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Ask Red Pillbitzin/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 01:05 PM
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Women always imagine a rich/attractive guy when giving advice. "Just ask her out". Works well if you're a top class man.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 02:09 PM
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She comes across as an attractive women who has great privilege in life because of it.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 02:07 PM
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You can also tell when someone wants to get away from you as they position their body pointing away, as an indication of wanting to leave.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 02:18 AM
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You may be right. I googled it. It was on an international pay tv station and that looks right. Its not a show i've seen multiple times. Watching it made me actually angry. But what was worse was my girlfriends reaction to it and how whenever it suits women they place men in the 'worker bot' role.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 02:15 AM
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It doesn't matter if they don't care is the point. Most leaders, true high level leaders are people who give great value. They often give advice and will go out of their way to help others. This is not necessarily a pathetic nice guy trait but some people are strong value givers. We shouldn't give the impression that to be alpha you shouldn't help people but rather you shouldn't help people for the requirement of return on your investment. "I'll be nice to her so she'll sleep with me" is very ni…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 06:08 AM
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Personally the first two are also signs of high level men. High level men give and take care. They are leaders and will help people solve their problems and guide them. Often if you put yourself in the situation of "Hey I can fix this" then you aren't perceived as weak or pathetic, rather useful and strong. The people who don't help others or provide any value are often the ones who are the 'nice guys' who stand back and smile.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 06:07 AM
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The point is they haven't learned from it. You see it again and again with nice guys, get fucked over and friendzoned and act the exact same way for round two then wonder why the results don't change.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 06:05 AM
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People who can't do will pick on you for working out and point negative criticism at small aspects of it.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 06:03 AM
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Whats amazing is that she won't feel guilty over it. I recently had a discussion with a group of friends about a television show in which a women birthed a black baby (to a white mother and father) and the father of course stayed with her. It was of course a ridiculous female propaganda show that I was watching with my girlfriend, but I could not believe how much it pandered to their needs. The guy realized 'he truly loved her' and stayed despite her 'mistake'. The thing enraging to me is when I…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 01:29 AM
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She isn't sad because she has hurt her man but she is sad that she finally realizes that she is a horrible person Women can not handle 'being in the wrong' despite the fact they are clearly in the wrong. Holding a grudge against them is what they hate most.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 01:25 AM
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There is absolutely a class of women though who don't do this, they swing from LTR to LTR and try and nab a guy to marry them asap. I know plenty of women who are goal focused on marriage at 20 years old.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 02:51 AM
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Im not going to hate on her, she knows what she wants and shes being honest and upfront about it. I struggle to stay in relationships because I miss being single. Im very open and honest about this fact to my partners.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 02:43 AM
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if TRP wasn't mentioned in every 'bitch about reddit' thread it would dramatically reduce its subscriber count.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 02:20 AM
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Its probably more of a move to get women into reddit to balance out the predominant male viewpoint in here.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 02:18 AM
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I don't understand the process of deciding which subreddit gets made default. For a while r/atheism was default and you can bet that converted millions of christians and generally did awesome things for the world.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 02:17 AM
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It is mostly oneitis. On the "i've known this girl forever how do I get her?!" There are sometimes that you ask about specific behavioral traits in women not only because you MUST HAVE that particular woman, but because you like her and you can learn as a whole from the tips. I've had women that i've tried to get with before that learning specific methods on how to work them and them alone have been hugely helpful. But unfortunately there is a fine line between interest and oneitis. Oneitis is c…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 11:41 AM
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Its hard as men when they outright lie to us. We usually think that lying is something which people are obvious when they do, but its usually small facts, half stories and misleading truths. They will tell you half the lie.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 11:06 PM
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I find most will tell the truth as long as you phrase it like you don't care, as said above. If they see you as strong and in charge it goes with your image anyway that shit like that wouldn't bother you. For some reason women are under the impression that desirable men don't care at all about sexual history.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 01:17 PM
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People don't care as long as you hold frame and don't apologize. The second you become apologetic for behavior is when you lose out.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 02:51 AM
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People want to believe that the world is idealistic and women love them for who they are. Yet if you probe them 99% of people will find the typical shit, women come with success and leave with failure.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 02:50 AM
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I don't understand this educate the underprivileged garbage. We should be supporting the brightest students. The higher grades you get in school and college = the cheaper your degree should be.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 01:56 AM
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When I was younger I used to say outright offensive things. I had no social concept of what it was like to be nice. I said what I thought and didn't give a fuck. Surprisingly people never really held me to any of my comments or absurdly offensive opinions. Thinking back to some of the things 20 year old me would say I am really surprised I got away with it.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 01:53 AM
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So typical nice guy, has trouble in relationships, probably rich, this poor women decided she wants true love and settles down with him. I'm sure it will go well for both of them and neither will cheat on the other.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 04:22 PM
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This is a good comment. I think thats why some men just do not enjoy having a girlfriend sometimes. The more 'parental' guys who want a family do rather enjoy the concept of managing another human being.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 11:54 AM
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WHAT ABOUT UNATTRACTIVE WOMEN, THEY HAVE IT BAD TOO!!! The difference is what I call the 'unattractive threshhold'. As a guy this threshold is about a 6.5/10. If you're a 6.5 you can expect to get next to no overt interest from the opposite gender. If you're a woman, this threshold is probably close to 4/10. Thats the point they start to fall below most peoples datable ranges. A 6.5/10 woman on looks would still be getting plenty of attraction.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 06:09 AM
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Exactly. In prehistoric times looks of men don't mean shit (well actually they kind of do), the looks women find attractive, tall, muscular, strong, fit. Why? they can best protect them. They really don't give a shit about groomed or slim guys. Women are mostly attracted to big strong men. Men on the other hand, want youthful women that can bear their children. the reason they find 19 year olds attractive is because 19 year olds are fertile. Men are basically attracted to all the traits that dep…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 05:25 AM
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Banging isn't the sole metric of success in life.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 12:53 PM
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I know plenty of highly successful fat people in business while I know plenty of fit 'personal trainers' that are broke. It doesn't always apply
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 07:27 AM
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Women don't have 'male friends'. They have male friends+. Meaning that the guy is super nice to them, hits on them, goes out of his way to be near them and try and sleep with them, buys them things, drives them places etc. We've all seen it. The thing i'm not sure of is do women think this behavior is genuine friendship or do they just not know the difference? There is generally two types of friendzone in my view. The "I'm not interested at all, you disgust me" friendzone and the "I might have a…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 05:49 AM
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Women never consider 'being alone'. For a man, being alone is having no female interest. Most men can go years without any direct female interest if they initiate. For women being alone is simply deciding not to date the guys who are interested in them. They have this life plan or timeline because they know all they have to do is say "yes, this guy!"
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 05:14 AM
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The pre-emptive friendzone isn't necessarily a beta-play. In fact, you can really mess with a girls head if you are sending her mixed messages whilst declaring her friendship status. Girls get mega pissy if they think you're friendzoning them. They absolutely cannot tolerate it.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 01:48 AM
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I agree they're very entitled too. You do often see 9s getting with attractive/rich men. 7s, not so much.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 11:42 PM
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They sound like a terrible couple and probably should break up. But I can 'kind of' understand her logic in trying to downgrade to a guy who will accept her. I know TRP is all about finding the best, but most of the time I just don't want to deal with 8s and 9s incredible high standards that I don't want to live up too. Id much rather a 7 who is less of a headcase and easier to please. All high value people are high maintenance.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 09:22 AM
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Freak out and downright deny it. Most women would outright deny that they marry provider men. I've had several women mention "that doesn't happen". Its also a mechanism of self protection, if they acknowledge the guy is just giving them a lifestyle and they're giving up sex for it they feel like whores.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 08:12 AM
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Yep. This is entirely true. Women will resort to violence regularly. I wouldn't say all my girlfriends do it but atleast half would slap you over the face or aggressively on the shoulder if they're not getting what they want. I never hit them back. But I did dump them very quickly.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 05:25 AM
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Thats very true. The closer you are to completion or a higher pay grade the more likely they are to come. Also the more evidence you show you can actually do it the more likely they are to come. Someone with a degree is just that, someone with a degree until they show long term potential of actual earning capacity. I'm sure if a guy was 100% certain he would get a multi million dollar inheritance in 5 years and women knew this they would stay as its certain. But maybe not for 50% certainty.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 02:11 AM
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Its entirely true. If you're a good supporter your entire life, but at age 45 you find yourself unable to work I'm willing to bet the woman of the house will quickly be on her way. If you're a good boyfriend but are going through a rough or difficult patch in your life in which you become distant, preoccupied or worst of all, sad, you can be willing to bet your girlfriend will leave you in an instant. I don't entirely agree with the notion women won't seek out future benefit. A friend of mine re…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 04:08 PM
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How many women aged 20-25 do you know with 8 or fewer partners. I'm betting none. Most have 15-20 by that age if not way way more.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 04:00 PM
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I feel so bad for that guy. Shes insane
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 04:50 PM
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Being a virgin is not good, but a women in the range of more than 1 and less than 8 assuming she's under 25 is quite good as a whole. That shows shes experienced enough to date but not into sleeping with a new guy every week.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 04:47 PM
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The answer to this is simple, don't get married, don't have kids. I just solved the problem. I'm entirely happy to live with that.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 04:43 PM
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Fact: Women who engage in casual sex set higher standards on their new boy-toy than they place on men considered relationship potential. This is actually true. Because they go after alpha fucks who they may not be able to land for a long term relationship. Myth: Women who have a lot of sex have low self-esteem or self worth From personal experience this does tend to be slightly true. Women who are engaging in hyper sexuality tend to have very low self worth at that point. That may be different f…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 10:33 AM
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Most of us have been that guy. The most cringeworthy bit of the whole topic for me is the pathetic beta love text messages. Fuck I hate 19 year old me who used to do that shit. I cringe even thinking about it.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 08:36 AM
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I have no idea what point you're trying to produce. My point was that the 'sexual openness' of modern women has no benefit for a high majority of men and is actually to their detriment. So don't be sucked into feminist propaganda about being entirely open about sexual history.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 06:09 AM
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The numbers were just a theoretical example. Of course its different people in the club night in night out, different women, different men but the rules are still the same. The women are sleeping with the top men, while the rest of the men are not getting laid and being forced into relationships with women who have then slept around.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 05:47 AM
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Its quite easy to understand why. As a man you have to chase women, so basically any women you can get you are going to try and obtain. But women have a lot of choice. I'm sure its a novelty for them in their early years as an adult as they at any given time usually have 5 or more options of which man to pick and they start to realize "He has a car that can drive me places but he doesn't, which would benefit me more?". This quickly moves to "He has a house and he doesn't", "He has an extremely h…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 03:16 AM
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Exactly. They're not funny in that they're making a good joke. They're funny in that they use sarcasm as a tool to put down others. I very rarely find women who have a sense of humor, they either put down others or they ruin a joke with continuing it on.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 02:32 AM
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Not to disagree with him entirely but I don't see it that way. I don't think women think men are 'in paradise' and we love our role. I just think it suits them to have us in our role so they don't want to see that change and their standard of life reduced. If their man is unhappy then he might leave them, taking with him his resources, his affection and his support. That is the reason they hate to hear how unhappy their men may be. I know very few men over 40 who I would deem happy in their marr…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 02:24 AM
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Conversation with most women is like a chore. Strangely I find conversation with women who are interested in you to be somewhat fullfilling and easy. Its like a switch. Most young men think women are like themselves, they try and explain their interests, they try and get them to see what the 'right' thing is in situations. It takes a lot of wisdom to realize women rarely have interests and they absolutely have no honour. Thats not to say they're cruel and heartless but they will look out for the…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 11:08 AM
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This is great if you then show them attention other times to pull them in when it suits you. If you continue to ignore them you will not have success.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 03:28 AM
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They're teasing that men are afraid to give them what they want.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 11:19 AM
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The best way poker relates to reality is how it operates in the realm of showing strength and bluffing. In poker if you show weakness people will beat you when you should have won, they will aggressively bet against you and you will lose. In real life its no different, there are plenty of situations which you should 'win the pot' but instead you lack confidence, lack drive and fold against perceived risks and lack of confidence. The strong players in poker are decisive, they read situations and …
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 06:22 AM
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Its fairly simple, if you reject me at any point and change your mind later I'm no longer interested. I don't want a woman that settled for me or changed her mind about me. If I wasn't good enough for you then you're not good enough for me now.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 06:17 AM
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This thread is asking what they want. I know women play games in which they flirt but don't actually seek to escalate, I don't like playing those games. I was curious what we should do in those situations. I prefer not to waste my time and energy.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 02:30 PM
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Right, so if women flirt with us what do we do
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 02:24 PM
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Actually it's quite the opposite. Females typically only seek validation from men that they think are out of their league, beta followers or future prospects that they are shit testing. A girl will rarely seek validation from a man that she considers alpha, unless you lose your frame. Isn't that contradictory?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 02:10 PM
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Right. So how do you differentiate between flirting as in 'I'm interested' and flirting as in 'I want attention from you'. I really cannot tell the difference. To say all flirting shows uninterest is simply not true. Plenty of women over the years have flirted directly with me to show interest
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 02:09 PM
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Ive always assumed that too. Validation/Attention. At least it means you're viewed as a higher grade male, but flirting for those reasons is frustrating none the less.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 01:54 PM
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Oneitis is probably the most destructive thing built into young men by the 'system' that makes their dating life impossible. When they're focused on that one they ignore the ones that there could be. The second you start fantasizing about a woman you are gone, you've lost game, you're acting pathetic, you're going to not succeed. If I find myself lusting after a particular woman I move the fuck on. If she starts to get into my head I know I have very little chance.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 03:07 PM
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I don't even think it relates to them being 'special', the more 'special' you make women feel the less they respect you, the value of your commitment is that its valuable. That others want it, yet they achieved it. The most valuable thing you can give them is their friends going "I would marry him". They value your commitment because you are high value and thats giving them what they want. Commitment from a guy they don't want is worthless, women live in an abundance world there is plenty of com…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 03:01 PM
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The irony is short guys can't do anything to change it, fat people can improve their circumstance.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 02:54 PM
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Yes. These guys are naturally extremely beta. I've seen them date really sub par women and those women eventually dump them! It blows my mind. I'm talking guys you look at the couple and think "Why on earth is he with her"
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 06:02 AM
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Exactly. If as a man of authority you told them they'd listen. But as an average frustrated chap you told them that they'd ignore you.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 05:58 AM
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They shoot for the best they can find and if they can't get the best then they shoot for the best in their league. Woman that know they're a 6/10 also know they are unlikely to get the best of the alphas. So they target other mates, the best in that particular community of men or a man significantly higher than they are SMV wise.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 05:57 AM
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If you swapped this around with the average guy being a millionaire and talking about owning a private jet and I'm willing to bet the advantage would swing in his favor.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 05:55 AM
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Its an extreme bell curve that drops off significantly below about the top 35%
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 05:54 AM
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I'd be willing to bet that if you took a 9/10 woman and a 6/10 woman their matches and messages would be fairly similar to one another. Guys are desperate for any woman as long she's not ugly.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 05:53 AM
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Its true that most people talk about boring irrelevant things. Smart people typically don't care what their acquaintances best friend thinks of a certain type of food. Or which city their second cousin went too for a weekend holiday. It just has no relevance to them and they find most shit people talk about so pointless they just avoid socializing. There does seem to be a correlation between intelligence and a lack of physical fitness. I don't know why and its not people posing as intelligent be…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 10:23 AM
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Some people would just prefer to avoid trouble by being submissive than looking strong. It is a sign of weakness and usually ends up getting you in more trouble than if you just stood up for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 09:08 AM
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There is a few situations that apologizing can work well for you. But generally people use it when they didn't even do anything at all wrong.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 03:24 AM
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It may be true for women seeking men but its certainly not true for the reverse. If you find any 6-7/10 woman you will find swarms of guys circling waiting for any chance they get. Most 6-7/10 guys get absolutely no attention unless they initiate.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 01:39 AM
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She wants to ride the carousel. There is no reason to leave this guy unless you want to sleep around. All she'll get is an alpha who will mistreat her.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 01:36 AM
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It depends on the women. The 'high class' women who get all the attention are usually hated by the moderate value women who are jealous of this attention. But there are some even lower value women who form bonds with them and get to be the 'ugly friends'
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 12:58 AM
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Its common for women who have lost respect for you to start trying to justify other methods of escaping relationships, suddenly they 'feel distant' 'there is no spark' 'it doesn't feel right anymore'. Its bascially hamster for this is done and i'm no longer attracted to you.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 01:11 PM
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