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This is the best post I’ve read in a very long time.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/21 09:43 PM
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Happy for you girl! Keep the rest of us in your prayers.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/21 02:04 PM
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I never once said promiscuous behaviour was happiness. I was referring to finding joy with another person, that’s happiness. You did right by committing but he broke the contract, to stay means you don’t care that he broke the contract. You’re trying to uphold a contract from your end when the contract in some way no longer exists. When one party is out of the business deal, what’s left to uphold?
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/21 10:58 PM
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Purity is not defined by only ever being with one man in your entire life. That's illogical. Purity is when you only ever have sex within marriage. So if you find someone new and end up marrying twice, you're still pure. Even religion teaches this, inclusive of whether you are Jewish, Christian or Muslim. I know you're feeling weak right now. You feel comfortable in this little mess because he's all that's familiar. And your loyalty to a cheater makes you feel like you're "pure" but reality is i…
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/21 08:28 PM
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Hey darl. Fellow Australian here, Victorian actually. I've encountered the exact same issue over the past few years. Story time: A girl was particularly territorial over a man I became close with. We were all in the same uni course so all 3 of us would encounter each other on a regular basis. She became extremely rude, always staring, whispering, making up rumours, asking questions about me to others, getting others to think ill of me, but never once speaking to me directly. I interpreted this a…
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/21 01:20 AM
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Could someone please translate the terminology used here?
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/21 04:25 AM
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It’s the best.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/20 05:19 PM
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So in other words you're only keeping your legs closed to please others and deep down you desire the opposite? Lol ok
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/20 01:10 AM
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I'm not anti RP, it's undeniable that looks matter. Men are visually driven yes and women are emotionally driven, it's a universal law it seems. But it's undeniable that personality, dignity, confidence, and vibe all play massive roles in the outcome you will have with any man. Looks are what attracts them initially but it's who you are as a person and how you conduct yourself that will either keep them long-term or get rid of them after a while. Because another painful reality is that there wil…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 06:41 PM
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Counselling may be helpful. But above all you need some self love and self respect. You sound like you have a desperate vibe which will hinder you even if you had the best body. Most men value personality, dignity and confidence over looks. They also value self restraint over someone who gives their body so easily to a boyfriend. So by all means strive to be fit and healthy but obsessing over your looks is a waste of time
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 06:12 PM
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Verbalise your feelings of being uncomfortable, in a calm and respectful way. You’re not obligated to partake in sexual things that make you uncomfortable. The only downside here though is that you’ll ruin the amount that he trusts / confides in you plus he’ll probably fulfil his kink in other ways such as online or in person with others which will lead to marriage breakdown. I would recommend couples counselling ASAP
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 06:06 PM
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Fun fact: This little jealousy can actually cause him to slip away from you. Alternatively not being jealous can bring him towards you. Cause of jealousy is usually not believing that you're beautiful and feeling threated by someone else's perceived beauty (physically, intellectually, emotionally). Which is silly because him being with you for 4+ years is proof enough that you're beautiful to him.
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/20 08:33 AM
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The fact is that if the men wanted to facilitate marriage, they would have. They didn’t though so they simply didn’t want it. For them to run the second marriage is brought up it means they never loved those women. People can last in a dating relationship for years for things like a comfort zone, loneliness, financial stability, sex, fear of leaving, family pressure, fear of breaking someone’s heart etc. They may have also perhaps been cheating on their girlfriends in that time you never know. A…
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/20 06:09 PM
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Trust cannot be found by trying to outsmart the process by cluey conversations and being “real” to them. No amount of awareness or intuition can educate you on someone until you experience them in a variety of highs/lows in life. And likewise they need to experience you in a variety of highs/lows in life. To be committed to someone who you have zero bond or trust with is barbaric.... you’re basically tying yourself to a stranger in that case and there WILL be surprises later on that you don’t li…
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/20 01:34 PM
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So you’re happy to be exclusive and committed to a person you don’t trust?
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/20 01:22 PM
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Before becoming exclusive get to know them for at least six months minimum. You should never be exclusive with someone unless there is genuine trust between you where you trust him and he trusts you... the thing is that trust takes time and must be earned. You can’t rush the process.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/20 03:07 AM
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He be jelly
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/20 12:34 PM
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Just because you think he has a good heart it doesn't make his actions correct. By all standards he is in the wrong: legally, morally, ethically, religiously, in every way you can think of. Good hearted people don't steal and manipulate others. Stealing harms everyone. It has a domino effect. There are many people in the process from the moment an item is thought up, approved, organised, designed, manufactured, analysed, transported, advertised, delivered..... these are just the bare basics but …
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/20 10:05 PM
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Um RUN. If he’s capable of getting away with ALL OF THIS for YEARS he’s also capable of so many other unlawful things. His justifications are also ridiculous too and hold no weight. He’s manipulated you into thinking it’s okay to steal, lol. He may one day cheat on you and convince you it’s for the greater good. He may one day kill someone and convince you it’s for the greater good. How stupid are you willing to be? Get your ass out of there.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/20 09:48 PM
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Correct! Unfortunately many women enter "damage control" whenever their spouse is mad, due to the woman's low self esteem. Also many women have the misconception that if they don't nose-dive into their partner's problems, that they will be seen as useless or uncaring. Trust me ladies, men are wired differently and desire nothing more than you trusting him to take care of his own and you having some level-headedness enough to identify what's about you and what's not, without insecurity seeping in…
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/20 05:22 AM
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Oh gosh no absolutely do not alter your routine to be there when he comes home. Do your own things, go out and about. He will be fine and so will you. I promise you 💛
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/20 04:45 PM
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Don’t take anything personally. Give him space. Plenty of it. He’ll come to you when he’s ready. Stay aloof doing your own thing and when he’s calm and has come to you that’s when you show him that you're his safe space and you give him affection. Do not chase him, pester him, nag him. Absolutely do NOT call or message him. Do not alter your routine of doing your own thing. He will come to you when he’s ready. Until then, keep your attention 100% off him.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/20 04:36 PM
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Explain
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/20 01:40 AM
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Not only is porn essentially watching other women (and men) fornicating but there is substantial evidence that the vast majority of porn videos depict people with a wide variety of circumstances such as: People who are underage but advertised as 18+ People who have been sex trafficked (both adults and minors) People who are underpaid overworked sex workers People who are only in porn acting because they are in financially tough times and have no other way to make money People who are doing porn …
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/20 02:29 PM
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I hate to inform you of this, but you need to understand that letting go of such a person is more noble and respecting of yourself, than staying. There is nothing self-respecting, inspiring, noble or loyal about staying with someone who clearly doesn't respect you or care about you. He only claims to "love you" because you're the victim here and he's trying to reduce his wrongdoings by at least proclaiming to "love you." If he truly loved you he wouldn't have cheated in the first place. If he tr…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/20 12:38 AM
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You don’t prioritise self care mentally therefore your rest is inadequate and your productivity is inadequate
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/20 12:34 AM
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I don’t have any weekend routine especially in the strict COVID-19 lockdown that exists where I live. Every day is basically the same as the next, regardless of what day of the week it is. Of course it feels good to have a schedule but truth be told, the mental effects of everything going on get in the way and it’s so easy to let things slide without noticing. I wish to pick myself up again and implement routine again... all you ladies have such great ideas on here.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/20 01:07 AM
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This is such a unique and refreshing perspective. I’ve always used weekends as the time to meal plan, shop, meal prep, deep clean the house, wash linen etc for the week ahead... but to flip it and do those things on the weekdays whilst a partner is at work, so both can actually have a relaxing weekend every weekend, girl you’re amazing. I’m doing this from now on!!!
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/20 01:04 AM
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All of you ladies commenting are amazing, so inspirational. I'm lost for words at what some of you have been through. Wishing you all the very best.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/20 05:24 PM
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Obviously the latter
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/20 11:19 AM
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Proud of you!!! If you don't mind me asking what were some specific changes that you implemented, from things that you've learned off this sub? E.g. "Before I did _______ and now I do _________."
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/20 11:52 AM
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The basics have already been said. Here are a few extras, although there are many that could possibly be said: Avoid consumption of raw onion, raw garlic, excessive chilli and similar spices. Not only do these alter the chemicals of your sweat and make you smell funky but consuming these regularly also affect the scent of your breath, the scent of your skin in general, the scent of your clothes, and the scent of your vaginal excretions during/after sexual activities. Men don’t want a woman that …
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/20 11:07 AM
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I just saw your Reddit profile picture, and girl you're stunning. You don't need to be "thic" or with a pristinely sculptured face, to be attractive. You don't need to be perfect to deserve respect. You don't need to fashion yourself into someone you're not, in order to be loved. You don't need to starve or binge in order to be the right size. A truly powerful woman is the one that makes the most of what she is and spends her life spreading her beauty/light to others. The moment you start to com…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/20 06:38 AM
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I cannot upvote this enough, the vibe you give off has far more of an effect than looks ever will, despite looks having their significance. When we change our vibe, we change our life.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/20 02:16 AM
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How someone behaves is a reflection of who they are. By you tweaking what they do, they are not being their true selves and it therefore has no value. For example, if someone is only withholding from liking Instagram models because you tell them to, that doesn't remove their internal desire to nor does it mean they won't find a way to do so in secret. Their action of withholding is not worth much if they're doing it out of fear of you and not on their own accord. In your eyes: "He now respects m…
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/20 12:22 AM
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I'm not OP but I just want to say thank you for this comment, it's very insightful. It's like saying: what is the value of someone doing (or not doing) something, if it's not on their own accord but rather out of fear of us and our reactions? If someone is committing a deal breaker in our eyes, we should leave, instead of forcing them to change. Because if we stay, and try to control someone, they will only end up resenting us and finding a way in secret to do what they want to do. Accept people…
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/20 12:14 AM
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Off topic but what anti-ageing product are you taking? Is it similar to retinol?
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/20 12:10 AM
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Fitness and skincare are important in all stages of life. So children should be introduced to it from a young age. The key is incorporating age-appropriate versions. For example, a 6 year old should know to always wear sunscreen in the sun, and that it’s important to play outside a little every day. A 10 year old should be encouraged to have at least one extracurricular activity that is physically engaging providing that they enjoy it, such as ballet classes, soccer, etc. And so on and so forth.…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 01:10 PM
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Omg cut ties with him and make him suffer. Know your worth!
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/20 02:55 AM
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Could you tell us your favourite anti ageing Korean skin product and which website you purchase it from? Thanks
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/20 11:51 PM
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This quote should be framed and put on the walls of the homes of every woman holy shit, best advice I’ve ever seen on here in a long time
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/19 08:16 AM
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With all due respect this comes off as a little too excited in my opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/19 05:59 AM
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I would give you gold but I’m broke. Someone please give this person gold!!!!! This comment should be universal knowledge and would save so so many relationships plus prevent so many cases of cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 04:48 AM
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