad daylight over nothing at all, imagine what he's capable of if given a 'reason' Tbh, all things considering, I t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 08:47 AM
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Seriously thank you thank you thank you for all you do to protect our space and shield us from all the insufferable scrote BS and whining we all come here to escape. Mods do such a good job that I know I must be taking for granted how unsullied it is in here.. I'm so spoiled with all the high quality posts and comments in here that it's easy to forget all the constant work that must be done in the background by mods Its irritating that it could so easily be preventable if these fucking dumbass s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 08:27 AM
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I will never understand the way men froth and seethe at women for being attracted to attractive men. I don't think women feel the same kind of rage and confusion over how men are attracted to attractive women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 02:03 AM
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ooo I didn't know about this whole 'Fine AF Fridays' thing. Much appreciated, please carry on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 01:58 AM
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Yes, always - every single one of their "Utopia" fantasies that they try to come up with to harm or enslave women would realistically cause their own deaths or harm first and foremost They never think of that part, it's irritating considering they think they're such intellectuals, incapable of logical fallacies. How about they work on understanding no one has the right to force someone else to ruin their own life to love and serve for them for all eternity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 01:41 AM
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It's funny that they only apply this "biological drive" for raping women or pedophilia but never like killing other (bigger/stronger) men for their resources (like their house, cars, etc)... or breaking into banks to steal the money (for food, you know THE BIOPHYSICAL NEED TO BUY FOOD AND SHELTER) Also old scrotes reading this - in nature they leave the old and weak behind, or sacrifice them first to predators And the biggest logical fallacy they blatantly ignore when talking about 'biology, nat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 03:39 PM
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another weird scrote flex I don't get - when middle aged men pride themselves on their perverted lust on 'barely legal teens' that's not the flex (whatever the fuck it is, that you can still get hard??) you think it is. just like a fully grown adult man being very proud of not being able to do basic life things (cook and clean).. it's embarrassing and no one wants you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 04:24 AM
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Omg, yes, please DM me!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:23 AM
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What an unnecessary and malicious thing to say to someone.. he sounds like a maladjusted dipshit. His opinion on anything is worth less than nothing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:52 AM
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❤️Im so glad! Youve inspired me to try to make a post about Chadfishing.. there seriously needs to be more awareness about this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:45 AM
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Everyone can we all just take a minute .. to celebrate OP and the years she's not about to waste OP one of the ones who sidestepped the trap so many of us fall into. Trust us when we say never, ever, ever will he change. The ONLY outcome is that he takes you down with him and most importantly ​ ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------…
/r/askFDS27/04/21 10:06 PM
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Literally they do not, and they're malignant spoiled POS... they post these tagged as "Lifefuel" in their disgusting forums
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 10:00 PM
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Maybe it was one of those maladjusted incel freaks doing one of their "Chadfishing" and a videochat immediately ruins the entire thing... thats why he didn't want to do it. The dissertation.. that's just the incel's unfiltered mind on display... self important misogyny and pseudoscientific diatribes is their thing In all seriousness, I wish that "Chadfishing" was much more well known.. I wish news outlets would cover this so girls and women know to protect themselves. *Just for those who are fam…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 09:36 PM
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Why doesn't he buy one of those Real Dolls and just shut the fuck up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 09:28 PM
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The thing I hate most about "mansplaining" is when guys just think it's whenever a man explains something and throw a bitch baby fit about it, acting SOOO persecuted It's whenever a man feels a need to explain something to a woman, no matter what it is or regardless of either of their levels of expertise because the purpose of him explaining the thing is not a transfer of information, but to force an interaction in which to yield admiration and compliments from the woman damsel in distress Becau…
/r/askFDS26/04/21 03:08 AM
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Of course, I understand..... so I wanted to say one more thing that I hope can help you. It was an important realization and the only thing that actually worked for my mom to finally stop supporting my brother/stop tolerating the violent, negative behavior Wanting the best for your family members is natural.. of course so is worrying and trying to prevent bad things from happening if you could. And it's hard to give up because it seems and feels like it's a very good thing to suffer or sacrifice…
/r/askFDS21/04/21 12:37 PM
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Don't make the biggest mistake when it comes to these kinds of things and family - where you feel or are told (usually by parental or older relative) that you need to put up with ANYTHING and EVERYTHING your brothers throw at you because "they're family" It took a long time for me to realize - so I'm expected to put up with my own brother to steal from me, destroy my possessions including damaging my car after taking it without asking, get physical with me and my mom, steal my mom's credit cards…
/r/askFDS21/04/21 03:23 AM
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Exactly. I think it’s funny that I think this OP asked this looking for answers like “women who are single are bitter and angry and have a chip on their shoulder and they’re taking it out on you, a perfectly innocent bystander, don’t worry about it” but almost all the comments are from women who say they have to be on guard in public because of how dangerous men are and they know from personal experience As someone who has and still has to visibly frown or turn my back on an older creep (I’m gue…
/r/ExRedPill15/04/21 12:49 PM
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Its so ridiculous how grown men in their 30s 40s 50s 60s til they die, need to have their egos stroked, even/especially when they aren't shit, by the entire female population, and they literally cannot handle it if a women doesn't cooperate in this coddling and they flip out and call her a frigid bitch and fantasize about raping her to 'put her in her place' And they call women overly sensitive and too emotional to do anything important
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 12:37 AM
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I cannot tell you how much I love this I love the way things are changing where people are realizing a woman isn't being an extra deviant acerbic bitch if her behavior or language isn't exclusively purported to inflate a man's ego. She's just not doing anything She's just literally acting no different than a man. People are realizing oh, it's not that she's angry and bitter, she's just not smiling. She just has a regular resting neutral face like men are allowed to have unnoticed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:28 PM
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Yep its definitely interesting how they don't do that to each other. Because they know other men wouldn't put up with that bullshit, because they know they themselves wouldn't put up with another person expressing their feelings and wanting emotional support And its always these kinds of men who unload on women without ever doing the same for her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:23 PM
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Ugh. I'm sure he thought he should be able to touch you guys (after repeated explicit requests to not) because his thought process is that he's a good guy, a nice guy who would never rape women, not like those other guys. He'a a NICE GUY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 10:47 PM
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That's a good one. It's like when they say that's not their real self, or weren't acting like themselves. Ok so which one is the real you, the one that comes out 99%-100% of the time or what's up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 10:44 PM
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In his opinion, he has good pure intentions. Therefore he should be able to do whatever he wants, especially to other people It's only logical that they don't have any issues with this because remember, according to his personal opinion, he has good pure intentions If people have a problem then it can only mean one thing: he's a good person being persecuted and victimized. Usually because feminism is such cancer on the world
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 10:41 PM
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Exactly because even if the guy is looking for long term, its like this: Not all men on OLD are looking to hook up ONLY but all men are looking to hook up, which takes first priority always
/r/askFDS30/03/21 12:53 AM
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There's this joke by comedian Patrice ONeal. Hooking up men and women to lie detector tests to ask them questions. You could ask the woman, there's a guy looks like Brad Pitt/Denzel etc. would you risk your entire family, your man and the life you built with him just to hook up? And the woman would say no, and pass the lie detector test Ask the man: see that passed out girl behind the dumpster? I'm going to butcher it, watch it but I think you already the answer to that question lol: https://www…
/r/askFDS30/03/21 12:52 AM
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Based on past experience, I'd guess because they're trying to trick you into becoming easy for him. He shows himself as a high value male, and you can't believe it, wow compared to the guys you usually talk to he's incredible, he's HVM, he's perfect Yet no date or talk of date or vague about it. He's hoping for you to become desperate to not lose him or lose his attention and do the easy thing to get it - offer sex or casual hanging out (== sex) Trust. Ask him to hang out casually, see how quick…
/r/askFDS30/03/21 12:24 AM
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Seriously, bless this beautiful couple, I'm so glad they found each other!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 12:37 AM
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Honestly there should be a flag or something for a suspected infiltrator post, like a newly joined user whose activity is only to ask these types of 'innocuous' bait-y questions, to get members to 'sympathize' from the male's perspective.. like this post/OP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:06 AM
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it’s exactly what FDS does.. almost like they are mirrors of each other.... refuse the other gender "Female Dating Strategy" = FDS isn't about avoiding all men the way MGTOW does with women. It's about avoiding certain types of men, based on negative behavior that many members have personally experienced Also, there are posts celebrating good relationships and good examples of men who show desirable traits (like the dad who hand sews his daughter complicated dresses). MGTOW/TRP types never have …
/r/ExRedPill17/03/21 05:22 PM
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Exactly! I loved the posts from a gay male and gay female, who said they were really happy to have found this sub because of how much they benefited from it.. with dating and life in general. Which should show this sub isn't about straight women hating straight men.. it's really a place for support and personal and professional growth, and so loving and respecting yourself enough to keep yourself away from predators/prioritize your safety
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 09:01 AM
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There have been/are plenty of incel subreddits and incel forums that openly talk about raping women and elementary/middle/high school aged girls, killing women, and insane pseudoscience delusions they call "science" like every single female in the entire world owns a male dog and has sex with it every day, all kinds of weird beliefs about the vagina made up by angry dipshits that have never seen a vagina or ever will in real life But I've never seen any posts talking about how women keep trying …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 08:57 AM
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I just don't get it. Aren't they embarrassed? How can they not feel the burning shame and cringe from spending all their time, as men, trying over and over to get into a dedicated space for women to just talk amongst themselves about how to live their own lives There must be a billion things in the world they could go join and do and yet they want to just do THIS ONE thing where they're explicitly told/screamed at TO PLEASE STAY THE FUCK OUT. JUST THIS ONE PLACE, JUST THIS SUB IN THE THOUSANDS O…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 08:48 AM
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YES!! I think the biggest con was realizing that if there should be an age gap in sex, it makes much more sense for it to be between older women and younger men, who not only have the libido but can get rock hard in ways men over 35/40 can never get again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 09:55 AM
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For the love of God no one tell her about the incels. OP, a lot of good advice in the comments! No need to waste your time and effort on hateful mentally unstable redpillers
/r/ExRedPill07/03/21 02:15 PM
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"She's a ... wild dresser, very sexual.. is far smarter than I am but doesn't lord it over me... I'd sure love to have her as an FWB, benefits would be necessary too" What a true LVM, a snivelly, insecure, selfish child. I feel so, so, so sorry for her. I hope she got away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 10:31 PM
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LOL my bad. Im dumb
/r/ExRedPill04/03/21 02:10 AM
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The funniest (or is it infuriating and super shitty) thing is how all these incels bitch and moan about women being allowed to choose who they are attracted to and reproduce with. They rage that women are attracted to very conventionally attractive traits like a good hairline, nice dick, etc. (which wow ok pardon us, what deviant behavior) And that things will be right again in the world if these rights to choose were taken away and women were forced to be with all the undesirable, shitty men wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 10:17 AM
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In my experience, if you respond calmly to his anger, he turns violent so quick it makes your head spin. This would be so ideal to be able to do, unfortunately like you said, their anger is life threatening When you're able to stay calm as they're unable to control their own emotions, they feel emasculated and you know what the signature move is for emasculated cowards - degrade or destroy a woman to feel like a man. So in theory I did find this post amusing but tbh it caused my heart to spike, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:37 AM
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It's not even like boom, this is karma! No, how about plain cause and effect.. consequences to your negative actions. Why did they think that a system that oppresses half the population, specifically the group in which humanity depends on to continue existing, was healthy and wouldn't fall apart? I can't understand how they didn't predict such an unbearable life with no basic rights or freedom under an archaic system designed to funnel women into a life of indentured servitude to a shitty guy wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 07:34 AM
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I can agree that it's the biology of weak, insecure men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:56 PM
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I guess I meant right before that, right before you decided to take personal accountability, what happened that made you snap out of the whole redpill thing and you were able to realize you needed to focus on working on yourself, rather than focus on the women and the redpill to learn how to socially engineer the sexual behavior you wanted from them?
/r/ExRedPill02/03/21 10:20 PM
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We can hope they'd realize how fucking stupid their question is But we know what they're going to do is "SEE ALL YOU ENTITLED MODERN FEMALES, ALL GOLD DIGGERS!!!!!!!!!!!" Then they get onto a migglytow forum, a space for manly man men, you need to put your head between your legs and take a deep inhale of your sweaty man balls before you can post anything there "DON'T LET THESE B*TCHES TRAP YOU WITH A BABY, JUST PUMP N DUMP EM IS WHAT I SAY. OR THESE B*TCHES ARE GOING TO DIVORCERAPE YOU, TAKE HAL…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:11 PM
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Wait but.... Ok my brain broke for a minute, seriously I felt the sensation of my brain being scrambled for a second Ok so it just goes to show that it's not seeing the distress and pain and violence acted out on the woman in the movie that bothers him, which I guess that was my bad to assume that was the case. What's happening is he compartmentalizes this is movie time, this is show decency time, everyone thinks rape is bad Then in a setting where he's watching literally the exact same thing, h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 09:53 PM
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Also legit breaking their brain with porn so they have a reduced capacity to distinguish real life and porn designed to appeal to perverts/pedos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 05:38 PM
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I realized what's driving the fear that drives all their tantrums about independent women It must be genuinely scary and painful to be a man and have the biological drive to reproduce to feel like a man and also feel important passing on your genes. But a man has to depend on a woman to do this, and when women make the choice to not reproduce with you because you are a genuinely unpleasant piece of shit with no redeeming qualities and not worth carrying your baby for, how insignificant and emasc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 05:34 PM
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Exactly, I think what holds us back is the stupid indoctrination that a female's purpose is motherhood, so mfers always messing up your tempo with "isn't it time to settle down and get married, when are you going to have kids, what about kids and your biological clock" I can't wait until everyone isn't forced down the single path of 'domestic life with nuclear family' as the only way to live life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 05:21 PM
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How were you able to come to the realization that you were attracting mentally unhealthy women because of your similarly unhealthy mental state, rather than continuing to follow/be blinded by the redpill ideology that all women are just crazy and emotionally unstable I know this is what the redpill uses as a basis for...they say as men you just use them and move on, that's the game, so I guess I'm wondering how were you able to break out of that? Especially considering you were admittedly mental…
/r/ExRedPill02/03/21 05:15 PM
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To be fair, I'm pretty sure he's being extremely sarcastic, to make a mockery of and downplay our stories of past trauma, abuse, or assault by conflating it to the exaggerated 'ALL MEN ARE RAPISTS' ... it's twisting hysteria onto us, so we're taken less seriously
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 04:53 AM
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Seriously, I know good men in my life and never do they take the side or identify with the men when horrific stories of abuse or assault come out. They express compassion and empathy for the victims
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 04:50 AM
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FDS: Some men are dangerous to women, based on personal experience with this. We are here to heal from that, learn avoid the bad ones and look for good men, because they do exist This psycho incel: FDS IS MISANDRIST. FDS ALWAYS TALKING ABOUT ALL MEN BEING RAPISTS AND PEDOPHILES THAT'S WHAT THEY DO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 04:48 AM
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I didn't think it'd be possible to make it worse, I was imagining anywhere from a 13 year old who visits 4chan regularly now so he's feeling himself to a sad dadbod sack dude unhappy about his early male pattern baldness, so he makes his entire identity about being anti-sjw/feminist because it gives him a false sense of manliness A man in his 50s-60s doing this!? That's a horrifying amalgam of the described above, times 300. To think he lived over half a century as just a complete waste of space
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 11:25 PM
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I think this quote might be helpful: "your problems may not be your fault, but they are your responsibility" Your friend has some problems that may not be his fault (height, bipolar) but they are his responsibility. He can choose his attitude and reaction regarding his height (not fixate on it). He needs to get help for mental disorders and learn to manage them himself You're a good friend, it sounds like you've tried really hard for a while now, but his issues aren't your responsibility
/r/ExRedPill21/02/21 04:09 AM
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I think you should be very mindful that people can't change until they want to change. I think you should weigh the cost of you trying to help him (your mental health, emotional toll, time and effort from the positive/healthy things you could be doing, time taken from other loved ones in your life, etc).. and how much help you're actually able to provide him Keep in mind, even if your advice was specific and awesome, and you took out a big chunk of time per week, to complete devote and commit to…
/r/ExRedPill21/02/21 04:04 AM
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This doesn't sound healthy
/r/ExRedPill19/02/21 11:57 PM
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Yup. I remember that moment with my ex ..and just blindsided I felt. I hadn't realized people could be that cruel.. to twist someone's genuine pain to avoid their own discomfort for being the one who caused it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 12:50 AM
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It is a good response.. cuz the NVM/LVM who say that shit are absolutely unable to do any of those so-called 'man' things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 09:34 PM
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6. You're being manipulative You're expressing how I've hurt you and it's making me feel bad and you're only doing this because you have an agenda which is you want to make me feel bad and that's the only sole single reason
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 09:28 PM
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I love this sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 10:26 PM
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This girl literally sounds like what an insecure man threatened by female sexuality and independence thinks is like. An insatiable primitive animal with a chest full of enormous dildos, who will throw a man with a porn monster sized dick off of her mid-sex and grab her dildo that's the length and girth bigger than her thigh, and uses it on herself as she maintains eye contact with him, to assert her dominance He has to at the same time be as degrading as possible to show everyone what a disgusti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 10:24 PM
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Yeah girl. I remember learning about exactly what the process is, how heinously torturous it is, and that it's done to little girls that young in a world history class in high school. It was so shockingly cruel and twisted (basically these little girls are having their feet bones broken over and over every day, every time they try to move.. and imagine robbing little kids of the joy and freedom of running around with their friends and playing and switch it out for a lifetime of suffocating agony…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:28 AM
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Exactly, how fucking callous and heartless to essentially cripple a small child for the rest of her life at SUCH a young age (4-5 years is barely a start at life), cause such brutal agonizing physical pain, that's to be constant for years all.. for THAT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:13 AM
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I don't know how much you know about it but it was a practice started when the child is 4 or 5 years old, and that's how it would be for the rest of her life. She would never be able to run or walk freely again, and her childhood would just be mostly pain, as her feet had to get used to the bones breaking Here's what a Business Insider article said (sorry it won't let me link): Crippled feet required one to walk in a certain mincing manner to avoid toppling over; as a result, it was believed, th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 01:57 AM
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Exact same experience. If anything, his CONSTANT preoccupation with it put into my head that I should care about penis size, and that it mattered that his wasn't very big
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 09:30 PM
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FOR TINY DICKED MALE LURKERS Before you start with the whole "If it were reversed" STOP. STFU. Try an entire culture constantly talking normalizing lusting after teen girls/virgins (you know, it's the "barely legal" category in your porn site sidebar) because of the implication of tightness.. then there's the constant barrage of explicit misogyny about tightness against older women, women who have had babies, women who have experience with bigger dicks, women who are not virgins The incredibly b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 09:24 PM
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The most annoying part about this is how then all these Men's Rights bitch fests go on and on about how women get complimented all the time and with men, no one ever compliments them or smiles at them, bitch bitch bitch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 10:03 PM
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It's always been pretty clear to me that FDS is made up of women of all color so I used to keep getting confused why these dumbass incels kept describing it a sub full of black women (not that it mattered but their aggressive confidence was just puzzling) until I realized they just meant that as a pejorative not adjective. Idk if any of you ever ventured into the incel forums but among the disgusting posts about lowering the age of consent to single digits, the most prominent theme in incel foru…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:30 AM
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Yeah I wish they'd stop and think "Hit dogs holler" before they go all notallmen-ing everywhere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 05:15 PM
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Seriously, thank you so much for this post. I didn't even know how much I needed it until I read it. Especially point 2. Seriously, The manosphere is very invested in promoting this idea that all women just want to baby trap men so that we can "divorce rape" them via child support... the whole baby-trapping trope is pure projection. It's MEN, not women, who try to get women pregnant so that they can control us. Pregnant women are extremely vulnerable SO MUCH FUCKING THIS! Because of course I/we …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 03:09 AM
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Exactly, I keep saying that whenever I see stupid posts comparing FDS to any violently misogynistic sub. FDS has posts celebrating good men and good relationships. Imagine a post like this in any of those subs.. it's unthinkable, the members would all foam at the mouth at anything remotely positive about women, so I really don't get the constant comparison
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 05:48 PM
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"dark humor" ALWAYS MEANS "racist jokes that include the N word that I can say with glee when telling the 'joke'"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 05:41 PM
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Normal men are attracted to normal women with all of the natural changes. What we have to remember is that most men AREN’T normal since we know from studies now they porn use or even just viewing explicit images (mEn aRe sO viSuAL) is known to be correlated with brain damage in the prefrontal cortex. So brain damaged men with altered sexual preferences are often attracted to children or cartoons or animals or some combination. THIS!!! So much!!!! I don't have children but I'm thinking more and m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 03:48 PM
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When it comes down to it, the NVM/LVM who are overly invested in young(er) girls know exactly what they're doing and it does come down to how easy it is to manipulate them. They can honk on and on about biology and 'prime' reproductive age or the physical appearance of youth but when they escalate into younger ages where there shouldn't be any interest for grown men to be interested in girls that age (~13 or so, an age a girl shouldn't be having babies) they slip up and talk about how mentally t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 12:33 AM
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So this is a situation where a woman might be attracted to a man but he is not to her. It's life, these things happen So where does the lonely, friendless, reject incel play into this situation? Where at all is he supposed to play a role in this scenario? That he feels the need to interject his Very Important Opinion On It.. which is that "HERE'S YOUR WORST NIGHTMARE, HAVE FUN LIVING IN PEACE" As other commenters have already said, incels/mgtows just absolutely cannot conceptualize the idea of w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 06:28 AM
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Fucking Christ I don't even want to finish reading it. I'm not trying to kink shame, other peoples' sex lives are not my business. But I absolutely do agree with let's not normalize BDSM. Let's not act like it's not primarily expressed as violence towards women, the centuries of socialization to teach females to be submissive and constantly act against her own interest, to be "polite." Along that same vein, I fucking loathe how much age-gap gets overlooked in relationships. Overlooked at best, b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 05:51 AM
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If all I had to do was spend 5 minutes to load the dishwasher after dinner, or spend the 30-45 minutes to follow a recipe to cook the meals that my partner fully researched, to find healthy, delicious meals and planned out so that the food was bought when on sale, and so none of it would go to waste.. I'd be so grateful and I'd be more than happy to do it every day I certainly wouldn't grouse about it, or worse, brag that I'm doing 50% of the housework, that I "help" And that's just one mental l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 01:49 AM
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Don't forget, also all the cooking and cleaning and childcare, plus be on call 24/7 as their free therapist, their emotional tampon, as they say How FUCKING DARE US, WHAT'S WRONG WITH US
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 06:55 PM
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Or 'you have to do what I want sexually so I can orgasm because I have a boner and if you don't, then my balls will hurt. And it's at the level where it's worth forcing or coercing an entire person sexually'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 04:10 AM
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This is so wonderful, I'm so glad you were able to get out of that situation. I apologize if I came off insensitive or cruel. I know that sometimes people in bad relationships can have blinders on and need to be 'snapped out of it' and I was hoping to help I speak from personal experience, trust me when I say growing up with one good parent is infinitely better than having one good parent and a bad parent Good luck, you are strong and just have made your and your children's future much much brig…
/r/askFDS30/12/20 03:38 AM
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My partner and father of my children has an addiction to graphic, violent and disturbing pornography, including incest, and I am unsure as to whether I should stay or go. I'm sorry because I know you're not in a great place right now and this is a bad situation and I'm trying really hard to not come from a place of judgement but these situations astound me. When women have to think about, can't decide, need advice as to they should remove their children from a predator I keep trying to understan…
/r/askFDS29/12/20 09:08 AM
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This is absolutely amazing, thank you so much. I wish I could also know what to look out for and help or even participate in this conversation but I'm too mentally weak to handle it. This bothers me so much because it's an extremely important issue for me but I can't stomach it, so it's an incredible breath of relief to know that there are women like you and all the ones in the comments ready and willing to help, to look out for these little kids and exploited women. Idk why these disgusting per…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:10 AM
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This. In my experience these shy guys have a chip on their shoulder (you realize through passive aggressive or bitter comments about their high school experience/former gfs/family life, etc) and are extremely dishonest.. which you come to find out extremely late. And then its like, ok so this is why you're 'shy' (you've been so quiet)
/r/askFDS19/12/20 12:47 AM
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And the worst part of dating them is they CONSTANTLY throw out the "it's small" and waits for your response, which can only go one of 3 ways: Denial and reassure and comfort Don't confirm or deny, reassure and comfort that you're fine with it or you guys are a good fit, or remind him that real life isn't porn, or that there's way more to sex than just size Give in and agree, but reassure and comfort (see #2) Each response results in fury and manbaby tantrums. Repeat until you finally break it of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 11:13 AM
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Not to minimize your feelings or experience but such is life. Unrequited crushes/love are common, it's a deep cut and it sucks but people have a right to be attracted to who they want, right? That's what I try to remind myself when I get hurt Also I try to think if I were them, would I be attracted to or date me? A lot of the times I've had to admit maybe not and used those opportunities for improvement or just accepted it, cuz like I said, rule above: people have a right to be attracted to who …
/r/ExRedPill10/12/20 07:09 AM
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Exactly! Even though women of all shapes, sizes, and age, could always easily get a younger guy (who isn't going to have ED problems and has much more energy) to hook up with, plenty of women are more than fine with finding someone of their same age and weight.. The whole patriarchal dogma of a woman losing her value as she ages/men gain value has been the most bullshit con of all time. Most men start having ED issues in their late 30s (or earlier due to porn) so they can just sit down and stfu
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 04:21 AM
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These are the same shitty scrotes who don't believe rape ever happens because "IVE never seen it" Because that's not how rape works, you absolute fucking ballgag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 02:08 AM
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The absolute most is when these disgusting old men, who are clearly over 50, have their age as 29-33, so I end up seeing them even though my age max is set at 35. And they're totally out of shape, baggy, and looking for 'something casual' There is just absolutely NO WAY they could be this delusional.. I was thinking they must be looking for a sex worker but then why lie about your age? A sex worker would not have set an age limit.. sigh I know, I know.. they ARE that delusional
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 02:05 AM
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ABSOLUTELY THIS!!! When I'm dressed up and wearing makeup to go out (precovid, *sobs*), men more about my age approached me. When I am not and out alone/seemingly alone, it's always the most disgusting potbellied, stained t shirts, rotting of stench and degeneracy that acted aggressively predatory towards me, brazen eyefucking, circling around, following, approaching And I will again emphasize that I know it doesn't have anything to do with my attractiveness at all, it's the vulnerability of how…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:28 AM
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YEP! I bet you all that kind of daddy dom corny energy comes from the fact he still has hair, relative to men his age. But it's not a matter of if you have hair or not. Quantity matters here. As a younger and younger looking (I don't wear makeup and I'm short -_-) I feel like I attract a lot of this type of energy and I noticed a dork inflated sense of self when one of this dusty scrotes has enough strands left to achieve a few millimeters of hair. Oh wow, silly and childish me can absolutely no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 10:09 PM
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Exactly! I can't wait until removing the normalization of age gap relationships becomes more of a thing. I just don't understand how society is SO OK with full grown men in their 30s and 40s actively fetishizing girls, still in high school and living with parents, turning 18. It's so repulsive not only on principle but with how pervasive and accepted it is in society
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 10:05 PM
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Ok, I was def wrong about the incel part. He’s def a mgtow lol. And him saying all this to your face lined up with the mgtows. I still hope you find a way get away from him safely because it’s certain he hates women. Mgtows are just as bad as incels and you’ve described some alarming behavior from him (controlling, crossing boundaries trying to hang out when you have a bf) that could escalate. Stay safe!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 04:53 PM
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SERIOUSLY THOUGH WHY? Why do I keep seeing this? It was already an abomination seeing it in real life once but now Im seeing more and more. It's ok to have video games as a hobby, but I would think the seriousness of raising a child is a significant life milestone where you'd be like 'ok no more video games' Like if one of my hobbies was traveling, like at least once a month, I know it's necessary and reasonable to give that up (in addition to other life adjustments) in order to start a family I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 12:48 AM
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Thanks for sharing this! These lil diamonds in the rough keep me sane after seeing so much of LVM shit..and there is just so. so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 12:42 AM
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And its like... these things are in there to keep kids entertained while having to wait in a hospital right??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 12:41 AM
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He's an incel, he's dangerous. This is not a joke or exaggeration. If he was even able to say all that to you, this is an extremely radicalized/unstable incel. Please try to get away from him. I hope you stay safe!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 12:25 AM
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I understand the sentiment but much healthier for all of us if we were able to apply the socialization girls learn to the boys as well.. so they can learn that (all and any kind of ) relationships are important and valuable, and it should be socially encouraged and acceptable that they prioritize effort to create and maintain relationships.. That interactions (with females) do not have to be transactional only.. that it's ok to express vulnerability and sadness. We rob each other of each other w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 12:22 AM
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Not having something bad.. is a very good thing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 12:13 AM
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I'm a little older than you, the most important thing I learned in the 20s is that the discomfort of having to live the way your family/society expects of you (their opinion dependent on superficial or out of touch things that aren't really meant to benefit you) is unbearable compared to the discomfort of going against them to follow your heart You're going the right way! <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 12:13 AM
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Exactly.. this advice is just like "dont work on education and developing a career.. just buy some lotto tickets, due!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 12:10 AM
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Yeah I think what they can't wrap their minds around is... women would ideally like to be in a relationship with a HVM and share a life with him. If she doesn't find one..today, with women being allowed to open their own bank accounts lol, own property without a husband signature, and have equal opportunities in the workplace, they have the option to be independent, happy, and at peace Rather than being forced legally and institutionally to be absolutely stuck with a LVM, the way it was decades …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 12:07 AM
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Apparently in 1975, the women in Iceland went on strike for one day and their husbands had to take care of the child and housework. That day, shops ran out of sausages ("easy to cook and popular with children") Women in Iceland got the right to vote in 1915 (along with just 2 other countries). "What happened that day was the first step for women's emancipation in Iceland," she says. "It completely paralysed the country and opened the eyes of many men."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 12:00 AM
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What about when men straight up lie to your face about their height or penis size, unprovoked. They just want to loudly let you know. Whats that about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 11:55 PM
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What would you say if your sister or best friend confided this to you?
/r/askFDS26/11/20 10:33 PM
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Came here to say something like this but you put it into words way more accurately and beautifully than I could’ve even come close to!
/r/askFDS09/11/20 01:34 AM
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This is the same greedy low effort stupidly slimy mentality of companies trying to act like "the experience" of an internship is just as valuable, "if not MORE," as getting paid for all the work they're planning to squeeze out of you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:13 PM
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I... I don't even know what to say. I heard about 'eve teasing' in India where apparently its culturally/socially (?) acceptable for groups of men to touch, grope, pinch or hit females' breasts or butt if she it out in public by herself.. to shame her. For .. I don't know existing as female in public. But the circle of hell.... This is insane. Like what is being taught to boys there where they grow up to be men and they see a little girl by herself and instead of helping to find her parents, an …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 08:04 PM
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Right, it's never why don't the scrotes who can't control themselves in public just stay home and watch their porn and not bother anyone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 07:45 PM
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SERIOUSLY!!!! I wish I realized this earlier and did what made me feel comfortable. Instead of spending all that time physically hot and uncomfortable from all the bulky or unnecessarily long clothing and mentally tormenting myself for not doing enough to cover myself or shield myself from leering and eyefuckery The final breaking point was when I had gradually covered myself enough to reduce staring and/or unwanted conversations except for one group - boomer+ aged old men and I realized it was …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 07:43 PM
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Apparently domestic violence increased
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 05:48 AM
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Yeah dudes, you're being vulnerable and putting yourselves out there for a chance at love. It's totally not obvious that y'all opportunist pieces of smegma are seizing the once in a lifetime opportunity to be like 'instead of time, money, and effort (indicators of seriousness and investment) into planning real dates, looks like we have NO CHOICE BUT TO NETFLIX AND CHILL ..........'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 05:47 AM
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Exactly.. the desperation of wanting something to be not true because it's so hurtful and everything would be so great if it wasn't (like signs that a guy isn't that into you, or finding out your bf/husband is cheating on you) is understandable and relatable But if you find something like this, when you have a kid and there are his underaged victims to consider, that instinct to protect your kid and those victims should completely 100% take over and you get into emergency mode getting your kid a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 11:06 PM
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"Fix me... but also accept me as I am, why are you trying to change me?! So shallow/greedy/etc. etc.!!!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 10:46 PM
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The basis of his argument is that his experience with them have been true to the negative stereotype that they are submissive, and since they do whatever he wants, he prefers them over white women. The way he reduces her to her race first and foremost ('chinese japanese taiwan doesnt matter.. they all just seem perfect for me'), and then does not include any aspect of seeing her as a human, he basically described how he fetishes Asian women. Then concludes his little post with the indignant "why…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:11 AM
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I know it's just a joke but it's hard to imagine that someone who really loved his wife, the person he met and fell in love with, committed with a marriage, created and brought children into the world with, the person he experienced the most important milestones of his life with and promised one another to be there for one another at the very end... would find any level of humor in this degrading joke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 02:06 AM
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I’m sorry you had that experience with that POS but tbh it’s chicken soup for the soul to know that he was doing all that and you were completely oblivious because you couldn’t care less and for 8 years he was misinterpreting anything you did or said and was enraged swinging back and forth from genuinely thinking you were affected, just secretly and you’re playing really hard to get..... and realizing no you actually did not give a single shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:17 AM
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I missed part 1 but I LOVE this sequel!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 04:23 AM
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Lol no.. that’s depressing there’s more than one of these
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 02:00 PM
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YUP! One of the most LVM I know... an extremely unpleasant selfish virtually friendless asshole who loathes and treats every social convention/interaction like his bones are being broken.. spends all his time looking for a long term gf or wife. I had originally thought all his dating effort was for sex and was surprised to learn it was for a long term live in partner.. since he literally despises the idea of like asking someone how their day was and having to not only listen but to also care (al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 08:31 AM
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I really admire your rationality and patience in this convo. You tried. I’ve really never seen the experience of female objectification explained so well (that microwave analogy).. it reminded me of the profound way Dave Chappelle broke down the fear a female has out in public (when he had to transport a large amount of money in Brooklyn in the middle of the night). Idk, just wanted to say thanks for standing up
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 02:53 PM
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First of all I’m so sorry that was your experience at such a young age. I cant imagine navigating through figuring out my sexuality and being actively stalked and harassed and the betrayal of a friend group, who you thought you knew and could trust and go to in times of trouble. I’m so glad you’ve been able to move onto a healthy direction In the end this sub is about learning to love and respect yourself so you don’t take shit from anyone, especially LVM whose entire waste of a life is about ta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 04:58 PM
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I like how they included the part where she asks and cares about his thoughts and opinions and answers. Because that’s half or more than half of the whole thing .. she has to be his emotional cum dumpster too, and has think he’s so smart and wants to hear all his opinions. Guess what, you delusional manbabies, no matter how advanced the technology and science gets, that’s not going to happen so just hump your anime body pillow and just stfu already
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 04:41 PM
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Someone whose behavior is this confusing and erratic and has you questioning your own sanity for feeling hurt and confused is not a HVM, he’s manipulative and playing games. If he put hands on you without your permission it’s ok to have felt uncomfortable and not try to rationalize it (“it was only a massage, it wasn’t technically sexual, maybe this is normal behavior and I’m overreacting....”). Trust your gut, trust yourself. The most important person whose feelings and opinions you need to car…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 04:19 PM
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Thank you so much for these kinds of posts. It gives me hope for humanity in general
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 05:28 AM
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There was a guy I was dating a couple years ago and when we hooked up for the first time, he stopped about 3-4x before the deed to clearly and distinctly ask "I'm just making sure that I have your consent to go on, it's ok right?" The first time I was a little caught off guard because of how formal it sounded (specifically using the word "consent") and realized he was trying to be careful because we were slightly tipsy and thought it was so adorable and respectful, tbh it made my pants come off …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 04:10 PM
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THIS IS HOW IT ALWAYS SHOULD'VE BEEN!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 04:06 PM
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Lolll I feel like it's more father and son. The incel is the younger one (18-40) who hugs his waifu pillow while raging and fantasizing over girls age 12-16 WHO MUST. MUST. MUST BE A VIRGIN WHO HAS NEVER EVEN BREATHED IN THE EXHALE OF ANY NEARBY MALEs IN HER LIFETIME while the MGTOW is a bloated middle aged boomer who lusts for girls 16-25 to have his SONS from his degraded sperm and then spend the rest of the relationship wiping his ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 03:57 AM
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Narrator: .. just like he knew she would
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 12:26 AM
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If I was younger/before this sub, I wouldn't have seen this for the transparent slimy attempt at inviting himself over to your house. When a guy asks wyd he's asking are you available for sex, that's why if you ask him what he's doing he answers in terms of availability, instead of a real answer, like 2 people having a conversation. What trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 03:30 AM
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So I finally decided to try something like this. A guy asks for a pic (literally like how this post's convo went) so I sent him a close up of a micropenis and he responded "Thanks baby heart heart heart heart" and then 2 minutes later "WHAT THE FUCK" I imagine the 2 minutes were spent zooming in and out with a half chub and then .. upon further examination ... he realized. It was a penis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 06:15 PM
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Basically pickmes like her, who thinks having an LVM by her side actually means something but can't reconcile with how unhappy she is because she's being treated like trash so does things like that as an outlet, are the equivalent of dropping out of school in 2nd grade and making quick dishonest cash by stealing and credit card fraud and then come at us throwing cash to degrade for taking the time and effort to stay in school and do things right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 03:19 AM
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Hm maybe are you thinking of how FDS members regularly promote borderline pedophilia but mask it by reducing young teen boys to just their reproductive organs? Oh no wait, nope that's incels
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 03:13 AM
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Isn't it funny how this sub is always compared to whatever sewer sub this came out of, but the difference is instead of 'fucks' we say 'show you mutual respect you as a person'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 03:11 AM
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I'm going to guess you're younger and physically in better shape. This is really unfortunate and is why I am so determined to age gracefully and be the kind of older lady that looks out for younger girls, instead of participating in this forced competition for dick, where the rules are 1. Dick > all and 2. The ONLY LITERAL weapon of choice in the game as a female is youth, something out of her control, thus dooming her to bitterness and fear out of feeling a lack of control and value. And making…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 10:24 PM
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❤️you! and ❤️that he was aware of a CCTV the entire time (especially because realistically I feel like that's why he went from violent rage to trying to break down the door, which I can't even imagine what would've happened to her if he managed to, to gently knocking)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 08:24 PM
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How are we supposed to roast them when they do this to themselves??! There's nothing left here, it's just a charred pair of coals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 08:20 PM
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"Cuddles" makes me cringe so hard it feels like I've actually been jabbed in the boob. It's amazing, I've only ever seen "cuddles" in screenshots making fun of fuckboys in convos or their corny profiles, so where did all these dipshits come up with using that word? Do they seriously all take a class in how to be a corny POS LVM or is it truly "scrote minds think alike?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 06:52 PM
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I will always doubt a man's claims that a woman is "crazy". "Crazy" is used to minimize valid feelings of anger, resentment or sadness by women when they're being treated like shit by a man. Thank you for this. Brilliant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 12:29 AM
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"She didn't look underaged!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 09:51 PM
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“Guys think that because they find lots of girls attractive = less shallow” —- YES THIS. Because finding someone ugly seems inherently mean or negative or cruel.. then inversely finding someone to be beautiful is a positive attribute. So these crusty men, middle aged bald and potbellied think they’re such NOBLE HEROS with hearts of absolute gold for wanting to fuck girls 1/3 -1/2 their age, who take care of themselves with a skincare routine, diet and exercise, etc. God forbid they find out thes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 04:08 AM
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How your older and second-oldest brothers responded were bright spots in this dark story <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 05:52 AM
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👏🏻👏🏽👏🏿👏🏼👏🏾👏🏻 HAVING NOTHING IS BETTER THAN HAVING SOMETHING BAD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 12:58 AM
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This brings warmth to my heart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 12:56 AM
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A good way to snap yourself out of it is imagine what you’d say if your best girl friend was describing your situation to you. “He’s different because he actually texts every single day - and it’s to ask me how my day’s been! Well I guess he only texts that at night.. and then he asks if I want to come over to ‘hang out’.. we actually haven’t gone out on a date” “He totally left me at the party last weekend!! - But we were both drunk so.. he was probably too messed up to leave with me, which is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 01:20 AM
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Honestly I think it's just a woman who is extremely sexually confident. It's already been long established that a woman who is in control of her sexuality is extremely threatening - this is why historically there has been societal slut shaming, domestic violence, racially motivated violence where men try to keep their women from other races, just all these means of cutting down a woman in the context of her femininity/sexuality, and of course.. this obsession with young (------> NAIVE, EASY TO C…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 03:51 AM
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This is beautiful, I'm so happy for you and thank you for sharing your experience/words of wisdom!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 03:37 AM
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EXACTLY!!! Thank you for putting it so beautifully. Yeah I couldn't exactly put into words without sounding like I'm humblebragging or like 'poor me, I'm young/PYT and I dont like it wahh' It's not that - it's literally like you said. It's seriously a trap, a path towards a black hole of depression the rest of your life, when you no longer have the only thing that's valuable to females, your 'youth' ---- as according to men/society. And also, this 'youth' is decided by them - an arbitrary age of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 08:18 PM
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I made the same mistake with that kind of an age difference.. and he really leaned into the whole him being older, me being younger thing.. come find out he had a wife and also she was like 7-8 years younger than him! He had a young daughter and I remember thinking when she got to be around high school, he was totally going to be secretly crushing on all her friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 02:50 PM
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Even though I was in my 20s when I saw that, it disgusted me so much I slowed down on dating A LOT..and just have generally been dragging my feet with getting married/starting a family
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 02:44 PM
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"buys u things but not allowes to be bought things" "insecure but will wear minimal clothing around u" What the very fuck is this So basically he wants to have sex with his mom, but in the form of a 16(?) year old girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 06:31 AM
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Only 9 years old and has the intelligence to understand the much deeper implications of his dad's words.. and even as upset and emotional as he is, he still had a level head and room in his heart to think beyond himself in the moment to call his dad out. What a little prince, I hope his dad realizes this and takes this as a learning opportunity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 03:05 AM
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LOL!!! This sub gives me life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 02:41 AM
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You should've been like 'what's your favorite type of mashed potato?' and if he's like wat. Then you can be like 'that's how stupid you sound'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 04:09 AM
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That was a wild ride, Im so glad it ended the way it did. OP!! Girl! How can you have any more doubt left about yourself? About the bad bitch you are now, how far you've come?? It's not only that you completely resisted the temptation to send back an email. I get it, like we all get it. That TEMPTATION. But you completely resisted, and on top of that, literally you were able to see through his bullshit every. Step. Of. The Damn. Way. I think I remember from a previous post you came from a very t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 02:35 AM
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u/AliCandyBar, et al.. you ladies sure know how to make a lady blush lol. But seriously Im so very genuinely happy we're able to come together in this sub to support one another like this! Keep us posted OP, please feel free to come here whenever you feel weak! In the end, we're all human, it's natural to want to find a partner, feel the joy and warmth of a connection. It's a very human thing, not a female weakness. Of course, sacrificing yourself for a worthless LVM and tying all your value to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 02:24 AM
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Also he beats off to pregnancy porn, apparently
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 05:55 PM
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That was really nice to read, after nearly drowning in all these LVM stories. I mean, it wasn't nice that your little 13-14 year old heart was crushed but I'm glad he treated you that way, giving you the opportunity to develop 'normally'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 05:55 PM
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I love this!!! I thought he was a waste of a human life but what he really is, is an oxygen thief!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 05:52 PM
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"I will miss out on a beautiful woman... (mainly sexual)" He's honestly REALLY talking about her age. I'll bet everything I have she's an attractive (at least way more attractive than him) woman around his age. He's really telegraphing his porn preference: barely legal aged 18 year old girl, about 15-20 years his junior and the idea of commitment is scaring him and making him think about all that he'd be missing. When it's like, if he really think he deserves a supermodel how come he didn't get …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 05:46 PM
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Be prepared for a ton of intense LOVE BOMBING coming your way. He's a 50 year old with ED, porn sick, preoccupied with very young girls, and he just lost the best relationship of his life, that he never ever should've even had. A pickme almost 20 years his junior, where he could dictate sex, and whatever else he wanted. He's going to realize how stupid it was, the prospects of him being alone forever, having to take care of himself especially during this stressful quarantine time, or just as bad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 05:29 PM
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Its seriously maddening how neurotic and obsessive they get aBOUT BIOLOGY, FEMALES IN THEIR PRIME (basically 13 year olds) TO REproDUce, femaLES BY NATURE are BIOLOGICALLY wired to BE WEAKER. emoTIOnaL. and they always always always leave out this part out, THE MOST important part of the whole biology/reproduction argument. the ENTIRE POINT: in the nature only a small portion of the males get to have intercourse with a female and reproduce - only the fittest, most good-looking, enthusiastic male…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 04:06 AM
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So the most horrific part of this is that those 1/4 Chinese men work til their late 30s-40s to be able to afford to pay traffickers to kidnap a young girl from neighboring countries like Vietnam, Thailand, etc to force into marriage. Imagine, being a teenage girl snatched away from your family where you don't know the language, and being forced to be a nearly middle aged stranger's sex slave and his family's actual slave. The girls are heavily abused by the man's family, for being female which a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 04:01 AM
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<3!!! your username lol. and <3 everything about this comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 04:57 AM
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Seriously number 5. It’s not that it’s bad we don’t have something (a bf) . It’s GOOD NOT having something bad (a shitty relationship with LVM) Seriously. People tend to take for granted the peace that comes from nothingness.. until something bad happens and then you remember how ‘good’ nothing is Of course it’s ideal to have a HVM but it’s not good to have any sort of dependance on one or finding one. And it’s not something that comes from trying to force it. So the point is focus on what you c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 08:32 AM
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Honestly to give yourself credit, being as open minded as you are (reaching out to askFDS as a guy) in pursuit of self growth is a ton of the battle too! I’m really happy for you, even though you’re not where you may want to be, this is all really positive steps.. and with your mind and attitude I have faith you’ll be moving up to wherever you want to go! Good luck!
/r/askFDS01/04/20 07:34 AM
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Thanks for your thoughtful response to my comment. One thing you said actually hit really really close to home - “ Thinking how others have it worse when i went through childhood traumas I believe prevented me from being able to process and work through them. “ So not to get too personal but I had siblings who’ve struggled through drug problems, problems with the law, and they’ve blamed it on our difficult childhood. I had zero sympathy as I felt I had gone through the exact same childhood and I…
/r/askFDS01/04/20 07:06 AM
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I used to wonder about something similar - what’s the line between ambition and greed. Because I’ve always believed complacency is poison and I was in an extremely LTR with someone who believed in managing expectations and being grateful for what you have. We both came from similarly difficult and lower socioeconomic backgrounds but we responded in opposite ways. I had a fire lit under me because I wanted get to a better place and I saw him as a quintessential LVM.. just lazy and making excuses.…
/r/askFDS01/04/20 02:18 AM
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It’s so disheartening and disgusting how everything is so transactional to them. How they don’t see females as humans but just as a game. To your friend’s guy friend why ELSE would she be making him listen to her talk about her SEX life BRAH, UNLESS IT’S HER HINTING AT WANTING HIS DICK FOR SEX TO HAVE SEX WITH IT They can’t possibly comprehend that she was feeling pain and distress and was trying to lean on a friend for emotional support. That this was a conversation where two people express the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 01:52 AM
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I just wanna throw out that when a woman gets pregnant and the husband no longer finds her physically attractive (you know, from her putting herself through the physical hardships of pregnancy, childbirth, the postpartum trauma of the baby HE PUT IN About 0.05% TO CREATE ) and he cheats... a lot of men will defend him Just wanted to throw this out there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 01:41 AM
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I don’t think someone taking advantage of your kindness means that you should think you’re stupid. There’s a quote about the good people fallacy, something about how they assume everyone is like them. I would reframe it like the assholes you were with were rancid puckering assholes who maliciously took advantage of your kindness until you removed them from your life because you are kind but also strong. Which, that’s great for you! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 01:17 AM
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The excuse “they’re fertile” - I don’t get how they actually think this is a valid excuse and aren’t embarrassed by how even creepier this is. If you think of a female as JUST a receptacle for your degraded old MGTOW semen .. to bear YOUR (only if it’s a boy) trash kids, then you’re a miserable emotionally stunted person who doesn’t know the value of bonding with a lifelong partner your own age, so you can both share life’s developmental milestones together, and experience the joys of raising a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 01:12 AM
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“Maybe you’re giving it to much power” 🙄🙄🙄 literally their response to any kind of human distress Meanwhile, their response to no woman paying attention to their sweaty wieners = thousands of hours dedicated to raging “WE CANT FORCIBLY GRAB A WOMAN AND STUFF HER MOUTH WITH MY BALLS WHAT A CLOWN WORLD. WHY ARE THEY ALLOWED TO VOTE, WE NEED TO SET THEM ON FIRE AND FORCE THE GOVERNMENT TO FORCE THEM TO LIVE UNDER OUR BEDS AS SEX SLAVES” These are sound specific don’t they? And don’t they just sound…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 01:00 AM
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Lol but you’re probably right. I guess the fact that these bottom barrel men could at least have the redeeming quality of self awareness and a strategy that minimizes wasting time for those who don’t want to deal with them to look for those who will .. was a beautiful lie I wanted to believe over these guys for real really think they should have lines of high quality beautiful women lining up with soaked panties. But you’re probably right and this is the painful truth we all must live with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 07:11 PM
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**** It makes men angry when women's self-esteem is not attached to validation from men.**** 👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻 There are only a few solid universal truths in the world and THIS is definitely one of them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 04:42 PM
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This is actually absolutely brilliant and now I feel a sense of peace, honestly! Because this used to drive me insane.. how all these disgusting dumpy men would be sending out all these pics like they’re Chris Pine and my brain would be swirling, like how could there be grown human beings so delusional and out of touch?! How has the world been able to operate with so many men hallucinating all the time?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 04:37 PM
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Seriously!!!! And it’s not even just the dumpy bodies they proudly put on display in their dating or social media profiles, or like the example above, the sexiest of sexy pics intended to thirst trap the ladies... It’s the fact that the background of these pics are ALWAYS messy, tacky trash, the bathroom mirror they’re taking selfie to show off their hairy potbellies is always disgusting with a nasty sink, etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 04:30 PM
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That’s even worse!!! (On that LVM POS). What a damn loser. I get it. I have no doubt you’re pretty and an explicit single relationship status is like a siren calling to men. But he’s married with a baby in his brand new family. What’s his problem? Ughh..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 04:21 PM
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Re: thirst trap - OP may have been describing her pic through the lens of the “male gaze.” Remember, to these perverted degenerates, a girl wearing shorts in the summer, or a swimsuit at the pool are considered thirst traps.. to them it’s anything that gets their porn sick limp dick flopping around Like another comment suggested, she may just have been wearing something cute. Also that guy. A pathetic piece of shit. “My 2 year old son who plays with my phone” - yeah that’s how truth works. You a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 08:02 AM
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Exactly. I hope someone he know recognizes that pear shaped POS and lets her know immediately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 08:58 AM
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Not understanding dating apps should be enough to make these crusty dusty scrotes to stop chasing after women half their age yet there they go Another huge thing is they literally have NO idea what to do when the woman is young, hot, and has a great career. It just cannot compute in their backwards delusion brains that a young desirable female can have zero dependency on a man, since they come from a time “when America was great.” When they could literally grope, hug another human being and gene…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 08:54 AM
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“I’m unsure if I’m overreacting” ?!!???!???!?!! What is going on, is this a horrible satire? She just described how he dumps freezing water on her head as “punishment” for reacting in pain after he deliberately hurts her, pinches her incisions open or hits her incision on purpose to tear them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 09:21 AM
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Imagine you’re a weasel LVM and you have a business where you do nothing but maliciously cheat and lie. And you have all your buddies up who do the same and sometimes you go online to trade tips on how to take advantage of people, or even make it a game, just for some extra fun And then this handbook comes up, that shows all the different deceptive methods you use and how to avoid being cheated by your business, or advice to just avoid you completely Wouldn’t you be raging hopping mad, and just …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 07:51 AM
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Or maybe don’t even have kids. You’re a 40 year old creep who feels entitled to a girl in her 20s or as they like to say “a prime female to bear my majestic seed.” Like your personality is shit, your genes are shit, and you’re more than likely going to be a horrible deadweight disappointment of a father
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 07:41 AM
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The first two pics are group pics without any kind of indication which one he is, that’s a hard fast left, even though there’s a lot more pics. Either he’s a dipshit playing games or he’s got the mind of a literal child and doesn’t have any kind of critical thinking or empathic reasoning Or any holding up a fish just because I feel like that’s a kind of comical lack of self awareness that’s just too much for me .. in addition to EVERY single one you listed lol. It’s astonishing how basic and low…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 07:28 AM
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Yup. And any scrote who’s preoccupied with finding someone 10+ years younger like that’s their only criteria should be quarantined. Like are we not going to talk about how men’s sperm decline in quality at around the 40 mark, which corresponds to women and her childbearing years, and how men in their 20s can get rock hard without viagra. So if anything, nature makes it blatantly obvious that couples should be similar ages. Why is robbing a girl in her 20s a partner her age is SO normalized? So s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 07:23 AM
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Right? And happy cake day! 🍰🎉🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 08:06 AM
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You know what he’d say right? “You giant whore!!! My objectively 1.5 circumference and length medically defined microthing isn’t the issue but EVERY SINGLE FEMALE’S GINORMOUS GAPING HALLWAY VAGINA. EVERY SINGLE FEMALE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 08:05 AM
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You know what’s a true nightmare? He doesn’t smoke crack and this is how his brain genuinely thinks. This is how he genuinely lives his life. As delusional as he is callous. And fugly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 07:51 AM
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I really hope that’s not his daughter. I really hope this tubby thumb is not LITERALLY USING A PIC OF HIM HOLDING HIS NEWBORN DAUGHTER HIS WIFE JUST BIRTHED AS HIS ONLINE DATING PIC TO CHEAT ON THE MOTHER OF HIS CHILD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 07:49 AM
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“I haven’t gone insane yet. My 17 guns are ready, I have 500 cans of spam and 237 rolls of TP” Literally what else can be done to this sentence, the .. astonishing comedy writes itself. Also, good on your response calling out his hoarding, LOL!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 07:44 AM
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Omg lol. Yup. Literally the same 3 repeats, verbatim 1. Quarantine and chill? 2. (Some variation of having toilet paper) 3. Corona free/COVID-19 free
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 07:40 AM
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Watch out for loser incels “chadfishing” 🙄🙄. Always verify realness with Snapchat or custom pic asap so you’re not wasting your time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 07:38 AM
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Remember, it’s supposed to “be easy.” Like if you guys click and should be together, it’ll be obvious. There’d be no second guessing on either side, you’d both want to talk a lot, and spend time together. If you’re feeling hurt and ignored, and just hanging on when you’re going to hear from him, if it’s too much to text him again.. this is not the right foundation for a relationship. He’s not into you for whatever reason (cliche as it may be, it may or may not have anything to do with you at all…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 07:35 AM
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Tbh this is actually the most effective method if you’re just starting to wade into dating and learning to deal with those first few unrequited crushes. Same with me and dating apps (didn’t go well) but a quick and easy way to learn “oh. Men ain’t shit”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 07:26 AM
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🤣 this is NOT a case for the FBI. This is a highlights magazine puzzle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 07:41 AM
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Actually that’s true. The sad part is he probably knows he’s the office creep but literally sees nothing wrong with being married and openly making women uncomfortable. Also no offense to OP but doesn’t sound like she’s planning on taking any kind of action with him anyways
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 07:35 AM
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👏🏻.You know he was startled at an actual response. He thought he was dropping his big dick down with that snide little “citation requested” comment and you came to drop knowledge and reveal his itty bitty baby carrot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 07:33 AM
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I really feel like your best course of action is to show him this thread. For a real dose of reality and a chance at self reflection and improvement. Because like other posts said.. he’s definitely the office creep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 07:25 AM
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“I have no degree and I’m unemployed and cheating on my girlfriend while she’s at work to support us both”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 10:13 AM
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OMG PLEASE BAN THAT USER. IT’S DEF A MALE SAGGY SCROTE!!!! He sent me a private message LITERALLY NO ONE ASKED FOR in response to my post asking how do we keep saggy scrotes away from us??? My post with his PM screenshot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 10:10 AM
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Excuse me miss thang. Don’t you think he knows he’s about to be on TV, that’s why he put mayo in it (I’m not joking though)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 10:06 AM
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He’s delusional enough to think that this whole time he’s been doing all the heavy work of being her “emotional tampon.” Trust and believe any bitchy LVM who believes in THE FRIEND ZONE is 100000x more emotionally draining than 10 PMS-ing women combined. I feel for her, I imagine the emotional load she had to put up with this guy must have sucked (tip toeing around his passive aggressive sensitivity and weird controlling behavior from someone who pretends to be her friend but doesn’t value frien…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 09:58 AM
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The most mind bending infuriating thing about this is how he has absolutely zero self awareness to take a moment to be like “wow what the fuck is wrong with me, what a fucked up thing to do. Just force my crusty ass in onto these two strangers who are happy and in love and just wreck it with my toxic poison - disgusting comments that dehumanizes them on every level. Why did I grow up to be like that?” If only
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 09:53 AM
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I know you took the time to say the slug one was real but I feel like I don’t believe you. What the actual fuck, like they’re absolutely both sick. I don’t know if he picked her out deliberately due to her mental facilities or he actually broke her brain with his worthless existence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 07:55 AM
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Of course, just one more last thing - the person you were back then was strong too, else you wouldn’t have gotten out and be where you are now. You were always strong so I hope you can remember that if things get bad, and it helps you in times when you feel weak. Whenever something bad happens or you feel weak, remember how every time something bad happened to you, you survived it and became stronger Good luck ❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 05:25 PM
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Oh my goodness that was a bit heart wrenching tbh. What that absolute evil POS put you through.. a lot of that stuff being deliberately malicious psychological torment. Honestly I was really feeling my blood boil for you as I was reading through this but you know what? LOOK HOW FAR YOUVE COME. That sounded so bad, what a dark abyss you were sinking in and look at you now. The person you were then and now, look how strong you are now and how strong you must have been back then, if at your weakest…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 04:59 PM
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Raising a child alone is HARD. It was always designed to be a 2 person job. Even harder is how single moms are particularly singled out as “low value” - putting all the blame on her for taking on the lifelong responsibility of raising a child by herself, even though this was an act by TWO people. This stigma and mockery by these cruel dumbass men have always puzzled me. How the noble act of taking responsibility of raising a child by herself because the child’s father is a heartless dipshit who …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 10:49 AM
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Number 6!!!!!!!! Drives me nuts. How they go out of their way to ask highly suggestive questions like this and then radio silence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 10:26 AM
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Smh. I would say give me the confidence of this man but I don’t know if I’d like to live with that kind of distorted reality. I feel like I’d end up crashing my car because I believed I was making it fly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 10:20 AM
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Oh my fucking G. Call the police. Im kidding, I know that’s not an appropriate thing to do but it’s also like.. call the police
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 10:18 AM
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This is just so perfect.. I wish it was a pamphlet that could be sent to every single home. Or even better, any man who inserts himself into a conversation in which women are expressing their personal trauma/experiences to sputter “BUT NOT ALL MEN” should be made to handwrite this 10,000 times
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 10:10 AM
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I hate how men think that every single choice the woman makes about her appearance is EXCLUSIVELY made to specifically cater to the male gaze.. never that shes wearing shorts because it’s 100 degrees outside, red lipstick because she likes the way she looks in the mirror and she feels good about herself.. no no it’s ALWAYS to capture male attention to try to score some of that dick that is just so elusive 🙄 It’s just as shitty when other women make the exact same assumptions about other women an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 10:05 AM
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Seriously 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 absolutely good for you!!! 2 things: You were at the most vulnerable you could’ve possibly have been (going through a break up plus the hurt of the loss of what you thought was a HVM/best relative to other shit exes) and you were able to resist that POS. I know it’s a really shitty time right now but this is the time you’re really building your armor! Your strength has been tested, passed with flying colors!! It’ll be up from here He got so insanely lucky with you - the time in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 09:56 AM
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“He not only has these radically delusional double standards and a complete lack of any self awareness, he has reacted to a civil conversation with his potential lifelong partner by giving me the silent treatment for days like a petty child... AITA?” 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 09:43 AM
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They’re literally mentally ill. I’d be fine with leaving them alone in their circle jerk with their delusions in peace but they manifest in actual rapes and violence. These little innocuous seeming things fester and grow.. They constantly encourage each other to rape female family members, little girls (single digit age young), and most of all “go ER” as in the mass spree killer who wrote like a 400 page manifesto ranting about how females are 100% to blame for the murders he’s going to commit i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 09:28 AM
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Hmm I wonder which is lying? The woman who has to undergo the trauma of an invasive rape investigation, be questioned about her alllll the specifics of her sexual history over and over to complete strangers, then sit through a trial where her character/morals/sexual history are publicly ripped apart by people who have been hired specifically to destroy her credibility and mind with malice The man who committed a disgusting violent CRIMINAL act and would get in serious trouble if people thought h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 09:19 AM
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That’s horrific. So I honestly would like to know, what a real legitimate NO looks like to them? I just heard this great line from a female comedian describing consent “it’s the noise that the girl makes, not how YOU FEEL” ... it’d be funnier if that wasn’t so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 09:10 AM
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LOL OMG. This has happened, OK so that’s what this was. I was just thinking today how relatively easy it was to not keep engaging and how before without FDS I would’ve had him over already. I’m anticipating more and more it’s definitely going to be too easy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 01:32 AM
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That makes so much sense.. that’s why incels and mgtow dipshits are always projecting on and on about how women only are on dating apps when they’re bored and want attention. As if women enjoy putting themselves in possible danger with creeps and at the very least wasting so much time fielding dick pics and other disgusting messages
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 01:29 AM
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Omg you should see the entitlement of these guys “Impress me. Not going to respond to hi’s or hey’s” Actual lines in their bios. And always visibly plain looking donuts saying this with a smirk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 01:22 AM
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Women are the problem. They’re the shallow brainless idiots for not standing in line to be abused by this man who is the personification of his own bellybutton grease
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 01:13 AM
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That’s also his confirmation bias. He only notices feeble homeless men 15 years older than him and ignores the fit, successful men his own age and concludes “my mom pays my rent and also lives with me - SHE lives with ME!!!!! - but at least I’m not living in the streets. I am such a success. Hot college girls are my God given RIGHT”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 01:11 AM
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It’s specifically a porn term
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 01:07 AM
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Plus this is exactly why women are so weary and avoid ugly old creeps -this level of delusion is DANGEROUS. It’s levels of delusions certain to bleed into other parts of his thinking and behavior. A young girl whose face shows nausea and absolute discomfort at him being so close to her and hitting on her looks like she’s eyeing his huuuuuuuge bulge and salivating.. a verbal “no thanks. Please leave” sounded like “rip my pants off right here and have sex with me RIGHT NOW” The funny thing is I tr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 01:02 AM
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Exactly like I’m so curious how they can fully wank off to a porn star, wipe their cum off on their pants and then write in the comments a snide “I bet her dad is SO proud”.. on a particularly degrading video.. and just not see the complete ridiculousness in their existence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 12:50 AM
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Imagine if they had the kind of fore thought to just swipe a lotion’d hand in their face real quick right before they rub one out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 12:44 AM
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How dare you /s 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 12:43 AM
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Apparently they have posts where they describe suddenly freezing and unable to move or think because a handsome chad dropped something in their vicinity. Like these kinds of things sound like they’re written by hormonal teenage girls but it’s grown men in their 20-30s. Right along side calls to burn all females or advice like raising a daughter “the right way” and have sex with them as young as elementary school age, you know, before THEY TURN INTO A CHAD COCK OBSESSED CAROUSEL RIDER. I think a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 12:41 AM
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But #AllAreMen <— 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 01:40 PM
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So sperm still decreases with age. What’s his point? What a waste of air
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 09:35 AM
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Yup and it’s always the dusty old scrotes with no wealth or assets that do this the most. According to them the woman must be young to bear the child. So then the man must have resources for a family. Old shit sperm even further degraded by a presumedly shitty diet and lifestyle does not count. Please leave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 10:46 AM
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Idk what that unwelcome excrement opinion or comment he came to GIFT US WHEN NO ONE THE FUCK ASKED OR CARES, but yeah thanks for taking out the trash ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 08:30 AM
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I’m so fucking done with this disgusting perverted delusion and it makes my blood boil how it’s been so normalized. Don’t they even understand the implications of a man being 40-50s and the woman in her 20s to start a family? So by the time the child is in high school he’s like 60-70. If he’s not going to give a shit about his incubator who’s going to be forced to carry, birth, and single handedly raise the child, why doesn’t he think about how it’s no child’s dream to not be able to play with t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 08:28 AM
3

There are insane stats where a wildly disproportionate number of suicides is by young girls in India
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 08:18 AM
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I didn’t even think to convert that. This man is 5’10 and nearly 350lbs and he’s out here acting like he’s just 10-15lbs from being a sculpted statue??! Just this whole thing.. How could you be at THAT LEVEL OF NO SELF AWARENESS? It’s so disheartening and disgusting that I know this was created by a real man and that he’s not joking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 08:08 AM
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“Hello here are all the ways I will make your life a living hell I spent years doing absolutely nothing and now I’m a terrible rut where I’m doing nothing and I don’t want to do anything. You need to be a 24/7 life coach who will give up your life to GENTLY, POSITIVELY, most of all SEXILY perform magic to make me a successful career man. It will have to be magic because don’t try to make me do any work I am living with my mommy and daddy I am 35. You need to have worked your entire life so that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 08:01 AM
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So he didn’t even have paper towels? lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 07:48 AM
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“She was the devoted slave that I could do whatever I wanted to her and she’d keep staying and treat me like mommy’s little prince and I figured, why wouldn’t I want to keep something as useful like that around?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 08:02 AM
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Assuming they’re even self aware enough to realize their lack of support is a lack of many relationships including family, friendships, etc But I feel most of them end up cornering and emotionally abusing their girlfriend or wife, forcing them to take the responsibility of their entire social life or stimulus... having to take the role of a 24/7 intensive personal therapist, mom, sex doll, friend, a wall to talk at or demean to feel the cheap satisfaction of having “dominated” a woman therefore …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 07:09 AM
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I seriously love everything about this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 06:18 AM
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I feel like men are terrible at maintaining relationships, male or female, so they end up losing all their male friends and are left with female friends, who value friendship, genuinely care for them, think of them as a friend, do nice things like make tea for them... and they act like this. And of course at some point try to fuck their female friend.. and they never learn because we keep making the mistake of giving them the benefit of the doubt, thinking that they must value the friendship as …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 07:02 AM
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ok i see why your flair is pickmeisha lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 06:56 AM
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especially since also, he's 35!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 06:55 AM
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why is he even alive? what a waste of perfectly good oxygen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 06:54 AM
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Dirty perverted old men are the plague. And the worst part is "dirty old man" is normalized and is like a lovable tramp character. So they're left free to bother women as much as they want and it's fine. When it's terrorizing us at a subconscious level, that ingrains discomfort and lack of control over our bodies and mental space in public
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 12:29 AM
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I'm afraid with these old out of touch porn sick guys, who've seen bizarre things in porn, that might be normal to them and an invitation to try to talk to me or interact. *Vomit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 12:17 AM
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I can understand a glance, but don't get the psychology behind flat out salivating on the street for others to witness. THIS is what I'm talking about. I'm not trying to be the public police, making sure people look here and not there. This is what I'm talking about LOL! Your solution is amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 12:16 AM
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Thanks - I think this year I should make it a goal to learn martial arts or take a couple boxing classes. But the thing about staring back with some men, the ones that have nothing else going on, nothing to do, that consider attention (good or bad) from females as a very very good thing I tried the calling out thing - there was a guy holding hands with his partner and I pointed to her and went 'is that your girlfriend' and it really seemed to work but I was with my boyfriend at the time, who saw…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 12:16 AM
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The thing about this is- I think it depends on the guy. Because it has worked but then like really disgusting old men seem to love it. They love that they've caught my attention and I feel like ANY kind of attention from females is a good thing. They have nothing else to do/nothing going for them so its stimulus to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 12:13 AM
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I was thinking of doing this but sometimes it's men in cars and just too much movement and people in the city + I have the worst slowest reflexes so the times I've tried, by the time I got the camera open it was always too late. So I've tried to just pretend I'm doing it and it's kind of worked but then I was afraid the constant pulling it up would cause me to drop my phone and it'd break and then I'd really be inconsolable. If I do ever get a pic of a gaping mouth open degenerate old man who ju…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 12:13 AM
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Having the nerves to maintain a stare like that until the predator looks away - I hope to get that to level of stone cold badass soon but I feel like this has to come with a type of energy that I know I don't have right now. But yes, we need more of you in the world. I regret all the instances I just kept my head down, away, submit to it, normalizing my discomfort as to not disturb the disgusting old man and his perverted fantasies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 04:01 AM
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This is perfect. Absolutely perfect Also, so he's 40. Not 30, not 30s. He's 40. She specifically asked late 20s or 40. But he brings in the 30s and 40s to try to blend it all together because the late 20s OR 40 was just too much truth for him to handle "A young 40" and in his opinion in better shape than most 20 somethings. Literally never has been true whenever a middle aged man claims this - just because he's got regular the middle aged bloat instead of being morbidly obese and his bald spot i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 02:09 AM
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Having gone through something very very similar.. I know it's going to feel like it's unthinkable but if maintaining your relationship with your mom is actively really negatively impacting your daily life, you're going to need to separate from her, at least even a little while. You need to learn to find your own self, be your own person, without feeling the ingrained sense to copy what you see with your mom and the immense guilt and helplessness that comes from watching someone you love take abu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 01:58 PM
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This is the worst
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 11:02 AM
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This is just like those people who think they need plastic surgery and then they think they can love themselves and other people will love them. And they get it and they feel exactly the same- they hate themselves, all their insecurities remain. They’re the same person oozing off their insecurities that people can sense a mile away, and is the biggest repellent Like others posts have said you do need to love yourself. Not after you “fix” your acne scars, not after you buy these clothes, not afte…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 06:31 AM
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What a freaking baby. Such a tantrum over not being able to spell his own 4 letter name correctly, as a full grown man adult. Seriously what a bullet you dodged. If he’s going to be such a baby back bitch over something like that imagine how he’d be over something like not being able to have his way over your body, etc etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 06:18 AM
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I get what you’re saying but I remember there was a really good female Olympic volleyball(?) player who quit because she was very attractive and no one was taking her seriously and I remember being sad for her because to be qualified for the Olympics you had to have loved and been so passionate about the sport but she was ran off. And I remember trying to share this story to a male friend and it was the biggest disgusted eyeroll “poor girl.. she’s too hot” And Gold Olympic gymnasts (Simone etc) …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 06:12 AM
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HOW COME THIS IS SO TRUE?! In college a literal bridge troll (I’m talking 5’3” giant underbite, balding slightly at 19) was the most obsessed with “getting girls” and spent so much time trashing girls’ appearances and personalities but only in the context of a girlfriend or sexual encounter. I only knew of one extremely attractive guy (like scouted by model talent agent) who was a total jerk and he and this troll were weirdly (maybe not weirdly) really good friends. One of my best friends (one o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 06:05 AM
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"I'll be asked for sex weekly, but asked on a date every few years or so." This really resonated with me. And I'm sure all the incelmgtows and LVM would be like "has it ever occurred to you its because YOUR PERSONALITY IS TRASH. You relied on your looks and never developed a personality thats why HA HA WALL MGTOW" But its what you said.. "So in the past I have only gone out with the very few men who made the effort to get to know me first, before they let on they want to sleep with me." Its that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 05:59 AM
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I know this sounds like a “poor little rich girl” first world complaint but being pretty isn’t all that cracked up to be. It’s the entire focus so anything you do in terms of career, hobbies/sports it feels like no one cares and you’re just reduced to how you look. And like another post said the guys who are attracted and treat you well will be the first to turn their backs at the first sign of less beauty. And it is kind of like having a ton of money - you never know who really likes you for yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 02:14 PM
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I think I learned this lesson hard when the guy I was really getting into and I thought was super into me..turned out to be married. And when confronted he just went off on this whole poor-me monologue about how he's insanely attracted to short brunettes and he's married to a tall blond (I'm a short brunette) and all his past girlfriends and stuff have been short brunettes.. and how he's so physically not attracted to her he can't even get hard (which was news to me based on our interactions). S…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 04:38 AM
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“I NEVER GET ANY FUKIN MATCHES THESE STUPID SHALLOW GOLD DIGGING BITCHES IM THE PERFECT CHUBBY GENTLEMAN MY PENIS IS PETITE. AWALT AWALT AWALT” he smashes onto his keyboard on the various incel forums he regular visits, when he’s not figuring out ways to find “legal” jailbait porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:57 AM
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WHO WROTE THIS. It’s so ... incredibly disheartening to know that this is a real person and not a biting satire on the entitled delusions of old creepy out of touch men whose best offer is a 1.89$ slurpee after the absolute privilege of serving his noodledick. And you know he means literally a girl aged 18-19 when he says “I date younger” and that of course what he really means is a girl between 13-19
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:48 AM
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I needed this today for real. I just came back from a frustrating fruitless <general institution> meeting to dispute something and I haven't felt so overwhelmed and alone in a while, and was letting it effect every other thing in my life and just making everything seem worse than it is.. and I was basically planning on doing nothing for the rest of the night, but this makes me want to get some things done
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:21 AM
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It’s interesting how when female nudes are leaked it’s almost always, if not ALWAYS, done without her consent. By some asshole petty ex.. sometimes created without her knowledge or consent by said asshole ex. And then when they’re leaked she’s shamed (mostly by men) as a slut, she deserves it, etc Meanwhile millions of men send dick pics literally willy nilly .. mostly to women who never want them, who have politely asked them to stop, who have angrily said to stop. But I’ve yet to see this kind…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 11:52 AM
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“He says he has no attraction to her physical and mental but then why is he doing this what does this mean please help me” Smh. This poor sister of ours. She’s not stupid. She doesn’t actually need an answer to her question. She knows
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 11:45 AM
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Or it’s like ‘I’m attracted to you because you’re in shape and smell nice/nice hair (take care of yourself)” Women: I am attracted to all those qualities as well. I am not attracted to you because you have 0 of those qualities Men:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 11:38 AM
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I think the eureka moment for me was when I followed one of FDS core rules: always be dating more than one And I found myself reading texts from a couple guys I wasn't that interested in and answering if I felt like it, or I wouldn't even answer if I felt like it because honestly who cares. But at the time I'd be thinking "well I can't right now, I'm busy, I have to do [this]" but while I was so 'busy' doing that, if the guy I liked texted it was stop drop everything and text him for hours And t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 06:56 AM
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To be completely honest, what's helped me the most is what FDS has set as one of its cornerstone rules for dating - always be dating MORE than one. The quickest way out of a heartbreak over a LVM fuckboy you thought was HVM and were so happy and hopeful before he dashed it.. is to find a bunch of more guys to talk to.. because a part of why it may be hard to get over that fuckboy/how you even fell for his fuckery, is this feeling of missed opportunity, like you feel like you're never going to be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 07:13 AM
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Says the bald potbellied mgtow who rents
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 03:55 AM
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These broke undesirables messaging you how you're 'this and that' for having men pay for your dates and how they'd NEVER get cucked like that - why even waste their time trying to tell you they're boycotting something they weren't even invited to in the first place? In fact, if they do show up they'd get security called on them that's how not invited they are. So they should just take all that energy to their mgtow incel circlejerk and bother each other instead of the rest of the world
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 03:53 AM
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Yeah it's not like it's his baby too. That he's supposed to love and prioritize or anything. That's the worst part of it, it's sad enough she let him make her make all those sacrifices and treat her like that, but the fact he put all that over their baby is absolute trash they're all trash throw everything away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 07:31 PM
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....... "Am I overreacting?" SIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 07:28 PM
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Also, never underestimate a man's ability to turn it on, to be affectionate, 'consistent' in being into you to your face..when there's actually a chance for sex/physical intimacy. That's what blinds you from seeing what the situation really is, as you replay how 'into you' he was during the date - he's interested or he's somewhat interested and respond in affirmative ways if you were to pickmemeisha'd him.. which would confuse you even more. I hope I didn't come off too rude or harsh but I/we've…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 08:13 AM
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It also usually means "let's have sex whenever I want plus emotional intimacy but I can have this with 3 other girls. You can't do this with any other guy. Only me"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 06:20 AM
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