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GG
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:35 AM
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Goddam I had such a good night with my crush I'm actually no longer black or red pilled I'm blue pilled as fuck now
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:33 AM
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I actually make some eye contacts if I do look at people, does that mean I'm not ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 10:11 PM
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Just because a lot of people think something is attractive doesn't mean you also have to
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:23 PM
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Or you wear a hoodie over a tank top and take off the hoodie
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:31 PM
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TIL the "use the bottom of your shirt to wipe sweat on your face to show your abs" trick
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:57 PM
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Based for dating a 5'7 guy as a 5'7 woman
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:55 PM
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Lol what an asshole move. Although based on the edit the husband is also an asshole. So they both deserve each other
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:40 AM
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What about high end escorts
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:15 AM
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Bruh keep your head up I'm fairly confident you'll find a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:13 AM
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Dating apps is the entire dating market?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:10 AM
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This helps me sleep better at night thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:04 AM
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Wait for my good news tomorrow that she put out
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:34 AM
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Seeing my crush again tomorrow I hope she puts out
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:13 AM
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​ Is ncount being positive for men and negative for women equal between the genders? No. Is actually a good point, but disagree with the rest
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:24 AM
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Why stop? They might miss out on asking out a woman who is not a freeloader
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:15 AM
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If she doesn't respond in an entire day she's not interested bro
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:02 AM
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Low income neighborhood rap
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:33 PM
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How long you've been dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:31 PM
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Oh because it's the norm to?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:34 PM
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I don't see why he would agree to that unless he doesn't really want to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:05 PM
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It's not just because it's the norm. Since it is the accepted norm for the man to propose and it's a once in a lifetime event, the fact that she has to do it means he has to go out of his way to NOT do it. He is implicitly saying that he doesn't want to do it and out of desperate measures, the woman does it to guarantee herself the commitment. She can express her commitment without having to propose.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 09:48 PM
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They can express it without doing a proposal
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 09:07 PM
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I can't see it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:27 PM
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I think there are women out there who value other traits, I'm just waiting to meet one of them eventually. It's down to luck. I can increase my chances by putting myself more out there but it's not worth my time right now, I'd rather spend more time building up my career
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:26 PM
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F
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:37 PM
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Nothing says those women aren't feeling like they're settling, eventually most people get paired off
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:36 PM
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I'm all for equality and feminism but a woman proposing is embarrassing and desperate. I would never let my girl do that. If he doesn't do it leave him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:19 PM
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It's elite
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:45 PM
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Also no these men are average looking
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:11 PM
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Speak for yo self
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:01 PM
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The US where most people are around the median height aka 5'9
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:17 PM
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I actually see too much of the opposite even though I'm black pulled. So many 5'7-5'9 men in relationships around me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:09 PM
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Q4W: if a guy says let's grab dinner and then hang out at his apartment after (and you said yes), what % chance are you expecting sex to happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:19 AM
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Some of the most romantic shit I've experienced: love letters, hour long blowjobs, "are you hungry I'll make you something", surprising me with new lingerie, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:56 AM
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Except his is an innocent little mistake and hers is being a shitty partner
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:32 AM
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People make dumb mistakes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:26 AM
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LOL good one!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:19 AM
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It's a massive dick move to be so thoughtless about this stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:15 AM
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"it's ok for me to hurt my partner's feelings just because they made a mistake" I don't agree with the weight example either
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:08 AM
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goddam man's balding tho
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:55 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/158hyq2/tifu_by_asking_my_girlfriend_what_my_male_parts/ Bruh are people really this dumb? It takes half a thought for the GF to just lie but i guess "it's his fault if he's insecure"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:54 PM
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I removed my Bumble bio and got 200 new likes, weird stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:40 PM
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Wtf they removed it? For what
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:17 PM
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That's actually kind of what I thought
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:24 PM
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No for wamen
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:07 PM
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So cunnilingus > penetration
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:53 PM
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Clear coat is the supreme nail polish color (for hands)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:16 AM
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I want to see it but I ain't spending 3 hours on that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:15 AM
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+1 for lats
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:16 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:13 AM
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An ex told me in doggy the balls hit the clit so maybe that's that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:03 AM
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Dam son, what belt in BJJ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:59 AM
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How long have you been doing BJJ/wrestling? Ngl my dream is reaching my career goals by 30 and then just spend a good amount of time practicing those
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:54 AM
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Wait is it true that 70-90% of women don't climax from penetration?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:13 AM
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This has to be satire
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:03 AM
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Given that the average American have no idea what they're doing, I.e., 73% are overweight or obese, only 35% have a bachelor's degree, median income is 40k, divorce rate 50%, I can safely assume most would be shitty partners and would cheat given a good opportunity, and this is gender neutral. However if we're talking about people who actually have their life together, I.e., educated, goes to the gym and stays healthy, knows how to be a good partner, etc, most would not cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:48 AM
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I envy how much easier it is for an average woman to move up to the the top 5% of women. It is exponentially harder if not impossible for dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 06:11 PM
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Lmao prenup or get fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 06:04 PM
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I just munch on it as I work, could take 2 hours to finish the bucket
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:05 AM
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Today I learned. Maybe I'll try
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:04 AM
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Filet mignon in 10 minutes?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:59 AM
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Cooking time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:54 AM
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I ain't spending an hours to make that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:38 AM
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Q4 gym rats: not sure if i just found a life hack but instead of buying a $20 meal I just eat a bucket of greek yogurt for $5, 320 cal, 45g protein
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:27 AM
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Turns out pain and hate is my biggest motivator to go to the gym and I've been too happy for the last month
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:07 AM
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Fuck, dating is so brutal for people looking for genuine love. Everything could be going great and out of nowhere they do some shit like this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:18 AM
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Competition? A good relationship is an addition to someone's life not taking away anything
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:19 PM
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Those seem like separate goals from having a loving relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:46 PM
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Top 5 according to Forbes: Lack of commitment 75% Infidelity or extramarital affairs 60% Too much conflict and arguing 58% Getting married too young 45% Financial problems 37% https://www.forbes.com/advisor/legal/divorce/divorce-statistics/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 01:01 PM
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And remember the study Google did to find out if they paid their female employees less than their male counter parts and actually found out they were paid more not less?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 12:40 PM
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It sucks but the higher the social class you date in, the less it matters. Attraction start to be based on other qualities and a lot of it are things people can actually control
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:06 AM
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I'm sure incels can have sex if they lower their standards enough
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 01:59 PM
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I think a woman can text a man more than he texts her, if a man does that it's over
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 04:23 AM
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Are you serious? You have to wait 24 hours for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 04:06 AM
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San Francisco
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 03:46 AM
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Hey, gotta do what we gotta do to not be homeless!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 03:13 AM
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all you'd need to do is find roommates like a lot of people have done. Yeah exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 03:07 AM
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$1750 on rent is actually really barely surviving in a major city, which proves my point. A meal is $10-15, times 2 that's $30. Unless you cook then idk maybe $15, so you save another $5k per year
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 03:01 AM
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We're ranking this by the amount of unprotected sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 02:56 AM
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They're both gonna find a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 02:55 AM
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Ok fine $2k for rent? Doesn't really make a difference you just have an extra 12k per year and that doesn't really do much. Idk how low you can go for food cuz you gotta eat
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 02:42 AM
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The one that is more social and meets more women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 02:37 AM
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Define "better", number of partners? How happy their marriage is?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 02:25 AM
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70k after tax: 52k Rent: 3k x 12 = 36k Food: 1k x 12 = 12k Leftover: 4k If you buy anything you're fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 02:20 AM
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Best: $200k-600k per year (self made): these people are self made so they're intelligent and tend to be humble $70-199k: regular people who just want love $40-70k: too worried about just surviving $200k-600k+ (with rich parents): tend to be arrogant and narcissistic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 01:58 AM
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product manager at big tech
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 01:05 AM
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Yessir
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 01:04 AM
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Are you asking me out
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 12:57 AM
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That would be assuming those women don't make a lot of money themselves which is a lot of assumption. Imo they seem well educated and doing well as well
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 12:56 AM
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I live in a pretty expensive neighborhood (around $4500 for 1 bed) and I notice: everyone is in a relationship I've never seen this many same height couples
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 12:41 AM
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It's not unreasonable at all. Above a few million dollars there's a good risk of the money doing more harm than good and honestly a few million is comfortable enough
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 12:01 AM
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I have 10 million dollar dating app idea but I'm not telling anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 11:18 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 11:02 PM
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Not important, just don't be fat
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 11:01 PM
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Post pictures of you and the women with faces blocked out
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 10:51 PM
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What kinds of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 10:46 PM
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To me personally based on just looks (dunno her personality): 6. If I had to guess for the general population: 7-8/10
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 10:45 PM
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We gotta do something about the price of salads
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 10:42 PM
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Uh not sure and even then idk why men would be jealous of it, given those options are probably nothing datable
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 10:41 PM
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For relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:25 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:43 AM
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Like most things in life it's down to luck
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:58 PM
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I think I understand just fine. I also accept that you have a different definition of "insane money" and that it doesn't mean you need better understanding of what it means as it is subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:48 PM
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To be honest I have no idea what you are saying. You can have unreasonable expections about something easy. Making 60k -> easy, making 6 million -> unreasonable, but anyways hope your day gets better from here y2kjanelle😁
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:20 PM
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See i 100% agree with you, it's easy peasy and I just have unreasonable expections
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:12 PM
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That's only because I'm extremely hard on myself, same way I'm not happy with my income even though I'm in the top 1% bracket for my age. Losing 1.5lbs per week is still really good for normal measures and it was easy peasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:48 PM
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There's really no point continuing this discussion as it just comes down to different opinions of what "insane money" is and can do. Again to me "insane" is owning a yatch, startups, private chef, etc. To you that's "wealthy"and you're free to think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:43 PM
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I did reach my goal :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:39 PM
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You're certainly free to think "insane money" is less money than "well off" and "wealthy"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:55 PM
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I like thin woman and small boobs + small butt
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:02 AM
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If you were overweight, would you find those 2 hours?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 11:54 PM
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Well it's about prioritizing, those things are more important to you than being slim and nothing wrong with that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 10:58 PM
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I'm a man and would most definitely choose woman A
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 10:49 PM
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You don't have 2 hours a day to invest in yourself? What are you so busy doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 10:44 PM
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Women are also likely to choose man A
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 10:35 PM
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because they know that if they don't pay, many women will probably lose interest. Then i'm dipping
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 10:32 PM
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Admittedly my mind has been changed a little after this post but not fully
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 10:28 PM
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I freaking love futurama
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 10:19 PM
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Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 10:19 PM
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I wish I knew this when I was losing weight but have you tried konjac jelly noodles/snacks? These foods are insane, instead of having 300 calorie noodles for a meal I could have these for like... 20 calories and it's the same amount of food and keeps you full.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 10:14 PM
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If someone consents to being murdered, it's assisted suicide
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 10:00 PM
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Depends on what you eat. 1200 on fast food is like 1 and a half burgers, sure. But can be 3 meals with lots of vegetables and lean meat. There's even a sub dedicated to this, r/1200isplenty. Also if you can't do 2 hours straight you can always space it out over 4 x 30 minute sessions, it all depends on how badly you want to try and what you prioritize in lifd
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:54 PM
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If you ate 1000 calories at 118 you'd lose weight
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:48 PM
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How? If you run for 2 hours a day that's 1300 calories burned. If you then eat 1500 calories for the day you're already in an insane deficit, might even get away with 1 hour of running.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:45 PM
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That's actually really respectable, congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:44 PM
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Too based for this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:41 PM
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I guess it boils down to our definitions of insane money. To me it's not insane but still really good money. But if that's insane money to you, how would you describe "having a private chef" money?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:40 PM
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No, we were talking about how 330k is an "insane" amount of money
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 08:33 PM
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Respond by getting in better shape and making more money myself
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:28 PM
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Agreed with you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:06 PM
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u/teddiesinterlude willing to share your income? It's pretty important for context, since you seem to have a great perspective on income
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 04:40 PM
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Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 04:33 PM
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Since we are talking "insane" money, some of the "insane" things would be: own a yatch, start and fund my own startup, stay at $20k/night hotels, own a private jet, hire a full time chef and bartender at my home, do all the above without having to work, etc. Is that enough or would you like more examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 03:35 PM
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I think although some of these qualities ar above average, they're barely above "bare minimum". 65k a year is above average for ALL people, but what about for just college graduates? Then it seems reasonable. Level of devotion: personally I think everyone should want a person who is enthusiastic about dating them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 03:12 PM
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I'm not pushing an agenda and I feel like man A is a pretty reasonable criteria, if women prefer that then I will admittedly change my view
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:59 PM
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Sorry I'm not familiar with it, what cartoon relates to this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:56 PM
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If that's the case then the man is also above average
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:35 PM
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I mean in the post there are number of qualities, looks, height, rich, loving, loyal, not porn addicted, being into you, but you stuck to the money part like a heat seeking missile, and immediately attacked me for being "broke" when you thought I was broke, so yes you seem hyper focused on money for some odd reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:29 PM
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Actually I would if enough women did and if they made sense
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:23 PM
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Edit: LOL she blocked me before i can reply but there are definitely numerous qualities besides money that i mentioned in the post Dam, you left 7 comments and they're all about the money part of the post. Although not the point of this post, I'm sure there are previous posts in the sub discussing whether women would choose hot and poor over average and rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:23 PM
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You might realize it's a "change my view" post, that's my view and many men in the comments resonate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:19 PM
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My "broke" comment was sarcasm, but great to know that you think "broke men" are immediately undesirable. You're also focused on the money part of the hypothetical, I'm sure your opinion on whether I'm a good catch or not holds great weight
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:11 PM
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The lady should have the $300 dish
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:51 PM
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What? Where do you see me lacking options?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:32 PM
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Oh great, I agree with you. Not sure why u/icebluefrost is calling those women children. Maybe they are projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:30 PM
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By "a woman" do you mean one woman? Then no
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:21 PM
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https://youtu.be/x3lypVnJ0HM video on dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:15 PM
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It's not something I observe?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:04 PM
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So you would say that women past 30 who still like romance novels are immature?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:02 PM
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How much do you make?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:00 PM
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Women past 30 don't like romance novels?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:53 PM
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Huh? Trollpost? Also it's pretty relevant so we know what context you're basing your perspective on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:55 AM
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Wow, are you ok? I'm definitely very broke, how much do you make?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:40 AM
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I actually can't believe you'd think 330k is "more disposables and investible money than they will ever need" but eh whatever floats your boat
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:26 AM
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There is a recent post discussing romance novels and it talked about a book where the character is a hot surgeon but a douche and women loved him. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/151e4qb/are_romance_novels_a_good_indicator_of_what_turns/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1 This is perfectly in line with the fact that women focus on the status part, not the loving part. You're saying women want boxes to tick and men don't. Men care more …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:22 AM
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Well presenting your best self is different from presenting someone that's completely not you, agree or no? Like grooming and looking good for the date is fine because we always groom, but if a man rented a lambo to try to impress someone and trying to create the impression that he owns the car that's deceptive, same concept with these salad
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:02 AM
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That ain't what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 06:55 AM
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No offense but the further away you are from 550k, the bigger it'd seem to you, so you must be making very little to think that it's an insane amount of money. Not denying that it's good, but it's not insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 06:52 AM
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Not just so you don’t think she’s in danger of getting fat, although that is one reason Well that'd be deceptive if they're doing it for the date and aren't otherwise health conscious normally
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 06:46 AM
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Women care about ticking boxes as much or as little as men. That's my point. Nope, that's why past the attraction part, men will pick the most loving and loyal option and women will pick the highest status option. That's why the common male fantasies center around the women saving herself for a man (loyalty) and sticks with him through hard times. While the female fantasy centers around the status of the man (6'4 billionaire surgeon vampires). Also, I don't think why you keep saying attractive i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 06:41 AM
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Yes I do and 550k is good but not that much money (~330k after tax)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 06:32 AM
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Well you were saying women would order a salad so men don't think they're pigs but in your case you were already eating salads, so it's not like you did it with the intention to make him not think you're a pig - you were just being yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 06:31 AM
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No my view is that even for hookups, men are more likely to pick option A than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 06:18 AM
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Women don't care about how loving a man is? Not as much as what boxes he can tick, even after getting past the attraction part Ever read a romance novel or watched a romanic movie geared towards women? Yes I'm glad you brought this up because it is literally a meme that in romance novels geared towards women the guy is always some 6'4 billionaire vampire surgeon
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 06:16 AM
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But I'm saying if you aren't an extremely health conscious person who eats salads everyday but portray yourself as one by doing so on every date that's deceptive..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 06:12 AM
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That sounds deceptive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 06:02 AM
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No 5th date and that's weird
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:54 AM
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See my other comment Well my only concern is when she knows I'm paying, she's too nice to order any expensive dishes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:52 AM
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Well my only concern is when she knows I'm paying, she's too nice to order any expensive dishes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:51 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:20 AM
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Ok I guess a better idea is discussing the menu before going to the restaurant
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:14 AM
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Q4W: how do you feel about a man offering to pick what to order for you at a restaurant
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:03 AM
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Sure I'll let you know
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 03:52 AM
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My point is, past the attraction part, men care more about how loving she is, while women care more about other boxes a partner can tick
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 03:52 AM
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Read the last paragraph in the post
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 03:42 AM
2

Not saying it's a problem but an observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 03:10 AM
2

Sounds like you're the 25%
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 03:09 AM
2

Your gender and choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:45 AM
1

Your gender and choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:44 AM
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Exactly, take out the premise "flirting with other people" and replace with just "not very into you but still loyal", then the difference is very clear because men will be picking A and women will be picking B
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:00 AM
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Yeah that's the thing, even if option B doesn't cheat (just not very into you), men will still pick A, women will be picking B.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:58 AM
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Even when considering just sex, men will choose A, women will choose B.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:51 AM
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Ok sure, changing to "addicted to porn". And the thing is the premise does not include worrying about whether Option B exists, when they're literally presented in front of people, men are likely choosing A and women choosing B.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:50 AM
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How so? I'm 10,000% choosing woman A
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:45 AM
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Trying to take her to a nice restaurant in her area but none are >$200, first world problems i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:27 AM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:23 AM
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Lol dam that sucks. I fucking love cats they're literally live stuffed animals
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:20 AM
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Bro actually has 0 filters
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 12:51 AM
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I could use a good steak wassup
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 12:49 AM
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Wtf that's a completely healthy body, way above the average American woman even
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 08:00 PM
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One of my pleasures in life is checking on women I knew that would say oh a man should be XYZ and seeing they still haven't found their person because I know dam well any man like that is wayyy out of their league
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:59 PM
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Yeah let me get tall real quick
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:11 PM
1

Can confirm I was the husband
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:09 PM
1

Real talk why are supermarket cashiers always hot asf
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:22 AM
1

Idk give him your number I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:48 AM
1

Easy "I'm not looking for new friends at the moment"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:41 AM
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Gotta say I agree with you, you sure do demonstrate you understand the concept when you're stuck on thinking this is about making a group of people (who otherwise wouldn't like you because of your height) like you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:39 AM
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Again not talking about any specific girl liking you or not, and a terrible comparison with old pictures. I don't think you understand how dating app algorithms work or will so I'm going to leave it at this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:21 AM
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Exactly, you value your time and want to spend less time and effort to meet the love of your life. I'm not sure why you're so confused. Also explain how is disingenuous?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:10 AM
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I'm not talking about you being handicapped as an option (as a matter of fact to many women you are not) but in the sense that your rating is handicapped and your profile was shown to fewer people
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:05 AM
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Congrats for turning out alright, doesn't change the fact that you were handicapped
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:50 PM
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Would've done finer
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:45 PM
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Weight and height?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:27 PM
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If you list your height your elo will instantly drop to the bottom of the stack regardless of how you are as a whole as a person, and if the love of your life is out there who doesn't even care about your height, they might never even see your profile just Tinder fucked over your rating. If OP agrees with that system then by all means list it. Also if someone loses interest immediately because of OP's then they wasted OP's time not the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:21 PM
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Money is only a bonus, they still gotta be attracted to you. Minus gold diggers. Most ppl will pick someone they're very attracted to making 70k over someone they're not attracted to making 700k
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:16 PM
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Pretend to offer to help then ghost her
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:09 PM
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People thinking Mark Zuckerberg just sits in his little office and does code monkey things and managed to grow a company to 1 Trillion market cap lmao. It required incredible charisma to manage even 3 engineers at big tech
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:57 PM
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Don't list it 2. If they seem disappointed when you meet say something came up at work and dip
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:55 PM
1

What color should I do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:05 AM
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On a self care spree, I got appointments for: Laser hair removal Microneedling for skin All my shirts to be tailored What should I add
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:35 PM
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Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:18 PM
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Meaning you still have to shave? What's the point then
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:37 PM
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Oh nice what area did you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:36 PM
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Has anyone done laser hair removal? I'm tired of shaving
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:53 PM
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Obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:24 PM
1

How tall are u
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:01 PM
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Most?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:38 PM
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How many sessions and how much did u pay
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:34 PM
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Good one
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:33 PM
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Most good partners care about their partner's pleasure yes or no
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:25 PM
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How about saying it and then trying it until it worked
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:23 PM
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I ain't doing all that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:20 PM
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From PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:13 PM
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Skill issue
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:10 PM
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Do most women really have a bad sex life? I feel like it's such an easy issue to fix aka talk to your partner about things you like and boom, amazing sex life
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:10 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:06 PM
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What's wrong with it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:05 PM
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Really how? Can't they just touch their clit or something
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:01 PM
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It is tho
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:01 PM
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Women having average sex*
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:00 PM
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Not really, if it's something I don't care about then I'd be fine with whatever's given to me. And boobs is not something I care about. Obviously excluding anomalies and deformities
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:59 PM
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Dam sorry to hear that for them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:32 PM
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Women have more intense orgasms and can have multiple, why wouldn't they like it more?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:26 PM
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Yes it is
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:25 PM
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There is no magic number but a good therapist can definitely untangle misconceptions and false beliefs faster than others. And yes I put in a lot of work outside of that too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:25 PM
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It's pretty bad but also a less of a deal than I previously thought
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:17 PM
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Men are not hornier than women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:16 PM
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Not sure what you're basing that off but no one I know would just go for anyone even if they're lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:15 PM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:12 PM
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I estimate I'm about 4 more therapy sessions away from getting over my lack of height
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:09 PM
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Second one, height not being part of the attractiveness equation
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:04 PM
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For sex or for dating and marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:12 PM
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I don't think just because most men are X inches taller means women prefer it. Same way most people make X amount of money but most would prefer someone in the top 1% bracket
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:06 PM
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Anything that shows you notice his interests and care. And matching couple stuff if he's into that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:47 PM
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Not care as long as they're taller* see edits for updated definition
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:45 PM
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What? Doubt that's true, at least personally. I don't settle for any quality I care about
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:34 PM
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Obviously if someone is in the 0.01th percentile of height people would care. The question gave a context of men who are at least as tall as the women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:18 PM
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What? What makes my statement so unbelievable?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:14 PM
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So you would? That's pretty crazy to me. Also, evidence concludes that those men are picked because of their height, or men in those positions happen to be tall? I'm trying to understand the difference between correlation and causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:11 PM
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Yep who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:01 PM
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I actually don't have a tit preference, I'm willing to hit a random generator button like redditor avatars and will be fine with any normal range of boob sizes that comes out of it. The question is simple, what portion of women feel this way about height as long as the man is as tall or 2 inches taller?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:57 PM
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The difficulty doesn't come from the amount of choices but the amount of work needed to achieve a goal (definition of difficulty)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:54 PM
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I'm no expert but eye makeup?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:53 PM
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What's her definition of short?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:33 PM
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You really think people will choose a taller but less competent person for a job just because he's taller and we are "subconsciously biased" towards it? You don't see how reckless that type of decision making is for something as small as hiring an employee, let alone for important decisions like picking a CEO/president?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:30 PM
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Interesting what's your weight criteria?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:26 PM
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Right, I'm saying that to some it's not settling because they truly don't care. That's like me dating a normal boob sizes girl and people thinking I'm settling for her because I couldn't get a bigger boobed girl, but that'd be stupid because I actually give 0 thoughts to boob size
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:25 PM
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I wouldn't say that's every man
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:18 PM
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I really don't tho, I actually prefer smaller breasts and butts
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:16 PM
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How so? Just like how I don't care about boob size
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:58 AM
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Well those women would fall under category one: they care but just overlooking it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:57 AM
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Although very rare I don't think it's 0%
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:50 AM
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See edit for definition of don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:32 AM
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Oh wow, I wonder if it's just you (and since we surround ourselves with people similar to us, it's more likely for your peers to also think this way) or this is more common among women than I thought
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:28 AM
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Marginally taller is exactly the same as 6ft+ to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:20 AM
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That's exactly what I mean. Most want a tall man ideally but willing to settle for shorter than her ideal, which is not the same as not caring. Truly not caring (besides just taller than her) seems very rare
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:14 AM
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Your way of thinking is exactly the first scenario tho. Ideally, tall is better, or as you say sprinkles on top, but if not that's fine. On the other hand personally boobs to me are the same regardless of size, there is no sprinkles on top
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:10 AM
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I think wanting someone at least as tall as themselves or a bit taller is valid. But I'm wondering how many care about having someone "tall" as defined by society aka 6ft
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:01 AM
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I think wanting someone at least as tall as themselves or a bit taller is valid. But I'm wondering how many care about having someone "tall" as defined by society aka 6ft
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:00 AM
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So 70% don't care? Also I don't think boobs is apple to apple comparison as I'd argue a lot more men completely do not care about boob size than women not caring about height
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:58 AM
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Eh, in cm the obsession is over 180cm/185cm, etc. Same shit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:42 AM
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Only #3 is attractive to me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:17 AM
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Correlation is not causation, don't get the two confused. Nobody is thinking "ohh he's tall, let's vote him into office/CEO" but rather "he has the abilities and skills to do the job, let's vote him"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:09 AM
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I've been saying this for ages, the game is extremely rigged, and everybody knows it's true
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:39 AM
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Looooool wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:36 AM
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Ayy listen to Teen Suicide too if you like low quality stuff https://youtu.be/cRKJIjYUsfY
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:06 AM
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Listen to Yot Club
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:00 AM
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No OMG and Ditto is the best
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:00 AM
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I vibe with that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:58 PM
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What is your opinion on OMG by New Jeans
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:49 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:23 PM
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For example some of the common reasons people cite when they say they prefer tallness: - feeling safer with them - feel like a smaller person next to them - knowing that other people want them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:23 PM
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Yes it does and it also doesn't take into account our taste changes with age. At 25 Im attracted to attractive 22-27 year olds, at 35 I would probably be attracted to 28-38 year olds, 35 and 22 would be weird
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:18 PM
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What is the most important factor?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:16 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:11 PM
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But every other women is constantly saying they prefer tall men, etc, you don't get FOMO?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:11 PM
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How do you feel when your gal friends "show off" their boyfriend's height or make little comments about your bf? Or simply seeing the hype on social media. Surely you've experienced this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:21 PM
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Do you truly not care? Why not? I agree that women like you exist although seems pretty rare, maybe 10% or so
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:06 PM
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I can see it as the halo effect which has studies behind it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:05 PM
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I doubt "taller than me" is enough, I.e., if a women is 5'4 she absolutely will not be content with someone 5'6
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:04 PM
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Im interested in women's opinions on this https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/14xws6d/height_is_the_most_influencing_factor_to_a_mans/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 08:49 PM
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Ok then
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:18 PM
1

1 rose or 3 roses
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:02 PM
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Said who
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:17 PM
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Na, I know exactly what you're trying to spin, it's just that it doesn't hold up. I agree to disagree tho
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 04:36 AM
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Same way white is the Hollywood standard. Doesn't need a logical reason. Subconsciously people like fast food more than fruits and salads, and one is healthier than the other, not sure what you're getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 04:27 AM
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The same way beauty standards operate. Collectively society define the standard for "good traits" , you either follow it or don't care. Even if you don't care, you're subjected to peer pressure because if your friends have partners that are more "good" than yours, they'll make you feel bad and pressured to keep up. Of course not every person or friend group is like this, but as whole it shifts people's perception little by little.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:23 AM
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Then i dont have a gf
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:11 AM
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if a man blatantly hits on your girl when you’re standing right there, what course of action would you take ? Laugh at him with my gf
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 02:56 AM
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Queen shit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:14 AM
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The correct answer is status, and what status encompasses changes with age. For women in school, having a tall, handsome boyfriend = high status. Out of school, tall, handsome, rich + prestigious field
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 11:39 PM
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Again do you have any specific examples? I'm looking at a lecture he did at Harvard and he seems well spoken and not socially lacking. https://youtu.be/xFFs9UgOAlE
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 11:26 PM
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Can you give examples of his unintelligent behavior at the courtroom
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 11:11 PM
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You are though. Your stance is that height is more important than intelligent when defining "strong" genetics because desires do not evolve as fast as modern technology. Intelligence was important from the beginning of humans, we do not need to follow technology to see it as important. Also I'm not sure if you're trolling that Mark Zuckerberg is not well rounded in intelligence, someone that runs a company that even people in tech can only dream of joining.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:59 PM
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Intelligence is not exclusive to modern times. Also can you explain well rounded intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:42 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:41 PM
1

Yes I'm always the lower libido one
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:15 PM
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Can I DM, feel stuck as well
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:13 PM
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Not really, imagine all those gay men are known to hit on literally anyone, do you still feel special now?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:12 PM
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If that was true then women would be liking gorilla looking men, as that would've been useful in the "evolutionary times"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:51 PM
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Is it because they "survive better" tho? Also why do you think muscle cannot be genetic?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:18 PM
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If that was true that they survive better, we would have evolved to be a lot taller and muscular than we are now
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:02 PM
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Q4W: y'all actually date based on genetic potential? I was under the impression that people date people they enjoy spending time with, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:29 PM
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You think people are choosing their partners based on genetic potential? Even if let's imagine that was true, why would height be the trait to look for? In this economy I'd aim for the most intelligent gene, I would rather be Mark Zuckerberg's dad than a tall nobody
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:20 PM
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I'm pretty sure it is
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:06 PM
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I'm sure ppl would prefer billionaires over thousandares as well
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:04 PM
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I think it's fair game when the standards are something you yourself meet
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:46 PM
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I ain't simpin
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:36 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:51 PM
1

Unfortunately I got an average one
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:42 PM
1

I've noticed my partners don't want me to go down on them for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:41 PM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/14t1mtw/daily_community_chat_megathread/jr14yjl/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3 Q4W: how can I maximize her bragging rights to her friends
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:34 PM
2

Seattle?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:30 PM
1

Pink it is
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:28 PM
1

I was actually thinking about red because it's pretty. How about pink? I'm not worried about being casual either because it's pretty clear we like each other lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:00 PM
1

Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:00 PM
1

Hanging out at my apartment then to going a cat cafe and walk around after
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:49 PM
2

Q4W: so I'm going to bring 1 single flower to the date, what color should I pick (I'm not going to do her fave color cuz that's trying too hard)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 02:55 PM
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Dam, I'm sorry that sex is not something you enjoy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:21 AM
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Loool i did not know that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:20 AM
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That's actually what I do, like 2 flowers
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 10:36 PM
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Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 10:07 PM
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First of all she has to win my heart not the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:44 PM
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Exactly also conveys low status
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:41 PM
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I'm not sure how often women get haircuts, I do once a month
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:41 PM
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Simp
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:36 PM
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$70-120 per haircut
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:29 PM
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I want to buy her flowers so bad but I have to not be a simp and reserve that for at least 3rd date
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:28 PM
1

Lmao I go there, it's hella expensive tho
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:22 PM
2

First of all if he doesn't want to married at all then I'm going to dip immediately. After 2-4 years (depending on our age), I'd keep discussing future plans to suss out how he feels, make sure we're on the same page, and reiterate my goals, at any point if he says marriage is not what he's looking for, I dip. After 5-6 years he still hasn't proposed, I safely assume he's been lying for the past 3-4 years and I dip.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:36 PM
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I'm ngl the fact that you even gave him a chance goes against my black pill belief
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:27 PM
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Dam I love equality but if my gf proposed to me I'm saying no cuz I'm not gonna embarrass her like that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:26 PM
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Shorter than you? How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:24 PM
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What was wrong with ur exes?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:20 PM
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goddam, m or f
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:19 PM
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Is that not just an introvert?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:12 PM
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Agreed, and I feel like this is how it works for both genders - attraction operates on a threshold, once you're attracted to someone, a 6-7 is the same as a 10. People will take a 6 with a personality match over a 10 with no match anyday
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:10 PM
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Ideally neither but if someone puts a gun to my head I'd pick the 10 since I wouldn't be able to get it up for the 3
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:06 PM
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What if we're fwbs
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:20 PM
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Random but my life dream is pivoting to trader/quant trader in my 30s and make 1.5mil/yr
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:01 PM
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Lool I was being sarcastic, I think people can form their own arguments without the reason being validation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:53 PM
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Ohhh kinda like when people support affirmative action they're just looking for black validation?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:45 PM
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If I was a woman my equivalent would be like 5'2, 110 is good
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:41 PM
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What is a pickme?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:39 PM
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It is except it doesn't come to you you have to apply for it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:29 PM
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Not really surprising as most Americans are not responsible with anything, which includes healthy ways to lose weight, I'm not obligated to be one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:18 PM
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I'd pay to date you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:17 PM
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Right because in order for me to go from 200->110 an ED is required. I wish I could just go to the gym and eat healthy meals or something idk
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:15 PM
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Goddam I wish my life was that easy, even if I started at 200lbs I'll just work my way into 110 and bam, instant high value and paid for my existence
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:11 PM
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Is that not regarding child support not alimony?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:43 PM
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Does my ex count
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:39 PM
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Lmao i'm going to spend so much money on drafting a good prenup
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:35 PM
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Nobody is going to argue about whether 300k is above median, it's obviously factual. However, what's debatable is the definition and what constitutes "middle"/"upper class". Does upper class mean affording nice cars, being able to afford a house and not live paycheck to paycheck doing so? Having a paid off house? Having massive amount of savings? What does it mean? Or to you it should just be purely based on income distribution?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:29 PM
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"Average" is a method of calculating data, so it's not debatable. However when talking about class and lifestyle, the definitions are more debatable. Someone making 500k and and 500 million are both "upperclass", but their lifestyle is dramatically different, doesn't make sense to lump the 2 together.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:48 PM
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If you're buying a house in NYC...why? Cuz you live here and have to commute to work. $10 per meal if you cook your own, and $15-20 if you buy. 3 meals a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:31 PM
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300k in NYC after taxes: $15,823/month House in NYC: $1.5 million. Monthly mortgage + interest: $10k. Car + insurance: $1k Food + groceries: $1k 401k: $1.6k Student loans (if you made it to 300k/yr most likely you had good education): ? Added benefit of "if you lose your job, you're immediately fucked"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:27 PM
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You don't think the "definitions" are debatable?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:22 PM
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Why care about what the average American is doing? It's about what lifestyle your income+NW can afford you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:08 PM
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Everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 02:58 PM
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If they're in a city like SF or NYC then it's not too far off
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 02:56 PM
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This and you can achieve extreme leverages with stock options as well
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 02:55 PM
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Goddam at least try to trade stocks instead
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:20 AM
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To make things fair I think we should only put this law into effect in X years, giving grandmas adequate time to prepare to protect themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:10 AM
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Loving my 4 day weekend 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:04 AM
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Pretty good theory actually. Most likely she got sucked into the "manosphere bad" TikTok algorithm and that's all she sees. Funnily enough men on the other side of coin are on the "women bad" algorithm
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:21 AM
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I agree although if she's after men she can't have (assuming they're good men), at least she would know they are out there? So I don't understand why she's so grim about it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:13 AM
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Please do expand on it I'm intrigued
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:05 AM
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That's gross, although the same concept as women (in a relationship) simping over "celeb crushes"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:02 AM
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When someone believes all X is a certain way, then it must mean that every X they've met was that way. Otherwise they would have disproved their own belief with experience
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:00 AM
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I wonder why she keeps attracting the same type of men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:25 AM
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why not both
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:18 AM
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Yes the bar is not high
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:12 AM
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Q4W: how about option 3 a 5'8 man with uh....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 12:57 AM
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I'm leaning towards more HVW, because it doesn't take much right now to be one (be in shape/not fat). Men cannot change their height (already fucked), and have to work towards the top 1% of earnings to be considered the same level of value
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 12:52 AM
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based af thing to say
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 12:50 AM
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Yeah don't do things for ppl who haven't earned it but ik that's hard because i'm also naturally very giving, I just hold myself back
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 12:45 AM
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Went on a first date today and i won her a plushie from a claw machine 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 12:43 AM
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I'm just messing with you. I agree with you. Instead of grateful he immediately picked out something negative to say, not a good sign (unless he's being playful)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 12:24 AM
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Wtf you didn't cut it in half???
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 12:20 AM
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I would support this policy 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 08:08 PM
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Fair point. If both parents are normal people who can raise a kid, should they get equal custody and contribute equally financially then?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 08:04 PM
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Then parents should get equal custody
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 07:56 PM
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It's wild because?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 07:28 PM
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During the relationship they can decide grandpa provides financially sure, why should he continue to do that if they aren't together anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 07:20 PM
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Yeah during the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 07:13 PM
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Grandma depended on grandpa financially, bad life decision
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 07:06 PM
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Are there not jobs that don't require experience? Also now people should think twice about depending on someone financially
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 07:02 PM
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what that mean
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 07:01 PM
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Yessir time for grandma to get a yob 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:45 PM
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Oh snap I'm literally talking to this girl and her hobby (and I think it's cute) is embroidery
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:43 PM
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I support it because stop fucking over the middle/lower class, or anyone where 10k would really make a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:39 PM
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No wayy, really? You really would think your partner has an X% chance of cheating just because the general population makes up that statistic? Even if they've proven to you over the years that they're a good person? I get why you're so adamant that one has to accuse their partner of cheating in order to request a paternity test now, because to you it's literally impossible for someone to trust their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:38 PM
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Am I left wing or right wing? My stances on current issues: LGBTQ+ rights: support Banning affirmative action: support Banning abortion: against Banning permanent alimony: support Forgiving student loans: support Cities should be harsher in prosecuting crimes: support More accountability for law enforcement: support
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:30 PM
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I'm not denying that you can still "do well" if you put time into it. But at such a disadvantage, the ROI is not worth the time
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:00 PM
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Cuz as a guy, my value is bottlenecked by mostly one gene - height. I'm doing my best to maximize other areas of my life, but I'll never reach "high value". At the very best I'll maybe reach 7/10. I still keep my door open but I'm not going to actively compete in a rigged game
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:35 PM
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You and I have very different takes on what is "totally reasonable." I would love to hear why you think this is unreasonable! The absolute chance of your baby being swapped at birth vs your partner cheating are have nothing to do with your feelings. There is a far greater likelihood, per occurrence/incident, of your partner cheating than a baby swap. The "absolute chance" is based on general data, why would I care how often the general population is cheating? I'm dating a specific person who I k…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:27 PM
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Except for the like nearly zero percent chance that the baby was swapped at the hospital or you're one of those weird incomplete twins Exactly, I'm glad you're figuring it out as this is a totally reasonable case to protect yourself against. practical reason this would be is because the mother cheated. Actually practically speaking, the chance of my partner cheating on me is less than a baby being swapped at the hospital, as I trust that I'm dating a good person (otherwise we wouldn't date). The…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:02 PM
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Or, the principle that I'm only raising and paying for my own child. Why do you want to believe so badly that men who do this are thinking their partner is cheating material? Also, a house can't burn itself down but people living in it can, now what difference is that making? Are you going to forego homeowners insurance?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 03:38 PM
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romantic path 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 03:28 PM
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Hm right, because relationships are like jobs where people look for someone with as much experience as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 03:14 PM
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Fully agree with this. I just want someone in my "league" (although in my eye they'll be 10/10 because of the love chemicals or whatever). I will never be able to relate to someone who is seen as a 10/10 by society (they wouldn't be interested in me anyways) and we would look hella out of place
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 02:32 PM
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Goddam that's some female version of nice guy content
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 02:23 PM
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You seem to think that when someone asks for a paternity test, they are suspecting their partner of cheating, which is not necessarily true. It could be based on principle, regardless of who the woman is. For analogy, if I buy homeowner's insurance, I'm "suspecting" that my home will burn down. Also, cheating is not the only reason your kid might not be yours. She could be drugged and raped unbeknownst to her, although extremely unlikely, just like cheating is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 02:21 PM
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Lol why do these people care anyways, if you work less than them, they have a better chance of having a better performance rating than you and therefore getting a higher raise
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 02:04 PM
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I'm sorta blackpilled and I've chosen to focus on my career, once I reach my career goals I will actively work on finding someone to marry in my early 30s or so
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 01:59 PM
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Fully agree with this. Fortunately I'm 25 and I think this phenomenon in women drops off right around this age but i had to deal with some in my early 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 01:56 PM
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You just gotta fix whatever is causing you to be depressed, for me used to be looks and money. If there is no particular reason then it's probably chemical and anti depressants might work
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 01:52 PM
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Working/studying (this is my break)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 12:17 AM
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Lol adding this to my arsenal
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 11:55 PM
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Now that i think about it I've seen the stuck O face and stops breathing for a few seconds combo, confidence boosted
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 11:53 PM
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true just awkward convo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 11:48 PM
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For example they don't want to hurt your feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 11:46 PM
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They could lie tho
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 11:44 PM
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They could just lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 11:43 PM
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As they should, why should those men get free money from their ex wife? They should go build their own income
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 11:42 PM
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Yeah for men it's just nut and dealing with post nut clarity
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 11:36 PM
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What if they fake it tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 11:36 PM
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How do i know if i'm giving good sex or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 11:32 PM
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Absolute W
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 11:26 PM
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I find it hard to vent to my de facto gf, idk what it is but I think she tries too hard to please me instead of actually listening. Real life example: Me: I gave a product demo today and stakeholders were genuinely surprised about my progress, even though I'm behind on deadlines Gf: omg wowww you go!! You're doing such a good job! Guy friend: starts talking about how deadlines are bullshit, and we have a good convo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 04:35 PM
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Yeah exactly. Sports - I do it with people I already know, and so are other people. Volunteer - not sure if worth my time. Clubs - could be a good idea, do you have examples? A lot of my friends were made simply because we were forced to be around each other and slowly got to know each other, so consistent promixity is amazing for meeting new connections.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:31 PM
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I don't think I can do more. I do 9:30am - 12:30am weekdays, weekends 11:00am - 12:30am (catching up on sleep). Minus a few hours for socializing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:22 PM
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Can you give some ways of putting one out there
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 09:57 PM
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It's true
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:01 PM
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I've come to the realization that I'm not as low value as I thought. So I'm upgrading from the black pill to gray pill (I made it up). I think my problem is lack of exposure, even if only 2% of women would be very into me, that's still 2 if I meet 100 of them. I'm pretty sure my match is somewhere out there. What's the solution?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:52 PM
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Good to know that I'm on a good path. How old are you now and how's it going?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:37 PM
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I still squeeze in socializing and combine it with hobbies. I also used to use lunch hour at work to socialize but I stopped doing that cuz I'm a workaholic
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:32 PM
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Dam, just realized I work a lot. Like 80-90hr a week
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:23 PM
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That does make sense now that I think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:29 AM
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I think it's a bit disingenuous to say they chose you simply because better choices weren't on the table when they did the choosing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:26 AM
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But the reason they didn't is because the said partner is not attractive enough to get people more attractive than myself. Both men and women pick the best partner they can get. That's assuming people date within their exact league which we know is know always true. It's not unreasonable for someone to punch above their weight by 2 points. But then thats not settling. Settling is if you have X, Y, Z options, but you chose W because u just want to get into a relationship / marriage. It is settlin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:10 AM
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Q4ALL in relationships: do you ever think about how your partner is settling for you? Like, there are tons of people in better shape, taller, makes more money, funnier, more charisma, etc than you, while still having a personality match with your partner. If those people have pursued your partner before you got together, y'all would not be together right now. So the only reason you are is they could not find a better option before meeting you. What do you think of that? Although thinking back to…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:43 AM
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Ok I'll make some ribeye this week, how much per pound is a fair price for ribeye?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 11:05 PM
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I support this
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 11:03 PM
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What's your favorite cut of steak? (For cooking)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 11:01 PM
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I know plenty of people who are conservative with food spending but splurge on other things and vice versa. My point is food is not conclusive to one's spending habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:37 PM
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Uh, height is definitely not like boobs for women. Have you heard women brag about their boyfriends? It's usually "my X feet boyfriend who is X profession and does X for me" in that order. Height is like the number 1 trait. How often have you heard men talk about their D cup boobs gf? None because people rarely gives a shit about boob size.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:21 PM
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Or, people spend differently across different categories.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:13 PM
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Penny pinching can only get you so far, in this case $20/meal
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 09:24 PM
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Jacked like bodybuilder jacked or built and lean? At <=5'8 jacked, just looks wide
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:16 PM
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Yeah there's no way that's 160 especially at 5'11
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:13 PM
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I'm interested to hear your experience. Can you elaborate more? What particular parts he said aligns with your experience? Getting more pussy than 5'10 dudes? What differentiates you from other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:09 PM
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Unfortunately I'm not rich enough to feel like $20 for a salad is nothing, but $10 meals feel like nothing to me nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:07 PM
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5'8 + good looking + ambitious + good job + good hobbies beats out 6'2 + average looks? That is surprising to me. Can any woman comment on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:05 PM
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Dam, sorry to hear that. But I'm surprised she picked a 5'8 man
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:03 PM
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We're only allowed to argued in here
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:01 PM
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One day I'll finally be rich enough to not feel any physical pain for spending $20 on a salad
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:28 PM
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Height is not a guarantee for high SMV, it's like a ticket to an environment where you can become it. You can still fuck it up by lacking in other areas. It just shows how tough the dating market is. It's like being from the US, It's easy to make over 100k USD if you put effort into it. But good luck trying to make over 100k USD in [some unknown country]
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:20 PM
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if you compensate for your lack of good genetics with other rare good genetics, you'll do fine I'm curious what you think happens to average height men with average faces? Also for context how tall are you anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:43 PM
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https://letmegooglethat.com/?q=5%276+runway+models
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:36 PM
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I suppose that's one way to look at it. Personally, having your SMV capped at "average" just for being born under 5'10 is not very enticing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:35 PM
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Sure, if you're aiming for average dating options
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:23 PM
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5'10 So you have no idea what it's like, and yet speak to it. Shit you don't even have to be short yourself to have empathy, like, I'm not a fat chick and yet I can still visualize how hard it would be to be one. I'm luckily not as short as 5'5 but I know that if I was I'd be done for
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:22 PM
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Agreed except for 5'10 and above. 5'9 is still "short"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:16 PM
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Before I read this, how tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:15 PM
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Depends on gender
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:13 PM
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My motivation is myself, sometimes I see my body in the mirror and I'm like "dam, gotta keep up this good work"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:08 PM
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It's because their SMV is probably above average. Why would you look for "average" when you're above average? On the other hand if some average 170lb Becky is saying she needs a man making >100k then that's delulu
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:50 PM
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Stop flexing on the rest of us
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 12:59 AM
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I don't like clubbing so can't speak to that. But it hasn't helped me find a long term partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 10:33 PM
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Explain the law and tell them you're not going to take risks. Short and assertive. If they insist you do then they're a pushover
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:52 PM
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Wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:41 PM
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LMAO and If that man is 5'5?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:37 PM
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No makeup looks so much better
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:34 PM
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Not true, men want PARTENRS. Equals. Where we can have good conversations and enjoy each other's company. I hate when my exes would do chores for me despite me saying they don't need to. Makes me feel like I owe them something. they love to fuck us Sex is something that both genders enjoy? Do you hate sex or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:33 PM
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Welp back to wage slaving, great long weekend
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 01:16 PM
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Yes I'm not raising other men's sperms
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 01:04 PM
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It's nice when it's done out of love and not when you're "supposed to"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:49 AM
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That looks nothing like Danny, you have a wide range of taste
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:58 AM
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Can someone tell me how sex is so hard for some people, it's literally like a video game where you press/keep pressing A or B based on your partner's reaction lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:55 AM
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https://www.military.com/daily-news/2022/07/26/army-opens-its-doors-recruits-who-fail-initial-body-fat-and-academic-tests-amid-recruiting-crisis.html https://freebeacon.com/biden-administration/air-force-loosens-standards-to-make-room-for-overweight-recruits/ The Air Force recruitment changes come as Biden’s Pentagon pushes for diversity, equity, and inclusion in the military.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 11:05 PM
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If you are looking for a nice apartment it usually comes with a rooftop pool whether you use it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:55 PM
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Source from nih.gov: https://www.niddk.nih.gov/health-information/health-statistics/overweight-obesity There is not much variability between the age groups for obesity, so the number is probably more like 73% still for ppl 18-25
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:38 PM
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At our rooftop pool now, most of us are high income, now that i look at it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:18 PM
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42% of the general population is obese, so you're left with 59%, factor in no kids/marriage, pretty reasonable that you're only left with 41%. If you change it to exclude overweight as well, it drops to 17.88%, since 73% of our population is overweight/obese
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:15 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/13uxkc0/comment/jm2yboi/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web2x&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:10 PM
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I was under the impression that I was calling out a strawman which would be relevant to the discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:07 PM
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Probably making more than $40/hr (price of a meal)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:54 PM
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What do you guys think of the updated citi bike karen situation: https://www.tiktok.com/@flodaddyflo/video/7236932222991830318
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:55 PM
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Wow, TIL about pissing sipping and step mom porn, what other kinks are you into?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:50 PM
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Please don't poor-shame me, rent is expensive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:47 PM
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Wouldn't be surprised if you did
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:45 PM
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What are you sipping with that straw? Bet it's delicious
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:40 PM
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I take it back. Now that I think about it, average men out there dating many average+below women is nothing unreasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:39 PM
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You've previously said you have body dysmorphia, so it's hard to believe your description of yourself. For all we know it's exaggerated to be average.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:35 PM
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Highly dependent on context, how good looking are we talking about? What kinds of women? Most men can "get women" if they lower their standards enough
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:34 PM
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You understand you are the outlier (which happens) not the norm?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:19 PM
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State your height or delete the post
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:16 PM
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I can personally confirm money does not help
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 02:44 PM
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Oh ok, just beg him to cum I'm sure he would not hold back
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 05:58 AM
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Idk where this narrative is from but it's not true, at least in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 05:49 AM
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From my experience: 1. Tell him you're sore, at which point he should stop the intercourse 2. Talk dirty or whatever you need to do to make him finish faster
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 05:47 AM
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the default woman look has the same general features, Source? It's perfectly possible to have visible muscles on a healthy body Women are called men if their shoulders or arms are too pronounced. Muscles/being fit looks quite good on both men and women. It's hard to see what you mean without any visual examples. In any case, still disagree that women are discouraged from having muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 02:39 AM
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Basically the way this works is the default face we think of as a woman's face is automatically a made-up face. Debatable, it's hard to have a default image since "women" can come in so many different looks. Yeah, they're encouraged to have some muscle that looks sexy, Well i think muscles are meant to be built for looks, same for men as well. If someone just cares about health they would do cardio or other sports, or just train for strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 02:08 AM
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Edit: Anddd as always, crickets when challenged about their hypocrisy. Leg lengthening surgeries are dumb too, They are dumb. Along with society's preference for tall people. Would you agree? turning women down for not having big tits, an ass, an attractive face, a skinny body or having wrinkles? People doing that are dumb, since you can't control tits, ass, face shape and wrinkles. Well, I guess you can control ass size but it would be an extremely dumb thing to reject someone over. Only thing …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 02:05 AM
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Again, BBLs are dumb, besides, if someone wants a bigger butt, just hit the squat rack and grow one. Born short as a man? LOL good luck! How often do you hear about women being rejected because her butt isn't big enough? I'll sit here and wait :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:55 AM
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These are my personal opinions and maybe I'm outlier: Makeup is a carcinogen, yet women who don't wear it are considered ugly just because so many women wear it Someone is not ugly just because they don't wear makeup, it doesn't really make sense. If naturally someone is good looking, if they don't wear makeup they're not suddenly ugly. If someone is ugly, well, then they're just ugly, and it's actually a blessing that makeup can help with that instead of just being stuck ugly. Women are discour…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:50 AM
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Both are very stupid, but yes one comes with more severe consequences and is more expensive so is done less frequently, great critical thinking there!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:34 AM
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Confirmed: Height is the most important quality for men. (Top 20% in height + average face/fitness/income/any other quality, is better than top 20% in any quality + average height.) Disproven: Men want submissive women. Not really, I want someone on the same level as me so we can have intellectually stimulating conversations
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:31 AM
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Don't forget to sign a prenup
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:18 AM
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Is that Danny?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:15 AM
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Maybe in 1950
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:14 AM
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Strong disagree. Both are valued for what they can provide, just the things provided are different. But nonetheless men are expected to provide a lot more than what women are expected of.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:12 AM
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the mental and physical damage to the body needed to fit stereotypes of attraction, and the continued mental and physical damage of deleting our personalities and putting men's wishes for us above our own Can you elaborate on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:05 AM
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Don't forget leg lengthening surgeries to gain a few inches of height for men 😂😂 some men really have been pushed far enough to do that to themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 12:58 AM
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Nobody says relationships are "only looks". Everyone wants someone loyal, communicates well, a good person, good career, etc, only if they're attracted to them. In other words, it starts with looks. If you're a 2/10, it doesn't matter if you're loyal, good person, good career, etc, your league is 2/10. You're not going to just date anyone off the streets who's loyal, are you? On the other hand yes, once you pass the "looks" screening, things like being broke or a shitty person can still break yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:35 PM
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Cupid by Fifty Fifty, born to be a hopeless romantic, forced into a dating pool of "he gotta be X feet, make X amount, Y, and Z but I'm willing to settle if he's not"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:14 PM
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Of course not
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:38 PM
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I think the "why" is that online dating amplifies hypergamy. Women can easily punch above their weight (for sex), and it makes them feel like they could do the same for relationships/commitment. Let's say you're a 6/10 woman and you know you can easily get a 7-8 to fuck you and you believe there's a chance they'd date you too, would you now date a 6 or would you rather wait for an 8 to come along and commit to you? The choice is obvious. I've talked to female friends who are actually delusion an…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:46 PM
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In 2023?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:02 PM
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Not the OP but my opinion: High value woman: low N, have any career, slim/in shape High value man: tall, in shape/fit, good career (>300k/yr) For both: - Has your back (your enemy should be their enemy, helps you achieve your goals, etc) - mature (no teenager type toxic passive aggressive behavior and able to communicate well in disagreements) - Fair (willing to contribute fairly towards the household/relationship, so no men who delegates all chores to women) - Honesty - Loyalty
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 03:58 PM
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If anyone has to sacrifice their comfort to marry someone, they should not marry or in fact continue to date that person. There are plenty of couples who add to each other's lives without it being monetary. Personally it's not that deep to me, I'll marry someone when I want to tell them that I'm ready to be with them for the rest of my life. But I'm signing a pre-nup of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 03:47 PM
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No fucking shit. That's like saying men/women like loyalty. The thing is it only works when the other person finds you attractive. But when the person is attracted to you, you can pretty much do anything, unless you're extremely insecure that you turn them off. So this is useless advice
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 03:43 PM
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Activity doesn't matter if you like each other
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 10:15 PM
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I always spoil my partners, it gives me joy to make them smile. And they do the same back. But if they have an entitled attitude where they think I'm supposed to do that... then I get extremely turned off. I've only been on dates where I sense the attitude but never dated anyone like that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 10:03 PM
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Am I stupid or do egg whites not make sense? I can get a 16oz egg white for $9, which has 20 servings of 5 grams of protein. I can also get a dozen of eggs for $2, if I just throw out the yolk, each egg has 5g protein. So if I do that with 2 dozens I get 24 servings of egg whites for $4 vs just buying egg whites..?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:22 PM
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https://twitter.com/ada_lluch/status/1662267599105695747?s=20 LMAO based. Same here, my ideal type isn't either type. 2/3 on the left is most attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:35 PM
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It's because of the obesity pandemic, check out the data, a higher and higher percentage of the population is overweight/obese. Fitness now signifies that you're doing well financially. Salads and gym are goddam expensive for no reason, and having time to cook your own food is now a privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 05:24 PM
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Not that this is unheard of but it's rare, i'm curious why you have a preference specifically for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 05:15 PM
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Small boobs/ass, it usually means they're on the slimmer side (a good thing). Also I despise society's standard that big boobs = attractive because women don't have control over how their body distributes fat. It leads to shit like breast implants.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 05:14 PM
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Wow, you really got me there. Could you tell me where I said divorce rate and dead bedrooms mean women have it easier? Oh right, people have nothing substantial to say against my original comment, so they just keep going off topic. Great as usual. Or perhaps their reading level is just not there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 04:53 PM
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I don't know why people try to use being in a relationship as some kind of gotcha to my point. Divorce rate is like 50% and r/deadroom is a thing. It's always easy to "be in a relationship" if you're ready and willing to settle. I'm not sure how that pertains to the discussion of women having a easier time being valued by society.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:28 AM
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Where did I talk about being average? I was talking about being/becoming "high value". It's much much easier for women than it isfor men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:18 AM
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Not really, why would I care that people I don't find attractive lust over me? In fact that's a bad thing, everyday I go outside I'd be catcalled by random hobos and fear that they might touch me. Also, I'm not a special snowflake. If I find someone attractive, lots of other women probably find them attractive too, I'd be under immense competition to get them to commit to me. I could easily get someone to have sex with tho. I do envy women for how easy their life is. By that I mean how easy it i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 03:56 AM
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It is extremely important. That doesn't make it the only important thing. There are holes in your logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 11:28 PM
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Where did I say looks is the only factor?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:39 PM
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This is BS. Looks are extremely important. Just because they're not the ONLY thing that matter, doesn't mean that they are not extremely important. I wouldn't rent an apartment without a bathroom, and the bathroom is not the only that matters, I still look at the kitchen, living room, etc. But without a bathroom, the chance of me renting it is 0. Unless, the rent is crazyyyy cheap, (maybe like $400/mo) then I might consider compromising. We can observe this with the many physical traits people l…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:22 PM
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Women can work on looks via many ways like staying physically healthy and makeup, style, etc. You can't do much as a man because we are valued differently. For example the main thing is height, if you're short, you're fucked regardless. You can work out and be fit but you'll just appear wider. Not denying that money, fitness, style etc will still help, but it's going to add 1-2 points max.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 02:07 AM
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The truth is the women that pass on a person like this due to height, were never your target market anyway. People I've met who put others down for something they have no control over (like height) are always unpleasant to be around, let alone to be with for the rest of your life. Also, don't conflict the lack of visibility with low value. For example, if you have a good product but literally nobody hears about it and your sale is 0, doesn't make it a bad product. Hell, given enough visibility, …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 06:39 AM
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Something like 70% of men are under 5'10, which is short
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 09:14 PM
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Gym is not just about lifting, there are equipment like cardio machines. I also don't think dieting is just for women. Men who go to gyms watch their macro instake, go through bulk/cut phases, and take supplements.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 07:54 PM
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Probably why the gym population is mostly men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:08 AM
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There isn't. However, those guys will end up committing to a girl of a similar league (fit, rich, educated, feminine, etc). The rest that are shooting way above their league will stay in delusion or "suddenly" realize some of the traits they looked for, now "don't matter" because they've "grown and matured out of it"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:06 AM
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(3). Stay single, work on myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:40 AM
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I don't get friend zoned because I don't put myself in that situation. If someone is not interested why bother wasting your energy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:50 PM
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Here comes the gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:27 PM
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SWE at big tech making just under 200k at 24, it made literally no difference when I finally got to this point. Only difference is it allows me to spend as much on myself as I want, I.e., gym, personal training, hair, fashion, etc. Dating has been grim but I'm exclusively relying on OLD where - you guessed it, career doesn't matter. Also, all my coworkers over 30 are married.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:03 PM
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I'm not denying that some men struggle. Although I'm not sure why their experiences should hold more weight than the plenty of women who say "I dont care as long as they're taller than me" and the plenty of men who say "brah I'm 5'6/5'7 and height has never been a problem for me"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:29 PM
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Which short men's experiences? And why are they more representative of women's preference as a whole? I'm basing my view on what I see/hear in real life, and the thread from today acts as additional evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:22 PM
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I apologize if my comment offended you, I did not mean to speak for other short men, only from my own perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:05 PM
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Rarely anyone has a bio beyond 1-2 lines. 90% of the time it's blank or their Instagram handle, it's like "my beauty will speak for me" vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:51 PM
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Height: Shorter than me (5'7 and below) Income: Dont care as long as she has a "career" not a dead end job, or finishing up a degree. Race: don't care. Body type: slim/fit (matching my fitness leve or close to) House: I will provide Kids: 0 Additionally, <= 5 N count. My stats: M/24/US, 174cm, fit, lean, 190k
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:37 PM
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a) Does the same apply to women who say they care? b) Most of it are probably lies? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:07 PM
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Why would this be bait?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:51 AM
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After reading the women's standards thread, I feel like height isn't as important as I made it out to be
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:40 AM
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