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Why did I read this in Undead Chronic's voice?
/r/TheRedPill29/12/23 05:05 AM
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This. Am 38, but a few nights back I was out with these Asian girls from the place I was staying on holiday, and they both thought I was 28-29 before I told them. Then the next day I was asked for I.D at a liquor store. In my country, the rule is that if you're only supposed to ask them for I.D if they look under 25.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/23 12:05 AM
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Blue pill advice is so popular because it benefits: a) The government b) Corporations
/r/TheRedPill04/01/23 01:45 AM
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Many Latin girls?
/r/RPChristians03/11/22 02:43 AM
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I don't recall that part- I'd have to go back and find it.
/r/RPChristians27/10/22 11:58 PM
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I'm of the view a single man should primarily go to a church that provides a community for him and encourages him to reach a new level of spiritual maturity. At the same time, if there are no female dating prospects there, then he should keep looking.
/r/RPChristians21/10/22 11:40 PM
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> It is often nuclear and every girl in the church sees the rejection. Obviously this is the opposite of pre-selection, and other women that may have considered this guy that was rejected by one of them no longer consider him a viable date, even in the event his SMV is high enoug to secure a date with them normally. YES. It's like- she'd better say yes, or else people will suspect you just come to church to try and pick up women. It's almost like being rejected is an unspoken sign of ungodliness…
/r/RPChristians21/10/22 12:04 PM
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I have a copy but haven't read it in probably a decade. What parts did you consider relatively ungodly?
/r/RPChristians21/10/22 11:39 AM
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This guy was a friend of a friend. So unfortunately I didn't hear the story from the horses mouth (so to speak). But my mate reckons this guy telling the story back to him was like WTF man? He seriously couldn't understand why she chased him out. He was the textbook coomer though, so there's that.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/22 12:04 PM
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It doesn’t mean just whip your junk out. I know that. I was expanding on the comment u/poopstainonscarf posted in case some sperg thinks literally all he has to do is get invited back by some girl then it's on.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/22 04:03 AM
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I don't know about this one. I heard the story of a mutual friend years ago who got invited back for coffee by this Japanese girl he met at a party. At her place she was in the kitchen putting the kettle on and this guy figured he'd get straight to it and flopped his dick out while sitting on the couch. When the girl came back into the living room and saw him she screamed and chased him out of the house with a knife.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/22 02:36 AM
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Ignore him. If you see his earlier posts here, all he does is gaslight and argue in bad faith.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/22 02:13 PM
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I say this because that’s what helped me, yes men have to be strong but we’re humans love goes a long way man. When I was deep in my anger phase I randomly met a pastor at the gym that just listened to me vent and rage my darkest thoughts and hatred towards women, no judgement, no insult and slowly started helping me come around. I’m not perfect but I can definitely say I’m far less unhinged than I was before and I think that approach can help a lot of men. This paragraph here is a big part of t…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/22 03:02 PM
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i still like to get laid, it's still fun to sometimes bang some random, cute girl just to stroke my ego a little, but, ultimately, just how a top voted comment stated 'we want femininity too' and as you get older, you crave this more than actual sex. This 100% I rarely see girls who I inherently feel any kind of strong feelings for, these days. If they lack that feminine quality then sex just feels like a glorified masturbatory session. Sex without that carnal desire is like words without feelin…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/22 02:54 PM
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God was telling me that by posting on reddit you are submitting to Satan. Logoff, buddy.
/r/RPChristians31/03/22 06:41 AM
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I think more in terms of "Looking back on my life 10 years from now, what kind of guy would I be proud of? What kind of father figure do I want to be to my future sons/ daughters and what kind of man is that compared to who I am now?"
/r/TheRedPill24/03/22 04:37 AM
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I read that comment a while back. Sure, if you smoke weed daily then I'm not surprised progress would be zero. But if you save it for when you've had a productive week or reached a milestone, big difference. Same thing as drinking.
/r/RPChristians24/02/22 06:40 AM
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Great post, and a recommended read for inexperienced guys/ guys in a drought who imagine that having a bunch of broads on rotation is going to fix everything. Reminds me of finding easy access to weed again, after having only smoked again recently for the first time in 4 years. That first time I got high after 4 years was amazing. Then I spent a month or so trying to find a regular contact and- nothing. It was the bane of my existence. I just wanted to toke up every so often and enjoy a movie/ w…
/r/RPChristians23/02/22 10:26 AM
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Saved this post for later reading. Re #4- I am mid 30's, usually mistaken for being mid/ late 20's. 6'1. 76kg. Deadlift 160kg, squat 120kg. Been referred to as extroverted by enough different people over time that I've actually come to believe it myself. BUT- the amount of girls I am genuinely attracted to (i.e, who actually resonated with me) has never been very large at all, even in adolescence. There are girls at church I'd like to get to know better, but they hang around with the young adult…
/r/RPChristians16/02/22 06:15 AM
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A timely post. I'm even wary about opening up to the friends/ mentors in my life. I don't want to lose my standing in their eyes. Sometimes there is no option but to speak to my mother about certain things, and even then I don't do it on a whim. I am aware that there will come a day where she is not around, by which time I hope to be even stronger than I am now and able to shoulder greater burdens.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/22 02:24 AM
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I'm sure none of the guys laughing and going > LOLZ da wimmin are so stooopid those bitches got what they deserved! ever paid a Troy Francis or a JMLUV or a Jack Murphy to teach them how to bang chicks or be a real man. Because that would be the definition of irony...
/r/TheRedPill06/02/22 11:56 AM
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After reading this post I went and watched it. The main girl in the doco only ever mentions her mother, which makes me wonder what kind of presence her father had in her life? Because a good father/ male mentor figure probably would've drilled more sense into her than to fall for a smooth talking con-man, or at least intervened earlier and told the snake to hit the road. Obviously being brought up on a diet of Disney romance is a red flag. If you believe the animated fairytales you watch on repe…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/22 11:46 AM
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"Me, cultured? I've got culture coming outta my ass!" - Also Freddy
/r/TheRedPill06/02/22 11:37 AM
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Her obligation is to meet your needs, as your wife. If she's not going to meet them, she needs to know you could get them met elsewhere. I'm not suggesting you go sleep with other women, but she has to know that you're capable. The problem with so much of the modern church is that it churns out young men who think they can earn their way to the kind of sex life they want just through being Godly.
/r/RPChristians28/01/22 12:40 PM
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She saw that other women were attracted to you and wanted to make sure you wouldn’t go back to them (jealousy). I remember one night at the uni bar, 15 minutes before closing I was just dancing casually on the floor, chick comes up and makes herself available, we start dancing close, I go in for the bump and grind to see how keen she is and she immediately tries to bite me. I ask if she wants to get out of here and go back to mine and like that we left together. Later on she told me she started …
/r/TheRedPill24/01/22 07:27 AM
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This is why I miss my younger years when I had a bigger crew to go out with. Going up to a girl with my friends watching made it so much more fun, plus if she had friends with her you could take wingmen. Going out solo it just isn't the same. Like you could approach a girl and get a good result, but it's not near as fun...
/r/TheRedPill22/01/22 09:24 AM
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If she drops the IHAB, I pause for a beat and then go "Oh right- and he doesn't let you talk to other people does he?" Say it with a slightly confused look on your face, which suggests that girls with boyfriends usually let you go further with them. It also suggests that her b/f has her whipped and will make her want to reassert that she's an independent woman. If anything else, in my experience the girl at least always laughs and smiles.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/22 09:19 AM
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I highly recommend a book called 'How To Talk To Anyone' by Leill Lowndes. Bought it 15 years ago from a bookstore (just based on the title) and it's full of helpful advice that'll make you a more memorable communicator with everybody.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/22 09:15 AM
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Jack Murphy? Lol. Cuck. SLIP AND SLIDE!
/r/TheRedPill22/01/22 08:14 AM
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Nah it's a BLM facemask to further remind Tyrone that he is an ally
/r/TheRedPill21/01/22 12:50 AM
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> In a dystopian way, he will be banned from all social networks, you wont be able to even write his name in the Internet. What do you mean? Your post (and mine) both mentioned Trump. In fact, Trump is literals one of the most talked about people online.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/22 12:27 AM
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That would be Borat's sister. She is #4 prostitute in all of Kazahkstan.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/21 12:12 AM
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The American version of 'Fever Pitch' does a great job at portraying the cunty friend. One of Lindsay (Drew Barrymore's) BFF's is constantly undermining her relationship with Ben (Jimmy Fallon) behind his back, going on about "Why has he been single all this time- there's got to be something suss about him" etc etc. Then one day Lindsay and her other friends are all at the gym doing boxercise just after Lindsay had this fight with Ben. The cunty friend is hitting a punching bag, again trying to …
/r/TheRedPill28/08/21 12:49 AM
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I see a lot of 'hot, but not sexy' girls at the gym. A lot of girls who are models fall into this category as well. I have also known a fair few girls who if you just knew them by their photos, you would think were pretty and that was it, but if you meet them soon the idea of being sexual with them feels exciting and a road you want to lead them down. I have also found that if a girl looks at you while you're talking, making long eye contact and not saying anything, or if she plays with her hair…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/21 11:22 PM
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When I go for a walk, I say hi to every person I cross paths with (within reason, if it's a busy footpath you would just look ridiculous). When it becomes second nature to do this with most everybody you see, it's not such a big deal to do it with girls who happen to be abnormally attractive.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/21 11:46 AM
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I, too, remember that first person shot of the 3 girls all tending to his knob at once...
/r/TheRedPill02/07/21 09:43 AM
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I'm in better physical/ emotional and financial state in my 30's than ever before but I miss the amount of opportunities I had in my teens and 20's through social game. My social circles were much bigger back then and so even if my game/ understanding of how the game works wasn't anywhere near what it is now, I had way more opportunities with the kind of girls I still find attractive. Except their social circles now comprise people also in their 20's and that isn't me. On the one hand, I'm glad …
/r/TheRedPill16/06/21 02:12 AM
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Ah yeah. I remember one such 'moment' It was 5 years ago and I saw this girl at the university bar one night, Ethiopian and gorgeous (Google search 'Ethiopian girls' and you'll get an idea of what she looked like). I told her I loved what she'd done with her hair and her whole face lit up + stroked my hand. Then I was off with my friends. I saw her at a glance later that night with some other friends of hers but that was it. For the next couple of months I wondered if I'd see her on campus again…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/21 12:36 PM
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Yeah, or in other words- An incel/ beta talks to a girl they find attractive and they're thinking "I hope she likes me" Whereas Chad talks to a girl he finds attractive and he's thinking "I hope talking to her is enjoyable for me. If not, next please".
/r/TheRedPill14/06/21 07:43 AM
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What do you mean by barely trying? Could you explain how you define this a bit more?
/r/TheRedPill14/06/21 05:36 AM
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I found that lifting ties in with conquering approach anxiety. In some ways it is very similar: 1) You see the weighted bar all set up/ a girl who is right up your alley 2) The temptation is to procrastinate because you're wondering if you can pick that/ her up 3) You overcome the temptation, count to 3 and instead of worrying about whether you can manage to lift the weight or not/ whether you're going to get rejected or not, you lift the bar off the ground/ go talk to the girl and ignore how yo…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/21 05:32 AM
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Bingo, and explains why I've nearly always had a great strike rate at weddings- I'm suited up, looking sharp, in full on 'party mode' and to the girls, it's clear I'm somebody worth getting to know...
/r/TheRedPill03/06/21 08:41 AM
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> I was afraid people would find out I was a balding fraud when I wore hats Pep Guardiola, is that you? Seriously though- during my early 20's I was in an experimental stage of my life and I shaved my head just because why not? The funny thing was just as many people liked it as people liked my hair when I grew it down to my shoulders. I had older women I knew gushing over it too, even ones who'd never shown any sign of interest. My hairline isn't what it once was, but I don't fear shaving it ba…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/21 01:45 PM
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"You can't put new wine into old wineskins, otherwise the wineskins will burst. Instead, you must put new wine into the new wineskins". I paraphrase, somewhat.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 11:55 AM
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Likewise, a girl you see on a dating app who looks attractive but nothing special from her pictures, can have certain mannerisms or personality traits IRL that would have you thinking she was sexy as hell.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/21 03:04 AM
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I have a hardcover copy of this book with all the relevant passages highlighted. It's one of my go-to's for revision because it's full of gems like this.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/21 01:54 AM
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Or Bill Hicks
/r/TheRedPill20/04/21 12:45 AM
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> that no matter what you believe your flaws are, there are girls out there that will sleep with you. This also works the other way around: No matter how many strengths you believe you have, there are girls out there that still won't sleep with you.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/21 05:24 AM
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See u/destraht's post above, because it explains my thoughts.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/21 05:53 AM
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I remember this girl I knew some years back. She was the shy, demure type. We were sitting at a bench and I was chatting about something when she goes "You talk a lot, don't you?" Me: "Yeah, well you're a good listener. And I know it doesn't bother you otherwise you wouldn't have had a little smile when you said it just then". She gave this little laugh through her nose, looked downwards and smiled, going slightly red in the process.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/21 02:07 AM
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There's a difference between a shit-test and rudeness. Sam was straight up rude and I would've called it out straight away or walked away- unless I was legitimately enjoying conversing with her friend/s in which case I would've focused entirely on them and ignored Sam.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/21 02:04 AM
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Yeah I'm more of a night-owl. I set no alarm unless I have to, otherwise I keep my blinds open at night and wake up with the sun. I prefer going to the gym in the evening/ later at night when it's less crowded. I'd love to see OP take a look around my gym at 9pm on a weeknight and tell me the guys and chicks there are "average"
/r/TheRedPill11/03/21 04:45 AM
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Auth-right guys attract lib-left chicks like moths to a flame
/r/TheRedPill11/03/21 04:37 AM
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When I think of polarisation, I think of an old friend of mine. He's well built, dark eyes, the brooding type. He has a bit of the Colin Farrell/ Christian Bale/ Matt Dillon look to him. And how girls respond to him pretty much always falls into one of two categories: a) They think he's too much/ kind of creepy and don't get what any girl sees in him b) They think he's sexy, they want his d and they keep hitting him up for more
/r/TheRedPill11/03/21 04:27 AM
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It does sound like Jay from 'Inbetweeners' bragging about all these fit birds he's apparently nailed that his mates have conveniently never met...
/r/TheRedPill10/03/21 08:14 AM
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Men fantasise about sex with two women because the idea of getting to have two women at the same time is hot. Women also fantasise about having sex with a man and another woman- so she's got somebody to talk to when he falls asleep after it's done.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/21 12:34 AM
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I've written about screwing girls before via text/ messenger and was told I should write chick porn. This may well be worth looking into...
/r/TheRedPill30/01/21 01:33 PM
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Good post. I used to wonder why I had this 'reputation' amongst my friends and why girls I was seeing/ tuning would make comments along the lines of "I bet you do this a lot" It felt strange because I never considered myself (and never have considered myself) a 'player'. I wasn't one of these guys who looked to chat up x amount of chicks every day , nor did I consciously implement what I thought of as 'game' What WAS the case (I now realise) is that I was an above-average looking guy (over 6", g…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/21 12:58 AM
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Where is Undead Chronic these days? His YT channel got taken down ages ago...
/r/TheRedPill24/01/21 04:14 AM
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Yeah, there are a few situations I looked back on wistfully years later, lamenting on how I missed out and if only I could get another shot... But then I'd remember what I was like at the time and how I would've felt when it (inevitably) was over and you know what? It was for the better that nothing happened. I had to focus on myself first and foremost before worrying about some girl.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/21 10:42 PM
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Jennifer Lawrence was that girl all my friends thought was the bees knees back around 2013-14 and I never understood what the big deal was? Not a humble brag, but there have been girls I hooked that my friends were all going on about and I would be thinking "Yeah she's cool enough, but the way you guys are going on about her is silly"
/r/TheRedPill22/01/21 11:22 AM
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Bingo. Been learning Spanish for a few years now, practising even on the nights when I didn't want to just to get it over with. But I'll be so glad I did when it gets me in the door with a hot Latin bird who appears with no warning whatsoever.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/21 02:27 PM
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always be meeting new people, always be building new connections and relationships and networks… And then fucking profit. Because the majority of the world are socially awkward losers… So if you develop your game and your charisma to expert level, you might be amazed what the universe has in store for you. Amen. And don't worry about fucking it up a bunch of times. Nobody becomes a master of it without failing, and even the best don't get what they want every time.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/21 02:26 PM
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Trump is Goldstein, any claim of election fraud is a baseless accusation and we have always been at war with Eastasia.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/21 02:20 PM
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- You can't throw your arms around a memory. No matter how much you enjoyed those "good old days", the company of those friends you were once tight with or those girls you used to have a thing with, they aren't coming back. Stop pining for what is drifting further and further into the past and start thinking about what you need to do to attract equally good, even greater times/ friends/ girls into your life NOW. - The Rule of 27- you may well have to fail 26 times in a row for success at last on…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/21 02:05 PM
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Yeah stuff that. I only go for what I want. Life is too short to waste it with mediocre girls that don't appeal to me sexually.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/21 12:51 PM
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Amen. There have been girls who I went home with, but (for whatever reason) the thought of sex with them just didn't appeal so I bailed and truly didn't care if I left them behind going WTF? Likewise, there have been girls I've met who've asked if I wanted to hang out and while at first I wasn't really attracted to them, once we met up there was amazing physical chemistry and I ended up thinking they were sexy.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/21 12:38 PM
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That's the thing. Like if I look at the pics of her and I chatting from my 18th birthday, Shannon is gorgeous while I look like your typical fresh-faced, boyish kidult with crazy Billy Idol hair... And yet while (hypothetically) if today Shannon was DTF I'd probably still say yes, it'd be more for old-times' sake than anything else. Based on the fleeting couple of seconds I saw her, she's still attractive, but not to the extent you'd point at her photo on the wall and chant MILF! MILF! MILF! I k…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/20 11:47 AM
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Was more like- me and this girl used to hang out, I was into in her, heard from her friends she was interested in me (and looking back I missed the signs) combined with the fact I was too much of a pussy to act I take it you missed this part?
/r/TheRedPill21/12/20 04:12 AM
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That's it, isn't it? And the thing is, if I'd read that a week ago while I would've nodded and totally agreed with you, I didn't fully comprehend this for myself until yesterday- hence why I wrote this post to begin with.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/20 04:09 AM
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If you failed the understand the intention behind my post, that's not my problem
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 11:49 PM
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Sounds like Shannon was smart and avoided the Wall by getting married before her looks faded Correct. Or (to put it technically) in her prime years as a girl (18-25) she was snapped up by a guy who provided what appealed to her for her biological desire to procreate and provide for the children of that procreation- although I have next to no idea about her husband. I was of the understanding that The Wall refers to when women are past their physical prime, which is why I used it in this context.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 01:45 PM
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That would be kinda funny if it was true- Was more like- me and this girl used to hang out, I was into in her, heard from her friends she was interested in me (and looking back I missed the signs) combined with the fact I was too much of a pussy to act, reflecting on other girls I missed chances with and glad nothing ever happened with them I'd still think 'She was actually nice/decent but I blew it' then (as per my post) I realised that even those chicks you had a crush on or lusted after in hi…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 01:31 PM
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Reminds me of watching that Russell Brand interview on The Tews, and the guy interviewing Russell tells him that they (the channel) get a lot of emails from women about RB. Half of them complain about him being a "sexist", while the other half are from women wanting to know if he is single?
/r/TheRedPill16/12/20 11:45 PM
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I get wanting to bang, but I know in the immediate post-nut clarity I'd be hating myself.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 04:14 AM
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Being black and going after white girls is polarising. Some girls will be like WTF and give you the message to fuck off, but other white girls have a thing for black guys/ are especially curious about what it'd be like to be with a black guy and so will be far more responsive to you.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/20 04:22 AM
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I remember on an RP-type sub back in 2013 somebody had written "Convenience is your enemy" and the more I dwelled upon it, the more I realised the truth behind it.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/20 02:33 AM
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Funny, I wrote a story that deals with this exact theme (from the perspective of a guy on the verge of becoming a high school senior) just a year or two ago. PM me if anybody wants a copy.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/20 11:02 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oST77VRHXt0
/r/TheRedPill16/09/20 10:30 AM
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And hence why shaming guys for their lack of sexual prowess is their #1 insult. Sex is the only unit of value they recognise, so they assume it's a universal standard. They are projecting.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/20 02:43 AM
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I wonder if Rollo (in his younger days) got cucked by an ex at a foam cannon party in Cancun?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/20 02:35 AM
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The eye-opener came for me 4 years ago at the uni bar when, 10 minutes before closing time, this girl came up and started dancing with me, was down for the bump and grind and then (when I leaned in to kiss her) she tried to bite me instead. I asked her if she wanted to get out of there and I led her by the hand straight back to mine for the grand finale. It wasn't until the next morning when we woke up that she told me she had a b/f...
/r/TheRedPill16/09/20 02:34 AM
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It's funny because looking back, I think this guy did have some form of resentment towards me. And it's stupid- he had no reason to be insecure, like of my friends at that time (and I knew a lot of people) he was the one I would've put as most likely to make it big. On top of that, for 10 years, apart from his brother I was the best guy in his life whether he'd admit it or not...
/r/askTRP15/09/20 11:17 AM
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What it will do is make you more polarising. Some girls can't stand guys with shaved heads, while others LOVE it.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/20 10:36 AM
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I remember some years back now, an old housemate of mine had these two German girls who were crashing at ours for the night (courtesy of a friend). I was headed out for the night (I forget where) and wouldn't be back until late, but before I left I was in the living room and these girls were sitting on the couch with my housemate chatting and he had a dig at me about how (supposedly) slack I was at cleaning our place. It was so obvious what he was trying to pull and I remember the look they both…
/r/askTRP13/09/20 10:02 AM
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This is one of the best comments I've read here in a while and it's refreshing to see.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 12:33 PM
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You're bang on the money here. Even back in my mid 20's I couldn't LTR a girl just for the sex if I wasn't that interested in her. It just wasn't worth stringing her along and pretending I liked her as much as she liked me, knowing that I'd probably end up cheating. Being single is so much easier than being in an LTR that you don't really care for.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 12:22 PM
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I know this feeling. In my pre-RP days I'd meet girls sometimes who I thought were sexy and think "I wonder what it'd take to get in her pants?" Then I would discover it didn't take very much at all, and the fact it came so easily just made me lose real, tangible interest as subconsciously I thought "I bet she's done this a lot...I wonder what number I'd be on her wall if I hit it up?" I maintain that, by far, the biggest turn-ons are the girls who act coy and (whether true or not) make you beli…
/r/askTRP11/09/20 03:42 AM
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The most bitter pill was the realisation that marriage is no guarantee of a woman's loyalty. Whether you're a man of the world or a man of the church, both will hold you solely accountable for staying faithful to your marriage vows, while falling over themselves to make all sorts of justifications for a woman who strays. If you're a married man who so much as looks at another woman, you're a disgraceful cheater and you need to be better. God thinks it no different to if you had actually had sex …
/r/askTRP11/09/20 03:32 AM
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Was just looking through an ask reddit thread about people who waited until marriage then got divorced, if their attitude to sex changed post-divorce and it's funny to see the people deriding following religion and it's "out-dated" views on sex. Like imagine taking a look at the current dumpster fire that is the sexual marketplace and smugly thinking that it is "progress"...
/r/TheRedPill09/08/20 10:32 AM
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Getting stoned and having sex wasn't as great as I'd imagined it would be. Just felt like banging in a semi-lucid dream.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/20 12:58 AM
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Nek minnit: Yeah I married a girl with a notch count of over 40 and a kid from a previous relationship, but I slept with over 150 girls so it doesn't really matter
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 04:45 AM
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I hear you on this. I recall a winter where I was in a drought. Then out one evening I met a cougar (late 40's, long hair, twinkling eyes, sexy hippy MILF vibes) and she suggested I come over the next day for a good time. I'd always wanted to bag a cougar and here was my shot. So the next day I met her for coffee, then we rode back to hers and yeah...she was the best b/j I've ever had and she was eager to please. Yet- After it was all over, I immediately wondered what my boys were doing back at …
/r/TheRedPill09/07/20 12:29 PM
3

I really loathe to be one of these guys who obsesses over "alpha" or "beta", but for me there's nothing more alpha than getting on great with her ex (should your paths cross) and being completely unaffected by the notion that this guy and her used to date.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 12:42 AM
1

I have blue eyes and (after my voice) it is the physical trait I've received the most compliments from by girls over the years.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 12:38 AM
4

God, I haven't been fucked like that since grade school...
/r/TheRedPill21/06/20 12:06 PM
2

As I read in a book once: 'Everyone's got a market value, baby.'
/r/TheRedPill21/06/20 12:04 PM
7

Remember when these people were all saying "love is love" and "who are you to judge two people for choosing to get into a relationship, bigot!" Just use their argument back at them and expose their hypocrisy for all to see.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/20 02:47 AM
1

Why do you think Solomon had so many wives? Women would rather harem share a top-tier man than be exclusive to a low-tier man.
/r/RPChristians02/05/20 12:35 AM
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A 40 yr old simp isnt any more attractive to women than a 18 yr old simp. This is true, but a 50 year old guy with the qualities you listed is still far more likely to have a satisfying sex life with the girls of his choosing than a woman the same age who was a solid 9 at age 25.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/20 10:34 AM
17

Up to a certain age it's a fuck ton easier. Then the tables turn in our favour.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/20 09:46 AM
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Like simps, they mistakenly think attraction is something you can negotiate.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/20 12:00 AM
5

Most people would have issues with a 45 year old guy dating a 20 year old woman. Society absolutely hates this. It's bad because he's so much older, and she's being manipulated, and he has too much power over her, she's not safe with him, and, and, and it just feels wrong!. Oh boy. If I heard somebody say this, I would point out that (as the homosexual marriage advocates kept on saying): Love is love. Who are they to judge who two consenting adults choose a relationship with? Sometimes all you h…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/20 11:52 AM
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> C'mon guys, Jesus was a refugee and so we should embrace diversity. The fact that so-called "Christian" men support the yucky, racist politics of (right-leaning political figure) over somebody like Trudeau/ Ardern who models the compassion of Jesus is a real concern (quotes sermon of the good samaritan, which apparently translates to "open your borders up and welcome cultural enrichment (TM)") I swear, when I hear a man in the church talk about "compassion" these days it's an instant red flag …
/r/RPChristians15/04/20 01:29 AM
14

I read this book on my 30th birthday, and so many times I felt this relief- this sense of "Finally- somebody has just summed up what I've been trying to put into words for years!" The problem with the modern church is they recognise women make up the majority of their congregation, so the messaging is designed to appease female sensibilities. Take the modern church's teachings on sex for instance- if a man has a higher sex drive than his wife, then he's regarded as having some kind of problem an…
/r/RPChristians15/04/20 01:15 AM
2

I like this post. I first raced a go-kart when I was 9 and straight away I was quick- I'd find the best line that enabled me to drive a lap of the circuit while scrubbing off as little speed as possible. At hire kart tracks (where the equipment is equal) I'd usually win and set the fastest lap of the day. I'd explain to my friends how to drive the lap- where to brake for a given corner, how to turn in, places you could hold it flat- and then be disappointed when I'd still get past them easily in…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/20 06:39 AM
1

Exactly. As a 30-something business owner this makes everything a lot easier. People say "It's not what you know, it's who you know" like it's a complaint when in fact you should use this to your advantage!
/r/TheRedPill09/04/20 06:23 AM
2

From a Christian perspective I would support the idea of a covenant marriage, i.e a marriage that is binding in the church but avoids the legal ties in case of divorce. My issue is with the fact that marriage these days is effectively a legal contract, and in the event it ever be broken up, there should be minimal fall-out. When I drive, I don't intend to have an accident, but I wear seat-belt because if there's an accident the damage should be limited. Marriage, whether in the church or not, ha…
/r/RPChristians20/02/20 01:37 AM
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I’m just here to see somebody sell the concept of marriage to single Christian men in the 21st century western world. Seriously- what benefits (if any) does marriage bring to a man in this day and age?
/r/RPChristians18/02/20 06:12 AM
4

I posted a piece about dealing with approach anxiety and shared it here a while ago- and I explained how doing a count down before you lift translates into approaching no matter how you “feel” in that moment
/r/TheRedPill14/02/20 03:01 AM
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I take the same approach when I lift. My back is sore and I have two more sets left- but I go up, count down from 3- then lift. Regardless of how I’m feeling. Works great for approaching!
/r/TheRedPill14/02/20 02:42 AM
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It's not about getting X, it's about the person you become and the great memories you create on the way to getting X.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/20 09:59 PM
13

It was just missing a "and then everybody applauded" at the end.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/20 02:27 AM
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“Kylie! I didn’t know whether to ask you to dinner or fuck you first?” These were Michael Hutchence’s first words to a (then) 18 y/o Kylie Minogue who was (at the time) an item with her ‘Neighbours’ co-star Jason Donovan. But not for much longer... More than 30 years later and you can still see how Kylie’s face lights up when she talks about that first encounter with the late INXS frontman.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/20 02:41 AM
1

Seriously. Next time you fu*k a pretty girl—have her lay on her stomach, then spread her asscheeks apart and look at it. Sniff it. Not going to lie, you had me up until the sniff it part. I am something of a crack addict myself.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/20 11:04 PM
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Ditto people who care about their karma
/r/TheRedPill20/12/19 02:05 AM
8

Consider my upvote Reddit gold as well.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/19 10:42 PM
13

And if a girl tells you "her slut days are over"= PND material at best.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/19 10:43 PM
8

I feel at least 5 times better coming back from the gym with my muscles sore than I do coming back from a lay. And when your mates make a big deal about it when they see you again and pry you for details it feels silly and pointless.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/19 07:03 AM
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Word. I remember about 5 years back I was in a drought, then one night while at a bar got chatting to this cougar who invited me to come around the next day. So next day rolls around and I leave my flatmate and another friend behind while I go over to cougars' to get a servicing. She was great at what she did, but as soon as it was over I remember sitting there at hers thinking "I wonder what the guys are up to?" and feeling like I wanted to be back at home with them, getting high and carrying o…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/19 06:59 AM
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Imagine my shock finding out women WANT to be pieces of fuckmeat to be pounded into oblivion by alpha males. They DON'T WANT the bullshit "nice guy" persona we are programmed to be(by these very same women no less). I'll always remember the (seemingly) proper, polite feminist girl who'd complain about "porn" being used to describe good things like food porn or car porn, who complained on Fb about images of scantily clad women in the windows of a lingerie store- But who also told me how much she …
/r/TheRedPill09/12/19 03:15 AM
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This is all good advice but I'm confused. I thought these 'How To' posts weren't allowed on here?
/r/TheRedPill19/11/19 08:44 AM
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Great video here I watched a little while ago that sums up what's so harmful about blackpill thinking: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Uv09vgRLbOY&t=2s
/r/TheRedPill14/11/19 09:37 AM
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Somebody put it fantastically- A show like 'Skins' is what your teenage years are meant to be like A show like 'The Inbetweeners' is much closer to the truth for most of us
/r/TheRedPill14/11/19 09:16 AM
1

What's the jump street reference from?
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 07:19 AM
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Ugh. I just got a visual of some flabby loser jerking off in his bedroom to pictures of this girl for 5 years and , wadded up tissues scattered across his floor, then getting next to her and thinking "Finally I don't have to jerk off over her anymore!" And to think all those nights, those 5 years of pining for her, the John's of the world were filling his precious unicorn's arse up with cum every second they got...
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 07:03 AM
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What I gather from this: - They met when she was 21, and he was 25. He evidently liked her straight away ("smart, beautiful and outgoing") while she was busy chasing the "Johns" of the world who she could have - They start dating when she's on the other side of 25 and realises her clock is ticking. Alpha rides, beta provides. Check. - RIGHT on her 30th birthday, they get married. Ding ding ding. He's worried about losing her, but he'd lost her a long time ago. She just needed the opportunity. I …
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 06:52 AM
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I take a "When in Rome" approach to dress- If you live in a city (especially a bigger/ more cosmopolitan city) then the dressed up business/ gangster/ rocker look is more effective If you live in a smaller rural town, good flannelette/ denim/ leatherwear is worth dressing up in If you live in a coastal area, the surfer/ smart casual/ gym rat look is going to work best so you don't look out of place Work out what "the look" is in your area, pick what you like, and whatever it is, do it well.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/19 01:31 AM
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That scene in Snow White where the Queen (disguised as a creepy old hag) gives Snow White the poisoned apple is a perfect metaphor for these middle aged feminists trying to push their socially, spiritually cancerous ideology on young women in the name of "equality".
/r/TheRedPill01/11/19 10:29 PM
2

Bang on. I wrote a post about approach anxiety a couple of weeks back (got deleted here) and in it I pointed out that there are hot girls everywhere- working as store clerks, taking calls at the office all day, delivering the coffee to your table at the cafe...these girls all don't just magically appear at the club!
/r/TheRedPill31/10/19 09:57 PM
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Take a shower with half of these chicks and watch them melt to 5’s and 6’s. Haha, love this description. So true!
/r/TheRedPill31/10/19 09:51 PM
1

I just remember three things about the "top-tier" girls I see guys talking about here: 1) She poops 2) She stinks if she exercises and then doesn't shower afterwards 3) She's way more insecure about her looks than you think None of this is to say they're rubbish or I'm better than them. In fact it makes me like them more, because they're just another flawed human being with weird quirks who's picked her nose when she thought nobody could see, and done the kind of farts that would rival your most…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/19 09:46 PM
2

Holy shit- This post just gave me an epiphany as to why friends would say I was a "dark horse" or something like a player because of the girls I made it with, when to me it just seemed like I'd meet/ chat to/ hook in with girls who (by my standards) were cute/ sexy...and also why people would accuse me of being too "picky" even if I tried to explain to them that attraction is not a choice and a girl is either my type or not. It's a bittersweet realisation: Your unicorn is some other guys' draugh…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/19 12:36 PM
1

I remember somebody once said most the guys who go MGTOW is like bacon taking itself off the menu in Israel.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/19 12:20 PM
1

What would you recommend as an alternative and why?
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 12:33 PM
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A post telling guys how to have more success on Tinder manages to be one of the top rated posts on here, while a similar 'How To' post helping more introverted/ shy guys to get over approach anxiety gets deleted because (apparently) 'How To' posts are against guidelines- then something like this stays up? This place makes 0 sense sometimes...
/r/TheRedPill20/10/19 11:44 PM
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As a business owner, Mondays rock. I get to plan my entire week and go through all the wins I had over the previous 7 days. "Happy wife, happy life"? No. When the King is content, all is good in the kingdom.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/19 11:11 PM
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Cheers- Not discouraged at all. Like I said, if he doesn't like what I posted and thinks its' bad advice, he's free to post his own advice that he thinks is better. I'm not so petty I care whether what I tell somebody works or whether what somebody else tells them works better- all that matters is if it makes a positive change for somebody.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/19 11:08 PM
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I can see this post right now. I've saved the lot in a Word document in case it's been deleted and I'll try re-posting at a later point in a manner that doesn't get it taken down.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/19 11:02 PM
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Once upon a time I enjoyed a certain medication they used to hand out like Pez to school kids in the 90's- gave me a fantastic buzz of energy and boldness. But it was probably more an indicator on my normal mindset, because a few years later (having made some notable life changes) I came into possession of some more, took them and it just felt like an energy buzz rather than some kind of euphoric wave of confidence it had once been. Ultimately, it all starts on the inside. Drugs and alcohol can'…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/19 11:01 PM
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I can read it right now. Never mind, saved the lot in case it gets deleted and I'll have a shot at re-posting it in a way that doesn't breach the guidelines here, if that's the case.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/19 10:57 PM
2

That could happen, sure. Still you'd be a much better chance disposing of the knife in that tussle than if you didn't have martial arts training.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/19 02:47 PM
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Different spelling- Fortnite is the game, fortnight is two weeks.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/19 02:45 PM
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Well, making a new post here costs nothing and if you think you have much better advice you're welcome to share it with everybody who reads this sub, as I've done. If your contribution is what helps a guy with approach anxiety, with being content and getting positive, real results in his life? Awesome. That's what this place is for, after all.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/19 11:12 AM
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Let me put it this way- how do you feel about public speaking? See me, I love it. Never had a problem with it. The more people there are to talk in front of, the more at ease I feel. Even if I have no idea what I'm going to say when I take the mic. Yet apparently the majority of people HATE it. Like, there are a tonne of awful things they'd rather do, than have to stand before a crowd and talk. Even if they have all the speech laid out in front of them and everything else prepared... For these p…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/19 09:05 AM
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Very sexual, very toight. Toight like a toiger!
/r/TheRedPill12/10/19 08:59 AM
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Glad I could help. Being a good looking guy helps, but it's not all you need. I heard someone say this thing once that changed my whole perception of the importance of looks where guys are concerned: A handsome guy with no balls is the male equivalent of a fat girl with a pretty face.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/19 08:57 AM
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Totally. I see some people here saying stuff like "WTF- just approach"- but you can "Just approach" AND take care of the other stuff you mention like mindset and getting the other shit in order. This is what I saw as the problem with early PUA methods employed by Mystery and co- sure they knew all the "tricks" and they approached- but the rest of their life was generally a mess.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/19 08:54 AM
2

Sure. I've had luck with girls I previously thought wouldn't be into my 'type'- you have nothing to lose.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/19 08:51 AM
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When I first heard of No Fap years ago, I thought the idea ridiculous, but then I figured it was at least worth a try because I saw guys talking about the benefits they were enjoying (outside merely their success with women) and figured I should at least give it a try before knocking it. Like I said, stuff just felt better in general- best way I can put it. If you haven't done so, I strongly recommend you read 'Think And Grow Rich' by Napoleon Hill. In it, he devotes an entire chapter to sex tra…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/19 08:49 AM
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Those mantras aren't just for meditation- they're also for when you find yourself tempted to let one of the situations hold you back. E.g if I see a girl I like the look of but don't manage to go and chat to her, I shrug it off and think There are opportunities EVERYWHERE.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/19 05:27 AM
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*Update*- I just remembered a bonus 8th step: #8- Get Comfortable Giving Compliments This one applies to girls and guys. In the past fortnight alone, I have: - Told a random guy waiting to cross the road that I loved his shoes and asked where he got them? - Stopped a (probably) gay guy who walked past me at the shopping centre to say I liked the style of his jumper - Told a cute girl standing next to me on the Metro that I liked her nails, and that "I used to have my nails just like that" (have …
/r/TheRedPill12/10/19 03:36 AM
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Whatever works for you. Obviously, I'm relating what's worked best for me with the mindset of helping other guys out there who (like me) are apparently great conversationalists and don't struggle to attract girls- but cold approaching is their achilles heel.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/19 02:43 AM
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Interesting. I noticed that many of those links are content from the mid 2000's until about 2013, with an exception or two. I was thinking in more recent years, examples like these (while not exclusively concerning the BM/ WW trope) or The Gillette ad, where (with only one exception I can think of) black men were depicted as chivalrous and upstanding while white men were depicted as "toxic": https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hvNNtBmA3SQ
/r/TheRedPill14/09/19 01:00 AM
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Which may actually be a positive, because it means people who are not afraid to be labelled as that "other" by mainstream, BP normies have a space free for more honest discussion. What needs to happen is for the "deplorables" to create their own independent platform free of the mainstream leftist curation.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/19 12:52 AM
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Could you link me with some examples of the WM/ BW dynamic you're talking about? Not being a snarky faggot at all- it's a legit question because (outside of, say, Prince Harry and Meaghan Markle) I haven't really seen it promoted. There's a lot of white girls who either dig black men or are keen to experiment with a black guy- you just gotta keep shooting if that's your thing and it'll pay off.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/19 02:08 AM
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"Before you can join the app, you will be screened via the (compulsory) details you've supplied them with. They will do everything to find out what your political/ social ideologies are and if your views are deemed too far to the right (i.e, any view to the left of the Current Year Acceptable Left Marxist Universal Acceptable Worldview) AND you're white- you will be denied." You miss this bit? I'm not blaming you or any other black man (in what, as I state outright, is a hypothetical). I'm blami…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/19 10:30 AM
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Why would I want to bang my sister? I already get my needs met from your mother.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/19 10:23 AM
2

Lol. I bet the cucks were falling over themselves to upvote that.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/19 04:55 AM
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I have a dark theory on this, and I hope dearly I'm wrong: My theory is that men approaching women in real life is going to be ridiculed and demonised, with the biggest media outlets and corporations doing their bit to shame men for this until it becomes illegal under the guise of "sexual harassment". It would then follow that the ONLY way to contact a woman you don't know is via a dating app- which you cannot join unless you supply information like your phone number/ e-mail etc. Here's where it…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/19 04:46 AM
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As a mid 30's millennial, I personally am looking forward to helping lead the way and being the older brother/ father figure they never had. And also being 'Daddy' for the emerging generation of super hot Gen Z girls who don't have clown hair, tatts, piercings, a shit attitude and a notch count higher than some dude at a Snoop Dogg concert.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/19 04:20 AM
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I'm convinced girls who say they want a guy with a dad-bod are just shit-testing...
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 01:29 AM
1

TL, DR: Strike first. Strike hard. No mercy.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 05:43 AM
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For me, one of my earliest "awakening" moments was watching an interview with Russell Brand. The interviewer said he received lots of letters from women about Russell, and the two most common subjects of those letters were: a) Russell Brand is sexist b) Is Russell Brand single?
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 05:24 AM
2

Thanks for confirming my point.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/19 12:28 AM
1

"Convenience is not your friend".
/r/TheRedPill19/07/19 03:55 AM
2

This is what we've been reduced to? You shouldn't need to put this much thought and effort into getting girls off Tinder. Like provided you're in reasonably good shape and your profile don't scream desperate/ white knight/ creepster then it shouldn't require this much overthinking. Provided you pass this criteria, you have value to begin with. It shouldn't require a world-class performance just to bed your run of the mill Tinder girl. Face it, we've screwed up big time as men. Instead of putting…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/19 03:31 AM
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Coach Red Pill has a great video along these lines, 'Never bad mouth a lay'
/r/TheRedPill09/07/19 10:54 AM
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To combat the LED light from screens he talks about, install flux on your computer. It's free and it causes the screen to develop a more orange tone as the evening wears on. Also check out sleepyti.me which helps you to calculate how to get a solid nights' sleep based on when you need to wake up.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/19 05:02 AM
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Even though I was a good looking guy and a great conversationalist, I had no balls. I had no male mentor figure in my teenage years who took me under his wing and showed me the ropes, nothing like that. So as you can imagine, I had plenty of girls interested in me but I'd always fuck it up or they'd see I couldn't give them what they were looking for and that would be it. By age 18 I'd become aware that there was something lacking in me, so I prayed that I would learn whatever I had to in order …
/r/TheRedPill03/07/19 12:43 AM
1

Where did you get the information that Napoleon and Caesar were little bitch boys? Interested to check out the sources...
/r/TheRedPill02/07/19 12:01 AM
2

Just saw this video last week, and it fits perfectly: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IM-YsG2pnH0 Problem with online dating apps is I end up feeling like I'm swiping through used cars. There could be a girl who just looks pretty and a girl who looks hot, but if you were to meet both in real life the hot one could be totally boring and a bit manish, while the pretty one could have some element to her personality that makes her quite sexy and can't be picked up by an image on a screen. Plus rathe…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/19 12:12 AM
1

I recommend men interested in this topic read 'Why Men Hate Going To Church' by David Murrow.
/r/RPChristians23/06/19 04:19 AM
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I got over playing video games by myself around the age of 16. After that...unless I was with friends and we were playing together, I mostly didn't see the point. But I can't take the high-ground in this one. I had other time/ energy wasting habits it took me many years to cut out of my life. It's funny how easy it is to nod your head in agreement in posts like these- but then fall silent with a reality check when you read something that hits closer to home. I think real growth and personal prog…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 08:44 AM
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"Lol you're trying to argue against my bullshit opinion using facts and logic? You do realise people can see your post history- go back to 4chan, incel lolz!" (10,000 upvotes coming right up)
/r/TheRedPill26/05/19 03:16 AM
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Surely it's not a coincidence that there's a larger than normal proportion of atheists on reddit and a larger than normal proportion of beta's on reddit? It's like not believing in God or following a traditional religion means instead you worship vagina and treat the MSM hive mind as gospel in its' place...
/r/TheRedPill05/05/19 11:41 PM
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Reminds me of being 19 and pulling this hottie at the uni bar just a day or two after seeing her in her leopard skin two piece in the complex pool and thinking “I wonder what a guy would have to do to get in her pants?” As it turned out- not very much! I should’ve learned my lesson then, but instead I let 5 years of poor self-image cock block me time and time again. But eventually I learned. You quickly realise that no matter how different they might be (cocky, loud, quiet, submissive, bitchy) g…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 12:54 AM
1

Ritalin was my jam- the same buzz as coke, but no numbness in the jaw, way cheaper and lasts MUCH longer (take 3 pills and I'd be buzzing for 4 or 5 hours). Just crazy energy and confidence, I'd go out and be chatting to anyone and everyone and people would be attracted to the up-beat vibe I was giving off. I found weed a curious one- like sometimes just thinking about sex while high would make me stupidly horny, but actually banging while stoned wasn't half as great as I thought it'd be. Just k…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/19 12:50 PM
1

I don't watch porn- why would I watch something that doesn't interest me? That makes as much sense as saying "Some guys love to get high, but that isn't for me" and the other person saying "That's another way of saying you get high!" Why wouldn't you read RP material? Much of it is better than the feel-good, ineffective trash MSM has to offer, and there's always new and helpful stuff to learn. Yes men like Jesus/ Paul existed, but throughout human history they have been the definite minority- if…
/r/RPChristians20/04/19 12:03 AM
1

It starts with us, yes, but we only have a limited life-span.
/r/RPChristians19/04/19 03:32 AM
3

Thanks for the responses so far. To set a few things straight: ​ - I'm a business owner, am learning a language (have been for 2 years), martial arts training 1 night a week, usually at church on Sunday morning or evening, gym 3 times a week. So I wouldn't say I struggle with self-motivation - Somebody mentioned porn. Porn rarely does it for me. I've usually found the idea of sex with real girls I know/ have known more exciting. I'm also well familiar with the concept behind "No fap" and the ide…
/r/RPChristians19/04/19 03:11 AM
1

I had an old friend I knew for 10 years, and we lived together for 3.5 of them. I'm grateful to him for a lot, but towards the end his bad habits were having a negative effect on him (drinking, toking up 7 days a week including before going to work). I moved out (for other reasons) and it was disappointing to see how far off the boil he went. I remember a real go-getter and if any of my friends was going to make it big, I would've guessed him... ​ To this day, he owes me $600 and I haven't spoke…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/19 12:43 PM
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Oh boy. I got "the lecture" from a friends' missus a couple of months ago (I'm 33) about how I should go on 'Married At First Sight' because apparently I am too cynical... I know what it's really about- all her husbands' other friends who he's still in contact with are married men or in LTR's- and she sees me as a threat.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/19 12:37 PM
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That doesn't sound like a waste of youth- that's trying, failing, learning and getting better at stuff that actually counts for something.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 04:44 AM
2

Generally speaking, I only read reddit when I'm sitting at the table eating.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 04:42 AM
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Much of it's modern form is, unfortunately. The church should be a pillar of strength against the dysfunctional ideologies that are dismantling the society we live in, but instead they follow the gynocentric script of "everything bad in our relationships is men's fault". And then they wonder why they can't attract more men to the congregation...
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 04:40 AM
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Worst is when you hear Christian men talk like this. It's like, do they worship God or worship the vagina?
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 02:52 AM
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Let's not even start on guys who openly say they are "reaching" or "punching well above their weight" in front of the girls they're with... ​ Even my dick shrinks when I hear this shit, so I can only imagine what it must do for the women!
/r/TheRedPill10/04/19 10:42 PM
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\^ This. Can't believe I had to scroll down this far until I found a comment from somebody (besides OP) who got what the article is about. The educated idiot is the person who thinks that because they went to university, read mainstream publications aimed at people like them and can regurgitate arguments at the drop of a hat, that this makes them smarter than most people and in a position to talk down to their inferiors who don't share their worldview. These are the people who were bewildered ab…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/19 04:25 AM
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Depends when she says it. ​ If she says it the moment you approach and make your intentions clear (asking for her number/ what she's doing later/ if she wants to go grab a drink right now) I don't see how that's a shit test? Like if she throws that out at the start, I don't see the point in sticking around to see if she's playing games and if I can "out-alpha" her. But I'm willing to hear otherwise if you've got the IHAB up front and still closed the deal, and how you succeeded? ​ In my experien…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/19 02:16 AM
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You've just put into words what I've been trying to do for a while now: ​ FWB's and casual hook-ups only provide sexual gratification, but apart from that it's a loss of my time, loss of my energy and a loss of financial capital. Overall, it's a loss. ​ The productive girl you're talking about= sexual gratification, children, support, company. Overall, a gain. ​ I'm in my 30's and interested in the latter. I find it hard to get too excited about the former because I recognise how little it reall…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/19 03:45 AM
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The humblebrag is strong with this piece. Why did I read it and picture Muscle Man from 'Regular Show' writing it about his Starla?
/r/TheRedPill03/04/19 09:06 AM
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Been looking for that track for 15 years and couldn't remember the name of it. Take my upvote!
/r/TheRedPill03/04/19 08:46 AM
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Yeah, I've subbed dating advice but most of the subjects that come up and the responses are disappointing...
/r/TheRedPill02/04/19 09:38 AM
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The female version of myself was hot! ​ But then it was all ruined when I showed my mother the app, she saw the picture of female me and said it looked like her when she was a teenager. Ugh...
/r/TheRedPill02/04/19 09:37 AM
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Thanks for taking the time to share this. I wish I'd read it 10 years ago, back when I was in my mid 20's and still convinced women always had it better and easier than men for the reasons you outlined. I'm sure a lot of our younger readers (especially those under 25) will get a lot from this.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/19 09:16 AM
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There's a difference between the isolated view that vaccines cause autism and a man's principles and the ideologies he follows. How a man lives and the principles he follows reveals itself in the ways I pointed out. If the male feminists' view was superior, then as a result of following this ideology he would be the man wanted by most women and not the other way around. The "Chad" or the arse hole would have the worst luck with women because of their "sexist" views. If the modern day "progressiv…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/19 09:14 AM
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Nobody is born "smart" enough to distinguish what's real and what's not. But past a certain age, you should be able to discern between the two. This post was aimed at our younger readers (generally under 30) who may be susceptible to superficially intelligent arguments. A person is the result of the principles they live by, and this is usually fairly evident if you know what to look for.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/19 09:09 AM
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Run....run away Simba, and never return....
/r/TheRedPill28/03/19 10:22 PM
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Asking "Is it alpha" is like asking "May I kiss you?" on a date. ​ The fact you feel the need to ask means you're doing it wrong. ​ ​
/r/TheRedPill28/03/19 03:35 AM
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My takeaway from this is: don't overcompensate. ​ Understanding that third-wave feminism is bullshit and that white-knighting is a shameful way for a man to live doesn't mean that you have to start talking, thinking or acting like a black-pilled MGTOW. ​ Balance is key.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/19 02:45 AM
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No wonder Max Mosley paid those escorts to dress up like Nazis and whip him...
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 02:42 AM
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"You really do not regret the loss of the other person as much as you regret the loss of the experience with them." ​ Holy shit. This right here explains why I miss girls sometimes even if my rational brain knows it could never work with them for reasons a, b and c...
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 12:11 PM
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I was sexting with a girl once who was a feminist, and she was obsessed with rape (surprise surprise). Pretty much all of her fantasies involved the idea of being tied up/ raped/ choked by an intruder. ​ What I'd do, before describing what I would do to her I'd tell her "The ONLY thing that can stop what I am going to do to you is the safe word" then I would give her the safe word, before describing how I would basically treat her like a depraved sex slave while she was bound and gagged. I was a…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 11:59 AM
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Handing it over left and right? You mean that she's fucking around?
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 10:20 AM
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I'm of the moderation view when it comes to jerking off, but I reckon there are two scenarios where you should definitely rub one out: ​ If you're considering hitting up an ex for sex, If you're considering hitting up a girl for a booty call who you don't like being around most of the time, or who is only bad news.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 11:01 AM
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OP's story and some of those comments you're talking about were like looking back through a wormhole at my 18 y/o self. Such beta, nice-guy behaviour. I wonder if OP has a father or male mentor figure around to guide him straight with this stuff? I didn't when I was his age, so I know where this whole trying to be the good-guy mentality comes from. Hopefully this experience is the wake-up call he clearly needs. ​ The comments following on from that post, ripping on TRP and slamming guys telling …
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 10:52 AM
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"Everybody wants to be a lion, until it's time to do lion shit" ​ Can't remember who that quote was from...
/r/TheRedPill01/03/19 06:38 AM
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I loved this link, because it sums up something that came to mind late one night a few months ago; I was thinking about a girl I knew a couple of years back, wondering why I still felt this vague disappointment about her even though I knew we could never have been together. I liked her, great mutual attraction there- but too many red-flags. I'd even told friends to "Never let me fucking get next to her, no matter what" yet still, this kind of regret? I then opened 'Notes' on my phone and wrote t…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/19 01:59 PM
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The 3 second rule- ​ If a girl looks into your eyes for 3 seconds and says nothing, you can kiss her. It's never failed me.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/19 11:01 AM
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Why does society hide the truth and what do they gain from BP? ​ The elites (the people at the very top) benefit in terms of money and unchallenged power. The more men can be distracted through shaming tactics and threat of social ostracism for questioning the Official Current Year Correct Narrative (TM) and taught to think like women, the more you churn out feminised men. These men are safe and manageable. Replace organised religion with a dependence on "science" for absolute truth, replace fig…
/r/RPChristians22/02/19 11:17 PM
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Great post, well thought out. Thanks for sharing!
/r/RPChristians21/02/19 07:25 AM
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Discipline is the small defeats that line the road to a bigger victory...
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 10:10 AM
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Great share. ​ My step-father is the only father I've known, and I definitely relate to seeing him differently as I grew up. It was especially hard for me to respect him in my teenage years, because I was always thinking of how he would only see me as a non-negotiable part of the deal if he wanted to get next to my mother. I imagined he must resent me on some level, because putting myself in his situation I knew I'd pick an alternate universe where it was just my mother with no kid. I never felt…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 12:01 PM
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I'm familiar with this message by now, but it gets my upvote because it's exactly what I would've needed to hear back in my early 20's...
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 03:31 AM
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In some ways it does, in other ways its' great. ​ How many jobs back in the 50's allowed a man to work (and make great money) from a home office? ​ The internet has been both a blessing and a curse at the same time.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/19 06:10 AM
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I envied girls like this, back in my early to mid 20's. ​ But then I realised that the wall remains undefeated- and I could be dating/ marrying/ having children with younger girls for decades to come and enjoying the life of a bachelor if I want- and those few angst-ridden years up to the age of 27 will be nothing but a faint memory.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/19 04:11 AM
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Never met her husband. But I figure you'd either have to be completely blind to the red flags, or have such low standards you didn't care about putting a ring on it after a decade of being used like a human flesh light. Don't get me wrong, I liked the girl- we got on fairly well- but I could never date a chick like that, let alone marry one. ​ A rollercoaster is fun, but you don't want to put one in your front yard...
/r/TheRedPill08/02/19 03:43 AM
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I was out with a girl (23 y/o at the time) and she reckoned she lost her v plates at 17 and had been with 66 guys since then. I worked out that (not counting LTR's) that would've worked out to nearly a different guy every month. She is now married, two kids... ​ I wonder what it's like to realise what a slut your mother was back in the day?
/r/TheRedPill07/02/19 11:08 PM
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If a girl you're considering a LTR with has gone across Asia or Europe to "find herself", what it really means is she went looking to find exotic or fellow tourist dick. Major red flag.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/19 10:59 PM
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Done cold turkey, binged and for the time being this is my goal: ​ To only bust a nut every 30 days (once a month). That way you enjoy the subtle benefits of abstaining (self-discipline, more energy, other subtle differences that are difficult to describe beyond feeling more 'in tune') - yet at the same time you save yourself going after girls well below your normal standard to relieve the tension. ​ Once a month stops you going too far to the other extreme, and it's something to look forward to…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/19 05:40 AM
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"And the one girl who claimed to be a feminist and wanted to talk about it? Yeah, she's the one who wanted me to shove her face in the bed and spank her "harder, HARDER!" while I was behind her and choke her when I was on top, telling me to "destroy that little pussy."" ​ Amen. Even back in my BP days, at an old church I went to I was "that guy" in our mixed Bible study who'd argue the point and challenge some of the ideas that seemed to be collectively agreed on by others. In my Bible study gro…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/19 11:52 AM
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Good point. Take my upvote.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/19 04:19 AM
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I disagree. ​ I've had some "ones that got away" that I wished I'd got to seal the deal with, but others I let slide at the time and I'm glad I did. It wasn't necessarily because the girl wasn't a decent sort, either. One time in my first year of uni, right at the start of the year there was this American chick who lived in my complex, fresh off the plane and ripper body. First night at the student pub I hooked her easily- and back then I had no game. We went back with her group, we made out in …
/r/TheRedPill01/02/19 04:18 AM
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Fyre Festival is a great metaphor for our society right now: a train wreck with one helluva slick marketing campaign. Then when the useful idiots touch down on the island, get to the site and see the shitty tents and the chaos, they want to blame it on the people who've been saying "This whole thing is dodgy" rather than Billy and Ja Rule who sold them a steaming pile of shit marketed as gold in the first place...
/r/TheRedPill28/01/19 12:04 AM
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Great comment. I'm in my 30's and only realised a couple of years ago that after my mother dies, outside of God himself there will be nobody else who ever loves me unconditionally.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/19 12:00 AM
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I agree. Female feminists are just good for a laugh, even if they try to shame you online. Seriously, if you're on some Fb comments section and one starts frothing at the mouth and throwing all kinds of accusations out about you, just take a quick look at her profile. 9 times out of 10 it's a red alert that screams "Damaged goods". Would you want to trade places with somebody like that? ​ Me neither. ​ The beta male on the other hand... ​ It's not just the fact they enable and excuse women's poo…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/19 11:56 PM
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