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| 1 | Australian Senator David Leyonhjelm introduces the word "misandry" to the Australian public and into the Australian Parliament.I love this guy | /r/MensRights | 12/07/18 08:47 AM |
| -2 | What I'm looking for in a girlShit answer. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/18 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Why self-esteem is important and how to increase it.This post is high value. It sends a positive message to the RP community - something that i rarely come across these days | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/17 04:08 PM |
| 3 | Learn about female psychology without any of the bullshit"Women are in a position of neediness, and yet they cannot fully trust men to give them what they need, so they manipulate men in order to give them what they want, but then resent the men who fall prey to such devices. This phenomenon alone should explain to you the mental hell women occupy, and explain much of their external craziness." ^ Highlight of the article | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/16 02:20 AM |
| 1 | I'm a medical student but I want more out of lifeI'm a medical student in NZ and can relate to your situation. As I progress through medical school, I slowly begin to understand why clinicians become jaded and unempathetic towards patients. There are plenty of medical jobs that involve minimal or no patient contact. For myself, I plan to specialise in skin cancer surgery as a GP - shortest training pathway, minimal patient contact, flexible schedule. There are ways to manipulate the system so that it works in your favour - it just requires met… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/15 07:04 AM |
| 12 | Hypergamy in medical schoolMed student here - I can relate to a lot of this thread. Women in professional careers, and medicine in particular are for the most part deeply unhappy. This is obviously not true for all women, but a large chunk of them for sure. They have such high expectations before they become doctors that once they achieve this level of 'power' their attraction will increase proportionally and they will be entitled to a larger 'pool' of men. This is actually the complete opposite of the truth. Women become… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/15 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Medical student here - please helpAnd, as you love yourself, as you work on your diet, your sixpack, as you give up your addictions, as you read, study, as you kick the living shit out of your own life, you can actually feel love and compassion for all those poor souls that did not have your guts/knowledge/IQ/passion or whatever to do what you did to live FULL life. Thanks for your message. Really inspiring stuff. My question is are you currently a doctor? | /r/askTRP | 03/09/15 11:46 AM |
| 2 | Medical student here - please helpJust wanted to thank everyone for their advice. I have decided to use the compartmental approach, treating patients with respect, empathy and compassion, while setting boundaries with my colleagues and in my personal relationships. It makes sense that you shouldn't treat everyone the same way in practice, so despite being 'dominant' with women, it is possible to also be 'compassionate' towards patients/clients/customers. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/15 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Medical student here - please helpThis applies to colleagues, but what about patients? We are constantly taught to 'put the patient first', yet TRP philosophy is to always 'put yourself first.' Is it actually possible to retain my TRP principles when I'm dealing with a patient, or should I instead compartmentalize my behaviours, as others have suggested? | /r/askTRP | 02/09/15 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Medical student here - please helpThis makes sense, but can you give me some concrete examples? | /r/askTRP | 02/09/15 12:10 AM |
| 1 | What are some good films, TV series, and books with good male role models?Walter White - Breaking Bad | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/14 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Melbourne day and night game23, I've had about half a yr of day game experience | /r/seduction | 24/06/14 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Anyone from Dunedin NZ?Will be at the end of the year | /r/seduction | 17/06/14 01:11 AM |
| 2 | Teasing - any tips?Not when you've been raised to be a 'nice guy' all your life. Seriously, in my culture we were strongly discouraged from mocking other people. That coupled with my strong focus on academics meant that I never really got much exposure to teasing. Especially the type of teasing that would illicit attraction in a woman. | /r/seduction | 07/06/14 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Pickup is awesome and an essential skill for anyone wanting a fulfilling life.Dude this is so profound. The ability to trust yourself. Thank you for this | /r/seduction | 04/06/14 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Struggling to balance career with approachingThat one comment was all I needed. I plan on setting aside at least 1 or 2 hours a week (probably Saturday or Sunday) to practice approaching. Thanks for taking the time to reply, it was reassuring. | /r/seduction | 17/03/14 09:37 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with rejectionTreat it like a game because that's exactly what it is! I like it. | /r/seduction | 28/01/14 06:09 AM |
| 0 | [FR] How I Escaped the Friend ZoneShows the caliber of intelligence on this sub | /r/seduction | 26/01/14 09:44 PM |
| -5 | [FR] How I Escaped the Friend ZoneHoly shit. bows down You just demonstrated something incredibly powerful - that you value your own feelings about yourself more than others' feelings about you. And most importantly you had the courage to be vulnerable. Mad, mad respect. | /r/seduction | 26/01/14 09:06 AM |
| 13 | 35 Lessons learned from 27 years of being single, with backup examples from other people I don't know.A lot of this advice is damaging and clearly has come from a place of bitterness. My suggestion to anyone reading this is to actually take advice from somebody who has been successful with women. | /r/seduction | 25/01/14 10:22 PM |
| 2 | Non-neediness is a very important attribute to have and to convey. buys its better to BE something than to be NOT something. What is a synonym for non-needy?Vulnerable. Read models by mark manson | /r/seduction | 24/01/14 08:28 PM |
| 1 | I cannot understand what is so obviously repulsive about me to women and I really need help.Instead of passively suggesting that she dance with you, try telling her to do it while maintaining eye contact and smiling: "Hey you! Come dance with me!" And say it in a loud, confident, deep, slow, and most importantly an authentic manner. You obviously find her sexually attractive, show it!! Note that none of this will make sense or seem natural until you get your inner game fixed first, which I sense is one of your core issues having lived at home for so long. | /r/seduction | 24/01/14 10:58 AM |
| 1 | I cannot understand what is so obviously repulsive about me to women and I really need help.The end goal is non-neediness or more accurately vulnerability. I recommend reading Models by Mark Manson and No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover. | /r/seduction | 24/01/14 10:54 AM |
| 7 | What do you do with your hands when standing or talking with multiple people in a conversation?Most PUAs keep their hands like this | /r/seduction | 24/01/14 10:52 AM |
| 4 | [FR] Best text game Ive had so far. Dodging infinite shit tests leads to F-close. Transcript insideGood work on deciphering those shit tests. I still view them as one massive fucking enigma, but I guess there is always a correct response. And I imagine this would mostly happen with really attractive girls. | /r/seduction | 23/01/14 07:58 AM |
| 1 | The only quotes you need in order to be SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN!!!My favourites Women want somebody whom their friends are going to be envious of. Stage One: Bait Her; Stage Two: Spoil Her With Attention; Stage Three: Time to take away all that attention from the little sweet princess. I did not quite understand the "Tension Loops" though. Could you elaborate? | /r/seduction | 23/01/14 06:56 AM |
| 3 | The only quotes you need in order to be SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN!!!It could also be a sign of nervousness. Expanding pupils is the body's physiological response to a threat - it allows more light to hit the retina allowing better vision. We evolved it (and various other bodily responses) so that when we were chased by tigers we could see better (and have more blood pumped around our body etc). So it could mean she is afraid, or it could mean she is attracted. I personally think its better to look at her body language - are her feet pointing towards you? Is she … | /r/seduction | 23/01/14 06:55 AM |
| 2 | Has this ever happened to you? Feel like such an idiotI just did not realise it was the same girl. Shocking memory, or that I had seen like 300 hot girls that day | /r/seduction | 23/01/14 06:49 AM |
| 0 | Mark Manson - How to Attract WomenSo what you're saying is that in order to attract 9s and 10s you have to be inauthentic. Do you really think Mark Manson has never been with 9s and 10s? He's had multiple threesomes and the majority of the pick up community agree that the concepts in his book work, more so than most other books out there. Just because a girl is a '10' does not mean she is immune to being attracted to authentic males. Here, watch this. The ones who are attracted to in-authenticity probably have low self esteem to… | /r/seduction | 22/01/14 09:26 PM |
| 3 | Mark Manson - How to Attract WomenDude that one paragraph just blew the fuck out of my mind. I can't believe how much clarity its brought me. Thank you | /r/seduction | 22/01/14 08:16 AM |
| 1 | General Tip, tactics, and advice I've learned since starting pick up 3 years agoThis might sound stupid, but I'm struggling to see the difference between a tease and a neg. Both seem to poke fun at her. | /r/seduction | 20/01/14 09:57 AM |
| 13 | [FR] First time approaching in public, not difficult at all!Good job! This is a good reference experience. I would add that instead of asking her "on a date" offer a place to go - "Hey listen, I have to shoot off but there's a nice cafe/skating rink/restaurant/bowlling alley that I like going to - would you like to go with me sometime?" If she says yes, then say "alright lets exchange numbers." Also, when approaching during the day (whether its on the street or in a mall) its easier to just be direct - "Excuse me, I saw you walking/standing there and tho… | /r/seduction | 20/01/14 08:19 AM |
| 3 | Be Aggressive.I have to be honest - I did not enjoy Nick's personality and style of speaking in this video. His new material is much, much more classy and effective. That speech is a bit immature in my opinion. | /r/seduction | 20/01/14 08:12 AM |
| 0 | General Tip, tactics, and advice I've learned since starting pick up 3 years ago"I really like your hair, you'd look great as a blonde Wow, that dress is amazing, I saw two other girls wearing it earlier" These are good examples of push-pull which is what creates sexual tension and therefore attraction. You mention 'bantering' with less attractive girls - could you give a few examples? | /r/seduction | 20/01/14 08:09 AM |
| 97 | F/20: - Cold approaching guys (day game)?Excuse me, this is a bit random but I saw you sitting/standing/walking/running/biking/masturbating over there and thought you were cute so I wanted to say Hi. What's your name? Oh thanks, my name is X. Okay. My name is Y. [extend hand and shake his hand] [start making assumptions about him] Don't ask for his number until after ~5mins into the convo. Say something like "Listen I have to shoot off but we should exchange numbers and meet up sometime for a drink." Remember 3 things: You will get rej… | /r/seduction | 19/01/14 06:14 AM |
| 1 | I feel depressed after sarging if I don't get resultsI have to be blunt because you understanding reality is more important to me than how you feel - you are putting the pussy on a pedestal. You have to work on your inner game and realise that getting laid will not fulfill your existence. Its normal to feel that way, yes, but you don't want to be a normal guy. Normal guys place the value of getting sex higher than their own self worth such that if they don't get sex, they feel unworthy as a human being. This is absolute bullshit. You are perfect a… | /r/seduction | 18/01/14 01:02 PM |
| 1 | To those who want to date quality women: make a list.Low maintenance (doesn't expect too much attention from me, not a dramatic kind of girl, laid back - VERY important) Similar sense of humor - always finds the humor in everything, including herself. Laughs at my jokes. Playful. Is honest Fashion sense/make-up (less is more) Doing what she enjoys in terms of hobbies and occupation - she must find joy in what she does so that we can share that enjoyment together Similar interests - doesn't have to be exactly the same interests as me but at least o… | /r/seduction | 17/01/14 06:21 AM |
| 19 | List of ways to build attractionYou smile. | /r/seduction | 16/01/14 09:42 AM |
| 33 | List of ways to build attractionI would condense and modify your list to the following: Good Body language - Strong eye contact, smiling, kino Good physical appearance - physique, fashion style, hair, hygeine Personality/Character traits - non-neediness/not giving a fuck (HUGE!), being fun, playful teasing, expressing your intent/sexual interest in the girl (if you do this early you avoid the friend zone as well) Social proof/pre-selection (being desired by other women) Good lifestyle - passions, hobbies, loving your life, liv… | /r/seduction | 16/01/14 02:29 AM |
| -9 | Tips for living with parents??Move out. | /r/seduction | 06/01/14 03:46 AM |
| 54 | Finally all pieces have come together - I discovered living in the present. Maybe this might help you if you struggle.I honestly think mindfulness is the end goal of inner game | /r/seduction | 31/12/13 05:27 AM |
| 5 | Model says she gets approached 70+ times a weekunwavering eye contact don’t take yourself seriously be at ease listen manners/politeness don’t try to impress be driven be present take care of appearance, but don’t go overboard challenge her have your own life, friends, career | /r/seduction | 21/09/13 09:16 AM |
| 1 | [FR] How I busted my way out of the friendzoneGirls are fucking crazy. | /r/seduction | 18/09/13 07:40 AM |
| 1 | In-Field Footage of QualificationI will be posting more condensed notes after my final exams are over which is in 6 weeks (studying med). | /r/seduction | 06/09/13 07:31 AM |
| 2 | [FR]: Finally asked a girl outYou took action - that is something to be proud of. Now its just about repeating the same process again and again. This whole seduction thing is somewhat of a numbers game. | /r/seduction | 04/09/13 08:42 AM |
| 15 | Mastering The Art Of Cocky Funny HumorI like that you've given plenty of specific examples. This is actually helpful because a lot of times people just give one or two examples, or none at all. Post more if you can! :) | /r/seduction | 31/08/13 06:28 AM |
| 1 | No, Stop Your Bullshit.Because this subreddit is not just about getting laid - its about experiencing fulfillment in life through expressing ourselves authentically. We are sexual beings, that's why we need this forum - because society has conditioned us to repress our sexuality. The whole purpose of this forum is to remind us that it is okay to be a sexual being, and to express that to women. You have to realise that learning how to get laid will not fulfill your existence. Being an authentic human being who accepts … | /r/seduction | 31/08/13 12:00 AM |
| 2 | Condensed notes from "What Women Really Desire" by Zan PerrionI think he's referring to the belief that buying a nice car, having a nice apartment, changing our physical characteristics etc will be the solution to all of our problems. It requires a change in attitude - you need to realise that being comfortable with who you are as a person IS what will impress women. But your goal should not be to add more to yourself, but to take away what you don't need. "One does not accumulate but eliminate. It is not daily increase but daily decrease. The height of cu… | /r/seduction | 30/08/13 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Is the "he's just not that into you" explanation a hard and fast rule or merely an excuse to quit the pursuit?Chase him. | /r/seduction | 29/08/13 10:35 AM |
| 36 | Condensed notes from "What Women Really Desire" by Zan PerrionI think it is more accurate to say "just be comfortable with yourself." The problem is beginners interpret "be yourself" as "continue being anxious, awkward and self-loathing." Being yourself means being comfortable expressing exactly who you are to others, flaws and all, and accepting your weaknesses. Zan pointed this out with an example - going up to a girl and saying "hi, i'm nervous but i had to come talk to you." THAT is being yourself. It demonstrates that you accept your weaknesses but st… | /r/seduction | 29/08/13 10:17 AM |
| 430 | Condensed notes from "What Women Really Desire" by Zan PerrionHow would everyone feel if I were to do more "condensed notes" for popular talks and books? | /r/seduction | 29/08/13 06:06 AM |
| 20 | Condensed notes from "What Women Really Desire" by Zan PerrionI had already seen it after it was recommended on seddit about 3 months ago and remember thinking "holy shit, I need to summarise this," but never got around to it. After it got posted here again, I just could not make the same mistake twice. | /r/seduction | 29/08/13 05:39 AM |
| 1 | I get needy, what should I do?Read no more mr nice guy. Trust me | /r/seduction | 27/08/13 12:06 AM |
| 1 | What are fun things to talk about with women?Pre-selection is one example of social competence. When a woman sees evidence that a man has multiple friendships with women, especially attractive women, she has no choice but to be turned on. Its in her biology. Her body is telling her - this is the man you need to fuck if you want to pass on your genes successfully. Similarly, women who have big tits, small waist:hip ratio and a symmetrical face signals to a guy that this women is suitable for reproduction. In the past, women looked after the… | /r/seduction | 26/08/13 10:05 AM |
| 1 | No More Mr Nice Guy Dr Robert Glover Interview5 minute summary of the podcast More interviews | /r/seduction | 26/08/13 03:23 AM |
| 1 | How To Pick Up Girls From Open To CloseCan someone please tl;dr this? | /r/seduction | 24/08/13 11:06 PM |
| 12 | What are fun things to talk about with women?Tried and tested. Girls care about relationships in general, but especially romantic relationships. Its what makes them tick. This will surely get her engaged and more than that it will give the impression that you are a socially competent individual. Men who are socially competent are viewed by women the same way women with big juicy tits are viewed by men. Write that shit down | /r/seduction | 23/08/13 03:29 AM |
| 3 | What are fun things to talk about with women?And if she's smart and cute? | /r/seduction | 23/08/13 03:25 AM |
| 23 | Do you have huge approach anxiety? I have come across a solution, and it's brilliant fun. The Name Game.I prefer using observations. "Hey I like your shoes" "the weather is awfully cold today!" "What book is that you're reading?" "This mall is so popular." In all reality, what you say initially doesn't matter as much as where you lead the conversation. To avoid interview mode make statements instead of asking questions e.g. "you look like you'd be from _____" instead of "where are you from?" I always get the sense that a lot of this indirect stuff just seems inauthentic | /r/seduction | 18/08/13 02:59 AM |
| 2 | [FR] (Beginner's Luck) First Day of College: The Johnny Appleseed MindsetTrue. No kiss or F-closes though. And that's usually what the sub-reddit raves about, which in my opinion is not the most important thing. Its all about the process, and not just the results. Sure results are important, but seeing methods used without immediate results is more helpful in my opinion because it gives us a more realistic view of the process for those of us who feel discouraged by the supposedly "immediate" success that many people purport to achieve here. I think true success takes… | /r/seduction | 17/08/13 06:27 AM |
| 1 | [FR] (Beginner's Luck) First Day of College: The Johnny Appleseed MindsetSick FR! Your attitude is positive, confident and self-assured. If something goes unexpectedly, you would be the kind of guy to brush it off and maintain your cool. And even though you didn't get any #closes, kiss-closes, or F-closes (all of which seem to be highly over-rated on this sub-reddit), you projected energy and enthusiasm into the world, you made plenty of new (and probably lasting friendships) and you are obviously passionate about your life. Keep doing your thing - you are an example… | /r/seduction | 17/08/13 05:33 AM |
| 11 | My therapist told me to check out this video this morningr/nofap | /r/seduction | 15/08/13 05:47 AM |
| 1 | [FR] From strangers to F-Close in 2 daysSo a girl who waited four months before having sex in her previous relationship is convinced to have sex in a park with a guy she met two days ago? Seems legit | /r/seduction | 13/08/13 10:45 PM |
| 3 | ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there!If you ever allow your fear to govern your behavior and to keep you from what you desire, you're a fool. There is nothing in fear. It's completely meaningless. "I know what’s coming. I know no one beats these odds and I know it’s a matter of getting used to that and realizing that you are expelled from your mother’s uterus as if shot from a cannon towards a barn door studded with old nail files and rusty hooks. It’s a matter of how you use up the intervening time in an intelligent and ironic way… | /r/seduction | 05/08/13 04:56 AM |
| 2 | 18 laws of potent alpha male charisma, an infographic by Brad BransonExamples of what to say/do for the following would be helpful: “Your frame is always stronger than hers” “You lead the conversation and move the interaction forward.” “Dare to talk bullshit.” “You are willing to be vulnerable and put your personality on the line.” “When you are talking she listens. If there is a dissonance or disrespect you call her out on it.” “You do not identify yourself based on other people’s opinions.” “You are self amused for you own enjoyment.” “You are centred in yourse… | /r/seduction | 11/07/13 01:19 AM |
| 11 | 18 laws of potent alpha male charisma, an infographic by Brad BransonThanks for the infographic. Would be good to hear some specific examples for each statement | /r/seduction | 10/07/13 02:06 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Decided to try something new, can't believe it worked! F-CloseYou do realise that social proof was the reason the HB8 was attracted to you. Your confidence was important, but SP sealed the deal | /r/seduction | 08/07/13 06:25 AM |
| 1 | Becoming Higher Value: Dale Carnegie And A Chart On Winning Friends and Influencing OthersNow if only someone made a similar brain storm for seduction | /r/seduction | 06/07/13 06:20 AM |
| 1 | The shy guy's guide to approach-free pick-upHow attractive are these girls exactly? | /r/seduction | 01/07/13 12:37 PM |
| 3 | Why Your Text Game SucksI love your posts | /r/seduction | 20/06/13 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Why Men Have the Power During an ApproachI'm making it a point to approach at least one girl every time I go out. This article gave me confidence. Thanks | /r/seduction | 18/06/13 04:41 AM |
| 2 | What is the one activity/hobby/habit that you think makes you most interesting/appealing to women other than Pick Up material?Its not necessarily one activity that will make you appealing. Its the variety of activities, and the level of passion you have for them. For me, yoga and meditation are massive hobbies of mine that I'm genuinely passionate about. It also implies that you're emotionally stable and probably really good in bed. | /r/seduction | 22/05/13 03:28 AM |
| 4 | [FR] Senior Prom F-Close"Do you need a minute" and ""you can stop looking, I'm right here" - good cocky-funny humour to build attraction there. That, coupled with the kino, physical leading and the cojones escalate (to turn her around and kiss her) is what sealed the deal. Take notes gentlemen | /r/seduction | 20/05/13 10:12 AM |
| 2 | Any way to salvage the impression of 'neediness'?This is confusing. If we were genuinely aloof, then why would we bother talking to her in the first place? Why not just avoid approaching in the first place? The mere fact that we are approaching shows that we give a fuck. | /r/seduction | 18/05/13 07:46 AM |
| 1 | Ok seriously what is my problem.You're outcome dependent. Stop being outcome dependent. | /r/seduction | 18/05/13 12:22 AM |
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