blackKat007 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	If RP Became Mainstream, How Would It Affect Female Dating Practices? I'd go lesbian TBH	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/19 04:33 PM
0	As the average American female is a whopping 171lbs at 5'4, is wanting a girlfriend under 140/150lbs now considered "high standards"? Seems easy to fix. Step 1: don't be fat I don't understand why it's a complaint that the criteria for attractiveness in men and women is different. IMO this part of the criteria is the same, but if it's different it doesn't seem like a problem, you just find someone with values the same as you. If a skinny woman doesn't value fitness in her man then find someone else right? it wouldn't be a good match for many reasons besides the physical.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/19 06:00 PM
3	As the average American female is a whopping 171lbs at 5'4, is wanting a girlfriend under 140/150lbs now considered "high standards"? Would you date a woman taller than you? Lots of men care about height, just in a different direction. And there are plenty of other characteristics of women that men desire - low N count, ability to cook, not as smart as he is, etc. If we're just talking physical though - men like long hair, straight teeth, shaved legs, etc. Both sexes have physical requirements to make them desirable to the opposite sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/19 04:16 PM
39	As the average American female is a whopping 171lbs at 5'4, is wanting a girlfriend under 140/150lbs now considered "high standards"? You said you think men aren’t judged first on weight - why do you believe that? I’m a 5’6 and 125lbs woman and I feel like I have to be willing to date a fatter man because the average American male is fat too. But I don’t date fat men, and you don’t have to date fat women. So I’m wondering why you think we don’t judge fat men just as much as you judge fat women? Fat people date fat people... and fit ones date fit ones. If you have it you can demand it imo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/19 12:46 PM
4	Do you care about the intelligence of your partners? For me the intelligence requirement is that they fall into a certain range - smart enough to carry a conversation but not so smart I can’t follow it. Within that range I wouldn’t say smarter is necessarily a boost though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/19 09:36 PM
4	What is wrong with you? I have trouble trusting people, have to know the ins and outs of them fully and be able to discuss everything. I ask too many questions as a result and most people don't want to get close in such an artificial way. I'm also very easily irritated by people who don't follow social norms.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/19 10:31 PM
5	Instead of discussing all the ways men and women have differing or competing “individual” interests, can we think about and discuss all of the “common” and “shared” interests between men and women? the sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/19 03:06 AM
2	Q4W: Would you lose respect for your SO if he backed out of a fight? I would expect him to help me leave the situation or call the cops. I would be less attracted to him if he became confrontational. This has actually happened to me and my boyfriend at the time became aggressive. I lost respect for him for a while.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/19 08:44 PM
1	CMV: Most women severely underestimate the work men do in the gym and overestimate the gains. Most people underestimate the work other people do in the gym and overestimate the gains	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/19 03:49 AM
2	Do women really need emotional connections to have sex? This is part of why - people want to appear that they're going with the "norm". So even women who would want to bang dudes quickly without a connection might avoid it due to judgements from these kinds of women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/19 02:13 AM
2	Q4W: How would you feel if your LTR lied about his sexual past by inflating it? I'd feel weird about his need to lie about it and it would probably damage my trust in him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/19 04:01 AM
3	Is sex a need? I feel like need needs to be defined. Needed to sustain an individual's life? No. Needed in order to be happy? For most I'd say yes, but there are people leading perfectly happy lives without sex - either because they haven't had it yet or are choosing to remain celibate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/19 06:59 PM
1	Q4Women: how did you feel when you first discovered Red Pill theory? I read The Game and then found out about TRP around the same time. I have to say it seemed like it made sense and I was glad someone wrote it out so I can be less sensitive to it. It's applied psychology, they're using it for manipulation, but it's also public which makes it easier to avoid becoming a victim. Also it's a two way street.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/19 07:15 PM
1	My wife dropped this controversial bomb today That does sound kind of tough. One thing I think might be contributing to this problem: Men and women are socialized in different ways to the point where I think it's common for us women to have difficulty feeling comfortable discussing (or even being aware of) our fantasies. Women are also taught frequently to be polite and not be aggressive - and saying NO stop! feels aggressive to many of us. It's a very fine line and it's frustrating because the consequences on both sides are very high. A gu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/19 04:44 PM
1	My wife dropped this controversial bomb today Eh I think this might be a thing for some women, but it's pretty safe to just assume someone means what they say unless there are some serious other clues and you know her quite quite well. IMO saying no should be accepted as no, unless right before sex she is like "let's play a game and choose a safe word" or something. And for the record not saying anything isn't yes.... it's probably a begrudging yes at very best.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/19 02:20 PM