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About me: Male - 35 - Divorced. Was married 4 years, together 11 years. Currently single. Interested in casual and fun, but not necessarily seeking ONS; think LTFWB. I try not to actively see more than 3 women at one time. Not looking for a committed LTR. All that being said, "everyone's got a plan until they get hit." My stance: If there's no chemistry on the first date, then I'm not even going to try to kiss her. It's just a waste of time at that point since I already know I've no interest in …
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/18 06:24 PM
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You do realize that she's really saying she will be thinking about you, right? This is a very common female trope where they say they're "definitely not" doing exactly what they actually are doing.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 08:10 PM
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You're not wrong as far as how it sounds. However, I've said almost this exact thing to a current plate before she was a plate (After complimenting her she told me she thought compliments were just cheesy attempts to get in her pants and that she doesn't normally respond well to them; I responded with "If I'm paying you a compliment, it's solely because I want to. Whether you accept it or not is of no concern to me. If I'm trying to get in your pants, it won't be with a compliment."), so I'm inc…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 08:02 PM
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"They're never yours, it's only ever your turn." You'd do well to internalize this.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 03:36 PM
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Digital copy. More importantly, how would you consider a question like this even worth posting here?
/r/askTRP25/06/18 09:11 PM
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The link you're looking for is r/marriedredpill or r/askMRP.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/18 04:04 PM
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Just a shit test. Your reply was perfect. Ignore and carry on as usual.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 01:21 PM
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Allow me to rephrase that. The way the post is written, and the bullet point list of what is being done so far, paints him as a child. Letting him help with easy prep so he see's the vegetables before they get "all gross looking". Not letting him watch me cook anything that is a little unpleasant to watch (ie. not letting him watch me make burger patties by hand or stuffing/stringing a chicken). While on the other end I let him watch me cook the fun/pretty parts (sauce bubbling and all that jazz…
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/18 08:03 PM
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You're dating a child. Are you going to be his mother or his girlfriend? Cook what you're going to cook, how you're going to cook it. If he doesn't want to eat it, he can be an adult and make his own damn food. Don't enable pathetic behavior, it'll only get worse. Don't lie about what's in it, don't worry what part of the cooking he sees and doesn't see; just cook the meal. If he wants to help, great, if not, also great. If it's about enjoying cooking for people, then invite friends over for din…
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/18 05:18 PM
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In a similar way that women tend to welcome attention from men they find attractive and complain about attention from men they do not, I personally (can't speak for all men, since I'm not all men) welcome the advance of a woman I find attractive and politely decline the advance of one I do not. However, both encounters are considered flattering. As for my looks, personality, and age. I'm 35, semi-successful and outgoing. 5'10" 185lbs, hovering around 17% bodyfat. I'm no Adonis, but I'm an attrac…
/r/seduction14/05/18 01:56 PM
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Relevant
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 01:35 PM
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The classier way to go about that is simply to pick up the first round while saying something along the lines of "I'll get the first round, you can get the second." It shows you're not simply an atm, but also that you're not assuming she thinks you are. It also creates a dynamic where you've now both done something for each other which helps create comfort and rapport.
/r/seduction09/05/18 08:23 PM
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This is solid advice. It also coincides with another "every day" motto I find important, which is "learn something new every day." Even if it's just a word, or a new road that can be used on your commute, just something you didn't know the day before. And while you may find yourself with a routine that is improving yourself, you can always find time to experience/learn something new. Time management is a fundamental skill of which its importance is often overlooked or understated. I've had poor …
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 03:39 PM
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At no time whatsoever do you admit to remembering.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 08:23 PM
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Whatever you do, don't reply with any answer, especially via text. You really should ignore and hard next her. However, if you're going to ignore that advice and respond at all, CALL HER (don't text) and say something along the lines of "Let's grab coffee." If she does agree to meet for coffee, then when you meet you can verbally say something along the lines of "I'm also having trouble remembering last night. Let's try retrace our steps. What do you remember?" This leaves her with her plausible…
/r/askTRP16/04/18 04:52 PM
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Any person, man or woman, that truly feels "lucky" to have their SO is probably not worth being with. It's one thing to be happy to have their SO, or grateful to have met their SO, but not feel lucky to have them. (I'm talking about genuinely doesn't know how they ended up with them kind of "lucky") That just implies they're not worthy of having them, or don't see themselves as worthy of having them. Either case is not a good one. Similarly, anyone that feels their SO is "lucky" to have them is …
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/18 02:42 AM
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Long read, but a good read. Nothing ground breaking, but clear, concise writing with quality content. Thanks for putting this together. It's always good to read a refresher with a personal twist. One thing I might add to the playing the filed part at the end. Deciding to jump into a LTR is more than just discovering a woman that's a good fit for you. There may be a scenario where the right one does fall into your lap (let's assume legitimacy here and not false oneitis), but you're not ready, or …
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 07:52 PM
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No, I read that, then the line after "You won't even get hard." makes it read as if that's your reasoning for the advice. Regardless, it's of no significance. I knew what you meant, I just found it funny the way it read. I am said jackass that made the parent comment. It was intended to first be humorous, then be serious.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 06:39 PM
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I can't help but find humor in the fact your message starts out as advice to not to drugs, and then you go on to state the reasoning as only because it could prevent an erection. Yes, coke dick IS a thing. However, it is usually because most coke is not pure and is cut with other things that are actually preventing the erection. With good quality, or non-excessive amounts, it's just a damn good time. Bonus points if you get her to do a line off your dick. That being said, I'm not advocating that…
/r/askTRP31/03/18 04:49 PM
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Pain killers, muscle relaxers, cocaine, excessive alcohol. Any of those should help slow you down. Seriously though, go see a doctor. If it's really as bad as you're saying, then seeking professional medical advice is a much smarter option than polling dudes on the internet for ideas.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 11:37 PM
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Good for him. Yes, the hate is real in that comment section. So many post-wall hags or white-knight nice guys flaming Leo for being a creep, but completely ignoring that Camila is old enough to make her own conscious decisions. Funny how that part is conveniently ignored. My favorite comment in that thread. I am disgusted that he is dating a 20 year old. If I had his money and fame I'd be dating 18 year olds.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 09:53 PM
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I once heard the best description of a 10 that I find most accurate. "A 10 is just a 9 that fits one's particular eye."
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 12:52 AM
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It is the same reason why some plates are invited over to chill for a day/overnight vs the ones that have to leave. If you enjoy their company, you let them chill for the night/day. If you just enjoy the sex, depending on who's at who's place, either you leave after or they leave after. No point in sticking around. So if you'd enjoy the date even without sex, go for it. If not, then don't waste your time.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 09:19 PM
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Your first two "Goals in progress" listed are contradictory to each other. Setting losing your virginity as a goal is basically putting pussy on a pedestal. Don't worry about that one being a goal, it'll happen along the way. As for fucking on her period. You're going to wear a condom, so it's just extra lubrication at that point. Throw a towel down and smash away. It's not really THAT much blood. Turn the lights off if you want to add to her comfort and/or if you're worried about being grossed …
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 10:17 PM
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Willing submission is not the same as forced submission.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 10:15 PM
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"Making someone submit" is forcing them unwillingly into your frame. "Not being sucked into her frame" is presenting them an option to enter your frame, or be nexted. The former is the behavior of an insecure psychopath, the latter is the behavior of someone who truly DGAF.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 10:12 PM
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Gotcha. Well chewing anything will accomplish that. You could chew on tire rubber, same effect. Use a muscle, it grows.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 08:39 PM
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I wouldn't call it vulgar; it just made the reader question if you understood the difference.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 08:36 PM
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It's what happens if you don't make them submit. Careful there serial killer. Reread some of the sidebar. I believe what you mean to say is "If you allow yourself to be sucked into their frame." Sorry to hear about your life lesson, but be grateful you got to learn it early in life. Use the experience to inspire growth.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 05:07 PM
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This comment needs to be at the top. I'm not saying all women that attach quickly are bad, but that's a HUGE red flag and should be acknowledged if deciding to proceed.
/r/seduction26/02/18 05:01 PM
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Literally mentions nothing about increasing jaw size or appearance. Only physical effects to the mouth mentioned is the reduction of swelling in the gums and freshening of breath. Both of which are listed as insufficient evidence to support claims. That was just the first search, I could probably disprove it a lot more if I kept going. Just stick to worrying about lowering that bf%. (Manage your diet.) If you don't want to worry about tracking macros, then focus on calories in, calories out. At …
/r/askTRP26/02/18 04:54 PM
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He's a lucky man to have found a woman with an open mind such as yours. That's a solid compromise, but 500mg test weekly is a bit low. That's basically beginner level amounts. Consider allowing the 1g weekly to remain. 100% agree with constant blood work. That should've already been the case regardless. It's the only way you can tell whether what you're taking is working properly. That being said, I still stand by my other comment where I said he should consider chilling all together for a bit a…
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/18 10:23 PM
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Agreed. That cycle would be considered abusive. The d-bol is one thing for the first week, (though 4 a day is a bit much) but shouldn't be a constant throughout. Since it's an oral, it's taxing on the liver. It was actually what I was referring to when I mentioned compounds used during the loading period. 1g test weekly is pretty standard, but that Deca dosage is a bit high. Most people go around 600mg weekly. Deca is one of the least side-effect inducing and doesn't harm the liver, but it's ver…
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/18 09:53 PM
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Steroids, IF ABUSED, have bad long term side effects. Properly cycled steroids with proper PCT (post cycle treatment) are not nearly as dangerous as many believe them to be. Steroid cycles are most commonly just test E or C (synthetic testosterone) stacked with other compounds to increase its effectiveness. There may also be a short period of time at the beginning of the cycle where a compound is used during the loading period to get maximum effect more quickly. The most common negative side eff…
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/18 08:34 PM
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That's way beyond abnormal; that's ridiculous. Those actions described are that of a completely insecure man. Overboard is an understatement. If I had to guess, his and his buddy's ex both left because they probably act similar. The fact that any of his friends would agree to, or participate in, hand shaking as a shit test is some of the most absurd basement dwelling incel behavior I've ever heard. Consider yourself lucky, you dodged a bullet with that one. You'd have ended up stuck with a man t…
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/18 07:54 PM
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A piece of advice from the mistakes of my ex-wife. Don't get into teaching because you like children. Get into teaching because you like teaching. The pay is shit, the internal politics are ridiculous, there's a complete lack of creative freedom as you only teach to pass a test now, and female teachers are a dime a dozen and easily/often replaced before they tenure. A piece of advice from me. Don't get into teaching period. The pay is shit.... etc.. If you want to work with children and actually…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/18 07:38 PM
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Oh I'd believe it. I've had some shit happen to me that I look back on and realize half the people I shared the story with probably don't believe it actually happened. I honestly think I prefer it that way. Admittedly, I've not had a scenario like your friend though. Good for him.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 07:23 PM
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You realize the stories you read on The Red Pill when you were a newbie were all true I'd argue to change that to mostly true. I'm fairly certain there are a few stories on here that are definitely NOT true. And i'm not saying because they can't happen, or haven't happened to me so they're not true. I'm saying that if you read the way they're written, and research the poster writing them, it's blatantly obvious they were written in an attempt to fit in. Other than that, solid post. While I'm sur…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 05:51 PM
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That was the longest "Read the side-bar" comment I've read to date. I'm not entirely sure if I'm mad about not getting back the time it took me to read it or impressed you could take that much time out of your day to write it. While anything but concise, it's good advice.
/r/askMRP09/02/18 03:54 PM
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You've quite a bit of learning still ahead of you. Your hamster is crazy tired from running so hard right now. Fear not, you'll get there; you're just new at this. Honestly, most refuse to even try, so you're already ahead of the curve there. I'll break it down in simpler terms. OP screwed herself AND the dude over. She basically added a dick to the N-count full well knowing she wasn't going to stick around, and she admitted to playing the dude for the value he provided at the time. Used his ass…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/18 03:33 PM
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You put pussy on a pedestal and thought it would make you better. You used it as validation and measure of your self-worth. Instead, you need to just focus on making yourself better and allowing it to come naturally as a result. You need to be able to look at yourself and love who you are. That's the difference between those that have to fake it and those that it comes naturally to. Stop worrying about women as the goal and start understanding the goal is improving yourself and women are a posit…
/r/seduction05/02/18 08:37 PM
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While this interview is absolute cringe from the journalist's perspective, from Peterson's perspective it's a shining example of how to conduct oneself when placed in that type of situation. That, in and of itself, makes this particular interview worth the watch.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/18 10:30 PM
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No
/r/askTRP17/01/18 10:44 PM
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She wants to fuck you, you don't know her fiance. She's the one engaged, not you. Have fun. If you want some kind of moral feel good food to tell yourself, just know that their marriage will most likely fail (if it ever happens) regardless.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 10:24 PM
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Ask your sister? Seriously? Just ask the damn girl out and stop being a pussy about it.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 09:31 PM
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My ex-wife used to call me about 15 minutes after and just say "I'm sorry I was being a bitch." or "I didn't mean to come off that way, I'm sorry."
/r/askTRP17/01/18 09:29 PM
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Once you've gone beta in a woman's eyes you can go back but the juice isn't worth the squeeze. The energy you spend around her could land you 20+ women of equal or better quality. This is a great way of putting it. I really like this analogy.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 09:25 PM
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Fortunately for Aziz Ansari, even other women, some with national audiences, are calling "Grace" an entitled cunt who cried wolf. In this news clip, which is just a video of a news anchor calling "Grace" out for her bullshit accusation, Asleigh Banfield even goes on to recognize and state that unsubstantiated claims like this are what will ultimately end this #metoo movement. He's taken an initial hit for this shit, but because of how blatantly ridiculous this is, he's gaining a lot of support f…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 05:19 PM
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And apparently you cannot read or your comprehension skills are just abysmal. English is clearly not OP's first language and he's attempting to write a post that can be read by English speaking users. Since you seem to have had some difficulties understanding what was written, let me help translate OP's post for you. In this post, OP is asking advice on a scenario where a girl in his class has caused an issue for him in front of another girl in his class that he likes. OP never describes the gir…
/r/askTRP15/01/18 09:32 PM
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So many of these posts starting with "in the past few months". You cannot read a couple of books (I highly doubt half of these people actually read them when they say they do) and spend "a few months" working on yourself and expect to have it all mastered. Seriously, read the material in the /r/theredpill sidebar that pertains to frame and vision of self. Actually read it. If at any point you find yourself reading a sentence or paragraph and not understanding what it meant, re-read it and dissec…
/r/askTRP11/01/18 04:44 PM
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She's your LTR, she's coming to you with something that is legitimately upsetting her, and you're acting stoic while providing comfort for her. That's rock. You're good.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 10:48 PM
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If I'm reading this correctly, you weren't asked a question, so your statement wasn't an answer to begin with. At that point, simply saying "It wasn't an answer. Regardless, whatever month it was [continue where you left off]" gets the point across that you're not going to entertain her little tiff.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 05:03 PM
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"Interesting outlook. To each their own I suppose." [continue conversation as if that never occurred]
/r/askTRP08/01/18 10:41 PM
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You're not wrong, but re-read the original comment. The poster is saying being better at suppressing emotions is NOT a good thing. The person you're replying to clearly disagrees, and is very likely to share your comment's sentiment.
/r/askTRP14/12/17 07:58 PM
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Good post with quality insight and solid advice. They put things in their dating profiles like “I don’t want a liar or a cheater,” “I don’t play games,” “Players need not apply,” “Abusers not wanted,” or “I’m just looking for a good man.” ..... This honestly should be emphasized more as a huge mistake. Anyone, male or female, putting stuff like this on their dating profile is instantly disqualifying themselves from meeting anyone worth dating. In my personal opinion, this is THE number one "nope…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/17 07:46 PM
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If it also requires you to keep your frame, it's no longer SOLELY anything else. The definition of the word literally means "not involving anything else".
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 08:39 PM
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LOL. Touche. Still works for me. Not trying to keep her around.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 03:59 PM
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It would appear you're the one without experience. However, thank you for your input
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 10:20 PM
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No, BluePill feminist talking points would be to hold onto them at that age. I'm speaking strictly from a short-term plate stand-point. Try getting your dick sucked by an 18 year-old, then get it sucked by a 28 year-old. You'll understand what I'm getting at. Difference is you can hold onto the 18 year-old for a while, but the 28 year-old's time is limited.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 02:38 PM
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Women at 29 are hitting the wall? I was under the impression the wall was around 35ish. Late twenties simply separates those who take care of themselves versus those who relied on the beauty of youth and let themselves go. In my experience, mid to late twenties is the target range. That's when a girl becomes a woman and tends to grow into her sexuality. That's when they go from "hot" to "sexy" and actually know how to have fun in bed. Before that, they just look good and let you do whatever, but…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 08:11 PM
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Thank you for this. This is a very well written, insightful, and objective post. I enjoyed the read. While I possess 18 years less experience than yourself, I can definitely relate to many of the points touched on here. There was one thing that I felt was slightly ambiguous and would appreciate clarification on. I currently spend no time pursuing women. Socially, I get on fine with them—I’m confident, funny and even charming, but for someone in my position, the cost-benefit of an LTR is highly q…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 08:29 PM
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Makes sense. I'm familiar with Asperger's Syndrome. My ex-wife was a special education teacher. Though now that you mention it, I'm surprised I didn't make that connection.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 02:16 PM
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Ah, gotcha. Thank you. I hadn't heard that term before.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 10:50 PM
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True. But some of the people red pilled enough to understand this are also answering questions on AskTrp. They can take this advice and challenge the questions being asked instead of just supplying an answer that will probably be ignored if it isn't the one providing the validation that most AskTrp questions are seeking. By challenging the question and forcing the poster to actually think about why they're asking the question, one can hope that the poster learns a little more about themselves an…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 09:46 PM
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Serious question though. What the fuck is a sperg? I can roughly deduce what it may mean, but I'm not about to look that term up at work. Regardless, good post. This thought process should be applied to life in general. Always question things. Even if you're not against something, or don't necessarily believe it untrue, but simply because it's the foundation of truly learning.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 09:40 PM
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I see it differently. I see TRP as a sexual strategy based on opening your eyes to how the world works and using that knowledge to improve yourself as a whole. Not just how to talk to and deal with women, but how to become a man women will want. I see PUA as how to convince women to sleep with you. How to guess what she's looking for and portray that even if that's not who you are. How to adapt your actions and words to what she might want.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 06:11 PM
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I've never spoken to someone who has tried meth, enjoyed it, used it occasionally, and continues to live a healthy and productive life. It's just not the nature of meth. I’ve never actually spoken to or know anyone who is/was a meth head (it’s just not a drug that’s ever been popular or prevalent in the area I live) so I can’t really comment. I do know a couple of recovered heroin addicts and would make the same statement about that. In a lesser way, video games are the same. LOL! I think that w…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 06:02 PM
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Yeah, but I think that a lot of people, the majority of people, actively commenting or writing posts about AWALT meaning women are all cheating whores are in the anger phase. Not saying they all are, but a lot. I'm guilty myself. When I first started learning and unplugging, I took it like that was as well. Hell, at first I even thought that TRP was a type of PUA forum. After I'd taken time to reread a lot of material and really digest what was being said is when I started to see the larger pict…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 04:18 PM
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...because if you were to honestly categorize activities by "worth mentioning" or "impressive", "nailing it at Capture the flag" isn't one of them. Clearly you don't how much pussy you get flooded with when you boast a high K/D ratio in first person shooters. We're talking flooding of biblical proportions. All kidding aside, sure there are. Video games aren't anything special and as a group activity and social bonding there are tons of things to do with friends that are superior in every regard.…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 03:58 PM
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I'm not entirely sure they keep stats for that. If so, I wouldn't know where to begin to look. My claim is simply from my own personal experience. I'm not arguing your point, I was just giving an example of where gaming did provide value to my life since that what was asked. Admittedly, I did miss that "in better ways" part. You're absolutely right about the points you touched on about gaming being an addiction that sucks time away from higher value activities. Believe me, I've been down that ro…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 03:42 PM
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You meet like-minded individuals that happen share similar interests outside the game as well. This leads to you linking up with them when they planned to fly to the East coast for backpacking trip. You then spend the next 27 days having an awesome experience hiking a section of the Appalachian Trail called The Long Trail that runs the length of Vermont. That experience is loaded with value on so many levels. Eat away buddy.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 10:02 PM
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You misunderstand AWALT. It doesn't mean they all WILL act certain ways. It means they all CAN, and are often most likely to, act certain ways. The idea is to understand it is in their nature and not to seem so shocked when/if it happens.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 02:55 PM
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Well shit. Now I'm curious as to what the hell was written to warrant this response and then the subsequent the deletion.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 02:52 PM
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Edit: Apparently this dude got his shit together now Correction: He made another video, this time not pretending to be homeless.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 04:31 PM
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I don't understand why this isn't near the top of the comments. From what I understand of the concept, a woman saying "You're soooooo not my type" while hooking up with a guy is a textbook example of Freudian Negation.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 03:04 PM
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Maybe it has to do with geographical location, or the demographic of women I've been seeing, but I've been experiencing quite the opposite lately. They know full well they prefer being manhandled (not abused/beaten) and seek it. The last 5 plates I've had ranged from 27 - 36 and every single one of them openly admitted after the first time we fucked that they loved that I pulled their hair and choked them during sex. Even little things like grabbing their ankles and pulling them towards me durin…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 02:56 PM
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I could really go for an orange right now. That actually sounds very refreshing.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 02:26 PM
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Given your replies in the comment thread, just stay the fuck away from directly attempting to add hormones to your body. You're clearly WAY too uneducated on the topic, process, side-effects, and purpose to be fucking with it. Given your age, you're also too young. from mid-teens into mid-twenties is the time your body is naturally producing the most testosterone of your life. Fucking with any type of steroid right now is beyond stupid. You're just going to cause more harm than good. Go ask any …
/r/askTRP10/11/17 10:17 PM
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She's contacting you because her planned branch swing fell through and she wants to get back on the one she just left. As others have said, you can either plate her (absolutely do NOT LTR this one) or just next her.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 09:22 PM
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Honestly, I think this is ridiculous. The value of this post isn't what you did, its value comes from being an example of unnecessarily sticking your nose in someone else's business. It's one thing if you want to stop fucking her because she's a prostitute now. (Which I also don't see the problem with. The only difference between her and any other hot chick is that she's getting paid for it, whereas the others just give it out for free) That's your choice, and it's something that directly involv…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 08:25 PM
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/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 09:39 PM
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Because it was recently shown in one of the episodes of American Horror Story: Cult. The main protagonist (who is a cult leader) was shown staring at a laptop with the TRP main page showing during his transformation flashback montage.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 07:42 PM

Thank you for taking the time to reply; interesting insight. I agree with almost all of your points as I had quite similar outlooks. (Upon later reflection; not at the time this Brenda and Eddy's story occurred.) There are some I hadn't realized, but clearly see now that you've pointed them out. No. As long as Eddy is firm and won't bend, it will be fine. It'll likely drive Brenda nuts though, causing her hamster to kick in. He won't. Mistakes were made. Lessons were learned. Education was had. …
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/17 08:58 PM

Disclaimer: Honestly, I'm not sure if this would be an appropriate discussion/series of question(s), but I can't see why it would be inappropriate. This scenario has been the topic of many healthy debates amongst friends and I'm very curious to here the opinions of the women on this sub about it, and how it could be used as an example of how certain RPW strategies could've changed the outcome. That being said, I apologize in advance if this does not belong and I understand if it is removed. Scen…
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/17 05:48 PM
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I usually do the opposite of the latter suggestion. I say "I'll get the first round, you get the second." After the first round, if they say they don't want another, I still tell them what I would like.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 09:35 PM
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"Let's get coffee" is simply "Let's grab drinks" but in a daytime setting. It's a sign of interest. Stop overthinking it. Either change the narrative and say "let's do drinks instead" or go grab coffee with them and game them like you would if it were drinks.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 09:07 PM
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Not to mention a cheeseburger with a fried egg on top tastes fucking fantastic. Just be sure to allow for the calories through either increased exercise that day or skimping a bit on other meals.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 06:08 PM
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Hello all. Mainly lurker here. Discovered TRP, RPW, and MRP a little over a year and a half ago after my divorce. I find I've related to, and exhibited many of, the concepts prior to that discovery and have continued to educate and further unplug myself since. I enjoy reading the different perspectives and applications of RP based on the desired goal. Hearing all sides has proven beneficial to truly understanding the core concepts as a whole.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/17 02:46 PM
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This is fantastic advice. Another avenue would be meditation. Truly learning to accept the world for what it is and still be able to understand that you have a choice to allow it to affect you or not, yet most importantly, nothing matters in the grand scheme of things so just laugh and enjoy the ride. It's basically the essence of letting go of ego.
/r/askTRP28/10/17 07:37 PM
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The point is not only to avoid SHOWING anger, the point is to not care enough to allow it to anger you in the first place. You could've responded with amused mastery at that point. EX: Her - [Yelling] "You can never know what it's like to be me!" You - [Calmly with a smile on your face]"True, nor you me. My advice was prefaced with 'what I would do in your situation' because it is what I would do in that situation. Let me ask you some advice. What would you do if someone you were giving advice t…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 10:24 PM
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That's one of the reasons there are different subs. While both are based off redpill truths, TRP and RPW are different sexual strategies that often aim towards opposing goals. A typical RP man is not ideal for a typical RP woman, and vice versa. That's not to say it can't happen, everyone applies the redpill toolbox to their own lives differently, but as a majority it is uncommon.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/17 08:58 PM
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They can actually make ideal plates. Especially when they understand you're not getting attached. Had one of these (the latter) as a plate for over a year until she recently moved back to London. Best plate I've ever had. No drama, no shit tests, no smothering, and great sex. Good times.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 09:32 PM
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Welcome to the wonderful world of shit tests. Best options: 1)Ignore it. 2)Agree and amplify ("Yeah, same here when I'm bogged down with women. 10 new ones everyday just gets exhausting.")
/r/seduction26/10/17 09:21 PM
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Actually, they do; at least on the male side of things. I take Adderall for ADHD myself. I can tell you that there are sexual side effects. They are not completely debilitating, but they exist. Some might consider one of the side effects to be a positive, (Longer time to reach climax) but there is definitely less drive (read: desire) when I'm on it versus when I'm not. As all things, the effects obviously vary from individual to individual.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 09:18 PM
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Regarding something you missed. The entire time I read that post (the one you've linked and are replying to) it screamed of a self promoting, ego driven, cry for validation. I'm assuming it was supposed to be a field report? All I saw was someone who has learned terminology to write a long post trying to proclaim how awesome he is, yet completely missing the point of the material that he's attempting showcase is so important in mastering. There wasn't even a true lesson or assessment at the end …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/17 04:08 PM
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But they understand they all don’t cheat and how to Minimize it from happening. I think it’s a maturity thing though. This. They're all capable of cheating and it COULD happen, but a lot of guys here tend to forget that the inverse is also possible and it could also NOT happen. However, you nailed it on the head labeling it a maturity thing.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 03:11 PM
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Honestly, I like Ubering. I do it very infrequently now since I don't actually need the extra cash, but I used to do it a lot when I was married. It was a way to get out of the house and a perfect excuse to be out late should I choose to do so. That being said, I often met attractive women that would invite me in to the bar I was dropping them off at. Sometimes I accepted and just logged off for the night and had a great time. If you're actually doing the side hustle for the money, then I don't …
/r/askTRP23/10/17 03:37 PM
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Stick out your arm and clothesline her. Then help her up. Seriously though. Just simply look at her, make eye contact, and say excuse me while making some subtle gesture that implies you need a moment of her time. Then continue from there.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 03:29 PM
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Are you familiar with The Circle of Influence? I believe this may help you deal with the scenario and gripe you've just described.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 06:50 PM
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I carry two inside my phone case. I use a folding wallet phone case (I do not use it as my wallet though) for a galaxy s8+ and it fits two condoms inside the bill fold perfectly.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 08:18 PM
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I would use and promote this shit out of this if it existed for the sake amusement.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 03:50 PM
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I cannot say for certain as I was one of lucky ones to avoid having to find out. However, given the information presented to me, your scenario would be more plausible if the marriage had lasted longer than 10 years. Semantics aside, the message still holds value even if the numbers might be off.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 06:31 PM
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We did not have joint bank accounts. However, through technicality, you're not wrong. Seeing as I had paid for the apartment and most of the bills, the money coming out of her account was there because my actions and salary had provided the ability for her to have it there in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 03:49 PM
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Alimony is also dependent on the length of the marriage. My ex-wife is a teacher. I was basically in the hypothetical scenario you described. Her salary was slightly less than 40k and mine above 100k. Although we'd been together for 11 years, we were only married for slightly less than 4 of them. (Marriage really is the relationship killer. It all went downhill after the vows) According to my legal counsel, because of this brief period she would've not been entitled to a large sum of money. They…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 02:44 PM
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Redefine success. If you equate success to scoring you will fail. If you equate success to getting experience you will grow. This is probably one of the most valuable pieces of advice I've read on here in a long time.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 07:25 PM
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Physical activity helps for me. Get the blood flowing. Believe it or not, just doing a hand stand against a wall for a few seconds has an amazing effect on mood. You could do push-ups, squats, jumping-jacks, etc... Just as long as you get that blood flowing. Might not be for everyone, but I find this works well for me.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 09:14 PM
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"They said to her..." and in private messages to each other I bet they said "This girl needs to shut the fuck up already." Trust me, people like this are often acknowledge directly to avoid having to hear them, and dismissed immediately after. As for "using" your proof. Just stop, don't be a child. Hold onto it, and if there is ever a conversation between you and your boss that is reflecting negatively upon you directly because of this scenario, then show your boss. Otherwise, just move on, it's…
/r/askTRP26/04/17 08:46 PM
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Seduce her. Keeping a woman sexually active is easy without compromising frame. Make her laugh, make her feel special/sexy, make her cum. Basically, never stop seducing her. If she was worth seducing the first time, and has proven to be valuable, there's nothing wrong with maintaining the seduction. It's not like you considered the initial seduction a loss of frame, so why would continued seduction be so? Sometimes we get so caught up in the whole "she has to work for me" that we forget it's pos…
/r/askTRP05/04/17 05:08 AM
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Eh, it's not terrible. If it's not your only source, and it's only occasionally because you've got shit to do and zero time to invest, then go right ahead. I wouldn't make it a habit though.
/r/askTRP25/03/17 08:17 PM
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I mean, you really don't need to read beyond the above comment. If the goal of your game is to get laid, and you get laid, then it works. If not, then it's not working.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 08:05 PM
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I see. Then yes, I agree with your original comment. I know many of the former, and am one myself. For us, drinking is about the alcohol itself and not the effect. It's about appreciating the different flavors and, what I'd consider craftsmanship, that went into creating them. Also pairing those flavors with others that compliment them; whether it be foods or cigars.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 07:59 PM
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Maybe I'm being pedantic here, but when you say "drinks a lot", are you referring to constantly in excess to the point of inebriation, or just often has a drink? I personally feel those are two different things that could both fall under that one description.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 06:05 PM
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This, to me, is the essence of TRP. For me, I understand TRP not as a way to "get money, fuck bitches", but as a way to open your eyes and realize that focusing on being a better you is all you need for the others to fall in place. It's about working on who you are as a person and understanding the world enough to never lose sight of that. It's about accepting that there are going to be times that suck, but choosing to do something about them rather than just cry about them is the way. It's abou…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 04:26 PM
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....This is why I strongly advocate for ALL red pill men to always be working on improving your SMV no matter what. This should be one of your goals in life, doing so you'll have the upper hand in almost any relationship you have. This is another reason why in general I buy more into the Red pill over PUA. PUA will teach you how to get a girl for the night which is ok but after numerous hookups you definitely want something more. The red pill is a life style, you want to build an awesome life an…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 03:28 PM
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I understand where you're coming from, but I don't entirely agree here. Replying to a "no longer sure I can make it" with a matter-of-factly worded "well I'm not keeping my schedule clear for a maybe" is not showing weakness. However, if not worded correctly, it can look as weakness. Showing weakness would be if it was worded in a whiny way that screams "That's not fair! We made plans!" It really depends on how you choose to word it. But I feel a simple informative reply explaining you're not ac…
/r/seduction16/01/17 08:24 PM
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The way you worded it is just fine. Honestly telling someone you're not willing to wait around for "maybe" is not being a dick, it's respecting yourself. It's not your problem if someone takes it as being a dick.
/r/seduction16/01/17 04:10 PM
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If that's what you're looking for then just find a shady massage parlor. They have varying ranges of quality (there are sites you could look them up on) and services, but it'll get you what you're looking for. $60 for the massage (mediocre at best) and ~$50 - $80 for a finish of your choosing. Mileage may vary depending on establishment. In total you spend ~$110 - $140 for an hour long massage and a release. I'd say it's probably not worth doing more than a couple of times. Not very fulfilling, …
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 10:28 PM
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Let me guess, she was above your SMV league and/or didn't have a gag reflex? Men are willing to put up with a lot of shit for any combination of those. Seriously though, what are you expecting to hear here? If you're saying you know all of these things, then what other revolutionary piece of advice do you think is going to come from here? Break-ups are tough, period. They suck. The feelings associated with them suck. And while we may all be able to look back in hind-sight and talk about how dumb…
/r/askTRP06/01/17 09:47 PM
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If your end game is to lay HB10s, then approaching is NOT a waste of time at all. Even if you don't close 99% of those approaches, you're improving your skill. Then when you've reached what you would consider a desirable figure, you'll have already honed some of your soft skills as well. You'll have less approach anxiety and you'll have better conversational skills. Whereas, if you wait until you're fit before even starting to approach, you're now only equipped with half the weaponry you would'v…
/r/askTRP06/01/17 09:24 PM
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Other than having someone do it for you, there is no way to tell someone how to demote a woman to a plate. It is different for every person. That would be like trying to explain to someone how to have a conversation. The sentences and tone is entirely up to the individual based on the tone of the conversation. Therefore, "demote to plate" is still answering your question of "I wanna know how to handle/effectively respond to these things for next time". That is the strategy of the "sexual strateg…
/r/askTRP06/01/17 08:53 PM
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If you're trying to date her, then obviously she's not loyal, so move on. If you're trying to get laid and don't care about her having a boyfriend, then go on the date and attempt to escalate accordingly.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 08:39 PM
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I think it actually has something to do with your increased desire for the female than them actually detecting higher testerone. Though you could say they are linked. In my experience, women respond really well to being lustfully taken. When your T levels are elevated, your natural instinct is to do just that. You're going to want to be as far inside of them as you can get and you're usually not going to be dainty about it. This, in turn, is going to send her through the roof. If you don't mind …
/r/askTRP06/01/17 08:35 PM
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TRT is generally such a low dosage of Test that it doesn't create the imbalance that doing a cycle of Test for strength gaining purposes would. It's not the same as needing to then do Post Cycle Therapy afterward as you would if you were doing it for muscle gain. Example: A moderate cycle of Test-E for lifting would be around 750mg per week. TRT is somewhere in the ballpark of 100mg per week.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 08:30 PM
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I would say a combination of Amused Mastery and Agree and Amplify. Something along the lines of: "Damn, you're right! I keep forgetting I'm supposed to mug you and go get chicken with your money. Remind me next time." Said with a smile of course. The type of smile that says "I find it funny that you don't realize how racist your statement was." Then go tell your non-nerdy jacked Asian buddy about it and have a good laugh.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 08:07 PM
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This is not the place for this question. If you read the sidebar, then you'd know that the places to get this advice ARE listed. Grow up, own who you are, and don't lie because you want fast answers. Start there, then worry about fitness.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 09:36 PM
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Ignore her. Seriously, just don't respond anymore. She's not worth it (regardless of what you're telling yourself) and she'll go away once she finally gets the hint.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 09:33 PM
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No. Some posters here will disagree with me, and that's fine, but there is nothing wrong with having a female friends. Just make sure they fall into a friend dynamic and you're not in an orbiter dynamic. If they won't do for you what you're willing to do for them, then they aren't friends and you need to reevaluate the situation.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 09:14 PM
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I know. It often helps to hear it from multiple sources. You hear something once and it's a thought in the back of your mind about "something you heard once" versus hearing something repeatedly. That being said, I ended with advice on how to get there. The question was answered.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 08:52 PM
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OP mentioned date was set up for Friday already, this is just banter at this point.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 08:00 PM
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"It looks like we'll have something to talk about on Friday."
/r/askTRP05/01/17 08:00 PM
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One way that helps me to genuinely feel happy for others instead of envy is to imagine how I would feel if it were me in the situation. I then take that imagined feeling and reflect it toward them.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 07:29 PM
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If you want the hard truth, get the fuck over it and get real friends and forget about your supposed "friends". Quit fucking obsessing over what happened and just use it as a learning experience. Nothing you do now changes what was already done, so what the fuck is the point of crying about it now? Did it suck? Sure. Did it hurt you deeply? Sure. Does it fucking matter anymore? Nope. Accept that it was devastating, take inventory of the salvageable pieces, pick them up, and move on. Take a momen…
/r/askTRP05/01/17 07:23 PM
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You were too nice. She was showing all the tell-tale signs of just wanting a one or two night side piece and you tried courting her. She wanted someone to rail her so she could go back to her beta boyfriend at home feeling validated by being wanted by other men. In all honesty, you shouldn't even waste your time when a girl says she's got a complicated situation with her ex (which is probably her boyfriend) However, if you still wanted to smash regardless, then you needed to escalate on that fir…
/r/askTRP05/01/17 04:41 PM
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Shooting range is a great one. Something about shooting a gun that gets the blood flowing. Not to mention its easy to initiate kino when showing them proper stance.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 04:25 PM
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Doubtful. And if it did increase it at all, it would be with an audience you don't want to waste your time with. Do whatever you want really, but it really won't matter in this context.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 05:04 PM
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As others have stated, that grabbing from behind and whispering in her ear shit is mad creepy. That's something you do to someone you're already intimate with. /u/Cunt_Robber has some nice advice listed. One thing that was left out of that comment was the power of off-hand compliments. Not the stupid "You're so beautiful you could start a war" crap, but simple compliments. Take notice of something about her, or her outfit, and just give a small compliment delivered in a tone that suggests you'd …
/r/askTRP03/01/17 04:59 PM
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You could take the route I took without knowing I was taking it. (Meaning I hadn't discovered RP at the time, so I wasn't aware of the terminology, or that there was a definition to what I was doing) I was applying dread game by responding to advances from other women with fun flirtations. Not actually cheating, just enjoying the banter. I found that creating sexual tension with women I knew I wouldn't fuck gave me a certain satisfaction while increasing my wife's dread. I thought it was a win w…
/r/askTRP03/01/17 04:37 PM
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Dude can't pronounce "vibe" and thinks "reciprocalness" is a word. Other than that, maintain frame, be yourself. And then a barely articulated explanation of why that works. Seriously basic level shit.
/r/seduction13/12/16 10:36 PM
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Tinder is a numbers game too. Instead of actually picking out which ones you think are cute, just literally swipe right on everything until the app tells you there are no new people in your area. Then as matches come in, just unmatch the ones you wouldn't entertain.
/r/seduction01/12/16 10:03 PM
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In all honesty, lots of regular dates are both FWB and GF/BF stuff. There really isn't some sort of magical activity that is exclusive to one or the other. Even romantic getaways are still FWB stuff as long as the intent is mad clear ahead of time and you don't break from what you've set. Just go out and do something fun. Flirt, smile, have a good time. When the time comes, or you could steer conversation that way, you can make intentions known and take it from there.
/r/seduction28/11/16 09:54 PM
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I personally have 3 close female friends and I have had no issue with them that has affected me in any serious or detrimental way. The worst it ever gets when there is any disagreement is a playful insult followed by another round of drinks. Not sure if this is abnormal or normal, but it doesn't matter to me since I'm unaffected by it. Couple of things that may lead to this easy going nature are as follows: I've slept all three of them at one point or another. We literally have no boundaries whe…
/r/askTRP21/11/16 07:21 PM
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In the right amounts, this is actually a legitimate route. Just spent a weekend away with a plate and this somewhat back-fired on me. Indulged in both, "functioned" just fine. Could not finish. OP, be careful if you go this route. Just a smidge too much and "functioning" might be off the table too.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 08:30 PM
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If you're met with additional push you can go one of two ways: "You only get to ask that question if I ask the same of you, and I'm not, so you don't get to ask that question." or "Are you asking because you'd be interested in a threesome? Otherwise, it's of no concern regardless the answer." Any push after that and you're better off just ending it. Grab your coat, pay your bill, and bounce.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 09:58 PM
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"A gentlemen doesn't kiss and tell. However, if I do, or am, you can rest easy knowing I'm safe about it."
/r/askTRP03/11/16 06:26 PM
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Talk about summing it up concisely. I'm using this. ♂
/r/askTRP05/10/16 03:44 PM
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I've never once heard it referred to that way. lol As to contribute to your post rather than just leave a comment of no value, I'd suggest reading "How to win friends and influence people" by Dale Carnegie. It's not so much of an instruction manual as it is a guide. However, it's a great foundation to start building upon, and it'll help you with more than just "them walls".
/r/askTRP05/10/16 03:25 PM
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I'm relatively new to TRP, so I don't personally feel qualified to give you advice int hat regard. However, the gym is something I'm familiar with. Two of the best pieces of advice I can offer: Don't constantly look for results, just make it part of your life. I made this mistake so many times in the past. You constantly look for results, and then you get discouraged. If you want to see the results, take a picture now, and take one in 3 months. Otherwise, just take note of the change in behavior…
/r/askTRP05/10/16 03:13 PM
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Yeah, you didn't do anything worth feeling bad about at all; quite the contrary. That extra 2k isn't breaking the company's bank, and it shows management you've got initiative. Pile that on top of the fact that you got what you wanted, it's really a win win all around.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 08:16 PM
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This man speaks the truth. I'm turning 34 this Saturday and one of my biggest issues is trying to figure out which plate I'm going to invite over, or if I'm going to see if I can't pick something up for the night. I've only been single for a month, and while I never had a hard time with women when I was younger, it's absolutely ridiculous how easy it is now. Honestly, once you're in your 30's and you've got your shit together (appearance, attitude, and finances) life is so much more fun. You've …
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 03:24 PM
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This. You'll start out at the bottom, but be willing to be the bitch and soak up all the knowledge you can. You'll eventually move up and start making more money, but more importantly, you'll gain enough skill to take on side jobs. That's when the money starts rolling in.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 06:39 PM
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To make it easier for you, stare at the bridge of their nose between the eyes. To them, they can't tell the difference, it looks like your still making eye contact, but it'll allow you to feel more comfortable doing so. Then practice actually looking at people's eyes more and more until you're no longer feeling as uncomfortable.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 06:20 PM
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So by that logic, any married man is blue pill? I'm legitimately asking, anyone feel free to chime in.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 07:35 PM
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You can get married, just don't be a chump about it. I'm going through a divorce now, and one of the things I did right was refuse to have a big wedding. Sure, I bought her a diamond that set me back a couple of grand, but I did that because I wanted to, I didn't have to. Other than that, not a dime spent on the ceremony or reception. I told her plain and simple, there's no point in spending the amount you could use as a down payment for a house on a party that takes months to plan and a night t…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 11:41 PM
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As someone going through a divorce right now, this post is extremely reassuring. I have had this exact same outlook on the whole thing, but was starting to wonder if my thought process was fucked somehow. A friend of mine directed me to here, and after reading some of the material here, I have to say that I've never felt more at home. I always thought my outlook on things was possibly fucked up because I never bought into the stereotypical bullshit accepted norms. Or what is referred to here as …
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 12:31 AM
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