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bittered/r/seduction25/12/10 02:34 AM
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That's not the worst thing. We are humans and rejection hurts most of us. You can definitely work to minimise the feeling but I also wouldn't want to lose it completely.
/r/seduction15/12/16 10:10 AM
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Yeah sure but I tend to agree with Leelluu, if you invited her out to dinner then you should at least offer to pay. A good filter for a gold digger is to say something like: "Now, you can take me to [insert name of bar here] and buy me a drink to say thanks for that awesome free dinner I bought you :)".
/r/seduction18/02/12 10:20 PM
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Exactly, best thing you can say is "I know" and frame it as if she meant it in a sexual way i.e "what we're doing feels so bad/naughty". This is gold, I've used it a couple of times.
/r/seduction14/01/12 09:29 AM
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That is what I face with in Germany. I'm curious, what do you mean by that?
/r/seduction22/03/11 01:13 PM
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Here's another.
/r/seduction21/03/11 12:18 PM
33

Asian penis?
/r/seduction16/03/11 12:37 PM
1

Intelligence and book smarts are two different attributes by the way.
/r/seduction09/03/11 08:14 AM
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I deleted the parent comment to this by accident, here it is: Thanks but could you source your general observations. If at the end of an observation you justified it with a link to a relevant comment(s) then it would be much more useful IMO. At the moment it's difficult to tell how much of the general observations are based on the comments and how much are simply your thoughts but not not necessarily backed up by comments. Both are useful but a distinction would help. Thanks again.
/r/seduction30/11/10 10:56 AM
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Agree 100%! I can spot an American guy a mile off because so many of them wear shirts that are too big for them. A nice fitted shirt that holds it shape is golden. Pay particular attention if you're a skinny or big dude as it can make all the difference.
/r/seduction09/11/10 07:19 AM
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I feel like you're unaware that we've just described the same person :). I'm leaving this thread, it goes nowhere.
/r/seduction07/11/10 11:54 PM
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I find that the smart, secure, successful people don't feel the need to tell other people how smart, secure and successful they are. It's the insecure people with low self-worth that feel the need to tell people how smart, secure and successful they are.
/r/seduction07/11/10 08:42 PM
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Don't assume to know more about something than someone you don't know... it makes you sound like a condescending, self-righteous arrogant, dick; even though you may be correct. I don't mean that as a put-down, I used to do it all the time and I wish somebody had brought it to my attention earlier.
/r/seduction05/11/10 02:51 AM
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He's a man who has no direct experience of female sexuality, of course its related. Anyway it seems now that Fry's quotes were misquotes from a humourous interview (see my earlier comment) so it looks like these aren't his real views anyway.
/r/seduction31/10/10 02:43 PM
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No it's not, it's poorly worded but if it were ad hominem then the fact that he was gay would have to be unrelated to the argument he is presenting.
/r/seduction31/10/10 01:27 PM
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Of all things, I certainly wouldn't call Fry smug. By the way, Fry is now claiming that that the quotes are out of context from a humorous interview: http://twitter.com/#!/stephenfry/status/29275369190
/r/seduction31/10/10 01:18 PM
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I rarely find myself disagreeing with Fry's opinions on anything but this is a big exception. There is definitely something to the fact that women don't overtly desire sex in the same way that men do but that is more to with societal influences and stigma rather then their enjoyment of the physical act of sex. Of course he's entitled to have an opinion on this but I can't help thinking that as he's a gay man his (I assume) lack of practical experience with female sexuality should be considered.
/r/seduction31/10/10 12:43 PM
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Where's that quote from again? Can't remember.
/r/seduction14/10/10 06:34 PM
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Don't know about dinner but if you're grabbing a coffee or sandwich or something then definitely sit on the same side, it encourages her to turn into you and it just feels more conversational.
/r/seduction14/10/10 12:01 PM
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It's her roommate, they have almost definitely talked about this before the coworker gave you her number. Ring her and open with something like English123's line.
/r/seduction23/07/10 07:40 PM
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Yes you're over-thinking it. Go with whichever is more convenient to you.
/r/seduction23/07/10 04:14 PM
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A lot of people (myself included) makes themselves offline on facebook chat, keep that in mind. Also, it's not like you don't know where to find her, she works at the Apple store. If you don't catch her online in two weeks then find a reason to go back to the Apple store.
/r/seduction17/07/10 10:20 PM
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To me, DLVing somebody implies something specific that you did to lower their value so it still sounds like you're saying that you didn't DLV them, you DHV'd yourself. But it doesn't really matter, it's only the definition that we disagree on.
/r/seduction13/06/10 10:46 PM
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Well if saying 'hi' is what you consider DLVing someone, then yeah, you're right. :-/
/r/seduction13/06/10 06:27 PM
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So from what you're saying: you didn't DLV them, you DHV'd yourself.
/r/seduction13/06/10 06:25 PM
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My point remains, it's still not alpha behaviour.
/r/seduction13/06/10 03:26 PM
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I DLV every guy in the room to them. I make them betas. People who intentionally DLV other people for no particular reason tend to do so because of their own insecurities; it's not alpha. Think about it, a real alpha wouldn't feel the need to DLV other guys, he is confident enough with his own value that he doesn't need to try and lower the value of others. All in all, congrats, sounds like you did well.
/r/seduction13/06/10 12:40 PM
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I'm in Cork. What age are you? I'm not 100% sure I want to do this, but drop me a message anyway and we can go from there :).
/r/seduction28/05/10 10:44 AM
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OmniOutliner?
/r/seduction24/05/10 11:24 AM
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Give up, can't see a way out of that one.
/r/seduction25/04/10 11:13 AM
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I upvoted, logged out, logged into my other account and upvoted again… shush don't tell anyone.
/r/seduction23/04/10 09:11 PM
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Bollocks, what a copout. If that's what you think most women are like then you're hanging around too many needy women.
/r/seduction21/04/10 06:06 PM
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This one could go horribly wrong but if it worked... if it worked! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1pdL34jAIjA
/r/seduction21/04/10 04:02 PM
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If she was a dream girl then she would be able to handle it herself and tell him to stop if the flirting got to heavy. Honestly, why do guys think that girls can't handle a bit of flirting?
/r/seduction21/04/10 10:11 AM
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Cool, so how do you broach the topic of sex in a natural way with a person you've just met? Obviously it's a gradual thing but an example conversation would be great.
/r/seduction20/04/10 10:30 PM
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how do you know the other person won't ditch you when your relationship becomes weak? How do you know that in any relationship? It's a judgement call that you have to make. Also, if a relationship is weak then I think it shows character to be able to walk away.
/r/seduction20/04/10 02:33 PM
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That's for each individual person to decide but I figure that if their relationship was strong then you wouldn't stand a chance anyway. So I say go for it!
/r/seduction20/04/10 01:05 PM
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That question seems a bit broad.
/r/seduction11/04/10 06:55 PM
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She said it jokingly according to the OP, so why bother trying to avoid it. Am I missing something, this seems like an asinine topic.
/r/seduction01/04/10 11:07 AM
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Seems like this is turning into a "what do I say in response to x" subreddit. Seriously, there are literally hundreds of possible responses; is this really a sticking point for you? I don't see the point in discussing every conceivable piece of dialog.
/r/seduction01/04/10 08:41 AM
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Good one, you can also pretend to misinterpret the context in which she said it. Her: "We really shouldn't be doing this" You: "I know, this is so bad/naughty" I've used this a few times it works really well, it can even turn the girl on to hear this.
/r/seduction19/03/10 12:00 PM
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To be honest, if I were you then I'd try to forget about girls for a while. I might be wrong but I get the impression that you thought about this girl (and how you were going to play it with her) a lot! If this girl is what your thinking about 24/7 then it's going to hit like bricks when she rejects you. Improve other areas of your life, you say "I jog 3 miles daily. I eat well. I do dress nicely." These are all good of course, but who are you doing this for? Are you doing this for yourself or a…
/r/seduction14/03/10 11:20 PM
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I know absolutely nothing about you but relying on a girl for your happiness is not a good idea, even if she did like you or you were some kind of Don Juan, it's still really unhealthy. You need to find other areas of your life to derive happiness, if you are doing stuff and honestly happy in your life then a girl will come along. Your mental health is whats stopping you getting the girl, not your seduction skills. Just my 2 cents.
/r/seduction14/03/10 10:43 PM
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Can you write a more concise response, I don't have time to respond to each individual point. Here is my argument in two sentences: I'm not saying to do nothing and let him grow up feral (as awesome as that might be), I'm saying to lead by example and teach him to make his own decisions and be responsible for them. Children naturally follow in the steps of a strong role model; a child that has all of his decisions made for him is less likely have the faculties or the confidence to make decisions…
/r/seduction01/03/10 10:11 PM
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I agree, this is the only sensible advice on this thread (besides my earlier advice!!).
/r/seduction01/03/10 01:26 PM
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Bullshit, let him be his own person. If he is confident in himself then none of these matter. Forcing him to do stuff like you've suggested will not encourage him to develop into an alpha personality. An alpha male makes their own decisions, of course as a parent it is always good to set an example when it comes to things like physical fitness, forcing him to do stuff wont work though. What's he going to do when he leaves the real world and Daddy isn't there to make him do stuff? My advice would…
/r/seduction01/03/10 01:21 PM
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And walk over to her straight away otherwise it can get creepy.
/r/seduction01/03/10 08:05 AM
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Good for you dude, I'll be following this post.
/r/seduction25/02/10 07:12 AM
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Well reasoned answer, thanks.
/r/seduction21/02/10 10:49 PM
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The Selfish Gene? Really? This book is about evolution at the level of the gene, if you take away lessons about how and why girls are attracted to guys then you're reading it wrong. It's a great book but I think Dawkins himself would say that he doesn't intend the theory to be extrapolated into Human Behaviour, although you can obviously cherry-pick similarities.
/r/seduction21/02/10 12:47 PM
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