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Did you really just try to link a fucking TIK TOK as a source….??? LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 03:14 PM
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You guys are too young to be getting married anyway. I’m not necessarily saying breakup or don’t breakup, but work this shit out before any wedding date is planned. This does not sound like a stable enough relationship to even be considering marriage. With that out of the way, I can’t help but feel like your boyfriend was brainwashed by the “toxic masculinity”/red pill ideologues all over the internet these days because whenever I listen to fresh&fit out of boredom, I hear them talking about how…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:41 AM
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I feel like this was written by a teenager. You do realize nothing changes when you turn 30, right? It’s the same as being 29. Only adolescents focus so much on age because there are actual changes that affect your life when you turn 18 or 21. after that, no one cares. So no, men are not suddenly outcast. Most men have a better life in their 30s since they’re more financially stable. Women aren’t suddenly uglier than they were when they were 29. Sure there will be a gradual decline, but many wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:19 AM
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That sounds like an… interesting community haha. How small is your town? I live in a town of like 7k which is pretty small relative to other towns, and I don’t think people are really sleeping all around here but I could be ignorant to it since I don’t associate with most of them and always dated people who didn’t live in my town. Seems like most people just couple up and stay that way. I don’t think it’s as bleak as you’re perceiving, though. I know there are a whole lot of men who are happy en…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:27 AM
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I feel like it’s the kind of men you’re going after. This isn’t a jab at you, these men are going after most women since sleeping with a lot of women requires going after a lot of women. The average men doesn’t have the opportunity to have sex with women, so they aren’t really manipulating them. They’re happy to get any. But yeah, I said high-n count men are more manipulative, prob more manipulative than high-n count women. It’s a construct of more women wanting relationships than men. If a guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:07 AM
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The average woman is definitely better at manipulation than men. It’s really only the “players” who are super experienced with women that are good manipulators. The average man is not at all manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 08:56 AM
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Most guys don’t brag about their “ugly as fuck” conquests.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 08:53 AM
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It’s not an opinion. It’s an objective truth that majority of men would prefer a woman who is unhealthily skinny than unhealthily fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 03:36 AM
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I don’t see any number under 18 on there. Stop trying to normalize pedophilia by pretending it applies to all men because it doesn’t and we see right through you. Don’t project your pedophilic desires onto all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 03:23 AM
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Did it not dawn on you that morbidly obese women are much less attractive than a woman who is skeletal-level skinny? I’d argue that even an obese woman (not morbidly) is less attractive than a skeletal-level skinny girl. An overly skinny girl is not ideal but it’s nowhere near as off putting as being fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 02:58 AM
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There are several reasons I can think of for the older girls denying your requests. Younger girls care more about getting their social media numbers up. They want more followers. They want more likes on their photos, having you as a follower means more potential likes on their photos. Gen Z is, in general, less selective about who has access to their life via social media because they grew up on the internet. That’s why many of them have public accounts as opposed to millennial females who often…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 02:51 AM
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Do these people know that you’re bisexual? That could be the reason men are denying your requests. Perhaps they don’t want you to hit on them. I originally had no idea why the men would deny you, I am not a man but was under the impression men weren’t very discerning when it came to social media connections. my boyfriend happily accepts and follows any old male friends or acquaintances that add him on social media, even if they never communicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 02:38 AM
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Why would that even matter? She’s obviously making more money. Tons of money. Hell, I don’t make nearly as much as sniper wolf and I don’t care about how much my man makes because I already make enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:07 AM
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It’s not about just cohabitation, it’s about building a life with someone. That’s the goal of relationships, part of that is living together, but it’s more than that. It doesn’t seem that the other partners are equal to the 17 year partner. I know a lot of poly people say they love their partners equally or whatever, but I truly believe regardless of what is said, there is a much closer relationship with the nesting partner, and that the relationships are not equal. I also believe that less effo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:35 AM
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So then they would be friendships. If there’s no sex or physical intimacy, then those relationships would become friendships, and I have no doubt you’ll have these friendships for life if you’ve had them that long. It’s not that relationships are just about sex, me and my partner have fairly low sex drives so it’s not as of sex is such a huge part of our relationship, but I just don’t understand what makes these relationships and not fwbs. It seems kinda unfair to your main partner to consider t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:24 AM
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I’m messing around too, I thought you were a lesbian but the username and avatar combination made it a bit less likely. I’m actually interested to hear from other men in the sub and I wanna know why OP only asked women this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:16 AM
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It’s unrealistic to believe someone is going to be in 3 life long relationships concurrently. As I said, a 65 year old woman isn’t going to be maintaining 3 relationships as she ages and her libido declines or disappears. I’m sure they’ll remain friends. Poly people have different definitions of what relationships are, clearly. You can’t really be in 3 serious relationships at the same time, since relationships take time, and ultimately you end up living with your partner and starting a life wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:14 AM
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Haha idk I thought OP was just curious about women since they said boyfriend/husband, for whatever reason. I honestly don’t know why they only asked women. It’s more interesting to hear from both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:09 AM
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The question was for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:06 AM
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That’s the plan, it’s my fourth serious, long term relationship but the first one I could actually see myself with indefinitely without having any doubts. It just feels right and there are no limits to what I would do for us. Unfortunately I believe his life expectancy is lower than mine. I hope that’s not the case, but if it is, I’m unsure I’d want to date again. It took me a decade to find a partner I clicked with this well, I doubt I could do it again. Anyone else would always be compared to …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:05 AM
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Long distance relationships rarely work out long term. People eventually want people near them that they can actually see so they will search for that. If they already have a local relationship, it’s unlikely they will deal with the hassle of a LDR, especially as they get older. It doesn’t sound like a relationship, it sounds like a pen pal that you have sex with whenever you happen to bother seeing each other. How can they ever be a priority when there are other, more convenient partners? Poly …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 12:53 AM
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Do you know anyone that does tattoos? Or know anyone who knows anyone? Most of my tattoos done at shops were $100-$400 but my boyfriends friend will do the same tattoos for $20-$100 at most. It would be really easy and cheap to quickly get tatted by someone like that who is just starting out and is doing their tattoos out of their house. Ours healed perfectly despite his inexperience. My worst tattoo experience was actually my most expensive. It depends if you want to go for what I call west coa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:58 AM
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Get tattooed. Arms/chest/back at a minimum. Neck/hands added bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:13 AM
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short term because the guy wants it that way, most girls who fuck them would do anything to "change" him and turn him into a relationship guy. also i included that because i know girls on here are going to say "id never be in a relationship with someone who is cocky" even though irl thats the men they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:02 AM
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I wouldn’t have swiped right on my bf based on his fb photos if they were on tinder, but I met him irl and he’s super hot. He didn’t online date so he didn’t have good pictures. I’d actually say that all of my serious relationships have been with people that I wouldn’t swipe right if I saw them online. The super attractive guys online aren’t looking for relationships when they can easily get hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 11:06 AM
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They wouldn’t, also wtf is a condescending expression? Y’all gotta stop with the bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 11:04 AM
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Lol stop with the bs come on y’all ain’t rejecting a hot guy because he is smirking in his photos. You legitimately can’t tell if someone is condescending through their photos. And we both know cocky assholes pull the most girls for short term. Idk why you’re all giving him the run around and trying to make it like it isn’t about his looks. People are saying he seems toxic because of the content of his posts, as if that would show in photos. I’m a woman and I’m not gonna stand here and not call …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 11:02 AM
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I don’t think they’re being honest with themselves, wouldn’t be the first time. Or they’ve never hooked up with actually hot guys who are 8/9+/10 that had plenty of options, because it’s statistically unlikely that all of these hot, promiscuous guys who are regularly hooking up with women would happen to marry them out of all the women he’s hooked up with; and that somehow all of these women have magically congregated here on this subreddit. As I said in another post, most women who I see have p…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:04 AM
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I don’t know a single girl that has entered a relationship that way or why a guy would marry a girl he met like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:55 AM
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Then was it even a hookup? Or was it sex on the first date with someone you were already talking to? By hookups I mean tinder matches and strangers met out at bars or something. I had sex with almost all of my ltrs on the first date, but it was different than a hookup. It had a different feel. I knew I’d see them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:51 AM
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No women do not marry the men they initially hookup with lmao. Very few guys that hook up with you are going to see you as wife material. Hooking up is not the same as having sex on a first date. I’m a woman, I could tell when a guy only wanted me for sex, or if he was interested in something more serious. Generally, the hottest guys aren’t. So yeah, you might marry a guy you had sex with on the first date, but that’s because he was genuinely interested in you, and he’s probably not as promiscuo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:41 AM
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I couldn’t disagree more. Most women I know don’t really engage in casual sex, unless you consider one or two hookups total in their whole dating history. Most women are sleeping with they’re dating, guys they want to date, or are going through periods without sex. Every single girl I know has only had one or two hookups in her life, besides me. We’re comfortable enough talking about it and no one hides anything. There’s no point in having casual sex, sex is better with a guy that actually likes…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:37 AM
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Maybe women that have done it? I doubt it’s anyones plan. I get trashed for saying it, but a lot of women have babies to trap guys. Sometimes the guys actually stick around and no one knows why, but she knew the relationship was failing but that the guy was a good guy and he would try to make it work if she was pregnant. I see it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:41 AM
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The arguing was pointless I agree, glad we came to a conclusion. I tend to generalize all women based on me/my friends. I know a couple of girls who seemed to enjoy sex a lot, but wasn’t close enough with them to know what’s going on. I’m completely the opposite, I don’t really need my own space at all. when I met my boyfriend and there was instant chemistry, we pretty much just hung out every single day from then onwards sleeping over each other’s houses with very little break. I was an only ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:46 AM
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It is a dumb approach, you’re not wrong about anything you’re saying, but most women who have strong feelings for someone are willing to compromise on a lot from what I’ve seen. And I don’t personally see the point of having a sexual relationship with someone just for the sex. But, I’ve been in relationships where I know there’s no future. One could argue it’s just for sex but it’s not, it’s really for companionship. I prefer that via a monogamous committed relationship even if I know it’s not g…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:30 AM
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And a guy can be hot but you still not have chemistry with them. I wouldn’t fuck anyone I didn’t have some sort of chemistry with. And if the chemistry is good, you figure everything else out later.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:20 AM
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I’d say chemistry is more important to most women who aren’t clout chasers/resource hunters. Usually chemistry trumps all of the things you mentioned…women will wait years for a man to “finally get his shit together”(which is a stupid phrase to begin with, it’s not binary). I was a bartender at a strip club for a bit and saw women who literally stripped to pay for them and their hot boyfriend because they were super in love with and being exploited. I don’t hang out with college educated people …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:18 AM
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Lol coming from you that’s a fucking compliment. I can’t believe you even bother waking up every morning if this is the sad existence you’re going to lead
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:14 AM
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You live in such a sheltered world it’s really fucking sad. You think I’d go through the process of up keeping an account for years as a woman just to troll on some stupid sub? I guess because you’re enough of a loser to do that, you’re projecting it onto others. Normal people aren’t like you dude. Leave your fucking house and better yourself or you’re gonna end up spending the rest of your life hating women because they won’t fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:11 AM
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I’m a woman…? LMAO Are you fucking dumb and blind? I’ve implied it multiple times in the posts that you don’t even comprehend because you don’t think women are people. My avatar is literally a woman holy fucking shit you’re retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:04 AM
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You’re an incel who doesn’t view women as people, so keep crying about them wanting to fuck everyone other than you. Pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:02 AM
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And the less conservative 2/3 makes up more of the casual sex pool. It’s a no brainer, I would do exactly what you did if I was a guy. I also think chest tattoos look awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:00 AM
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Because you idiots just put women under umbrella terms…. like wow suddenly there’s a sexual revolution, that means all women are instantly fucking. You literally don’t view women as human beings, you view them as another species lacking autonomy, because you think they all do the same thing. I have a friend right now in 2022 who is a fucking virgin and she’s 28.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:57 AM
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Maybe they just don’t share this information with you. Women won’t get deep into their feelings for their fwb unless they’re really close with you, they’ll act like it’s nothing serious around casual friends, and of course they don’t want to turn off potential suitors because yes they’re still looking for an LTR but if that guy they were fucking offered it, they’d take it in a heartbeat. There’s a reason they say that guys fuck down (fuck girls who are below their dating standard)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:55 AM
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I don’t need to look up anything, I’ve heard of the sexual revolution. Just because it existed doesn’t mean all women partook ffs it was pretty much just educated, liberated career women who lived away from their parents home, who also weren’t religious..and all of those things together would be pretty rare. I actually know the sexual history of some women from that era because the girls in my moms family are very close and we talk about everything. My mom and one of her sisters only slept with …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:50 AM
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I think that’s a fair comparison. But I feel like they’re similar to natural tits. No guy is gonna dislike big natural tits. Some definitely hate fake tits. So you can’t get big natural tits but you can get tattoos, it at least makes things easier. Tattoos immediately make you more visible to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:44 AM
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It’s completely different than men fucking girls and not wanting them for long term. Lmao you can’t even compare the two. I’m a woman, all of my friends wanted to be in relationships with the guys they were fucking, and settled for fwb because the guy wouldn’t. And it was a constant point of contention and anxiety until the guy eventually dumped her or she met someone else. This is a large sample size of several women over a decade. Women don’t fuck because they enjoy casual sex, that’s a myth. …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:43 AM
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I meant until she met and was in a relationship with my dad but she is 60, you know women weren’t fucking like they are now back then, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:38 AM
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Aren’t most of the men on here just looking for flings? At the end of the day, women want to be in relationships with the hot guys they fuck. They don’t want it to be just be sex after awhile, they almost always want something serious. And isn’t 2/3 enough? If it could increase your attractiveness to 2/3 of women without decreasing your attractiveness to the other third..seems like a no brainer win win situation to me. Ill never understand why guys don’t get tatted after consistently seeing the …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:37 AM
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Lol I love the fuck out of my boyfriend and he’s objectively lower status than me, he’s just hot and a good person. Saying women prefer resources/money/status is a cope because that seems more attainable than becoming better looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:20 AM
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Long fingernails even if clean are more of a turnoff than dirty short fingernails. They might be dirty from work, but there’s no excuse for long nails on a man. It’s disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:16 AM
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I mean you’re literally rejecting the number one way to attract women. Most women, not just low quality ones. My virgin until marriage mother who is 60 perceives guys with tattoos as more attractive ffs.It’s innate. It would be like a woman saying she wants to increase her smv but there’s no way in hell she’s losing weight. And it’s not just one tattoo, it has to be multiple to have the effect. At least 4-5 minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:15 AM
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You’re lucky that’s never happened to you. I think it happens more often than it doesn’t. It happened to me so often that I literally moved states to get away from all of my friends because they just couldn’t help themselves at trying to ruin my relationships, gaslighting me that they’re “trying to be a good friend”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:38 AM
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You can care about your partners discomfort and not care about random people, just saying. You’ll actually have a bond with your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:19 AM
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I used to enjoy the discourse on the sub but now they all seem to be giving incel energy instead of interacting with and learning from the opposite sex. they believe what they want to and everything that goes against it is virtue signalling or typical lying womyns
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 05:45 PM
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Nah he's 6'0 and 150 lbs, he juiced like 5 years before I met him and only did one or two steroid cycles.... he doesn't go to the gym anymore. It was a phase. Ya'll think you know everything about women's lives when you don't. One of my exes was around the same height and like 140 lbs so definitely extremely thin. Neither of them had any muscle to speak of, except for maybe some arm definition from doing things...like working.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:03 PM
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I don’t think it’s that. I just don’t think women really care if you’re ripped. His body looks normal because they’ve seen so many guys who have similar physiques minus the muscle. Since they’re not comparing side by side, all of those bodies just look normal. I think most girls would find MGKs body attractive even though he isn’t ripped. At least for me, it registers in my mind the same as someone who is lean with muscle. Their body is fine, body isn’t what attracts most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:53 AM
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My standard is just thin and at least 5’9..seeing as I’m 5’8 myself. I’ve maybe had a casual fling with a ripped guy but never noticed because it’s not something I’m into or attracted to. I like my men very thin, something like 5’11-6’2 with a weight of 135-155. I’ve dated someone who was bigger than this, about 6’ and maybe 190-200 lbs although he doesn’t look fat and no one would describe him as such, he just looks normal, but for me sexually, his body was not attractive. He didn’t have rolls …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:46 AM
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This is so cringe worthy and reads like you think you’re the shit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 11:07 PM
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Isn’t it weird being in a relationship with a man that will never want to live with you and your kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:14 AM
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This is exactly what I was going to say, but you said it. 27F and feeling the same exact thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 12:49 AM
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To be honest he would very likely be giving them a better life than being raised in a group home. A lot of kids don’t get adopted, and two kinda crappy parents are better than no parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 12:48 AM
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I wish this sub could see some of the couples I see in bumfuck Pennsylvania. Dude is attractive albeit a little trailer trashesque, but the women are fat and hideous or just ugly and methskinny. Never seen so many guys “settle” in my life, can’t for the life of me figure out what they’re thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 12:29 AM
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I can try to answer for my boyfriend because I know he doesnt subscribe to any of that stuff. So I’d say he’s no pill, deff not blue or red. He thinks women should work and have aspirations because he deeply resents his mother for not doing that and just mooching off others her whole life, the thing he probably likes most about me is my ambition in the same field that he’s interested in (that few girls are into). We don’t have kids, we obviously plan on staying together indefinitely and we’re at…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 02:45 PM
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Why would anyone here accuse her of settling? Is there something I’m missing?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 02:18 PM
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You guys on PPD and other subs just need to suck it up and tattoo the fuck out of your body, it adds like 3 points. Even my mom, a woman who is nearly 60, agrees with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:13 AM
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Mgk would be hot either way. Tattoos + tall + bad boy looks is enough for most girls. If I was single and met an mgk lookalike who stocked shelves, fine with me. And Im college educated, but idc about a guys status at all. Just looks and personality. The only extent I care about status is if they are well liked in their circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:12 AM
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I mean his love interest was absolutely hideous. They were trying to be somewhat reasonable. You couldn’t match that girl up with a typical hot actor guy..it would take away any realism the show had left.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:10 AM
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150k salary isn’t high status, it’s pretty normal for college educated people living in the city/people who have had their careers for awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:46 PM
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Using condoms in a marriage or a committed relationship is paranoid and deriving both of you of pleasure. I'd be concerned that someone is extremely promiscuous if they offered me an STD test.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:29 AM
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You sound like an extremely paranoid person. I’ve never done STD testing with any partner. I’ve obviously taken them and have never had one, but I’ve never been requested to take one nor have I requested someone take one. And I’ve been with quite a few people. You’d have to be dirty to have an std and just let it fester untreated. You’re going to counter with shit about “asymptomatic” but don’t because I don’t believe it in the case of most stds. You probably walk around terrified of covid despi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:33 AM
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I also think it’s just as embarrassing for women if you go somewhere and every other girl has fucked your man. No one really talks about that, and It might not be as embarrassing as it is for a guy with a girlfriend who fucked everyone, but i don’t know a girl that wouldn’t be insecure about that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 02:15 AM
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Those are completely different things though. A guy that doesn’t sleep with every woman he could has discipline and is different from the norm. A woman that sleeps with every guy she can is desperate, promiscuous, and not the norm. Most hot girls aren’t fucking every guy they know. A lot of hot guys are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 02:13 AM
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No way. If a man slept with 50 women, you know there’s no way you were the hottest or the best in bed. My boyfriend has only slept with 9 girls other than me and I’m constantly in my head about that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 01:12 AM
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Yeah that almost never happens. Women for the most part want relationships with the guys they sleep with… it’s the guys that don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 12:44 AM
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Idk I’m very assertive with guys, my most successful relationships don’t come from men who approach me, but from men who I either approach or make it extremely obvious I’m interested. But I’ve never dated women. I do think women are so dissatisfied with men because they believe the notion that the right man is just supposed to come knocking on your door, but if you really want to get what you want, you have to go get it. It won’t come to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 05:08 AM
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Social media advertising a business is completely different. Social media which is self indulgent and involves you posting selfies of yourself constantly... intelligent people don't do things like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 06:45 PM
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Generally people who are bartenders(long term, not talking about short term for money) and consumed with social media aren’t intelligent. Don’t be apologetic about it. Intelligent people find social media demeaning and cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 08:52 PM
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I don’t really believe this story. At all. A 6’1 “Chad” frat boy would not be dating a fat girl with acne who has never been with a guy. It’s just unrealistic.
/r/ExRedPill28/11/21 10:04 PM
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Did she have the face of an old woman or a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 04:58 AM
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Most men don't have psuedo-harems, though. Even if they do, if the woman shows her worth enough and seems better than all of the other girls, wifey material type, maybe he would settle down with just her? Unlikely, and yeah that's usually the outcome. But these men don't usually want to be bachelors forever, and they're kind of just spinning plates until they find a girl who is worthy. So be that girl that is worthy. In my experience, relationships are more rewarding when you win the man over vs…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 08:48 PM
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What else can they do? They kinda have to do the maximum and if he still doesn’t see you as gf material you move on. But you maximize your chances this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 01:12 AM
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TRP behaviors are not abhorrent to women. They are perfect for getting a woman crazy about you. Women are attracted to men they don’t think needs them, who has options. The only TRP behaviors that are gross come from the women hating incels who use the trp content to justify not improving themselves because “women are vile”. Their criteria screens out far more than fuck boys. It screens out pretty much all men. There are plenty of guys willing to have relationships who may have one or two red fl…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 01:07 AM
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Which is why it’s so toxic for them. Those women need to be lowering their standards, not raising them. No one is going to meet all their demands and they WILL end up alone. I genuinely don’t believe anyone on that subreddit has a HVM boyfriend(by that subs standards) they’re just lonely girls basically writing fiction. The behaviors of those women are extremely unattractive to men, and the only man that meets their criteria would be a literal doormat. Good looking men with options aren’t doorma…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 12:30 AM
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FDS is good for a woman who wants to end up alone, it’s a whole subreddit equivalent telling women to never settle, they can do better, etc TRP actually teaches men how to be successful with women and not end up alone. They couldn’t be more different.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 12:27 AM
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I think you’re misunderstanding and overusing the word manipulating. Women on PPD have nothing to gain from manipulating guys on the Reddit platform. What are they manipulating for? Reddit karma? I think all women have some natural manipulative tendencies but online most are just giving their opinion, they don’t have an agenda. What could would it do to manipulate a random guy on a public Internet forum? Unless you meant manipulating them via PM but I’m not sure how you would see or know about t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 12:10 AM
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They think they will get commitment from it eventually if they show how special they are
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 07:25 AM
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If they were single? How many men were interviewed?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 07:25 AM
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Yeah I agree but in this case he was more attractive than me, and in my experience guys of his attractiveness level didn't want relationships with me. He showed a lot more interest than they did, which is what led to the "simping" i guess. I wouldn't do it for someone who didn't already show a ton of interest, but I wanted to maximize the chances of it becoming a relationship vs a fling. I think more women should do this with attractive men they are seeing and sleeping with. If he's unsure about…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 07:10 PM
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Women don’t find casual sex “fun” regardless of what they want you to believe. Only the true degenerate whores find sleeping around fun. Most normal girls cry because they wanted a relationship with that man they slept with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 11:56 AM
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You wouldn't be annoyed if he was attractive, you'd be flattered.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:21 PM
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You have to add value to a mans life, especially if its a very attractive man. As long as he's at least somewhat attracted to you, showing a willingness to help out and give when other women just want to take take take, or bring nothing to the table, will make a guy see you as girlfriend/wife material.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:19 PM
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Women have never liked being approached by unattractive strangers. When we are single, we get excited being approached by attractive strangers. I haven’t been single for a long time, but I know from my own experiences and the experiences of my girls, randomly meeting an attractive guy is exciting and “fate”, “meant to be”. They’ll think that guy is their fucking soulmate or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 06:37 AM
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We only minded if the guy was unattractive. When women meet an attractive guy randomly, they think it’s fate, meant to be, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 06:35 AM
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Meeting a man online is more risky than dealing with someone on the street. You don’t know who is going to show up when you meet someone online. When you meet them irl, you might now know who they are as a person, but its them. When I was single, I never minded being approached irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 06:34 AM
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Was she over her obsession with him by the time y’all dated?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 06:27 AM
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All women want serious relationships with the men they sleep with, unless they are disgustingly broken and at that point are basically prostitute status.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 04:08 AM
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Every boyfriend I’ve ever had used that or something similar. And I’ve been in four serious relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:58 AM
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Was this before you dated him? After? During? Doesn’t sound like a very good friend if it was after or during. And if it was before, then you’d be the bad friend for going after someone she liked that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:55 AM
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UK girls…now it makes sense. They’re the sluttiest in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:54 AM
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r/thathappened
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:52 AM
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If you value a man and want him to become your boyfriend, you’ll put in effort for him. When I met my boyfriend his lease was ending and he had to go live with his dad who lived almost 2 hours away and I couldn’t sleepover because his stepmom wouldn’t allow it. So I’d drive there and back a few times a week just to hang out with him. He would drive to my house too obviously and sleep over but only on weekends when he wasn’t working. He had no real rental history or credit so it was hard for him …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:46 AM
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That isn’t simping, I don’t think any athletes are faithful. Can’t expect an attractive rich guy to be faithful to what is very likely just a normal girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:36 AM
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You can’t cancel a normal person irl. You can only cancel people with fame or success… what would this girl have to lose if she was “cancelled”? She’s a student, there’s no good job to lose. There’s no reputation at stake.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:34 AM
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The delusion is strong with this one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 09:43 PM
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It works to an extent with all women, but for example BPD chicks become obsessed with men that don't give them a lot of attention.. men that are hot and cold. normal women like this, but they do have a breaking point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 06:46 PM
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Definitely not many more. Way less. I think you underestimate how many people met their partners at work. You can also date and breakup and still maintain your job. I’ve lived through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:14 AM
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Well I have this issue with my partner but we make it work. There are more important things in relationships than sex. this is the happiest ive been in a relationship because I think other things matter way more than sex. Fwiw I have the higher libido, but I can put it aside. And I didn’t know his libido was lower until well into the relationship when I had already fallen in love with him because we did have sex a lot in the beginning. But now he’s on a medication for his recovery that hinders h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 05:04 PM
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Yet millions of people meet their partners through work....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 09:16 AM
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Then you have even less to worry about. Men aren't going to report women for HR for flirting with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 09:16 AM
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There's absolutely no stigma meeting someone in school. It's completely normal. People have been doing that forever and still are. There's some stigma when it comes to the workplace, but millions of americans are banging or dating their coworkers. When you're around someone often enough, attraction and sexual tension develop. It's what I like to call "situational hotties", you become attracted to the person at work because they're the most attractive person there, and crushing on someone is a re…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 09:14 AM
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The main reason it sucks is that people will never truly value the people they meet on there, thinking there is something wrong with the other person for having to resort to online dating, even if they would have liked that person if they met irl. People make excuses for themselves, but subconsciously judge others as low value for being on OLD apps. There's also the obvious notion that people believe someone better is just one match away, so they hold out. In real life, there are limited options…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 09:11 AM
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Yes, all of them. I’m a woman almost 27, lost my virginity at 18, haven’t had one night stands but have had relationships of varying degrees of seriousness, couple fwbs. Less than 10 partners. Everyone asks, no one really cares though. My boyfriend now thinks my number is very low compared to the other girls he’s been with, and our n-count is the same so it’s kinda sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 09:43 PM
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I'll clarify, I don't agree with third wave feminism. And I don't think 90% of women enjoy having casual sex. They are forced into it because men expect it due to other women doing it. We have to have sex early on or they'll move on to someone who will.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 10:40 AM
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Because it literally fixes your facial proportions. Smaller nose, thinner jaw, lower philtrum, larger lips, larger eyes. That's enough for most women to become prettier.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 10:32 AM
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I’m a woman, so why wouldn’t I like what feminism has to say? It benefits me, right? But it’s entitled and I’d prefer a more traditional lifestyle. I hate that women are expected to work now, I’d love to be a housewife but perfect people don’t exist so my man is good looking and a good person but he’s not rich and thinks women who don’t work are kinda lazy because of the indoctrination of this world. He’s a hard worker but he expects me to work too. We both wish we lived and met eachother like 5…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 12:44 AM
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A woman who fucked 5 "Chads" off of Tinder is going to be much more threatening than the equivalent woman who had 5 relationships or had 5 clients as an escort. But an escort will have way more clients and a higher body count than a Tinder slut. So if Tinder girl fucked 10 chads, the escort has fucked 100s of men. Besides, the tinder girl fucking the chads probably wanted a relationship with them and didn't get it. She probably didn't think she was signing up for what would turn out to be a one …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 07:00 PM
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That handbook is a how-to guide on spinsterhood. Men have flaws. You have to accept them for their flaws. Women from FDS expect a flawless man even though they are average or sub-average women with a variety of mental issues. No man they describe in their book would actually want them. Men don't want women with that toxic, demanding, feminist personality type. Feminists can't get the men they want because they are repulsive to be around, and no man with options would choose a feminist over a non…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:57 PM
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There are people who live together and are in life long relationships who never get married, just as there are plenty of people who get married that get divorced. I'm not sure why marriage is seen as the marker of commitment when so many of them end anyway. Although if you haven't moved in together, yeah, your relationship is doomed for failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:49 PM
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No shame to the short men, I’ve even dated a guy who was 5’6 and very charming, his charisma made him sexy. We had really good sex and got along really well and the only reason I didn’t take the relationship seriously wasnt even because of his height, I was kinda in love with him (not a deep love but we were together for like 9 months with 3 months off in the middle) but because he had two kids from two different baby mamas and he was unstable with his addictions and always getting arrested for …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 08:20 AM
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For every Tik Tok level girl, there is the same completely average looking girl behind the filters and angles irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 12:50 AM
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It happened all the time in the 80s. a lot of my fathers brothers had green card marriages, then dumped them once they met the citizen criteria and brought a woman from their own country.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 11:36 PM
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Just one of many girls he can call up to fuck whenever. A lot of times, that’s the only guy the girl is seeing (or sleeping with at least) and she convinces herself that the relationship is more serious than it is, and tries hard to ignore red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 11:34 PM
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Oh absolutely, she’s not going to get the guy 9/10 times. But she’s absolutely going to try. She’ll probably be stuck in the plate zone fantasizing about becoming his girlfriend one day when he realizes how amazing and unique she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 11:31 PM
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20 minutes? More like 2 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 11:20 PM
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Yeah no, you can deff be too short/ too ugly. Money is a cope because it’s viewed as something a person can change. There are hot unemployed guys living off their stripper girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 11:17 PM
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I just used top 5% because I saw it used here. there is no universal top 5%, but if a woman sees a man that she finds more attractive than 95% of guys, she will want him for more than validation. She can’t let someone like that slip away and will try to get in a relationship with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 11:11 PM
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No way. If you look at a photo of a group of men from years ago, almost all of them were at least average. A lot of them were handsome. There were almost none of the fat, low T neckbeards we see everywhere today.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 11:05 PM
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Nah. It was invented in the early 2000s and most women thought they were above online dating until maybe 3-4 years ago when it became more mainstream. Most women didn’t want to see themselves as someone who had to resort to online dating…. Until they saw other hot girls doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 11:02 PM
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No, men think women want that. Plenty of women are with deadbeat hot guys and they support the guy by stripping or prostituting. Those guys aren’t earning six figures. I only care about one of those things, the height. And that’s because I’m 5’8. My boyfriend only meets the height requirement, other stuff doesn’t matter because he’s hot and a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 10:59 PM
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Women aren’t using men in the top 5% for attention and free drinks, they do that with undesirable men. They aren’t even just trying to sleep with them. If a woman sees a guy in the top 5%, she’s fantasizing about locking him down, regardless of how unrealistic
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 10:54 PM
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I think you’re on the wrong sub, this isn’t r/femaledatingstrategy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 10:52 PM
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He’s just looking at women online with Snapchat filters to completely alter their face. It’s hard to be a sub7 with the beauty filters on Snapchat completely modifying your features and proportions. Women irl are not getting better looking. They may be getting better at makeup, but it doesn’t make up for the fact that they have gotten much fatter.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 10:49 PM
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You’re kinda contradicting yourself? Why would the average guy begin to think the average girl is kind of hot when by your own admission, there are so many hot girls due to looksmaxxing? Your theory would mean the average girl looks below average since she hasn’t looksmaxxed
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 10:47 PM
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If a woman genuinely loves you, then she won't cheat on you. My man is having sexual dysfunction issues now due to a medication, but the thought of cheating on him has never crossed my mind. Because i only want him. The thought of a random dick does nothing for me. And I am someone who has cheated before, when I wasn't truly in love(both times I broke it off with the bf right after). If for some reason, my man could never have sex again, I can confidently say I would not cheat on him because I l…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 06:53 AM
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I’m a college educated woman but I don’t work a professional job, I work for myself. I have always been more attracted to blue collar men over white collar. I find them more masculine. Everyone that says women care about a mans education is misinformed, the only women who care about that are ones with high class social circles. I love my blue collar boyfriend, he can put things together and is just super masculine. Tradesmen are sexy!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 05:12 AM
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Well duh, that’s the point of my post. If we all had less sexual partners it would be guaranteed that he hasn’t had anyone better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 02:17 AM
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He says he is satisfied, I just want to go above and beyond if that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 06:31 PM
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Just being honest. This sub is relatively judgment free compared to others and it's nice to be able to share my inner thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 06:30 PM
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I hope you get to do it soon if it will make you happy and make you love your body! getting my implants out was the best decision of my life and made me a lot happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 06:29 PM
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Cocaine has no effect on my genitals when I snort it nor have I ever put it on my genitals. It makes me hyper, gives me a dry mouth, and is euphoric in the way that amusement parks are to children
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:59 AM
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I think they’re ugly, actually gaudy describes it better
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:39 AM
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It’s all a sham. He pretends to be a pro poker player and everyone in the poker community confirms that this guy is not a pro and is not crushing big games
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:23 AM
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The only benefit is being able to wear a ton of cute tops without a bra. I’ve been on both sides of it, I used to have implants that made me a DD and I hated it. But that’s because they didn’t look natural. Natural DDs are beautiful! Much moreso than implants imo because they have the teardrop shape as opposed to a lot of upper pole fullness(which I hated about my implants and most implants in general)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:53 PM
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Aw thank you. You are sweet. Yes there is a lot of burnout, we track every session we play. If it ever gets to the point where you aren’t profitable, you quit and reevaluate your life. I’ve already done that once. Worked a normal job and studied super hard (normally study 7 days a week and only play like 4 days a week) the edge is small because of luck, you just have to make sure you have one. Playing poker professionally is like being the casino. You’re going to lose sometimes but with an edge,…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 10:55 PM
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I weigh 120-125 lbs and they weigh 140-155 lbs
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 10:01 PM
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I could explain drugs to a sober person. Not the other two. The difference is I've had sex. Those crazy girls are also having sex. It's the same act, what makes it so different? You aren't explaining to a virgin... or even someone who is sexually sheltered. Any examples of what crazy girls did that wowed you in bed(that normal girls don't do) would be much appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:17 PM
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You can maybe be the best he can get but don't you want the best guy can get too? I feel like he is the best guy I can get, at least physically, and he checks a lot of my other boxes. He's in the top 5 best looking single guys I ever met, and was the only one out of those 5 that wanted to be in a serious relationship with me. I feel looks wise he may be out of my league, but I make up for it in other areas. We both play poker for a living, and being a pro poker player is his dream. So he meets a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:05 PM
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I just asked him and he said he wasn't sure, her maiden name is German though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:53 PM
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I've never heard someone say they hate a deep décolletage! Interesting, it's always been something I've been complimented on a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:45 PM
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I don't think anyone expects you to like single dads. I mean, it's certainly not the status quo that single dads are more attractive than men with no kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:41 PM
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I don't think you're expected to like black men. Maybe these days with woke culture? But for many, many years it was considered taboo. Even in the early 2000's. I'm only attracted to white guys as well. My only exception is South American (because they look white) or someone who is half white/half spanish or half white/half middle eastern (which is what I am).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:39 PM
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This makes me happy. I didn't think any guy felt this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:37 PM
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He doesn't look skinny fat, he just looks like a normal man. I thought skinny fat was someone who is very skinny but still has a bulging tummy or untoned body parts because they don't work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:35 PM
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I don't think you're supposed to be attracted to women with tattoos, more men agree with you that they're unattractive than disagree with you. ​ I'm a woman with some tattoos and I definitely never got them because I thought it would make me sexier to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:34 PM
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That's not something you're supposed to be attracted to though. That's just something women do for themselves or other women. I don't think women put nail designs on and think "yeah, guys are gonna think this is really sexy"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:31 PM
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I don't think men were ever attracted to those. It's just something women liked.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:30 PM
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I agree, I don't like super muscular guys. I like them skinny, most of my boyfriends have only weighed 20-30 lbs more than me and are about 4 inches taller. It's probably because I glamorized the rocker look when I was younger and carried it into adulthood. I also don't like how guys' necks look short when they're super muscular...I find long necks more attractive. Muscular guys look stubby to me. I also only like white guys. I'm not racist, most of my female friends are black. But there's somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:29 PM
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I just don't understand why being a mentally ill drug addict would make someone necessarily better in bed. What are they doing thats so much different than normal girls? I am very open to everything my partner wants to try, it's not like there are things he did with them that he can't do with me. In fact, I'm even willing to do a certain thing she didn't like doing (I'm sure you can guess). Have you slept with bpd druggy sluts? What do they do in bed that's so different? I genuinely want to know…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:15 PM
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He took Xanax on an airplane. A lot of people do, doctor's prescribe it for that. He had never been on a plane before. Yeah it was kinda scummy of me to use that state of vulnerability to ask questions that I knew he would never answer sober, but I didn't plan it. I just saw how he was acting and figured it would be a good time to pick his brain. He would never answer these questions sober, he doesn't like to talk about sex in general. He's pretty conservative. I never took Pickme as an insult, …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:12 PM
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He only had one serious girlfriend and she was really pretty but very obvious mentally unstable, a cheater, and a drug addict. I’ve seen some texts from her and they read like a crazy person in meth psychosis. She also definitely has BPD. He dumped her but had her on the sidelines until he met me because he didn’t want to be totally alone. But one of the other girls he has had sex with is very pretty also and that makes me a bit jealous. I feel like I don’t measure up to her, especially since af…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:09 AM
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What about this from the women’s perspective? I’ve experienced this. It’s hard to wonder if the man whose committing to spend the rest of his life with you has had better sex with hotter women. That’s why I like knowing every partner he has had and looking them up on social media. I want to know what I’m up against in terms of looks. when it comes to the sex, I’ll always wonder and pretty much expect that they were better than me since they had way more experience than me. I often feel plain and…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:59 AM
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White, his dad is Austrian.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:22 PM
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Not at all. I wouldn’t want to hook up with women, I don’t even want to have threesomes because I’m to possessive. I just get turned on by the thought of him with other women, I wouldn’t want it to happen in reality. My boyfriend is very much against threesomes regardless. He is pretty conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:44 AM
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Yea, I agree, I was just typing in height & weight combos of other girls I know to get an estimate of their BMI and I was surprised how many were technically overweight when they didn't look it. Conversely, I'm technically "underweight" when I'm at my lowest natural weight even though I don't look it. I think I start to look chubby at 145 lbs, but that weight is consistent with a healthy BMI for someone of my height.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 02:07 AM
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You're not missing out on anything, it's all fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 01:52 AM
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This would be a major dealbreaker. Just go experiment with men, it's okay. You're going to ruin any budding relationship with a woman. I'd run for the hills no matter how much I liked you. There wouldn't have been many things my current boyfriend couldve done to scare me off, this is one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 01:28 AM
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I used to do this when I was 17, I'm cringing now at the time and effort I put just to be told what I already inherently knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 01:25 AM
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this one is scary she ranges from 4/10 to 10/10 in some photos its almost like photoshop exists..? ​ she's awful looking. she manages to make her weird face look better in some pics, doesn't make her an 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 01:23 AM
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This is probably the unpopular opinion to admit but, I'd rather he think I look amazing. Or else I'd constantly worry about him not being attracted to me and would feel jealous of pretty girls. He can't compare my personality to other girls' if he never gets close enough to know their personalities. I also believe that personalities are not as simple as "good" "bad" and "average". People are more complex than that. I wouldn't describe my boyfriend's personality as objectively amazing(although pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 01:07 AM
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It's not masculine. I don't want to imagine my man sucking dick, getting fucked in the ass, or doing those things to another guy. Imagining my man hooking up with another woman actually turns me on tremendously, conversely. I also just don't think my beliefs would jive well with someone who is bisexual since they will probably be very liberal. It's a hard no for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 12:57 AM
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Yes exactly, taboo was the word I was looking for when writing and couldn’t think of!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 08:44 PM
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Lol this is wrong on so many levels and is just standard PPD delusions
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 08:32 AM
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Yeah so a 30” waist is not exactly small, it may just look small compared to your hips. So there has to be some fat on it, if you dropped down to a 20 BMI your waist would be significantly smaller because when you lose fat, you lose fat everywhere. I’m not trying to say you can’t look good being heavier because as long as your hips are noticeably bigger than your waist, you’ll have a nice and attractive shape. But there’s certainly some fat going to your midsection, you are fortunate that it is …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 02:32 AM
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It still is impossible, I doubt your stomach is as flat or waist as thin as someone of my weight for example. It’s just not possible, there’s going to be some fat there. How many inches is your waist?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 02:23 AM
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I don’t really consider a BMI under 25 to be fat, but you are fortunate. You know that is not the case for 99% of women. And I don’t let my BMI get over 20 for that reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 01:53 AM
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Well you have to already be hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 01:23 AM
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I think you’ve seen too many women with bbls and you’re convinced that’s natural. You’re the one talking about biology, fat distributes relatively evenly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 01:23 AM
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No, he would have to be a hot Nazi obviously. If he were anything less than hot, his tinder bio would be posted all over Twitter and sjws would be trying to get him fired from his job, even though they would have fucked him if he was hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 12:44 AM
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It’s pretty what?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 12:31 AM
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I mean, you can only include so many screenshots when presenting this kind of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 12:30 AM
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No way. Women are attracted to deviance. Even the radical feminists spouting critical race theory on Twitter will secretly want to fuck a hot Nazi, and they wouldn’t even know why. I’d go as far as to say the fact that he’s a Nazi would turn them on in some fucked up way. Obviously they wouldn’t date him because it’s not socially acceptable. This would be especially true for women who aren’t white. A nazi wanting to fuck them would give them a sort of validation in their minds. Like they are att…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 12:28 AM
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Women are attracted to deviance. I wouldn’t be surprised if it’s the sjws and rad fems who get wet to the thought of a nazi, honestly. They fuck a lot of guys, a percentage of those men are certainly racists.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 12:21 AM
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Why is it only women commenting about these mythical fatties who put all of their junk food fat into their chest hips and ass? That’s not how fat distribution works. You cannot be fat and have a small waist. It may look smaller because the hips are so wide, but it will never be a little waist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 12:09 AM
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You can’t have a “super slim” face if you are fat. It can be normal, but it won’t be super slim. Generally these women don’t look that fat, though and probably aren’t what OP is describing as a fat woman. You can’t be obese and have none of it go to your face. I can think of exactly two women who were around 180lb (but they were both tall atleast 5’7) and still had nice faces that hadn’t been enveloped in fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 12:07 AM
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I think yes, but not for a deeper reason other than people spent more time online and had more time to fall into rabbit holes. It’s the first time any of my real life friends discovers Trp, and it’s due to spending a lot of time on YouTube.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 09:26 PM
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I don’t really associate boring with lacking social skills. Most boring people have good social skills they just aren’t fun to be around. Unless by social skills you meant charisma? You would be able to identify a lack of social skills far before the honeymoon period.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 09:54 PM
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There are guys I’ve had chemistry with that were average at best, and good looking guys I’ve had no chemistry with. Although I admit, if you’re very good looking like an objective 8+ which is rare(I’ve only ever gone on dates with 4 or 5 guys who I’d rate at that level) I’ll feel chemistry 100%. I’ve only managed to secure a relationship with one of those guys, and I’m still with him. I generally would lose attraction 6 months or so into a relationship until him and end up breaking up within a y…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 09:46 PM
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How would a song written by a woman in any way represent the reality of what men want?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 02:22 AM
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Yeah they say that because they don’t want to admit they’re fucking disgusting bottom of the barrel men Doesn’t it just make them seem oh so desirable to have desirable men paying them for sex? Cute fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 01:53 AM
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Happy to do so! That site has a lot of good truths but there's a balance in everything, and they go too far with a lot of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 06:00 PM
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Just one or two of these alone don't mean much. When writing it, I did consider IUDs(which I know you aren't going to just remove when becoming single) but figured birth control pill is more common still. When I would be single, there would be no point in me taking birth control because I don't plan on having casual sex. Also, I don't know about "most women" getting an IUD in relationships, because I know exactly one person with an IUD and she has it for medical reasons, like you stated is the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:58 PM
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You'll also never run into those dudes and never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:03 PM
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You already seem too jaded and set in your beliefs about women, but I've compiled the truly 100% only credible slut tells from that site... in order of reliability. -Poly -Lost virginity very young -Bisexual -Travels alone -Feminist, especially radical left. -On BC/IUD while single -Tongue piercing -Fake tits/ass -Social media attention whore -Smokes cigarettes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:59 PM
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Link 2 Part 2 Is a single mother. This almost goes without saying, but single mothers rarely made one “mistake,” as they often claim. She only made one mistake that’s visible and audible to everyone. You're best off avoiding them, but they aren't the sluttiest of the bunch. They got pregnant because they wanted to lock that guy down. The sluttiest girls won't let a child get in the way of her ho-ing. Describes herself as polyamorous, “into kink,” sex-positive, or simply as being “sexual.” Obviou…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:43 PM
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Link 2 Part 1 She smokes (cigarettes). In my experience this is a pretty good indicator, however the one point in my life I smoked cigs, I wasn't sexually active. I'd put this in the top 10 though. 2.Has mostly “guy friends.” This one is hit or miss. If the guy friends are attractive, she's a ho. If they're ugly, it might just be shared interests. Wears color contacts. Lmfao no, my virgin friend wears color contacts. Zero correlation. Has slutty role models like Miley Cyrus, Taylor Swift, or any…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:14 AM
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Link 1 Part 2 14-24 Was a cheerleader in high school. Cheerleaders have, and exploit, access to the most desirable and horniest dudes at school. You should've seen the cheerleaders in my school. There is very little correlation. Most of them are in LTRs with these "desirable, horny dudes".15. Went, or goes, to a known party college (e.g., Arizona State, USC, UC Santa Barbara). Girls are copycats, and when all of her friends “are doing it” (whatever “it” is), they do too. (See No. 10.)This is a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:29 AM
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I read these articles when I discovered the RP community ~8 years ago. It's incredibly outdated, and even at the time, it was way too stereotypical. You'd be hard-pressed to find any girl that didn't tick a couple of the boxes in 2013, and in 2021, many of these "red-flags" became trends that have no correlation to sluttiness(and many had no correlation even in 2013). Gen-Z is far less sexually active than older generations, yet as I will explain below in my breakdown, tick more of the boxes tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:14 AM
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I doubt those cows could even get someone for casual sex. Atleast not someone up to their kween 💅 standards
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:50 AM
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Thanks, you too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:48 AM
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You haven’t gotten to me at all. I just think you’re an idiot and when I see idiotic behavior, I comment on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:46 AM
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Probably by your standards since I’ve had sex with more than 1 guy, but not by my fiancé’s standards. A man who gets laid. Not a virgin internet troll. I don’t think there’s a single woman on the planet who cares about your opinion on anything, and that’s why you hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:41 AM
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For his lack of sexual history* Women with high N counts disgust you because your brain interprets it as women seemingly handing out sex to everyone but you. This is just sad at this point. You’re missing out on a basic human activity that people have been happily participating in since the beginning of time. You’re shaming women for having 2-3 partners which is normal. Below average actually. You clearly don’t care about it from a moral perspective like you are trying to portray because you enc…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:12 AM
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Yep definitely a porn addicted virgin who consumed too much red pill content. Better yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:00 AM
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Only a guy that has never had sex would shame women for having sex with more than one man. Men who are sexually active want women to be sexual active to some degree or else there would be no women for them to have sex with. I mean it just seems like a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:56 AM
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No they aren’t rp lmao, or they wouldn’t have married these women in the first place. The common denominator in all of these posts is then women lying about their sexual history when getting involved and having it come out later. If they were honest from the jump, they would weed out men who care and end up marrying men okay with their pasts. It’s a little weird that you seem to have a collection of these to offer up, as if you enjoy the despair of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:42 AM
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Just speaking from my experience, we never introduced guys we were crushing on into the friend group.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 09:00 AM
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My best friend is 27 and still a virgin. She's Muslim, but you wouldn't know by looking at her. She's very beautiful, but has strict parents, and doesn't want to have sex before marriage. She is currently in a long distance relationship, but hasn't had many opportunities for relationships in her life, which is surprising given how pretty she is. Including her current boyfriend, she has only ever "talked" to 3 guys. One she kissed and sent nudes to because he would beg for them. One never went an…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 10:03 PM
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Argument, jealousy, stupidity, testosterone, he's a bad boy/fuckboi/arsehole, or it's Thursday, you pick. I actually have had this situation, but it was right after leaving my ex for my current man. He sent threatening messages and a screenshot of a video he took of us having sex, threatening to send the whole video. My boyfriend didn't care then, doesn't care now. We actually do run into him because we all play poker in the same room, but now that the initial hurt is gone, my ex says nothing to…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:53 PM
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Not when that thing is an inherent part of human behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 12:29 AM
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You gotta admit it’s a pretty virginal question. Reminds me of me asking myself at age 12 how people learned to kiss, how do they know what to do with their tongues?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 12:26 AM
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If he was that attractive, they would be trying to make him their boyfriend. Women aren’t just content with casual sex from attractive men, they want more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 12:24 AM
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Yes but we are talking about today on this sub, these aren’t small towns where people are running into each other, and since it’s now widely accepted that people have sex before marriage, I don’t think any man would really even think to bring that up. Why would he? What would be the purpose in attempting to break up the marriage of his ex and her current partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 12:09 AM
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NO lmao they figured it out on their own, as everyone does. Are you a virgin? Maybe 5% of the population learns about positions from books or…word of mouth? That’s weird. Especially in the old days, people would not have talked about that stuff. It’s really not hard to figure out, there are no wrong positions. Your body will naturally shift into positions that increase pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 06:34 PM
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Who needs porn to figure out new positions? Lmao wtf people just figure that stuff out on their own. When you’re having sex you’re not actively thinking about what positions to try out, you just do what feels good…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 06:31 PM
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I know, I’m just giving some anecdotal evidence. My friend had a baby and is just as thin at 27 as she was at 19. Not sure what makes other people balloon with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:41 PM
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I've heard plenty of put downs that ended relationships, where the bad guy simply says; "I had her when she was young, fit, sexy and extremely willing" - There is absolutely no comeback, it's a complete fatality move. No, you didn't. This fantasy is hilarious. You act like people's former partners are just somehow around? You'd have to run into them and the ex would have to care enough to even bother to say anything like that. Maybe a bitter woman hater like you would, but most men would let it …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:05 PM
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You hate women, it's obvious from your post. You have some fantasy about these guys from the past just popping up out of nowhere and ending relationships because it makes you happy to think of women being single and miserable, probably like yourself. I'm far more "willing" as a sexual partner than I was in my teens and early 20's, where I was inexperienced, prudish, and afraid of being viewed as slutty. My last relationship & current got my best, most willing sex. I'm also thinner than I was 7 y…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:01 PM
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I was 145 in my late teens/early 20's and am now 125 in my late 20's. I didn't even actively change my diet or exercise either. I think the difference was that I stopped smoking weed. People generally make positive lifestyle changes as they get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:51 PM
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would you be willing to engage in a strictly FWB relationship with your current LTR partner? Yes, absolutely, but it would kill me inside because I love him. He's the only person I ever want to have sex with again. I'd say women give their best sex to men who they want to be in relationships with as a means of getting them to commit. I'd imagine they don't bother for one night stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:48 PM
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We would never have super attractive males in our friend group because one of us would have tried to be in a relationship with him, and then he'd be off limits from the rest. This just sounds like some redpill theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:45 PM
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how I imagine living in a porn plot is Pretty sure that's what he imagined as well when he made this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:44 PM
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I agree, the occasion where I made out with a male friend of several years(felt awkward going any further even though we slept in the same bed) happened when both of us had no options at the same time for the first time in years, and he was heartbroken over some girl. It was also when I had moved away and he came to my city to go to a concert with me. We knew we were always somewhat attracted to each other, but he had a girlfriend when we met and we were both teenagers interested in weed and oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:41 PM
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This just reads as a brag post, especially the comments stating this won't work if you aren't attractive like me. It doesn't even sound realistic, unless your friends are absolute whores. Why would they offer to suck you off? What do they gain from that? The natural progression would be making out and then doing other things, not just a blowjob offer. These reads like some teenage fantasy. Among all of the male friends I ever had in life, I only ever made out with one of them and it was super aw…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:33 PM
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Do men really get turned on by... hair color and eye color? It's one of the least important things in assessing someone's attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:01 AM
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Let's not forget the rampant killing of women in the middle east because it's better she die than bring shame to the family name.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:00 AM
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Something tells me you don't have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 11:58 PM
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they'd be horrible parents if he confessed what happened and they just went ahead and turned him into the police. no one that loves their kid would do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 11:58 PM
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If your child committed murder, would you help them get away with it? if it was not premeditated, which I don't think this was, then for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 11:55 PM
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She was found in a national park. I'm sure theres a lot of rocks around, it's not out of the question that he pushed her and she fell and hit her head on a rock. People have died from less.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 11:53 PM
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She definitely seemed like the crazy one based on the police footage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 11:52 PM
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I just saw a video of her, she was really happy and authentic. I'm not saying she's not.. but everyone puts on that act for the camera when they want a social media career. She seems pretty unhinged and a little bit crazy in the police video.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 11:49 PM
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So most people believe Johnny never came to her house that one night as an adult, right? That's just kinda been written off as the mother's delusions?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 11:45 PM
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When the girl nags about getting engaged because she thinks it will fix things, or when the guy proposes to make up for his shitty behavior that hasn't changed, as a gesture of making change without really changing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 11:43 PM
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Every girl is willing to learn if she likes you enough. When someone says a girl is "crazy in bed" I don't picture a girl that's been trained that way, I picture someone whose been that way since day one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/21 12:16 AM
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as a woman with a few long term relationships, I had sex early on with all of them except the first who I lost my virginity to. Second date for two, first date for one, and third for the other. When I thought a guy was way out of my league, I didn’t have sex with them for 3+ dates because I didn’t want to get ghosted. And I got ghosted before ever having sex with them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/21 06:13 PM
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My ex best friend was legit crazy, diagnosed schizophrenic with a plethora of other issues, and was also bad in bed. I know this only because she forced me to watch sex tapes of her and her boyfriend and it was obvious she had no idea what she was doing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/21 06:08 PM
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Nah they're up there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/21 12:19 AM
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a lot of women hookup in hopes of securing a relationship, most don’t enjoy it. They feel like they have to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:55 PM
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You absolutely do not recognize or understand the reality of the situation. You’re misguided and/or inexperienced which is significantly clouding your judgment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:53 PM
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You sound like you have little to no experience with dating or relationships. People who think “walking away” is an easy and obvious solution clearly have never been emotionally attached to someone. They were engaged ffs. And no, men you are hooking up with aren’t going to kill you. generally if you’re going to be killed by a man it’s going to be by a boyfriend/husband, not someone as uninvested as a hookup. also pregnancy is extremely easy to prevent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:48 PM
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He called her crazy because she was violent with him. The footage shows him with scratches and cuts, and not a mark on her. Her little rant to police just seemed like her making excuses for her obviously violent behavior. She does come off as crazy in the video. Also keep in mind SHE was the one who was nearly charged with domestic violence, not him. I’m inclined to believe the cops were more privy to the details of the situation than random, biased people on the internet. Obviously he’s crazy a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:43 PM
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What would you rate these people? I’ve seen them irl which is what I base it the ratings off of.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 05:21 PM
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Men of his attractiveness level normally go for different kinds of women, especially when you consider he’s an athlete. Did you even look them up? Or are you just arguing for the sake of arguing?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 06:07 PM
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It’s pretty obvious in the Foxen/Bicknell coupling that he wouldn’t have gone for a girl like that under normal circumstances. He could get a model. But yes being around these people has a lot to do with it as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 06:04 PM
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I’m a poker player and I was able to snag a poker player boyfriend whose like an 8.5+(he’s a 10 to me) when outside of poker id only be getting 6s wanting to be in relationships. I can give you some examples of couples from our poker world: Alex Foxen, a former football player turned poker player is a solid 9. He’s engaged to Kristen Bicknell who is a 6(although she’s been looking better recently). He would’ve never gone for her if she wasn’t a poker player. Alex Foxen is a jock and Kristen Bick…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 05:32 PM
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Obviously she posts pictures of her doing those things because those are activities she enjoys and partakes in? I am a poker player and a lot of my pictures on online dating profiles when I was single would be of me in some sort of a poker setting because that is where I spend the majority of my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 05:09 PM
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I think they need to stop demanding that straight men have sex with them, because once a “straight man” does that, he’s no longer straight. A genuinely straight man could never get hard knowing a woman was born a dude. Doesn’t matter what they look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 09:02 AM
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I wasn't really disagreeing, just offering another POV. I agree it's easier for a girl with a lower N count to pair bond and do everything to keep that relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 06:40 PM
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Yeah it's hard, because when you have a kid all of your progress in all of the other areas stop. You won't be able to put work hard, travel a lot, etc. Figuring out the right time to have a kid is so, so important for women. I'm 26 and trying to figure it out. There are so many benefits of waiting until after 30, but so many cons as well. I'm thinking pregnant at 29 and have the baby at 30 is good for a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 05:53 PM
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I've literally never looked at a guy and thought about his earning potential, but I grew up with money so maybe that's why. I never cared about socioeconomic status, I have a Bachelor's and have had 4-5 serious relationships (I don't know whether to count one of them as serious or not since I knew from the jump I wasn't going to settle down with him). 4 out of those 5 were with men who had never been to college. Only one of them had a Bachelor's, and we were the least compatible. I'm confused ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 05:47 PM
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Who's to say once she enjoys it she won't want to go out and try it with someone else? I think the best option is women who have N-counts below 10, but over 3. That way she's experienced but not used up, but has been with enough men that she's tired of the game and wants to tap out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 05:41 PM
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yes but plenty of people still use it to look for relationships since it is the most popular, mainstream app and people view it as having the highest number of "normal" people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 05:37 PM
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Kind of just reiterating what others have said, but try to meet girls irl. Women have a stronger connection to men they meet irl. They tell themselves it was meant to be, destiny, there’s a spark, etc. also women (and probably men) subconsciously devalue men from dating apps because deep down they think a truly desirable man wouldn’t need to resort to dating apps. Doesn’t matter if they are on the app themselves, people make excuses for themselves. Get good at talking to people of both genders. …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 02:26 AM
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I think most women prefer naturals. I can tell when a guy has studied rp theory and game and is attempting to implement it. Naturals just have it, and they don’t despise women. I think this question is too unbalanced. Even if Michael were more attractive, I think most women would prefer the Brad. Short, average looking dudes who have natural game and charisma get women very easily in real life, where the strongest chemistry is formed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 02:14 AM
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Also proofreading? Wtf are you on As someone who doesn’t use ig and tiktok, yes I find it shallow, and it’s younger people who tend to use it heavily. Posting pictures of yourself with filters or dumb videos of you dancing says a lot about your character. I almost feel like you’re speaking from a wishful perspective, because if you’ve actually spent any considerable time with Gen Z girls, you would know that constant photo/video taking comes with the territory. I was a manager at an ice rink wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 02:10 AM
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Sorry, I’m taken. No I actually think a lot of women my age are damaged and bitter, spiteful as you put it. Why would I be spiteful? It all worked out for me in the end, I’m engaged to a guy I love and respect. I think this obsession with younger girls stems from insecurity because I’ve been that younger girl and I am repulsed by the 26-27 year olds I thought were attractive when I was 18. My man now, who is 28, thinks men who date significantly younger girls are creeps. And I can assure you he …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 01:51 AM
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It would’ve flattered my ego more to get 22-23 year olds when I was 18, not 26-27. I just took what I could get. I already admitted younger women are more attractive, but most of them are shallow vacant people. If you want spend your time filming stupid dance Tik Toks of your 18 y/o gf, be my guest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 05:14 AM
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I don’t really blame the age of the man, and age doesn’t correlate with abuse, it was just my own naivety and immaturity that caused me to miss warning signs and red flags that I would’ve seen if I were older. I don’t see a problem with it if the woman is over 25, she can date whoever she wants. But 18-20 year olds… they’re just so immature and are better with someone in their age range.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 04:38 AM
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I know, I'm glad you brought it up. Whenever I've gotten into discussions about the age of consent, majority of people assume that for 16-17 year olds, they can only have sex with people with up to 4 years older than them. The Romeo and Juliet laws i think? An astonishing number of people do not realize that is for kids under 16 or kids in states where the age of consent is 18. I think many men who do know still shy away from it due to the social stigma. All of the comments about "a new girl tur…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 03:43 PM
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When I was 18 dating older guys, guys in their mid-late 20s, and I would hear “those guys are only dating younger girls because they can’t get girls their own age,” I chalked it up to jealousy. These old washed up girls are just jealous men went younger girls. “They want a young girl because she’s easier to manipulate, girls with less experience won’t see the red flags,” oh sure, they’re just mad they wasted their youth and couldn’t lock down a guy. Now that I am in my mid/late 20s I see how abs…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 09:02 PM
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What do you as a 37 year old have in common with a 19 year old girl? It’s predatory even if not illegal, there’s an undeniable power imbalance. When I was 18, I was dating a 26 turned 27 year old and the relationship was extremely predatory. I was still a kid, now that I’m 26 going on 27, I cringe because I’d want nothing to do with an 18 year old. And I have dated younger guys by 1-2 years so it’s not like I think women have to always be younger than men. But big age gaps do not lead to healthy…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 07:59 PM
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I didn't intentionally forget to take it nor did I actively want a child with him. We were not getting along and hardly ever having sex, I usually remember to take birth control when I'm thinking about sex and if I'm not thinking about it, I might forget a day or two. And just because I said I want to have a child soon doesn't mean I'd try to get pregnant without my partners knowledge. Of course I wouldn't, especially after the nightmare of my first pregnancy. My current boyfriend wants to have …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:58 PM
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My ex and I were barely having sex so I got lazy with taking my birth control. I get pregnant, want to keep it even though our relationship was in shambles, i'd already had baby fever so I was actually happy to be pregnant. My ex freaked out, begged me to get an abortion, and when I wouldn't pudge, he threatened to use his family's connections (moms a prosecutor, his dad was a well respected judge) to get custody taken from me citing my past drug history even though i was on maintenance. i could…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:45 AM
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I'm a girl who had fake tits in college(got them removed later) and barely was invited to parties. I had no on-campus friends, spent all of my time in my apartment doing drugs with my druggie friends who weren't from my college, and the only people I hung out with on campus were drug dealers. I went to like one frat party and thats only because one of my druggie friends who didnt go to that school was friends with a frat boy at the school. I went to a couple parties here and there but nothing to…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:37 AM
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Yeah that’s why I distinguished the two. Serial swiping at least shows some initiative, although a lot of guys take the validation of a couple girls swiping right on them as evidence that they’re attractive, and sit around and talk about girls on the internet when they’re too awkward to talk to them. The other activities, especially the onlyfans, are absolutely not conducive to getting laid. It’s pathetic weak behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 04:58 AM
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I have no idea what point you’re trying to make with Vegas and how it even remotely applies to this scenario. Girls aren’t an activity or vice like drugs or gambling, they are other human beings like yourself. Treat them like it, don’t put them on a pedestal just for existing. They’ll respect you more. You can have a happy, healthy relationship with a female, the same can’t really be said for gambling and drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 04:48 AM
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What are friends? You’re on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 04:45 AM
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But what they’re doing doesn’t get results, I mean maybe the serial swiping, but Instagram comments and only fans won’t quench their thirst. They’re just putting a status gap between themselves and the girl
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 04:37 AM
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Social media is isolating us from each other, while simultaneously giving the illusion of a relationship. You have all these options at your fingertips, but you grow close to none of them. People get the momentary satisfaction of attention from the opposite sex from a Like or a DM but they don’t foster it into anything more because it seems like it will always be there. I’ve noticed a lot of people are into sexting photos of eachother to people they aren’t and won’t end up having sex with. It sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 04:06 AM
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Because most men’s aversion to soliciting prostitutes isn’t the cost, having a girlfriend is arguably more expensive over time. It’s not a luxury, the average person could afford to see a sex worker two to three times a week, middle range ones anyway. If we’re talking about cheap drugs addicted ones, if only purely sex matters and looks do not(which clearly is the case for some men considering the women I’ve seen still in business walking the streets) then you could afford one every day of the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:39 AM
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The most attractive nails are naturally semi-long nails, either clean or with some nail polish, not fake long nails. Women use those fake nails as a status symbol that they don’t have to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 07:41 PM
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True, I guess when I see accidental pregnancy I think of “accidental” pregnancy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 07:38 PM
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Slutty women baby trap men alllll the time. They see men constantly leaving them because they are sluts, and see a baby as a solution to keep them around. Good women know that a man will stick around and build a relationship with them, they don't need to trap him. Sluts have lost so many men that they're far more desperate to keep one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 06:46 AM
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i disagree, people should make themselves as attractive as possible irl. plastic surgery is the only one that takes it a bit too far. one thing we would be better off without is instagram & other social media profiles with edited pictures that look nothing like real-life humans, thereby raising the standards of both males & females, and giving feelings of self inadequacy. Photoshop and facetune are more harmful than makeup and beauty treatments... because when a woman wears makeup, gets beauty t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 06:40 AM
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No, because part of the satisfaction is getting the girl to like you. An AI is no different than a prostitute, except it's not human. It absolutely will change nothing in normal male & female dating markets, it will just give incels something other than their hand. There is no conquest with an AI, there is no impressing them. It's all phony, and the only men that would enjoy this are the ones that have never gotten a real human woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 06:31 AM
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6.5" is quite big and I don't think any woman would be dissatisfied with that. Even 6" is more than enough. But yeah, I didn't even consider girth. I'd bet that there's more than just dick size at play here... her ex just probably had better technique & has more experience. Hell, for us females "good sex" has more to do with our attraction to the man anyway. If she thought her now ex fiance is beta, the sex with him will never be as good as with her ex (who I'm sure didn't want to marry her & hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 10:03 AM
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They think it validates their desire for a tall man. i’m not like every other girl who wants a tall guy, I’m actually tall so I need one
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/21 03:09 AM
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He doesn’t have a 7” dick lol he’s insecure. It’s statistically unlikely she would enter a relationship with two different guys with dick sizes over 7”, a good two inches over average, and that’s a lot in that department. As a female, the difference between 7” and bigger would be negligible, vaginas are only so deep. Also I’d imagine any bigger than 7” would be bordering on uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 02:49 AM
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It doesn't make sense for women to work hard and try to build their careers and make good money if they want someone to have more money than them. I personally don't care how much someone makes. I left my 666 ex for my current boyfriend, now fiance, who is 555 and i couldn't be happier, I guess I'm broken.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/21 05:29 PM
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I’m surprised Tomi isn’t married, isn’t she a conservative?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/21 01:04 AM
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To be honest most of these only fans girls are too dumb for Wordpress. They’re only good at social media because it’s easy
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/21 09:20 PM
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This girls not getting paid to model anything
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/21 12:56 AM
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Millions of people began their relationships just like you. They felt all those beautiful feelings. They felt 100% in love. this is the part i disagree with because ive been in another relationships before that were on track to lead to marriage because thats what you're supposed to do. if i've had 3 or 4 relationships like that for 1 that feels right, it would make more sense for people to be in a relationship that doesn't feel right because it's simply more common. it's not easy to meet someone…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/21 06:10 PM
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We're here to understand gender dynamics and how women's bad choices directly lead to their sorry results. I'm aware, and its through a very redpilled lense. Many other redpill subs are about self improvement and I assume there's a lot of crossover. ​ A lot of things can be. But in the real world, they aren't. We try to understand why they are or aren't. Even if you choose the right one, she has the loaded gun of law and culture backing her up to utterly screw over his life at any moment. The sy…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/21 04:17 PM
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Telling the truth about what? Not monkey branching to “better” men? Well part of it is being in love but also reading rp subs and knowing that my value is only going down as a woman so if I ever fucked this up, I’m only going to get a worse man or no man. Also having a partner better looking than me that I’m terrified of losing. He doesn’t have money or anything, just good looking and a good heart. And that’s enough. I grew up with money so I was never hurting for that. I feel like girls who car…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 04:55 AM
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I’m really sorry that happened to you. She sounded trustworthy, I’d be shocked too. Makes me sad to even hear it. I think people should do their best to avoid temptation and not really hang out without their partner.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 04:37 AM
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I’m not perfect neither is he, we aren’t any example of a traditional couple but we are happy. These women exist tho and I hope you find one, they aren’t the girls showing their ass and seeking attention on social media. I don’t have ig or Snapchat or that stuff, it’s only a negative influence even on adults. It convinces them they need more and better constantly to keep up. It’s really toxic for both genders, men compare their woman to the photoshopped bodies on there and girls compare themselv…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 03:46 AM
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If you love someone you are afraid to lose them. It’s not about need. She has to want you, not need you. But honestly I feel like I need my boyfriend even though he doesn’t financially support me. The same girl that isn’t afraid to lose you is the one who will be extremely independent and hard to bond with. Why would you be okay with losing someone you loved?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 02:29 AM
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Some women can handle criticism. One of my two friends is a single mom and I straight up told her she needs to significantly lower her standards for a man now. She didn’t get offended or act crazy, she agreed. She would never have a profile like the women on here. I have a hard time believing these people truly exist. I don’t know how they get through life. Life criticizes you indirectly and teaches you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 02:19 AM
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I don’t and would never give my boyfriend that treatment, I respect him, adore him and honestly am afraid to lose him. I’m 26, dont wanna end up single and desperate with no options like the trash featured on this sub. You shouldn’t be with a girl who isn’t afraid to lose you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 02:13 AM
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What part do you disagree with? Because I agree with everything you’re saying. I don’t romanticize women from that era.. they paved the way for this and influenced their daughters who men deal with today. Their whole identity was marriage and then they divorce raped men...it was the first generation to do so en masse. Do all women feel entitled though? I certainly never felt entitled to someone else’s resources. My mother encouraged me to go after men with money/career and I didn’t. My boyfriend…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 02:08 AM
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Party girls aren’t relationship material ever, partying is for single people or something you do with your partner only. If she has a party girl spirit, why doesn’t she want to party with her man? I don’t even like walking to the bathroom at the casino without my boyfriend because people talk to me and make me uncomfortable, can’t even imagine actually partying in a relationship. Why would someone want that attention if they’re happy with their partner and not looking?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 02:00 AM
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There’s a lot of very good rp advice on here and it can be a positive influence on a lot of people of both genders. Normal people who aren’t brainwashed are gonna agree with a lot of this, but when they switch to the AWALT and say really fucked up incel shit, it’s gonna alienate people. It’s very obvious there are some people on this sub who love women and have experience with women and want to be better at dating in 2021, and understanding the female temperament, and others who don’t date at al…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 01:46 AM
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The relationship is already over if she’s going to salsa night honestly. I know it’s extreme but I’m a woman and I don’t think women in relationships should go out or partake in any form of nightlife without their partner.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 01:28 AM
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The bitter women hating is strong with some of them. They want to punish all women for the sins of some. I agree with a lot of this sub obviously but there are a lot of people here who seem to think there are no females in happy loving relationships, they’re all scheming and pretending until the next best thing comes along. Which for me couldn’t be further from the truth.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 01:23 AM
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I agree with everything but come on, every girl wears eyeliner
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/08/21 01:12 AM
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Why do you think they would ever be honest about this?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/07/21 12:18 AM
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Where are you getting the idea that she left him? Women don’t baby trap guys and then leave them immediately after. It’s pretty obvious based on her language that they were never in a real relationship in the first place and that it’s all in her head.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/07/21 12:14 AM
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The baby daddy clearly doesn’t want her
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/07/21 12:13 AM
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The future plans were all in her head, she mentioned them and he probably agreed while looking for the quickest way out
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/07/21 12:07 AM
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Fuckboy baby daddies can sell the dream of buying a house to dumb women, doesn’t mean he was ever going to or was financially able to do so. Anything women say about their baby daddies is usually not true, saying they were going to buy a house together implies they were in a better place than they actually were.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/07/21 12:04 AM
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I thought I saw that, but when I looked back I couldn’t find where it said the date
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/21 12:31 AM
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No, she’s just doing that thing older women do when they reflect on their youth. Just because someone mentions making you their wife or says they want to marry you does not mean that it’s their intention. She must’ve been counting all the guys that said that. And considering the time period, a lot more guys promised marriage for premarital sex because it was really only socially acceptable to fuck your future husband before marriage and not the whole town Edit: why did I think this was SUPER old…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/21 01:16 AM
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I disagree. Only a very small percentage of men are desperate enough to fuck this. And it’s the same kind of men that get blowjobs from crack addicted hookers for $5. Men on the internet vastly overestimate the desperation of men who are actually out there smashing and the frequency that unattractive women are pursued for sex. The question is why are you so vested in this belief to the point of insulting me? Seems like some men on the internet just trying to further this belief like their life d…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/21 05:48 AM
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I see this all the time, I don’t understand it. Idk if the guys just lack confidence
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/21 01:59 AM
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I’m not really sure who seeks out a life coach anyway, but if I’m taking advice from anyone about anything, it’s not going to be an unmarried 40 year old woman scrambling to find a partner on bumble before she dies. You’d think someone who promotes themself as a life coach would have enough charisma to meet someone in real life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/21 11:35 PM
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I refuse to believe these people are real anymore. Too many unlikeable pregnant women on tinder, I refuse to accept that there are so many people out there with absolutely no tact. Pansexual pregnant sjw? It just sounds like a troll.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/21 11:27 PM
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Most “life coaches” own lives are in absolute shambles, every time. It’s projection in the form of a “career”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/21 11:26 PM
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It might take awhile, since something worth having never comes easy. You may get your turn when she is 35. But those extra years mean she is more experienced and knows what she wants. Hopefully you can keep up with her ever-increasing SMV
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/21 02:21 PM
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Your beautiful Muslim wife doesn’t care that you have sex with men?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/21 04:30 AM
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Work on it. Self improvement and one day maybe you’ll have a shot at the prize.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/21 03:30 AM
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You’re missing out on great girls like this, how do you cope?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/21 03:28 AM
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Women who aren’t feminists can see past the fake rape allegations and are rolling their eyes every time they read a metoo story of some woman claiming to have been traumatized by her ex 4 years ago that she just realized was actually rape. They just don’t say anything because it’s not socially acceptable and they will be labeled victim blamers/rape apologists
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre03/07/21 10:28 PM
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Yeah I guess her probation is over and she can finally smoke weed again. She thinks men will think it’s a plus that her kids live with her mom, it never even dawned on her how bad that makes her looks. It’s embarrassing to not have custody of your kids as a woman, it means you fucked up royally.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/21 09:03 PM
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It’s women who identify as feminists that do this though. I agree not all feminists... but statistically, most women have not been raped, yet majority of feminists claim to have been. It’s not adding up.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre03/07/21 09:00 PM
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Ugh I hate that this article perpetuates the antiquated idea that you’ll meet someone when you aren’t looking for love. That leads to a bunch of women thinking mr. right is going to come knocking on the door, but most of these women work in female dominated fields if they even leave the house at all, so many work from home. You won’t get anything in life without putting in effort. I have always made an effort to speak to the good looking shy guys I was into... that’s how my current relationship …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/21 05:11 AM
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It’s worse. She doesn’t live with her mom, her children do. Meaning she doesn’t have custody of them. Generally the case when you’re a drug addicted criminal or mentally ill. Its definitely one of those, likely both.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/21 04:22 AM
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I really don’t think it’s those stories that cause women to leave. The average woman knows pedos and rapists are a minority of men, regardless of what feminists portray. However to play devils advocate to my opinion, I can see these women convincing a woman that she was raped because she wasn’t in the mood and had sex with her husband anyway. I’m sick of it. I’m sick of all of these women claiming to have been raped because feminists and male apologists have twisted the definition of rape and co…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre03/07/21 03:25 AM
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My one friend made me miserable. Compared every guy I’d meet to her boyfriend and say she didn’t like them, they weren’t good enough, and if they met her she was a total bitch or would flirt with them. Her relationship obviously didn’t last, she has severe mental illnesses. But she made me feel so bad about my life. I like not speaking to female friends too often. I don’t need their input, I have never received good advice from a female other than my mother.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/21 01:11 AM
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White women also have this idea that black men think they are goddesses and won’t judge them for being 50 lbs overweight like a white guy would. And then couple that with the fact that Kartrashians are always dating black men, it’s cool now and it gives them woke points
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/21 10:48 PM
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Nah it’s worse than those women. These chicks are literally suggesting men would pay for women’s friendship. The women who call into KS have enough life experience to at least know that’s not reasonable(I hope) KS women are delusional about expectations in their own life, women on those subs are crazy enough to push their delusions on others. Most of them don’t leave the house or have any semblance of a social life.... let alone a man who pays all their bills
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/21 09:50 PM
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How could someone care for her without knowing her? what kind of line is that? It’s all bad but that just struck me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/21 09:42 PM
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These articles about alternative lifestyles going mainstream is so damaging to people growing up. I’m glad that my gut reaction was “ew” to many things but I grew up with religion, most kids aren’t these days. I grew up thinking premarital sex and homosexuality was wrong, so I wasn’t going to change overnight and suddenly be interested in having tons of partners. But kids today seem to be raised with this “do what you want, explore what you want, there are no rules” The amount of gen Z that iden…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 08:27 PM
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This is true but plastic surgery looks bad when you add to much to the face, such as implants or fillers. A rhinoplasty usually improves the face, and a lip lift can help a lot of women. If she’s THAT ugly, it’s the best option for her. (I’ve had those procedures and you would never be able to tell, they improved my life substantially)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 08:21 PM
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Lol yup, edited it. ty
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 08:37 AM
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Idk how it is in the UK, but strippers are almost always involved in Bachelor parties and these sluts will normally do sexual shit for the groom, purchased by the best man. Its something I heard about. I took pole dancing classes for exercise when I was younger, and I met strippers. The stories I heard disgusted me. Some of them would have sex with the groom, or at least give them a BJ. At the very least, lap dances are involved and that is cheating.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 07:45 AM
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Any woman who wants to open a relationship 1) is low value a whore 2) has *edit* no respect for her man
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 07:32 AM
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I graduated when I was 16 so I was never a senior when people should be “fully grown” I guess but I imagine that at any given point when you’re walking through the halls, a lot of the guys are still going through puberty and not fully grown. I’m not positive what age guys stop growing though. I didn’t actually feel tall in my high school. There were a ton of tall people, like so many girls taller than me than I’ve ever seen in one place. A lot more tall guys than I usually see too. It’s funny, I…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 01:45 AM
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Just saw the comment about hen holidays. I think that’s the same as a bachelorette party in the states? It’s one of the things I hate about wedding culture. Give your partner anxiety going out on a night when people notoriously cheat, I don’t know why people still continue to do this. My ex thought it was okay for him to attend these (hypothetically) and it’s just a hard line for me, I am 100% not okay with it if it’s at a strip club or strippers will be involved. It would just give me so much s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 01:15 AM
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i couldnt agree more. the general population will think we are toxic and possessive for this idea because independence, freedom and "having your own identity out of a relationship". no, you're toxic for wanting to take a vacation from your significant other. my boyfriend would never go on a trip without me, and i wouldn't without him. we have eachother to go on vacations with now, and if one of us somehow wants to take a vacation with friends, the other would come. we've discussed it and then ju…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 11:59 PM
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dabbling with the idea of poly relationships threw up all over my keyboard, i don't even like to see the root word of "poly" anymore regardless of context. but yeah most of the time if you have put years of effort into the relationship, as a woman you have AGED. are they forgetting that? they know they're not gonna find someone better. a lot of my aunts and my own mom divorced, but at least it was in their 50's and they were menopausal and not looking for something better. i won't comment on the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 11:40 PM
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She just thought her sister shouldn’t have gone into an LTR with the first guy after a multi relationship. (She actually encouraged her older sister to “date” (so: sleep) around - proper crabs in the bucket shit) That's literally the worst advice to give someone you care about. I tell my female friends to get married usually(even tho I'm not married) The one who is a single mom, I call her out on slutty behavior if it happens and tell her to stop wasting time. She's subconsciously trying to lowe…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 06:36 PM
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Yeah I don't like the jealousy factor either. I don't want to feel in competition with friends. I don't want to feel my friends are jealous of me either. You should want the best for your friends, and with the two I still talk to I genuinely want the best for them and don't care if they do things like get married before me. I'm gonna go at my own pace in life and not be around people that make me feel like I need to rush things, which just leads to an unhappy relationship with my partner. With m…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 06:27 PM
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How old was the guy who you mentioned “not being able to get girls his own age”. Because I’d suggest in your mid 20s that is a fair point. Mid-30s guys probably don’t want a woman their own age Oh I know. I should've clarified, in general he doesn't hang out with people his age. When he started dating my friend, he was 27 and we were 19/20 and would just hang out with us all day smoking weed or whatever. Now that I'm 26, he's still doing that well into his 30's. There are certainly older guys th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 06:16 PM
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Also eyes too close together. I feel like that is worse in woman that far set eyes. Both extremes are bad, but close set eyes are more masculine than far set.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 02:23 PM
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She should use Care Credit to fix her face and worry about the debt later, honestly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 02:21 PM
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Oh also, long chats are bull shit. Maybe thats just me, but that's how you become her buddy/emotional tampon. Girls should be enthusiastic to meet you and not use the pandemic as an excuse. Guarantee it wasn't stopping them from seeing any dude they already knew that wanted to hookup with them. That excuse makes me cringe. ​ I feel like redpill is getting more mainstream and maybe? girls will realize that they are supposed to get less picky with age, not more. My boyfriend now is far from perfec…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 01:59 PM
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But yeah like I've said, idc much about height. Its a plus, not a requirement. I had a boyfriend when I was 21 who had enough charm that I looked past him being slightly shorter than me, but I knew for that and several reasons that he probably wasn't the one, I was just lonely in my new town. Charm/charisma is so important, women will overlook a lot of things if you give them (tingles/vibes/chemistry) but yes, taller guys are cut a lot more slack. My boyfriend now is about 6' (prob 5'11 tbh) and…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 01:46 PM
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​ Because they let society tell them they can’t go out even appearing taller than the guy as they will be deemed a “failure” or a woman and their friends will mock them (some friends right?). I was going to write this almost exactly in my response but you said it first. They let society tell them that, they want a man whose going to impress their friends. I was this way. Especially a certain friend, she had a boyfriend who was very good looking but as I reflect, kind of a socially immature creep…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 01:40 PM
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If you aren’t thin and have a nice body, it’s absolutely a curse. You look like an Amazonian jungle woman. Like what Khloe Kardashian looks like before the surgery and behind the filters. She still looks beastly. I’m only 5’8 and I do my very best to stay thin as hell because that’s the only way it’s acceptable, to have a model figure. Still not every guys cup of tea. And you have to absolutely be willing to date guys that are at least your height because there’s only so many 6’+ men to go aroun…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 01:28 AM
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Let’s be real here she probably edited the body like 90% of girls do. My friend has a kid and still has a nice body like that, but I’m suspicious when all I see is photos. Everyone on IG photoshops their shit, and an MUA will 100% be heavy into instagram
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 01:14 AM
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Thank you!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/06/21 02:40 AM
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Nah they always mention it like it’s a bonus or something. If I were them I feel like id be hiding the kid until the guy was somewhat invested. At the very least after you meet and feeel out the irl chemistry. Writing it on your profile is like advertising that you have genital herpes. (No offense to the single dads here. It hits different. Especially when the girl is sub25. certified hoe
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/06/21 02:34 AM
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If someone identifies as a millionaire, it’s not your place to tell them they aren’t one
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/06/21 02:31 AM
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Do you have a link for this? (I obviously believe you, just wanted a link for the next time I’m arguing with some idiot that any girl can make a OF and make “millions”)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/06/21 02:02 AM
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the words "get a family" don't sit well with me. like its just an empty box on a checklist of life
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/21 01:28 AM
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Gangbangs, stuff with piss
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/21 12:25 AM
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I agree with a lot of this but a guy who is 7/10 would probably not even bang her, let alone date her for a few years Guys usually enter long term relationships with the same level of women they will eventually marry. This isn’t some average girl we’re talking about here.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/21 11:39 PM
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No. Guys aren’t going to fuck this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/21 11:31 PM
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Thank you for all of this. Gonna be fun to go through, I always knew Europe was doomed. edit: doesn't seem like these movements are making much progress through. just a movement started and suggested by a crazy person or group of people. i don't think the people would just want dangerous female criminals to go unpunished. although i wouldnt be surprised if the extremely liberal euro countries that don't have the same mass-incarceration culture like the US eventually stopped handing out jail sent…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/21 09:47 PM
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They’re never out of the picture completely. At least not for the first few years, and then you have to worry about him popping back up when the kid is 12 or 13 and her trying to make it work with him because “he’s changed” and they’re gonna be a family. Or just fucking him when she drops the kid off for the visits every other weekend.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/21 05:34 AM
1

Eliminating prison for female murderers
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 09:59 PM
1

Source?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 09:00 PM
7

How long is the pandemic going to be used as an excuse for people being antisocial because it’s comfortable and failing to make progress in life?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/21 12:26 AM
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Does she not realize that the other marginalized groups can’t change, whether it’s their skin color or sexuality....and she can literally lose weight. If you can escape supposed marginalization by just being healthy and losing weight, you aren’t fucking marginalized holy shit. You’re just complacent
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 09:21 PM
0

I’m 5’8 and I’ve dated two guys who were like 5’7. I don’t understand the obsession. I’ve dated as tall as 6’5 and it’s no different to me than 5’11 really...as long as they’re taller than you, why would it matter? I understand girls instinctively want the best genes to mate with or whatever but how important is height really? On average I’d say shorter dudes have better game and taller guys tend to be more awkward. It always angered me when girls who are short demanded tall men. YOU don’t have …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 04:42 AM
1

I promise no one on this sub cares about the transgender community and I don't either. You can live in a bubble and believe that everyone accepts everything but once you step out of your circles you'll find that it's not the case. It's not just your "toxic family", a lot of the world thinks like this. Besides some people on the internet and gen Z high school/college students.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/21 05:19 PM
1

You're in the wrong sub dear. Did you seriously get so hurt by my comment on your post that you're now harassing me on other subs?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/21 05:17 PM
3

Because this is a pretty red pilled sub & I didn't think RPers have now begun to even think of other men that became women as potential dating options. Yeah maybe they've slept with less guys than a bio woman...because they were a guy for more than half of their life. You don't get to transition and reset and somehow be better than biological women. A single mom with fourteen baby daddies is still a better option than a man who had enough plastic surgery to present as female
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/21 05:09 PM
3

Yeah but most of those guys are just autoswiping on every female. It’s not really validating.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/21 07:48 AM
1

Do you date the trannies?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/21 07:47 AM
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Idc about people’s viewpoints on abortion, children conceived through rape should always be aborted. Assuming this is a random predator that violently attacked the woman, why would you want to spread those genes? You would literally be reminded of your traumatic rape every time you see the kid. The mother will very likely end up resentful. It’s just not a good situation and I question the sanity and intelligence of someone who would carry a rape baby to term and then keep it. If you are absolute…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/21 07:44 AM
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I don’t get it. Can u explain?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/21 07:30 AM
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...so every woman?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/21 07:21 AM
1

Not if it was embarrassing for her. I don’t think these broads are in the position to be dumping anyone. It’s more likely he didn’t want commitment therefore didn’t want her regardless of how she sells it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/21 07:18 AM
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Yesss queen
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/21 07:16 AM
1

Well I’m a woman and I’m 5’8, I do want a guy to be 5’11-6’ but if they aren’t that’s ok. I’ve dated guys my height even one a bit shorter. As far as income, who does that really matter to? the general consensus on the sub is that women like bad boys but bad boys never make six figures. And guys don’t need abs if they’re thin. Don’t think I’ve ever dated anyone with a 6pack
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/21 06:18 AM
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Are any men these girls would actually want poly? I know of one poly poker pro and he’s an insufferable blue pill prick who only gets girls because he has money
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/21 05:24 AM
2

stoner but not smoking now = I’m on probation or parole
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/21 05:21 AM
2

Triple 6s?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/21 04:51 AM
2

When you love someone you don’t want to imagine them being with other people. I always think where do I stack up compared to the girls my boyfriend had sex with, we have almost exactly the same ncount so I’m sure he feels the same way. It would be nice to be in the traditional days where we were only ever with each other. I’m not one of those women who only idolizes some parts of traditional, I hate being a modern woman. I’d be fine not voting, staying home and cooking and cleaning. But society …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/21 10:10 PM
1

It’s not really unreasonable. I can see how virgins are attractive but I had so many issues when I dated before losing my virginity. I was 18 so I still had two years of dating before that and I wasn’t dating other teenagers... I was often dating men well into their 20s(which I know most of the world looks at as taboo, that I was taken advantage of, couldn’t consent etc, I do think there’s a major power imbalance and they got me to do stuff through persistence but a teenage boy could’ve been jus…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/21 10:02 PM
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R/menslib is another sub I like to lurk when I want to anger myself but can’t comment a reasonable opinion without getting banned
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/21 09:47 PM
2

I don’t even understand how FDS is a real sub. It seems like a parody. Literally no guy meets their “standards”. At least there’s some of the female population that fits red pill standards, however small that pool is. The FDS women are more insane than the sex workers... at least they have some grasp on how the world works.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/21 09:37 PM
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FDS is too far. It makes me angry and I’ve gotten banned on far too many accounts lmao. As far as the casual sex. I’d feel the same way if I was a guy... I’ve never even had a ONS and am angry at myself for having sex with guys when I thought it would lead to a relationship even though deep down i could’ve deduced their behavior was not indicative of a potential boyfriend(or thinking I could change someone who “wasn’t looking for a relationship” ugh 🤢). Luckily with my boyfriend now, his only ex…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/21 09:33 PM
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By sex worker I meant like actually having sex. I know plenty of guys don’t mind the only fans stuff. I never thought of that though, the sex addicts. Makes a lot of sense. And thank you, I found that sub awhile ago and forgot the name. Time to lurk.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/21 09:13 PM
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At her age that’s a major problem. Also you don’t really know someone on a TELEVISED first date... he could have a secret coke addiction or hidden tattoos something that makes him “bad”. She’s way too old and average to be as picky as she is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/21 09:08 PM
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I’m in a poker room right now with well over 150 men and there is no one within eyeshot that is anywhere near his level. He is well above average, she’s INSANE. Of course you don’t feel a spark on a scripted tv show... Jesus. She already disqualified him for “having to resort to a reality dating show because he can’t get girls irl” it doesn’t matter who showed up. If she met him organically it’s a completely different ending.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/21 08:44 PM
2

I am a woman lol Why would a young attractive man ever be using escorts in the first place? That’s like a million in one. They’re probably all waiting for that. It’s just not realistic. But I truly think any guy who has to pay for sex is going to be viewed negatively in their eyes Of course most of them are gonna end up alone. More than the normal female population. They’ve destroyed themselves. I subscribe to the sexworker sub just to peep how out of touch they are with reality. When they menti…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/21 08:34 PM
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she's not getting matches. she's hideous and pregnant. be realistic. the only matches she gets are from men who swipe right on everyone, no one is messaging her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/21 06:17 AM
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you guys think women have sooooo much power, stop being so out of touch.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/21 06:14 AM
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i have no reason to lie. you guys just don't know real women. you don't know me, you can't confidently say that. i'm a woman and i agree with majority of the shit on here but sometimes yall take it past the point of reality and this is a prime example
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/21 06:13 AM
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No man worth having is willing to date a woman who does any form of sex work, especially porn. So if they won't date "clients" it's just that they don't want any man that is willing to have them, because they know deep down that any self respecting man would never date a sex worker.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/21 07:04 PM
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a lot of what is said on here is right but sometimes these comments take it way too far past reality. if a woman is dating multiple guys, she's not serious with any of them, and no one is giving anyone resources or money to someone they aren't seriously dating. most people don't even give money or resources to their significant other unless they're in a sugar "relationship". that's not normal and definitely not the experience of most women. these betas aren't just out here giving us money to go …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/21 06:58 PM
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i've never dated more than one man at the same time. i don't think its as common as you think.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/21 06:55 PM
2

the kid is probably a little older now, i'm sure this is a photo from 4 years and 30 pounds ago
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/21 04:23 PM
1

Very tempted to make a profile like this using fake pics and see if I get any right swipes at all
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/21 04:11 PM
1

i worked at two pharmacies in two different states and can confirm, it is probably the fastest moving drug for people under 35.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/21 04:08 PM
5

Men who are 55+ aren't looking for someone to take care of. They are the ones who usually have sugar babies
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/21 05:06 AM
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I agree with a lot of this sub but no... I’d never make a romantic dinner for my guy friend. I never even cooked for them like I would for female friends. Most coed friendships have a mutual understanding that you don’t really hang out anymore when one or the other gets a partner esp if their partner is uncomfortable with it, or you hang out with your friend and your/their significant other. I pretty much thought that was universal. I don’t think most people are selfish enough to expect their fr…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/21 04:49 AM
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A neck beard? Isn’t that supposed to be an unattractive thing? Don’t get how that fits with tattoos
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/21 04:38 AM
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Its not just weight loss. She had like half of her giant jaw/chin removed and other work done
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/21 05:18 AM
2

No way the guy described(drug addicted) proposed to her. She probably nagged him about marriage after finding out he cheated. If he did propose, there was no ring. Just something he said to make her happy after one of the many horrible things he did. Guys like this don't propose. If they get married, it's because the women dragged them into it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/21 05:12 AM
1

Not a bad combo? That’s the worst combo of features. Big foreheads are disgusting
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/21 08:05 PM
6

I see so many women get knocked up by good looking hard working guys and he marries her... happens all the time around here. Kind of frustrating These aren’t white collar playboys or anything but just good looking fit blue collar guys. This sub showcases so many single moms, but I know so many women where the guy feels obligated to stay with them for the kids
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/21 07:47 PM
2

Subtle way of saying she has two baby daddies at the minimum
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/21 05:16 PM
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Not uaed from her though that's what she tells people in order to land a husband.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/21 05:15 PM
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good morning men of tik tok... where did all the good men go? ​ they aren't on tik tok an app for CHILDREN jesus
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/21 05:10 PM
3

deff tyrone vibes here chads dont want her, she looks like a junkie imo
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/21 05:07 PM
2

she's not even a piece of ass to the top 1% or even top 10% come on they can do wayyyy better even just for sex
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/21 05:06 PM
1

I'm a little confused. I havent been on tinder in a long time, but I never saw verified profiles like I see so regularly on this sub. I thought that was just for celebs and e-famous people? But that one Wiccan Whale was verified so now I'm wondering wtf it takes to get verified on Tinder? These girls clearly aren't famous
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/21 04:54 PM
1

I don't see how men can be best friends with a lot of modern women. Respect them in a relationship, love them, but friendship? You need mutual interests and it's good to have similar beliefs. Most women these days are hardcore feminists who want to shove it down your throat and are dumb enough to be enthralled with an app like tik tok. How are you going to be best friends with someone like that? There are smart, cool women who could definitely be a best friend to a guy... but twitter girls who a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/21 04:25 AM
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It's one of the more reasonable ones here but the first paragraph honestly isn't a major problem. Its the oversharing about the ex-husband(You don't even need to mention you had a second ex husband before getting to know them) and the brag masquerading as complaints about getting too many requests. I also think she should be more open to people far away. I notice a lot of women on here seem picky about distance, but as long they're within driving distance it's literally a non-issue. Why limit yo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/21 04:10 AM
3

I second all of this. I had a college office job and there were no hot young guys. There were pudgy average looking dudes trying to cheat on their wives though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 12:38 AM
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They arent. If they’re good looking no one cares except miserable women that care about what others think and no one really wants to be with them anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 12:37 AM
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Is hypergamy supposed to be about looks or money/status? I genuinely find blue collar men sexier. They have entire skill sets i don’t possess not to mention(small thing) more likely to have tattoos which i and a lot of women like. It’s unlikely a woman is going to find a man both better looking and wealthier than her current partner. It’s just not realistic. One or the other. A rich and powerful handsome guy is going to have a plethora of options that blow most girls out of the water. It’s not l…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 12:32 AM
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Lol maybe it’s just me but i have a bachelors degree and have only had good relationships with men who didn’t go to college at all. One toxic relationship with a college grad. But really, I gravitate towards blue collar men because i feel I fit in better in their circles. I graduated college at 20 and only had a real job requiring a bachelors for 3 months. So majority of my adult life, I’ve been socialized around people who didn’t go to college. I went to a high school with a ton of education or…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 12:12 AM
1

true it's always after she fucks him
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 03:39 AM
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nah hot young guys are still super immature
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 07:07 AM
2

Youve never had someone say they dont know what they want? I feel like its more common to hear something like ill see where it goes, etc A lot of people arent that direct
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 02:03 AM
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You probably didnt detect it as a pickup line if said by socially conscious person amidst normal conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 12:16 AM
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Where do i start? Most people want relationships, even if their current partner or relationship is not what they really want. I feel like "a good relationship" is subjective. All relationships have their issues, but it doesnt mean that the relationship doesnt make the person happy to some degree(even if they complain about their partner) and despite outside encouragement to leave the relationship, theres no guarantee they will be happier alone. I was in a relationship last year for sex, loneline…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 01:31 AM
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Not true. My ex is definitely a 4 or 5/10 and has charisma, charm etc he has had 3x more partners than my current boyfriend(who is an 8 or 9/10 but is extremely shy) and is also 3 years younger. I find bf way more attractive...but id absolutely never describe him as charismatic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 12:53 AM
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Speaking as a woman, what I say I want and what I actually want are often completely different. The qualities many women list as something they look for in men go completely out the window when they meet someone who triggers attraction in them. If I described the kind of men I was attracted to when someone asks what I look for in a man, they would probably be horrified at my bluntness. So were forced to give answers like nice, funny, handsome. Etc
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 05:07 PM
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You cant wait 2 to 4 years before inquiries aboug someones desire for kids and other life choices. two years is A LONG time. If you arent looking for what I'm looking for, I'm getting rid of you in 3 months. It's absolutely acceptable to ask about that stuff after dating for a few months and its more of a red flag if someone doesnt ask about that stuff....like she doesnt have direction or care about her future. We arent teenagers...and i assume you're fucking. If you're having sex, you could get…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 03:21 AM
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I feel like if he already has in your mind that you're girlfriend material, it doesnt matter if you fuck early on. I'd lean towards it in todays climate. I fucked every bf but my first within 1 to 3 dates and they still wanted to be with me. However the 2 guys that I was super into that I went on 3 dates and 6 dates respectively without sex said they werent looking for anything serious and ended things
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 10:27 PM
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It's okay to date someone below your smv. Better than shooting too high and getting shot down. But I disagree. At least here in Pennsylvania, pretty much everyone is fat and ugly and everyone has kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 10:33 PM
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You're right. I should clarify, it seems the people I come into contact with via online spheres. The people I meet irl are not blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 01:36 PM
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I agree. The average person seems to be far more blue pill with every coming year.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 01:18 PM
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I stare at 'em
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 10:19 PM
1

both. even jersey is similar, the girls in jersey arent as facially ugly but theyre obese. theres good looking dudes in both states and many have piss poor standards. i haven't seen super rural PA but im sure its similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 04:23 AM
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TRP guys have a more realistic view on society than SJWs
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 07:10 PM
1

Yall need to come to Pennsylvania. Plenty of fat ugly girls in long, happy relationships here. It's rare to see someone not in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 07:07 PM
1

This sounds amazing. What film is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 06:59 PM
1

Heroin addiction
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 06:58 PM
2

Same. I think in most cases, guys dont bother becoming friends with the girl unless they have ulterior motives. Exceptions could be if theyve been friends since pre-puberty, but idk. Maybe if they met through a hobby like WoW or something but I feel like even the guy would end up wanting the girl. I always establish the frienzone with guy friends very early on by talking about guys I do like. Most recent male "friend", a guy I thought would be awesome to hang out with because same interests... I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/19 09:25 AM
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This. Pretty much all of my longterm guy friends (5+ years of friendship) are like this with me yet have confessed at one point or another to liking me and wanting to date me. I just brush it off and continue with the friendship. Guys are actually more likely to want to date you once they're comfortable with you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/19 05:19 AM
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