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| 14 | On the front page today 🤦♀️ why can't men, as a gender, understand what systematic oppression isDomestic violence is not equal to partner violence, or am i wrong? Could also include violence experienced by other (male) family members. Or of course violence in same sex partnerships. However, i also don't doubt that lvw can be violent towards their partners. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 06:17 AM |
| 6 | Olivia Gatwood - "Alternate Universe in Which I Am Unfazed by the Men Who Do Not Love Me"Beautiful. Thanks for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 07:32 AM |
| 19 | The fashion industry are trying to make us into pickme's/kinkmeisha's and also normalize porn?Actually had the same thought while browsing ASOS the other day, but because of the pictures and poses they choose for some clothes. They look so "sexed up" and I think to remember a time when ASOS was a little more real. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Can we normalize that our feelings are still valid in situationships?Well, I can't stay friends with exes of any kind. In the end I know that I would find it strange or be hurt when they have moved on to another person. Maybe that's childish, but for me it's best to acceppt something has ended, invest in myself and keep that person out of my life. But you do you and every journey is different :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 05:43 PM |
| 15 | Can we normalize that our feelings are still valid in situationships?Hugs...I'm currently in a similar situation and it sucks. The situationship ended 2 months ago, but not in a good way and it's still bugging me. I want closurse, but realize that I will never get that. No more situationships for me. They break your heart, but at the same time you feel like an idiot because you never were in a real relationship. In the end, don't feel bad about being sad. Being emotional is part of being human. Acceppt and move on. That's at least what I try to do and most days i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 06:59 AM |
| 6 | Name a more iconic couple -- i'll wait.Weren't they both raging coke heads? lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 05:23 AM |
| 78 | Why You Should Cultivate a Great Social Life as a FDS WomanHitting the nail on the head. This is a realization that for me has become more apparent due to corona. I realize that my support system is actually quite flimsy and that I long for closeness which I so naively thought was only available with a partner...making me chase men that had no interest in me. Now I am focusing more on the few good friends that I have as well as my family. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 07:03 AM |
| 49 | In a certain sub a female rape victim talks about vocally forgiving her rapistIt's a coping mechanism. Overcoming grief and moving on for one's own sake might include "forgiveness". I think it's one more reason to have compassion with the victim...they are so low that they need to forgive the unforgivable just to live a somehwat normal life. I feel for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 08:13 AM |
| 6 | BabeThis was basically every fight with my Ex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 07:36 AM |
| 8 | How do you deal with sadness?Don't do what I did, which is basically pretending nothing has happened. Leads to a serious mental wake-up call later down the path. With that in mind, take your time to wallow, take your time to heal...do nice, little things that cheer you up. Go out with friends. Or eat that gallon of ice cream and cry while watching a stupid romcom. It will get easier. Promise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 11:07 AM |
| 46 | I mean.. There must be something wrong with us to resist such a perfect specimen.. LolOMG. You did the research 👏👏👏 I couldn't agree more. It's stupid either way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 11:44 AM |
| 69 | I mean.. There must be something wrong with us to resist such a perfect specimen.. LolThis can't be real... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 10:57 AM |
| 7 | Romance movies without obvious LVM romanticizing?I really liked About time! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 09:27 PM |
| 9 | Damn!!Sometimes the nap is the right choice. Action should go hand in hand with resting :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 10:26 AM |
| 36 | Man Forced to Wait to Have Sex Until Wife Finishes Giving Birth (The Onion, nailing it as usual)“I think I’ve been pretty accommodating through this whole process, but I have to say it’s a hardship, this whole temporary-involuntary-celibacy-because-my-wife’s-birth-canal-is-occupied-by-an-infant thing,” said Greenwood, who admitted that it almost felt like his wife was teasing him by already having her pants off and her legs spread open on the hospital bed. “Look, I totally understand that she may not feel the most attractive right now because she’s struggling to push out the baby, but I ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 11:39 AM |
| 308 | Yelled at during sex for showing him what she needs sexually. Questioning if she has a right to be angry. Sigh."Do I have the right to be mad at him?" We as women really are not socialised to listen to our feelings or feel like we have the right to have boundaries. So glad I found FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 09:47 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else attract emotionally distant/unavailable men?Just ordered the book! Thanks for the rec. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 07:09 AM |
| 10 | r/AgeGap grooming teenagers for abuse: 18 yo girl in BDSM relationship with 62 yo man.Hell no. This poor girl...sounds like he groomed her to believe that others are just "treating her like eye candy or porn", but not him (the 62yo grandpa). Cannot even begin to grasp being 18 and having had multiple Dom/Sub relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 06:44 AM |
| 37 | Delusional Men of Tinder 🙄 Had that he’s into meeting quality people and just because one has a PhD or is a pharmacist doesn’t mean he’s keen on only meeting people with high profile jobs. Funny how he talks about drama queens when he is the drama queenAs a European: can confirm he's still a slimeball. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 06:20 AM |
| 16 | Chads are LVMs and that’s it. If you have one in your life now he needs to goI theoratically couldn't agree more...but sometimes I am a weak ass woman. Trying to get there though and FDS is certainly a major eye opener! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 12:52 PM |
| 19 | Date Stories ThreadI was in a relationship that almost lasted a decade and I cannot think of a "best date" scenario within that. Wow. It's honestly a little sad. However, I was on a date yesterday that gives me hope: he booked a nice table at one of my favorite restaurants, showed genuine interest in my career and life, actually complimented the way i looked in an appropriate way, paid for everything and after the date was over brought me home, we kissed and he immediateley wrote me how much he enjoyed the evenini… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 04:33 PM |
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